Daily Community Chat Megathread

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-13T07:27:45+00:00

Why don’t the passport bros join Mennonite communities? Or like Amish communities? Or similar????

scwizard · 2023-11-13T07:23:23+00:00

Who do you know irl who's has 3+ school aged kids and why did they have so many?

Everyone I know who has that many is through my church. So that's probably self explanatory why they had so many.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-13T06:50:04+00:00

Would you rather be the fat kid or the smelly kid in school?

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-13T06:43:59+00:00

There are men here who I know for a fact are over 50 who are defending the use of porn with 18 year old women vs 21 year old women. There are multiple of them so I am not calling anyone out. But imagine them sitting at Denny’s with their discounted senior breakfast and AARP card writing about how they fap to 18 year olds. Good grief then men have the audacity to call women hypergamous.

Sillysheila · 2023-11-13T06:38:22+00:00

QFall (partnered) what’s your divisions of labour like

Mine goes like this: I cook (at least 75-85% of the time) and he cleans (at least 75-85% of the time).

I know that many couples now seem to think each should do exactly 50/50, but honestly I think I’m possibly the worst cleaner in the world. I always leave shit behind and I half ass everything. However I can make you a feast.

My partner is like that but swap cleaning for cooking. He can’t cook much but he can make your house sparkly.

I guess I also do more household budgeting. He does more practical things with his hands (fixing various things; a more typical man chore).

scwizard · 2023-11-13T06:13:11+00:00

How do I find a (good) man without a dating app?

Surely twox will give her sane practical advice right?

You might not find a good man. Oops, there I said it. Men, collectively, are in crisis.

Most men have been raised emotionally stunted, macho driven. Raised to think that women aren't people, they're objects to be claimed. Men are pissed off that women are waking up and asking them to step up when they've been told that they don't have to do any emotional work, that they are king by virtue of their gender. The incel culture is thriving, egged on by toxic politics and social media.

Finding a hidden gem in all this might be impossible. It's doesn't matter where you look, dating apps, the library, or yoga class. You will need to educate him - what you're looking for is willingness, not already formed.

I know this sounds bleak - any casual read of this subreddit is enough to put any woman off dating.

scwizard · 2023-11-13T05:36:24+00:00

*Guy dates a foreign girl*

"That's horrible he should date someone his equal, not someone he has a power imbalance over."

*Guy dates a younger girl*

"That's horrible he should date someone his equal, not someone he has a power imbalance over."

Ok so then are you saying he should date an empowered woman from his country that's his age?

"No way. She'd be way too good for him."

Ok then you're saying he shouldn't date anyone?

"Of course not, he just needs to work on himself and I'm sure there's someone out there for him."

Ok come on. Just admit you want these guys to stay single.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-13T05:09:26+00:00

Q4All/partnered: How did you meet?

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T04:56:04+00:00

what the fuck LMAO

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EveningEveryman · 2023-11-13T04:50:45+00:00

I wish this whole community could somehow live in a reality in which they were born different sex for a time, then revert back to normal just so an understanding of the truth can be forced.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-13T04:40:18+00:00

Good evening to everyone who:

Has ever been cheated on
Loves Cheerios, Frosted Flakes, or Lucky Charms as their favorite cereal
Was born in the first 6 months of the year, or
Hates thin crust pizza

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T04:37:24+00:00

My mom said she will buy me iron supplements tomorrow 😃

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-13T04:29:25+00:00

Question for involuntary introverts:

Are you jobless? Are you Geriatric? Are you retarded? Are you obese? Are you fat? Are you deformed? Are you extremely short(Below 5"0)?

EDIT: By introvert I mean incel

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T03:11:01+00:00

YAYYYYYYY I JUST REALIZED MY PHYSICS TEACHER ROUNDED MY E TO A D I FEEL LIKE JESUS RN

Luciansleep · 2023-11-13T02:54:00+00:00

I find it odd that women here will defend KeKe palmers actions by saying her man was controlling and that it was just a dance.

Yet turn around and say men using porn is almost like cheating in a relationship

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T02:53:39+00:00

Ok so friday night funkin fell off but my brother is OBSESSED with that game but i would date boyfriend no cap 💯 I need a short guy with blue hair that can sing

shanshkrishur · 2023-11-13T02:35:19+00:00

Why do women who hate on passport bros always use the talking point that foreign women can’t “even” speak English?

