Daily Community Chat Megathread

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-11T10:34:39+00:00

I see my post from like 6-7 months ago about wanting to be liked for my looks instead of my personality blew up on r/NotHowGirlsWork this week. Ironic considering the original got like 10 comments. The gist of the comments was

Girls don't actually like my personality, they're lying.
Telling me I'm wrong for wanting to be sexually desired and objectified.
Shallow himbo
That I'm wrong for not valuing personality

So basically a bunch of blue pilled idiots saying that valuing sexual desire over relationship desire is a bad thing.

dbz__f · 2023-04-11T08:21:17+00:00

Every woman who seethes at age gaps should be forced to date ugly men and poor men

If we’re not allowed to date young women you’re not allowed to date handsome or rich men

Ok_Entrepreneur2931 · 2023-04-11T06:54:22+00:00

If you own a home and your GF is moving in with you, would it be fair to charge her rent? If so, how much?

I think about half of the market rental price is a good rule of thumb. I'm a landlord, and rent isn't based on how much money you need to cover the mortgage and other property-related expenses, it's based on the rental market.

Maybe less than half for a larger home that would be excessive for two people, like a 3bd or 4bd. Diminishing returns and whatnot. She would probably be paying a lot less for housing if she were living alone, and her lifestyle wouldn't be so different. I mean, what would you do with the third/fourth bedrooms?

Or it might be easier and less businesslike to just have her pay for groceries and other expenses instead of charging rent.

THHBHStT · 2023-04-11T05:34:53+00:00

I’ve decided this place sucks and it’s time to leave.

The women here 4/10 except the autistic ones they cool asf. Shoutout Cim. The normal women talk a lot of shit about men while they’re women on Reddit (lol)

The men here are 5/10. Some cool guys, others a bit troubled, others a bit lost, others give solid advice and perspective like possum and flyv, only names I remember here

The worst part of this place are the women who think their shit doesn’t stink (the bar is so low for women ugh!) and the 35+ yr old married men telling young men shitty dating/life advice that would be great for when Michael Jackson was alive and well. Both groups generalize to an extreme to fit a viewpoint that’s easy for them to knock down which is fucking stupid

Hypergamy doesn’t lose and doesn’t care. If you’re wondering why you are struggling with women then the answer is easy there’s better men out there than you accessible to her. Women won’t tell you this because it’s mean and paints women negatively, men won’t because these dumbasses truly believe women just happened to fall in love with them rather than acknowledging maybe why that happened

Don’t be the relationship guy, be the fun guy that settles into a relationship

Also r/seduction > this place, only reason I embarrassed myself entertaining this place is bc it got shut down, thank god it’s back bc fuck at least people will actually have conversations there

Adios migos

Luciansleep · 2023-04-11T05:34:21+00:00

Q4m (non redpill): Do you feel like your girlfriend or wife puts in the same effort when it comes to planning dates and paying for them? Do they expect you to do that more frequently?

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-04-11T05:24:27+00:00

I got banned from Fauxmoi for calling Amy Schumer a rapist fat pig

THHBHStT · 2023-04-11T05:00:04+00:00

Easiest way to see if a discussion is worth having here:

Just bring up hypergamy. If they refuse to acknowledge it then you should keep it pushing. No need to engage with people that don’t accept reality

Play_Muted · 2023-04-11T04:11:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/doodoofard/comments/12hw3n7/sx/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf q4w is it worse if your husband cheats on you with another guy

huhwhatokok · 2023-04-11T04:04:05+00:00

Really only late millennials can complain about being priced out of things, if you’re an early millennial you had every chance to buy a reasonably priced house don’t try to hijack the struggle gen X and late baby millennials have. You were just really bad with money.

chancetolive · 2023-04-11T03:59:32+00:00

Cringy but hilarious https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sd7SEKr3y60

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vIqCVyPk31k

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-04-11T03:57:43+00:00

My boyfriend is in a phase where he will sneak up behind me and slap my ass super hard. What does it mean?

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-11T03:37:01+00:00

I’ve bought prenatal vitamins because they were the cheapest ones, but they have a terrible taste lol. I’m sorry for any women who do get pregnant and eat them while they’re nauseous.

meteorness123 · 2023-04-11T03:28:11+00:00

when even a literal dwarf gets chicks

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e0/a5/f5/e0a5f59e34b280ba4adada97dfc8900f.jpg

Currentlycurious1 · 2023-04-11T03:21:44+00:00

All you height reductionists. I'm 6'1", where are all the women chasing me?

myrosieredcheeks · 2023-04-11T03:20:38+00:00

Why am I not allowed to make posts in this subreddit? I have three really good types of posts, on topic, not written before, to make and they always sit waiting approval from the mods for hours like 15, 20 hours until I just delete it. The mods hate me.

dbz__f · 2023-04-11T03:18:50+00:00

Shitting out massive logs right now. AMA

THHBHStT · 2023-04-11T03:17:49+00:00

My absolute favorite threads are the CMV when women immediately start circlejerking each other to oblivion with their hatred of RP men

Clearly these women are very open to having their opinions changed on the subject and are completely willing to have a real discussion about their feelings. I’m sure they even provide many references to when they claim “these men think like this”

thetruthishere_ · 2023-04-11T02:42:29+00:00

Have a view.

scwizard · 2023-04-11T02:39:01+00:00

Me:

I don't think The Fabulous Show with Fay and Fluffy is appropriate children's programming.

