Daily Community Chat Megathread

Willow-girl · 2022-11-17T04:54:16+00:00

I swear, these jellicle kittens of Fritzi's are the rolling-est cats I've ever had. It's like they're part fainting goat or something -- you only have to look at them and they flop over and start writhing around as if seizuring.

It's especially funny when I get home from work at night as they all run down to the gate to greet me, then I'm stepping over rolling cats all the way up the path to the house.

EulenWatcher · 2022-11-17T04:04:27+00:00

I believe people who say things like “where have all good men gone?” or “modern women bring nothing to the table” out themselves and/or their social circle. If there are only shitty people around you, you’re the common denominator here really.

PatrickBasedman777 · 2022-11-17T03:32:44+00:00

STACY BROKE UP WITH ME TODAY, BUT IT'S OK BECAUSE I HAVE THE VOICES IN MY HEAD TO KEEP ME COMPANY 😎 ❗❗❗

itzReborn · 2022-11-17T03:11:33+00:00

One of my(many) problems is that I don’t feel my age/feel like I’ve done enough for my age(23). I have a cousin who’s a year older then me and she just brought a house while I’m still struggling to get my bachelors. Or seeing girls on social media traveling or just having fun and I’m stuck in my room 98% of the time

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-17T02:53:28+00:00

When i see some of my girl friends spending a thousand dollars on a Dua Lipa ticket knowing full well that they're all in crushing student debt.

Spend your money better.

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-17T02:34:29+00:00

“Lol why would I lie about something on an anonymous platform?” -Everybody who’s ever lied about something on an anonymous platform

lulll · 2022-11-17T02:19:45+00:00

wait a minute. did god use spaghetti code for vaginas

meteorness123 · 2022-11-17T02:16:41+00:00

"If you're no happy alone, you're never gonna happy".

Thoughts on this statement ?

I think it's bull. It's not about happiness, it's about well-being. And eventually you will want to have friends, a partner or something/someone. You're social creature after all. All of that raises your well-being.

opinions ??

purplish_possum · 2022-11-17T02:07:06+00:00

I've got closing arguments tomorrow morning. Gotta decide if I'm going to prepare something or just wing it. Life's more exciting when you just wing it.

meteorness123 · 2022-11-17T01:58:23+00:00

Im on the brink of nuking everything. From reddit to youtube, social media and go full monk detox mode. I can't seem to able things in moderation. Use it as fuel. Once you no longer are able to receive cheap dopamine hits,you will be forced to get them through real means in everyday life. In theory.

lulll · 2022-11-17T01:52:04+00:00

so weddel seals sound like scifi sound effects

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-11-17T01:23:41+00:00

I never really understood Dudes would get mad the girl don’t posts pictures of them on dates. “Bro she’s only posting pics of her outfit and her food bro she don’t like you man”.

If we just “dating” don’t post me on your IG stories, don’t put me on snap, don’t post pictures of me. Heck if we just sleeping together nobody gotta know that. If we official tissue? No problem. Like my GF will post IG stories of us going out with the caption “date night” and all that it’s whatever.

One of my homegirls said she went on a date with a dude and he was taking pics of her. Then he asked the guy at the restaurant to take two of them together. She’s like um ok. Later that night dude made a whole post talking about with my boo, she’s like why you claiming me that’s weird I’m not even fucking you yet lol

LebaneseImperfection · 2022-11-17T01:15:18+00:00

https://twitter.com/lovethongsuknow/status/1335742735899357186/photo/1

Would you ever wear something this see thru?

LebaneseImperfection · 2022-11-17T00:48:15+00:00

Would a guy who is an sexually satisfying relationship use Onlyfans?

MrMushySauce · 2022-11-17T00:46:48+00:00

For anyone who doesn't like the way the USA is run...

Just remember, if George Bush could become President, you could too.

Be the change you want to see in the world

RegTextoffender · 2022-11-17T00:39:51+00:00

5 minutes after my last post my wife was asked by a woman if it was ok for me to have a hall pass with her. Being a degenerate is fantastic. Might be with another tonight too. Cialis to the rescue in that case, I'm but a mortal.

angryearth · 2022-11-17T00:34:11+00:00

God men are dumb. No way it was men who were in charge of the moon landing. Their wives must have helped them.

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-17T00:31:04+00:00

Just the usual

The9thElement · 2022-11-17T00:28:28+00:00

Pengyinz0/moistcritikal is so fucking hot

empresa_josefina · 2022-11-17T00:06:42+00:00

I am thinking about outsourcing my OLD swiping. I’d pay the swiper $30/hr to right-swipe women I’d be interested in in my area. I would do all the actual messaging. I’d need to coach this person on what my tastes are and how to swipe so they don’t get me shadowbanned.

Anyone ever looked into this? I hear that a lot of celebs have their assistants swipe for them since their time is precious.

PatrickBasedman777 · 2022-11-17T00:00:13+00:00

dudes who say that women who are okay with medical abortions but not financial ones, well they are not wrong, if a women can kill a child a man should be able to abandon it, if you truly believe in a women's right to choose if she has children or not you should also believe in a man's right

however I still both abandoning your children or killing them because its inconvenient to you is still morally repugnant, either way you are committing an awful deed, killing/leaving to die an innocent being that you created, but are totally unwilling to take the most basic responsibility for

pay your child support, don't murder innocents

tldr: your not wrong but your still shitty

LaloTwins · 2022-11-16T23:55:06+00:00

I can be a feminist this month cause of Iran

That shit's fucked up

Catch me after the revolution though

I'm back on my bullshit

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-11-16T23:45:46+00:00

Why do some women say that dating is terrible in X place or at X age but then say they went on 60 dates and slept with 12 guys and had 2 fwbs? If it was so terrible, you would've stopped much sooner.

