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Peacesquad · 2023-09-01T19:55:09+00:00

For the ladies that suck cock, what do you like most about it

Peacesquad · 2023-08-30T16:47:31+00:00

Q4Women: big hard dick but he’s emotionally abusive? He makes 6 figures and takes care of all the expenses but has 10 other sidechicks? Amazing at emotional connecting but he doesn’t believe in women’s rights? Or a smoking hot 6 pack hunk but he’s scared of his own shadow?

Serene_hex · 2023-08-30T12:32:06+00:00

Something a lot of women, and society by and large, don't understand is that since men are responsible for initiating conversations and relationships, there will inevitably be awkward instances that occur during the initial stages of greeting. This doesn't mean men are deliberately trying to creep women out, it's just a fact of a matter that any process will have defects and less than perfect standards.

The only substitute to that is arranged marriages where all creepy approaches are eliminated, but of-course we don't want the return of such match-making.

Uglypostwall · 2023-08-29T13:41:59+00:00

Can the OFs girls stop sending me invitations? I feel like killing them now.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-30T12:29:41+00:00

Yesterday I was really busy so I ordered Instacart but was in such a rush that I forgot to put the groceries away. I am wondering if there is a way I can get a refund without screwing over the person who delivered my groceries yesterday.

social_mules_alt · 2023-08-30T12:24:35+00:00

This is your daily n count, autism, passport bros post.

Serene_hex · 2023-08-30T12:11:59+00:00

Daily reminder that you're not a real man if a feminist doesn't call you insecure/fragile.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-30T11:30:18+00:00

Men today are shamed for WANTING to have sex. Women are shamed for HAVING a lot of sex. In the end, sexual desires being shameful absolutely apply to both genders, just in different ways, but imo it's about equal. It's a myth that women have more shame attached to their sexuality, I don't think there is any tangible evidence for that, it's just a simplistic outlook that only factors in something specific. It was maybe true in the past.

As a man, I literally just need to say "I never had sex, that sucks, I really wish I could" and people, especially women will cringe and look at me weird. Even if they don't fundamentally hate men having sexual desires in general, expressing stuff like that has some HEAVY connotations at this point, so... yea.

The very fact that there are still a ton of feminist women who refuses to believe that men are sort of more eager shows that women despise male sexuality and they demand to be pleased in a way that the man has to pretend that he isn't different from her. Think of the classic pizza delivery guy porn trope, the dude who is randomly greeted by a naked woman, the dude who "lucks out". The fact that these kinds of fantasies are appealing to men is something that women wholeheartedly despise, and that's as fucking blatantly obvious as it could be. They probably did since the beginning of civilization.

Men seem hornier because they are hornier, not because this "lack of shame" bullshit myth. An entire gender despising how you work is impossible not to result in shame, and even in the past, no amount of "controlling women" could have fully supressed that. We were always speaking the same language, and for a long time we had the capacity of somewhat comprehending what the other person feels and thinks. Shame is attached to sexuality for EVERYONE, and it always was. Actually, these days are shamed more on the grand scheme of things imo.

UneastAji · 2023-08-30T10:41:35+00:00

Daily reminder that your sources and facts are shit. If you come debating here expecting hard science you're at the wrong place. In facts, debates can't happen with hard science.

Learn to properly debate instead of trying to insist your article is a scientific fact while other people's aren't.

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RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-29T12:01:35+00:00

First?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-29T12:09:33+00:00

If you can't handle being treated like a man, don't behave like one.

If you can't handle being treated like a woman, don't behave like one.

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-29T13:09:09+00:00

What is worser a bad date or no date?

I think no date is boring, a bad date will make the day more interesting.

Interesting_Disk_130 · 2023-08-29T13:09:25+00:00

Whenever my female colleagues ask for help I find myself more motivated to help them whereas when the men ask me it's not as motivating, I mean I still do it in both cases but I can see that if enough conditions were to be added the men won't reach the threshold and I'll just help the women. What is this? Seeking female attention? Women are wonderful effect? Empathy gap? Men out group bias?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-29T13:11:19+00:00

I didn't abuse the block function.

AngeCruelle · 2023-08-29T13:13:17+00:00

You ever just wake up some mornings craving Three Days Grace?

