Daily Community Chat Megathread

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-13T21:02:03+00:00

I bought a bunch of take out and put into dishes to make my bf think I tried to cook his favorite foods. He looks terrified.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-09-13T20:55:35+00:00

Q4M: What is "dating" or a "relationship" look like to you?

It seems like so many men out here want a "girlfriend" but to them a girlfriend isn't someone they take out on dates she's just a hot girl who has constant sex with him and tells him he is great?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-13T20:53:10+00:00

There are so many experts on what women find attractive, and yet those same experts complain about women not being attracted to them.

The cognitive dissonance should be studied.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-13T20:28:19+00:00

I don’t want more stuff but I still end up shopping for books sometimes. Why? Am I building a nest? No one wants to help you move if you have lots of books.

demedermidimi · 2023-09-13T20:24:01+00:00

i never understood why someone would take the risk of becoming a stay at home mom. even if you have the greatest husband in the world who would never mistreat you or the kids, he can just up and die and then you're all fucked. unless you have a trust fund or something

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-13T20:12:00+00:00

A lot of men are scared of hitting on strangers because they're scared of rejection. Something to keep in mind is that women are going to be much more (irrationally) scared of the average man than the other way around- so there's no reason that you as a man should be afraid.

purplish_possum · 2023-09-13T20:00:33+00:00

The reddit algorithm put this in my feed.

https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/16hrsdc/married_my_best_friend_in_italy_cheers/

Wondering what folks here make of this young couple? To me they look like a very typical 2020s couple.

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-13T19:43:54+00:00

What's some top tier women's smut? I might give the genre a shot, out of curiosity.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-13T19:29:15+00:00

Very shameful that western men have allowed misandry to become so common in the modern day- fortunately the backlash to this is increasing with every passing day.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-13T19:23:57+00:00

The toilet seat argument is an interesting one. Who says it has to stay down the whole time? If you move into his place or get a place together then why can't it stay up?

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-13T19:12:59+00:00

Q4Men: How often do you think about the Roman Empire?

One of the women I'm taking to literally texted me that out of the blue and I asked "The fuck?" And she said on TikTok apparently it's like a trend to ask men how often they think about it and apparently the answer is "A lot"

For me it has to be at least multiple times a day in passing because I think about history a lot

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-13T19:11:22+00:00

The problem with the "husband material" compliment is that it makes it sound like if the world ended tomorrow you wouldn't want to spend it with the "husband material" gu. It's intended as a compliment but there's the hint of....hmmm. Just stick to "you're a great husband" or "I want to spend the rest of my life with you"

meteorness123 · 2023-09-13T19:04:23+00:00

Im such a narc sometimes that I really like the idea of knowing that I could physically destroy other men around me. Kind of a useless feat though

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-13T18:50:49+00:00

Q4A: who is the best person of the opposite sex you know?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-13T18:45:24+00:00

Another big lie from women about OLD,

Women: more of your matches are real, most of mine are just dudes randomly swiping on everyone sorta cute they see.

Bullshit most of my matches don’t even respond or just fizzle after a few messages

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-13T18:22:03+00:00

Being seen as husband material by a girl is a very big compliment

Workaholiconew · 2023-09-13T18:18:53+00:00

Idea for social experiment.

Make a tinder profile and it picture a Flan... name? Flan... description? Flan...

(If you get more matches as a flan than normally, you just ugly)

happy_discus · 2023-09-13T18:06:43+00:00

Lets make the worst dating app profile imaginable. I'll start:

Fish picture but it's someone else holding the fish.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-13T17:51:09+00:00

Dating a person you have no intention of spending the rest of your life with be it through marriage or otherwise is pointless and opens you up to pointless heartbreak (when you fall for the person through spending a lot of time with them).

CMV

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-13T17:43:44+00:00

Cheating on your woman is dumb. The superior masculine man controls his urges.

Red pillers shouldn't endorse that promiscuity garbage.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-13T17:30:47+00:00

You know one thing that came out of the pandemic that was positive that I hope comes back for a bit now that I'm better shape:

Masks

When masks were popular I was fat as fuck. So the fact that the mask completely hid the lower part of my face made women more willing to talk to me when I went "out". It still didn't happen much because I was fat as fuck and 5'6.

