Daily Community Chat Megathread

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-21T22:25:47+00:00

People are actually so overweight in the usa these days, it’s really quite sad…

4SSh01e · 2023-07-21T21:53:49+00:00

I am watching Taxi Driver by Robert De Niro, he is very lean in the movie, are there people who are naturally this lean? Do such people eat less and move more than others?

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T21:17:37+00:00

Poverty is so sad

I remember sleeping in the car when I was little because my parents were so poor, they couldn’t afford a babysitter, nor afford to not work. So, my mom kept a blanket in the car, and she’d leave me to sleep alone in the parking lot while she’d work.

She worked 16 hours a day, seven days a week, in sub-zero temperatures. I pretty much never saw her. I wish I could have had a stronger and closer relationship with her, if she were home more often maybe we would be closer. But she never was.

Anyway, I wonder what it’s like to grow up rich. I feel like a lot of my perspectives on life would be different.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-21T21:12:05+00:00

"Any advice on how to work in a school and teaching boys how to be masculine because l worked with kids that have autism(mostly boys) and nobody cares"

Yea it's gonna be mostly boys when coming to social disabilities my friend but l've very much respect for men in educational fields who wanna reach out to young men like this

Because yes l don't think masculinity is toxic nor some damn social construct but something unique to human males only

My advice continue what your doing because society always needs masculine development of young men

antisplatter · 2023-07-21T20:52:53+00:00

I blank constantly when friends talk about relationships in real life because I don’t want to accidentally mention anything I read here lol

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-21T20:49:16+00:00

Ladies, find yourself a man who doesn't drink but still surprises you with a bottle of wine on a Friday.

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T20:39:36+00:00

Bruh Accutane is drying my skin so bad😭💀

It’s over for accutanecels

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_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T20:32:07+00:00

Fuck antinatalists and their cringy bullshit

I’m gonna have like six kids just to spite these miserable fucks

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T20:23:08+00:00

Holy shit😭

I just heard someone use incel terminology irl, I wanna kms😭😭

So embarrassing…

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T20:12:00+00:00

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Rate her, be honest!!

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-21T20:09:55+00:00

If I were a woman I’d go through my hoe phase and ride the cock carousel in university and then focus on finding a long term relationship with a quality guy in my early twenties after college.

Too many woman waste their most valuable years looking for fun and then are sad later when it catches up with them.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-21T20:00:57+00:00

"The negative consequences for warm approaching are much worse than cold approaching"

You know what for me l just don't eat where l shit

What l like about cold approaching is your never gonna see the woman again if you mess up, so those awkward moments of interaction won't exist

Warm approaching is not for me because she literally knows me from casual interactions so nah

Even when l was in school, always make sure she doesn't attend the same classes as you if your gonna approach her

SianOiseau · 2023-07-21T19:55:34+00:00

Men in western society should reject marriage

I should tell my husband that he should have rejected our marriage and all the benefits he's getting from it aren't worth the mutual risks. Sure.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-21T19:13:27+00:00

I know three 5’2, balding, skinny, Indian janitor brothers who absolutely slay. And I know no one else who does well with woman in my social circle. Just those three brothers.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-21T18:50:42+00:00

A woman getting fat is worse, more deserving of getting broken up with, than a man losing his job in a relationship.

Make sure you stay at a healthy (19-21) BMI ladies!

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-21T18:49:25+00:00

huh, took a deep dive in the detrans sub, I'm just going to go ahead and say (in my infinite ignorance) that a majority (if not all) of those people are just suffering from borderline personality disorder, or maybe a sub category of it related to gender identity.

On a slightly related tangent, while walking home from the park yesterday with 8 year old boychild, he stopped right outside our house and in all earnestness said "mom, my pronouns are he/him". We weren't even talking about anything related to gender or pronouns.

🤷‍♀ lol ok son.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-21T18:41:10+00:00

There is this very dangerous idea, especially in the left/liberal circles where they tend to overreact to the dangers of someone's ideals, beliefs, and actions to a point that they automatically deem anyone who they see as opposition as a villain, a threat to the world and see themselves as the saviors and feel a duty to eradicate that evil.

