Daily Community Chat Megathread

SierraMistSoda · 2023-05-08T00:00:24+00:00

Ok Q4M: If a girl wore a really cute dress on a date but it definitely shows off her tits does that make it hard to concentrate on the date for you or is it like "I notice" but then won't be overthinking about it?

chancetolive · 2023-05-07T23:18:36+00:00

anyone watching the whatever podcast tonight?

scwizard · 2023-05-07T22:24:22+00:00

Do you think it's better to marry young, get divorced, then marry again and stay married for the rest of your life?

Or is it better to stay single young then marry once you're older and stay married for the rest of your life?

blueshinx · 2023-05-07T21:54:20+00:00

There’s a guy in my unit whose wife is due to deliver their first baby this summer, and I’m so freaking excited and happy for him 🥰. He’s gonna be such a great dad— he’s empathetic, level-headed, responsible, self assured… and because he’s also a cop, he can get like 6 months PTO, and he’s gonna stay home with the babe when his wife goes back to work. Good men are out there, ladies! Don’t give up hope

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-06T23:19:50+00:00

I always wonder if stupid people constantly go through cognitive dissonance because they never think hard about what theyre doing/thinking.

For example: A person criticizing people with low standards for dating losers…. But then insulting people who vet and have high standards as picky.

PBtoast707 · 2023-05-07T00:33:30+00:00

I’ve reached a stage where I’m really happy with my appearance and who I am, but not very many people like me. It’s kind of odd. But I’m not bothered by it. I’m not really approached by men, which is good because I have a boyfriend. Maybe it’s because I don’t wear too much feminine clothing or because I’m built like a man. Oh well. I’m just glad I finally love myself.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-07T02:26:19+00:00

Has anyone taken the advice of "get off the apps! go take classes or join clubs and meet women there!" How did that pan out?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-07T12:29:08+00:00

Just know that no matter how bad things may seem, you always have the choice to take action and see things get better. We're all allowed to have bad periods, it's about how we react to said periods.

I hope you're all achieving the things you want, but if not, there's always time, always.

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-05-06T22:24:42+00:00

Affirmative Action
Title IX
Prejudiced hiring/admissions granted for females over men
No selective services for women
More women graduating college than men
All the talks about reproductive rights while men have none at all

Could list more, but it's clear after examining the evidence that...

We live in a Patriarchy!!

hdjdjr3 · 2023-05-07T12:38:11+00:00

Question for women: would you date a man shorter than you?

houstongradengineer · 2023-05-06T23:06:40+00:00

I would swallow my pride I would choke on the rinds But the lack thereof would leave me empty inside Swallow my doubt Turn it inside out Find nothin' but faith in nothin' Want to put my tender heart in a blender Watch it spin 'round to a beautiful oblivion Rendezvous then I'm through with you I burn, burn like a wicker cabinet Chalk white and oh so frail I see our time has gotten stale The tick tock of the clock is painful All sane and logical I want to tear it off the wall

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-06T23:36:11+00:00

MGTOW are like the middle age man version of “Im Not Other Girls” because they seem to think not wanting to marry makes them super special.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-07T01:55:22+00:00

I see so many handsome or average guys around my town with the fattest and ugliest women. There was this one dude who was around my height (6ft) who was good looking on my scale and he was with a woman who made me look skinny (I’m 275). Makes me glad i like a*m wmn.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-05-07T06:22:49+00:00

Id women can’t be incels because they can go on tinder and get cheap sex from the most desperate of men, men can’t be incels either as they can just pay a prostitute

If being desired is the actual goal then of course some woman are incels too as not every women is desirable (and they know it too)

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-07T06:23:47+00:00

"Would you date a woman with a past"

For sex sure since my standards are lowered

But for a relationship, nah

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-07T13:38:55+00:00

I don't get why many people are against young women being horny and only wanting casual sex

Because it benefits guys like me who are always looking for that in dating

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-05-06T22:14:01+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/zspw10/why_does_it_increasingly_seem_that_a_lot_of_men/

It's funny how reading these titles with the genders flipped seems to make more sense:

"Why does it increasingly seem that a lot of women either dislike men, resent them or outright hate them?"