Hoodfamous098 · 2022-11-16T23:44:22+00:00

Being pro life while not wanting to date single mothers is so confusing to me. Not everybody can be as boring as you

LebaneseImperfection · 2022-11-16T23:35:50+00:00

https://mobile.twitter.com/MKUltraGoth/status/1592905074267033600

Honestly, people are very cruel to short men. This is a very cruel tweet.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T23:33:15+00:00

hospice kills people just saying. they dont take of sick old people they euthanize them with morphine and other drugs. they lost in court over this too

nandor_the_relenting · 2022-11-16T23:19:30+00:00

be waman receive attention

/thread /subreddit /humanity

JiifuhTV · 2022-11-16T23:02:46+00:00

Why do women think they can just abandon a kid by killing it, but cry when men do it peacefully by leaving🤷

Lysa_Bell · 2022-11-16T22:52:33+00:00

Someone leaked all the OLD DMs of ppd to YouTubers /s

EulenWatcher · 2022-11-16T22:51:26+00:00

What’s wrong with some people out there?

lulll · 2022-11-16T22:40:23+00:00

i think women should control the world and make us men behave

-angels-fan- · 2022-11-16T22:21:22+00:00

I have seen assertive women in the office that aren't bitchy and they aren't labeled as bitches.

This idea of "a woman that is assertive is a bitch. A man that is assertive is assertive" is such a cop out.

No.... you're just a bitch.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-11-16T22:19:06+00:00

How can I come across as my "wholesome" and relationship oriented? I think I give off fuckboy vibes :/

RegTextoffender · 2022-11-16T22:17:52+00:00

Was in a very nice orgy last night, living the dream.

LebaneseImperfection · 2022-11-16T22:17:26+00:00

Is it messed up for someone who is 25/26 to date an 18 year old?

NthKnife · 2022-11-16T22:14:04+00:00

Everyday I am shocked my boss still expects me to keep up the facade that I care about work. Everyday I come closer to cussing everyone out and throwing a computer at them.

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-11-16T21:55:38+00:00

Is there some guy mass-tagging a bunch of people in random comments?

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-16T21:52:49+00:00

Where do people live where they apparently see fat chicks with Chads all the time? I like never see this irl

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-11-16T21:36:37+00:00

Banning abortion is often presented as a violation of women’s rights, but I’ve always found it kinda funny how so many women don’t view it that way.

I was talking to my sister about how the abortion ban was overturned in the state of Georgia recently. And she told me, verbatim, that she “literally could not give less of a fuck about whether some slutty bimbo gets to abort her baby or not”. She simply stated that she didn’t care and that abortion is a “boring” subject to talk about. Then she told me she was craving shrimp for dinner and asked me if I wanted some 🤦‍♂️

I found it pretty hilarious ngl

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-16T21:32:09+00:00

So I tried reading 'Come as You Are', and only read up to the part where she describes responsive versus spontaneous sex drives. I thought the concept was so dumbed down as to be practically useless, so I stopped reading the book.

For those that have read it, does it get any better?

LebaneseImperfection · 2022-11-16T21:18:48+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/ywzchw/i29f_tried_to_surprise_my_husband28m_and_all_he/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

This guy deserves to get cheated on.

LaloTwins · 2022-11-16T21:09:06+00:00

Q4W would you be against financial abortion if it had to have been agreed upon before pregnancy.

Say you meet a girl and tell her I don't want a kid, let's be careful but if you do get pregnant I'd want you to kill it. You can say no but I won't have sex with you if you don't agree.

She agrees. (There's definitive proof)

She gets pregnant, wants to keep the baby.

Financial abortion yah or nay?

SheMyHeroine · 2022-11-16T18:53:26+00:00

There's really middle-aged men roasting women for getting older like their sperm cells aren't on hospice care 💀

MoreSanitizerPls · 2022-11-16T12:52:30+00:00

I think the truth that no one here wants to admit is you can’t help who you fall in love with. You can say you don’t want a high-n count woman till the cows come home but if a high-n count woman is attractive, nice to you, is interesting and has a sweet and caring disposition, you’re going to fall in love with her.

Trying to be logical and strategic about love has never and will never work because love isn’t logical.

baresquad · 2022-11-16T18:36:16+00:00

It really shouldn’t be hard to come to terms with the fact that the woman you like has had sex before. You guys are just obsessed with the precious image you’ve created in your heads of these women and that facade constantly gets torn down because how unlikely it is for a majority of men to find a woman who’s abstained from sex with everyone else but somehow becomes a personal slut for you. We get it.

That doesn’t warrant having the same conversations about body count consistently, all saying the same thing, making the same points, with the same ideas and then act as if those viewpoints are misunderstood as much as this sub does. There’s far more interesting dating world topics to talk about.