SO WHAT if foreign women can’t speak English well, or at all? Does that make them stupid, or otherwise mentally inferior?

Are these specific women from 1st World Anglophone (English-speaking) countries so delusional to believe that concepts such as lies, manipulation, gaslighting, etc. don’t exist in other languages & cultures and thus these women are more vulnerable or less intelligent?

All it seems is just typical Anglophone chauvinistic ignorance against other cultures. In fact, most foreign women can probably speak more languages than the average American, which is ACTUALLY shown to increase intelligence. Also, English is not some magical language that makes you more intelligent or prevents you from being taken advantage of.

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-13T02:26:28+00:00

Women can't resist me. Literally. The threat of violence is too great.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-13T01:56:53+00:00

somebody sitting behind me in class stinks. it’s making it hard to focus 😓

bossman146 · 2023-11-13T01:43:21+00:00

People who “tell it how it is” are usually just being assholes.

ThisBoringLife · 2023-11-13T01:40:44+00:00

Missed out on the UFC card yesterday.

Shame, since I do like Pereira.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-13T01:18:07+00:00

"Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?"

I have never been concerned for other men or women, so I find it very hard to believe that women are concerned for other women. These women are virtue signalers and they are definitely jealous.

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T01:10:39+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DNJm8S/

I cant wait to have a kid babies especially are sooo adorbs im resistant to crying also

hannahg000 · 2023-11-13T01:04:14+00:00

there is something wrong with me. i think i just had another sexual awakening

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T01:02:51+00:00

I do love the fact that guys are unaware that they were admitting that they are incapable of having a healthy relationship. Lol But they think women should want these toxic ass relationships that these fuckers are offering. 😂

If you were comparing your girlfriend to a girl first date’s with a guy, you dont give a fuck about your girlfriend.

If you compare your relationship with your girlfriend to a cop pulling a driver over, your relationship is dogshit.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-13T00:54:26+00:00

Q4All: Did you workout this week?

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T00:44:47+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DNfPnn/

No but this is literally me to a T looks like i need to get back on iron supplements Lmaoooooo

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T00:36:31+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DNe8SB/

Dream height difference 😍🤤 Hes like .01 yoctometers too short but its cool tho

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T00:33:11+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DNFFmU/

I can relate to this on a spritiual level though WHY AM I LIKE THIS

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-13T00:32:24+00:00

How can a woman be happy in a marriage if she isn’t a well-off trophy wife of a good, loving, and honest man and SAHM to children that she can take care of full time??? I will aspire for this no matter what. This is literally what I want.

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T00:16:18+00:00

"N count"

"but hypergamy"

"Women cant love"

"Teenage love"

"Failing physics"

My honest reaction

Gladboys · 2023-11-13T00:11:16+00:00

someone pick black or red

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-13T00:05:10+00:00

How important is the power dynamic in a sexual relationship?

Does being dominant get you off more than the appearance of the woman?

(why are men willing to fuck ugly ugly fat women if they're not sexually attractive)

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T00:02:57+00:00

https://x.com/popculture2000s/status/1723724527958462839?s=46&t=b2XPgsD5a-aGl20uLiFUqA

I too need a big (tall not fat) boy Cz its cuffing season yass

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-13T00:01:37+00:00

I'm so sick of being in a world that doesn't understand. Psychiatric help didn't help as a kid because no one understood what exactly was wrong and how to help. My peers ostracized me because I acted different and didn't understand why I did the things I did. Mother, who has been with me the whole time, just barely knows how my disorders affect me.

I feel unbelievably alone because literally no one in my life can remotely relate to my experiences. It's just too different and it's frustrating.

FromAuntToNiece · 2023-11-12T23:56:33+00:00

18% of college-educated adults have never been married by the age of 40. This used to be a much smaller number decades ago, well before the male loneliness epidemic.

This year, I, an elder Millennial male, have joined the ranks, despite my relatively stable career and aims to changing jobs and pursue an MBA, thus making even more money.

Even more, I have no experience being in a long-term relationship. I have had only a few dates in the span of a decade, primarily because of relocation and COVID.

To top it all off, this fearful avoidant just chucked aside his v-card very recently. Therefore, I fully intend to compliment my friend-seeking and dating efforts with taking the plunge into the high-end escort world.