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-29T13:22:52+00:00

Look what men on Reddit consider a 6/10 woman https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fexternal-preview.redd.it%2FMDi666twyR4qMosgECDbvuWVILssO5J3gOL_rLmxZ1E.jpg%3Fs%3D54452de367a24a212c3e734b2e85ccb202225173&xpromo_edp=enabled

Versus a 6/10 man

https://static.fjcdn.com/large/pictures/2b/2b/2b2b73_5558901.jpg

The 6/10 women look like models and the 6/10 men look like schloomps

ashpr0ulx · 2023-08-29T13:28:56+00:00

i’m usually an incredibly non-confrontational person but one of the guys at work got in my face today and i lost it and told him about himself until he stormed out and left

everyone was in shock because i’ve worked here ten years and no one’s ever heard me scream lol

also there’s a hurricane hurtling toward me

kochIndustriesRussia · 2023-08-29T13:39:10+00:00

If I just went over the border into the US (passport required) to find my mate.... am I still a passport bro?

demedermidimi · 2023-08-29T13:53:31+00:00

wish it was socially acceptable to ask everyone i know to tell me honestly am i thin. when i see pics of women my height and weight it's a mixed bag

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-29T14:03:39+00:00

I think baking is such a weirdly hard skill to master. Like, the food I make is good, but I cannot manage to decorate stuff. I just made the ugliest cake lmao

babazuki · 2023-08-29T14:04:54+00:00

Am I a dick? I know I'm an alcoholic, but has anyone just thought that I'm too asshole-ish with my comments if you've interacted with me?

AspiringMogger · 2023-08-29T14:08:09+00:00

Slept with a girl today who was in a 5 year relationship with a guy who is currently working in a different country. She has also been seeing some other guy for a couple of weeks and felt worse about betraying that guy than her 5 year boyfriend.

Relationships are such a joke

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-29T14:08:35+00:00

I love turning an argument

Women who wait at the finish line for men get less love/respect from those same men

Does this mean if a man finds love later in life he will never be fullfilled bc he will always think she's after her money?

ppd: NO, NOT LIKE THAT

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-29T14:17:20+00:00

The left when an 18 year old is in a relationship with a 25 year old

"SHE'S A CHILD!! THAT'S PREDATORY!!"

The left when republicans want to raise the voting age to 25

"YOU CAN'T DO THAT! 18 IS A FULLY FUNCTIONING ADULT!!!"

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-29T14:24:01+00:00

another turnable post

CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.

does this mean women are right in saying that men are LV cheaters?

ppd: NO OF COURSE NOT

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-29T14:26:42+00:00

How old were you when you drove a car for the first time?

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-29T14:31:51+00:00

Carnival is so funny cos you see all the people supposedly in happy relationships cheating smh

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-29T14:32:20+00:00

A simple guide on why ‘Nice Guys’ are terrible:

They’re never actually nice. They’re just less attractive douchbags jealous of the more attractive ones.
Most of those guys are mad that looks matter to women, but rarely does looks not matter to those guys.
They misinterpret what women say or truly thought mommy should have taught his 5 year old self how to date like an adult.
They choose to hang around pieces of shit despite being “a good person” and want women who date pieces of shit, which is a red flag.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-29T14:41:23+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-08-29T14:41:38+00:00

Had the most fucked dream ever in a while. Shit felt so real lmao

Infammo · 2023-08-29T14:42:21+00:00

If you ever hear a woman complaining that her partner "stopped putting the effort in" after they were together for a while ask to see a picture of her when they started dating.

potoricco · 2023-08-29T14:47:14+00:00

My English teacher this year is only a few years older than us and it’s soo cute

potoricco · 2023-08-29T14:49:58+00:00

Men’s problems:

Being childless

Being alone

Being leftover

Being unmarried

These were never female issues, just things that people projected onto us to make us more insecure

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-29T15:01:09+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Taurus.

The hard working, loyal one. Well, loyal up to a point. She often is good looking, cute, sexy, and smart AND aware. She's got a lot going for her, but there are a few downsides. She's not terribly imaginative, she can be a bit stuck up, she can be a little too materialistic (and that's coming from a capricorn man!) but she is great. She does have a tender sensitive side, often overly so.

She has a sturdy personality. She can be a bit boy crazy in her youth, she has the vigor of a teenage boy, and interest in sex, but often she tries to be a "good girl". Her sexual awakening usually occurs later in life. In the meanwhile tho she indulges. She is prone to indulging in all manner.

