My wife and I are in the process of getting a divorce, she wanted it. We both signed the papers a couple of weeks ago. We haven't lived together since January.

After no contact with her for over a month, she hits me up and is telling me it's not too late, we can still stop the divorce from happening, she realizes she misses and still wants me. I was shocked because I had pretty much accepted that I probably wouldn't hear from her again. It did make me happy.

We talk for a couple of days and she tells me that she hooked up with 4 different guys over the past month and a half. Is 4 not a crazy number? I haven't even attempted to talk to another woman (I understand that's not her fault). What do I do with that information? It's killing me, it's all I can think about. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I want to die most of the time.

I get it, I very well could be handling this immaturely and insecure. She says she regrets it and wishes it never happened, but that doesn't make my pain go away. I know she's hurting too, I really do, but it doesn't compare.

Is this normal behavior for recently separated women? What would any of you do? Would you take her back? Has anyone had a similar situation? I'm not doing well.

Any help would be appreciated, and please tell me if I'm handling this incorrectly.