Redditor:

Wow now you're just going full on n*zi

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-11T02:34:02+00:00

Why are the men here so focused on “humbling” a woman who tells them to “go away” and insisting that they have the last word and “clap back” at these women?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-04-11T01:39:48+00:00

Experience gap is what matters not age gap.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-11T01:25:20+00:00

It's criminal how easy it is for women to have an attractive body. Just have a relatively healthy body (19-21 BMI), wear some form fitting yoga pants, and boom you have men irresistibly attracted to you and thinking about you everywhere you go.

It's dumb how few women actually have this body type. It's a standard, easy to obtain body that is attractive but women choose to be unhealthy fatties. I went the day seeing mostly fatties and a few thin women dressed professionally for work. When I saw the first thin (aka healthy) woman wearing yoga pants of the day, I felt like I got hit by cupid's arrow with an arrow head dipped in testosterone and my body viscerally reacted. It's too easy for women to attract men. Fatties should get healthy so healthy women aren't so rare in society.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-11T01:08:19+00:00

I love the fact the stuff I claim men do is more proven than what guys here claim women do.

https://youtu.be/Hj10EL5fOMA

Go to 3:08

Guy 1: What do you expect a guy to bring to the table?

Woman: Be respectful-

Guy 2: So looks don't play a part?

Asked vague question to the woman, got mad it’s not the answer Guy 2 wanted.

myrosieredcheeks · 2023-04-11T01:04:55+00:00

Also what age do women hit "the wall"? What is the actual definition of the wall I keep thinking of game of thrones haha

myrosieredcheeks · 2023-04-11T00:58:12+00:00

What is pink pill?

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-11T00:42:59+00:00

More news from Russia:

The State Duma will legalize draft cards sent online. And forbid "deserters" to leave Russia and take loans.

“So, if a person does not receive a draft card or pretends that he does not receive it, then he will be obliged to voluntarily appear at the military commissariat within two weeks during the next conscription. If he does not do this, then he will receive a notification, digitally signed by the military commissar, about travel and other restrictions” the deputy said.

According to him, if the conscript does not appear again, then, according to the amendments, after 20 days he will be banned from driving, concluding real estate transactions, registering individual entrepreneurs, and taking loans.

KommandaKoopa · 2023-04-11T00:32:26+00:00

I find that Sharing hobbies often leads to people ruining it for me and I end up dropping it entirely

Throwaway1447973 · 2023-04-11T00:22:58+00:00

Aight I'ma be real the whole "men slay in their thirties" thing seems like total cope. 23 y/o grad student and the majority of women I work with or have been introduced to are in a relationship. Even in my mid 20s the shrinking dating pool feels palpable.

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-11T00:06:29+00:00

Whenever a Woman expresses an opinion that indicates that she actually believes that Women are emotionally and morally superior to Men, it makes me giggle

potoricco · 2023-04-10T23:56:20+00:00

Any other females here hate beards

I am honestly questioning whether I am gay but then again I have never found girls attractive. But then I also hate masculine features like beards and heavy body hair. But I like people who are males/slightly androgynous. What sexuality am I

mummydontknow · 2023-04-10T23:50:47+00:00

Before you send that message, think of how it'll look like in a screenshot.

Can't trust people to have integrity these days.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-04-10T23:50:35+00:00

One of my last comments then I will try a reddit detox phase

Challenge for the women of PPD

I now have read multiple times from some women on here that it is quite easy to loose ones virginity as a man and apparently it is just as easy to find a woman to marry.

In order to settle this argument whether or not men have it hard in dating, I'd like to challenge the women of PPD in matching me with a woman who'd marry me.

Consider this as a fun little game.

Ask whatever is necessary and I will try to answer as honestly as possible.

I think this will be a great experience for all of us. Either we'll end up seeing that dating for men is truly as easy as some women state on here or some women on here might have the chance to experience the male point of view when it comes to dating.

Good luck.

lulll · 2023-04-10T23:40:00+00:00

i think men should watch reality tv more. reality tv is basically a bunch of stupid hags who scream and yell at each other constantly. they all hate each other. whats more entertaining than women yelling at other women?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-10T23:30:38+00:00

I just realized that virtually all women’s protesting past/present basically comes down to begging men to do something or give them something

divCal · 2023-04-10T23:12:07+00:00

50% of population yet.....