She isn't often single in life, you will end up encountering her in a situationship, with a boyfriend or married. You can still hit on her, unless she is completely and madly deeply in love, she will entertain offers. She is a romantic at heart and 99% of the time the person she is socially attached to isn't the close to the prince charming she envisioned in her dreams. She cares about passionate love and security of the future. In my humble opinion, she is balanced, a rare quality to find in a woman.

Sex with her is energetic and eager. She's will be submissive to the right man, and could be totally down with extra partners, gender not mattering. She is straightforward and real, a refreshing counterpoint to the majority of modern women.

Recommended approach: Playful and direct, fun and passionate! You can get away with a lot of flirting and innuendo, it'll make her feel sexually seen and feminine. She will cheat if a good enough opportunity arises, she seldoms goes hunting for it. The juice IS worth the squeeze with her, but even if she's crazy about you remember, she is a woman after all and she is loyal ... 100% to herself. But if you fall under the 100, she's probably one of the most sexually loyal women on the planet, if that's important to you.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-29T15:06:36+00:00

I think women cheat on men more. It’s so easy for them now more than ever and also women get bored so easily. Even when the guy treats them well🤷🏽

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-29T15:06:52+00:00

This guy is so lost and I feel so embarrassed for him.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-29T15:13:15+00:00

A bonus second post today.

Just saw this video on youtube about men and women NOT needing each other anymore and felt it was share worthy.

A couple of things really stood out to me, some not said out loud:

On the individual level, women, for maybe the first time in all of human history, doesn't need a man. That necessity really drove man and women into each others lives, because without that union it was game over for both. With more and more women gaining more and more wealth and power, a BIG majority of women would prefer NOT to entangle themselves with men.

That is the core of what's going on, there is only a small minority of women who are romantically and sexually interested, and, willing to engage with men. What I think the RP gets really wrong is that there is this idea of abundance, that there is a large contingent of desirable women who can be sexually and romantically interested with any one man. And that simply isn't true, desirable women who are keen on men are a small, tiny, MINORITY of the population. Take out the ones that are "taken" or preoccupied with enough men in their lives ( situationships, relationships ( either mono or poly) or actively not looking, and that tiny minority of women who COULD be engaging with you is infinitesimally smaller.

I believe this is the hard truth to swallow. We are in a post abundance world, we are now fighting for a small grain of rice in a post nuclear apocalyptic dating and mating world.

Thoughts? Do you agree or see it differently? I'm particularly curious if you are a you adult woman, who is sexually and romantically interested in men and currently open to that, how do you feel the dating market is?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-29T15:31:14+00:00

Red flags from guys I see;

Saying they want a feminine woman and their definition of feminine is being a hot servant.
Brings up women being submissive unironically.
Brings up single moms at random.
“Im a nice guy”

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-29T15:40:03+00:00

I've never understood the whole "Yeah well I doubt those women want to date you anyway!" Whenever a guy says he doesn't like dating a certain demographic of women.

You hear yourself right?

"You know that group of women you don't want to date? Well they don't wanna date you EITHER!! How do you like that huh?"

Umm.......isn't that the point? Why would I want them interested in me?

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-29T15:41:47+00:00

Somewhere far far away, in an alternate universe:

Us men are independent now, we can cook our own food, we can clean up our homes, we can sew, we can bake cookies, and we are fashionable. We can put cute little pink ribbons in our hair and we can get all our sexual needs fulfilled with our femboy buddies. As a woman, it's not enough that you just exist as a functional adult anymore. What do you bring to the table, what would you add to our lives?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-29T15:53:26+00:00

I'm seeing a lot of "RP is so embarrassing and doesn't work" posts here. I wholeheartedly disagree with that premise. It has worked wonders in my life, and in the life of others I have seen first hand.

Today I'm willing to entertain being devil's advocate. To you people who look down on RP and claim it doesn't work. Ok, fine. Why don't YOU develop a cohesive and total praxeology full of literature and nuance to help the median sexual and romantically unsuccessful man become more effective. Let's hear it from you so called intelligentsia, you experts of heterosexual mating and dating.

SorryEm · 2023-08-29T15:54:43+00:00

I'm honestly impressed at the verbal intellect of women. "pick-me", "bangmaid". Fucking nuts. That's like calling a husband a "dildoATM".

VTHokie2020 · 2023-08-29T15:59:31+00:00

I feel really bad for women because they get harassed, catcalled, followed, etc. more than men. But the whole "muh workplace sexism" falls on deaf ears.