But now that I've lost 60 pounds and am in ok/decent shape with nice wide shoulders (still above 20% body fat 😢, but my OHP is 165 ) if I can get an excuse to wear a mask again and I have upgraded my fashion sense I am absolutely fucking positive I would be goddamn swarmed with women. Please COVID

You're my only hope

waterfall_tycoon · 2023-09-13T17:26:33+00:00

alright people, its storytime (trigger warning: self-esteem buried). this still hurts me when i think about it

So i get a new job right. Doing well, minding my own damn business. At the same time I am hired, this other guy comes onboard, a charismatic, traditional, good looking bloke. We work together well. Even I blush when talking to him. A few months down the road we get assigned to work on something else. So obviously we both need help getting the hang of things.

There are two people who are assigned to help us. One man and one woman. Both well established, well respected in our department. The woman is intelligent, hard-working, quite attractive. All four of us meet up.

So this man out of nowhere says, "Alright, (woman), which of these two do you want to help out? You get to choose. Haha, just kidding guys. I asked her earlier who she wanted to help, and she answered me immediately with a straight face. With no hesitation." Said with a sarcastic, condescending tone. I think the woman wasn't even expecting him to say this. Then she is like, "I hope I'm not resented after this." Cue the laughing. Then I force myself to say in order to appear normal, "Haha yeah no hard feelings."

Imagine just existing, minding your own business in order to avoid any possibility of embarassment and then this gigabrutality is dealt for no reason other than to remind you where your place is. Brutal. Can't even avoid the brutality in the middle of corporate slave life.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-13T17:26:04+00:00

Blue piller: "Red pill content creators and wealth maxxers are grifters, they are after your $50"

Also Blue piller: Rents an expensive apartment in a woke city, buys useless books on feminist theory, buys Beyonce concert tickets, pays for therapy (LOL), buys the latest smart phone and buys "EAT THE RICH" T shirts.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-13T17:17:56+00:00

I think if I told women what I really think about them, things would be better and less awkward.

Instead of skirting around the issue, maybe I should openly say things like "I get talking to strange guys can be dangerous for women" instead of awkwardly dancing around it. I always assumed it'd make me seem more like a creep but I really doubt it would thinking about it.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-09-13T17:02:30+00:00

Hearing being called husband material from traditional women isn’t the same from regular ones.

Being called husband material from women who don’t have sex before marriage is a compliment.

The other type of women it’s an insult.

I refuse to elaborate.

md8716 · 2023-09-13T16:55:52+00:00

The biggest problem that I have with blackpill logic is that it often hyper-focuses on promiscuous liberal city women. Nightclubs, college scenes, apps, etc., tend to over-represent these types of women, and if they aren't already in the city girl lifestyle, they certainly aspire to it.

Many of the blackpill assumptions are very true for those girls, but there's a significant percentage of the female population that just doesn't want or aspire to that lifestyle.

Out in more suburban/rural areas, or even in city type areas where they ended up there but not by their own choice, many women often tended to gravitate to their own attractiveness level, if not maybe even date down in looks slightly in favor of other attributes (i.e., personality, leadership, success). They also tended to be serially monogamous, often times with lengthy gaps, and had lower n-count numbers simply because they're just not mentally wired to want to be the town bicycle.

I guess what I'm saying is, the biggest logical flaw of the blackpill is that it professes truths about only a certain subset of women while ignoring all others.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-13T16:49:25+00:00

I personally don’t think women are special. They all want the same things in men

Peacesquad · 2023-09-13T16:48:59+00:00

Q4A: do most women even know what men want? Or how to keep a man?

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-13T16:41:38+00:00

bro I swear ppl in my generation are tall asf. I'm ~6ft and walking around toronto I feel below average to most of the guys my age what's going on man

Boring-Goat-4276 · 2023-09-13T16:39:56+00:00

I'm trying to explain to a man how women are not responsible for his frustrations with dating. Does anyone have ideas for how to explain that? Thanks!

SianOiseau · 2023-09-13T16:28:49+00:00

I feel awful, ughhh.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-13T16:19:44+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-09-13T16:19:38+00:00

But why tho?

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-13T16:09:19+00:00

Of course that politician is gonna claim misogyny when the porn she uploaded to the internet gets reshared when she runs for office. It's laughable at this point

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-13T16:07:03+00:00

Kid birthday parties are so expensive. 😭

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-13T15:51:45+00:00

These men who are upset by Logan Paul's girlfriend/wife are unhinged.

They are so upset about being lied to that instead of questioning things they are doubling down.

Glittering-Roll-9432 · 2023-09-13T15:47:43+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/amiugly/comments/16hckxw/26f_i_just_cant_tell_and_i_receive_very_mixed/

Finally saw a truly average or even below average post over there. I will say a styling, better brows, better hair, and losing weight I sort of can see how she'd improve to solidly cute average to maybe even low above averages.