In other words, you can be a well-intentional and empathetic person but the moment you just explore an issue more than you're allowed to you'd be viewed as dangerous and once that hits there wouldn't be the slightest of empathy left in their hearts.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-21T18:40:56+00:00

Some lady on tiktok said that replacing a women was like 100k a year for a cleaner, prostitute, and nanny.

Clean your own place and keep it clean with the low low cost of free.
You don’t need to pay for that just hit the gym and get a better dating profile via a good photographer. Cost maybe a couple hundred bucks.
If you need kids adopt them. You can sponsor hundreds of orphans a year with that 100k. Forget about being a dad to 1 kid. You can be a dad to a village of children for that much money.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-21T18:30:49+00:00

Can we say were post “approach era”? Seems like the idea of approaching women you don’t know at some coffee shop and stuff has become taboo.

Personally thought it was always a waste of time but I’m wondering if all these TikTok’s about women telling men not to approach is finally gonna kill off that dating route.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-21T18:20:40+00:00

But, but women have every reason to be afraid of men

shmupsy · 2023-07-21T18:19:20+00:00

Would you date / marry a girl who looks like this?

https://www.examinerlive.co.uk/news/west-yorkshire-news/huddersfield-vine-star-tish-simmonds-18473993

Or doom her to feel so unattractive that she wants to try life as a boy?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-21T18:04:10+00:00

What did I miss?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-21T18:04:02+00:00

Women don’t owe you anything. Seggs, reciprocation, nothing. You’re a man. Be better and deal with it

saraimarsena · 2023-07-21T17:56:25+00:00

oppression olympics, this sub rn in a nutshell

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-21T17:54:38+00:00

A lady's definitely not genocidal solution to Inceldom

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-21T17:53:00+00:00

One of the cringiest statement from some men here is that women control the dating market. The reason you think that is because you lack the skills to get with women. You are like a hungry animal in the Sahara desert who think the gazelle have control of the region.

Willow-girl · 2023-07-21T17:47:28+00:00

Who else is sad about Tony Bennett's passing? He was probably my man's favorite singer after Frank Sinatra. He also seems to have been a decent human being; I've never heard a negative personal anecdote about him.

Ninety-six is a helluva good run, though. RIP, sir.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-07-21T17:46:51+00:00

https://www.vice.com/en/article/z3mmxw/your-balls-are-back-online-semen-release-ritual-where-bros-platonically-cum-together

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtFbcJggJB_/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=cc138efe-6fd9-4b56-ae5a-7fe90e829f9e

Most would say this is a form of homosexuality or bisexuality. It is not.

Platonic Male Erotic Bonding is a vitamin that I believe all men would benefit from.

It’s a type of nourishment that speaks to men building each other up, sharing deep moments, seeing each other fully in the n*de, and removing all shame, fear, and doubt that society has placed on us within this context.

This type of relationship and container is a fertile breeding ground for men to become comrades, to potentiate each other, and to feel a deep sense of support as opposed to competition.The world needs more grounded, integrated, and purposeful men.

The world needs more men who are taking it on themselves to live into their highest and collaborate along the journey to their self-actualization.

This is the new era of Red Pill theory.

Think-Fisherman6871 · 2023-07-21T17:31:28+00:00

Hi! I'm conducting a PhD research on the life experiences leading to becoming an Incel. I'm looking for people who consider themselves Incels that would be interested in sharing their life experience during a virual interview (about 1h30). It is a university project (approved by my university's ethics and research committee), and participation will be strictly confidential. Do you know where I could look for participants?
If you read this and if you consider yourself an Incel, please don't hesitate to send me a private message if you are interest in taking part in this project or if you would like any further information.

Thank you

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-21T17:22:46+00:00

I think the only way you could get away with sending nudes as a man was if you were cut and jacked. Anything otherwise would be an embarassment

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-21T17:19:35+00:00

Women on this board are always telling us we live on easy move, how they'd slay if they were male.