If I could choose, I'd rather be a woman in the workplace than a man these days, at least in the US/Europe. Exclusive resources, employee groups, scholarships, positions, etc. for women? Women achieving C-suite is notable and encouraged?

Sign me up! I'd love to have all that tacit support for an immutable fundamental characteristic assigned at birth.

AngeCruelle · 2023-08-29T16:00:10+00:00

Do you think this man woke up this morning and expected to go viral on Reddit for having some really nice assets?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-29T16:04:35+00:00

Bro, don't be delusional. The Fat acceptance and plus size movement is for fat women only not lazy obese guys. Get jacked, get fit, get shredded, become toxic

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-08-29T16:06:41+00:00

If Incels really believed in the whole blackpill ideology and think the reason for their lack of success with women comes down to their genetic shouldn't they be mad at their dads for reproducing instead of random women?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-29T16:16:31+00:00

Why do some people here want their partner to need them? Women don’t particularly need men in their day-to-day lives, what’s wrong about that? We want men. Isn’t that better?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-29T16:17:10+00:00

Why do Nice Guys only see hot assholes with girls? Because that’s what these “Nice Guys” want: To be the hot asshole fucking a bunch of (hot) women. So why would they care that normal guys have loving relationships with one woman? To nice guys, that’s boring.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-29T16:31:34+00:00

The blue pill is a lie. Women don't like guys with dad bods, beer guts and round faces

Here's your confirmation; r/LadyBoners.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-08-29T16:41:14+00:00

CMV: Red pillers fully believes in the just world fallacy when it comes to women with high body counts.

SorryEm · 2023-08-29T16:55:50+00:00

I'm so glad I'm not a plantation slave. Imagine the girl you like rejecting you for a slavemaster.

MysterySolverDog · 2023-08-29T16:58:22+00:00

If you had a bad outcome happen to you and you're bitter about it, you deserved the bad outcome. But not for these other areas which I feel much more sympathetic towards. Everyone else can totally mindread you and knows you're a terrible person. I'm going to make bad faith arguments about this area you're sensitive about and insult you and if you respond in turn I'm going to claim the world was just all along.

shmupsy · 2023-08-29T16:59:27+00:00

1 in 38 girls in your dating pool has an only fans?

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeY3vg1r0KrvuyPOi7T39eA/community?lb=Ugzr-rZWvockQXFZM1x4AaABCQ

Maffioze · 2023-08-29T17:01:03+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/98v6nclwy2lb1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9f3aaadc8aa1b985c4c0cc670459b38929b9c079

Willow-girl · 2023-08-29T17:03:46+00:00

We were cleaning out a shed when my man came across an old broken fan belt. He yelled and threw it in my direction. My brain registered "Snake!" and I damn near shat myself, which he found extremely funny. Me, not so much. Harrumph!

Inside every man is a 12-year-old boy who will behave badly if the opportunity arises ...

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-08-29T17:07:12+00:00

Why would she post this? What a friggin weirdo.

https://preview.redd.it/0eo9p6zzz2lb1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0426b76334d9dc6973d6b8059d1303bf8551b4d

meteorness123 · 2023-08-29T17:20:23+00:00

In women; hypersexuality, mental issues and father absence are all tightly intertwined.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-29T17:32:32+00:00

Im so tired of the media and dumb people promoting codependency as romantic and healthy.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-29T17:35:18+00:00

Unless you castrate all men and deprive them of their testosterone that makes them naturally more competitive, a "fair world" will always have more men at the top than women

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-29T17:41:13+00:00

I see more authoritarians demanding that people wearing masks now that a new covid variant has come around. Guess what, it's been 3 years and nobody wants to hide like cowards anymore. If you want to live in fear of the world, be my guest, don't try to force others to be your slaves

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-29T17:42:25+00:00

Another red flag to avoid: People who keep using “need” when they just WANT something. I can do without the spoiled brat with a sense of entitlement. No my fault they didnt learn needs and wants arent the same.

demedermidimi · 2023-08-29T17:46:45+00:00

dick from a gentle, soft spoken man goes crazy. just sayin

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-29T18:33:44+00:00

does bluepill just mean anything redpill disagrees with cause it really sounds like RP are just arguing against normal people most of the time. you don't think women prioritize looks? you goddamn bluepiller. you think women care about personality and kindness? a filthy feminist. you think... women not bad??!!? karl marx himself. you goddamn liberal.

are you guys ever embarrassed acting like this or no thoughts clapback like a 14yo on twitter

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-29T18:46:59+00:00

Men leaving their wives and children for a younger hotter woman and starting another family is normal. It's just following the basic biological urge.