I see girls and women like her all the time with average to below average dudes. They both seem happy at least in public. I doubt she's wishing to fuck Chad. She's genuinely happy to fuck her looks match. And yes I think any desperate guy in this sub should date a girl like her without second regrets.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-13T15:45:48+00:00

Today I am grateful that I'm not a little person.

What are you grateful for today ?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-13T15:40:39+00:00

My husband and I joke about starting our own right wing grift, lean into a Candace Owens/reformed feminist type gambit. However my gut, heart, whatever, feels too heavy to go through with it.

It would take a lot of compartmentalization and extended apologies to family and friends, not sure I have the stamina for it.

potoricco · 2023-09-13T15:33:21+00:00

I still don’t know what I’m gonna do on my birthdya

potoricco · 2023-09-13T15:32:31+00:00

I have a fricking church conference on my birthday with my grandma, it’s not that I don’t want to go but it’s from 11-4 and I dont fucking feel like doing that

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-13T15:17:37+00:00

Been watching this Alex Hormozi guy. He sounds like a walking street MBA.

He is a good watch for any wealth maxxer and masculine self improver

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-13T15:16:28+00:00

I don't really get how can people roll their eyes out at men complaining about dating, and reply in this "ffs, here we go again" kind of tone, like they are tired of it... while simultaneously arguing that men having a hard time dating is not a societal phenomenon and it's an extremely unusual anomaly. Like, come on. Men saying that dating women is hard is such a basic cliché at this point, you can see discussions spiralling into it all over the internet, be it humorous self-deprecation or genuine hopelessness. There is a reason why you are tired of it, and it's not because it's a "non-existent issue"...

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-13T14:51:38+00:00

Y'all I need advice.

I'm adopting this cat. His name is peanut. He eats plastic.

I need some non-plastic covered candy ideas for my candy dish, all I've got in mind now is salt water Taffy because it comes wrapped in wax paper

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-13T14:46:55+00:00

Do yall go to the gym before or after work?

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4PointTakedown · 2023-09-13T02:00:52+00:00

f irst

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-09-13T02:20:20+00:00

Newest season (14) of Archer has been tough to watch. Like we get it the future is female but man they basically neutered my boi Archer.

potoricco · 2023-09-13T02:22:47+00:00

All cops are bastards.This is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever read. I’m going to cry

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-09-13T03:05:32+00:00

Do people who are single for long periods of time get set in their ways?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-13T03:19:13+00:00

Feminist/liberal "equality" be like

Women: Men should pay on the first date. If he doesn't, I'll assume all these negative things about him and there won't be a second date.

Feminists/liberals: It's just her personal preference.

Men: Women should do most of the household chores. I won't date a woman who can't cook and clean.

Feminists/liberals: YOU TERRIBLE MISOGYNIST!

Feminists/liberals have made the genders less equal. They have increased inequality. At least with the old traditional values were equally exist against both genders. Now, it's only sexist against men.

philseven12 · 2023-09-13T03:26:45+00:00

im guilty of having a high body count, could this be a reason why i keep attracting the same kinds of toxic women? i swear i never meet plain jane types of women unless they’re married or a student of mine

HolidayWhile · 2023-09-13T03:50:42+00:00

How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning?

I am considering introducing myself to everyone with this question. It's unintrusive, simple, and about something everyone does, and yet there's something new and interesting to make someone go "hmm". A conversation starter.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-13T03:54:04+00:00

It’s GG

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-09-13T04:04:51+00:00

I dont if it's just selection or confirmation bias, but most of the guys I have seen here that say stuff like dating isn't that bad or hard, that women's standards aren't that high, just turn out to be tall dudes lol. I can understand why they think it's not that hard or the standards arent that high

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-13T04:48:29+00:00

Q4All: Anyone ever tell you that you have a pirate smile?

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-09-13T04:54:36+00:00

Probably gonna try looking for a psychologist or psychiatrist to get back on antidepressants if my mood keeps worsening. Lately I’ve just been empty and sad even when nothing happens.

I’m not sure if it’s a good idea though. It’s caused by loneliness, and it’s entirely possible that I won’t stop feeling this way for years, if ever at all. It seems like a bad idea to rely on being drugged up to cope with existence.

waterfall_tycoon · 2023-09-13T04:59:15+00:00

I'm telling you guys, anything is possible. Don't ever give up. Keep grinding, keep hustling, and shoot for your dreams.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-13T05:14:03+00:00

Her standards aren't too high.

