Daily Community Chat Megathread

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-21T14:56:34+00:00

Never forget when I dated an army guy who told me we could only have sex with me on top because he had “fucked up shoulders”

I was BAMBOOZLED

scwizard · 2023-11-21T14:55:58+00:00

I asked him where he slept. He says in her bed. I asked him whether she was in it, he says mostly not, he doesn’t remember.

I'd be so pissed if someone said this kinda shit to me. Like how stupid do you think I am.

My boyfriend is a great partner and very polite to my parents. It took a year to convince my family that he is right for me. He says he is ashamed of what he did and that it will never happen again. He says it’s his first time being in such a long relationship and he didn’t know better. I cannot seem to get this out of my mind. It is revolting to me. I feel disrespected and idk how to marry him in a month.

Lmao what. Very polite to my parents? Is he an asshole to everyone else?

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-21T14:49:28+00:00

Men finding a wider range of features and body types attractive in women while women finding a narrow set of features and body types attractive shows that in most relationship it's much more likely that the man really finds the woman attractive than the woman finding the man really attractive

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-21T14:47:19+00:00

Q4All: If you’re in shape and not fat, does that make you above average?

RahLyt · 2023-11-21T14:38:38+00:00

Ppdw will tell you that men are free to express their preferences as long as they are respectful and don't shame anyone.

The funny thing is they shame the most lol. Everyone who doesn't agree with you, it's insecure, misogynistic, small genitalia, etc

Ppdm have a lot of untreated trauma/mentally ilnesses, at least they are aware. A lot of ppdw are completely unaware of their mental illnesses.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-21T14:36:53+00:00

There is hope for shortcels. Let me introduce you to the new looksmaxxing movement: Dwarfmaxxing.

You need to grow out your beard, swing axes, wear a helmet and communicate in battle roars.

https://www.tiktok.com/@mahir4cowboys/video/7302736241424895264?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7303905884388132384

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-21T14:32:01+00:00

yo... does this actually work?

https://twitter.com/duckmesillybaby/status/1726840383790088337

iliyb · 2023-11-21T14:09:38+00:00

Adriana Limas and her first husband are they a looksmatch?

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ratboi34 · 2023-11-21T13:47:08+00:00

What is your checklist for next year?

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-21T13:42:20+00:00

"men and women couldn't naturally be separating due to societal pressure and new age paradigms, IT MUST BE A PSYOP CAMPAIGN FROM RUSSIA!"

Trying to give us a red scare over dating, why

hannahg000 · 2023-11-21T13:36:35+00:00

q4a: what’s your biggest regret?

ratboi34 · 2023-11-21T12:25:26+00:00

The dumbest way to lower your SMV as a man is to purchase a can opener and a corkscrew. You gotta do that shit with hammer and screwdriver or by using the force.

Keeenw · 2023-11-21T12:17:41+00:00

https://youtu.be/dKmvvBelNcw?si=QAygKA82JO2kGbCD

If this doesn’t make you rage quit I don’t what will. Women kan keep saying this isn’t real life but if those normal looking men got laid in real life with normal looking girls they wouldn’t even need to go online begging obese pig women for attention. Normal girls are fucking chad so they don’t need their looksmatch.

dbz__f · 2023-11-21T12:04:19+00:00

PPD is asleep and so is my gf. Sigh time to turn to my PS5. You’ll never abandon me…

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T11:45:42+00:00

Guys its the last day of school omggggg

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T11:44:38+00:00

Its my grandmas birthday in 2 days i dont get why people Prioritize sons cz im pretty sure my dad didnt even remember but me and my mom did. Like im saying daughters will always be there for U

dbz__f · 2023-11-21T11:31:31+00:00

So a friend of mine got dumped by her bf. I’m kinda sad cause we never got to do a double date thing and they were honestly a cute couple, I feel bad for them, and she’s genuinely a very nice and amazing person. But apparently she didn’t prioritise him and that’s why he broke up with her. I can totally see where he was coming from. Like she did kind of seem independent and career oriented. She never cooked for him.

Remember women, if you want to keep your man, you have to make him number 1 in your life. This includes doing all the lovey dovey stuff that feminism says a modern strong woman shouldn’t have to do.

Men you should also prioritise your woman and make her feel like she’s a princess if you want to keep her

dbz__f · 2023-11-21T11:26:49+00:00

Women, which would you rather have.

A. A husband/bf who’s pretty much always horny, always asking for sex, will pester you about it. But will ultimately take no for an answer and go to sleep horny and sad when you reject him.

Or

B. Guy with low sex drive, will never request sex, will never initiate it. If you ever want sex, you will have to always be the one that initiates, but he will generally be down for it most of the time, though there will be occasions where he says no he’s too tired or not in the mood.

dbz__f · 2023-11-21T11:24:28+00:00

I take back what I said in the past about women being as horny as men. Women can on occasions achieve same horniness level as men, but they will never understand what it’s like to pretty much always want to have sex.

Most guys are down for sex with their wife/gf like 99% of the time. Women are not at that level of always turned on 24/7. Most women will have times where they’re “too tired” for sex. Men will rarely have this.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-21T10:54:15+00:00

Are you approached by the same type of people or is there variety?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-21T09:50:27+00:00

Sex and love aren't completely separate at all,

I can’t deal with people, especially women, who are this fucking delusional. This mindset is why so many women get pumped and dumped. The amount of women I’ve seen who think being a pick me booty call meant they were in relationships is nauseating. This is also also why so many guys get lonely, because they’re so busy obsessing over getting a girlfriend than actually bothering making friends, which is easier and helps out with loneliness far better.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-21T08:45:13+00:00

Why is testosterone a controlled substance, but not estrogen?