80% of all arsonies

84% of all murders

80% of all reported pedophilic thoughts

70% of all sex traffickers

92% of all necrophiliacs

60% of all kidnappers

91% of all sexual assault

85% of all robberies

80% of all acid attacks

98% of all mass shootings

Are all men

Something something muh misandry muh modern women bad....

Men calling women degenerate is like a serial killer calling meat eaters evil

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-10T23:11:51+00:00

It's annoying how much women care about what other women/society thinks about the men they potentially date.

If a man is deemed unattractive or low status in society e.g. short, minority, nerdy, etc, women will socially pressure each other to not date those men. What this means is that even if a woman is neutral about those traits herself, she would still avoid the man because she's afraid of what her friends would think and/or her attraction is actually triggered or disabled based on what her friends think, so hearing that her friends thinking a trait is ugly or hot will actually convince her/make her think it. These are grown women acting like a hivemind.

The way it works out in real life is that women will socially pressure and convince each other to either accept or reject men on dating apps and in real life (e.g. at bars or clubs) based on what the hivemind tribunal thinks is attractive or he will get quelled by the hivemind and the traits that matter are either hard or impossible (genetic) to change. Women literally get together and swipe on dating apps or send and evaluate some guys IG together.

bluewayne23 · 2023-04-10T23:05:23+00:00

A lotttt of women want to be hoes and just don’t have a socially acceptable outlet through which they can express their inner-hoe. But when you provide them with it, the fun begins.

JumboJetz · 2023-04-10T22:35:59+00:00

Listened to an interesting interview on the strictly anonymous podcast with an Executive at Ashley Madison website which is a site geared towards people looking to have an affair.

Some interesting info out of the interview:

Gender ratio on the website is 1 man for every 0.6 women (some regional differences - South America apparently has 2 women for every man though)
Interestingly he says women on the site are typically looking for sex, whereas men are often more looking for emotional fulfillment and to feel desireable - the exact opposite of what everyone thinks

I think the reason for the counterintuitive finding may be that women get validated on their looks and desireability even once married by their girl friends saying they look good, husbands being expected to constantly compliment their wives looks, and of course from strangers hitting on them. Men have no such equivalent so may feel more insecure over their desireability.

derektheaccountant · 2023-04-10T22:03:57+00:00

In a society where men and woman have equal chance of success, woman just don’t need men as much as men need woman. Period. End of story. Everything comes back to this simple fact. No one is more wrong than the other.

It is the absolute most terrifying truth for a man once you realize it though.

Prestigious698 · 2023-04-10T21:46:29+00:00

Why are women seen as the empathetic gender? I’ve had women fuck me over in life. I just don’t think we’re any better morally than men to be honest.

potoricco · 2023-04-10T21:43:52+00:00

I hate people that have to make their dog everyone’s problem… and it’s why I say 70% of dog owners have no business owning a dog

My workout got destroyed because some dumbass left their door wide open and their clearly pit bull dog started pursuing me . I won’t be going outside for a while.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-10T21:34:22+00:00

If women's advice started with "For men 5'11+" I think they would actually give legitimately decent advice

MediumBaseball5339 · 2023-04-10T21:12:18+00:00

I've talked to many guys from this sub who have then sent me private messages on 0 day fresh profiles so not to out themselves. And one thing is so blatantly clear.

These young men have zero self worth and confidence. No hobbies. No passions. Instead their world view is whatever pill they've swallowed where they then only stay in that far off forum where they believe "it's over" - on top of digesting and regurgitating the same talking points of feminism this, equality that etc.

Some of them are very young. Makes me want to scream. These guys shouldn't be on the net eating up all the manipulative crap. Ugh

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-11T13:09:47+00:00

Men: women are much more superficial than us!

Also men: if you look at the skin around a woman’s eyes, you can tell if she is post wall or not

potoricco · 2023-04-11T13:46:05+00:00

I hate how rp will argue that women need to secure a man before hitting the wall instead of working on their career

Like, you’re just advocating for feminism even more. Why would I rely on a man who won’t find me attractive in a few years and could leave me at any time, when I could just do things that would actually secure me in the future, and be happy if a man happens to come my way

It’s like they are physically incapable of understanding that we do not exist for them

relish5k · 2023-04-11T11:18:22+00:00

“There is no incentive from women to stay in a marriage, and no risk for women to leave a marriage”

“Ew gross I wouldn’t touch a single mother with a 10 foot pole that is literally the most disgusting thought that anyone can have 🤮”

Oh the cognitive dissonance…

Andre27 · 2023-04-11T18:25:41+00:00

Mommy Bangmaid is the most obvious example of women projecting their experience with only dating chads on the average man. Men arent looking for mommy bangmaid, and generally know how to take care of themselves. You know who gets mommy bangmaid tho? Chad who can get a woman off tinder to come over to his place, bring takeout, fuck and then wash his dishes. And then the average man is just looking for mommy bangmaid.