Repulsive-Cupcake505 · 2022-11-16T05:12:53+00:00

Why do some men here use celebrities as examples of men being successful at dating ? Like one said since the “sexiest man alive” is 41 , that means all men peak at 41. To me as a man, I do not understand this. Celebrities are almost super human beings in the top 0.001% . I have known few olympians and even those people are so incredibly motivated / smart , it is so beyond the average person.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-16T07:55:17+00:00

Another day, another "you must all agree my n count preference is fine!!" post.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-11-16T12:14:34+00:00

Good morning. There are no women on the Internet. All women on dating apps are fake (this is why I get no matches). The pseudo-women of today are merely the creations of men.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-11-16T18:37:51+00:00

Daily update. Women aren’t good at texting and communicating thru texts even tho PUA are now specifically making courses for dudes to learn how to text, all women are showing off skin as long as all women is your algorithm in Instagram and men aren’t giving women orgasms during hookups not because hookup sex isn’t as good as relationship sex or that some guys are just bad at sex, it’s actually on purpose to perpetuate the orgasm gap. It’s a Chad-spericy!

unloader72 · 2022-11-16T20:32:12+00:00

Long ago when I was a young loser scion, my master, who was a Chad and I were strolling around the bar looking for pretty ladies to chat up.

He, cocksurely, pointed a woman then followed up with: "You should go for it!", but I was young and callow then said: "Better not, I don’t feel any chemistry, she doesn’t seem to be my type."

With a big grin words of wisdom went out his mouth:

"Every woman is the same bent over."

That's when I was enlightened why he was the Chad and I was the virgin in this dichotomy of masculinity.

BigOleGreenTrees · 2022-11-16T16:36:06+00:00

The United States is not a country, it's a few corporations in a trenchcoat.

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-16T15:15:35+00:00

What’s up with this person who keeps talking about how she wants to kill herself in here 🤨

WestCombSplit · 2022-11-16T15:53:41+00:00

Jada is overrated. Even when she was younger, she was at best a 7 who was probably seductive irl. If they broke up he'd do way better than her and she'd have to date someone whose lower on the socio-economic scale

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-11-16T17:52:45+00:00

Another one from me.

Some people are using the dating market to find meaningful relationships and sex.

Some people are using the dating market as free psycho therapy to temporarily provide them with ego boosts and validation.

Guys pumping and dumping? It's not about the sex, it's about keeping that insatiable ego fed.

Women which date just to get guys to chase after them? Same thing.

Once you get older, the share of such broken people increases. If you feel like you can fix them, they are way more likely to break you instead.

Avoid being someone's free emotional punchbag.

geyges1 · 2022-11-16T13:08:29+00:00

From a woman yesterday:

Lots of us aren't super curious or exploratory about our bodies to the degree we could just show a partner how to get us off or have the instant confidence and communication skills to show them.

Women walk into the bedroom like:

We don't know what we want
We're too shy to show you
We don't have communication skills to tell you
you figure it out, and we'll just complain that men are bad at sex

lewdakuma · 2022-11-16T15:01:18+00:00

q4m: say you get into a relationship with a woman who tells you she has a low ncount (like 1 or 2). it comes out after you've been sleeping together you were actually her first, and she lied about n-count but made it larger. would u care? im curious if it applies in the reverse.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-11-16T15:52:39+00:00

Experience gap is real and women take advantage of men who have less experience than them all the time to get what they want out of them

If he has had less LTRs than her or a lower n count then she will try to prey on him by setting unrealistic boundaries and parameters and guise it as “the norm”

“No you’re SUPPOSED to let me hang out with other men for lunch don’t be insecure”

“No you can only have sex when I feel like it and no you can’t stray sorry I control your sex supply for life but this is normal”

“You’re supposed to let ME handle the finances AND look after my kids but remember they’re my kids not yours so you can’t discipline them only me and the dead beat dad that they will run back to can”

Be careful men don’t fall for predatory women who have an experience gap

N_Count_Council · 2022-11-16T15:55:01+00:00

Women ask men what their standards/dealbreakers are > downvote them after they answer

Never change PPD

SheMyHeroine · 2022-11-16T17:07:57+00:00

I love when women try to make blowjobs an empowering or dominant act, "I got his dick in between my teeth" "I'm in complete control" like girl you're literally kneeling and have a hairy nustack dangling two inches from your chin 💀

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-16T17:17:01+00:00

There is an obvious troll pretending to be a woman on this sub and if you look at their deleted post history in within the same year they say they are 21-31 and have made posts saying they want to fuck their dad. When I pointed this out “she” blocked me lol

AdditionalPrice7336 · 2022-11-16T04:05:12+00:00

Anyway, I think , in reflection I have found a Bill Hicks clip where he nails the inherent evil capitalism allows if not encourages https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHEOGrkhDp0

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-11-16T05:20:00+00:00

might have 3 dates planned for this weekend…am i mentally prepared? Not at all but I think it’ll be good for me to chit chat.

FFTzzz · 2022-11-16T05:28:36+00:00

Never talk shit about Harry Potter on PPD! You have been warned.

Ppdebatesomental · 2022-11-16T07:27:23+00:00

Mormon church has come out for same sex marriage. First thing my husband wanted to know was “do lesbians get multiple wives”. I think his imagination is running wild

Repulsive-Cupcake505 · 2022-11-16T08:24:01+00:00

Men who care about n count of a woman are weak and not masculine. Allowing the thoughts of others to live rent free in your head is the epitome of just being pathetic.

