Daily Community Chat Megathread

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-28T21:06:48+00:00

People can say anything. Wait until they're angry and insulting someone, that's when you'll find out what they really think about social issues. All of that body positivity stuff flies out the window

potoricco · 2023-07-28T21:05:34+00:00

Be 100% Serious and Objective, Do not joke

Do we actually have any reason to believe in this UFO alien stuff? I am freaking out right now

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-07-28T21:00:13+00:00

CMV: Yes, I fail to see what makes Stephen Curry appealing. What makes him appealing?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-28T21:00:04+00:00

I'm not overly negative, right?

PBtoast707 · 2023-07-28T20:44:35+00:00

I need Atlético to figure out what they’re doing with Félix soon. I need to know what team he’s going to so I can buy his new jersey. I just know I’m going to be stuck waiting until the last day of the transfer window. That’s if they can even get rid of him, they’re asking too much.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-28T20:36:29+00:00

Q4-fellow-men who use dating apps:

Would you pay for a one-time service where two women select the best pictures for your dating profile? Assume you can send in max 30 pictures. They rank them all based on what they think would get the most right swipes. Pictures that are considered too bad will not be ranked with an explanation why the picture is bad.
Would you be more inclined to use the service if there is an add-on to get recommendations on ways to looksmax and improve your photos?
If you would use such a service, how much would you max pay?

text-redacted · 2023-07-28T20:35:49+00:00

I may just be totally out of the loop, but why is twitter an X now?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-28T20:28:28+00:00

What l don't understand most, is guys not understanding their own value

Specifically high-value men like Stephen curry

And your wife still god forbid this woman is crazy, she has the utter nerve to show herself on Instagram and even ask for a open relationship

Seriously steph your the greatest shooter and future hall of fame, your value goes beyond billions and billions of average/normal guys

Your wife can't replace you with a better man no she can't, she can't go to the dating World and demand another great shooter like yourself

But you can replace her with another hotter woman at any time you want, because your value is much more than her's in the dating World

I just don't get it generally steph not knowing his value as an elite/top HV man

God bless your marriage but nah that woman better know her place when being with the greatest all-time greats

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-28T20:22:00+00:00

Q4W: if you knew your partner had a Reddit account and he refused to let you look at it, would you consider that a red flag?

The shit I’ve posted on here is too much, I will take this shit to the grave…

scwizard · 2023-07-28T20:11:25+00:00

https://www.aei.org/articles/a-moral-double-standard-on-marital-infidelity/

Wtf. How do so many people think cheating is ok?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-28T19:58:28+00:00

started using gpt4 today to learn some stuff about a subject of interest. this is some groundbreaking shit i tell you. I can feed it questions I can't find an answer for on google for and still get decent answers

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-28T19:53:10+00:00

32m, give me all your honesty : truerateme (reddit.com)

dude, people are rating frankenstein's monster the same as some insta models on there.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-07-28T19:52:17+00:00

Check out all the women here confirming you need to be an asshole to get laid casually

I always say this sub attracts mostly niche men and women, for normal takes the popular subs are much closer to reality

dyngladfel · 2023-07-28T19:39:38+00:00

Why is there an assumption that irt the 80/20 rule that all women have the same 20%? Personally I prefer pretty boys, and have friends with whom I have little overlap of interest.

AlmostKindaGreat · 2023-07-28T19:37:27+00:00

Am I the only one who follows Rule 12? Pretty obvious that the downvote button is constantly used as the disagree button.

I doubt there is a way to enforce this but it kinda sucks that we can't have even the minimum of respect for each other.

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-28T19:29:55+00:00

I personally don’t know any GirlBosses. I know smart women with good paying jobs and I know smart women with bare minimum “e-mail jobs”.

I know zero women who are constantly and obnoxiously hustling in the way males are always screeching about.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-28T19:23:05+00:00

EVIDENCE that HEIGHT is not the #1 factor in a woman's attraction:

The Bachelorette contestant with the most new followers is the SHORTEST guy.

Hes 5'11. The other guys are all taller, including one who is 6'7. SIX FUCKING SEVEN.