Remote-Narwhal-2471 · 2023-04-10T21:08:03+00:00

well, well, well. How the turntables.

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-04-11T12:54:35+00:00

while you were having an argument with lift and lurk about OLD and no third places ruining dating there are 100000 broccoli hair zoomers sitting in a starbucks with their cute girlfriends on their highschool lunch breaks

12throw1234away34 · 2023-04-11T14:59:38+00:00

Men, don’t date a woman whose main hobbies include long hours in the sun.

They will age like a carton of whole milk sitting out in the Texas heat.

The facial wrinkles… 😩

RP-MJ · 2023-04-11T17:03:28+00:00

Am still trying to understand this

If a women who wants a men to take charge in the relationship, it's a preference

If a men wants a women who submits to him, it's controlling

If a women sets a boundary aka "making him wait for sex" It's empowering, but when he sets a boundary "l don't date women with social media or go out" something wrong with him or insecurity

I just love the double standards

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-11T11:11:46+00:00

I wonder how often actors sign up for a movie because on paper the script and the people look great but a quarter of the way of filming it’s like Omg this is gonna be a disaster 😂

The problem is I already signed the contract so I’m stuck

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-11T12:02:38+00:00

Are you seriously complaining about shit that naturally happens due to lower libido and having kids?

Imagine complaining about something that naturally happened and implying that you’re only interested in a relationship for sex.

And this is why I’m skeptical about dead bedroom stories because posts and IRL examples indicated that sex was literally the only reason the relationship started and its:

More important than anything else, even when your ”lover” (glorified fuckbuddy) is in a crisis.
So many red flags being ignored early on because they wanted sex.

This is also why I am personally against sex early on in a relationship, because it seems it clouds peoples judgments too much to think logically and I’d rather not have a halo effect on people while I’m trying to vet them.

SkatemanJohn · 2023-04-11T14:35:47+00:00

I just blocked all the admins lmao.

CliffPR · 2023-04-11T14:51:37+00:00

Women: "Men are so much more superficial than women!"

Also Women: "Why are guys under 6' even alive?"

baresquad · 2023-04-11T15:35:04+00:00

If women have the wall men have what I call the window.

It's a quick window of opportunity from around age 16-20 to figure out the dating world and how you want to exist in it. Missing that window leads to an adulthood of consistent dating failures and being stuck in a constant state of confusion about everything.

YaKnowEstacado · 2023-04-11T16:00:10+00:00

Man: Why is everyone posting in this format all of a sudden

Woman: Yeah I dunno it's pretty annoying

Man: Yeah it is. Oh also you forgot to say teehee

Woman: Teehee

jamal_dc · 2023-04-11T16:38:13+00:00

One of the things I’ve noticed about the women who cheat on their boyfriends with me is that they will say things like their bf is:

too nice/soft
boring despite the fact that he treats them well
is bad/boring or sucks in bed
doesn’t give them enough attention

Ironically some of the women who’ve had their bf’s cheat on them tend to be a bit more loyal and resist against my charms. It’s very rare I encounter someone who cheats in retaliation.

potoricco · 2023-04-11T19:39:06+00:00

I’d love to be a dad

Like imagine sitting on your ass for 8 hours while someone else cooks, cleans, works raises your kids and all you have to do is play with them

And still they complain

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-11T11:10:58+00:00

My GF went to this nail salon for the first time that someone recommended to her 2 weeks ago. She said her nails came out ok(was disappointed)and the service was just regular so she gave a 5 dollar tip instead of what she usually does at her regular spot which is a 10. She went to the bathroom before she left and as she’s coming out the female owner confronts her and says can I talk to you. The woman in accusatory tone says

“Well was there anything wrong with the service today?”

My GF said she was like it was ok nothing special.

The owner was like “ok but you only tipped 5 dollars that’s why I was asking most people tip 10-20”

My GF said she got pissed and was like I’ll tip whatever I want can you get out my face please and walked out. She said she would never go back there. The entitlement is crazy to me

scwizard · 2023-04-11T13:29:14+00:00

I got permabanned from r/comics for posting:

"Happy to be part of the side that doesn't think The Fabulous Show with Fay and Fluffy is appropriate children's programming."

I guess this is a touchy subject for Reddit mods for some reason.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-11T13:44:07+00:00

“Women dont know how to help men with dating”.

As if motherfuckers being addicted to tinder is a better alternative.

