Daily Community Chat Megathread

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-15T12:58:34+00:00

People here overcomplicate dating so much. “Men won’t LTR women who have sex with them right away,” or, “Women value men who don’t offer commitment tight away more.” Who really thinks about that? Not the majority of people. People meet, have sex when they’re ready, and if they like each other, they commit. Only children play games like that.

empresa_josefina · 2022-08-15T17:14:28+00:00

Update on my friend who got cheated on. He had suspected infidelity when she started partying late night with a “coworker” uncharacteristically. When he confronted her she said he was being jealous and controlling. Because he is a hopeless romantic/bluepiller he began working on his jealousy as the affair continued. A few more months of gaslighting and she dumped him to run off with the other guy. I spent the weekend helping said buddy move out.

Fairly predictable branch-swing, the other guy had more clout and was taking her to fancy exclusive events.

reditson23 · 2022-08-15T10:19:56+00:00

Imagine self improving,working out, dressing fashionably, reading a lot of books, working on your career/business, taking advice from online forums, acting like her personal jester just so you can have protected sex with a subpar looking woman who’s only hobbies are series and swiping on tinder.

Eastuss · 2022-08-15T15:23:03+00:00

From the TikToks I've watched of men asking women whether height matters or not, I have gathered this: they are asking above average women (almost never average looking women) that can afford to have options. They get sulky when the answer are not satisfactory. Their comments are filled with - "she needs to be humbled" or "bro got rejected by a 5/10", when it's clearly that those women are 6+

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-15T18:40:48+00:00

Women are tactical genius is, they call all forms of approaching harassment then make fun of the increasing amount of single men. Queens of gaslighting

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-15T12:24:45+00:00

Where are all these fuckbois who keep using women for sex? Women keep complaining about men never wanting any serious. And not wanting to commit and just have sex.

But where are they? All I see are thirsty males who would stab their brother for a chance to get a single date.

decoy88 · 2022-08-15T15:03:18+00:00

Been going down the rabbit hole of watching YouTube streamer debate bros (don’t judge me).

Hearing these out of touch idiots talking about “having your shit together” - decent job and your own place will fix your dating issues makes me laugh. Most men can’t get their own place. Everyone is sharing.

tinasnow-poty · 2022-08-15T12:03:26+00:00

I just discovered the r /virgin subreddit. I had a little peruse and a lot of the guys are completely decent looking. Not ugly at all even though they were convinced that is why they’re virgins. The type of guys I see in clubs and bars pulling other decent looking girls or on the street holding hands. It just reinforced my theory that a lot of the sexless guys are just socially inept with low self esteem. A lot of them were bullied growing up too, which is horrible but explains why they struggle socially

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-08-15T17:31:19+00:00

Inspiring comment from some random dude on a post from a dancer I follow on social media (doing a Tik Tok challenge with her boyfriend)

This dude is the definition of ungrateful. You have a girl like that and still manage to look like a nerd. Atleast [sic] hit the gym and fix that atrocious dressing sense because I can see this girl leaving this geek for a blue tick mark very soon.

Some people just wake up and choose violence huh

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2022-08-15T13:04:16+00:00

There are 10 million million million million million million million million million particles in the universe that we can observe.

ya mama took the ugly ones and put them into one nerd.

Cibfbfin · 2022-08-16T14:04:32+00:00

Couple of my friends are really wealthy decent looking dudes cause I’m consulting.

If the ladies only knew the shit that happens. They’d have their fathers pick for them beta and be happy.

Guys at the top are a whole other type of human. The level of code switching and wearing masks? They’re basically split personalities.

Jakersstone · 2022-08-15T11:54:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/rcpzwp/do_you_prefer_big_boobs_or_small_boobs/

FOR ANYONE THAT USES "MEN HAVE BOOB SIZE PREFERENCE" FOR ANY REASON. NOT ONLY ARE THE MENS VOTES MORE EQUAL THAN THAT OF THE WOMENS, THERES HIGHER NUMBER OF MEN VOTERS TOO WHICH MAKES IT MORE PRECISE

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-15T12:12:54+00:00

Can anybody explain tattoos to me? I kinda understand them from an aesthetic sense, like it would look cool or something.

But why do people get tattoos of things that have “””meaning””” to them? Surely if it means that much to you, you don’t need a permanent reminder on your skin forever right?

Also why does it seem like tattoos are mostly a feminine thing now?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-08-15T13:36:23+00:00

Spent the weekend at my MIL's lake house. We went to a neighborhood party Saturday night and it was like walking into a scene from Get Out. I'm used to being the only POC in any given gathering, but this was on another level.

My husband joked that he should have bought the Let's Go Brandon t shirt he saw at a gift shop, he would have been the most popular guy at the party.