Why does he have the most followers? Because he's the only WHITE guy.

The other 3 guys are all BLACK. Which makes them less desirable to the mostly white, often conservative audience. Even though the black guys are either more educated, taller, or masculine - nothing compares with WHITENESS.

I'm disgusted but not surprised. I feel for my non-white men.

https://www.reddit.com/r/thebachelor/comments/15b38tc/joey_graziadei_speaks_up_about_glaring_pattern_of/

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-28T19:16:27+00:00

Guys on here are always talking about guys in the top 20, 10, or 5% depending on how they are feeling. They make a lot of comments about Chad not committing. However, for a guy to be considered a Chad, most guys won't define him as anything less than top 1% if not even more rare. I don't think even 1 out of 100 random guys would actually be considered a Chad since Chads are all male models apparently.

So like, what gives. There appears to be no consistency. Is Chad any top 10% guy or is he ridiculously overpowered?

UninterestingFork · 2023-07-28T19:14:11+00:00

I have a speech impediment

and today I'm starting theater classes for people like me

I'm fucking scared

I can speak normally 90% of the time but the remaining 10% is me making a weird face unable to produce any sound, like Tourette's

most people with speech impediments repeat syllables or words

what if I don't fit in?

stress is killing me

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-07-28T19:13:39+00:00

Q4W: Do women have their own version of the whole "girls only want bad boys" bit that some men are hung up on? How would you describe it?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-28T18:49:49+00:00

Q4A: Who is the better man? Damon or Stefan? Why?

potoricco · 2023-07-28T18:34:49+00:00

Just saw dead baby bird getting eaten by flies day ruined

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T18:28:51+00:00

Here's a good question I have :

Why don't I hate women?

I have all the correlative attributes of the incel community who have these insane revenge fantasies about women hitting the wall and then them going "Ha! Stupid sl*t as if I and my perfectly quaffed neckbeard would ever date you!" They're completely off the wall.

But I'm trying to figure out why I don't believe this stuff. I'm uglier than your average incel (funnily enough most self proclaimed incels look just fine). Just like your average incel I'm autistic. And like your average incel I basically don't interact with women at all.

And yet for some reason they have managed to fall down this insane batshit rabbit hole that I have somehow managed to avoid. It's kind of surprising and confusing to me. What is the primary attribute that separates my brand of insanity from theirs? I don't know.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-28T18:23:19+00:00

The most red pilling thing ever is walking down the street with a straight female friend and comparing the number of people you find attractive to the woman. Woman find barely any guys attractive just based off looks, I will find like 15-20x people more attractive when I do it, it’s fucking nuts and kinda sad

purplish_possum · 2023-07-28T18:20:33+00:00

My 1st ex-wife is going to be in town next month and she's made plans to go for dinner with my current GF.

Should I be worried?

scwizard · 2023-07-28T18:14:46+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15b9xht/my_friend_and_i_were_beaten_by_our_host/

I have a (female) friend who likes to travel and she always tells me I'm wasting my money by staying at hotels instead of airbnbs.

How are women reading stories like this and still like "yeah hotel is a waste of money."

AlmostKindaGreat · 2023-07-28T18:02:48+00:00

🚨 Super important question 🚨

Which do you type?

"an LTR"
"a LTR"

The difference is whether you say the letters or the words in your head when you read this. I tend to type the first one since the abbreviation "LTR" has become something of a word in itself and I think people imagine the letters in their heads, but I'm not sure.

baiser_vole · 2023-07-28T18:01:29+00:00

Q4A: What % of my views on dating do you think is RP vs. BP? Curious.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-28T17:57:50+00:00

This is an interesting topic l've been on for days with the whole attraction is subjective but

When it comes to women it can be that way, because to them it's mostly just vibes,feelings/emotions

And other times hormones, which greatly influences their attraction for many types of guys

This days she wants feminine traits in her man and other days masculine traits

So l don't attraction is subjective from the Male perspective since majority of our attraction is based of just looks but for women sometimes it seems like it

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-28T17:55:36+00:00

I do find it funny that in an attempt for someone to talk shit about me, they implied that red pilled men made my childhood terrible and the “reason I hate men”.