But whenever someone who lived as a whenever a woman lives as a man, they come to different conclusions.

See:

Norah Vincent
detrans and ftms having a hard time
that one girl on youtube who was getting depressed because she was in control of her male friend's tinder and girls weren't responding

It's not that I think women are all living tutorial mode lives all the time, but it's interesting how they seem to be totally unable to emphasise with men or realise that men also face challenges.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-21T17:14:26+00:00

i have not read actual disagreements with TRP, mostly emotional diarrhea or misunderstanding of TRP concepts.

Willow-girl · 2023-07-21T17:09:23+00:00

Somebody break my bidding fingers, lol. https://bid.rogersohio.com/auctions/6226/lot/60176-jersey-heifer-bottle-calf

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-21T17:06:14+00:00

I'm not a fan of gold digging but I don't get why women don't all at least date upper middle class men.

Women have so many options and it's so easy for women that women can get most of the attributes they want in a man while restricting themselves to only upper middle class men.

The average upper middle class man (100k-250k in MCOL, 150k-450k in HCOL) isn't some snobby old money man. He's a regular guy who just wants a nice girl with basic personal hygiene.

Just by having a healthy (19-21) BMI, which is basically just basic personal hygiene, and not being mean or careless with your money, a woman becomes good enough for an upper middle class man. The bar is so low for women.

Any woman can have basic personal hygiene and automatically have a secure, stable, upper middle class lifestyle without having to try in their careers at all.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-21T17:05:35+00:00

Lol the vast majority of my feed on dating apps weigh more than I do and I’m 200+.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-21T17:05:08+00:00

Q4All: would you choose to be in a relationship with someone who you knew had a personality disorder (Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Paranoid Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Schizoid Personality Disorder, etc.)?

4SSh01e · 2023-07-21T17:03:11+00:00

Because N count discussions on PPD allow men to chip in as well, women here hold a slightly more accepting perspective as in "It's fine if you want to have this preference, just don't insult people who don't fit your preference" and I think PPD men have largely agreed to it.

But out in the wild on Reddit? This preference is still scorned at, especially on women dominated subreddits because they don't allow men to chip in and engage in a large circlejerk by inventing all sorts of absurd reasons and then laughing at them.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-21T16:35:59+00:00

A huge thing many guys should know in 2023 and beyond is male attention has completely went down the drain

With Instagram,Tik-tok,dating apps,Only-fans etc

Women have access to more attention than ever before in history, therefore guys should be crucial of how much attention they give away especially if they see it ain't benefiting them

"Oh but the majority of women aren't on Only-fans"

Yes but the majority are on other social platforms advertising themselves

And it starts at a very young age

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-21T16:34:34+00:00

The men who say being a woman is "easy mode" wouldn't last 12 hours as a woman.

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-20T22:03:45+00:00

First

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-20T22:14:45+00:00

This sub has made me join the autism for women sub as I really need to learn how autism present it’s self in the hive mind, and what better place to learn (besides PPD).

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-07-20T22:16:19+00:00

Q4W: if a single guy has $10M and is looking to get married, what should he do to minimize the risk of coming out of a divorce with less networth than he came into the marriage with? Assume that his potential spouses have less networth going into the marriage

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T22:23:58+00:00

"Would you get into a relationship with a person that has been in a open relationship ? If yes, would you pursue an open relationship with them"

Nah am not tolerating that nonsense

So if she wants then she must find a man who's comfortable with his wife or gf getting pounded by other guys non-exclusively

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-20T22:34:26+00:00

Why does it bother some folks that women have sex with one guy but want to date another guy?