Also, most of men’s advice, when its not wasting time on tinder, is to be just talking to random strangers at bars, at parties, and at night clubs. Its a very stupid One-Size-Fits-All advice. How is it going to help a nerd who just like obsessing over sci-fi and anime? What if he’s a brooding artist? What if he’s an introvert who wants another introvert?

How are these advices helpful? If anything, it’s no wonder we see alot of frustrated guys who think nice guys finish last and that women are awful. These guys dont know what they want and they’re chasing women they have nothing in common with.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-11T15:23:16+00:00

I was at a club with my friends

And this two women came at our table and argued with my friend because he made a comment saying she has a nice body

We just started laughing and l asked for her number, the bitch got so mad and threw my drink

Best night l had in a while for sure

RP-MJ · 2023-04-11T15:38:10+00:00

"Why don't you have female friends"

Most women don't share my common interests, am likely to talk about sports and have a rational conversation with a stranger guy than a women

Also most of them suck at coin flipping

If a hot chick wanted to be friends l already know she wants my non romantic attention while not adding any value back into my life, seriously what if am in trouble with the authorities or need a place to bunk by for a week ? I know she ain't helping me in those situations

RP-MJ · 2023-04-11T15:47:25+00:00

Women: l don't want a men who sleeps around

Me: then why aren't you dating the majority of guys, who are either virgins or haven't had sex in a long time ?

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-11T17:26:59+00:00

New theory:

Women who would be deemed “wife material” by most men know what they want, have firm boundaries, and prioritize their independent socioeconomic stability prior to or while, pursuing romantic relationships. And these women were taught to behave this way by their fathers.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-11T21:12:00+00:00

17yo guy agrees with Andrew tate

Everyone: "BaD iNfLuEnCe oN YoUnG Men"

Meanwhile 17yo girl listening to Cardi B trashing men

Everyone:

Play_Muted · 2023-04-11T10:49:26+00:00

https://prnt.sc/2rcQHAFhSKtG, https://prnt.sc/N-I-un47TfzG

worst case of accidently exposing your alt account KEKW

DragoonXFury · 2023-04-11T15:13:26+00:00

Been here on this subreddit 7 years counting now and recently turned 26 recently so I thought I make this same post again.

I feel like the only guy in the world to be late virgin and not care about N count like at all (maybe 26 isn't that late?).

I think I'd happily marry and have children with a woman who perhaps has an N count of like 80 (logical extreme) or something (obviously provided we like each other and get along and all that jazz 🎺)

No visceral disgust induced whatsoever (not sarcasm).

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-11T15:20:01+00:00

He doesn’t understand how women refuse sex

I’ve seen this post several times, but I always find it amusing. Tell me you’re bad at sex without saying so.

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-04-11T15:37:36+00:00

Women: I have a preference in dating for tall men

Men on ppd: WOMEN WANT TO GENOCIDE ALL SHORT MEN

lulll · 2023-04-11T16:12:24+00:00

i almost stepped on this fucking thing. put it back in please. also women please check your vaginas before stepping outside thank you

Andre27 · 2023-04-11T16:36:18+00:00

PPD women behave the same way they accuse men of behaving in terms of partner choice.

You know the accusation. AWALT only because you only go after promiscuous bitches who are addicted to social media, because those are the most sexually desirable women.

Those same women in turn only go after Chads with options who are used to sleeping around, which is why they think all men will cheat, trade women in for a younger model, go for low-N or virgins while themselves being high N, pretend to be interested until sex and then ghost. And so on. You know all the accusations they make as if they apply to the average man.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-04-11T16:41:08+00:00

No diamond no hymen

good_at_math_2 · 2023-04-11T16:51:09+00:00

Women are terrible at seeing the mental health problems in hyper competent men

It doesn’t matter if the guy is a 7 foot multi millionaire NBA champion 22 year old - meaning competent but still not attached.

It’s the same way men might not see the mental issues in a super hot girl women might not see it in a tall athletic/musical rich famous Chad and assume this Chad is unreachable.

These famous rich people have to date someone you know.

EDIt: and being a drug dealer, gangster is also competence it’s very hard to be either of those

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-11T18:00:09+00:00

Found one in the wild!

A real life blue piller claiming that "just shower and get a haircut and you won't have dating problems"!

For all you asshole bloops that claim society never says this.

What's really funny is a few guys pressed her and found that her friends are flat out ignoring 80% of men that DO shower and have a good haircut because they aren't "confident" and that women can "sense" when you have a dirty apartment.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-04-11T19:08:38+00:00

Sometimes I get why men might be jealous of the attention that (pretty) women get for existing, but at the same time this wouldn’t even be a story if men weren’t so gd thirsty:

https://www.msn.com/en-us/sports/golf/female-fan-in-the-masters-gallery-who-went-viral-on-tiktok-has-been-identified/ar-AA19Gscr

lulll · 2023-04-11T19:59:21+00:00

a true illyrian warrior

purplish_possum · 2023-04-11T20:53:02+00:00

My oldest daughter is a UC Berkeley trained licenced marriage and family therapist. Did I fail as a parent?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-10T21:10:49+00:00

Its funny watching guys speak in code and expect women to be mind readers. As a child, I was taught that it’s a ‘feminine trait’ that guys couldnt stand.