Everyone was perfectly nice and welcoming, but no less than 4 people either assumed I was Hispanic or straight up asked "so what are you?"

I don't take offense, I've heard that question all my life growing up in semi rural midwest, but its like, it the year of our lord 2022 and you still think thats an appropriate question to ask someone?

This is why we only visit the lake house once a year, lol.

1Here4Bach · 2022-08-15T14:04:17+00:00

I love that there are males that come here trying really hard to get women to care about male plights like the rise of loneliness and sexlessness. Then, there are other males who just completely bulldoze their efforts by literally admitting they have the options to get female attention and love but they don’t want it because they don’t deem those women “pretty enough”. You have men here literally admitting incels are just incels because they want women prettier than them. How do you expect women or society to be empathic for these people?

I just find it funny watching males eat their own and destroy their own progress/movements like this. This is why the male rights movement will never be a thing. Cohesion among males for things like this is non-existent.

And That’s what happens when you try to start movements built on lies. They will inevitably get exposed once weak links accidentally spill the truth.

lulll · 2022-08-15T14:49:37+00:00

..... (nsfw)

Throwaway2165x · 2022-08-15T15:54:44+00:00

Have any of you ever seen homeless/beggars/whatever inside fancy restaurants?

Went to a nice restaurant over the weekend and some homeless lady was wondering around inside the restaurant asking people eating for cash.

First time I've ever seen that.

Are doors/security fascist and racist now?

CoverYourAwrah · 2022-08-15T16:14:20+00:00

Anyone watch Destiny vs FnF on Friday?

Great show

TigerRude4 · 2022-08-15T17:44:55+00:00

The last season of B99 was a mess

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-08-15T18:02:27+00:00

Do you all consider oral to count towards your n-count? I'm curious.

Edit: Based on the replies I've gotten so far, it seems like a good number of the n-count debates around here might be rooted in the fact that not everyone agrees about what should count as a body.

scwizard · 2022-08-15T18:11:26+00:00

So guys here seem to think if you asked men "would you rather have a loving wife or 2k a month for the next 18 years (which is 432k total) that adjusts for inflation" 99% of them would pick loving wife.

But if you asked women "would you rather have a loving husband, or 2k a month for the next 18 years that adjusts for inflation" then most women would take the money.

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-08-15T18:17:52+00:00

he should hit it and quit it

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-15T19:07:43+00:00

Q4M- Would you seriously date a chick that regularly masturbates to porn?

tinasnow-poty · 2022-08-15T19:08:59+00:00

Would you retroactively break up with someone for some cheating? My friend just found out her boyfriend, who she has 2 kids with, slept with someone else just after the birth of their 2nd child about 1.5 years ago. She ended it but I suspect she’ll be back in a little while

unloader71 · 2022-08-15T19:14:59+00:00

I think it is hard for a middle class feminist woman to compete with those who spend money on self-care and beauty. Maybe impossible.

Any successful and self respecting guy have no business with bitter feminist women who tries to compete with imaginary male enemies.

Some women really know how to please her men and they are often more attractive and effeminate than the average.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-15T19:45:15+00:00

Is it true that more women get off on realistically being v-card collectors than men? A lot of men say they want a virgin SO, but women seem to have the ability of accomplishing that goal than men are.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-15T20:27:37+00:00

If you were thinking of divorcing your partner, with whom you have children, because you don’t feel loved or happy with them, would you do it, or just stay together for their sake? Which would be worse for them, having to split their time between their parents, or having a only a loveless marriage as a model?

ETA: i am so happy to hear all of these “I’d at least try to make it work” answers

scwizard · 2022-08-15T20:47:15+00:00

The old fashioned, hard working “pillar of the community” male traits basically count for nothing at this point. Women want outgoingness, visceral attractiveness and “sizzle” - “dance for me, boy! I’m bored.”

The funny thing is that this new, broad disdain for the kinds of traits that helped build our society and make it pleasant and livable will only make it an incredibly toxic, horrible place to be in the long run. After 20-30 years of all decent dudes trying to “alpha it up”, I anticipate that whatever is left of our society will have slid completely into the trash can.

I would for sure rather die alone than "alpha it up" and try and be someone I'm not and try and toss a bunch of my morals out the window.

But even though I'm gonna die alone there's plenty of church girls that marry kind and hard working church guys before they're 23. I've met enough couples like that that I think society will continue on in America for another generation at least.

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-08-15T21:39:37+00:00

I see people using the word trad quite frequently around the sub. What qualities or specific behaviors do you think are needed for someone to be considered trad for men and women? What are you picturing in your mind good or bad?

scwizard · 2022-08-15T22:06:40+00:00

Holy fux a girl messaged me on bumble.

NOBODY PANIC

scwizard · 2022-08-15T22:18:22+00:00

I think I was too wooden with my bumble match cause I only got one reply out of her, but whatever. She's 41 miles away, too far to practically visit.