We see men talk about doing this. That they'll have sex with a woman they wouldn't date. But when women do it, they insult men by calling them betas. Make it make sense.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T22:45:20+00:00

"You can't even say men and women are different publicly anymore"

Right

l remember working at a game store in my early 20s and we were discussing which games should we produce more for a certain target audience

Since more competitive games were bought more by guys , l just said let's focus on that gender in producing more competitive games and everyone lost their shit and turned into a debate

"Your saying girls can't be competitive like guys"

Yes and the numbers showed it

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-07-20T22:49:46+00:00

Q4M: Would you date this woman? Do you share her green/red flags or not? Would you prefer a dating market with more women like her (in terms of financial approach, views on marriage, etc), the status quo, or fewer women like her?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-20T22:51:22+00:00

As someone who came of age during the 90’s, I don’t get the nostalgia that many have for blockbuster

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-20T22:53:16+00:00

My mom said my dad cried for the birth of his first child(my older sister) but everyone else he was kinda like

https://www.istockphoto.com/photos/shoulder-shrug

MyLastBestChance · 2023-07-20T22:56:24+00:00

I think I have a solution for the guys that feel strongly that once a woman has had sex with someone in x amount of time, she should have sex with subsequent men in the same amount of time or less.

How about women, as soon as a man expresses interest in her, judges whether or not she is willing to do the and if she’s not 100% sure, she rejects you right away?

For those of you who assume that every woman who’s not a virgin has had sex immediately with Chad, that means that every woman who isn’t 100% willing to have sex with you immediately will reject you as soon as you approach or swipe.

Would that help?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T22:59:34+00:00

"Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable"

That's just untrue

They got the experience that's it

It's not that hard to understand this

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T23:13:48+00:00

"Both men and women dislike marriage in the same way but just act differently about it"

No we don't

The reason why many men including myself dislike marriage is how we do it in 2023

Judges being more bias against men

Divorce statistics skyrocketing against men

So it's the not the same

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-20T23:25:52+00:00

This idea of immediate sex must come from television and movies. It certainly isn't coming from personal experience in most cases but rather an expectation set by some guy with a microphone.

dyngladfel · 2023-07-20T23:27:29+00:00

Its mad to me that people think a relationship will fix their self esteem issues. Yes, it's a boost but the start of a new relationship churns you over so any issues you have will be tenfold, you don't need to be perfect but you need to be stable enough to ride that out, for both your sakes.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-20T23:36:32+00:00

Stressing about dating isn't worth it because a lot of people are settling for the best they believe they already have, not the absolute best there is.

Everyone is better off living their lives and not thinking too seriously about anything because a minority of people out there are actually worth stressing over.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-20T23:39:07+00:00

Studies show that 48% of people who get married before 18 are likely to divorce within ten years after the wedding. Research also suggests that 60% of couples married between the ages of 20 to 25 will end in divorce.

Couples who get married between the age of 28 and 32 are less likely to have their marriage end in a divorce, according to research by Dr. N. Wolfinger from Utah University.

Tradcons in shambles

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-20T23:47:56+00:00

q4w

You've been dating a new guy for a while. It's going well. You're having sex. You pull his hair, and boom! It comes loose! He's wearing a hair system!

wyd

DerayRevan · 2023-07-20T23:49:46+00:00

"How do you think the state of dating for young men can be fixed"

There's just too much competitiveness to be fixed since men are always gonna be horny

The best is just increase your odds of getting a woman

potoricco · 2023-07-20T23:53:20+00:00

I need this body suit so fucking much it’s so cunt I NEED IT

https://preview.redd.it/d6hfu7rzj7db1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4bd7d39942247921dc8a3ae4591bf4c0a1db852f

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-20T23:54:15+00:00

A lot of women seem to hate the idea of building a man up. You can see it in their disgust at the idea of having to 'teach' a virgin. It's a brutal blackpill.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-20T23:54:21+00:00

Women are sexually attracted to behavior and personality and there's even an evolutionary basis for this

dyngladfel · 2023-07-20T23:54:26+00:00

Hard ick: funko pops

text-redacted · 2023-07-20T23:58:38+00:00

One of the top dogs of my company visited our work place this morning to see how things are going. He's like my boss's boss's boss, so I guess it was a big deal. As I was leaving work, my boss chatted with me a bit. Said everyone calls him the silver fox because he's good looking for an older man. She asks me "Wasn't he very attractive?" 😅 Like ma'am, he's probably triple my age.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-21T00:02:09+00:00

"I believe being a step dad is the most humiliating thing a man can do to himself"

I just prefer not being one ideally

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-21T00:19:10+00:00

Q4M: your perfect woman wants you to be her main but she'll cheat on you often. How do you respond? Would you date her?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-21T00:20:34+00:00

I'm not into hyper attractive women. Or women that are obsessed with appearance.