I am a very late bloomer. Ironically, I am able to do this because of my decades-long limerence.

I am posting this discussion on this subreddit, rather than the usual dating or sex subreddits, because I believe that the pill gloves need to come off for "mid-life crisis" folks like me. It's FOMO time!

PILL-BASED ADVICE FOR "MID-LIFE CRISIS" DATING?

1) I have death grip syndrome. How do I get more comfortable having sex with more women, as my escort told me?

The escort definitely implied that I should have sex with more women. Although I can be aroused, only a focus on my limerence can enable me to finish. She told me that my mind has become so accustomed to porn. While this is true, what she doesn't know is that my porn "upbringing" has been absorbed by my limerence.

2) What should my n-count be by age 45, in five years' time?

I am conflicted on this. Even on the escort front, I do appreciate being very selective with whom I choose to get the "Girlfriend Experience" (GFE) from. The need to be coached sexually is balanced against developing more quality sexual experiences and minimizing STD risks.

3) I have already done some selective lying. How much more selective lying should I utilize?

For example, on one OLD account I have lied about my age. If my escort experience over the next five years consists of a handful of regulars and a number of one-timers, I would omit the one-timers in lying about my n-count.

4) I have standards. Have I compromised on them?

Three harder standards stand out: No smokers, no single mothers with two or more children (but one is OK), and no one who is clinically obese or clinically *** (but overweight is OK).

I have yet to set an n-count limit, but I might be OK with a maximum of 10 per the marriage dissatisfaction study.

I don't believe in setting age limits either way. On the one hand, I don't go with TRP's rejection of 30-year-old women and older. Seriously, guys, the biological "Wall" is around 40, not 30. 40 is the new 30 for both sexes, just because most people don't smoke, drink, or absorb excessive sunlight anymore. On the other hand, I also don't go with Half-Your-Age-Plus-Seven garbage. Any woman who has finished college, typically aged 21 or 22, is fair game, and so-called "brain development" be damned.

5) Outside of the usual PPD discussion topics, any long-term relationship partner needs to at least not oppose my career mobility. I need to change jobs a couple / few years from now, and that job needs to enable me to pursue an MBA eventually. This is no doubt a turnoff to women who are more established in either their careers or their personal milestones (like home ownership). I really don't feel like budging on this one, or is this the fearful avoidant in my using my career aspirations to reject LTRs with a lot of women?

Distinct-Yogurt9276 · 2023-11-12T23:51:29+00:00

During the pandemic, there were 10s posting nudes on Reddit. It was crazy. Now it seems only 6s and below are posting nudes

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-12T23:44:29+00:00

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Why do things like this make men so angry?

Willow-girl · 2023-11-12T23:43:00+00:00

My makeover!

Before: Imgur and: Imgur

After: Imgur

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-12T23:38:59+00:00

One thing that doesn't bother me (and hopefully never will) is seeing my friends in relationships. I don't feel jealousy, resentment, bitter or anything like that towards them. I can hang around them with their girlfriends next to them being all lovey dovey, hear them talk about how they've been since middle school and stuff and not feel a certain type of way about it unlike some guys seem to be towards their friends. I'm just not that kind of guy. Some people here like to make me out to be some kind of villain or asshole because I talk shit here and there but stuff like this is how I really am in the real world.

Dizzirron · 2023-11-12T23:23:11+00:00

What's with the same half dozen women here commenting non stop on every post. Y'all goofy as hell fighting an invisible battle.

dbz__f · 2023-11-12T22:59:21+00:00

Saw on some talk show yesterday this female comedian going on about how a guy was insecure because he wasn’t okay with his girlfriend kissing another guy on stage as part of a play.

Why are men not allowed to have their own boundaries in relationships? For a woman if she’s setting what she’s comfortable and not comfortable with, it’s like, you go girl. But for a guy to establish his own boundaries for what he’s comfortable and uncomfortable with, he’s insecure?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-12T22:52:47+00:00

It’s wild to me guys here would want to plan a family with women they suspect would commit paternity fraud. Then, having the gall to think people should care he’s anxious about not being the baby daddy.

Always remember: Having babies with people you can't trust is STUPID.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-12T22:38:46+00:00

The wall is brutal. Some women look significantly aged by their mid to late 20s. Women peak in looks around 18-21.