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-06T23:16:12+00:00

"Marriage sounds like a scam"

Because it is

I cannot imagine sharing the same bed with someone for 15+ years

Or them complaining more once the kids are involved

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-07T02:28:53+00:00

Dancing clubs are a scam. The majority of men there probably don't even enjoy going. They're just paying to be in a place with scantily clad women and where it's socially acceptable to hit on those women.

That said, men have no other choice once they're out of college and have begrudgingly to participate in the scam to get their basic human needs met.

Society is failing men by not allowing men to meet their basic human needs. Society needs to provide a space where the ordinary man can be around scantily clad women and where it's socially acceptable for men to hit on those women without having to pay ridiculous fees.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-07T02:52:39+00:00

I thank god everyday that I’m not poor.

UnderstandingIncels · 2023-05-07T11:03:18+00:00

Research project

Hello,

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It will take no longer than 30 minutes.

If you would like more information or to participate in the study, please click on the link below:

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Thank you for your time.

gymbronyc718 · 2023-05-07T11:45:59+00:00

The most popular story on Literotica is about a mom who sits on her son's lap for a 5 hour drive to his college and manages to make him hard and fuck him, while the dad is driving.

Willow-girl · 2023-05-07T12:35:47+00:00

Yesterday I paid a visit to the farm where I used to work, which is home to 57,000 solar panels now. They look like a black cancer on what were once green fields of corn or alfalfa.

I was told the power supplied by the panels is purchased by the big university in town, which pays 3x the going rate to be able to brag that it uses "green energy." And those 70 acres of panels supplies less than 1/5 of its needs! Out of curiosity, I Googled and discovered it is estimated it would take over 11 million acres of solar panels to power the entire U.S. The mind boggles!

I was happy to see my old boss and his wife looking well and enjoying their retirement, though. They certainly earned it! When I look back on how hard we worked all those years, sometimes I wonder how we did it.

Ppdebatesomental · 2023-05-06T22:08:34+00:00

Damn first…and I wasn’t even trying

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-06T22:13:16+00:00

Compatibility in relationships are overrated am just gonna say it

All the women l've been with had absolutely nothing in common with me including our interests

But at the end of the day we still got along very well

In fact if you've no common interests then spend time finding them

saraimarsena · 2023-05-06T22:42:01+00:00

This boy be in my DMs saying I’m ✨pretty✨

meteorness123 · 2023-05-07T00:19:48+00:00

Music is proof that God exists.

scwizard · 2023-05-07T01:41:57+00:00

This is a nice hotel but the mattress is sagging a little in the middle and it's annoying me.

scwizard · 2023-05-07T04:35:19+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/13a6t8r/understand_the_game/

Yo for real tho i can't tell. Also dressing sl*tty makes women in their 30s look younger tbh.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-05-07T07:25:27+00:00

Men here really need to try to put themselves in women's shoes before judging them. Try to imagine how you would behave if you had a woman's suite of instincts and socialization combined with their circumstances.

Women here need to remember that at some point the genders are in this together and we have to come to some sort of civilization-wide, equitable compromise and understanding so that the human species reproduces and children are raised well. They have to look at the big picture at some point.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-07T07:39:10+00:00

Why do women get on dating apps just to say they hate dating apps? So many girls on Bumble I've seen today said in one way or another they hate dating apps in their profile.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-07T08:39:49+00:00

Based on that other thread, do guys genuinely care if their girlfriend has a vibrator?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-05-07T10:51:00+00:00

Japan was really cool but I have noticed throughout my life no matter where I go on vacation, around day 5 I always get homesick and wanna go back. It’s like ok, it’s time to go back now. I don’t know how people do the whole 2 weeks and more trip thing. The longest I’ve gone is about ten days.

I had more sushi in the last 7 days then I have had my entire life. Was never a huge fan tbh

downward_spiral9494 · 2023-05-07T14:28:57+00:00

Is it true that women are not attracted to feminine men?

saraimarsena · 2023-05-07T15:27:27+00:00

Why would a man buy sex toys for his woman? That’s like a woman hiring a teen model for her husband.