Woman wanting one man to provide superior genes for her offspring, and another man to provide superior upbringing to Chad's kids. Well that's also normal, a basic biological urge.

Following normal biological urges limits the size of our society to a tribe. In order to grow the society to cities, countries, civilizations we have to suppress our basic biological urges. Not suppressing those urges leads to becoming another polygamous. country. (civil wars).

But... how come women get all the heat for not holding back and following their basic urges.

And men are being justified for doing the same thing?

Shouldn't both genders be equally responsible?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-29T18:52:17+00:00

More red flags: People who use academic terms when they’re not in that field nor have any reason to speak academically.

This is just another form of stupid people using big words thinking it’ll make them sound smart.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-29T18:56:35+00:00

AFBB is partially true, some promiscuous women do settle down for “betas”.

Do women who adopt such a strategy make worse long term partners?

potoricco · 2023-08-29T18:59:24+00:00

Being in school is literally girlbreakfast girllunch and girldinner. Literally a twix bar is my lunch

potoricco · 2023-08-29T19:03:00+00:00

Have you ever had a crush on someone where you literally can’t even look at their face and you avoid them

eye_fuck · 2023-08-29T19:06:11+00:00

Seems like most people here are generally sexually liberated/open judging by my thread. Women tend to be more pro sexual liberation, than men, which is expected. But most people support it and have no-judge policy even if they don't seem to be very kinky themselves, it seems.

Lets continue discussion and find out how much kinky are people here.

What is the most kinky/perverted/extreme thing you personally like and find arousing even if you will never do it in real life?

gabejohn · 2023-08-29T19:13:52+00:00

Parents who don't give their short sons HGH should be prosecuted for child neglect. If you're a parent, please ensure your son is atleast average height for his age and immediately check up with doctors if he isn't.

If you don't, easiest way to destroy his life from the start.

Slipthe · 2023-08-29T19:19:08+00:00

What graphics card do you have?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-29T19:31:17+00:00

Q4All: If a passbort bro announces that he's leaving the country, but no one's around to hear it, is he still a passport bro?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-29T19:45:54+00:00

Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks doesn't exist.

This is a myth created to process emotions of being rejected by so-called "promiscuous women."

It's a naming calling technique to insult men who were able to achieve the one thing someone else can't. To process their emotions, they will name call and insult other men.

The so-called Alpha is applauded for having sex and ditching women. The so-called Beta is laughed at for being happy in a relationship.

potoricco · 2023-08-29T19:53:31+00:00

Still bitter that my e crush has a girlfriend

meteorness123 · 2023-08-29T19:54:20+00:00

"bluepilled chad" cries while proposing to his girlfriend

wtf, why is he crying ?

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Gi1IcErKfXc

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-29T19:56:36+00:00

Help I’m addicted to vaping

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-29T20:00:16+00:00

My musical obsession for this week is Ren. I'm late to the party, but he is playing on all of my streaming devices right now.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-29T20:03:54+00:00

There are so many fit moms in workout clothes at school pick up (myself included). Looking around I only see 3 overweight or obese women in a sea of about 40 adults.

The UMC fitness bubble is no joke.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-08-29T20:08:21+00:00

[when you realise that you arguing or being demoralised by 13 female redditors on a daily basis (120k subscribers btw)] (https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/164mrzc/code_to_filter_users_that_goes_to_any_sub_to/)

DancesWithMyr · 2023-08-29T20:14:53+00:00

What'd I miss?

princedune · 2023-08-29T20:16:39+00:00

At what age is it best to just throw in the towel if you still have had zero experience with the opposite sex, and have had zero options?

gabejohn · 2023-08-29T20:26:30+00:00

The easiest way to distinct human needs vs wants is to ask people whether they'd rather live as a poor medieval peasant with x, or as a present-day billionaire without x (with no way of using your wealth to "receive" x).

For example:

Would you rather live as a poor medieval peasant with a great friend group, or as a present-day billionaire without any friends?
Would you rather live as a poor medieval peasant but you can eat spaghetti, or as a present-day billionaire that can not eat spaghetti?

When humans are willing to give up great wealth to instead live in the most disgusting circumstances possible for a particular thing, it's safe to assume that it is a need.