So in an attempt to insult me, ends up insulting the entire Red pill community as awful men that make women hate the entire male gender.

And you guys think that’s a win? 😂 Then you have the audacity to whine that society is against you?!

iliyb · 2023-07-28T17:37:16+00:00

Someone posted this man on here saying he was average. Thoughts?

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potoricco · 2023-07-28T17:36:31+00:00

Honestly I feel like having only one child isn’t a good idea

Everyone who has kids should have at minimum 2 if possible so their children can have companions and so their grand kids can have aunts and uncles

My dad is an only child, luckily my mom over compensated by having 11 other bio siblings

DerayRevan · 2023-07-28T17:20:25+00:00

I need to do rotation dating for my friend at work

1 guy and 10 women

The one he connects most or has a great time with, he can take out for a date on the weekend

Luckily l've seen quite a few attractive women around work and many averages

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-28T17:19:29+00:00

https://youtu.be/JiCVtF9YmaI

😳😱🤯😵🫨🤕🙌🏾

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-28T17:12:38+00:00

Basically the consensus I get from the internet is that it’s wrong to record someone’s death or dying moments and post it on the internet UNLESS they are victim of police brutality

Like if I get shot by some dude named Bob Jones outside of a bar it’s disrespectful to my family apparently to record that and put it online.

iliyb · 2023-07-28T17:12:18+00:00

Q4men: is Margot Robbie mid?

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AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-28T17:07:01+00:00

The last couple of days it's been all about Barbie up in this joint. Today we are dissecting Harry Potter. What's on for tomorrow, the Minions?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-28T16:55:04+00:00

It's funny on those /r/amiugly posts where the person is actually ugly, people don't answer the question and just give tips on how to improve

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-28T16:52:37+00:00

I think its time for me to be like Chris pual and kyrie and get on this plant based diet. Shit is a cheat code for staying lean and functioning at a optimal level

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-07-28T16:43:07+00:00

I got a promotion 👨‍💼💯

baresquad · 2023-07-28T16:26:58+00:00

Q4a: what exactly is a good man? In the context of telling women to pick better men and/or give good guys a chance.

I’m aware that I’m not one but I observe the world around me and fail to see and understand what the concept of a good man is actually supposed to be when used in modern dating.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-28T16:25:23+00:00

Women initiate divorce more, sure.

But how many men actually break their vows first by "checking out" of the relationship - cheating or neglecting? How many men break up with their wives, date another woman and say "don't worry, babe, we're separated, just gotta sign the divorce papers?" How many men only bother to sign the papers when their new girlfriend wants to get married?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T16:12:07+00:00

>Posted picture asking "Would you accept a first date with me"

>8 no, 1 yes, 2 "so much no that you need to break your jaw and fix it"

So what now

That's me absolutely looks maxed. And out of 10 people only 1 of them would accept just a FIRST date. Just "Does this person clear the absolute minimum acceptable bar". Not even like a relationship or like something like that.

I can't get jaw surgery, I've ruled that out. I think it's insane. Should I just start seeing escorts? People here have said that I should passport bro in the past.

I'm just tired. I don't want to 💀 myself. But after all that hard work I see genuinely no purpose in continuing to do...anything at all considering that this is the end result, the absolute pinnacle of what I can achieve of a human being is these results. I don't know at this point.

Maractop · 2023-07-28T16:00:54+00:00

Am I really supposed to believe that girls would rather pick an attractive guy their age over an attractive guy whos older and more established if they have the option? Ive been seeing it since high school and now in college. I know its not every girl but it still happens. And its a concious choice made.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-28T15:58:02+00:00

Is the height on Tinder with or without shoes?

Might as well do with shoes to get that 180 cm mark.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-28T15:51:00+00:00

I know its illogical and cruel, but I can't help but feel bone deep disgust at some men's anxiety regarding paternal uncertainty.