Sea-Pepper-4548 · 2023-05-07T21:31:54+00:00

I've been trying to know what is wrong with me in every sub until I found this one, this feels a bit more realistic so here it goes: Im 18M, I have a very good body since I'm healthily addicted to sports, I eat healthy and practice a lot of sports but not too much to the point where I don't have time to do anything else. I have some hobbies, I study a lot, I take care of my hygiene a lot since I was very close to my older sister so she taught me how to do skincare and everything. I have a haircut every 3 weeks. I wear nice fitting clothes. I wouldn't say I'm the most confident guy, but I'm somewhat confident, I do have some low confidence and self-esteem days here and there but overall I'm okay. The thing is that it has been 2 years since I'm not able to make any friendships and relationships. I moved to another country, I still talk to my friends, but it has been 2 years since I've been with someone, a serious relationship or not. And I don't know what to do to get better. Does anyone care to give me a help?

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-05-07T21:07:52+00:00

Saw this really hot girl at the club last night that looked like a much hotter version of my ex, exactly my type, but I didn't approach her. Wish I had, but if she had rejected me it would've felt much worse than just a regular old rejection. But had she not rejected me it probably would've been extraordinarily awesome. Emotionally a high risk high reward situation. Oh well, hopefully I see her again another night. I will wield this regret to motivate me in the future. At least I talked to some other chicks.

TalyorTyrone · 2023-05-07T20:43:12+00:00

I recently been dating this blonde woman around my age for months

Very attractive and we got along fine

But we ended it because l wanted us to not get engaged so early but she opposed and even wanted us to start living together by next year

Obviously she looked to be in a rush with things but l wasn't ready to engage with someone, l just wanted to continue dating

I don't do serious monogamy stuff anymore

Maffioze · 2023-05-07T20:17:06+00:00

The amount of men trying to justify cheating on this sub is honestly just bizzare.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-06T22:10:17+00:00

When a man does a female dominated hobby: omg is he gay or is he doing this hobby just to hit on women?

When a women does a male dominated hobby: 😍 a girl who likes the same hobby as me

Women are welcomed and desired. Men are shunned.

Barneysparky · 2023-05-06T22:57:31+00:00

A friend of mine's son ended up in Emergency again after a suicide attempt. He's got autism and severe social anxiety, really supportive parents aren't enough for him.

I do worry a great deal about some of the fellows here.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-07T01:47:39+00:00

"Lonely" women be like "I'm so lonely! I have no friends to hang out with. I'm just stuck being lonely watching a movie with my boyfriend every night 😭"

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-05-07T10:51:38+00:00

Also I always thought the entire concept of a “royal family” was gross. Even as a kid I was like they still do that lol? That sounds like some shit from the 1400’s. And people fawn over these royals which is weird.

Novadina · 2023-05-07T20:06:30+00:00

Lmao some of the men here are hilarious. Love this “logic” from the supposed “logical gender” - fucking men is not gay as long as you are the man on top, and fucking women is gay if you get any prostate orgasms during it. Lol.

https://i.imgur.com/h065BcB.jpg

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-07T20:01:37+00:00

Men dream about getting rich to be able to live the carefree glamorous life that ordinary women get to experience for free.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-05-07T19:49:41+00:00

Complaining about how easy it is for women to get sex but its hard for a man is a weird complaint

jobbo321 · 2023-05-07T19:48:42+00:00

Is going to a jazz pub a good idea for a first date? Mainly scared that the music will be too loud for us to hear each other, but live music is always pretty cool and sets the mood

bzl33 · 2023-05-07T19:35:00+00:00

Empathy is nonsense, it's infiltrated American discourse because we live in a society of extremes. Someone who hasn't struggled to do something will not understand the feelings of someone who has struggled.

Find people who can help you accomplish whatever you want to accomplish or have been in your shoes and succeeded.

TalyorTyrone · 2023-05-07T19:20:52+00:00

At the end of the day

Dating just depends on what you want

So focus on getting what you want

Some men want casual sex/hookups

Other men want relationships/marriage

Katatonicsnake · 2023-05-07T19:15:20+00:00

I went to see my friend’s ballet performance today, and I realized that my compliments need to improve. All I could think was “It went well! You looked so pretty and tall”

samtheaccountant · 2023-05-07T19:05:14+00:00

Modern dating is a scam for guys. You are being scammed. You are being grifted. Accept it.

Bye

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-07T18:56:22+00:00

I just woke up and saw the comment I said about sleeping with other women blow up on the daily.

