On Tinder/Hinge/Bumble I match with women who present as looking to settle down, no short term relationships, don't exchange nudes, don't sext, etc...

While I don't straight up ask about the past, I'm sure many men here will agree with me that you can tell when something is off with the innocent act.

What I've been doing is running these girls photos through AI websites/apps that search whether or not they have ever posted nudes online, either on reddit or an onlyfans or anything like that.

I would say around 25% of every match has brought up a result in the 21-29 age range regardless or race, occupation, etc...

I brought this up to one date and she said it was unethical/wrong and an invasion of privacy, and it shouldn't matter what a woman has done online, especially if it's in her past.

My first instinct is to disagree - I don't want to date someone who has posted nudes online for attention or used to be a sex worker. If I want to have children with this person one day, what would happen if they found out their mother has nudes online?

I'm willing to admit I might be wrong on this though, but it seems pretty clear cut to me. What am I missing?