This is the real double standard.

keebydee · 2023-11-21T06:23:03+00:00

One thing I will side with women on is fish pics on dating profiles being a no-go. I've seen some and they do not make the guy look appealing at all. I can't imagine a woman seeing a guy holding a fish and being like "Yeah, that's so fucking hot." Unless it's uh....Chad of course doing it. 😏

Please replace that photo with literally anything else. Lol.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-21T06:13:57+00:00

Hypothetical for women:

You're dating me for one year, after this year I will die, but you get all of the remaining years I would've lived, so if I were living to 77 you would get 55 years more years. During this dating period you must treat this like an actual relationship, sleeping in the same bed(even if neither of us want to), accompanying me, listening to my problems and sexual intercourse on a regular basis. Cheating or breaking up will result in both of us dying, poly isn't allowed, nobody else will know about this deal, refusing this deal won't result in downsides, also you age slower with the extra years, so on you would've lived till 80, and instead you get to be 135, you get to live in your 120s and 130s like you're in your 70s. Within this hypothetical you are currently single. If you don't feel like picking me, you can imagine this deal with another (celibate) member of this subreddit, but for reference this is what I look like (glasses). Within this scenerio I finished the task I wanted to do and I consented to it willingly.

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MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-21T06:13:20+00:00

A lady calling you "sweet" is so overrated. I want you to think I'm yummy.

old_new_age · 2023-11-21T06:01:48+00:00

everything in life seems to have some kind of consistent reward system besides dating

practice piano 7 hours / day -> become great pianist

lift 5 days / wk -> gain muscle

study a lot at school -> better grades

do well in school -> make more money

play video games -> acquire more achievements

work on your personality and be more social -> still get no dates/get ghosted because emotions are fleeting and people are unpredictable and maybe they just weren't feeling you that day when another day they might have been

I am not surprised at the zoomers claiming they're getting rich before even holding a girl's hand. this shit's fucking brutal

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-21T05:59:32+00:00

If I put my mind to it do you think I'd be able to curl 100 on a bar for reps RN I'm at a weebaby 50

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-21T05:51:57+00:00

Just compliment her bro

ratboi34 · 2023-11-21T05:40:04+00:00

Apparently there is a men's throat cancer epidemic. Men have always been suffering from throat cancer a lot, because they are the smoking, alcoholic, poor eating habits having gender, but hpv is now a leading factor for causing throat cancer in men. And it's only because they are eating too much pussy and women are all hpv positive these days. I think men should make women wait until marriage for oral.

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-21T05:17:53+00:00

Louder than Gods revolver, and twice as shiny

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-21T05:10:11+00:00

What is the appropriate treatment for white knights?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-21T05:06:00+00:00

I'm having chatgpt rewrite some of my articles as Hunter S. Thompson, I love how it turns my boring story about a park being found in non compliance with an RCO grant exciting:

In this wild adventure, Hank Tucker, the ringmaster of Willow Creek's Public Works, spills the beans on a grant from 2010 that birthed more questions than answers. Originally meant to birth a recreational utopia, Pineview Park now finds itself gasping for air amidst whispers of non-compliance.

Tucker, the man with the secrets, spills, "Open space, that's the deal. We snagged this property back in the '90s, grant money dangling in our hands, promising open space for all sorts of play." But wait, the plot thickens—deviations from the script. The land, once destined for merry-making, now echoes with the distant cries of wheat stalks plowed for weed control.

Enter Jeb Scruggs, the puppet master in this agricultural theater, dancing to the city's contractual tune. But oh, what's this? A year ago, a letter flutters in from Betsy Raye, Compliance Maestro at the Recreation and Conservation Office. The city, caught with its pants down, decides to cut ties with Scruggs, ending the farming frolic.

Names changed ofc

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-21T04:49:36+00:00

I wish I could just turn myself aromatic and asexual lol, I hate it when I start liking a girl or have a crush

Also man do girls look cute even when they are singing like a banshee lol

keebydee · 2023-11-21T04:37:50+00:00

Sometimes I feel like a shit person because I don't really ask people about their lives or to check up on them but then I realize that growing up no one ever let me in their lives to where I could be in a position to ask or to care. No one would ever come to me to just vent about their problems, what's happening in their lives or anything like that.

So now I find that I naturally don't care about people's lives. My friends that I have? I don't really care about their lives. Not that I want something bad to happen to them, I just don't care what's happening to them. And I feel bad about that I guess. I don't know anymore.

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-21T04:29:37+00:00

Another bullet dodged thanks to a woman's inate ability to read people, assess their character: https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/17xkvmr/my_partner_ended_our_dogs_life_yesterday/

So I’m only posting this to literally get this feeling off of my chest. My partner has anger problems and has hurt animals in the past before. But he’s never tried or threatened to hurt me or people in any way possible. I don’t fear for my life when I’m with him. But yesterday I came home to the dog taking his last breaths. And honestly I’m extremely traumatized from coming home to that. I keep replaying in my head how he looked until his shallow breaths stopped.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-21T04:25:45+00:00

My fiance maintains that I was half a virgin when we got together, because I’d only done oral and anal prior to dating him. I say I wasn’t a virgin at all because sex is more than PIV. Who is right here?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-21T04:22:11+00:00

Re: my earlier post concerning husband applications, benefits include backrubs, exclusive access to my body and uncensored political commentary, my signature recipes, and half my trust fund.