I know why the anxiety exists, but I suppose I suffer from an apex fallacy, in the sense that the men I know with children (including my own father) either never felt that anxiety or had the good sense to never indulge in it.

Mostly, I think its the anxiety aspect I find so distasteful. But thats across the board, for anyone dealing with any sort of anxiety. I'm very unforgiving about that sort of weakness.

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-28T05:03:15+00:00

Thirst

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-28T05:09:02+00:00

I want to know what you guys opinion on this song is:

https://youtu.be/9RJYJaDBNG8

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-28T05:33:01+00:00

Goddam I had such a good night with my crush I'm actually no longer black or red pilled I'm blue pilled as fuck now

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-28T05:35:15+00:00

LaurenTsaisCatEye · 2023-07-28T05:36:49+00:00

Things have gotten weird with the situationship. He keeps phrasing things like, “if you keep doing this I’ll fall in love with you” or “I’m gonna love you forever if xyz happens” and I can’t tell if it’s a joke? True, I haven’t seen anyone else for …. 2-3 years?? But it wasn’t out of devotion for him and even after all this time I get all weirded out at the thought of making anything official. Dude, I might have to call it off.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-28T05:39:01+00:00

I play this puzzle game that’s a word search. It resets every night at 10:00 pm PST. The first word I found tonight was “penis” so naturally I thought of all of you.

scwizard · 2023-07-28T05:50:29+00:00

The audacity of this guy to do this when he married a highschool girl in his 40s...

https://twitter.com/RepJohnRose/status/1684293515038138370

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T05:54:33+00:00

So here it is.

How many months ago did I first start posting on this subreddit?

I was given the following advice

New clothes
Lose weight
Good pictures
Good hairut

And if I just did all of those things I was assured, I remember even arguing with /u/GridReXX about it when I first started that I would look like a human being.

Well here is the result of however many months of work it's been. From 230->172.

My BF% is currently at 19%, my testosterone levels are at 1200ng/ml, my bench is 245, my deadlift is 385. This is it. The pinacle of what can be achieved

https://imgur.com/a/kMTFZxo

So

My advice to all of you who are like me: Stop. Give up improving your appearance. You will NEVER look close to even a human being, much less someone who is attractive enough to date. That doesn't mean you can't date, but it means you can only date people who are blind or demisexual or even asexual.

Look at these pictures and tell me "Yeah, it was worth all that work to look like THAT". Say it to my face, which I'm now posting.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T05:59:23+00:00

I feel lied to. But the worst part is that the people who lied will never admit they lied. Everyone knew that it wouldn't be okay by the end but like other commentators have pointed out people do "white lies".

But you know who didn't lie to me?

The fucking guys. It was only the women who gaslit me into thinking that if I did all this shit that I could look normal. Every dude was like "yeah bro you're fucked". But the women? Nahh bro it was comment after comment about how to "muh self improve".

Q4Women: Why do all you know how to do is eat hot chip and lie?

Q4Men: Why are women so fucking nice that they actually circle around back to kind of being assholes by lying so hard. It's annoying.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T05:59:57+00:00

Ya'll can go fuck off.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T06:12:42+00:00

I am unfathomably fucking furious at how blatant people are about lying. I'm going to go next door and swing the hammer.

scwizard · 2023-07-28T06:18:46+00:00

Before the whole Christianity thing, I legit believed that Chad was fundamentally a good person just a bit rough around the edges, and that I was a deeply distributed twisted individual that needed a significant amount of therapy if I was ever to have a chance of my existence not being a blight on this earth, and that I acted nice as part of a devilish ploy to cover that up.

I'm better now thankfully...

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-28T06:45:28+00:00

Do you believe that men have inadvertently made themselves obselete? At least to women? According to some historians, for the vast majority of human history, a man's roles were protector and provider. Thanks to feminist efforts, automation and a plethora of other factors, women are now perfectly capable of providing for themselves while the threat of violence is no longer a real issue in many developed parts of the world. Since these 2 risks are no longer present, isn't there some truth to the misandrist claim, "I don't need no man?"

magivictus · 2023-07-28T06:47:08+00:00

Was in a discord server and some girl was talking about how she always intentionally fakes her orgasms during sex.