Last time I posted about this women were naysaying about how women don't significantly age in face by their mid late 20s. Here is an example

21 years old: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=phntTSWCFcQ

28 years old: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIDgXnRhVXk

From sorority sister college coed to desperate housewife

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T22:16:25+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DLUt4G/

I wanna be a dallas cowboys cheerleader their unis are soo cute

ZaWarudo234 · 2023-11-12T21:56:58+00:00

I feel like I am losing any and all hope I'll actually find love and it makes it hard to try to work to improve myself. I know that I'm going to get the usual "love shouldn't Define you're happiness l" answer, but the shit still sucks and I don't really see a point in denying it. Is there anything to be hopeful for? I'm really struggling to hold on to the belief that things can get better.

Gladboys · 2023-11-12T21:08:24+00:00

daily reminder that the effort is pointless if you don't believe in yourself. and once you believe in yourself the next best thing to do is believe in others and lift them up when you can 🫡

saraimarsena · 2023-11-12T21:08:18+00:00

i can see loneliness being a difficult experience, especially as it goes on into the years

i remember watching this video, Life as a single lonely man over 40 with Autism, and it was pretty crushing to hear how defeated he sounded. he’s not even a bad looking guy at all, there aren’t glaring personality flags (besides the obvious one being autism, but i don’t wanna call that a red flag).

it’s gotta be depressing to get well into your middle age, seeing all your friends and family get married and start families of their own, wondering why you can’t find that same experience. at that point i don’t see how “just get better friends” can really cut it.

idek how a stranger like me can even take that pain away. at that point a hug and some platitudes isn’t gonna cut it either. there’s gotta be so many men (and women) outside of my realm who go through life unseen and alone. so many of these people aren’t “just bad people”, maybe they’re antisocial, maybe they’re isolated by location or career. idk it just seems really tough

huhwhatokok · 2023-11-12T20:10:23+00:00

Apparently a twitter thread went viral because a guy was obsessively trying to take a girl with a boyfriend out on a date and he was making multiple tweets how her boyfriend wasn’t in her league. I went to see the girl and she was a fatty and her man was a tall dude whose not fat lmao. If anything it’s the opposite he’s out of her league. Itseems like everyone involved is in the comic scene so if you look half decent as a woman in the scene you might as well be Stacy.

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-12T20:09:52+00:00

Modern men would be a lot more attractive if the majority didn’t have a porn addiction. Something is so hot about someone’s sexual energy going entirely towards you instead of people through a screen

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-12T20:09:13+00:00

If anyone wants to see a good example the of halo effect of beauty and attractiveness, here you go:

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17tjqz2/comment/k8ynnvk/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Multiple users on the thread give an explanation on why attractive people are nicer and more honest. The tenets of the halo effect is that without any evidence, you're already primed to believe that an attractive person is more kind, honest, and competent.

Confirmation bias: Attractive person does something nice, and you reinforce what you already believed to be true.

Post-hoc bias: Person does something nice and they happen to be attractive therefore they're nice because they're attractive.

u/purplish_possum and u/Konoha_Shinobee I'm referring to your comments specifically.

janedoebreakin · 2023-11-12T20:07:23+00:00

I think there’s a fine line between a man who is flawed and a man who is in no shape to be getting into a relationship, and it seems like a lot of men don’t understand that.

I started dating a man who really shouldn’t have been entering a relationship, and I’m now married to him. He was an alcoholic and he bounced between shitty manual labor jobs. I would get a free meal every shift at the restaurant I worked at, and I would give it to him because he would buy more booze than food and he was so thin. It hurt my heart to see him like that because I knew he was a good man. He thought I was pretty when no one else thought that and he cared about me. I cared about him. I saw a man who wanted a family and a better life who was about to give up for good. I fell in love with him despite his issues.