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-21T04:16:05+00:00

improve your personality and start taking showers: https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/17v6m45/im_leaving_my_bf_a_sexist_pig/

I now regret moving in with him and getting serious.

It isn't like she immediately un-matched him on Bumble after 10 minutes of texting each other.

But, yeah, the reason I get zero prospects anywhere is totally because of my shitty personality.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-21T04:08:59+00:00

Q4All: if a white knight is a guy who runs to the aid of a madam in distress, then what is the person called who forces the white knight to don his armor?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-21T04:01:59+00:00

Who smokes more weed, red pillers or blue pillers?

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-11-21T03:42:44+00:00

As a red pill man I will say this. The moment men here, the moment men realize that we do not have leverage the way women do , and you can’t logic your way into dimming the leverage women have, you will be better equipped to protect your emotions and become the type of man you want to be and gain your own form of leverage

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-21T03:37:18+00:00

Was the “no woe is me” rule always around? Or did I literally bitch so much on this sub that the mods had to add a new rule?

Either way, I guess I’m gonna have to find a new sub to vent in now. The virgin sub is usually okay, but most of the time I don’t really have anything warranting a full post. And it’s more fun when I can shed light on how hopeless dating is to normies. The virgins there already know how brutal it is.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-21T03:31:19+00:00

This subreddit could be a great study on evil.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-21T03:29:20+00:00

Is the term 'Karen' sexist?

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T03:08:43+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m7YSTtiPMl4

Wait shes on to something I need to start crying more. I love dark waterlines

Like how dogs have brown/black around their eyes cuz their eyes are always wett especially light dogs

sirbumposfabroci · 2023-11-21T02:37:54+00:00

how do I not be introverted personality, shy, and socially anxious

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T02:36:49+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UwxoBn/

Guys i love the 80s

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T02:33:02+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UwW5Mv/

Men when they have to take respecting women 101

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T02:31:02+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UwXnT9/

If u never heard of this show ur either too old or too young

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-21T02:25:29+00:00

There is no big dick or small dick energy. Only mutilated and unmutilated dick energy. Stop the barbaric practice!

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2405844020324099

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T02:24:19+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UwbhwY/

Nooo this did it for me what if i have daddy issues

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-21T02:20:58+00:00

I can't wait to see my babies tomorrow morning. I am running out of this hospital.

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-21T02:17:05+00:00

JUST BIT MY CIGARETTE FILTER IN HALF I WISH THIS STUPID FUCKING BITCH WOULD DROP OFF THE FUCKING PLANET, YOU AREN'T BETTER THAN ME JUST BECAUSE YOU FUCKING DADDY PAYS YOUR BILLS FUCK YOU

Just someone has to know how I feel, continue about your regularly scheduled programming

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T02:14:12+00:00

Ok one thing i hate about tiktok is that whenever it detects that im interested in something it just bombards me with it nonstop, cz i wanted to see the hunger games yesterday and i was looking at reviews and showtimes (NEVER TYPED IT INTO TIKTOK) Now it keeps bombarding me with hunger games stuff even when i said im not interested

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-21T02:12:17+00:00

What's with the term porn sick? Are people getting STDs from watching porn?

NoTea4448 · 2023-11-21T02:07:27+00:00

Why is it, that men expect women to empathize with their struggles when the men who struggle with women are literally notorious for hating them?

Like, I agree that dating for men is hard. But holy fuck, the one group that you need to convince is not the group that you should be villianizing.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-20T22:32:57+00:00

Man I really hate women dominated subs. Like sure men dominated subs can be bad too, they usually gang on you in the comments until you delete your post, but the rarely ban you. Women dominated subs on the other immediately shut you down deleting your comment/ post or ban you all together.

grillopie · 2023-11-20T21:28:48+00:00

For anyone who is single, whats the point of talking about how men or women are generally? youre not looking for the average person. some of you are looking for virgins. so why do you spend so much effort trying to come to some weak conclusions about central tendency when thats not what youre looking for? You take some pill and accept the fact that a plurality of women are this way, or a majority of men are that way, for what? you can see from whatever data you cite, and from the responses of “well i know someone” here that the respondents dont all agree with each other even when there is a trend.

so why not spend more effort figuring out how to find someone you like?

scwizard · 2023-11-21T01:43:11+00:00

I DESPISE this 'what do you bring to the table' bullshit dudes are trying. Motherfucker, I own the table. You come here, sit your ass at MY table, and then demand I put shit out for you? You're in MY house, want to use my table, you better have some shit to put out yourself. Fuck off, and never sit down at my goddamned table again.

Damn I'm really missing out by being single aren't I...

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-20T21:07:59+00:00

Next month I will have officially retained an n-count of zero for twenty-two years. I will now be accepting husband applications.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-20T22:44:11+00:00

god, sometimes I think it would be so nice to drop all my stress and worries and have a sugar mommy that lets me suck on her titties while I lie down with my head on her thighs while she jerks me off. that is not what exists for me in this reality though.

as Napoleon said - “Courage isn't having the strength to go on - it is going on when you don't have strength.”

and so, the grind must continue.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-21T16:21:36+00:00

Listened to some Taylor Swift songs for the first time cause a girl I like, likes Taylor Swift. And man does anyone else think some of her songs say incel-ish stuff? Like the "You Belong With Me" song for example

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-20T21:10:38+00:00

I hate when people bring up the fact that girls outperform boys in school therefore women are better.

