Daily Community Chat Megathread

ratboi34 · 2023-10-27T06:59:45+00:00

Tfw when you are too ugly for a blind bitch.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-020-01901-w

[...] while physical attractiveness was less important to blind men, blind women considered physical attractiveness as important as sighted women. The importance of a high status and likeable personality was not influenced by sightedness."

"While blind men placed less importance on physical attractiveness, blind women did not differ from sighted women. This suggests that a partner’s physical attractiveness might bear an indirect advantage to women by increasing their desirability, while sighted men assess physical attractiveness as a direct indicator for fertility and health."

In their study, Hasenkamp et al. examined the importance of physical attractiveness and resource acquisition in potential romantic partners in congenitally blind and sighted individuals. Results showed that physical attractiveness and resource acquisition were valued less by blind men in comparison to sighted men.

Blind women, on the other hand, exhibited a stronger preference for physical attractiveness than blind men.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-27T06:58:50+00:00

Today is Friday. Tonight and tomorrow night I'm gonna go clubbing in a college area in Seoul. I remember days when I couldn't do this in my early 20's so I will be definitely making up for some lose time. Im sure its gonna be lit since its Halloween weekend.

SkookumTree · 2023-10-27T06:16:46+00:00

If you consider YOURSELF a bitch, I think that's cool as fuck and I respect that.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-10-27T06:09:23+00:00

Always knew my voice was high-pitched, but I measured it today and realized just how bad it was. New insecurity unlocked.

lolmastr13 · 2023-10-27T05:56:12+00:00

I’m definitely an npc but whatever

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-27T05:37:34+00:00

So all I gotta do is have some Coke or percs and I’ll get laid bro?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-27T04:58:55+00:00

is there data on whether or not women are actually getting "run through", high n-count, raunchy crazy sex, before settling at ~30. I feel like this issue is blown away out of proportion despite being a popular talking point

DerayRevan · 2023-10-27T04:42:28+00:00

Fellas get Tiege Hanley

I've using their product for years now, and l can say it works to perfection

It gives you very simple instructions to follow for night and day routine

They aren't like the woman's products where companies don't put effort because they know they are still gonna buy them regardless

I've gotten so many compliments for how good my skin looks and l've recommended this to many women l dated and even my female relatives

There's also a level 1 and 2, so make sure you get the level 1 first

Let's get our skin right gents

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-27T04:08:25+00:00

Oh man I imagine so many dudes here will soil their undergarments with rage at this post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/s/Csht8j4li5

Shes for the streets!!!

hannahg000 · 2023-10-27T04:07:03+00:00

time to listen to 1989 taylor’s version

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-10-27T04:04:31+00:00

If I can smell my own cum does that mean other people can too?

dbz__f · 2023-10-27T03:54:17+00:00

It's kinda weird when you consider how desperately your parents-in-law want you to multi-creampie their daughter when she's ovulating.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-27T03:51:33+00:00

this was my exact type when i was 13. i would make sims characters who looked exactly like this and they would always start dating my other sim who a straight a good girl. he also reminds me of all those dark!harry styles fanfics

ratboi34 · 2023-10-27T03:50:06+00:00

I get getting no bitches, every guy has dry spells, but it's weird reading about incel struggles coming from a degenerate neighbourhood. Even the religious chicks were sucking dick. 120 pounds Somalian immigrants with the SMV of a toenail were getting pussy. They would go into trashy bars and steal the gf of some white loser that couldn't speak up. There was this one chick that would suck dick for a pack of cigarettes and she wasn't even that poor. There were guys at 40 with 10 dollars in their pockets, that were smashing upper middle class white women by telling them they were surgeons and shit. I feel like most incels just need to be more degenerate lmao.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-27T03:11:58+00:00

What advice would you give this guy?

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/JfHThlRbai

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-27T03:10:24+00:00

After several years I finally get to have a new drug experience.

My fiance got us GHB to get fucked up on tonight.

It's super dangerous which makes it even more metal.

I'm so stoked!!!!!

sine120 · 2023-10-27T03:01:08+00:00

You want a pre-wall woman to marry? Just start a world war, bro:

https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/visualizations/time-series/demo/families-and-households/ms-2.pdf

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-27T02:47:25+00:00

I'll never forget how my middleschool best friend told me she thought butt plugs were to keep you from shitting your pants when you had diarrhea. Lindsay, if you're out there: WHAT THE FUCK

blacksuperherocar · 2023-10-27T02:45:17+00:00

This week I learned that being a vegan male is feminine gets you absolutely 0 beetxhes 🥵

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-27T02:40:39+00:00

I have a mini space heater in my cubicle. When my coworker just gave me that, and told me I could keep it there, I felt like Balenciaga or Gucci or whatever. I was like yaaaaassss I'm a rich bitch now. Suck my dick!!!