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T00:25:54+00:00

How much can photos affect the amount of matches you get on tinder?

I put one selfie twice (so basically just one picture), and I’ve got two matches, of which one I’m pretty sure is a bot.

Would more pics help? By how much?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-21T00:27:48+00:00

"Women subconsciously like a man cable of violence"

Many do yes

This is one of the reasons why height is so desirable by many women

DerayRevan · 2023-07-21T00:36:28+00:00

"Women marry the lifestyle not the man"

Yes many do

For

Vacations,places,restaurants

Girls just wanna have fun with money

potoricco · 2023-07-21T00:47:37+00:00

So the friend I was talking about possibly inviting to see the Barbie movie with me said she couldn’t come

So my mom asked who else I could invite, and I could only name 2 people, one of whom is 14 years old and the other I haven’t spoken to in 3 months

And even though they never show it, I feel like they’re perpetually disappointed in me, or that I’m always disappointing them. What if they see me as a loser with no friends? Or pity me?

I have “friends” i swear, but I don’t have friends friends as in people from school. that’s one of my goals this upcoming school year. Make school friends

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-21T00:56:12+00:00

I saw a fattie woman that would have been cute if she wasn't fat.

I really want to help fattie women get healthy. I was really reflecting on the feedback I got from this sub. Some people had said that positive reinforcement is better than negative reinforcement. Maybe I should have said something to give her positive reinforcement.

"You would look so pretty if you weren't fat. If you got to a healthy (19-21) BMI, you would have such an easy life. You could actually use your female privilege and date anyone you want and could easily marry an upper middle class man with little effort. Your life would be so easy! Think about it. It's so easy to get to a healthy BMI too. You just have to put in a tiny bit of effort."

Is that good enough positive reinforcement?

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-21T00:56:48+00:00

I feel like I am ready for marriage now. Where do I find a marriage-minded guy aged 23-32 because they’re not on dating apps. Trying to get my brother in law to set me up but he’s overprotective.

potoricco · 2023-07-21T00:57:01+00:00

Gonna be brutally honest here

Before I came here I knew that pedophilia etc was a thing, but I didn’t know that guys wanting younger girls was a thing

Like I had no idea that men preferred younger women or that women’s worth was associated with their age. That’s why the joke “never ask a woman her age” never made sense to me

Now I know the truth tho

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-21T00:59:57+00:00

Q4M: your perfect woman wants you to be her main but she's from a culture where sex work is fully normalised and she'll sometimes visit the female equivalent of a rub 'n tug.

How do you respond? Would you date her?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-21T01:02:39+00:00

After controlling for people's tendency to marry others with attributes similar to their own, however, the analysis shows that less attractive people are just as likely as more attractive people to have highly educated spouses. In particular, more attractive women are no more likely than less attractive women to have highly educated husbands. We suggest that the differences between our results and those of earlier research can be traced in part to the lack of attention paid to men's attractiveness in marriage choices.

LaurenTsaisCatEye · 2023-07-21T01:03:46+00:00

One of my biggest fears is becoming fat but still having small tits.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-21T01:07:26+00:00

My neighbor: a man trying to give birth to a goddess (a lot of wailing and chanting).