NthKnife · 2022-11-16T16:29:01+00:00

Anyone think there's any real chance of a bigger scale war in europe or nah

Helplessadvice · 2022-11-16T17:33:13+00:00

My old friend use to brag about dating older men when she was 15-19. We always told her how fucking weird it was to be involved with men 35+ at her age. Now she’s making lots of posts on Snapchat about getting groomed.

lovelythecove · 2022-11-16T19:03:33+00:00

Damn all the fun happens here. I’ve skipped these threads but I think I gotta start hanging here more. The other threads are too serious !!

LaloTwins · 2022-11-16T19:50:10+00:00

LMAOOOOOO the track her cycle pill

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-11-16T20:25:38+00:00

When men said that media influenced them from the young age to think that women are angels and they like nice guys, they get laughed at for being stupid. Like... why would you believe stupid Disney movies or whatever.

At the same time it is wildly accepted that porn can make men pornsick, which hurts women because men have higher demands.

Also we have all these woke showmakers which are trying to influence the whole population by promoting their ideas and agendas.

So it's just one of those double-thinks. When it serves an agenda then media can't influence the minds of young people, but they are using media to influence the minds of young people :/

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-11-16T16:38:11+00:00

High N number is not the deal-breaker.

The real deal-breaker is the thing causing the high N number.

Just think about this. Nothing wrong with enjoying sex right? Well if you just like having sex, then you find yourself a person which is good at it, you form a relationship... FWB is also a form of relationship, and you have a lot of sex.

Low risk of STD, rape, a person sharing your sexual history with half the town, you have a sex partner on your speed dial, you can engage in kinky stuff.

But people with high N count, men and women alike, they don't just enjoy sex. They need novelty of new partners, the excitement. Or they have really shitty impulse control, which is basically the same thing.

Why would you want to marry such a person? They are going to find sex in relationship boring really fast.

edgyny · 2022-11-16T18:02:33+00:00

WTF is wrong with Texas? They really seem to think there's some sort of competition with Florida to be the dumbest motherfuckers on Earth.

https://reason.com/2022/11/16/suburban-mom-jailed-handcuffed-cps-son-walk-home/

PatrickBasedman777 · 2022-11-16T20:05:33+00:00

the redditors strike again folks

refusing to let a 5 year old girl with a dying mom come to there family christmas because "you don't her owe her anything"

sure you may not be technically or legally obligated to do certain things, but you sure as fuck are morally obligated, I mean for gods she is a little girl with a sick mom, she is not entitled or trying to scam you for free toys or any of the other bullshit I saw in the comments

since when did people start using "I do not feel comfortable" as a way to just be petty and cruel

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/yvvc84/aita_for_not_allowing_my_daughters_half_sister_to/

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-16T07:50:52+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ck61GoFA5l9/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

rol_man44 · 2022-11-16T10:13:56+00:00

I never used to understand why men would cheat and be emotionally distant from women. I always thought you should treat your woman well, be attentive and stay loyal. I’ve woken up now.

figuringMylife · 2022-11-16T13:41:38+00:00

i wish i had a husband so i could ~~suck his dick in our home~~ nag at him all day 😡

how’s y’all’s looksmaxxing journeys going?

i’ve given up temporarily on losing weight. it’s the holidays so idk what im gonna do. i don’t have much to lose but i haven’t picked up the habits i need to be able to use it in a manner that is consistent.

That__EST · 2022-11-16T14:44:06+00:00

I think we as a society need to figure out when the best age to settle down is. I think that a lot of our problem is that everyone is considered "too young" to settle down.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-11-16T15:33:58+00:00

I think PPD has reached it's natural end. There isn't much left to debate.

Sexually open and non sexually open women, who are interested in sex with men, will deny and argue the most obvious of points. They reject the proof, and act bewildered when it's proven without a doubt, as if you are stupid for bringing up facts that are so obvious, they go without saying.

Chads will be chads. The naïve will remain so. The romantic and sexually unsuccessful will continue to search for answers and explanations, keeping their finger on the pulse to the newest social dymamics conclusions and theorycraft in an effort to improve.

There reaches a point for those men to quietly give up, either by improving enough to be allowed past the velvet rope at the door or aging out, missing out in their prime opportunity in life to change things meaningfully around.

In the end, Chad and the rejects accept that it's "natural" game that was the most important in the end. That is, man was suppose to do the best he can while appearing like not trying at all, as though effortless. And that man is most attractive when he is random and light hearted, never taking anything seriously and that his memory is as short as a goldfish's. And that any one woman's attraction, sex, fucking, passion, and love, for him is fleeting and can change in a second, no matter if the association he has with her is for one evening or 57 years.

And so those men drop the discourse and start focusing on other things, allowing the young and stupid to pick up the mantle and argue the same cycles again.

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-16T16:22:07+00:00

Why can’t real women be as hot as they are in my animes 😭

John_Oakman · 2022-11-16T16:25:54+00:00

There's a difference between something that's achieved through great effort & with intention and something that just happened to said individuals without effort or active intentions. In the former, decisions were made, while in the latter, it's not.