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-27T02:22:05+00:00

The only 2 things that matter in life: money and escapism

scwizard · 2023-10-27T01:27:57+00:00

Can there ever be a feminism where feminist women have two or more children on average?

Or will it always be an uphill battle of the feminist childfree witchy aunt, trying to deprogram her niece from the patriarchial ideologies her parents raised her in?

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-10-27T01:22:35+00:00

Hello, my darlings! How are things with the purple folk? Getting ready for Halloween? Started your Christmas shopping yet? Picked out your turkey for Thanksgiving? Anything exciting happening around these parts?

EulenWatcher · 2023-10-27T01:10:20+00:00

What are your plans on Halloween?

SpecificLogical971 · 2023-10-27T01:02:33+00:00

Could you rate this model? She isn’t like regular catwalk type models. https://www.prettylittlething.ca/shape-dusty-blue-slinky-cowl-neck-bodysuit.html

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-10-27T00:49:42+00:00

I’ve posted on alts to the rating subs, and even the “brutally honest” ones always sugarcoat too much. They tell me I’m like a 5/10, and maybe my face is, but I’m short with a squeaky voice, so there’s no way I’m above a 3/10.

scwizard · 2023-10-27T00:38:36+00:00

My straight boyfriend cheated on me with men

He opened up to me about how he wanted to try new things with me in bed. One ask was for me to use a strap-on on him. He loved it. And he was happy he could do new things with me without judgement. He was the best sex of my life.

Fast forward...

I took his phone and locked myself in the bathroom. I began to discover he has Grindr, Tinder, and Snapchat messages to about 30+ people exchanging videos of him inserting my dildos into his ass and choking on it. I read one of the Grindr messages and he had met up with this one person, named Daddy, last night.

You will never ever be able to convince me pegging isn't queer I'm sorry.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-27T00:15:57+00:00

Assume you're married and use a condom every time whenever you have sex with your wife. If she gets pregnant, what's the probability she's having an affair?

Some sketchy math gives an answer of 50%...

Process:

First, make the simplifying assumption that the number of women having more than 1 pregnancy per year is negligible.

Then using Bayes theorem, we have:

P(wife having an affair | she gets pregnant) = P(wife having an affair)*P(she gets pregnant | wife having an affair) / P(she gets pregnant)

According to How Many People Cheat? Statistics And Figures For Infidelity In The U.S. | Regain there's a study that says that roughly 4% of married people admitted to having extramarital sex in the past year

so we'll put:

P(wife having an affair) = 0.04

which gives us

P(she gets pregnant) = P(she gets pregnant from you) + 0.04 * P(she gets pregnant from her affair partner | wife having an affair)

and moreover we have

P(she gets pregnant | wife having an affair) = P(she gets pregnant from you) + P(she gets pregnant from her affair partner | wife having an affair)

According to the Planned Parenthood website, there's a 2% chance of the woman becoming pregnant every year if condoms are used properly every time.

Therefore, we have

P(she gets pregnant from you) = 0.02

All that's left to solve for is the value of:

P(she gets pregnant from her affair partner | wife having an affair) = ?

There aren't any good studies that provide a definitive conclusion on how long an average affair lasts. Browsing around, most sources I've seen range from 6 months to 2 years as an estimate.

I'll conservatively estimate an average duration of roughly 1 year, and 1 sexual meeting per month with the affair partner. This gives 12 sexual encounters per year for the average married person in an affair.

The site How long does it take to get pregnant after sex? A timeline (medicalnewstoday.com) links to a study that claims "The researchers found that the couples had roughly a 1 in 20 chance of conceiving when they did not deliberately time their intercourse for optimal fertility."

So what's the expected probability of becoming pregnant from your affair partner given you have sex 12 times a year with a 0.05 chance of pregnancy per encounter?

It's this:

P(she gets pregnant from her affair partner | wife having an affair) = 1 - (0.95)^12

= 0.46

Let's plug all our values back into the original equations. We get:

P(she gets pregnant) = P(she gets pregnant from you) + 0.04 * P(she gets pregnant from her affair partner | wife having an affair)

= 0.02 + 0.04 * 0.46 = 0.0384

and

P(she gets pregnant | wife having an affair) = P(she gets pregnant from you) + P(she gets pregnant from her affair partner | wife having an affair)

= 0.02 + 0.46 = 0.48

Finally, we can plug these in to the main equation to get:

P(wife having an affair | she gets pregnant) = P(wife having an affair)*P(she gets pregnant | wife having an affair) / P(she gets pregnant)

= 0.04*0.48/0.0384 = 0.5

TLDR: by this estimate, if you properly use condoms every time and she becomes pregnant, there's a 50% chance your wife is in an affair

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-10-26T23:48:54+00:00

Do most 20s women in large cities realize their standards are unrealistic and nothing is waiting for them at the finish line? And the current paradigm is better than the alternative. Or do they genuinely think their chad bucks who treats them well is eventually out there?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-26T23:40:38+00:00

Super Mario greatly explains female/male purpose and intersexual dynamics.