Because performing in school is not really related to your intelligence or perseverance. I am pretty sure that having a pussy doesn’t improve your intellectual skills. Girls perform better in school because schools rewards submissiveness that is it, it has nothing to do with intelligence, to perform better in school you just need to do what you are asked to do. And that is something that doesn’t come naturally to young men. And I know that because I performed good at school because I did what I was asked to do most of the time. Also boys are beaten more severely and more often than girls, the most polite boy was probably beaten way more than the worst girl in school.

So please don’t bring school achievements as a way to prove and argument, schools are inherently dysfunctional and every man knows that.

keebydee · 2023-11-20T22:12:04+00:00

My mother just said that my disability isn't a mental illness. I was like "Huh? What are you talking about? Then would you call it?" She called it an "impairment." She thinks the term mental illness is reserved for like crazy schizophrenics or something. The weird downplaying of my disorder is bothersome. Can't even call it a mental illness. This is the person I had to trust getting me help as a kid. Life is such a joke.

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T22:57:49+00:00

GUYS i said sorry to my mom Shes not mad at me anymore and she gave me a hug

hannahg000 · 2023-11-21T01:52:24+00:00

lately waiting till marriage seems like the best option /hj

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-21T17:32:39+00:00

Everyone, you should know there are no medical reasons for infant circumcision in 99.8% of cases. It is unconcensual genital mutilation. The glands of the penis are meant to be protected by the foreskin, not constantly rubbing in his underwear driving him to compulsive masturbation from early on in life and statistically causing some lasting sexual-emotional trauma.

As someone who cares about the health and success of boys and men I want to spread awareness.

I don’t mind if men choose to cut their foreskin for any number of reasons once they are mature enough to make that decision for themselves. But this ancient barbaric practice of needlessly cutting infants must stop.

Thank you for attending my Ted talk.

odd_cloud · 2023-11-21T18:14:11+00:00

I noticed a lot of discussion about men’s dating struggles evolve into “guess his fault”. A guy says “I’m having trouble with being liked by women”. And all the people are like “shower!”, “get some friends!”, “find a job!”. Do these commenters believe they are so clever? Why is it so hard to imagine a normal man may have problems with attracting women?

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-21T19:55:16+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/vlvt2thiar1c1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9a12dce6c69a68dd7743500702ff0a187b05bf5c

Inspired by the latest thread

meteorness123 · 2023-11-20T23:25:42+00:00

Only in America, a guy like Tony Robbins can become super rich and famous

No_Mammoth8801 · 2023-11-20T23:35:50+00:00

Can't pink pill just be summarized as a soft bigotry of low expectations (for men)?

Everything I've read or heard coming out of women who identify as "pink pill" seems to paint men as retarded horny apes.

I think I almost prefer the femcel types because at least they're doing less damage by refusing or not getting into relationships with men.

Keeenw · 2023-11-21T00:53:19+00:00

Who's your celebrity crush if you have one ?

Keeenw · 2023-11-21T16:29:07+00:00

Femcels are attention whoring. They literally just have to install tinder or go standing alone at the bar and they can wait until an attractive guy approaches them.

What option do incels have ? Tinder doesn’t work for average men; speeddating events are always fully booked for men while there are free places for women so it’s a cockfest just like tinder; nightclubs and bar game is as looks and height oriented as tinder. Cold aproaching women during the day won’t work as an average male. Social circle game; not everyone has a huge social circle full of women especially at an older age after college.

CasseroleTruck · 2023-11-21T20:12:39+00:00

It's not that I don't believe conspiracy theories exist, but whenever I read someone type "psyop" I automatically think low IQ basement dweller incel/femcel edgelord. I don't think I've been proven wrong yet.

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T21:18:35+00:00

When men get twink death its SO SAD

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-21T21:46:26+00:00

People here (both redpillers and bluepillers, both men and women, pretty much everyone here) really overestimate the importance of a man's looks. When I went out on the town last night, the guys with the chicks dancing all over them weren't the greatest looking dudes (a couple of them were rather short, others had meh faces). The really good looking dudes were dancing alone for the most part. Just an observation, but it really drives home the point that as a man, your most attractive asset is your inner confidence. Not your looks. I mean obviously looks will help you out, but it's not the main thing women look for. Women aren't men.

Keeenw · 2023-11-20T22:55:59+00:00

When women say they are into nerdy guys and not the buff chad type they mean Chris Evans or Henry Cavill in glasses.

Keeenw · 2023-11-20T23:39:31+00:00

Q4M : would you dump your girlfriend or wive if somehow you found out she wouldn't have dated or slept with you during her "hoe phase/fun prime years" ?