Remember: Its much easier for most women to get sex than men. Most women at 18 can just stand there, post thirst trap pics on her IG or OF and hang around men who are in their mid 20s and have sex and then realize before 30 that she wants a nice guy to settle down with. At the same time, the average man at 18 has to suffer by not getting sex, sit at home and wank thinking about that girl he wanted, trying not to unalive himself from being lonely, and work hard to finally achieve the oppertunity to get sex at a later age. So you expect a man who lived through all that to be faithful to a woman who has been "rehabilitated" after her hoe phase? Fuck that. Doesnt mean you dont want a relationship with her though.

I said what I said. Cry about it.

Confident_Bug4944 · 2023-05-07T18:46:15+00:00

Reddit will now ban your account for saying 'TRP is right'. That's it.

This sub will be banned soon.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-07T18:37:32+00:00

Rate this guy ladies

http://imcompany.com.au/wp-content/uploads//images/81546d47-9adc-4719-94bd-d4848d67e5a7.jpg

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-05-07T18:02:14+00:00

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baresquad · 2023-05-07T17:42:40+00:00

Manosphere men think they’re the chads or have the potential to be Chad then expose themselves by promoting ideas like cheating on your girlfriend to catch up to her body count.

You’re not “top 20%” if you have to play catch up after commitment, you would’ve already been there with nothing to be insecure about.

jackedsoon · 2023-05-07T17:39:28+00:00

another failed talking stage : / thought it was going well but w/e.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-07T17:18:07+00:00

CMV: Women need to return to their original roles and modern women need to know their roles.

Mother Help-mate Concubine Whore Slut/Trash

Last two are for modern women that are used up.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-07T17:16:42+00:00

God damn, suburbia is such a wasteland. Nothing to do here but drink, absolutely no culture at all, gotta drive 15 minutes at least to go anywhere good. So grateful I moved to the city.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-07T17:12:22+00:00

How do you keep leftover biscuits in a can fresh after you open them?

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-07T17:07:07+00:00

If women had never tried to be equals less men would hate them

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Crazy_Trash7281 · 2023-05-07T00:07:22+00:00

Any physically attractive guys feel depressed about the dating world cause you don’t really get shit for just being physically attractive. I feel girls at my physical level have too high expectations. And I don’t want to settle. I’m very perceptive of peoples physical features and it’s hard to settle for a girl that has worse features than me. Even little things. When I know a girl at my physical level or for example my hypothetical sister (I dont have one) could have whatever she wanted just by existing. Just want sympathy from any other dudes with good physical qualities who make good money but are socially boring and lack edge and humor. I feel if I was born in 1950 it would be a cake walk. Having a good job doesn’t seem to give you any status.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-07T00:38:20+00:00

Checking a guy's phone is useless

Because you know what your gonna find which is pornography or naked women in his gallery

Other than that, it's just games bruh

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-07T00:46:34+00:00

"What's your type"

I like shy girls because they usually have nothing to say back at you

Nah am just kidding but for a lot of men, that's the case

Most beautiful woman l've dated were extremely shy but same time were attention whores

Always making me meet their social circle of friends

Pls, lots of guys don't want to meet weirdos

scwizard · 2023-05-07T01:36:52+00:00

New mr beast video and "the boys" nowhere to be seen. Hmmmmmm lol

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-07T01:37:39+00:00

How do you define "fat"

Someone/anything over 200+ pounds of weight

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-07T05:06:41+00:00

Not acting like this is why dudes fail: https://youtube.com/shorts/wB8h6OKeEW4?feature=share

AbdelBoudria · 2023-05-07T05:55:25+00:00

Again, another day at a nightclub and I still have no results. I feel I'm wasting my time trying to approach a woman in this type of setting. Most of the time they are in group.

It's frustrating since it's one of my only ways to meet women.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-07T08:13:19+00:00

When you're with a woman with a past

Extreme-Boot-8792 · 2023-05-07T08:54:11+00:00

guys, you MUST vet carefully, sometimes a woman lies about her height

but dont worry, you can use your own door to measure her height

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/fJLtpU5qL5A

also girls, if a man uses shoe lifts, you can tell it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsJKpgkJpnw

Andre27 · 2023-05-07T11:53:23+00:00

So, for those that think a high n count is bad specifically because it usually indicates lots of casual sex, I have questions:

How long do you think someone has to be “in a relationship” for sex not to be casual?