BigOleGreenTrees · 2022-11-16T16:39:15+00:00

Hey ppd is this u

https://youtu.be/TjKoGrJ-FuY

figuringMylife · 2022-11-16T17:07:43+00:00

what if all the divorces are from men cheating and being broke???

i’m tired of broke men acting like men aren’t always broke and living on the clout of rich and smarter men. most of y’all can’t even have a comfortable relationship with the woman of u want. you’ll all end up with a fatty 😭 except purplish. he’ll end up with an evil skinny whore.

jackedsoon · 2022-11-16T18:40:40+00:00

how do women notice when someones into their male friend so easily but the guy doesnt. ive been told many times by them when we out when a girls into me or even gay guys. and im like 'what?'... i had no clue. no obvious signs.

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-16T19:09:51+00:00

Old women bad (thick milfs pls know I don’t mean you)

Slipthe · 2022-11-16T19:31:43+00:00

Bruh if I have a kid, they are getting Apple tags in the back pack, baby cameras, and if they have a phone as a child then I'm definitely hacking it to give myself full microphone and camera access.

It's not about not trusting the kid, it's about knowing what other people are doing around my kid when I'm not there.

AdditionalPrice7336 · 2022-11-16T04:01:35+00:00

SeaSquirrel · 2022-11-16T04:20:01+00:00

Free early-ish relationship advice; a vase is a goated earlier on gift. Cheap, and then she has a place to put the flowers you get her.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-11-16T04:37:42+00:00

I’ve heard about divorce parties never been to one lol

w1se_old_tree · 2022-11-16T04:49:55+00:00

Since male lions aren't considered adults until their mane is fully developed, maybe male humans shouldn't be considered adults until their facial hair is fully developed, which often happens sometime in their 20s or early 30s. Both are major secondary sexual characteristics after all.

Discuss.

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-16T05:20:17+00:00

how I imagine some of the men on ppd converse with women before coming here and complaining about getting rejected

Brilliant_Look4387 · 2022-11-16T11:58:39+00:00

CMV: people say n count is important just to shame women who want their expecations met and would rather put brakes on a relationship, than put up with a bad partner. Having less partners also means that women have less experience advocating for themselfes, making them more susceptible to abuse or exploitation. Convincing women to care about n count is convincing them stick with their partner and possibly excepting less then what they deserve. It is taking away the possibility to learn from experience witch is ultimatly benefiting men who want their partners to simply not know better.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-11-16T12:24:33+00:00

Alot of people on Reddit seem to think going on vacations by yourself is weird, what do you think?

The funny thing about is, many have said That mindset is the biggest reason they didn’t go on more trips when they were younger and they really regret it looking back.

“Damn I wanna go to Puerto Rico but I can’t because going by yourself is weird. So I have I wait until I get a boyfriend first”

“Damn I wanna go to Hawaii but none of my friends can afford to go, and going on vacation by yourself is for weirdos so I have to wait”

You’ll laugh but A-LOT of people cosign this mentality 😝

MoreSanitizerPls · 2022-11-16T13:25:06+00:00

Getting close to setting up a tinder for the first time and seeing what I can find? Any advice?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-16T13:32:06+00:00

I don't know guys I don't feel like lately I've been feeling very Ucey.

You know what I mean?

JumboJetz · 2022-11-16T13:50:36+00:00

Question for women:

If every man decided tomorrow to start upgrading their appearance (let’s say a very influential mens movement to do so happened). They dressed better, as in even to the grocery store a lot of men started wearing a 3 piece suit. They were clean shaven or neatly trimmed beards. They undertook skin care routines.

Would you now change the effort you spent on your own appearance? Or would you basically just upkeep yourself the same?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T13:55:10+00:00

women have terrible communication skills and they act like they have better communication skills then men. when's the last time u texted a girl and didnt have to carry the convo? women are never direct and expect u to just know things. women are absolutely terrible communicators and we need to stop pretending otherwise

DragoonXFury · 2022-11-16T14:52:38+00:00

Evanescence/Within Temptation down. Next up: Nightwish.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T15:04:53+00:00

is it not insane that the most prolific serial killer in american history. gary ridgeway taka he green river killer, it by definition clinically mentall disabled with an iq in the 60s. wtf bro. how did this dude get the highest bodycount of all of them wtf

purplish_possum · 2022-11-16T15:37:27+00:00

If you had the chance to move to Portugal, would you do so?

I would, but the country’s lackluster job market deters me.

FFTzzz · 2022-11-16T16:18:46+00:00

70% of women are under 5s.

CMV you can't CMV.

SheMyHeroine · 2022-11-16T17:01:46+00:00

How would you rank Meghan McCain?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-11-16T17:14:26+00:00

What would you think of a childless 28 year old guy who went to Disney World with his mom and sister?

figuringMylife · 2022-11-16T17:32:07+00:00

what’s ur fave guys?? r/threesome r/AirTight r/fucklicking r/creampieeating or r/bukkake

Peacesquad · 2022-11-16T17:49:41+00:00

Ladies, name 3 reasons why you have guy friends

SlashCo80 · 2022-11-16T17:59:46+00:00

So is anyone using the Reddit redesign (aka new site)? I tried to get into it a couple of times but I just can't. It's much slower for some reason, confusing to navigate, and has a bunch of extra features I don't need or care about, almost like they're trying to turn it into a social media site. I hope they keep the old version for a while longer.

Slipthe · 2022-11-16T18:07:00+00:00

Is anyone allowed to vote in the Republican Primaries? Or do they reject you based on known party affiliation?

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-11-16T18:22:44+00:00

CMV: When doing hook ups, men intentionally avoid making a woman orgasm.