You're just not tall enough to ride the ride. Theme park rules.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-13T05:19:21+00:00

If there's one thing I wish I could make everyone understand it's that competence in one and success in one area of your life does not necessarily move over to another area in your life.

Most axes of success are not at all correlated. If you are a successful engineer that doesn't mean you will be a successful boxer. If you are a successful boxer that doesn't mean you're going to be a successful salesman. If you're a successful salesman that doesn't mean you're going to be a successful standup comic. If you're a successful standup comic that doesn't mean you will necessarily be successful with women.

That last part is the part that everyone trips up on. Every other part of your life people agree "Yeah, just because you succeded here doesn't really help you in this completely different competency"

But when it comes to going to a bar/club and talking to women and getting them interested in you as a person, people go "Well improve these other competencies first, and then you will be successful at it".

But nobody tells Pagliacci the clown that if he wants to cheer himself up by being a better clown he needs to become a really good engineer. Because that's fucking stupid.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-13T05:19:24+00:00

Let the day drinking begin. My housekeeper just left, I have a bottle of rum in the freezer & I’m loving the squinchy sound of walking barefoot on the freshly cleaned marble floor.

slackforce · 2023-09-13T05:40:43+00:00

An actual dead alien.

What if this was real? Everyone's ayy lmaoing but this poor motherfucker left a wife and daughter to explore our little shithole and we can't stop laughing at his dumb face.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-13T06:22:34+00:00

I'm laughing at the idea of a Chad with a micro dick. Lol genetic mismatch. I told my bf about it and he says he doesn't think it happens because word would get out too quickly and ruin his reputation

dela_man10 · 2023-09-13T06:30:18+00:00

Dating as a man is waaay harder than women here think it is but somewhat easier than the men here make it out to be

IF

you ignore the virtue signalling advice you get. I was told growing up to dress better and from myself, work hard at my career, approach women etc. You also can’t be average in every area .

Think about it for a moment. You’re telling me that there’s NOTHING about you that sticks out? It doesn’t have to be your looks but at least you’re intelligent, good at an instrument, sport, confident etc.

In my case I’m in shape (women guess that I’m a personal trainer) and perceived seen as intelligent and ambitious (career wise). I also dress simply but well.

You’ll still lose out to Chad in most cases but on the odd occasion you will beat him out or still get attention.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-13T06:34:41+00:00

do you ever see someone on the street and imagine your entire life with them?

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-13T06:50:11+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/s/SmT8snZeRG

The biggest problem with this bundle of stupidity is that way too many guys in the comments actually agree with it. The next biggest problem is that way too many Women actually think like this. I feel bad for her boys that she's raising

DivineDaedra · 2023-09-13T07:09:58+00:00

As the comment I was going to reply to was deleted I must simply shout my response into the void…

I think brain chemistry is definitely the culprit for depressive disorders, and the widespread efficacy of SSRI/SNRIs suggests that serotonin is involved. If it isn’t, my next best guess is the theory that they work because serotonin impacts how we experience emotions. Whether it turns out people who respond best to SSRI/SNRIs do so because of a deficiency or because our brains need more serotonin than a non-depressed brain to produce the same results remains to be seen.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-13T07:34:13+00:00

What PPD men need to accept.

Women always win in the end. Whether they want to fuck around, get married (to Chad or some other high value man) or be single they always win. It’s impossible to lose in the dating game as a woman. Just learn to accept this and move on with your life. Also if you’re looking for love in a relationship as a man then you’ve already lost.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-13T07:42:31+00:00

I'm usually against body count hysteria but this shit is funny

https://reddit.com/r/SipsTea/s/QxWnGCSqTh

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-09-13T07:48:32+00:00

Someone in here thought I was a bot yesterday, lol. That's a first for me.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-13T07:56:57+00:00

Is there a market for plain looking girls? I want a man to truly want me the way that men want hot girls. Maybe some men like girls that don’t get too much attention. Maybe men will have enough bad experiences with hot girls that they’ll date someone who is not hot? I wouldn’t know, I don’t get the chance to talk to men all that often. I’d just imagine that there’s gotta be a few men out there who really want a plain/not hot girl. I can’t turn myself into a hot girl, my facial structure does not mach. I have much more soft features.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-13T08:22:34+00:00

Q4RP:

Have you noticed any sort of "blackpillification" of TRP, either in its teachings, individuals or general attitude? If so, how do you feel about it?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-13T10:21:45+00:00

I don’t think I can day drink to excess without some company. Fun & a social life are my prime objectives.