The man's (Mario's) job it is to defeat the obstacles that are thrown his way. He must rise up to the challenge. The woman's (Daisy's) job it is to be saved by man. And when woman is saved, she greatly adds to his mission. Man needs purpose and woman needs man.

Man's happiness is : I will.

Woman's happiness is : He will.

Behold, just now the world became perfect.

afk_row · 2023-10-26T23:15:49+00:00

https://voicecel.org

Do the test guys

butagoodpersonality · 2023-10-26T22:49:02+00:00

Getting back into dating after like 18 months has me like 🤮

Justwannaread3 · 2023-10-26T22:46:36+00:00

I’m not over the post where so many people claimed women aren’t / can’t be romantic.

I’ve planned and proposed dates; bought my bf flowers and treats; left him love notes….. and I don’t think I’m special for doing any of that!

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-26T22:22:21+00:00

Can marriage work if both partners have separate houses and separate everything.

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-10-26T22:18:34+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17grl2v/i_34m_overheard_her_32f_say_how_i_wasnt_the_type/

Absolute proof that women are fucking delusional in their assessment of relationships and are perfectly content to gaslight men into staying in a situation with a woman who is clearly dragging him along as a beta bucks. You can't tell me looking at these comments with all these asinine excuses of how "actually, your wife saying you're a beta loser bitch compared to all the hotter guys that made her squirt back when she was younger is a HUGGGEEEE compliment. Because it means out of all those dudes who got to rail her senseless and who she still has wet dreams about after rolling away from your disgusting body every night, *you* were the one she wanted to be with long term (cause she totally didn't want to lock down any of those other guys but couldn't...) and being 'boring' is just what women want once they get old and fat and ugly! Why aren't you being happy yet you gross incel??? Ugh, men are so insecure!"

Fucking crazy how some of the girls are just openly coming out and saying they want literal cucks to settle down with them after they've failed to catch a guy they're sexually attracted to. Sometimes I'm almost glad I've never been with anyone before cause if this is the type of woman that's out there count me the fuck OUT.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-10-26T22:17:15+00:00

What percent of the comments do you estimate on here are pure dishonesty, disingenuous, or disinformation. I am referring to made up anecdotes or stats, misinterpretation of stats, or men speaking in the voice of women (or vice versa).

tacticaltossaway · 2023-10-26T22:08:02+00:00

I see that the new flair rule is making for a wonderful change in the quality of discussion.

Who doesn't want to see rows of [removed]?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-10-26T21:53:19+00:00

My cousin’s dream is to marry an NBA or NFL player but she’s under 5’ tall. Is that a dealbreaker if they want their sons to be pro athletes too?

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-10-26T21:51:19+00:00

So... My husband was telling me yesterday about his disappointment in Adam The Woo (YouTuber who up until now seemed wholesome) dating an OF thot who's significantly younger than him (and they got together when she was a barely-legal ofc) and I immediately thought of all the guys in here whose heads would explode from the contradiction to RP tenets. I mean so many dudes in here will sing the praises of age gaps, criticize female promiscuity, and they can't seem to comprehend that there are other men who don't think like they do (my husband and apparently Adam both fall into this category in different ways.) I'm interested in reading y'all's perspectives on this Woo situation, lol.

romantic-knight · 2023-10-26T21:28:39+00:00

Why do women not understand why men care about paternal certainty

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Mobrowncheeks · 2023-10-26T20:01:10+00:00

First

scwizard · 2023-10-26T20:02:34+00:00

Ngl if I wasn't religious I'd totally wanna date a sorta autistic swinger girl. Also I'd try and encourage her to wear very showy clothes even though she's not that pretty.

princedune · 2023-10-26T20:11:09+00:00

I wish I was gay

jaybalvinman · 2023-10-26T20:20:03+00:00

How do I get attention as a post wall non-white conventionally average woman?

Peacesquad · 2023-10-26T20:33:06+00:00

Are you fertile? What did I miss?

HolidayWhile · 2023-10-26T20:39:37+00:00

Prototyping in here before I make a post on the big screen.

I have a hypothesis that most of the dating troubles expressed in this sub are a direct result of women working. Not that it's a bad thing in and of itself, but women now work in more numbers and more hours than ever before leaving them with zero energy and time to meet men. This means they are going in for their 12 hour nurse shift, or from fast food job to fast food job, and then home, with no downtime to do anything but sleep. They aren't going to church or bars or language classes or whatever, because they are spending every waking moment paying insurmountable student debt. 60% of college students are women now. They were taught from young ages just like men were that they need to go to college and get a career or they'll be flipping burgers the rest of their life, and relationships are secondary.