I then call her out on the stupid behavior. This is followed by the discord mods on that server threatening to kick me. 😂

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-28T06:57:25+00:00

Good luck with your dating mating strategies peeps. I’m off to the hospital to see wtf is wrong with me. Peace out ✌️

NiceKirby · 2023-07-28T07:18:37+00:00

I saw a stat that said the average age for people getting their first GF/BF was 12 - 14. Seeing that was so mentally shattering. I can't even begin to comprehend how much I missed out on. It has not been a good week.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-28T07:20:05+00:00

If you don't train a form of MMA or boxing then you don't know how to fight.

If you know anything about fighting you'd train it.

keebydee · 2023-07-28T07:21:03+00:00

I saw a stat that said the average age for people getting their first GF/BF was 12 - 14. Seeing that was so mentally shattering. I can't even begin to comprehend how much I missed out on. It has not been a good week.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-28T07:26:11+00:00

How do yall feel about elliott smith? I feel like hes the perfect dead musician

dbz__f · 2023-07-28T07:51:27+00:00

Q4men

Would you rather do the first 99% or the last 1% of a blow job?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T08:00:01+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/kMTFZxo

See I told you these mother fuckers didn't show up

Come on, show yourselves everyone who goes

"muh self improve" tell me what you do past 19% body fat come on, come out of your fucking bushes and tell me that I need to do more than what I've done to look like a normal person

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-28T08:21:29+00:00

I think the fight scene at the end of The Revenge of The Sith was perfect. The "I HATE YOU" part is extremely relatable imo. I know ppl hate the prequels but I think ROTS is perfect! 👌

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-28T08:23:07+00:00

ppd female humanoids, what do u think of men with weak lower faces that grow big beards to hide it?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-28T09:18:57+00:00

I watched the Barbie movie (pirated, I'm not paying for that shit), it wasn't bad by any means necessary, but the amount of women out there saying how revolutionary it is and how it healed their childhood are being very dramatic, it was a funny film, that's about the extent of it, it wasn't groundbreaking, it wasn't some deep film, it was just okay.

Plus the women who are using it as a litmus test to filter out whether a man is boyfriend material or not are only filtering themselves out so men don't end up with a woman that will judge them for not liking a movie.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-28T09:26:50+00:00

Tip for men who are on dating apps: if a girl doesn't have much relationship experience and says she "doesn't have a type", don't waste your time and simply unmatch.

If she doesn't know her own type, there's a high chance you won't be it either.

That__EST · 2023-07-28T09:55:36+00:00

For anyone who cares about this Ariana Grande/Ethan Slater/Lilly Jay drama, this is what it looks like from the outside when you "wouldn't cheat, [you] would leave!"

jobbo321 · 2023-07-28T10:36:21+00:00

6 out of 10 young men are single

50.52% of men between 18-20 are virgins

But remember, it's all in your head. Just touch grass bro. I constantly see beta-bucked guys with girlfriends!

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-28T10:55:19+00:00

TIL the man who played the most manliest man to ever man in Hollywood is actually gay - Luke Evans playing Gaston from Beauty and the Beast.

Ironic but kind of perfect that a gay man would be playing the biggest caricature of hypermasculinity.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-07-28T11:02:19+00:00

I think this entire sub gets history wrong. Or half wrong. Youtube channel that tries to recreate life pre electricity. It took half a day to boil a potato. Making a pie was nearly impossible. Laundry literally took all day. You needed another person taking care of domestic tasks or you could not eat. Food preparation simply took too long. Then one day, we figured out electricity and put it in every household. Women don’t need men, but first, men stopped needing women. That dynamic seems less interesting and is less discussed here. But it has to have had devastating effect and male female relationships. Keep in mind, this change is fairly recent in human history, but older than things like the pill or work place changes. I think the gas stove and electric powered washing machine (connected to indoor plumbing) have done more to change dating than contraception and the internet.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-07-28T11:50:09+00:00

So despite the entire month of feeling stressed and depressed, I've managed to find some time to play the latest Zelda game to the point I almost threw my switch lite across the room. Its kinda amazing how there are people who can master this game and post online within, say 48 hrs of the release on how to get past certain points. And I feel kinda bad that I have to look online whenever I get stuck at a certain point, because I'm sitting here like theres no fucking way I could've figured this out. I know I'm not the kind of person who plays video games all day and night, but I feel that I've gotten lazy when it comes to gaming lately to the point I can't even figure out certain points.