Experiment: I’m thinking of knocking on the door of one of my neighbors to see if they’ll hang out with me.

Do I ask 1) meditative monk 2) do gooder/intellectual I really like or 3) hedonistic Chad

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-13T10:28:22+00:00

Q: What is a "woman moment"?

A: I (18f) fantasize about the guy (18m) that used to bully me : confessions (reddit.com)

CringeButCorrect · 2023-09-13T10:45:04+00:00

I don't understand. If I had all those negative views on women, I wouldn't date. I'd see escorts, because knowingly building a connection with someone with all those negive traits would be insane to me. I'd see escorts to deal with sex drive and call it a day.

4SSh01e · 2023-09-13T11:22:41+00:00

After being here for a few years, I have noticed how the narratives have shifted around so many things, let me illustrate the one surrounding average men having great difficulty in dating. It went from:

You are struggling because you don't do the bare minimum (shower, brush your teeth, wear clean clothes etc) -> you are a misogynist and women can smell it -> you are only going after Stacie's -> you are actually not average, but below average because the average men I know have no problems dating.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-09-13T11:37:14+00:00

Being this average looking dude is like a weird world of invisibility.

Women in my life from aunts to randos seem to have their weird view of how men’s lives are based on hallmark movies and lifetime tv shows.

So when I tell them I went to target to grab some food or went to a carnival they think “oh maybe you’ll bump into someone”. No.

Me and the other dudes are invisible. Which is nice I can skip lines sometimes. But there’s no “meet cutes” that happens.

Going to coffee shops means I talk to the barista for something to drink and then no one talks to anyone for hours.

Women can play this game of passive attraction cause they’re not invisible.

But for dudes we actively have to break that invisibility by functionally forcing conversation.

Which then you get the response of imagine an invisible person pops into existence.

For some it’s a very interesting series of events and they’re happy and for others it comes off as a shock.

It’s interesting. Thankfully I decided to just get an arranged marriage and skip this whole process.

potoricco · 2023-09-13T12:29:25+00:00

"Women are loved unconditionally"

Until she doesnt want to have sex with you

Until she's too old

Until her body changes

Until she has no kids

Until you find her unattractrive

Until she doesn't live to please you anymore

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-13T12:59:52+00:00

Having loose skin from weight loss absolutely sucks, but surgery seems terrifying

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-13T13:01:26+00:00

Woman traveled to another country for Chad. I bet she swipes left on men she should be liking.

https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/16e3uj4/i_f20_traveled_to_another_country_to_meet_him_m24/

hannahg000 · 2023-09-13T13:02:19+00:00

i think i will need to marry a finance bro because i have no understanding of money

UneastAji · 2023-09-13T13:08:12+00:00

Daily reminder:

Sex is a marital duty, lack of sex is abandonment.
Lack of sex is equivalent to cheating, both are relationship scams
Men deserve reproductive choices, child support is a scam unless it is combined with rights over the kid
Incels have issues getting sex, Femcels have issues getting commitment, women who are 25 and can't keep a man for more than a year are femcels. Ability to get sex doesn't make a woman not a femcel.
Volcels don't exist, volcels are just high standard people with an ego who think they chose to fail. You're an incel if you fail, regardless of voluntarily or not.
Make up, angles, filters, ect... Are women's way of lying, they're not improvements, they're not servicing men, they're servicing women's greed.

demedermidimi · 2023-09-13T13:14:57+00:00

how tf do you debate with people who insist average man and incel are equivalents

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-13T13:20:09+00:00

Woman wears makeup

Some guy: I like Women without makeup

Woman doesn't wear makeup

Same guy: why do you look so tired?

4SSh01e · 2023-09-13T13:23:27+00:00

Are you guys following the Mexican disclosure surrounding aliens?

hannahg000 · 2023-09-13T13:29:11+00:00

now that i’m thinking about it, how did all of those middle age women think a nigerian prince wanted to marry them? and why would a prince need you to wire transfer thousands of dollars?