Because an unsatisfied woman will have to have another hook up to have a chance to orgasm. And men are bros.

Men which consistently make hook up women orgasm are traitors of the mankind.

So the orgasm gap which women whine about... it is by design!

The only problem with orgasm gap is that it is narrower then intended.

EmeraldsFaure · 2022-11-16T18:43:59+00:00

Q4All: Is hair a dealbreaker in attraction? Ladies, do you like long hair/ no hair or unusual styles/ on men? Men, do you like short hair or unusual styles on ladies? I mentioned to a guy I’m seeing casually, that I’m considering cutting my hair short. Right now I have long hair few inches past my shoulders. He strongly advised me against it and gave no reason except “your hair looks good”. I wasn’t asking for his opinion. Do some people have strong hair preferences?

johnnyGotHisTabla · 2022-11-16T18:44:27+00:00

Why do folks in this sub go as far as they do to deny "The Wall" is tied to closing fertility windows?

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-16T18:45:23+00:00

Anyone have a good cake recipe? I have some icing I need to use up

Slipthe · 2022-11-16T19:22:32+00:00

Idk if you know this, but CTRL + SHIFT + T reopens the last tab you closed.

I use that shortcut like 20 times a day because I always close something and then regret it 30 seconds later.

ririsbaby · 2022-11-16T20:33:33+00:00

Q4M: Don’t google this. At what age do you think women on average hit menopause? How old are you?

EDIT: I’m honestly surprised at the answers. I thought there would be someone saying 30 😂

“The menopausal transition most often begins between ages 45 and 55. It usually lasts about seven years but can be as long as 14 years. The duration can depend on lifestyle factors such as smoking, age it begins, and race and ethnicity”

JiifuhTV · 2022-11-16T21:07:01+00:00

QFW What's a good height for a man? Am 4'11 without shoe's, but with shoe's am 5'1 ish is that valid or nah.

liefelijk · 2022-11-16T21:00:49+00:00

Had a health scare this week, which fortunately turned out to be nothing serious. Terrifying, but in some ways it’s great to get a reminder of how fleeting life can be.

cocicocemei-throw · 2022-11-16T20:59:24+00:00

Hey everybody! I'm asking this here because I checked the rules and nothing was clearly specified but I just want to know: are under 18 (I'm 16) people allowed in this subreddit? I really love debating and I find this whole red - blue - purple pill thing extremely fascinating. Thanks in advance for your answers!😊

empresa_josefina · 2022-11-16T20:56:12+00:00

If women aren’t approaching you or giving obvious approach invitations (staring at you multiple times from across the room), you’re not a Chad.

My Chad friends have had attractive women wave them over from across the room, stare at them, banter with them even though the woman is working (bartenders, strippers, even a dental hygienist, etc). Dating these women was then straightforward.

If you need to cold-approach in 2022 (walk up to a woman who did not invite you over to talk to her), you’re a normie and I hope you have good resilience because you will get rejected a lot

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T20:46:37+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpx4ODP35VQ who knew charles manson is an incredible musician

LebaneseImperfection · 2022-11-16T20:45:26+00:00

Do you know any older adults who have never been in a relationship? What are they like?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T20:40:52+00:00

in a system where premarital sex exists polygamy is the only way to make it fair for men. the only time monogamy is fair is if everyone waits for marriage.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T20:34:29+00:00

i kinda agree with andrew tate that polygamy is just the natural order of things. like why should the most attractive guys get one partner who is more interested in him than he is in her?

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NiceGuyNumber4 · 2022-11-16T04:08:14+00:00

Just vibin’

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-16T04:14:58+00:00

Q4Men who want low N count women: if a woman approaches you, would you automatically assume she has a high n count?

scwizard · 2022-11-16T04:40:06+00:00

Unmarried women in America are lost, miserable, addicted to SSRIs and alcohol, wracked with guilt from abortion, and wandering from partner to partner.

The SSRIs bit is oddly specific...

PatrickBasedman777 · 2022-11-16T05:09:22+00:00

poland will have it's borders, even if it's on the last map humanity draws

AdditionalPrice7336 · 2022-11-16T05:43:00+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d19Fo3-cphk

A woman, most worthy of listening to - excellent insights for prosperous discussion.

Mark_Freed · 2022-11-16T07:19:22+00:00

A few months ago I was rich enough to get my second phone and I didn't bother to get a case cause I was like fine... If it breaks I get a new one.

My reply to the deleted comment.

Ok-Application-7614 · 2022-11-16T07:36:18+00:00

People arguing for or against Elon Musk's acquisition of Twitter, are wasting their time.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-16T07:47:41+00:00

I really don't understand having a rigid type. If you date often, it's like only ever eating one dish of one cuisine. I fucking love paella, I'd get sick of it if it's all I ate.

No judgement to those who do, it's just that I've been attracted to a broad range of people.

AdditionalPrice7336 · 2022-11-16T07:50:40+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/yw5t92/im_glad_more_women_arent_falling_for_weaponised/

"Another where a man puts a frozen pizza in the oven upside down with no pan and his partner found the cheese and sauce melting to the bottom." the horror lol Not being funny, but man sometimes I get the impression that if I lived with a woman it would just be a matter of time before I get my ass handed to me

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-16T09:23:52+00:00

Why is everything so much funnier when I'm sleep deprived 😭

2022-11-16T13:00:50+00:00

It’s finally over!