Things worked out, but most women wouldn’t even think about dating a man like him, and for good reason. It was heartbreaking and difficult at times. It’s okay to be flawed, we all are. But sometimes I see men with major problems complaining about not getting a relationship, and they don’t even realize how monumental their issue is.

purplish_possum · 2023-11-12T20:03:03+00:00

My GF's uncle (the father of the cousin with the new 6'9" BF) just got back from a few months in Panama. After Christmas he's going to the Philippines for a few months. He's got this passport bro thing down. He's got two pensions (he was a Marine drill sergeant and a cop) and an entire block of rental properties to fund his exploits. He only pays for himself -- women gotta cover their own expenses. Of course it helps that, even at 60, he's still in great shape and he's always had a good face.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-12T19:50:27+00:00

This weekend I got into a conversation about dating with a pretty wealthy 47 yo single woman and she was complaining about men not putting in more effort, sending more texts, not being romantic and traditionally masculine anymore. She probably thought I would affirm her complaints and agree with her that men aren't men anymore. She looked pretty surprised tho when I started talking about me wanting to be cute and feminine in relationships and wanting princess treatment lmao. She started talking about men needing to be leaders and shit and I just asked her some questions about what a leader actually means to her and we figured out that it mostly comes down to her wanting a rich man. She looked like she was genuinely getting to know herself. I think I should become a dating coach for rich women.

purplish_possum · 2023-11-12T19:29:44+00:00

All the talk about empathy has made me realize that most people here don't have a clue what empathy actually is. I suggest they watch the movie A Man Called Otto. The characters do a great job of expressing empathy in its many forms.

https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/a_man_called_otto

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7405458/

MikeArrow · 2023-11-12T19:15:43+00:00

Evaluate the following statement:

If I could go on dates more often, it would be less of a big deal and I wouldn't attach such high stakes to it. But as it is, I only meet women willing to give me a chance once every few years so I have to make the most of any chance I get.

I feel like I'm stuck in a vicious cycle here and I don't know how to break it.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-12T15:55:16+00:00

I should unironically get reparations for missing out on the most fundamental human experience during my teenage years.

It'll be paid by those who experienced teenage love. They'll be in a higher income tax bracket

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-12T19:24:07+00:00

How can any woman feel insecure about her looks in modern times?

Just have a healthy (19-21) BMI and you logically know you have the ideal body as a woman. You know you objectively have a top 10-20% body just for not being fat because so many women are fatties.

Not convinced? You can get validation and attention in literal seconds from hundreds of attractive men by going on dating apps even with just low quality selfies. ]

Need real life confirmation? Go to a bar or club and have tens of men hitting on you, competing for your attention.

There is no good reason why any woman would feel insecure.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-12T14:32:21+00:00

Reminder: Only morons have children with people they don't trust.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-12T19:01:06+00:00

Why does everyone on dating apps climb mountains.

princedune · 2023-11-12T15:23:08+00:00

at what age is it best to just throw in the towel if you still have zero dating options?

purplish_possum · 2023-11-12T15:49:25+00:00

My GF's 40-year-old cousin has a new boyfriend. He's rich (owns a private plane) and is 6'9".

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-12T16:17:33+00:00

The idea that one needs to "work on themselves" before entering into a relationship is stupid CMV. It's also dumb when folks suggest that you should not fix your partner and vice versa. In a mutual relationship sacrifice is necessary as you won't be getting everything you want all the time. No one human can or ever will be 100% "complete" as abstract as that is. This current trend of "I want a partner to add onto my life!" means there's little stake in ditching the relationship and that loyalty isn't valued like it should. Of course it's no surprise that this has been preached to women ad nauseum to make it seem like assisting your partner is a sin as if the patriarchy (which no longer exists) is out to get them.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-12T17:47:20+00:00

It’s interesting that this sub has so much discussion about empathy, and whether other people should show it or not, and how. In my experience, that’s a disappointing and frustrating way to look at it.

It’s far easier to control your own behavior than it is to control others. Obviously it’s understandable how one might yearn for understanding or certain actions from other people, but it’s an unsatisfying perspective to have.

There are things I would very much like other people do to make my life easier, and sometimes they do. I try to savor those moments, and remember that perhaps people try their best. Perhaps they think they’re showing empathy, it just doesn’t register as such to me. Because I try my best to understand and show compassion, but I also fail almost daily.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-12T18:09:19+00:00

I still don’t understand why men under the age of 30 ignore me, but men over that age will compliment me and want to chat and be kind. Guys my age would always treat me like some sort of joke. I’ve been laughed at and mocked, but I’ve never received that treatment from an older guy.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-13T12:22:08+00:00

ngl this is what it feels like talking to some people here

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-13T12:29:54+00:00

Women reward those men with attention, devotion, sex, and relationships. The bullied are outcast and neglected.