The fact there are guys here who think women should read “What do you like in a guy” and understand that means “What makes your pussy wet”. is insane.

Its so ironic that PPD and the manosphere did more to break my perception of gender stereotypes than feminists ever did.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-11T11:58:53+00:00

I'm noticing more and more women which are calling out the hypocrisies of other women.

Did women became... more reasonable?

Or some of you assholes are LARPing as women?

SkatemanJohn · 2023-04-11T13:25:45+00:00

If I say a bad thing and get banned will it remove all my comments and make it like I was never here?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-11T13:31:32+00:00

Is it better to never be aware of your mental illness and just fumble through life, or to be hyper aware of it and not be able to do anything about it? I honestly don't know anymore.

Over_Noise3530 · 2023-04-11T13:43:20+00:00

Fast food places keep messing up my order and giving me a large when I ordered a small. Then they give me an attitude about it. I swear they are trying to upsell then making it look like a mistake

liefelijk · 2023-04-11T14:20:29+00:00

An old man yelled at me this morning about my speed and I was very close to getting road-ragey back. Suck my dick, old man.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-11T15:33:38+00:00

CMV: marriage is antiquated because we live too long now, no one wants to be with one person for that long

scwizard · 2023-04-11T16:04:20+00:00

https://geartape.com/texas-911-dispatcher-suspended-after-husband-catches-her-sexting-7-cops/

Right wing people seem to be having way more sex than lefties these days.

scwizard · 2023-04-11T16:51:57+00:00

Blonde right wing girls be like "yeah women should be punished for having sex outside of marriage. They should be slapped, spanked, choked, maybe held down and shown how sl*ts like them get treated. That's why I oppose abortion rights because those girls need to get what's coming to them."

iliyb · 2023-04-11T16:58:56+00:00

Why do teachers hate Wikipedia? it spits nothing but facts

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-11T17:05:28+00:00

Women are terrible at seeing the mental health problems in hyper competent men

Meanwhile, men knowingly date crazy bitches, I guess.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-11T17:13:34+00:00

Today's a lucky day.

Take a chance, make your move, now is the day to act!

AnUnstableNucleus · 2023-04-11T17:17:15+00:00

I'm still convinced it's only a loud minority of women online who want jeans/pants with larger pockets.

The US is too greedy/capitalistic to let such a large potential market go untapped, and even if this were a major oversight, there's nothing stopping women from making their own company to provide jeans/pants with larger pockets if they're that in demand.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-11T17:47:27+00:00

For all the people who claim TRP is a Ideology to make us look like extremists, when in reality it's the general observation of how the two genders operate in dating dynamics

RP-MJ · 2023-04-11T17:53:37+00:00

Me: women cheat way more

Women: no they don't

Me: who has more sexual partners ?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-11T17:57:41+00:00

Does anyone just wish they weren't attracted to anyone? Just become Ace the rest of your life?

This attraction shits getting real old

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-11T19:14:31+00:00

"A Miami woman, who works at a popular Hallandale Beach strip joint, misled her husband about her whereabouts while bar hopping with another man and was charged for sending police on a wild goose chase."

"Married Texas 911 dispatcher suspended for allegedly sexting 7 officers"

"A small Tennessee police station has been rocked by allegations of wild sexual misconduct, after a married female officer allegedly had steamy romps with six male officers, including illicit on-duty liaisons"

Marriage is the biggest dupe of all time

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-11T19:17:44+00:00

Women be like dressing like a third world prostitute and complain about being stared at and feeling uncomfortable.

saraimarsena · 2023-04-11T19:24:17+00:00

do men on here have an issue with women changing their type as they get older if she’s as/more affectionate with her later partner?

or is the main issue when she’s less affectionate and sexual with her later partner compared to her earlier ones?

Peacesquad · 2023-04-11T20:19:23+00:00

What did I miss?

liefelijk · 2023-04-11T21:05:56+00:00

Nicoise Salad is just so delicious. It’s my ultimate favorite. If you’ve never tried it, do yourself that favor.

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-10T21:06:09+00:00

https://www.hellomagazine.com/healthandbeauty/mother-and-baby/20230307166180/rod-stewart-eight-children-revealed/?viewas=amp

Rod Stewart has a 60 year old daughter and a 12 year old son lol. That is wild to me. My oldest sibling and my parents last child have a gap of 11 years, I’m 3rd there’s a 7 year gap between me and the youngest. My parents told me their plan was to have 3 kids in about 5 years and that’s what happened(1984,1986,1988). My little sister was an accident.