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-13T13:35:23+00:00

A lot more guys need to be adopting an "I'd rather be single than date some crazy chick for the rest of my life" mentality. That'd fix a lot of their problems

demedermidimi · 2023-09-13T13:36:13+00:00

what's my league if I never get approached but i pulled a chadlite 6'4" boyfriend

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-13T13:44:01+00:00

Why don’t the men over 40 who claim to be “young at heart” and use that as an excuse to only date 25 year old women also date women over 40 who claim to be “young at heart”? You both are young at heart, so what’s the problem?

waterfall_tycoon · 2023-09-13T13:51:19+00:00

another day of rotting my brain on this godforsaken sub instead of working. oh well, matter of time before i get fired. worth it

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-13T13:54:05+00:00

Sometimes I’m afraid to share my interests because I don’t want to get called a pick-me by women and shit on or condescendingly talked to by men. I don’t ride dirt bikes or have an interest in old 4WDs because I want the attention of men, it’s just what I like. But women will call me a pick-me. Some men will interrogate me about it and try to get me stuck in some “gotcha” situation. Or they say I know nothing and I’m not really into it. And shit on my vehicle.

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-13T14:13:34+00:00

Yet another age-gap post on Reddit with the same arguments back and forth. With both genders defending their preferences and shaming the other for being predatory or jealous.

Why are Redditors like this? How do they muster the energy?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/16guptz/either_18_is_old_enough_or_it_isnt/

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-13T14:23:34+00:00

Do mods have any intention of banning post promoting steroids (a substance know to make young men drop dead of stroke, cardiac arrest, heart attacks and aneurisms) in this to the males here?

bsmith440 · 2023-09-13T14:31:14+00:00

Q4W. Why do women take the following compliment of "you look better without makeup" so harshly? It was asked on the askwomen sub what they would reply back. Every woman had a rude and disrespectful comment. I've NEVER heard a man say that without it being a genuine compliment to a woman's natural buety.

The main issue boils down to a lack of or poor communication, but the women just took it 0-100, even saying they would insult the looks of the person who said it.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-13T14:31:53+00:00

Added HIIT to my routine this week
Approached a few gym bunnies - They were taken but we had great convos.
Recruiting new hosts for my social group
Created new VIP group from my social group
Building up a side business
2 Dates planned for the weekend
Reading Reality Transurfing to help keep improving my mindset

Lot of work to do, but we're making progress one day at a time.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-13T14:33:13+00:00

Bro, before you " g0 4 theErAPy", ask yourself whether it will sky rocket your SMV (your looks, status and wealth).

If not, get your beta ass back in the gym, start a business or get a better job.

Don't be a loser.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-13T21:09:16+00:00

True respect can only come via fear. If you don't fear someone to some degree, you don't really respect them because you know there will be no consequences for not doing so

John_Oakman · 2023-09-13T21:47:09+00:00

If an appeal to nature requires/expects the losing segments of the population to simple take it peacefully instead of lashing out like cornered rats then it is a conditional appeal to nature, for the construct in keeping the baser violent instincts of males/men in check (or channeled) is a social one.

And if social framework is a part of nature then modernity is merely an extension of nature.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-13T21:48:54+00:00

What do you guys think of this length of nails?

I know long nails are kind of cumbersome, but I've been thinking about getting some professional nails that look nice and hide the fact that I'm a huge nail biter.

gabejohn · 2023-09-13T21:50:01+00:00

It's always insane to me how so many people live completely different realities, even if on paper they should live mostly the same lives. A mid looking guy from a middle income family will live a completely different reality than his female counterpart.

People even could be born as the same person but live completely different realities because of a combination of dumb luck and how small differences early can lead to big differences later.

TapeEater6969 · 2023-09-13T22:02:56+00:00

American women are characteristically frigid and materialistic. The man who 'has his way' with an American girl is under a material obligation to her. The woman has granted a material favour. In cases of divorce American law overwhelmingly favours the woman. American women will divorce readily enough when they see a better bargain. It is frequently the case in America that a woman will be married to one man but already 'engaged' to a future husband, the man she plans to marry after a profitable divorce.”
― Julius Evola

(no opinion on this just think funny)

baiser_vole · 2023-09-13T22:03:04+00:00

Q4A: How would you rate her? I say 8.5?