I don’t understand why guys here want to fuck their bully’s girlfriend instead of wanting females who are not turned on by bullies.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-12T13:48:43+00:00

We've lost a thing, that's called teenage love!
We've got no way to move time,
teenage love.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-12T13:56:32+00:00

Want a Lamborghini, don’t want to pay Lamborghini prices. The Lamborghini store will fall

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T16:37:21+00:00

CMV: Mens grievances with the dating market are valid and accurate. The fact so many men experience the same thing validates their experience and perception.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-12T18:48:53+00:00

Bro, good guys exist. The only problem is they aren't 6ft tall, are out of shape, have rounder jawlines, are boring and don't have that much money. They are probably locked up in your friend zone or are invisible to you.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17tap3n/what_happened_to_the_good_guys/

Being a good guy with low SMV will make you a lot of female friends, not a lot of relationships though. Proof? -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/onkusp/why_do_i_always_friend_zone_the_good_guys/

RicePresident_ · 2023-11-12T13:32:53+00:00

Passport bros get a bad wrap but don't women do a very similar thing?

Anytime a woman travels alone its so that she can get railed out without having her reputation back home affected.

Travelling to "find herself", semesters abroad, shit like that.

I propose this be called passport hoeing.

4SSh01e · 2023-11-12T14:40:36+00:00

The objective reality is sometimes too complex and multifaceted to be comprehended by our brain so we view it from the lense of our perspective to filter out some parts of it. Too simplistic view means filtering out all nuance, and an attempt to grasp all aspects of the reality may fail or might not be easily conveyed to othered.

So all of you making claims so confidently about a topic as complex as interpersonal dynamics, don’t forget that you are viewing each case through the lenses of your perspectives and that lense is made up of your lived experiences, biases, beliefs, cognitive limitations.

I have found "liberals" "progressives" behaving like the other side of the same coin, on the side lies the religious zealots and those fighting to hold on to conservative ideals. Both sides have absolute faith in their beliefs that "this is the way". And progressives behaving in this manner is a bit more dangerous because they are acting contrary to what their name suggests because being liberal/progressive doesn’t necessarily mean going opposite of conservative ideals but critically evaluating what we do and why we do it and choosing the best possible course of action based on what we know so far and being open to course correction.

Lovers691 · 2023-11-12T15:10:46+00:00

While Ukrainian men are dying by the thousands, Ukrainian women are fantasizing about foreign men. It is so over

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-12T16:07:02+00:00

I have changed. I used to hate the idea of a detached house, but our neighbors are driving me crazy. Apparently my husband anticipating this, but I’m disappointed.

scwizard · 2023-11-12T16:24:26+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17tfjet/i_think_i_had_my_first_panic_attack_after_a_guy/

Wtf is wrong with this generation? First "choking in bed doesn't require consent" next just randomly putting your hands on the neck of someone you're not even sleeping with for funsies???

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T16:36:21+00:00

CMV: Women do not have the potential to experience love the way men do. Women only experience a combination of lust and anxious attachment style.

Konoha_Shinobee · 2023-11-12T18:08:56+00:00

If your husband ever cheats on you, it's a personal problem. You shouldn't have married the type of person that would cheat.

Also you should let him have sleepovers with his hot female coworker, unless you have proof he's cheating. This is what trust looks like.

This has to be an in-built female cuck instinct, I have no other explanation for it. The logic is so busted.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-12T18:33:49+00:00

Talking about mother made me realize how better my life is (which isn't saying much) now that she finally decided to voluntarily stay single. No more dealing with father, no junkies, and just shitty relationships in general. So done having a front row seat to her god awful dating life.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-12T13:43:20+00:00

Debating taking on 3 additional hours at my amazon shift today. 3 hours is a long time though...

Manbehindthemask2468 · 2023-11-12T13:46:02+00:00

I can’t believe the amount of western women who are traumatized and damaged beyond repair. Got into a back and forth with one on a thread and she was trying so hard to convince everyone that she was mentally stable despite her rantings. It’s like a person drowning in the ocean and you’re telling them they are drowning and them just repeating that they are swimming and they are fine 🤡.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-12T13:51:19+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/s/3zHMDVCiPM

Top comment is why counter movements like TRP are rapidly gaining popularity. Men are becoming tired of being gaslighted by mainstream dating advice

hannahg000 · 2023-11-12T13:59:53+00:00

i’ve never felt shame for still being a virgin at my age. i feel embarrassed that i haven’t had a boyfriend yet but the virgin thing hasn’t caused me shame

marshmallow_fluffe · 2023-11-12T15:16:45+00:00

I have a longish pixie cut…..is it over for me to try to attract men?????? Like do I need to either get extensions or wait a year to try to date??? I realize most guys find short hair really repulsive

scwizard · 2023-11-12T16:28:44+00:00

My father told me he’d help me pay for college but ended up putting all the money towards his brothers’ legal fees after he was charged and convicted for being part of a cp ring. The same uncle that abused me as a child, that no one believed me about. And I’m still paying off student loans.