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T15:28:47+00:00

why does reddit do this thing where everytime i click on a notification its opens it in a new page wtf thats so obnoxious

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-16T16:07:53+00:00

Half baked view but thought I'd get it out there.

You hear all the time that there are statistics that show that women who are more promiscuous prior to marriage are more likely to cheat.

...but if someone has sex more than others, then inevitably they are more likely to have more sex in the future, and that will inevitably include sex through infidelity. What it may just be showing is "people who have less sex are less likely to have sex in the future".

...like I said, half baked and not thought through.

SheMyHeroine · 2022-11-16T16:23:21+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRQrBq6n/

Would you date this guy? How would rank from 1-10?

Plugandharam · 2022-11-16T16:37:38+00:00

Yale Law School is pulling out of US news rankings

Which will win: the school's reputation, or the importance of the list reflecting the school's absence?

SheMyHeroine · 2022-11-16T17:42:23+00:00

there's a post on the tinder sub that shows how women will reject men simply out of spite

Peacesquad · 2022-11-16T17:49:53+00:00

Fellas name three reasons why you have female friends

N_Count_Council · 2022-11-16T18:22:28+00:00

Preferences for immutable traits have no winners for relationships:

For example if I said I preferred young women and got into a relationship, obviously at some point she will get old and fall out of my preference range.

If I were a woman and said I preferred tall men, what prevents me from leaving my spouse for a taller man who shows interest?

People who lock onto these imperatives are LV

ChorizoWestern · 2022-11-16T18:39:46+00:00

Current state of OLD dating

I just can't lmao and the worst part is her hamstering

TheKarmicWoosh2 · 2022-11-16T18:50:34+00:00

Ive met enough asian women who cannot seriously date me because Im black (we can have fun though), that it almost makes me want to do it as a challenge. Which is shallow but I love challenges.

Ppdebatesomental · 2022-11-16T19:34:46+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/CYmvxTbLEER/?hl=en

If ladies want to lift, more power to them. But you don't need to lift to be hot.

Just look at the two photos here.

AdditionalPrice7336 · 2022-11-16T20:02:20+00:00

HYPOTHETICAL ROMANCE SCENE / WWYD?

DUDEBRO, WHERE IS MY HEART?

“I look like trash, right, right, mascara looks okay – Oh loneliness I wish I had the furious confidence of an ugly man” sighing but smiling Sophie stalked out from the ladies.

The bar was growing in activity, males moulting like mold on a three-day cup – such images curtesy of her ex, roosters crowing at each other, laughing, poking at each other, silently brooding into their drinks, balding heads, bald heads, skinny arms, pot bellies, slim fuckbois, buff chads, hoodies, suit and tie guy, t-shirt and jeans guy scruffy but good-looking guy, scruffy and shouldn’t be allowed out ever guy.

What a selection in the zoo tonight. Sophie noticed that her table was still empty, she would wait five minutes then go home – Big Gems texted her “U being too nice sis, wtf is this loser doing not being there – he wil be genetic trash, he better not a have a pathetic story, of he wanted to be there he WOULD sis xxxx”.

Sophie stifled a yawn as she sat – it was a mean week 60 plus hours but she was finally killing it Ms. Sophie Jones – Cardiology consultant and finally the offtime arrived, and this good – no great looking man had taken interest in her and he talked…wonderfully – it was almost too good or as her girls had said often “the bar was in hell” this boy better had be a fucking unicorn. The waiter came over, Sophie smiled “A glass of white wine please” – Five minutes, ten tops and she is ubering the fuck back home.

“looking pretty good man” Kevin smiled, slightly yellow teeth, coffee addiction had taken its tole on the enamel, “och well he thought, what is the cosmetic world about shallow inferences or a revelation I have no discipline” he mused on this thought as he run his hand over his freshly smooth head, “shit I’m late”. I’ll phone her he thought, the girl was a supreme 10. She must have the baby rabies – he thought how I can manipulate her – no Kev she is a human being, lol. Kevin pulled out his sweaty android phone, oh man I should have showered – fuck it pheromones and shit. Little blonde bae will love it. Ring, Ring Ring.

Sophie was sipping the wine a touch too fast. Her phone was vibrating. She groped through her bag pulling her phone from the fumbling jungle of a 100 and 1 things that will and will not happen. – Kevin, Play it cool Soph she told herself – remember he does have a sexy accent, he is charming – but this is HIS BAD.

Sophie swipes “Yes” she says testily, Kevin sensing the vast chance of being hit in the psychological nuts goes all in “First off Sophie, my bad – I will be there in ten minutes – I know it sucks, I got held up at work” Sophie cut in determined to be ruthless “what Kevin – you were held up at gun point?” Kevin was on the backfoot, he knew he had to have zero shame now – “Actually , funny story..."

What can save Kevin? Is he beyond redemption?

What can Sophie do to avoid the traps of love drunkenness ?