What if a person repeatedly gets into “relationships,” has sex, and then isn’t able to remain in those relationships, whether it’s because they get dumped, or they can’t commit?

Isn’t it better for people to just acknowledge their sexual desires and not rush into relationships that they don’t take seriously or fail at?

gylotip · 2023-05-07T12:52:41+00:00

Imagine using Markdown Mode for commenting.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-07T13:05:33+00:00

He set age gap bros back with this one

https://www.reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/13a6t8r/understand_the_game/

scwizard · 2023-05-07T17:02:36+00:00

Liz Holmes Wants You to Forget About Elizabeth

The black turtlenecks are gone. So is the voice. As the convicted Theranos founder awaits prison, she has adopted a new persona: devoted mother.

Is this a sign the boss babe era is coming to an end?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-07T16:59:58+00:00

I don't get why any man would bring his GF to the club. You go to the club to get women. Bringing women to the club makes you lose women.

Clubs are designed to make women feel good and to make men spend money by making men feel bad. Women go to the club and get free shit and a ton of attention and validation from men. The BF won't get any attention or validation. Women won't go up to talk to him, and because he's in a relationship, he can't go up and talk to women. He's by himself not meeting people while the GF is meeting a ton of men trying to hit on her.

He has to deal with the lose lose situation when men hit on his GF. Do you want to risk looking like you have no spine for not saying anything or looking insecure or risking a fight by speaking up? Lose lose lose.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-07T16:52:52+00:00

Imgur gonna ban porn by May 23rd. Rumors are that Reddit will follow suit. OF and sex workers gonna take a hit to their pocketbooks.

YuekiXC · 2023-05-07T16:49:43+00:00

Any other dudes here use r/sex or r/relationships as rage fuel LOL

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-05-07T16:42:09+00:00

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MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-07T16:28:11+00:00

Why the people here always call everything a person attack? Y’all sensitive as fuck.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-07T16:27:35+00:00

NSFW

https://imgur.io/x0O5Fii

If women actually took care of themselves and sent they man s to do like this they’d be little to no cheating in the world

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-07T16:16:16+00:00

I have learned from here that the weird, nerdy guys tend to be awful people and not romantics who will be devoted to me like the media portrays and how they portray themselves.

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-07T16:08:07+00:00

Femboys are weird

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-07T16:04:33+00:00

I think why men can be so weird about their girls getting sex toys is that a man would get sex toys and accessories to replace a woman. In actually women use toys because they provide something unique or enhance the experience she's already having with her man.

Men's sex toys are usually just insert salami into a different hole. Not a lot of creativity there.

Youngking41 · 2023-05-06T22:18:43+00:00

Just cold approach bro. Why is this such a hard thing to do? Dating is not doomed as some here would say. You just need to put work in

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-06T22:40:16+00:00

I don't why l got downvoted on AskMen

For saying since sex is just physical for a man, then smashing another chick ain't him not loving his woman

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-06T23:28:10+00:00

If am ever gonna get married

Here are my terms/conditions

Two/three wives

So l can produce two offsprings from each

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-05-07T00:15:53+00:00

Why do you think it is that I fantasize about polygyny? Something about having another pretty woman around and shared household responsibilities and babies that I didn’t have to be pregnant with, in addition to a hot, wealthy man sounds so appealing. What even are the drawbacks?

dbz__f · 2023-05-07T04:38:54+00:00

Hanging out with my gf at my house like we do every other weekend or so. She’s been sulky and moody all day, picking fights over simple things, telling me how I should sit in my own house and how I shouldn’t put my feet up, she got angry over something stupid in the morning, she said I get to decide our plans for today but when I wanted to decide where to go for lunch she got all sulky, when I was like “I love you” she wouldn’t say it back. She was acting really moody and grumpy and childish but then we had sex and now she’s really happy and giddy and cuddling me and pecking me while I watch football. Important lesson learned. ~~I’m also happy and giddy cause Essendon is winning today~~ now I’m angry desu

Anti_Thing · 2023-05-07T04:57:10+00:00

I'm about to wrap up post-secondary school experience for the foreseeable future. After more than 6 years total of college, I've completely & utterly failed at college relationships. Over those 6 years I asked out 5 women that I met through college or college organizations; every single one of them rejected me. (3 of those rejections occurred in 2019; after that Covid really put a damper on things). That's not even counting the women whom I never asked out because they consistently failed to respond to my messages or because I could just tell from their IRL behaviour that they weren't in to me; I never sat down to count all these, but they number in the dozens. The only dates I went on during college were from apps.