And yes, all pinheads may now take their time to reply with their original "Duh uh I'd totally choose Da Spaghetti!"

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-29T20:29:34+00:00

Q4W - How do I trick women into having sex with me, only to ghost them later?

Asking for a friend.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-29T20:32:46+00:00

I realized that I'm productive and alert when I'm hungry and I can't focus well directly after having eaten.

Anybody else experience thiis ?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-29T20:37:22+00:00

i legitimately am starting to think that modern american women are a waste of time and money and i'm just better off single.

I can live an ok life being single.

potoricco · 2023-08-29T20:40:35+00:00

I want 5 kids

Slipthe · 2023-08-29T20:45:02+00:00

My male friend ended up on the "Are We Dating the Same Guy" facebook group.

Apparently he got a woman banned from Hinge for, her words "baking things off with him and he won't stop finding ways to reach out and contact me after."

His defense is that she physically assaulted him and that is why he reported her. And his form of contacting her after he found that Facebook post of him was that he paid her 2 cents on Venmo to say "You spelled 'breaking' wrong".

Thoughts?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-08-29T20:52:36+00:00

How am I supposed to break my hostility towards sex?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-29T20:55:16+00:00

Dudes be taking models as wives and then try to explain the inevitable, bad outcome with rp principles. You married a woman whose identity relies on her shell you dumb fuck. What did you expect

DerayRevan · 2023-08-30T12:09:23+00:00

All this talk about chasing women as a waste of time or viewing them as sex toys

Just proves how most people here don't what they actually talking about

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-08-30T10:11:07+00:00

So I've been thinking about what categories of single people 18 to 30 are more or less unfit for cohabitation/marriage in ways we all agree make them too unfit to regard them as normal people "missing out"

About 1 percent of America have legal issues with their freedom. Imprisoned, on bail.awaiting trial, on parole but likely to break parole, detained under mental health provisions. I think we can agree nobody expects these people to be finding someone?

About half of those 18 to 20 are just too immature to properly take care of themselves. We don't want them getting married just yet.

Asexuals. Theoretically can marry but we reasonably think of them as wise not to.

People with certain types of untreated/untreatable serious mental illness...I'm thinking crazies who yell at people in the street.

The terminally ill...if they've got someone already they want to marry as a grand gesture then fine but if they haven't they probably won't and that's reasonable to expect.

People in the process of going bankrupt are a borderline thing? I mean most reasonable people don't want them to and wouldn't count them not marrying as a bad thing but some of them do it.

Members of celibate religious orders.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-30T09:17:28+00:00

Men want women.
Women want fame, attention and wealth.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-30T07:46:50+00:00

How do Gamers not think "oh, I am a fucking loser aren't I?" when they complain that a female character in a video game isn't hot enough and mock up their own "hotter" version? Is this really the pressing issue of your life? Vidya game tiddies aren't as big as they used to be? Good Lord man.

https://reddit.com/r/Gamingcirclejerk/s/I6WYNrT3Cy

scwizard · 2023-08-30T07:07:47+00:00

I'm in my 30s, divorcing a man I spend nearly half my life with and he still lives with me. And it is hella exhausting. Everything of it.

To the back story; I was the sole breadwinner, I bought a house, paid the bills, brought food home, cleaned, did laundry 90% of the time, took care of him, the pets and everything that was necessary to have a decent life.

He....didn't. He didn't work. He never did. He didn't pay a single bill, even after I asked him to contribute. He didnt clean, even after I asked him to help he did help so poorly it was even more work after. He didn't take care of me when I needed him.

A lot of things happend early in the relationship already and I decided to focus on his words rather than what he actually did.

Crazy how effective future faking is for some guys. In my experience it's always the biggest losers who talk about how where gonna hit it really big one day. But women eat that shit up.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-30T06:57:41+00:00

Cultural misunderstandings story: “Shagging” meant something entirely different to me than the very proper British lads in Radiohead when I booked them for a performance in the 90’s. They asked what bands my company usually booked and I told them we represented a lot of Shag Bands (the dance music of the southern coastal US). They laughed and whispered among themselves. I had no idea atm that they thought I was an agent for bands that exclusively performed music to fuck to.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-08-30T06:38:46+00:00

What happened to Hazymemory?