Consequently I as a man don't see marriage-aged women in public anymore, not out recreating. I see plenty stocking shelves at the grocery store, making espresso, conducting job interviews in HR, you name it, I see lots of young women working these jobs, and nowhere else. They just don't have time for relationships or families. They might hate this, and a partner might help alleviate the financial stress, but they don't have time to find one and are stuck on the hamster wheel. Neither sex wins.

In the past, men and women would be out of the house regularly and it wasn't that weird for them to talk to each other. Only the man would work, and because the labor supply was smaller since women weren't generally part of it, his income would be higher and enough to support both him, her, and children. University education wasn't a back breaking, arguably unprofitable purchase. Statistically, everyone including women were happier this way. Today suicides are at record levels. Globally, there is a directly negative correlation between women's education levels and birth rates. What are the odds?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-26T20:40:06+00:00

I think I want to learn to flirt. I'm not sure what it really is but my attempt at work went well. She seemed really receptive and then was really friendly to me the rest of the day.

Q4All: what is flirting, do you like it?

cactusbeam777 · 2023-10-26T20:47:27+00:00

Close male friendships are nice but are absolutely not a prerequisite for romantic success. Obviously a guy with a big, highly social friend group will do better than a guy without, and a weird guy with zero friends and social problems is going to struggle. But apart from that there's no correlation.

Unfuckable nerds can have a close group of other friends like them but that won't help them date. Especially for casual dating it really doesn't matter. In long term relationships some women might find it weird if you have no close male friends but some don't care at all. If anything I think it's better to have lots of casual acquaintances so you run into lots of people when you're out and about and you look very popular and social. But it doesn't matter if you actually hang out with them one on one.

Close friendships are a lot like relationships and I think most men are way too loyal and don't have high enough standards for friends. It's better imo to be a loner than to have low quality friends who reflect poorly on you. Changing friend groups and cutting bad people out of your life is a mature skill that I think lots of guys lack but women are naturally much better at it.

monster_lily · 2023-10-26T20:50:21+00:00

Im going to buy falscara lash extensions

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-26T20:50:47+00:00

As a man, you don't have the luxury of crying and being depressed.

You have to perform at the highest level at all times, without excuse.

afk_row · 2023-10-26T20:51:35+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/iykkixis0mwb1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c093cf0c7db92d96b4db8a7abe4b7f17ce38de68

This is wild.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-26T20:53:33+00:00

I've met more "i just wanna get my dick wet 😈" guys with more dating success than "i really want a girlfriend 🥲" guys and it's kind of obvious to me why.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-26T20:55:55+00:00

Is revenge good or bad ?

monster_lily · 2023-10-26T21:00:18+00:00

See the thing is that i need a job but im too busy right? but my dad lives in a different time and he says i should apply somewhere but tell them I can only work on saturdays for 4 hours. Its not the 1980s anymore. No one would hire me

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-26T21:21:07+00:00

Little challenge: you're in a simulation and wake up in the body of a 5/10 male (keeping your brain / personality of course).

Let's say 5'7-8, maybe a bit overweight or skinny fat, average face. Your mission is to get laid with a woman (anyone above legal age is fine) within 7 days. Here are the conditions:

you have a house, a phone, a computer and enough food in the fridge to last for a week
you don't know anybody in the simulation
you can spend your time however you like
you are absolutely not allowed to spend any money (so no going at the bar and buying some girls drinks until she pity fuck you while being drunk af), but you can use a dating app since it's free
you obviously can't do anything illegal to achieve that goal and the sex needs to be fully consensual

Two questions:

What's your plan? If you succeed, you'll win let's say 10 millions $. If you fail, nothing happens.
How would your rate your chance of succeeding?

Good luck soldier.

Sillysheila · 2023-10-26T21:25:24+00:00

Is empathy or kindness in a woman an attractive trait or not?

afk_row · 2023-10-26T23:39:31+00:00

Bro after seeing y’all’s result I started considering voice deepening surgery 😞

Blocksplain · 2023-10-27T02:34:34+00:00

Ayyy so am I a big beta for waiting until the show runs to make a move? It feels professional but successful men don't seem to act so professionally

AdLow_3 · 2023-10-27T03:04:50+00:00

Are older women more mature and different from younger women?

These women are all in their 30s and 40s. But seem to habe the emotkonal maturity of teenagers?

Last week I was out to drinks with two new-ish girlfriends for a little cocktail bonding session. Halfway through our drinks, my ex texted me out of the blue – so of course it came up in conversation.