Or maybe she just stopped replying cause she realized how far I was. Which is fair also.

She's cute and sane. 5 years younger than me (28).

I wouldn't be too shocked if she has kids but that wouldn't be a deal breaker. Her not being in Austin is kinda a deal breaker though.

scwizard · 2022-08-15T22:26:20+00:00

Holy fux I'm actually having a real human conversation on an online dating app.

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ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-08-15T10:30:22+00:00

PP in, PP out.

some-retarded-douche · 2022-08-15T11:27:32+00:00

Andrew Tate has convinced me to convert to Islam.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-15T12:27:01+00:00

I'm running an informal poll. How many women here know karate, Kung fu, MMA or carry a gun everywhere you go?

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-15T12:49:54+00:00

Damn, a cute fresh college grad just started at my job.

Throwaway2165x · 2022-08-15T14:19:49+00:00

I don't like to watch porn but I send a monthly check to mindgeek so I can still support the exploitation and trafficking of women lmao.

Keep up the good work lads.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-08-15T14:38:51+00:00

If you're fat, and all the men you've ever been with cheated on you or you've been pumped and dumped all the time, you gotta admit to yourself that maybe all men aren't the problem.

And this isn't even about the adipose tissue itself (well, yes it is but no it isn't), but it's mostly about the personality types and lifestyle choices of which can lead to excess body fat, and the type of men they attract, and subsequently choose.

This sounds mean, and it is, but you gotta pick up the ball and take some responsibility for your own dating life too, women.

Men here are mistaken in thinking women are loved for who they are. This is fundamentally wrong. Women get sex just for being women.

Doesn't mean that people will love them just for being them.

The women in these scenarios also tend to wrongly assume they deserve actual love and relationships for existing, despite refusing to up their game. When people say that no one is owed a relationship. They seem to be only talking about men in reference, when the truth is that no one means no one. Full stop.

It's time to stop complaining about being called "fat" and demanding people to call you "thicc" instead. It's time to actually examine the type of men you choose and stop blaming the entirety of men for being trash.

I mean, it don't REALLY matter to me whether you stop doing these things, but you're only gonna hurt yourself. In the same way that I tell men that complaining about Chad and 95/5 or whatever bullshit won't actually fix the probem, it's time I shift my crosshairs to women. DO something about your problems, dammit!

And if you ain't gonna do anything about it, realize that no one wants to hear the complaints.

TL;DR: As much as I rag on men who don't self-improve, women also need to learn how to buck up to become someone who recieves the type of relationship they actually want.

(This isn't directed at any woman or women in this subreddit, but just rather something I think needs to be said and I just wanted to shout into the void)

Feel free to agree, disagree, or whatever, but don't come out name-calling me and shaming me, OR making assumptions that I feel x way about women or about who I am as a person

But I am down to be challenged on this view if the disagreement isn't strawmanning and ad-hominem

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-15T15:00:25+00:00

Can someone show me a pinkpill woman who isn't 300 lbs?

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-08-15T15:11:51+00:00

Binge ate this morning, punishing myself with cardio. I’m fully embracing all toxicity in my life

ririsbaby · 2022-08-15T15:20:25+00:00

Q4M: Have you ever read a romance book written by a woman? Which one? Your thoughts on it?

Peacesquad · 2022-08-15T15:41:19+00:00

Bruh…. https://www.reddit.com/r/FreshandFitPod/comments/woy38q/never_cold_approach/

chilikettlechips · 2022-08-15T16:28:49+00:00

Wow Westworld really fucking blew it.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-15T17:22:40+00:00

Is the juice worth the squeeze?

Zavier221 · 2022-08-15T17:33:23+00:00

Q4W

Do you want a man taller than you in heels ?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-08-15T17:41:32+00:00

Those of you who have been cheated on more than once/have known a number of cheaters in the past or present- is there anything they all had in common? Are there any mostly universal red flags for infidelity?

baresquad · 2022-08-15T17:44:15+00:00

Is the standard 3-5 past partners with 7 being the max for people who care about their partners past?

Because this entire time I always assumed 15+ partners is about average for anybody that’s sexually active, and this entire time 3-5 is seen as a lot?

Those are extremely high standards

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-15T19:31:06+00:00

“You can always be thinner, look better”

CliffPR · 2022-08-15T20:20:13+00:00

Really getting sick of these Hers/Hims ads I keep seeing on hulu. Specifically the differences between the two:

Hers: Mental health is so important ladies. Order antidepressants from Hers so your life will be better.

Hims: Hey men! You're a bunch of fucking morons! Order some boner pills from Hims so you'll be useful to women!