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-30T06:21:31+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/jzdnuWALqyQ?si=UfdYvSNiEOTY0dGU

These guys are funny af 😂

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-30T06:18:00+00:00

It's funny how people are continuing to be misled and are actually believing that whole "women are happier single, old and childless" myth. It's another example of why you can't trust these articles

scwizard · 2023-08-30T06:02:15+00:00

Exvangelical, law student, just turned 25, had an IUD safely in place…pregnant.

I have to finish school, I’m halfway done.

I was raised as the daughter of a baptist preacher and went to fundamentalist college. My husband and I deconstructed after school and never looked back, but we’re still dealing with and processing through all of those emotions. I am pro choice, but I selfishly wanted to never have to make the choice myself.

Maybe the worst part of this is I can’t call my mom. She had me when she was 20 years old because of religious fundamentalism — she and my dad had a shotgun wedding. Even though I know that she always says she wished she hadn’t gotten pregnant and she sacrificed her career and life goals to have me.

Always saying you wished you never got pregnant with your daughter is such a shitty thing to do.

Does making all these sacrifices to have a successful career actually make women happy?

Like let's say you're 40 and you've made partner at a prestigious law firm. There's articles written about you in business insider about what a bad ass bitch you are. Now what? You think you'll look back on how you ended up there and not remember that you had to sacrifice a child to get to this point?

ashpr0ulx · 2023-08-30T05:43:16+00:00

rain woke me up, so now me and dog are just cuddled up, playing the hurricane waiting game

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-08-30T03:53:24+00:00

(insert favorite smug soyjak) "Why does a movement of men who want to live life without dating women because of bad experiences with them, keep talking about these bad experiences? Do they really want to go their own way?"

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-30T03:39:20+00:00

Why is anything educational so expensive???? Like, a simple Mohs hardness scale test kit just cost me 20 dollars. And don't get me started on good studies. Why are almost all of them behind a paywall? I can read smut all day for free but I can't learn about tectonic plates without a $15 monthly subscription to some Publisher? That's bullshit

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-30T02:54:05+00:00

A new idea I have for making some friendships in my new location: 1) giant vat of homemade food 2) sign in the lobby of my building “Free food, drop by @ …”. Do you think it will work?

potoricco · 2023-08-30T02:42:00+00:00

Good night

potoricco · 2023-08-30T02:41:54+00:00

“Sex work is the worlds oldest profession-“

I don’t like you

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-30T02:29:13+00:00

Nah some dudes really do have the audacity. I'm chilling with a group of dudes at my college rec, and this dude is sitting here talking about how mid some women are. Like bro, you don't fucking look good. Like bad teeth, beat ass forces, im like bro who are you. What bitches want u?

Britannia_Forever · 2023-08-30T02:15:56+00:00

Why do people like Vivek Ramaswamy aside from the fact that he is an outsider? We already tried the Republican outsider president and it was a shit show.

potoricco · 2023-08-30T01:20:16+00:00

I'm really conflicted with myself and my beliefs now

As you know i have been a "radical feminist" adjacent for months. but the thing is that I want to get married and have kids at some point. while I'm also simultaneously being super judgmental towards radfems that also want kids or a spouse. And then wondering what makes me so deserving of a husband thats actually a genuinely good person when 70% of women dont/can't have that. Then wondering if i actually want marriage and kids or if i just like weddings (i LOVE attending weddings) and cute babies. Or if this stems from my desire to seem conventional somehow.

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-30T00:21:46+00:00

Saw males asking why a woman gets to be obsessed with a celebrity heartthrob but males don’t. It’s because male obsession is so fucking unhinged.

Males have to ignore multiple levels and years of male socialization telling them that behavior is unacceptable to even get into the mindset of open delusional infatuation of a female celebrity. Everyone should be afraid of a male prone to bedeviled tendencies.

A woman saying she’s Harry Styles biggest fan is cute and quirky. A straight male besotted with Taylor Swift needs to be institutionalized because he probably wants to wear her skin.

potoricco · 2023-08-30T00:19:11+00:00

I wish I was alive in the 60s-70s that’s my favorite era vibes wise

redheadtingz · 2023-08-30T00:18:00+00:00

Wow, I really love the new “Rodeo saved me from being a porn star” sticker on my fiancé’s truck, it really compliments the Aussie pride and Vivek 2024 stickers on the other side of the rear window. I can’t wait until he gets back to the camper trailer so I can fuck him.