If you are Asian, please say you are Asian. My male celebrity crush got around 5-6 from non-Asians and 8 on an Asian scale.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-13T22:03:52+00:00

Okay I'm starting to believe certain people here might be RPers in disguise making strawman statements so that other RPers can go "LOOK AT THIS STRAWMAN STATEMENT, THEY ACTUALLY BELIEVE [very silly kind of fucked up thing]".

potoricco · 2023-09-13T22:05:25+00:00

She’s so me

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-13T22:17:28+00:00

Reminder to men that if you weren't a woman's first love, she will always be comparing you negatively to him.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-13T22:19:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/16hnwrv/some_women_are_way_too_comfortable_telling_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Female neuroticism, exhibit #19283

baiser_vole · 2023-09-13T22:21:45+00:00

Q4A

woman 1 (actress)

woman 2 (model/actress)

woman 3 (model)

woman 4 (actress)

woman 5 (idol)

You can either say which one is the most attractive or rate each. I'll have one for men eventually.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-13T22:27:54+00:00

Did you complete your set of deodorant side raises to failure today?

Puzzleheaded_Sign_46 · 2023-09-13T22:28:05+00:00

asking for advice:

im (23f) about to go and do study abroad for four months in another country. i broke up with my boyfriend (23m) a few weeks ago, he has broken up with me twice before when i complained to him about our relationship, but we got back together both times.

we’ve had the same problem in the six or so months we’ve been seeing each other: he’s always busy/dealing with some personal issues and is just v focused on himself and said issues. i would always listen to his problems, ask about them, give him advice, encouragement, we’d talk about him all the time.

but ive been dealing with serious family issues myself, the whole time we’ve been together and he never asks about them, he rarely even asked me how i was in general without being prodded. sometimes i would talk about an issue of mine or just generally feeling down, and he’d just look at me silently until we went back to talking about him. when i asked about it, he said he just didn’t know what to say, but it’s just frustrating as im a human being like him, and nobody taught me how to be supportive to him, i just do it. i genuinely believe he doesn’t have malicious intent, but it’s frustrating how everything is about him.

he’s also been so preoccupied with his family issues that he rarely had time to actually spend w me, and me complaining about this was what caused us to break up the first two times. we got back together, but this third and final time i ended it because i had a big family emergency, my sister was in the ICU and when i reached out to him for support, he just got annoyed that id been spam calling him from the hospital, and when i told him what happened to her, he refused to ask me how she was, and gave the excuse that it’s because id made him so annoyed with the calls (even though he’d not once asked how she was before though she’d been sick and in hospital the entire time we’d been together)

aside from this support stuff, and him not being v sensitive, he’s been a fun boyfriend and i get along with him so well, and could spend days talking to him. i love being with him in person and he’s just a relaxing presence and we have the same sense of humour and take on many things. he’s really smart and i just feel like i could never be bored of him.

so i ended things recently because of what happened with my sister, it was unforgivable and he never apologised, and i just felt like i had to. but i still love him, and have told him so, and i know that when i get back i do want to try again and see if he’s improved as a bf if maybe by then, he’s not dealing with sm stuff.

am i being stupid? should i just let go of him forever? and my other worry is if he may not want to get back together if he thinks i spent study abroad sleeping around and stuff. before we were ever romantic, i talked about going and said since id pretty much always been in relationships i want to use the time im gone to just go out a ton and have fun and have hookups for the first time, but i know that id much rather be with him, even if it’s long distance, than do that.

but i also know that it would drive me crazy to deal with his bad communication skills while staying loyal to him and always asking about him, knowing he doesn’t do the same for me. what would you do if you were me?

potoricco · 2023-09-13T22:34:33+00:00

My mermaid 🧜‍♀️ 😍🥰

potoricco · 2023-09-13T22:37:32+00:00

Am*rican food is poison

You are what you eat

TSquaredRecovers · 2023-09-13T22:41:04+00:00

Why is there a thread every single week on n-counts? Did there used to be a different topic every week or something?

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-13T22:52:35+00:00

Fat people have no excuses

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-13T22:57:37+00:00

Me: logs into ppd mega thread First comment: “Fat people have no excuses” Me: 🚶‍♂️

gabejohn · 2023-09-13T23:10:24+00:00

Would you rather live as a:

38 year old virgin 5"5 tech billionaire American man or:
5"7 38 year old low class Chinese male citizen with a loving wife? You make ends meet and assume you're not sick (nor is your family).

baiser_vole · 2023-09-13T23:12:16+00:00

Q4A Male version. Rate or say who is attractive/not attractive.

man 1 (actor)

man 2 (idol)

man 3 (famous person)

man 4 (actor)

man 5 (actor)

man 6 (idol)

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-13T23:13:57+00:00

the biggest lie women can believe is that men set beauty standards. if men set beauty standards being beautiful would be EASY. men cannot even tell when a women is wearing makeup or not. they cannot even tell the difference between a femboy and a woman.

also applies in reverse if ur a dude who thinks women wear makeup to trick and seduce men I will laugh at you. tricking men will only ever be the side hustle of makeup idk

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-13T23:29:00+00:00

Isn't it hilarious how the very same women who gleefully claim that the average man doesn't struggle with dating throw a fit when presented with the fact that the average woman doesn't get raped?