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-15T20:26:44+00:00

Where do most trad couples meet? Church?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-08-15T20:44:07+00:00

who should I text to come over:

A) girl I already banged and guaranteed to fuck but im not as into anymore but she still makes me nut.

B) girl I haven't banged and not guaranteed to fuck but there is a chance and im way more into.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-08-16T10:42:05+00:00

Why don't more women use their youth and beauty while they can?

This woman talks about messaging random people on LinkedIn and gettign invitied to corporate events. All she had to do was to be young and pretty.

Most young women don't do this? Why?

https://www.tiktok.com/@pipercassidyphillips/video/7109124895459511594

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-16T09:45:28+00:00

"All calories are the same"

"It's all calories in and calories out"

Completely utter drivel said by people to cope for the fact that their diets are trash and they're trying justify their terrible choices in food.

You don't deserve to eat unhealthy food, you don't deserve to have a cheat meal.

sarkington · 2022-08-16T04:44:48+00:00

Everyone here worries about n-counts, but they should really watch out for NRE Junkies. This type is not particularly promiscuous, but they are unable to maintain a relationship after the honeymoon phase wears out (up to 3 years), and spend most of their life branch-swinging.

Play_Muted · 2022-08-16T04:34:30+00:00

rate me and my friend

Blame_the_Muse · 2022-08-16T04:00:53+00:00

Why do you guys think you'd be more sexually/romantically satisfied if you were a girl?

You realize if you were a girl you'd want what GIRLS want, not guys, right?

lulll · 2022-08-15T12:09:07+00:00

men and women should sleep in different rooms, bedrooms are not for sexing, bedrooms are for sleeping. sexing should only happen in the sex basement or sex dungeon if you happen to own a castle. if you do not have a basement, a garage will suffice. if you do not have a garage then use a closet.

zoloftabuser · 2022-08-15T14:37:18+00:00

Thanks to my male privilege, I get to enjoy another week of physiquemaxxing, fashionmaxxing, moneymaxxing, schoolmaxxing, personalitymaxxing, and showermaxxing.

Unfortunately I missed out on the Fortune 500 CEO offering that 0.00001% of males are born into.

poppy_blu · 2022-08-15T15:54:27+00:00

Thread got zapped, so copying here:

Hot take: women are not attracted to penises at all. Not the way men are attracted to female genitalia.

If we love/want a peen, it’s becasue we love/want the man attached to it.

In the 80s Playboy tried to capitalize on its success and the sexual revolution freeing women to express their sexuality openly by launching a Playgirl magazine. It flopped. Turns out that women aren’t all that into staring at pictures of random dicks and balls.

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-15T22:06:45+00:00

Women: “OMG, bar is on the floor”

*80% of men don’t even make the cut to apply

dbz19_kai · 2022-08-15T10:16:19+00:00

It doesn't stand to reason that proxies for promiscuity are accurate indicators of a woman's propensity for infidelity.

If anything they're weak indicators. I don't truly believe that a girl with a tattoo definitely has a higher body count than a girl without one but given women's insistence on obfuscating their past, weak indicators will have to do.

empresa_josefina · 2022-08-15T20:30:30+00:00

To the women who chose the money over the loving husband:

Here are a list of things that came easier to me than finding a loving attractive partner. For reference I have average looks, an ethnic, and started balding at 20.

learning a foreign language
getting into grad school
making six figures
deadlifting 500 lbs
a scuba certification
making a social circle from scratch twice after moving across the country for work

So yeah I would take the wife over $2k a month

Edit: OP of the hypothetical clarified that the loving wife is selected for my physical tastes only, I.e. I could find her annoying or she might be a starfish in bed. I would still pick the wife because I don’t need the money and I get along with a broad range of people, so unless I get unlucky and she is a terrible person I would prob be content in the relationship. However I’d just divorce if she sucked.

dbz19_kai · 2022-08-15T10:37:56+00:00

I try to train myself to have empathy and always see things from other points of view. I am always open to seeing different sides and learning new things. I try to teach myself to learn and understand the viewpoints, feelings, perceptions and experiences of people who's life experience radically and completely differ from mine.

I think many of you here are lacking in this. You come here with your pre-conceived notions and have no concept of empathy or understanding of what other people go through. When you see someone else sad or unhappy because of reasons that you connect fathom, you respond with insults.

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-08-15T15:37:19+00:00

Had a 26/27 year old dude have his BUDDY tell me that he thought I was cute at a bar. I was so mad. I said thank you for the compliment but why can’t he tell me himself. Maybe I was too harsh but I have gone up to guys to just give genuine compliments on how I think they were good looking (I wasn’t expecting anything else). I feel bad but like I need a MAN HERE

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-15T20:19:03+00:00

I dont think women understand how redpilled they actually are here. It's a fourm of regular women calling average men virgins and unable to get women.