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-11-21T00:21:58+00:00

Q4M: do you care about what other men think of your partner? Like if no one else finds your gf attractive or cute, would it bother you?

iliyb · 2023-11-21T17:27:49+00:00

healthy male sexuality in action...

https://preview.redd.it/ybd3gr09kq1c1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=78d695d88e4ba8ee7de21efca80aa6eb990e9527

grillopie · 2023-11-21T19:22:35+00:00

Why is feminism such a boogeyman here? Garden variety feminists are out there lobbying for abortion rights and wage gap stuff. Lets say theyre both controversial issues (i honestly dont think abortion rights is even remotely controversial), what does that have to do with dating?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-21T21:32:46+00:00

I just got blocked by that teenager, bro people are fickle

its-probly-over · 2023-11-20T21:10:04+00:00

I am attracted to my PS5 controller

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-20T22:40:55+00:00

What is up with all the hate against mothers who love their boys!!

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-20T23:00:15+00:00

I'm gonna starve waiting for husband to come home. I'll eat a bagel at least.

sine120 · 2023-11-21T00:57:16+00:00

Our in laws who were going to host Thanksgiving might have Covid. Looks like I'm gonna have to rope in a meal for 12 together last minute.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-21T01:12:50+00:00

How big of a problem do you think future faking is?

Like if I told every guy I date I won’t have sex until we are in a committed relationship do you think many guys would go through all that work just to have sex with you or do you think it would be a pretty effective vetting process

Keeenw · 2023-11-21T15:42:55+00:00

This is who one of the most handsome men had to date

It’s so over

https://preview.redd.it/ea1s3lii1q1c1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1d6ea1f8b6a296bf445220069bf30d605799cf1

leosandlattes · 2023-11-21T15:53:32+00:00

Good morning to everyone who:

Ever owned a hamster as a pet
Was born in the last 6 months of the year
Pays for Amazon Prime, or
Has at least one sister (bonus hello if it’s a younger sister)

odd_cloud · 2023-11-21T16:13:17+00:00

I’m wondering why certain opinions on and discussions about dating trigger if not frighten some people. It is to the point that some communities remove posts about them. It is similar to your parents being embarrassed and saying “we will talk about it when you grow up”.

Like, I understand no one wants to hear absolute nonsense. But people would close discussion or ban people because of statements like “women are picky”. I see no problems with this topic. People may express their opinions, some of them will conclude that women are picky, others will not agree. But admins be like “delete post, ban everyone, quarantine the sub”.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-21T16:48:48+00:00

Fact #1: surrounding yourself with yes men is more likely to make you delusional

Fact #2: women are less likely to seek confrontation, as a result women are more likely to be surrounded by yes men

Dutchmaster617 · 2023-11-21T17:09:40+00:00

Am I crazy to think the advice giving to men here is similar to becoming a politician?

Laser focus on looks and presentation at all times. Ruthless drive to acquire as much wealth as possible. Not just high charisma, but also flying all over, drawing crowds, and talking to strangers.

Why does making under 100k, having a few friends and hobbies, occasionally dressing up and splurging but mostly dressing for comfort and finding cheaper efficient ways to do things (like cooking instead of dining out) considered the bare minimum, boring, and loserish?

It goes against the be yourself and enjoy things advise. I know personally I have no interest in flying to go play basketball in Dubai. What’s wrong with just visiting a cool museum to learn about prehistory?

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-21T18:36:54+00:00

Why do ladies complain about men getting in relationships they hate as if men aren't just stripped of all choice for a relationship.

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T19:05:45+00:00

Ive honestly seen more Ugly guy x Average/Pretty girl than Ugly girl x Average/pretty guy so yall need to like stop 💯 🛑yapping

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-21T19:21:25+00:00

A woman wanting her man to be emotionally vulnerable is selfish.

yes, another unhinged, nice

PPD never change!

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-21T20:19:48+00:00

Q4 people in relationships: How many common interests/hobbies do you share with your partner?

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T21:10:11+00:00

Can we talk about this ⁉️

https://preview.redd.it/v6jqw34vnr1c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ec89e43c2a9d8ea10815e1c235e3d7cc42eb388d

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-20T21:00:22+00:00

First

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-20T21:04:28+00:00

Thirst

FreeTaylorSwift · 2023-11-20T21:06:43+00:00

Q4M: How can a 21 year old virgin man find a kissless, age-appropriate virgin girlfriend?

Slipthe · 2023-11-20T21:14:30+00:00

Ngl, I thought brushing twice a day was crazy shit.

But now I do it after the morning drink, and it's kind of great to have minty breath for hours.

FreeTaylorSwift · 2023-11-20T21:26:19+00:00

Reddit is the most cucked website on the internet, for real. Aside from hosting lots of actual cuckoldry communities, the average redditor is soywashed cuck without a spine or any actual self-respect, self-awareness or self-love. Even on Purple Pill Debate the cuck mentality runs amok among men.

The average redditor finds it unphatomable for a 21 year old virgin man to want a virgin girlfriend, on top of finding it impossible for a woman to be a virgin beyond the age of, like, 13.

The average redditor is such a porn addict that he sees all women as hypersexual beings who fuck hundreds of men a month and who's been fucking since 12, they see promiscuity as normal and rewardable because their porn-fried brains cannot comprehend self-control.

The average redditor is a porn-addicted cuck loser with a weak mentality and no self-respect whatsoever. No wonder this fucking website is full of atheists.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-11-20T21:30:52+00:00

https://youtu.be/9q3BGqdSKlY?si=_-aN02TRNlpCfJeK

How do y’all feel about this?

TLDR: a teacher makes an OF with her husband to help pay for bills since he had lost his job. A viewer notices the person is a teacher and she loses her job.