My best friend had his fist child last year, his wife is pregnant again now with the second because they are tryna go back to back and get it out of the way quickly. The first was a girl and they want a little boy now to complete their family. If it’s a boy he said that’s it and he will get the snip. If it’s a girl they will try one more time next year and then he will get the snip no matter what.

Lovers691 · 2023-04-10T21:07:26+00:00

Tfw you’re not first

Lovers691 · 2023-04-10T21:10:56+00:00

For women mostly but men can answer as well. Define emotional intelligence, because it seems to me that emotional intelligence is just used to refer to someone who cries an example was the Thad vs Shawn shit, a lot of women implied Thad was emotionally unintelligent just because he was stoic.

potoricco · 2023-04-11T11:26:11+00:00

i will get engaged at 19 like milly bobby brown

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-04-11T12:40:41+00:00

it doesn't matter how many youtube videos you watch or how many lists you read on reddit. you will never keep the autistic charade going. Give up.

being alpha starts from the heart and works its way out. Aka being a man.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-11T15:55:54+00:00

PPD Men: Women like assholes. Why do women like men who treat them like shit?!

Also PPD Men: Would rather deal with women who dehumanizes men than change his taste in women.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-04-11T16:42:26+00:00

Do men have types? All my life I understood that men have types they like and go after, and if you don't fit his type its not worth pursuing a romantic relationship with him.

And yet I come here and I'm told men will fuck-date anything vaguely female, humanoid, and alive.

This concept of types also plays into my disbelief that men and women can't be platonic friends; I postulate that if a man and woman don't fit each others type, then they can successfully be platonic friend.

Case in point; I'm a petite biracial woman and I like skinny dramatic musicians, a male friend of mine is big + tall/lumberjackish and he's into tall, fair skinned, big titty, hausfraus. In our 20 years of friendship I don't think we've ever viewed each other through a romantic lens. We're both argumentative devil advocates and our lifestyles are wildly different.

He has a type that he exclusively dates, why would he ever view me in that light when I don't fit his romantic ideal?

I've encountered that exact sort of paradigm my entire life; friends with a dude that is not into what I romantically offer, because he has a type and I'm not it (and vice versa; friends with a dude but he's not my type).

I feel like types, and adherence to pursing those types, is more common IRL, whereas here dudes will argue to the death that men can't have types (or standards), cause then they'll have dry dicks forever.

So which is it; do men have types or not?

MalandiBastos · 2023-04-11T17:23:01+00:00

[NSFW]

Greetings from tokyo.

TLDR; Mostly me talking about some experiences in Japan, and Japans problem with sexualizing minors.

Just arrived here yesterday from taipei, taiwan.

As far as Taipei, very lovely city, relatively affordable, good food, amazing public transport. Though, if you want hole, you have to "bring the goods" a bit. Didnt see any sexpat looking westerners. Most western males were average or above. The vast majority of the time, I saw them with good looking Taiwanese women.

Anyways, on to Tokyo.

Definitely an experience. I arrived at the airport early in the morning, and taking the subway to my place during rush hour, absolutely PACKED and chaotic.

I finally arrive near my place to which my airbnb host picks me up at the nearest station. Very cool guy, came with his wife and infant daughter.

So I get home, go to the grocery store, and sleep the rest of the day.

Next day, I head out to "Akibahara". Among other things, I checked out this big sex shop. 7 floors of wild stuff.

In the basement, contained the most fucked up stuff. A used panty gacha machine. Iirc there was 4 options. One for unused, one for used, one for pissed in, and one for bloody. You could buy them for something like 15 dollars.

The basement also contained a ton of sex dolls, there were some, which any reasonable person would describe as depicting underaged girls. They were fully nude and displayed in sexual positions. It was quite shocking to me. The dolls in general, cost something like between 500 and 2000 dollars.

A bit later while checking out a large mall, I went into a bookstore type thing. There was an adult section so I checked it out. There was this long aisle that was essentially all hentai mangas. They were quite cheap most of them, some even less than 2 dollars, so I decided to pick some up as gag gifts for my friends back home. They were all tightly packed together in a long row of book shelves, probably over a hundred thousand of these books. You had to pull them out to see what was on the cover. About 50% of the time id pull a manga out, id have to put it back, because the girl looked so young theres no way id risk getting caught with it in my bags coming back home.

Before coming here, I had known of course there was this kind of sexualization of minors in Japanese culture, but I had no idea how present this was, its crazy, I thought it was just a small niche.