Oh so that's why some girls are no contact with their family. Can't blame em...

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T16:40:21+00:00

Q4NonRedPill: If you had to explain what the red pill was to someone who didn't know about any of this, how would you explain it?

Q4RedPill: In the same scenario, how would you explain it?

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-12T17:18:05+00:00

Can’t believe I’m saying this, but I’m wondering if I should take roids. A lot of people tell me I look weak and effeminate, and the gym isn’t helping that much. Ideally I would just find a way to go 6 hours a week, but it’s impossible to fit that much time into my schedule.

I dunno man, it’s probably a bad idea, but I feel like I’m out of options. People even said that I pretty much don’t have much else I can improve either, so I guess I’m looksmaxxed at a 3/10.

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T17:36:36+00:00

I cant believe i have to say this but stop downvoting me

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T17:42:05+00:00

Yew can literally never be perfect to a man

My mom literally

Didnt even have a bf before my dad
Married relatively young
Married my dad even though he was from a poor family with no father
Married my dad even though hes short
Cooks, cleans
Has 3 kids

Still not enough thats honestly the reason why i dont take relationship advice or the red pill or the blue pill or the pink pill seriously like why does no one understand its NOT about what you do or who you are theres nothing you can do so you may as well date someone actually attractive and who can support you

DerayRevan · 2023-11-12T18:04:32+00:00

I fuckin love the premiere league

It's literally 3-3 at Stanford Bridge, officially the most exciting game on the weekend

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T18:15:58+00:00

The moment I stopped believing the patriarchy was a real thing was when I was watching an episode of 90 Day Fiance and Angela was going off on Michael like a Banshee about not wanting to be told what to do by a man.

Maybe Africa has a patriarchal society where women actually listen to their husbands, but women in the west are way too adversarial for any of us to actually believe the patriarchy is real.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T18:36:35+00:00

This is how I am in real life not just on cable

I'm about to get that Thug Life tatted across the navel

Mr. Narcissist tell me about your arrogance

No more counseling, I don't negotiate with therapists

DerayRevan · 2023-11-12T18:38:34+00:00

Ladies and gentlemen, l've just witnessed the greatest premiere league game of the year

That game was spectacular, it was just high-flying entertainment,drama,unexpected

What made it better is Chelsea was indeed the underdogs going into this match

DerayRevan · 2023-11-12T19:05:47+00:00

I don't know why so guys here want empathy from the women here especially when this women are clearly not here for that shit

I don't know, it's something l never understood everytime we talk about this male Loneliness epidemic

RuggedIndividualist7 · 2023-11-12T19:08:17+00:00

Even more ubiquitous than Crocs amongst women is the black tight pants they wear around. Must be a giant bin women get their clothes from.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-12T19:21:45+00:00

Bro, streaming culture is the dumbest Gen Z thing ever

hoisk · 2023-11-13T10:53:06+00:00

I don’t understand why this guy I’m seeing is single and I hope I don’t find out some insane red flag. I don’t think he’s ever had a girlfriend but he’s looking for a relationship/ultimately marriage.

He graduated summa cum laude from his grad program, super interesting and adventurous, has a solid group of male friends.

I think he’s super attractive too. He’s probably about 5’7 but if other women are really passing it up over that then idk maybe the red pillers are onto something.

Otherwise I’ll update on what red flags I am likely to find soon.