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-28T11:52:42+00:00

I just realized if you want to ask women online whether you're good looking, don't ask that, but ask "Would you date me?". You might get more honest answers.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-28T12:18:09+00:00

My older sister was a huge backstreet boys fan when she was younger. She had the CDs, the shirts, my aunt bought her tickets to one of their concerts for one of her birthdays when they came to Florida, the whole 9. The A couple years ago she told me she went back to listen to their music and said she hated it. She listened to the first 3 albums and said there was maybe 10 songs she liked total, she was confused what she saw in this music before.

I was like I can explain it easily. In 1999 you were a 15 year old girl who thought those guys were super cute lol. Just like all the other girls in your class, that’s the primary reason you obsessed over them, the music was kinda secondary. Now as a grown ass woman just listening to their songs for music sake it sounds terrible. That’s ok, there’s plenty of stuff I like in 1999 that I look back at now and cringe 😝

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-28T12:27:35+00:00

Renewing vows is another thing I see all the time on sitcoms but never IRL.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T12:40:02+00:00

We'll do what /u/TigerRude4 said

Q4Women: Would you go out on a FIRST DATE with me, assuming you were single.

Alternative way to phrase this question: “do I pass your looks bar?” as baiser_vole said.

Now we can get the real answers.

Slipthe · 2023-07-28T12:51:32+00:00

Lol The Barbie movie is a red pill man's nightmare.

lolmastr13 · 2023-07-28T12:57:05+00:00

I feel like nearly every attractive women has a large social circle because looks can carry women in that regard.

UninterestingFork · 2023-07-28T13:32:29+00:00

How to post on ppd

1) change the definition of words

2) accuse the other gender that they do such made up thing

3) get angry and post about it

4) get more angry and jerk off at the people correcting you

profit (?

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-28T13:34:38+00:00

I just realized if you want to ask women online whether you're good looking, don't ask that, but ask "Would you date me?". You might get more honest answers.

Adding to this comment, it's the same when women say Lizzo is attractive, but then don't like it when you tell them that they look just like her. Women will very often say politically correct stuff rather than being honest.

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-28T13:35:50+00:00

u/Mrs_Drgree, we desperately need a ppd dating app you can cut sexual tension in daily with a knife.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T13:41:22+00:00

You should smile

I am smiling

Well then you should break your jaw in multiple places

hmmmmm

thunkful

VTHokie2020 · 2023-07-28T14:01:57+00:00

I think fraternities are the closest thing to a sexual union that men experience. I want to write a post about it but it would be fiercely autistic.

The idea is that men have less value in a dating setting and there's a prisoner's dilema going on, i.e.

"Oh he won't pay for the date? I will! I'm 6'3" btw"

A race to the bottom. But if men unionized and collectively raised their standards, just like labor unions do, this wouldn't happen.

Frats are sort of like that in the sense they give bids to guys who behave a certain way and don't ruin it for the rest of them. You even pay dues, just like labor unions.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-28T14:06:04+00:00

Would you give it up for Jesus if he looked like this ?

https://www.gpb.org/sites/default/files/styles/flexheight/public/blogs/images/2014/08/09/sonofgodfinal.jpg?itok=K-sUqaZ4

eye_fuck · 2023-07-28T14:09:46+00:00

Are there people who gave up on falling in love or feel like they can't love or be head over heels for someone ever again? What made you this way?