Another peculiar thing worth reporting on when walking around, there were a few streets/alleyways, where young women, lined up, in all types of outfits, mostly provacative, a few examples include different takes on schoolgirl uniforms, maid outfits, even pirate outfit or anime esque stuff, would smile, wave, or call out to you.

They would hold a sign, or pass out fliers, some with numbers on them like "2000". Indicating, and someone correct me if im wrong, the amount of yen it costs, to talk/drink with them for X amount of time in a bar/cafe they work for.

I took a few of the fliers, to see what they had on them, here are some:

https://www.reddit.com/user/MalandiBastos/comments/12iq3ll/_/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Here is a video of me walking by some of them:

https://www.reddit.com/user/MalandiBastos/comments/12iq4g7/_/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

After this, I head to a redlight district. "Kabukicho".

Again you see the lineup of girls promoting their hostess bars etc. This area was a lot different than the last though. You could tell, there was a lot more "muscle" behind the scene. I saw a few guys who I can only assume were yakuza, by their posituring and visible tattoos.

There were also a bunch of african guys promoting stuff, though they were just dressed normally, walking up to people, and who would of course approach me as a single guy, asking me "what im looking for", showing me a picture of a girl asking if I want to meet her, that kind of thing, with an obvious undertone.

Now I know someone is gunna say "brooo why are you around all this sex stuff, you obviously dont have a problem with it, youre searching it out!". Lol, i mean, I was curious about it, and perhaps id buy some sexual services, from adults of course, I just wanted to talk about how I was super suprised to see how, the good fun adult stuff, is like coupled right next to sexualization of minors here and its fucking insane.

Here is a good vice documentsry on "schoolgirls for sale" if youve never seen it before.

https://youtu.be/0NcIGBKXMOE

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-04-11T17:47:26+00:00

Q4w

In reaction to the previous ‘theory’ how many independent ladies out there were taught this way by either a man or a woman??

RP-MJ · 2023-04-11T18:54:29+00:00

"The Redpill is a Ideology"

So a men's wife cheating on him is based on ideas ?

Divorce initiations by women are based on ideas ?

Women generally wanting taller and competent men is based on ideas ?

Anyone who claims it's an Ideology is clearly lacking common sense

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-11T19:15:27+00:00

" “This is the way of all woman: She eats only the best, criticizes that others like her would do the same, and wipes her mouth and says, ‘I’ve done nothing wrong.’

Peacesquad · 2023-04-11T20:20:41+00:00

Where my women at? I love y’all!! 😗🫶🏽🦾💪🏾🦾🫀🫀🫦👁️

tvear · 2023-04-11T21:05:57+00:00

Shower thought: highly successful people are people who set new goals, and pursue, and accomplish them on a regular ongoing basis throughout their life. This is a very attractive quality to have and It's tied closely together with what women consider ambition and drive. It's also related to status since regularly accomplishing new things earns you the admiration of other people and increases your social status.

It's not enough to go to college, get a good job making a lot of money and coast on that the rest of your life. Then you're just another guy with a good job and there are millions of them. It's much rarer for people to have dreams and ambitions that they actually follow through on and succeed.

TRP is a little wrong when they say that women wait at the finish line. Women will take a chance on a guy who she perceives as having ambition and drive, particularly when younger. But if he never actually follows through on it and she finds out he was all talk and would actually rather get drunk and play video games then she's going to get sick of him and leave.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-11T22:03:05+00:00

Some of you men love giving relationship advice like it’s fact but have no successful relationship to show for it. That’s kind of embarrassing 🤥

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-04-11T12:51:14+00:00

in every realm of human interest there is a subreddit of pussy losers telling you how it's over. Finance/dating/bodybuilding literally everything. Meanwhile there are kids fucking 100 women and buying their first condo at 23

lulll · 2023-04-11T17:24:21+00:00

can women stop shoving their estrogen in our face every second of the fuckin day. this is what having estrogen shoved in your face feels like

Purple317 · 2023-04-11T21:33:26+00:00

Curious as to other peoples thoughts on this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/12ek1tm/i_left_my_husband_the_day_after_our_youngest/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Summary: wife catches husband cheating in their home. They still have young children at the time, so they stay together and go to therapy for a while etc. Eventually (it’s not clear if this is months later or years later) wife realizes she can’t get past it and isn’t in love with husband anymore. Once she realizes this she’s actually happier and can “let go” of her fear of him cheating again - she becomes indifferent to it. They continue to raise their children and have a mostly cooperative, co-parenting type of relationship. When youngest child is grown and moves out, wife files for divorce. Husband is angry and says she deceived him all these years by “pretending” things were ok. Wife feels like she’s not being intentionally vindictive - she didn’t want to give up having her children with her 100% of the time so she was willing to be in a loveless marriage - but now that the children are grown, she sees no reason to stay in the marriage.

Thoughts? Who is wrong here, or are they both wrong?

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