It's the 80/20 rule in real time

cvslengthbucketlist · 2022-08-15T20:19:51+00:00

The flip side to the idea of women not being allowed to have fun in their youth is the idea of men not being allowed to have fun past 30.

By the time they really start thinking about marriage, a lot of these same women will expect guys their age who instead chose to go down the path of delayed gratification (by focusing on their career first) to also settle down and follow their timeline. And complain about those who don't for not being serious enough.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-15T21:22:04+00:00

People need to realise that it's not men vs women with why the modern dating market is so bad, it's not either gender's fault that dating sucks.

It's men and women vs the problem. The problem being modern addictions. We know porn is bad for us, we know video games are bad for us, we know social media is bad for us, but we've become so hooked on the dopamine hit we get from this that it's impacted so many of our abilities to form genuine connections.

Men aren't the problem

Women aren't the problem

The algorithm and social media ARE the Problem.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-15T14:05:47+00:00

I can’t take cuckolds seriously. I’m sorry 😂😂😂

VastlyVainVanity · 2022-08-15T15:58:51+00:00

This thread here on PPD, which I sadly missed, touched upon a subject that I had always thought about, which is that promiscuous people who are monogamous when entering a relationship make no sense to me.

And from what I could see, there was no proper argument against it. It seems to me like it's just cognitive dissonance. People want to both enjoy sex as something banal and to enjoy sex as something special when in a relationship.

Which is fine, to each their own, but I'd personally never be interested in dating a woman who thinks like that.

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-15T19:42:02+00:00

I think dating would be insanely easier for everyone if the obesity rate went all the way down

scwizard · 2022-08-15T20:25:46+00:00

Do guys here seriously think girls get married in their 30s with the intention of having a kid then divorcing?

I can't imagine someone who's in their 30s and already makes their own money doing something so involved just for a baby (which they could have just gotten at a sperm bank) and money.

Marriages at ages 29-34 have a 36.2% divorce rate compared to 43.1% over all.

If they're marrying "betas" just for their "bucks" why aren't they getting divorced?

empresa_josefina · 2022-08-15T21:03:19+00:00

Woman goes on so many dates with guys that she becomes jaded, treats all dates like a free meal, and cuts off guys for random trivial reasons.

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/wmaow0/25f_1_year_exclusively_onoff_hinge_ive_become_a/

Throwaway2165x · 2022-08-15T10:59:04+00:00

Why is it better when a movie you like comes on TV naturally?

Like I could stream this movie anytime without ads. But it's just better this way.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-08-15T16:28:35+00:00

One of women’s main M.O. in the current dating market is to make EVERY MAN pay for what ONE man did

Every woman for the most part has that one man that hurt them oh so bad and now they can’t get over it and they want you to pick up the pieces lol

Just interesting how that works because if men dated that way they’d literally never have success ever again

Like could you imagine “sorry my ex hurt me too bad no more dinner dates, no movie dates, nothing. Just come over to my place because I’ve been used for money too much,” 🤣

Yet there are woman who can just say “No I don’t wanna meet up/have sex yet sorry I’ve been hurt before” and the man accepts it out of empathy to the “fairer” sex

Clown world

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-15T17:28:45+00:00

Rich Foetu Tomkinson, 48, and Evie Boucher-Locke, 29, fell in love over a few drinks at their local bar, but the two didn’t realize they had met before — when Evie was an infant.

I'm still waiting for the male wall

GarbageZestyclose698 · 2022-08-15T18:17:57+00:00

I think the male loneliness problem is more about men not having social circles to rely on to meet women. The problem is, the male social circle problem is a catch 22. If you have the ability to establish a social circle with a good mix of guys and girls from scratch in an unknown environment, you wouldn’t be dealing with this issue in the first place. You would’ve been a part of these types of social circles since middle school and gradually grown your network over the years.

Guys don’t have social circles oftentimes because they’re just built different for a lack of a better term. Furthermore, not all social circles are created equal. Some social circles are just filled with other male social losers and it’s not going to do anything to help you meet women. Going to meetups is just going to put you in these types of social circles. The only way to really get out of this catch 22 cycle is basically luck.

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-15T21:37:00+00:00

Why do people care about the dating opinions of others? Like if a girl only wants to date 6ft+ men and you’re not, it’s not you’re problem. If a man doesn’t want to date a 30+ used over the hill woman he has his preference. Is preference not allowed anymore?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-15T21:42:48+00:00

We're the first generation of men without a purpose.

The weakest generation of men. How sad is that?

scwizard · 2022-08-15T21:57:56+00:00

Have women actually lowered their standards in the past five years or is it a meme?

Or maybe it just applies to college girls lately?

Idk it seems some people are aghast at the current dating standards of college girls.

decoy88 · 2022-08-15T10:36:30+00:00

Users ask me “but what about The Red Pill is bad science?”