As I read out his name BOTH of them laughed. Turns out all of us have had relations with this man. One of my friends shouted out “Oh we’re spit sisters!”

https://nypost.com/2023/10/26/lifestyle/jana-hocking-my-friends-and-i-found-out-were-spit-sisters/

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-27T08:01:49+00:00

No icy for almost a whole week, life is good man

https://youtube.com/shorts/89mmfUb8i04?si=OMzkDE9ztXnis6bA

dbz__f · 2023-10-27T08:19:56+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with a man cooking but you have to cook like a man, not like some pussy.

When my gf cuts cucumbers, she slices them into paper-thin wafers because she’s cute and feminine like that.

When I cut cucumbers I chop them into these bulky uneven chunks cause I’m a manly man.

No_Mammoth8801 · 2023-10-27T08:25:07+00:00

"Why men are afraid of couple's therapy, according to a male couple's therapist."

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-10-27T08:34:09+00:00

The way y'all love to fetishise "teen love" is concerning.

Guys, teen love is awkward, embarrassing and rife with bullshit.

https://www.reddit.com/r/2meirl4meirl/s/QpKeVcQxce

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-10-27T09:11:03+00:00

If you're throwing in the proverbial towel because you didn't have "teen love", then you're just a pathetic coward looking for an excuse to wallow away.

SlothMonster9 · 2023-10-27T09:18:35+00:00

Why aren't men more pissed off on other men who play women? There are men in this sub who admit they fake a relationship, who promise marriage just so they don't get dumped and loose pussy and chores done for free, who play women by telling them to wait for them even if they have no intention of commiting.

Instead of being pissed and calling out this behaviour that ruins dating for them by removing women from the dating pool and increasing female standards, they are high fiving them with envy.

Sillysheila · 2023-10-27T09:56:34+00:00

One funny thing about having autism; sometimes when I go on reddit I see people complaining about the same routine day in and day out.

They’re like “my days are all the same, I have to wake up at exactly 6 am and work until 4 then I come home, eat and go to the gym! It’s drudgery, I hate this routine!”

Meanwhile I’m over here thriving on routines like “time to walk to the bus at exactly 6:50. Woohoo!”. Doing stuff at the same time every day makes my brain happy, not sad, but it seems like that’s not the case for lot of NT peeps.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-10-27T10:17:31+00:00

Modern men crave sex so much. That is why they can't handle the fact that since they now have nothing else to offer strong, independent and intelligent women (not money, not security, not emotional support, not social validation) they may now be the irrelevant ones in a two person relationship.

happy_discus · 2023-10-27T10:50:01+00:00

I seriously think users here underestimate how barren rural areas have become in the last ten years. Advice like "go to church" doesn't work anymore. I would go to church but they act like they don't need younger people. At least not younger than 40. I don't think they hold service more than once a week anyway. We don't even got a grocery store anymore. This "city" is dying and it's honestly just depressing to watch.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-27T12:18:19+00:00

A friend of mine gave me access to his swingers/polyamory dating profile and it's wild how unattractive most of these people are. Weirdly, every couple below the age of 40 is looking for chicks without much success and over the age of 40 they look for dudes and suddenly every guy is bisexual. Then there are a couple of chicks that look totally lost there. They talk about emotional connections and that they can't have sex until commitment on a very sexual platform. Then there are whores that just want to get spitroasted (especially fat chicks). Most single dudes got no success (you can see who they match with) and then there are these 6' jocks with a million chicks and couples in their contacts. The only average dudes that seem to have success are the ones that have a gf.

badgersonice · 2023-10-27T12:52:36+00:00

The auto mod automatic removal of posts without the right flair is pretty obnoxious. Like, half the comments on some of these posts are removed.

And besides that, I always like seeing the snarky fun and clever flairs. I don’t want all the clever stuff washed away so we can all have boring matchy-matchy flairs selected from the few allowed values the bot will scare for. :(

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-27T12:58:00+00:00

Men are arguing on Twitter that these two are looksmatched. Are men this obvious when it comes to looks?

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-27T13:04:27+00:00

Why do some people find asking for consent off-putting? Even if it's in more of a straightforward way, I don't really get it. Is it that sex is meant to be this instinctive thing that is strictly separated from "regular life"? Is it like you switch onto an alter ego, like Batman when he goes out beating up bad guys? We can't have weird body-part rubbing taint out regular-life ways of logic and shit. It's a little funny to me tbh.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-27T13:09:09+00:00

what album do you feel really summarizes your life. like most of the tracks can directly relate to your life and mindset. currently for me, it’s good riddance by gracie abrams and stick season by noah kahan l

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-10-27T13:27:31+00:00

Guys, you know there's a lot of room between being a simp and calling every obviously attractive woman "mid", right? It's not either or.

dbz__f · 2023-10-27T14:04:36+00:00

Women need to stop shutting their pants that men have different types and our own personal rating systems and for many of us, X actress shilled by the media is overrated.