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T01:13:20+00:00

Bruh

After two hours of tinder, I’ve got two matches with girls

I switched the “show me” toggle to men (I’m not gay, I just wanted to look at my competition), and I got like 15 likes in 2-3 minutes (apparently your profile starts getting shown to guys)

Fuck this tinder shit

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-21T01:34:23+00:00

It’s sad how many women not only on this sub but in general are ignorant to their female privilege. I guess getting rewarded for simply existing must blind you like that.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-21T01:50:56+00:00

I'm so good at evaluating womens personalities based off pictures online and I would know exactly whom I would like to date irrespective of attractiveness.

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T02:13:17+00:00

Is 5 years, 5 months, a big age gap between siblings?

My baby brother is 13 and I’m turning 19 in August. Would you say that’s a big difference?

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-21T02:21:57+00:00

Q4All: would you live a destitute life of servitude helping others as long as you never went hungry?

Basically, you are single, make a meager income, and your "Job" is essentially that you work for free helping people with random acts of kindness that you're capable of doing, kind of like an unofficial wandering volunteer.

You might work an actual job part-time to help pay bills, but during your off-time, you're going to a new location everyday and helping strangers.

I just thought of an idea where I go to crowded downtown areas, libraries, parks, etc., and wear a custom shirt that says something along the lines of "Free Advice." I'm studying to be a therapist so I'd be listening to people's issues and offering them my advice much like a therapist would, of course if it's within my knowledge to be able to help them. I'd do this day after day, picking a different location each day to sit and be available to the public.

Would you do something like this?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-21T02:26:01+00:00

Normal men see red pill men like normal women see sjw feminists.

AdventurousRub6960 · 2023-07-21T02:29:07+00:00

The world would be better if the nationalists won the Chinese civil war.

potoricco · 2023-07-21T02:30:29+00:00

I **** women so much like why am I watching the women's World Cup with my parents and my mom starts roasting tf out of the players appearance and rooted for the team with prettier women I can't rn

Willow-girl · 2023-07-21T02:41:51+00:00

Our backyard cow Marianne, who is always a handful when she's in heat, is really on a tear today! Earlier my boyfriend texted to say that he went out to clean her shed (not realizing that it's her "special time") and she tried jumping the tractor with him on it! Oy.

By the time I got home from work, she had moved on to bellowing while destroying the old car up on blocks in the backyard. (A bummer, as the elderly goat, Hula, likes to perch on top of it.) I have resigned myself to falling asleep to the sound of rusty fenders being ripped off a Datsun. Imgur OTOH, a thunderstorm seems to be rolling in -- maybe the rain will cool her jets.

Never a dull moment around here ...

Anti_Thing · 2023-07-21T02:44:24+00:00

I state that I'm looking for marriage on my dating app profiles. Is this too much for a 25 year old man? I'm concerned that I'm scaring women away by being so straightforward. Should I merely state that I'm looking for a relationship on my profile & explain in more detail that I'm eventually looking for marriage as we talk?

DumpApe135 · 2023-07-21T02:59:17+00:00

I'm curious if mass shootings are going to keep going up, if they keep pace with suicides we should see them increase until 2028 but I wonder if anyone has done any actual work forecasting them.

AbdelBoudria · 2023-07-21T03:21:44+00:00

Is passportmaxxing the best solution if you’re not conventionally attractive, have a hard time meeting women around your age and don’t know how to escalate physically with women?

I’m thinking of finding a partner in two years by going to my homeland if I fail my looksmaxxing journey.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-21T03:30:14+00:00

Had a great 2nd date today. He's so refreshing. We'll see each other again this weekend. I'm excited to see where this goes.

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T03:40:53+00:00

Is it normal for girls to not respond to your matches on tinder because they are being bombarded with so many messages?

What are the odds a girl responds to one of your messages?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-21T03:52:32+00:00

Is Yamatay a common japanese name or something i tried passport broing in japan and every girl i met on tinder kept saying it

baresquad · 2023-07-21T04:00:52+00:00

It’s interesting to observe the dynamics around physical cheating as a non monogamous man. People attach tons of emotions and rules to sex but to me sex is just sex.