Overall I’d say that I am opposed to her being fired. I think that could have financially ruined her if her OF didn’t gain popularity from being fired. This scenario is similar to drug use or obscure ideas an individual might have… as long as it currently doesn’t effect they way one performs their job, it should be of much concern to the employer.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-20T21:34:08+00:00

Omfg why is every girl I add on valorant already in a party with someone. People be copying my strategy.

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T21:42:53+00:00

I love coriolanus snow and lucy gray baird

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-20T21:52:40+00:00

A teacher was fired for having an onlyfans. Should teachers be fired for having a slutty instagram account?

its-probly-over · 2023-11-20T22:09:15+00:00

I used to think that im a tank until i rode a horse. They will fuck you up no problem

Material-Hearing1126 · 2023-11-20T23:12:49+00:00

I have been dating this girl for almost two months. Everything seems to be going well, we have sex multiple times when we are together, we can talk about everything, we can do fun dates, and also just relax with each other. I just have a hard time being as excited for her as she is, because she has a weird way of bringing up her past.

On our fourth date, she mentioned she almost married a deeply religious guy a year ago, and she was super close to doing it because he was so sweet. Another time while we were in a shopping mall, she likened it to going into Ikea with your partner, and I jokingly said it was much more difficult. She then promptly mentioned how much fun she once had on a first date going to Ikea with a guy.She once briefly mentioned how she was insecure because she felt I had been way more women than vice versa. That is true but I have never brought up other women when I have been talking to her.

Redpillers is this a red flag?

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-21T00:39:19+00:00

I hate to sound like a boomer, but most modern music really sucks. It's just musically lazy and lyrically lame. And I have a pretty wide ranging taste in music (I listen to EDM, hip hop, indie rock, pop, soul, drum & bass, metal, sometimes country, etc) so this is a problem across different genres. Trying to find a good song on Spotify is like looking for a needle in a haystack, I probably skip 90-95% of the shit I'm recommended. But maybe I'm just picky.

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T00:53:52+00:00

So ive heard of girls having better/hotter sounding voices when theyre sick but this is absolutely a LIE Bc my voice sounds like badussy Rnnn and i had to do like presentation type stuff 2 TIMES and everyone heard

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-21T00:57:52+00:00

Whatever happened to that one guy LillthsCrusyHitachi ?

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T01:49:00+00:00

Like I literally spoil shows for myself and I dont care when i do it but when other ppl do it i get mad is that normal

throwaway164_3 · 2023-11-21T15:59:32+00:00

Um a mod just messaged me the following

Please unblock users blocked on PPD for frilovous reasons. Failure to do so in a timely manner will lead to a ban on PPD. Thanks. permalinkdeletereportblock usermark unreadreply

I mean, what the fuck? I can’t even block users I don’t want to interact with? What madness is this??

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-21T15:59:50+00:00

Shoe0nHead released the sequel to "Are Men OK?" in "Are Women OK?" and it, like the OG, is awesome and factual. It is critical yet fair of women, which of course will be dismissed and refuted by women everywhere as she dares to feel empathetic to men in anyway.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-11-21T16:02:10+00:00

Why are BPD or red flag women usually so physically attractive

AngeCruelle · 2023-11-21T16:03:29+00:00

Am I crazy or is this wholesome meme...not particularly wholesome?

The comments give massive "I can fix her" energy.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-21T16:04:50+00:00

Matt Rife getting cancelled for making a DV joke and the discourse is centering around the fact that his audience is/was only women who were attracted to him.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-21T16:49:28+00:00

I used to go out with this ginger girl and we smoked weed together a lot. One day she pissed me off so i rolled her a joint with just tobacco in it - and after she smoked, she said that she's high AF. Im certain that this led to the chain of events that caused the relationship to end.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-21T17:11:40+00:00

I don’t care about anything at my wedding being budget apart from the dress.

https://preview.redd.it/l6qyhp6dhq1c1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0be15bda744ea5dac1859b390760f4e15b150094

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-21T18:22:26+00:00

that gay thread was rlly deranged but the fact men will either be in denial or pretend to be straight way into their middle ages is big commentary on how strong social conditioning/societal pressure is!!!!!

😐

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-21T18:35:45+00:00

What does “being vulnerable” mean to you?

Why do so many men here feel that they’re not allowed to be vulnerable?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-21T18:59:41+00:00

"Tears were running down my face. But I didn't cry" - Andrew Tate

These Piers Morgan - Andrew Tate interviews are always hilarious

Peacesquad · 2023-11-21T19:12:56+00:00

Seggs?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-21T19:13:05+00:00

Are all women gold diggers ?

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-11-21T19:24:03+00:00

man, is it just me or is PPD just not greenlighting a lot of CMV and discussion posts? I tried to post a really insightful new thread on something I thought would really go well with this subreddit and its just not going through either way it seems. What a shame.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-21T19:33:03+00:00

Going shop what do you want?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-21T19:54:48+00:00

"1 in 4 women are sexually assaulted so it is best to treat all men as if they are a loaded gun" - Some feminist on reddit

keebydee · 2023-11-21T20:04:31+00:00

I don't participate in age gap discussions anymore because everyone echoes the "brain doesn't finish developing at 25" nonsense and I just laugh. You guys do know that it's really just a myth and junk science, right? It's not fucking real. Lol.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-21T20:51:42+00:00

Men are in love Women are in business

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-21T20:58:19+00:00

How come men here get so mad that women care about looks when that’s their main criteria?