Bullshit like this.

Just because a theory feels intuitively correct doesn’t mean it is. It’s also why we have actual science.

ririsbaby · 2022-08-15T14:44:06+00:00

A 2019 study showed that on average single mothers do less household labor than married mothers because there’s one less person to take care of and fewer ‘good housewife’ expectations put upon them! https://www.prb.org/resources/married-women-with-children-and-male-partners-do-more-housework-than-single-moms/

Thoughts?

Edit: hoping someone with something intelligent to say replies to me because so far I’ve got nothing.

geometersbane · 2022-08-15T16:25:12+00:00

Whenever I ask a girl who her favorite NBA player (or any other sport) is and why the answer is always, "He's cute" or "He's easy on the eyes". Where are the women who actually care about the sport?

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-15T16:53:09+00:00

So here’s a womanbacking me up that the 7 number of sexual partners in a lifetime is BS

We all know it’s BS lol

801735 · 2022-08-15T17:47:01+00:00

I'm all alone here, gf in the other room, with my dick in my hand, waiting for the daily community chat megathread to be posted. Anyone of you gals or guys know if it's gonna be posted soon? I have important work to postpone, you know, I can't just non-wank here all day long. Why must all the simple things in life be so complicated!

empresa_josefina · 2022-08-15T18:38:51+00:00

Q4W: would you rather date a hot guy (9/10 on whatever your ideal is) with only a few friends, or a short ugly guy with a big social circle?

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-15T21:11:05+00:00

The wage gap is just payment for playing life on a harder difficultly. Imagine if women could do whatever they want, get into relationships whenever they want, get less prison time fir the same crime and got paid as much as men

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-15T22:02:54+00:00

As far as I can tell most red pill stuff is just repackaging information from old self help books and delivering it in a way applicable to people struggling with dating. So why do bluepillers hate it so much.

A bluepiller will talk about how much they hate red pill, then rave about the value of reading Robert Greene books

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-08-15T10:33:15+00:00

I went Axe throwing this weekend for the first time and it was cool for about 15 mins but then it got boring. The problem is I paid for an hour so I was kinda stuck. My GF enjoyed it so I guess that’s a plus.

John_Oakman · 2022-08-15T11:07:49+00:00

Coping is one of the critical things that keep most people buying into society, and dismantling that in the name of truth & justice will have unintended consequences...

zoloftabuser · 2022-08-15T12:17:12+00:00

Has the internet peaked yet? Or is the next step full immersion with the metaverse and glasses like these?

I wonder if it will come full circle and there will be a gradual/steep decline once people realize things were better when the internet was in the background of life.

I can’t remember driving through a neighborhood and seeing kids play outside. Sad.

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-15T12:58:25+00:00

I don't know how some guys balance the idea that getting sex isn't the same for Women, and the idea that they should be greatful because they can get sex easy and don't have the same rates of virgins

Fat_Papaya · 2022-08-15T13:09:43+00:00

Does anyone else here think that AFBB might transition into AFBC? (Beta Cucks)

Now I'm not saying it has to be 100% pure cucking relationships, or even open relationships where the women choose the man they desire for paternity and then the other man for child raising. There are many ways for this to manifest, and even something like step-fatherhood becoming the norm for average men is a form of this.

scwizard · 2022-08-15T13:18:54+00:00

Question for virgins. How do you actually want to lose your virginity?

In my case, I want to after finally understanding what my match is and why.

Throwaway2165x · 2022-08-15T13:59:39+00:00

Q4 women who are currently in relationships.

If you suddenly lost the ability to have vaginal sex (don't ask how, its a hypothetical .. Cement accident). Do you think you'd be able to keep your man in the relationship?

JustaGuyinFinance · 2022-08-15T14:40:27+00:00

Tip: Let go or be dragged - old zen proverb.

chilikettlechips · 2022-08-15T15:37:03+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/wp0vyg/wife_has_made_the_decision_to_not_have_sex_anymore/

Tldr, married 18 years she won't have sex anymore. Thread blames him, says she's allowed to not have sex with him, says what if she got raped, what if he cheated on her. Turns out she cheated on him.

2baloons · 2022-08-15T15:46:08+00:00

Women who support radical feminism and men who support the patriarchy are just outing themselves that they can't handle the opposite sex without group help

poppy_blu · 2022-08-15T16:26:54+00:00

BTW your fake accounts set up for the purpose of circle jerking and upvoting your own comments aren’t fooling anyone.

scwizard · 2022-08-15T17:07:51+00:00

I don't care about n count.

But I care very much about sexual history, and life history in general.