I think I had at least 5 chances with women I knew at college at the time, but I chose not to pursue them for one reason or another. 2 of these ladies weren't even Christian. One had some liberal beliefs, I thought I had better options at the time, & I wasn't all that attracted to her at the time. I seemed to have mutual attraction with 2 of these women & they each seemed like a good match for me, though I refused to date either of them simply because of their liberal politics. (At that time, I had a zero-tolerance no liberals or leftists policy when it came to dating; looking back I think that was too strict.) These are only the women I'm pretty sure were into me; if we count all the women who might've been into me but I didn't interact with much, I probably had a bit less than 10 chances. (Keep in mind that I actively avoided most socialization that wasn't with Christians or didn't have some Christian purpose to it all through that time).

AMA

MrHustleTopG · 2023-05-07T16:03:06+00:00

CMV: Any man that likes his ass played with but say he ain’t gay is sus

armpitpics · 2023-05-07T15:37:04+00:00

Is this sex toys week?

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-07T05:44:00+00:00

Was thinking about this recently and the men in my family have such average women considering their "success" All of them have college degrees and "good" jobs so one would think they're getting beautiful women, but that's not the case at all. One of my cousin is a top earner, like $300-500k, and his wife is a bit above average in all regards.

I was talking to his wife and she said that the women now are looking for ambitious men. By ambition in assumed she meant someone with a money. But one of our female cousins who is attractive could have married a millionaire if she desired but she didn't... This is only one individual but its worth noting.

Another male cousin of mine is also a good earner and married a woman in her mid 30's that lives in a different country. He had been looking for a partner for a while and all the ones he liked didn't like him. I'm pretty sure he plans on having children with her.

Another cousin of mine a couple years back was talking to me about a woman he was getting serious with. He showed me a picture of her and said "I could have done better." But like... no you could not have otherwise you would have.

My belief is that your partner is a litmus test of your status

I'm sure I'll be getting "but it's their personality that matter" I think thats a half-truth, half-cope.

dbz__f · 2023-05-07T10:34:25+00:00

Can you imagine if men were 1% as emotional as women? If for four days a month we were biologically programmed to emotionally breakdown, start crying spontaneously because of literally and unironically nothing at all, lash out at the people we love, say horrible things that would normally permanently irreparably break any relationships, and then five minutes later expect them to emotionally coddle us and comfort us? And then do the EXACT same thing next month, every month?

Can you seriously imagine if men were like this? Society would break down. Global order would break down. Women and feminists would complain about how all men were spoiled man children and would complain about the emotional labour they had to do

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-07T14:59:56+00:00

That post about being with a woman who has a past got killed :(

Guys if you really like her and shes been with a lot of others in the past, just work on yourself and when the opportunity comes up, go bang other women behind her back and never let her know. Keep doing this till you can get over the fact. Its not morally right, but trust me you will feel a lot better mentally. And if she ever does find out and asks why, just tell her you wanted to have same experience and don't wanna feel like you're some guy she settled on or just use the same excuse that she uses like "I'm in a dark place in my life".

Sure some women and blue pilled beta simps will not like what I said and will think its okay to live with retroactive jealousy rathet than doing something about it.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-07T01:29:05+00:00

"When do you consider a man or a woman successful in dating/relationships"

A man is successful when his had lots of consistent sex from multiple women

A woman is successful when she marries her ideal man and makes it lasts for a long time

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-07T01:40:00+00:00

"What is Redpill, actually"

Something your dad,older brother,best friend should've taught you about when you were 17,18,19,20

If you go on a first date, don't spend more than 50 dollars

If she says no to sex, then stop seeing her

If she embarrasses you, then leave the relationship

If she's still sees her ex, then don't take her seriously for anything long-term

dbz__f · 2023-05-07T02:16:09+00:00

what do you want for lunch?

You decide. Today you decide everything and I follow.

Okay let’s go to X

Why not Y?

Holy fuck cunt

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