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T21:19:52+00:00

Happy thanksgiving eve eve

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-21T21:59:58+00:00

reminder that women have POOP in them!!!! remember that!!

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its-probly-over · 2023-11-20T21:47:15+00:00

Need to go shop n buy a vape but i cbf to drive

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-20T21:48:33+00:00

I feel like so many people here don't understand basic economics. All relationships are at least somewhat transactional, even if you're one of those "I don't see it as transactional" people. The biggest mistake I see often is not taking into consideration both the supply and demand side of things.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-20T21:48:38+00:00

Just saw this tinder ad on YouTube before I was about to watch some asmr and would love to get my PPD friends opinions and reactions to it:

https://youtu.be/Vx8FbRC7nHI?si=UUk70BN9nB5iiWek

FreeTaylorSwift · 2023-11-20T21:54:17+00:00

Reddit is the most cucked website on the internet, for real. Aside from hosting lots of actual cuckoldry communities, the average redditor is soywashed cuck without a spine or any actual self-respect, self-awareness or self-love. Even on Purple Pill Debate the cuck mentality runs amok among men.

The average redditor finds it unphatomable for a 21 year old virgin man to want a virgin girlfriend, on top of finding it impossible for a woman to be a virgin beyond the age of, like, 13.

The average redditor is such a porn addict that he sees all women as hypersexual beings who fuck hundreds of men a month and who's been fucking since 12, they see promiscuity as normal and rewardable because their porn-fried brains cannot comprehend self-control.

The average redditor is a porn-addicted cuck loser with a weak mentality and no self-respect whatsoever. No wonder this fucking website is full of atheists.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-20T22:27:31+00:00

rate this man (its the same guy):

https://img.a.transfermarkt.technology/portrait/big/12149-1418653478.jpg?lm=1

https://i.pinimg.com/564x/7f/67/35/7f6735ed63847c2cd994d75d36936271.jpg

its-probly-over · 2023-11-20T23:01:52+00:00

Im in love with coco

RevolutionaryFig929 · 2023-11-20T23:02:53+00:00

Would you believe a woman, that is superhot , super touchy with you all the time, making out with you at the beach on the second date, resting her head basically on your crotch while you stroke her hair that she is still a virgin and wants to wait for marriage?

I know you are mostly us centric and kind of have this prudish culture, where some girls even might do anal or oral but no penetration, so you might have experience with this....

For me the last time i was 15.

I would never expected this women to be a virgin from the way she behaves, and knows how to turn men on..

So now i have a voice in the back of my head, that doesnt believe her, and thinks she is bullshiting me....

sirbumposfabroci · 2023-11-20T23:33:15+00:00

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-20T23:49:21+00:00

My neighbor let he hold his pet snake yesterday, she was a sweet little creature and not scary or slimy at all.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-20T23:50:10+00:00

I'm back from exile again!

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T00:50:47+00:00

Ok im trying to get back in my reading era so i went to the library and got 2 books called children of blood and bone

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T01:38:20+00:00

So do you ever think about what ppl would look like in heaven, like would the majority of people look like old people or they would look how they did when they were young, if they had tattoos or plastic surgery would it show up in heaven? Or we dont have physical bodies

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T01:46:14+00:00

I aint gonna hold you Hes the only man ive seen that actually got more attractive as they got older

Like hes pushing 40 now but looks better than he did Here tbhhhh

https://preview.redd.it/9zcgiao7wl1c1.png?width=458&format=png&auto=webp&s=5c490944bf60ee192fc423dee5c9aa63d3c54f38

scwizard · 2023-11-21T01:54:20+00:00

One friend recently fell and it left her with a concussion. She said her husband didn’t ask once how she was feeling after the concussion. I was appalled. I feel like it’s a basic human thing to ask someone you care about how they are after a concussion! She had to go to the ER and everything for it.

Then she started saying how she’s happy her husband at least hits the basic requirements: he doesn’t cheat and he sometimes helps with the kids. I bit my tongue… hard… the bar is in hell, ladies.

I honestly think she married him cuz she wanted kids and was already 35.

So women actually settle? I thought it was a meme.

That's so sad...

Rentfree699 · 2023-11-21T02:02:44+00:00

All pinkpill subs are degenerate trash and their members should be banned from Reddit for systemic misandry.

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T02:04:32+00:00

Bro i hate when men wear hoodies and their tshirt/singlet hanging out it looks Sooooooo fucking cheap and ruins the fit

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-21T15:23:35+00:00

Q4All Part 2: How do you determine if your face is average or below average?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-21T16:07:22+00:00

So, I'm not doing Thanksgiving after all. My wife called her mom to discuss the plan for Thanksgiving and her mom was basically like "I have this, this, and this. You can bring rolls" In a way I'm relieved because I was getting exhausted doing my research and I was sick of watching/reading about food. On the other hand I'm disappointed because I genuinely enjoy cooking and I'm a much better cook than her mom. Not to mention the fact that her mom gets easily stressed out so we have that to look forward to.

Anyways, I can't wait until we have a home and have some children so we can start hosting and doing it our way.