If you've had zero, one, twenty or a hundred I'm gonna wanna understand why to understand what your priorities in life have been and how they've changed over time.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-15T17:39:56+00:00

Women will disagree with this lmao

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/V7erUUcRnwk

scwizard · 2022-08-15T19:48:30+00:00

A "loving" husband is also rather generic and generally implies an incompetent oaf who means well, but doesn't know how to clean up after himself and is generally checked out of the relationship and has to be reminded of everything and instructed to participate within the relationship (or else he'll do nothing).

It's interesting how "loving wife" implies someone who is very desirable to have, but "loving husband" to many women implies an "oaf" and an unhappy relationship.

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-15T20:46:33+00:00

A man must struggle fight and persevere. Never whine cry and boo hoo about hard life is. No bitching and complaining for you. Keep your head on straight get your shit together be strong and stoic. Do not show weakness. Be a boulder in the middle of the tempest. No matter how much it hurts no matter how much you want to give up, you never can. Fight through the pain. No matter what gets in your way just keep on struggling

tired_hillbilly · 2022-08-15T20:48:52+00:00

I've been thinking of N-counts and virginity, and trying to come up with a rigorous standard. Here's my best idea.

Any pair of partners who have a consensual interaction where at least one of these people attempts to reach orgasm would count as +1 towards their N-count. So PIV, oral, anal, HJ's, would all count, but each partner would only count once. Group sex would count every partner; i.e. someone who has a threesome would add +2 to their N-count. Kissing/making out would not count. Someone is a virgin if their N-count is 0.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-15T21:36:33+00:00

People will say "Oh I don't want to delete Instagram or Snapchat because I have people I text!!"

Bro if you don't have their phone number then you probably aren't that close to begin with.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-08-15T21:40:58+00:00

Being a woman will end 90% of problems for 90% of men (in the west)

Tsvanya · 2022-08-16T03:58:43+00:00

Is there a double standard where it's considered bad for women to have had a lot of partners but less bad for men to? Why isn't more experience considered a good thing?

AlejandroVillegas · 2022-08-16T03:33:24+00:00

In every pill, what do you believe to be it's healthiest characteristic and it's worse?

HurrDurrGrr · 2022-08-16T03:19:16+00:00

"So the answer to the earlier question 'Do men try to impress prostitutes?' appears decidedly yes. Prostitution is evolutionarily familiar, because mating is evolutionarily familiar and prostitutes (at least the classy ones) are no different from other women, whom men also have to pay — not in cash payments but in dinners and movies, gifts, flowers, chocolates, and motor oil — if they want to impress them enough to have sex with them.

Of course, this does not answer the question of why more intelligent men are more likely to have had sex with a prostitute. But Maggie has an idea:

Intelligent men are less likely to believe in silly propaganda against us, and less likely to have the kind of fragile masculine ego which would be wounded by "having to pay for it." The intelligent man knows that "free tail is the most expensive kind," and can make the reasonable and pragmatic decision to spend his money on a "sure thing" rather than chasing women whose price and quality are uncertain.

Source. Hmm

decoy88 · 2022-08-16T03:08:45+00:00

That OP about women being “brutally honest” reminds me of this scene from Invention of Lying.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-08-16T03:08:42+00:00

Fuck this place can suck the hope out of a guy sometimes.

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-08-16T03:03:27+00:00

Fck, I think I have developed a crush on someone here...

They say love finds you but this place looks worse than a festival toilet...

Anyways, do I dm something?

Tsvanya · 2022-08-16T02:51:11+00:00

The media is so toxic. I used to be fine dating overweight guys, but then I took some years off dating because it was hard balancing my career with a disability. During that time I only thought significantly about sexuality in the context of the unfair male beauty standards presented in the media. Now I find myself no longer capable of being attracted to average looking guys. How do I fix this? Currently my strategy is to improve myself so I have more options on the dating market, but I'd much rather do both that and be able to be attracted to normal guys again.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-08-16T02:38:45+00:00

There's hardly any real incentive for a woman to keep her body count low. Your average woman is going to end up with an average man regardless of her n count.

HVM are pretty rare and when they eventually settle down don't have any interest in some Becky with the low n count.

cruciod · 2022-08-16T02:37:28+00:00

Q4M have you repented for all the evil you've done today?

(Serious replies only)

(Women can share input on men's evil behaviours too)

VastlyVainVanity · 2022-08-16T01:50:05+00:00

Man, I saw some RP video about how women care about money more than about looks, that typical stuff. It basically showed an ultra-hot woman and some fat rich fuck (it's in Portuguese, but here's the video in case someone wants to see the couple in question, timestamp 00:10). The woman is insane even for Brazilian standards, lol.

But anyway, the bizarre thing to me was that in the comments, many guys were saying retarded stuff about how women's libido works differently than men's. How they care less about physical attraction etc.

What the fuck is this? Is this just my fellow Brazilians being stupid, or is that an actual RP position?