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-09-13T23:39:16+00:00

You really can't deny that status matters.

If you get into a disagreement with someone on Twitter, people will shit on you if you have a small amount of followers, even if you're right.

Stupid, but happens all the time.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-13T23:42:56+00:00

Over the past week I’ve had the worst cystic acne of my life appear from nowhere. Anyone here used accutane before?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-13T23:57:09+00:00

I can't stop laughing at a penis being a cum scooper.

I don't believe the theory. And don't care go to searching for other theories.

I do find it fucking hilarious. I told my boyfriend to "scoop me later".

I just keep picturing one of those dog ball thrower things. It scoops up the wet ball so you don't have to touch it and can throw it again.

I'm cackling over this.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-09-14T00:18:35+00:00

Q4M: What makes a young pretty women being in a committed relationship to a average man "worth it" without marriage? She is disposable at any time while her youth and beauty are being eaten up by a man that will offer her nothing, now or in the future.

Example: Man works a job that makes a average salary that is probably what he will make for the duration of his career with maybe some raises, nothing crazy. This man doesn't want to get married legally ever.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-09-14T00:23:19+00:00

4channer hypothetically shows the average PPD woman facial attractiveness. Overconfidence goes a LONG way lmao. https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/74724203#bottom

potoricco · 2023-09-14T00:28:11+00:00

WHERE IS u/LILITHOFBABYLON

potoricco · 2023-09-14T01:10:06+00:00

Mom says I can’t go to the renaissance fair

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-14T01:15:32+00:00

It's unbelievable how much damage a small group of people operating in academia can do to society

AnotherStandUser23 · 2023-09-14T01:15:49+00:00

I complimented a woman today and instead of spraying me with pepper spray and kicking me in my balls as she fled away screaming for help she actually smiled, blushed and said thank you. Weird times we live in.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-14T01:43:51+00:00

Alot of features people say looks ugly or not good are just not European features. When all the beauty symbols are European, you get warped to the idea that what you have is ugly and " not normal"

potoricco · 2023-09-14T01:55:50+00:00

It’s none of my business but I’m so TIRED of my brothers habits. He’s lazy as shit, doesn’t eat anything if it’s not processed food, microwave pancakes, or poptarts. His grades are subpar because he doesn’t study. In fact I could go on and on about both of my brothers omggg. I don’t hate them but I’m just tired of them getting to be imperfect just because they’re boys

potoricco · 2023-09-14T01:59:03+00:00

In addition my grandmother has these really weird boymom behaviors, she treats my brothers like babies basically, and the worst part is that she expects me to treat them the same way 💀 Like mentally I don’t think she’s processed that she lives in america now that I think about it. Basically with my dad it was like, your mom does everything for you until you get married, and then your wife (my mom) will do everything for you. But here it doesn’t work like that and she is really screwing them up I think. At 12 and 13 they don’t know how to sweep a floor or basic cooking. This sounds bad but sometimes I actually dislike being in public spaces with them because they can’t do ANYTHING and it’s fucking embarrassing

potoricco · 2023-09-14T02:09:18+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/s/34MqiBz5mQ

At this point I only want to get married so I can have a wedding + children. No such thing as a good spouse

purplish_possum · 2023-09-14T02:12:41+00:00

Dialog from Casino Royal:

Girl: Why can't nice guys be more like you.

Bond: Because then they'd be bad.

Girl: But so much more interesting.

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-09-14T02:13:52+00:00

Poor guy

potoricco · 2023-09-14T02:23:59+00:00

The thing I really hate about trying to find fandom(?) subreddits for female celebrities is they are ALWAYS always filled with horny guys and not actual fans. Which is so odd because genuine fan spaces are super easy to find on every other form of social media

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-14T02:45:02+00:00

You want to passport to Philippines because of your weird tradwife fixation

I wanna passport to Ireland because of hot redheads that drink like sailors and cuss like truck drivers while having great sense of humour

We ain't the same

/S

(Tbf i don't need to passport,i don't need a passport to go to Ireland just my ID lol)

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-14T02:47:29+00:00

Y'all I gotta put a name tag on my cat's Carrier and I need some ideas

So far all I've got is "peanuts contains unit" but that seems boring

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