Margot Robbie is mid

Jennifer Lawrence is mid

Scarlet johansen is below mid

Jennie from blackpink is 11/10

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-27T14:04:48+00:00

Post a pic of some average girl and call her average

PPD women lose their shit

Because ppd women all look much worse than her lmao

"But if shes mid.. then what am I?" Thought Becky before posting angrily and desperately.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-27T14:14:11+00:00

Men who have a nurturing side are the most attractive imo. I’m baffled to see so many guys go through all that trouble to hide those qualities.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-27T14:14:30+00:00

I hate gender roles and definitely fit more outside the male one but growing older has ultimately taught me I succeed more by adhering to them. It is what it is.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-10-27T14:24:18+00:00

Survey results back up RP views

Redpillers: "See?? More evidence of female degeneracy"

Survey results go against RP views

Redpillers: "People lie on surveys!!! They're not to be trusted!!!"

Guys, you know that thing about the cake and eating it, right?

afk_row · 2023-10-27T14:33:05+00:00

This is a 9/10

https://preview.redd.it/2vm3nep6arwb1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b3aed3dd794f5a4e7f8ef556ef02d8f3e30d83aa

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-27T14:33:49+00:00

Kfed shot his shot. He coulda easily been like I’m a backup dancer bro, I can’t pull Britney Spears. If you notice many of these famous women be banging random dudes in the circle. Jlo married her backup dancer too. It’s close proximity and good ole fashioned rizz

hannahg000 · 2023-10-27T14:40:32+00:00

i feel like a lot of the women men list as attractive are very angular and model looking. what about us girls with round faces and chubby cheeks lol

at least my buccal fat will keep me looking young when i get old 🤷‍♀️

Justwannaread3 · 2023-10-27T14:40:42+00:00

If a man I was dating assumed I wanted or needed him to protect me or provided for me, I’d find that insulting. I can take care of myself.

My partner and I do take care of each other, too, but not because we can’t stand on our own.

Yes yes I’m a PPD unicorn and MOST WOMEN want a tall/strong/wealthy man

dbz__f · 2023-10-27T14:48:43+00:00

I don’t find Margot Robbie, Kylie Minogue, or Naomi watts attractive. However I do concede that there are many extremely attractive Australian female celebrities , like Rosé, Hanni, and Danielle.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-27T14:49:13+00:00

MOST PEOPLE CANNOT TELL IF YOUVE HAD PLASTIC SURGERY IF THE PLASTIC SURGERY IS DONE WELL

demedermidimi · 2023-10-27T14:51:12+00:00

daily reminder not to believe men when they say they prefer natural

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-27T14:56:48+00:00

Alert! Low SMV beta male orbiter sighted. -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17h4vq9/virgin_guy_being_only_seen_as_emotional_support/

Bro is every feminist's dream

hannahg000 · 2023-10-27T15:03:55+00:00

does anyone remember that time maddison beer was caught hiding in a bush in front of a plastic surgery clinic and the internet went crazy?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-27T15:08:58+00:00

Bro, this post will red pill you. Women in their 20s want fun chads and alphas.

Men shouldnt listen to dating advice from women generally as evidenced by the delusional comments from women telling him to settle for being a BB.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17grkxw/i_34m_overheard_her_32f_say_how_i_wasnt_the_type/?sort=controversial

ThisBoringLife · 2023-10-27T15:09:20+00:00

Don't think it's worthy of a post, but I think one of the confusing factors which brings up a lot of conflict here is the expectations of dating and of relationships:

The qualities that one requires to date, attract a partner, have a ONS is different from the qualities of a partner you want to have, and to hold that relationship for a long period of time (if that's your desire). Factors of TRP is ideal in the dating phase (spinning plates is a major one) is great as you're maximizing your chances of finding a good partner. Those factors aren't as important for maintaining a relationship, or can even be contrary to, maintaining a relationship.

So I guess the question to push to you all is: What is your actual goal? Are you just looking to attract as many as possible? Are you looking for a partner? Or are you looking to maintain a relationship? Finally, for those weirdos that have divorced themselves from such relationships and the dating process as a whole, why do you keep yourself here?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-27T15:09:41+00:00

These are some of the celebrity women I find attractive. First up we have Allison Brie. I think she is probably what I would consider my ideal. If she had straight bangs or a french bob , a small septum piercing, winged eyeliner, and some tattoos that would legitimately be my perfect type and what I would consider a 10/10 in my view.

https://preview.redd.it/7y47c7qyfrwb1.png?width=474&format=png&auto=webp&s=24fe01b5c3e758171856e12fc85984d5c3e1c804

monster_lily · 2023-10-27T15:11:47+00:00

Its so heartbreaking when people block me like why

saulbasedman · 2023-10-27T15:16:39+00:00

Q4A: Do you think that this guy's cosmetic surgery worked out?