Cuz I'm pretty sure that when a fat ugly fuck marries a hottie like that one, and she ends up cheating on him fucking the personal trainer, it's not because the personal trainer is rich, lol.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-16T01:42:08+00:00

How come men post all these sources about the 80/20, the about of sexless men, etc. and women always deny it, but a psychology today article thats an opinion piece comes out about lonely men and women think its the gospel

scwizard · 2022-08-16T01:40:52+00:00

I know girls are amazing and scarse and special lol

But it's still dumb how many people are telling me to force myself to continue a conversation I've lost interest in continuing.

If a woman stops replying cause she isn't interested in replying that's apparently perfectly valid. But if a guy does it girls are like:

Feeling fearful avoidant today?

Wow you won dating so hard

She seems chill to me

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-16T01:38:05+00:00

Q4W: What do you feel is your physical selling point when attracting a guy, and how do you use it for attraction?

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-16T01:22:10+00:00

https://youtu.be/wdpuUxIF3YE

Pretty great video, I think women should watch to understand the modern man’s struggles with dating. No blackpill, no women hating, hell he even talks about women struggles in dating as well to put both sides issues into perspective

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-08-16T01:16:21+00:00

POV

Certain user fighting imaginary inkwells today

purplish_possum · 2022-08-16T01:07:25+00:00

I'm feeling like an immature teenager the last couple of days.

38 years ago I took my Yamaha XJ900 out for a spin after putting a new pair of Pirelli tires on. Ran it through the gears up to about 120 mph. The RCMP were not amused.

This weekend I took my Triumph Tiger 1050 out for a spin after putting on a new pair of Pirelli tires. Pulled the front wheel off the ground on a 1-2 powershift. The CHP were not amused.

Back in high school, I loved finding ways to mess with the teachers I didn't like.

Now I love messing with the local District Attorney.

Growing up is way overrated.

scwizard · 2022-08-16T01:06:23+00:00

Welp that's that.

I asked the girl if she thinks it's best to introduce girls to my D&D friends first, my tech friends first or my church friends first.

And she answered:

Lol I think it’s up to you and whatever feels right

So I left her on read.

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-16T00:58:43+00:00

If you’re a female and you want to fuck me don’t reply to this within one minute of me posting this

lulll · 2022-08-16T00:54:13+00:00

get away from me i have a fever

cruciod · 2022-08-16T00:37:38+00:00

As a woman, I think it's time that we give nice guys a chance. Who's with me ladies?

Now give me your IG handles and phone numbers, and I'll get it to those nice young men.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-16T00:17:22+00:00

Q4w - how u doin

Peacesquad · 2022-08-16T00:00:32+00:00

What gets easier to pick up the heavier it is?…

labormarket · 2022-08-16T00:00:23+00:00

Why exactly are racial topics banned? What was the rationale? Is it because people couldn’t be mature enough to discuss them without being bigots?

It’s like discussing aeronautics while ignoring gravity

Or discussing finance while ignoring interest rates

2022-08-15T23:29:34+00:00

I'm really enjoying the 2nd season of Indian Matchmaking on Netflix. Perfect purple-pill playground of a show.

poppy_blu · 2022-08-15T23:24:35+00:00

You live rent free in your parents suburban McMansion with your mom still doing your laundry and cooking your dinner and hold down a job that’s so easy with so much autonomy that you can post 100 times a day on Reddit and not get fired.

Tell me again how easy life is for wImMinZ and how hard you have it.

TatePilled · 2022-08-15T23:10:58+00:00

"why should we give men props for doing the bare minimum???"

Regularly said by women who hope the world changes

scwizard · 2022-08-15T23:10:24+00:00

I told her I was more of a D&D with friends sorta guy and not a naked pool parties sorta guy. Let's see how that plays out.

poppy_blu · 2022-08-15T23:03:09+00:00

What’s the most romantic thing you’ve done for your SO?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-08-15T22:58:41+00:00

My RP fellas are gonna have to slap some sense into me for this one

I think I’m getting the evil c word happening to me

Code red here, guys, I might be starting to have what we call a crush

reditson23 · 2022-08-15T10:17:07+00:00

So many attractive women (men rate a higher percentage of women as attractive) in the world and you can’t even get one!?

Hhaahahhahahahahahahahahaha

teball3 · 2022-08-15T15:20:25+00:00

I spend too much time arguing with the misandrists because I feel personally insulted, and not enough arguing with the misogynists because I want to. This forum is corrupting me.

omegapro95 · 2022-08-15T15:22:45+00:00

Only by restoring a patriarchal society can we fix the modern issue between the sexes.

Slipthe · 2022-08-15T22:13:27+00:00

How much of a chore is mowing the grass?

scwizard · 2022-08-15T22:46:16+00:00

"I haven't been to your area lately cause of the pandemic and all"

Bitch the pandemic been over.

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