Slipthe · 2023-11-21T16:46:48+00:00

How many people in this world do you think would be a near perfect match for you?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-21T17:28:55+00:00

Redditor says that homosexuality should be a question of "sexual morality"
Says that they want a more "homogenous society"
Says that if homosexuality could be linked to a certain gene, they would eradicate homosexuality through eugenics
Checks their profile, they post on /r/centrist frequently

The jokes write themselves 😂

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-21T18:00:32+00:00

Holy shit, why are so many guys here scared to improve themselves and take control of their lives?

I just saw the trending post right now is saying working on yourself, having a career and hobbies are some evil product of Capitalism. Like... omg. LOL

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-21T18:02:43+00:00

All curvy women are fat.

Not all curvy women are ugly

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17zxcky/curvy/

scwizard · 2023-11-21T18:03:42+00:00

From worst living to best living imo:

attractive woman < unattractive man < unattractive woman < average woman < average man <<< attractive man

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-21T18:05:53+00:00

All Forever alone are a pysop -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17xup65/33_female_cant_find_love/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-21T18:31:11+00:00

Dating as a fat man is harder than dating as a fat woman-->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/suny1m/dating_as_a_fat_man/

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-21T18:35:40+00:00

Who is your "literally me" character? I think I related most to Jake Gyllenhaal in Nightcrawler and Joaquin Phoenix in Joker of course.

mrrelaf · 2023-11-21T19:04:44+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/clevercomebacks/s/U8vYelnaJW

"women don't lie. And even if they did, it would still be men's fault"

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-21T19:05:46+00:00

The whole naivety/lack of experience/not fully developed brain argument against age gap relationships, while it has some truth to it and I think it's understandable that people have some concern for these dynamics, but when this stuff comes up I can't help thinking "is it really fundamentally better to put together TWO naive humans with under developed brains?" Doesn't that sound like a recipe for a clusterfuck, if we put it that way? Then again, young relationships often don't last, anyway, so... idk.

paintedblackdoor · 2023-11-21T19:11:28+00:00

This is a subjective selection.
You’re attracted to women. You’re going to find the women attractive. The only reason you care about what the guy looks like is your own jealousy.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-21T19:14:00+00:00

I think the gender wars (division) in the West are inflamed by a psyop campaign from Russia/China

Yes, of couse, it's a global conspiracy from Putin, put on your tinfoils!!!

thanks OP for a new kind of unhinged theory

Keeenw · 2023-11-21T19:15:53+00:00

Why does my breath keep stinking despite me brushing my teeth twice a day; flossing them every night before sleeping; using Listerine mouthwash twice a week and using a tongue scraper ? I suspect there are bacteria further on my tongue but I can't get there without having to gag.

Keeenw · 2023-11-21T19:27:37+00:00

Q4W : when was the last time you masturbated and what's your age ?

keebydee · 2023-11-21T19:40:55+00:00

I don't get why whenever someone mourns over never experiencing young love, people come out and say stuff like "Relationships at that time don't last anyways. You didn't miss out." I don't get it. The friends you make in school for the most part don't exactly last either but we don't see parents and society tell teenagers/kids to not make friends.

There was a lot of friendships I had that didn't last past high school but it didn't bother me, I was happy for the experience. I feel like I would feel the same if I had a relationship as long if it wasn't an absolute dumpster fire or something.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-21T19:43:43+00:00

I asked my grandpa if my other cousin is his favorite grandchild and he immediately said yeah. I love the open channel of communication between us.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-21T19:47:33+00:00

You heard here folks. Guys go out and buy a razor lmfaooo

https://www.reddit.com/r/bald/s/yn7aus61cb

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-21T20:01:40+00:00

The masculine urge to own a super loud, fast, fuel guzzling super car

https://www.flickr.com/photos/andrewbasterfield/52172814773/#

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-21T20:19:19+00:00

This is the ideal woman.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-11-21T20:23:28+00:00

/u/MistyMaisel don't forget to check under the automod in your thread. I ain't changing my flair just to keep a top-level post from getting beleted and I think it's on-point. There's like a few other posts under automod too

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-11-21T20:30:00+00:00

So, uh... What did I miss?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-21T20:31:35+00:00

Bro, never be vulnerable.

Vulnerable men are losers in the eyes of society and man bitches in the eyes of women

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T21:02:34+00:00

Guys someone legit took my jacket at school

Cz we had a festival i had set it down somewhere bc i didnt want to carry it around and then when i came back it was legit gone and wasnt in the lost and found either

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T21:04:04+00:00

Noooo but this was from earlier today I didnt know you could yap 💯 in math too and not just english

https://preview.redd.it/u49pa6oqmr1c1.jpeg?width=3019&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9a1efb020a9e31baa0cbc8633247bdf980b011e1

meteorness123 · 2023-11-21T21:30:04+00:00

How would you interpret this picture ?

Also, spot the devil in it.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/F_ZATOFbQAAJSG6?format=jpg&name=900x900

its-probly-over · 2023-11-21T21:53:15+00:00

How to clean cum from ceiling?

meteorness123 · 2023-11-20T22:47:33+00:00

Depression is not a chemical imbalance.

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T18:49:00+00:00

Guys i got another henna tattoo

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-11-21T19:25:49+00:00

Lmao, I got banned from r/sex for a comment underneath a girl asking for advice for how to get out of a relationship with her college professor where she slept with him for grades even though I gave her relevant advice because I was being mildly rude to her. What fucking world do we live in where we aren't even allowed to "shame" people who do genuinely disgusting things without thinking of their consequences like the idiots they are.

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