On paper it should be better since his chin is now bigger, but it looks off to me.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-27T15:19:01+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/6bpola0hirwb1.jpeg?width=554&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4b1a7a0098b23b2045033ca639dcbe0039f5cc03

Young chico straight out of Wattpad.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-27T15:20:16+00:00

Do you all find yourself having more or less motivation to work on Friday?

afk_row · 2023-10-27T15:31:31+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/tyzn8zrokrwb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=057babcb577646f34cfad5e6792faa179ee67720

Baguette cat

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-10-27T15:33:44+00:00

I like mids.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-27T15:33:51+00:00

Some people here need to be explained stuff like "when mom and dad love each other...."

ratboi34 · 2023-10-27T15:34:24+00:00

I've noticed that I lost like 1-2mm of my hairline last year and I got a big forehead. Should I still keep my long hair, or get a haircut that covers my forehead? Long hair is definitely a niche and some women really like it. I also like having prettier hair than the women I'm talking to and making them braid my hair. However the shorter haircut I might attract a wider variety of women. But then again I would need to visit to the barber regularly, which sucks. What should I do?

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-10-27T15:51:56+00:00

Hosting a Halloween party today! Gonna use the fancy cakelet pan and shit.

K3C_ · 2023-10-27T15:57:04+00:00

when men say women are mentally children, this is what they mean

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-27T16:00:35+00:00

Have an invite to a sushi place this weekend. WHAT ELSE DO SUSHI PLACES SELL

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-27T16:16:56+00:00

Two things I've been thinking about in regards to the internet.

1.) All the content where women talk about how lazy their husbands are or that their partner is a man child are the "I hate my wife" boomer joke of millenial and gen z women. The only difference is that women will post this and get sympathy despite, you know, them choosing to be with these men.

2.) There are no communities (aside from the manopshere, but that is toxic) where men are treated well. There are no memes that get shared or things that get said that portray men in a good light. I think TikTok is a Chinese psyop meant to create division in the west, and it is working. Back in my day girls would share memes and tweets about actually liking men. Now it is just women being very vocal about how much they dislike men.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-27T16:30:22+00:00

Something else I just thought about, if women can openly talk about the wage gap and orgasm gap, and have it taken seriously, men absolutely should be vocal about the sex/relationship gap.

If women talk about the orgasm gap, this can directly be compared to the rise in male sexlessness. If men aren't entitled to a relationship or sex, which I agree they're not, then why are women entitled to being brought to orgasm by their partner? Now, I'm not saying men shouldn't make their partner orgasm, but I am also saying that the issues in the dating market should be openly addressed.

My position is one of logical consistency, women/feminists on the other hand are picking and choosing what benefits them, and playing mental gymnastics to disregard when impacts men.

Workaholiconew · 2023-10-27T16:43:08+00:00

I find it funny men trying to make up excuses about how women dont give a crap about men and their issues... as if there was any reason for a woman care about other people than themselves. Women are humans and humans are egotistical creatures...

Women will never give a flying fuck about your suffering or anyones (outside of maybe their small child)... they just want attention and more for themselves and you are just a means for that end...

You are an adult man... you are alone and none will ever help you, unless you pay them... just accept it. You are alone against the world...

Maffioze · 2023-10-27T16:52:24+00:00

Why do men's issues always have to be simplified to a ridiculous degree while the same doesn't happen for women's issues?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-27T17:13:45+00:00

High inhibition + neurodiversity = over.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-27T17:16:56+00:00

"Modern men crave sex so much. That is why they can't handle the fact that since they now have nothing else to offer strong, independent and intelligent women (not money, not security, not emotional support, not social validation) they may now be the irrelevant ones in a two person relationship"

Couldn't read this with a serious face honestly

SuccessLate6658 · 2023-10-27T17:20:01+00:00

If I could no longer feel horny or be sexual I’d do it in an instant.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-10-27T17:34:20+00:00

“My money is my money; his money is our money.”

This isn’t an approach to finances I’ve ever actually heard about IRL, but seems like a crystal clear red flag men can look out for when dating!

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-27T17:35:24+00:00

Moderate body dysmorphia good for motivation.