There’s couples that go through each others phones because their trust is so fragile and contingent upon extremely strict rules. I realized early as hell that life isn’t for me.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-21T04:24:25+00:00

The problem with women "approaching" is that even when a woman approaches a man, she still expects him to act as though he approached her and move the conversation toward exchanging numbers and going out on a date.

All that's basically going on in their mind is "Okay, here I am. I made it easy for you, now ask me for my number."

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-07-21T05:38:23+00:00

Women aren't fat, we're just caloriemaxxing

text-redacted · 2023-07-21T05:50:27+00:00

Got locked out of my house tonight. Turns out it's very easy to break into my room's window 😬

text-redacted · 2023-07-21T06:02:00+00:00

Asian Ken>>>>>>>>

js

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T06:27:29+00:00

I hate redditor avatars

I wanna punch them in their fucking faces

Fuck Reddit avatars

Fuck THEM

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-21T06:39:53+00:00

Been in a while since I truely looked forward to a movie..Oppenheimer. A throwback to an era where movies was not just cheap entertainment.

Top 5 Nolan movie.

Memento
The Prestige
The Dark Knight
Interstellar
Inception

Kero_9 · 2023-07-21T06:43:10+00:00

Q4w : you went on first date with a guy he started criticizing society and political system , he explained that other girls nowadays are trashy and mean then he talked about how special and different you are compared to them

Would that be a good first date subject ?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-21T07:45:38+00:00

Do men actually feel like their sexuality is demonized?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-21T08:41:12+00:00

What is a good argument for marriage for the modern people?

_LightskinPunjabiBoi · 2023-07-21T09:42:49+00:00

Sports are so great, sadly fans ruin them for me.

I hate that some of these dudes live vicariously through players’ achievements. Messi dickriders are the worst for example.

It’s like, his accomplishments have nothing to do with you. You’re nobody, and you dont get to brag about it. He doesn’t even know you are.

Idolizing athletes is just cuckoldry. Imagine dickriding another man cuz he can kick a ball well.

John_Oakman · 2023-07-21T11:08:16+00:00

Wisdom and maturity (and the caution arising from those) is often mistaken for bitterness and sour grapes around these parts.

Workaholiconew · 2023-07-21T11:14:27+00:00

I find it funny everyone be talking about those npc ethots in twitch like cherycrush which are demanded by gen z people...

Way too many youtube commentors trying to make it some grand stand about the collapse of morality or that men just want slaves...

People... it is not that dificult to understand. It is just that many young men have a good deal of their positive interactions with women from female npcs and anime characters not irl women. So anyone who looks or behave like them will be considered attractive.

I may be old. But back in my day, if a guy only looked for women who looked or behaved like their mother or a particular ex for relationships it would be a sign he really liked them and wanted to recreate their relationships... why cant it happen with non humans too?

eye_fuck · 2023-07-21T11:23:51+00:00

Whats the science behind disportionate desire of women of taking selfies and photographing themselves compared to relatively low men's desire of doing that?

potoricco · 2023-07-21T12:17:08+00:00

I’m wide awake

https://preview.redd.it/p5yqrr2p8bdb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca6d5ed4331a2fd193ac09e77786b99b5dc93ca5

potoricco · 2023-07-21T12:19:29+00:00

What reason does a movie have to be 3 hours long? Lol no body watching Oppenbitchmer 🤣🤣

DerayRevan · 2023-07-21T12:33:44+00:00

"No nobody can know women's nature, they are mysterious and complex individuals"

So they like dick

Just say that

4SSh01e · 2023-07-21T13:15:06+00:00

I think Patriarchy is the default societal order or a reason and it doesn't have anything to do with women in particular and everything to do with biology.

Men allow themselves to be lead only by those who are superior to them in contextually relevant manner, and if that contextually relevant competence is absent then they will either not follow or replace the leader very quickly. Because to them the logic is very simple, this guy is sitting on top and I am better than him, so why should I listen to him? Why shouldn't I kick him off the throne and keep it for myself?