potoricco · 2023-07-28T14:16:43+00:00

IM BACK AHHH I MISSED EVERYONE SO MUCH

potoricco · 2023-07-28T14:17:15+00:00

I finally got the barbie movie doll I was talking about

potoricco · 2023-07-28T14:18:44+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/k7atyrgrspeb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3b9d4faeb14206024e1a0659e91f95f58e9d9078

My parents in a nutshell

potoricco · 2023-07-28T14:21:36+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/t659yj45tpeb1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5b0bbbd2b0181c4d5e1af0aec6fb53d7ac39b798

“Men aren’t hyper gamous”

Omg stfu

This guy literally blew up his family just so he could say he dated Ariana grande 🤣🤣🤣🤣 And you would do the same too for clout

old_new_age · 2023-07-28T14:42:30+00:00

Ideally, men would all band together and complain about their gender roles and issues the way women do in order to see societal and cultural progress:

"Men are NOT walking ATM's! We deserve to be treated like human beings!"

"Misandry KILLS. With men committing the vast majority of suicides worldwide, it's clear society's treatment of us needs to improve."

"Men deserve to be able to cry without scrutiny and without being viewed as unattractive, we should NOT be objectified as a stoic rock for women."

Unfortunately, this will never happen because all the men who do this would just...not get laid, while the guys who're like, "uh...bro...stop complaining and be a man, like...bro...lmao...women get murdered????" would take all the pussy for themselves, thus creating a horny prisoner's dilemma. Coincidentally, horny prisoner dilemmas are also a problem that mostly men face.

potoricco · 2023-07-28T14:48:57+00:00

Im in love with 2 guys named Killian😍😍😍

Kylian Mbappe Cillian Murphy

potoricco · 2023-07-28T14:53:40+00:00

“If you believe x about men, then surely it applies to your-”

Yes.

decoy88 · 2023-07-28T14:55:14+00:00

When did this place get so soft?

Maractop · 2023-07-28T14:55:32+00:00

What is wrong with this comment? Obviously there are more reasons than listed for feminism historically and currently but at the base isnt what he said true? And the extreme people are only tolerated on one side. The other gets push back from men and women

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-28T15:00:01+00:00

The fundamental motivation of the modern western left is just pure hedonism, that’s the core reason they’re so adamant about the free flow of sex and drugs.

SorryEm · 2023-07-28T15:05:54+00:00

https://illicitencounterspress.wordpress.com/2020/10/22/tall-men-are-more-likely-to-cheat/

https://www.indiatoday.in/lifestyle/relationship/story/cheating-tall-men-more-likely-illicit-encounters-202241-2014-07-30

https://nypost.com/2017/08/29/tall-men-are-most-likely-to-cheat-research-says/

Tall men are more likely to cheat. Now if you prefer tall men, that's fine, it's what you were programmed to like, but morally disparage short men.

I don't want a wife who has an ugly face, but I'm not going to go out and disparage ugly women.

text-redacted · 2023-07-28T15:17:08+00:00

nothing wrong with finding older men attractive, js

eye_fuck · 2023-07-28T15:23:42+00:00

Miss drinking booze with my girls

Alcoholism doesn't hit the same when you do it alone

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-28T15:40:04+00:00

A date just confirmed for this weekend. And he confirmed he was paying, completely unprompted. I know there's constant talk here about who pays. I've always had men pay and say they are going to pay. Maybe it's men younger, 18-23 who are upset about paying. Which makes sense given economic breakdown over ages.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-28T20:06:13+00:00

If a woman values attention more from her friends

Then it's clear, you ain't gonna get any romantic or sexual from her

This is why nice do horrible, because she can literally get that niceness from her friends

potoricco · 2023-07-28T20:30:15+00:00

Me and who

DerayRevan · 2023-07-28T21:40:50+00:00

"The principles of the manosphere are based on just a world-fallacy"

Yea l agree

Those Blackpillers and tradcons are the worst

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-28T21:43:16+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/rvdex5u20seb1.jpeg?width=2048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=66b761a776daa91f198ae4870f3de125ae42594d

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-28T21:49:10+00:00

I suggest to everyone interested in debates to join local debate clubs.