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T12:57:40+00:00

Mann this is some nasty work and the assignment i had that was going to push me over a b he literally moved to another quarter Smh

Like i had an 81 and i got an 80/100 on my essay which DROPPED my grade

https://preview.redd.it/ug6xyzvi440c1.png?width=222&format=png&auto=webp&s=aefba78c5728abcc68969ad1c5cca8e543ed20e7

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Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-12T13:02:19+00:00

First 😎

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-12T13:03:03+00:00

Second 👁👁

Ylduts · 2023-11-12T13:53:55+00:00

For most of human history only the top 1% had any say. Only recently has that changed. Men received the right to vote because they had to sign up for the draft. Women of that time argued against women voting because they didn’t want to be drafted. It’s 2023 and in the US men must register for the draft to be able to vote while women do not. That’s not equality, it’s special privilege. Women don’t want equality, they want special privileges.

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T14:20:37+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DePF1c/

Need to do my hair like thiss

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T14:25:24+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8De4aDW/

Ok maybe i wont get lash extensions

RicePresident_ · 2023-11-12T14:35:26+00:00

If any ppders wanna lose their virginity my dms are open

Preferably women will settle for cute man

No homo

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T14:44:28+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DeE72y/

Who would wear this with me

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T14:48:14+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DdLuXk/

So called ppd "free thinkers" when a woman tells them to do literally anything

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T14:53:14+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DdJASP/

I should get into lana lowkey but Idk lana girls tend to be rlyyyyyy weird

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-12T15:45:07+00:00

I've been thinking about getting a body pillow. Not the ones with the weird anime girls on it but the nice, plain and classy ones I saw on Amazon. The weighted blanket has been for good for my autism but it doesn't feel like I'm being hugged like people claim it feels like. With the pillow, I'm actually hugging it so I get really feel what's it's like to sleep next to another person.

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T15:48:19+00:00

Im dead running out of things to say Omg

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-12T16:16:13+00:00

Do you measure height in the morning or evening? I swear I'm a manlet in the evening. There's a near full inch difference.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-12T17:31:35+00:00

You know the only thing that annoying me about the recent posts about women career success and men failure, combined with the “the future is female” bullshit , is that it makes me think that I will end up as an 18 century housewife. Like sure, I don’t mind cleaning and maintaining my house, but I still have dreams that I want to accomplish, inventions that I would like to make. So it’s not that I don’t want to help her but I don’t wish to be a side character in someone story.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T17:35:52+00:00

Misogyny doesn't mean you hate women, it simply means you dislike them. This is why misogynists can still be attracted to women and want to pursue them.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-12T17:40:07+00:00

Good morning to everyone who:

Has a dog
Prefers pumpkin or apple as their favorite flavor of pie
Thinks Pizza Hut > Dominos, or
Has ever 100%-ed a game (entire game completion + all achievements)

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T17:54:03+00:00

But if im being honest i would be such a great wife though literally

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T17:56:11+00:00

There is no such thing as the patriarchy, BUT the functions historically which feminists refer to as the patriarchy were and still are absolutely necessary to ensure a just and fair society.

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T18:21:39+00:00

Guyss i feel bad because in physics we had like a group project thats due on the 14th and my group was literally ALL GUYS except me (which Idc that theyre guys its just that they are *that* type of guy) and for some reason they never got my email to add me to the google document until like friday AFTER they already did every thing even tho i gave them my email literally on monday so its like im slapping my name on work i didnt actually do

DerayRevan · 2023-11-12T18:26:58+00:00

PENTALLLLLY

This is Chelsea's chance to make a come-back

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T00:20:37+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8DN6t7v/

I dont even know what hes talking about but i need to know why god only gives guys long lashes

monster_lily · 2023-11-13T02:50:07+00:00

Idk anything abt mens fashion but do u think its tacky if a boy has on 3+ different brands

Like my brother will wear a puma tshirt, fila jacket and adidas sweatpants like stick to one but im a girl tho so idk

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-13T10:01:25+00:00

In my experience, the chicks with "God first" or some Bible verse in their profile are usually the most toxic chicks out there.

happy_discus · 2023-11-13T10:27:14+00:00

Why are all women I am attracted to gay and all the men I am attracted to are straight. My brain sucks so much at this attraction thing.

On a unrelated note I saw a really cute dog today. At least I got that going for me.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-11-13T11:33:40+00:00

I'm not defending passport bros, and I think it's a bad lifestyle. But it makes logical sense.

If all the jobs in your country suck don't you just up and move to a more favorable job market?

If all the prospective partners in your country suck why wouldn't you just up and move to a more favorable dating market?

Maffioze · 2023-11-13T13:28:25+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzZJA-Zv-4n/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T14:01:02+00:00

Hey guys

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