Or consider the Special Forces selection, the officers are held to much higher standard than enlisted personnel. If they are not leading the pack then they will likely not make it. You cannot lead a bunch of hard ass men by not being better then them. They are not inclined to submit to the rank but to competence. And if you are not competent they will chew and spit you out.

Women are biologically disadvantaged in physical strength and stature, on top of that the disadvantage is not offset by them on an aggregate possessing greater intelligence then men. I am not saying women are dumber, I am saying that they are equally matched to men in intelligence but physically weaker.

Thus up until the industrial revolution, there was absolutely no logic in men accepting leadership of women. Here an there you could have an absolute genius of a woman leading men but if you assume that the number of geniuses are equally spread in male and female population, it would follow that overwhelmingly large number of men would be in leadership positions by virtue of them not being significantly disadvantaged to the men they were leading.

potoricco · 2023-07-21T13:21:14+00:00

Guys my mom put moth balls in my room (we don’t have moths - it’s an old wives tale) but I’m concerned now that they cause cancer. are they dangerous?

potoricco · 2023-07-21T13:58:46+00:00

Why do women? Why does Ariana have dogshit taste? Why would anybody date this guy?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-21T14:00:25+00:00

If you want to know what women want, watch who they actively pursue and hookup with. Easy peasy.

Kero_9 · 2023-07-21T14:21:10+00:00

i see a lot of girls nowadays having cats and dogs , if someone , let say your bf expressed his dislike towards your pet , would you leave it and give it to someone else ?

I’m afraid I’ll catch some sickness from these pets also they can break my things and I’m not sure it’s good idea to tell a girl that she need to give her pet to someone else

thetruthishere_ · 2023-07-21T14:21:30+00:00

The whole you'll die alone baloney... have you ever watched someone die and take their last breath?

I just had to do that with my cat and it was awful as he gasped for his last breath and crapping with fluid pouring out his mouth.

I dont want my loved ones to see me take my last breath...

baresquad · 2023-07-21T14:54:05+00:00

The woman you married is the same woman who used to simp for a narcissistic man

How are men so easily intimidated by other men?

context

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-21T15:15:07+00:00

When I am 90 you will still be able to play this song to me and I will be dtf.

https://youtu.be/PTFwQP86BRs

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-21T15:20:48+00:00

Women don't have enough empathy for men.

I remember having to go to random lectures in HS and college and even the workplace about how to treat women right. Women should have to do something similar for men.

Women should be required to attend "empathy building" sessions where they try to get a date as an average man on dating apps.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-21T15:22:17+00:00

I got a reddit warning for saying men are stupid yesterday? Is that really promoting hate because I thinks that's kinda tame tbh?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-21T15:25:38+00:00

Here I will fix it

Men, you are so so smart.

Women, you are so so smart.

*spoken like kamala harris with all the hand gestures too

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-21T15:29:01+00:00

I had an in the closet gay friend in highschool. He went to university, came out, made a load of female friends.

For a while there he did a lot of gushing about how easy life is for women. Pill moment.

Barneysparky · 2023-07-21T15:47:58+00:00

I asked how you can observe this. What people in your life?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-21T16:05:35+00:00

"The Redpill is keeping many guys single"

Ok and ?

The fundamental point is not solving your Loneliness, it's whole purpose telling you men and women are different which is sexual dynamics

The only advice prescription advice is PUA stuff which getting your dick wet

But if you want a relationship, nobody can tell you how to build it as a man

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-21T16:18:47+00:00

Red pill isn't winning these debates because it is always right.

It's winning them because the other side is living in fantasy La La land.

TapeEater6969 · 2023-07-21T18:27:08+00:00

the weirdest thing about 18-22 year old girls is why do they like sitcoms so much, and not something thats actually funny but like full house or friends or new girls. maybe its the himbo thing?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-21T19:48:10+00:00

My biggest failure today is getting agitated by someone I was arguing with, the moment I felt a slight resistance and negative energy deep inside I was shaken. It's been such a long time since I felt that, I thought I finally mastered the ways of Zen but Alas!

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