Sillysheila · 2023-08-30T00:09:53+00:00

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There’s a big fat fluffy Kooka just chilling in a tree outside my wfh office window 🥺

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-29T23:51:03+00:00

I'm at the finish line waiting for a particular woman. She has no idea tho. I also don't know where the finish line is, but I'm here.

potoricco · 2023-08-29T23:50:59+00:00

How I would dress if I had the money and it was socially acceptable

How I would do my makeup

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-29T23:35:33+00:00

Why don't all the single and struggling to date dudes here become friends instead of trying to convince the rest of us of these unhinged theories.

Seems like they could become friends instead of trading theories and pretending to be experts on women.

They might feel less alone if they had a friend or two.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-08-29T23:27:40+00:00

I’m 20F and starting community college in the fall. I didn’t go to a big college because I don’t think I’m ready to be on my own yet. I’m worried that I’ll be too old to connect with people and make friends if I do transfer to a four-year later on. I’d be 22/23 going into school with a bunch of kids who were just in high school. Everyone looks like they’re having so much fun at the big schools and I’m afraid I’ll miss it all.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-29T23:25:24+00:00

I wanna **** *** *** *** *** Dua Lipa.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-29T23:14:26+00:00

Manchildren: I NEED SEX!

Actual child: I NEED A PS5!

Same energy.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-08-29T23:05:09+00:00

https://archive.totalfratmove.com/40-things-college-girls-say-and-what-they-actually-mean/

most of this shit reads like its straight from TRP lmao. most chads probably believe in the same things that TRP does, they just never joined the community because they never had problems attracting women.

there's a reason that "nice guys finish last" is such a common saying.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-08-29T22:46:54+00:00

Why do women refer to genghis khan and king henry as examples of polygamy when these guys were never actually married to more than one particular person at a time, but women who have sex with 50 different men in a year at different times, and without even marriage to boot, are 'serial monogamists'? so its polygamy if men do it, but monogamy when women do the exact same thing? XD

VTHokie2020 · 2023-08-29T22:41:49+00:00

One thing that annoys me about men is they're - on average - very self-centered.

In conversation a lot of their comments start with "I".

Women (at least non-hinge women) are good at asking you follow-up questions.

potoricco · 2023-08-29T22:25:11+00:00

Is this the male version of singing in cursive?

Also this

Like these raps wuh goyd buyt I’m not shoy why dey have to yewse this annoying voice aind sai dumb things like “cuh dey boad”

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-08-29T22:19:03+00:00

I still find it hilarious how women will say they can tell if men are only thinking with their dick or to view women as people but still get used for sex or end up dating a misogynist

scwizard · 2023-08-29T22:00:42+00:00

In my D&D group the women work crazy grueling hours and the men work chill hours, and the women make less than the men.

Proof we live in a sexist society.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-29T21:26:44+00:00

Anybody else sometimes find themselves waking up, go to the bathroom, look at the mirror and say "Have the Gods ever beheld such beauty?"

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-29T21:23:26+00:00

If having sex is a marker of success, then I've been successful for a lot longer than I realized.

This whole time, I was measuring my success by goals I've set for myself.

Who knew that all success is based on, is the ability to have sex with hot people.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-29T21:11:13+00:00

Women become even hornier then men

BUT

They also grow huge dicks

gabejohn · 2023-08-29T21:10:05+00:00

Current game plan for the next ten years:

Get 8 more first Tinder dates (so I have had 10 first dates in total)
Inevitably get rejected by all of them because they "don't feel the spark".
Lose hope and focus on getting rich
Somehow get rich
Delve in hedonism till I get bored
Pay a surrogate to bear my children
If son, give him HGH

VTHokie2020 · 2023-08-29T21:07:25+00:00

Is it rude to eat during online class? Just snacks, not a full on meal.

Maffioze · 2023-08-29T21:01:38+00:00

https://youtu.be/TpCpK1FMnhA?si=hzFJ_TVm7uS9nGL6

This is my ultimate depression song. Such a beautiful song for real.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-29T21:00:47+00:00

Why is it always single men asking about the purpose/legitimacy/necessity of marriage?

My brother in Christ, you were never in the talent pool to begin with. No one is begging you to marry them, this not a concrete issue for you to grapple with.

The men who see the value in marriage are already doing the damn thing, comments from the perpetually single peanut gallery are not going to dissuade a guy who's hyped about spending the rest of his life with his girl.

ScaredExamination470 · 2023-08-29T20:55:22+00:00

Women of PPD: People have to learn to live without things they want.

Also women of PPD: No one should have to put up with being raped!

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