Almost all fat acceptance is bad for you.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-27T17:36:38+00:00

Stop showering with soap and water, and start injecting soap and water 💉 quadruple your results

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-27T17:50:09+00:00

In time times before history, humans hunted with endurance and cardio. Ectomorphs would walk down animals for hours or days until they exhaust the animal and can kill it. Thin people were evolved for hunting

Thin skinny women have apex predator alpha hunter genes. Even more so if they are a stalker/obsessive type. I firmly believe that slender women have the best genes

romantic-knight · 2023-10-27T17:55:21+00:00

The sex positivity and liberalism in this subreddit is so toxic why do we stay here and argue. I feel like we are just wasting our time here. The women here will never understand us and only care about pushing their atomized world view on to us.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-27T18:01:08+00:00

"If a guy shows bf/husband material traits such as being nurturing, it will take more time to obtain sex, he will be less likely to receive sex in the short term and less likely to get good quantities of sex on the long term... i.e. he willbe punished for showing said traits"

Ok then just stop being the betabuxx guy, l don't know what's so hard about that

mr_nihilus · 2023-10-27T18:12:43+00:00

I'm generally a person who is open to new ideas considering I've read very different ideological perspective throughout my entire lifetime but I just cannot understand some people are aggressively supporting the idea that looks are everything. Yes, it could be a part of it but it's far from the reality from my experiences. I've seen ugly dudes who are getting laid with 9/10s consistently whereas I've seen some 6.3 feet absolute units who barely touched women in their entire life. Maybe, it's because I live in a relatively conservative country (Turkey) and some people are just programmed not to talk to women in college. But, I think the most logical explanation is that mannerism is everything. If you're 4 but a social butterfly, almost in every example in my life you're getting laid more than chad with average social skills.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-27T18:14:54+00:00

"Seems like if I were a guy, I’d want to try my damndest to make a woman"

No no no, that's not how it works

She suppose to be the one doing her best making you cum because women absolutely love when their man cums, that's why still do bJs

Messing up the game for many women by saying this

abaxeron · 2023-10-27T18:23:24+00:00

Within a week I went from meeting a female debater who saw abducting her own baby as a viable option in case husband demands paternity test, to another one who suggested chopping men's hands off for apologizing for being a creep.

Good times.

K3C_ · 2023-10-27T18:27:04+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/isxak5nzfswb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cb32445fa3b8e269dda8d38365f1d9d2a720b90a

Not settling? Or not taking what your level is?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-27T18:38:03+00:00

I was probably the last person to realize that I do have a type. It seems to be the case quite often?

demedermidimi · 2023-10-27T18:40:51+00:00

what's with the covert virtue signaling about having a preference for something that can be controlled

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-27T18:50:06+00:00

A list of foods that are healthy and palatable.

Chicken
Beef
Salmon
eggs
sourdough bread/sprouted bread
Sweet Potatoes
Potatoes
Broccoli
Green beans
Brussel Sprouts
Asparagus
Zucchini/Yellow Squash
Peas
Arugula
Kale
Spring Mix
Olive Oil
Nuts & Seeds
Flax seed
Oats
Apples
Oranges
Kiwi
Banana
Strawberries
Blueberries
Greek Yogurt
Milk

DerayRevan · 2023-10-27T18:51:35+00:00

"It’s called social skills. Some people call it reading the room. If you see a girl you want to approach, a light, friendly conversation starter is fine. If she’s interested, she’ll pass the ball back and you get the green light to keep talking to her and maybe try to ask her out or get her number"

Guys you don't talk to women to make friendly conversations, the woman has to know why your giving her attention, and a lot of the times that comes with being direct and that can happen in a multitude of ways, so op is clearly wrong

"Start neutral/friendly. Proceed if you get the green light. If you don’t know how to make friendly conversation or tell if you are getting the green light, that’s an issue with your social skills and you should start working on that first and foremost"

Once again no, don't with friendly conversations but instead flirting conversations that eventually escalates to sexual tension, many women don't have a problem with a guy being direct of what he wants, the problem is how confident is he to make that clear towards her

ratboi34 · 2023-10-27T18:53:57+00:00

If you ask a dude what his love language is he will always say physical touch. Not because men are horny or whatever, but because we got no other choice. Imagine a man says he likes getting gifts the most or words of affirmation lmao. I'm not sure how much women would like to hear that from their men.

grillopie · 2023-10-27T19:09:22+00:00

How bad is it to ask to be cooked for on a first date?

https://youtube.com/shorts/p9s1JklP-qM?si=0IbrDpWyiVT-_wWI

monster_lily · 2023-10-27T19:16:54+00:00

Im embarrassed

meteorness123 · 2023-10-27T19:29:45+00:00

My key to success ? I'm fatherly. Treat women like property. Misogyny ? No, I'm just possesive like a noun with an apostrophe !

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-10-27T19:50:37+00:00

Being settled for is such a sad and terrifying situation cause this person probably had their fun and is now only with you for stability not because theyre attracted to you. Y'all ever fear that? What can someone do so that it doesn't happen to them?

purplish_possum · 2023-10-27T20:04:27+00:00

Found where all the single women are. I'm in Salem MA. Tons of people in the street. Women out number men at least 3 to 1.

And the guys there are all attached.

monster_lily · 2023-10-27T20:53:46+00:00

Ppd kinda sucks just the same dumb topics no one cares about everyday no offense thats why im grateful for the dail y chat

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