Are people even like this?

lulll · 2022-11-16T20:25:48+00:00

women like cream more than milk

CaseyAnthonyFanClub · 2022-11-16T20:31:53+00:00

I like that this sub gets weird influxes of new regulars. Means I can repost without really reposting. Here's a situation that happened about a yearish ago. As of now, about 50 people said I was right and about 50 people took the side of my friend. It was pretty polarizing which made the story even more interesting. I posted it on a few subs and every time, it was a pretty clear split. My friend and I have patched this shit up and it is totally water under the bridge, but it's still super interesting to me to hear outsider opinions. Here's what happened:

My buddy and I go out to bar. At the time, he was in a bit of a dry spell (about a year and a half or so), I had a regular FWB. We see a cute redheaded chick sitting on the patio alone. I tell him to go up to her, he refuses. We get drinks. Some other dude starts talking to redhead--woops, guess she's taken. Oh wait, actually no she's not. My friend goes inside to get another round and she compliments my hat and starts a conversation with me. I dodge out of the conversation and wait for my friend to come back. When he does, I tell him to hit on her so he does.

Ok, great, they talk for an hour or so. Friend goes get more drinks while redhead asks me and creepy guy to sit at a table together. Friend joins with drinks. We talk a bit. Friend and creepy guy get in an argument about vaccines (LOL). During this, redhead tells me I'm cute and puts her hand on my thigh. She basically tells me she wants to fuck me and lets me call my number from her phone.

We walk to a gas station to get more drinks/smokes. While redhead checks out, I tell my friend that she's into me and that I'm sorry, I didn't mean to fuck anything up for him, she was just clearly into me right away and I let him do whatever for like an hour. He tells me I am a dickhead, that I betrayed him, that I already have a girl why would I "steal his", shit like that.

We ended up going back to her place, hung out til early morning. We made out a bit when he wasn't in eyeshot, and we made out when she left, and we dated for a few months after. Friend and I argued all the way back home in the uber. At the time, I wouldn't concede, and he wouldn't concede, so we both left pretty bitter.

Who was right?

WittyComparison76 · 2022-11-17T20:04:44+00:00

Today I think I hit that point when mingling in a new place where you realise what everyone was talking about when they warned you about it.

Mark_Freed · 2022-11-16T07:18:12+00:00

My hot take is that... Sure humans in general are flawed and can't be trusted with a concentration of power.

But in general, statistically I think men will be more competent in how they wield this power.

I think this comes down to two aspects. 1) evolution, so you have all these ancestors where men had to set up systems of hierarchy, they had to defer, respect, obey, remove tyrannical leaders, etc.

So I'd bet on a more robust underpinning existing on how to handle such power which is a difficult task.

And 2) the cultural aspects that go along with this. The fact that women have unstable cliques where you can be overthrown quickly, you need to watch out for reputation destruction, you need to constantly negotiate and keep track of the political undulations.

It leads to an insecure leader, not fully generous, calm and in control. It sucks to have biases which hold you back from really taking advantage of that power.

Yeah so all this leads me to believe it's easier for men to handle power. That's why we could see more men climbing up and acquiring said power (there is also the attraction, motivation, priorities and psychopathy aspects of this) but in conclusion.

As with any distribution there are the tail ends. Especially as you go up the pyramid you notice them.

Women who are as competent as most men I know, sharp, secure, takes responsibility, ownership, etc etc.

It leaves me in awe. It's a prime example of something rare and worth applauding. So for every man I respect on my level. I respect the women I meet at least 10x more because I can see how much harder it was for her and how much she fought to get there in spite of all the cultural and genetic disadvantages.

But yeah it's a hot take and I'm not sure to what extend trp ideas can be applies in general to other domains. I'm sure there is a case to be made on the other side.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T14:27:01+00:00

if u correct someone's grammar on reddit u r a low iq individual

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-16T15:47:42+00:00

I am currently listening my way through the 372 Pages podcast (MST3K for bad books) and just finished their review of Sean Penn's book. It's one of those books that reveals a bit too much about the author, and it sounds like he's very disgusted by women and the human body in general, which must suck as a heterosexual man.

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-11-16T15:52:04+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong.

Women during sex are binary, you are either hitting the right spot, or you're not, there's no hotter or colder.

Also building on that, the non-hotspots are there to build anticipation only.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-16T17:17:01+00:00

trump derangement syndrome is real thanks to cnn. over half of what u know about him thats bad isnt even true because cnn lies that much. oh and the cia lies about him too thanks to hillary. that russia hoax was the most expensive and extensive investigation in american history and found no collusion and the dems still believe there was collusion.

like u remember when cnn said trump told us to inject bleach? lmfao yeah that never happened, if u watched more than the clip cnn showed u, youd know that tho.

WestCombSplit · 2022-11-16T07:43:34+00:00

Tipping is one of the stupidest things people do. Lol someone else has to give you extra money because other people might not be treating you nicely and your boss won't pay you extra. If we were tipping based on the value someone's job has on your day to day, how little they were getting paid and how difficult their job is, waiters wouldn't be near the top of that list

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-16T15:03:00+00:00

I see this sub has decided to be bitter about men wanting low body count women again.

"But she may have changed over time."

Doesn't erase the past unfortunately.

"Oh but she regrets it."

Oh well, maybe don't do things you're going to regret and we wouldn't be in this situation would we honey?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-16T15:18:25+00:00

The best thing about the holiday season is that everyone uses it as an excuse to let themselves go and destroy all of their progress.

"Everyone else is doing it so who cares if I gain a little weight?"

Mate, that's your sign to keep going with your strict discipline, it gives you the chance to get ahead of everybody else and dominate them because they're too busy being lazy and giving into their cravings.

I'm sure as hell not giving up because Christmas is coming. I'm loading my plate up with chicken and potatoes, that's it. Skip the dessert.

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