You get to socialize, you get to debate with people which are actually interested in intellectual debates... not internet people which just want to vent anonymously fling shit at you.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-28T21:56:21+00:00

There's an incredibly reliable way to ruin your life : Marry a very pretty woman.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-28T22:07:55+00:00

"Is there such thing as a perfect woman"

Nope that shit doesn't exist for us men

The idea there's woman out there who naturally fit our perfect requirements is absurd

As a man, it's your job to build to build/mold your woman into the ideal partner you want her to be

Women especially attractive one's can believe in such bullshit because they automatically have the options

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-28T22:08:57+00:00

I heard on a redpill channel that men have anxiety about committing to a woman who used to be overweight but is now skinny, because she might gain the weight back. I never heard of this before so I'm curious what you think

Q4M: if a girl you really like reveals she used to be very overweight before, what do you think about? Are you worried if you go long term with her that she will gain some of the weight back? Or is it unimportant to you because she looks good now?

Personally if a guy I liked revealed he used to be overweight it wouldn't make a difference to me. So I was surprised this was something people consider. There is some logic to it since most people who lose weight gain at least some of it back.

saraimarsena · 2023-07-28T22:09:20+00:00

going to get my nails and toes done, bf paying for my toes 🫶🏾

potoricco · 2023-07-28T22:13:19+00:00

One thing u can’t fucking stand about netflix is the misleading maturity ratings

Like it will say: “warning- language and smoking” and I will assume there is no sexual content and I can play it on the living room tv. And BOOM! The first scene features 2 scantily clad people kissing. This actually happened to me yesterday and my grandma saw and told me to remove it. It was so embarrassing.

It happened again on another occasion, no sexual content warning but a straight up sex scene, just that there was no nudity so it didn’t get added?

I just don’t understand why they can’t just be fucking honest!! Like why!!????

potoricco · 2023-07-28T22:22:13+00:00

I think I am getting to the phase where my parents start thinking about my future

My mom randomly asked me what ethnicity of guy I would prefer to marry

See my mom is super chill about that stuff and she says it doesn’t matter as long as they’re a good person but my dad is like “you will marry x”

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-28T22:28:26+00:00

Is it me, or is the trend of certain men making up whatever obnoxious shit they want to hear based on women’s most innocuous statements getting worse around here?

potoricco · 2023-07-28T22:30:29+00:00

One of the best things (I can acknowledge) about being a woman is that someone out there will always love you and want to include you.

Like my brother’s summer camp tutor invited me to her daughter’s birthday party, her daughter is the same age as me. If I was a boy she wouldn’t have done that.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-28T22:50:36+00:00

When men ask women how many men do they find attractive -

Are they talking about ALL men (like 20s-90s)?

Are we talking men holding hands with another woman?

Who are we talking about???

And men, who are you looking at? Are you doing a fuck/not fuck glance at every woman (20s-90s)? Are you doing it to women holding a man's hand?

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-28T22:58:26+00:00

The whole “women see men as NPC’s” thing is true. And it’s female nature for pretty much every woman who isn’t a nymphomanic. Getting mad at the way women are is a fruitless endeavor.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-28T23:12:05+00:00

My entire mental well being rests on the incoming college year. Please, god, help me out this once and make it work.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-28T23:24:28+00:00

I'm conflicted about whether the loose clothing trend is a good or bad thing.

On one hand, loose clothing helps hide fattie women's hideous bodies. But on the other hand, it makes it harder to tell if a chubby woman is a fattie because a lot of her body is hidden, so men can't quickly mentally label her as a fattie compared to if she was wearing tight fitting clothing that reveals her true fattie form 🤔

potoricco · 2023-07-28T23:37:11+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/aojsajyakseb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f1cc6697da8a19a491f689b14a494592adfd90b2

Part 38463727 of why I love being female

My aunt gave me this bundle of fabric, my mom is going to give it to a tailor to make me a dress 😊😊😊

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-28T23:40:08+00:00

TIL QuestLove is autistic

potoricco · 2023-07-28T23:46:30+00:00

Q4all: When is it okay to make a conversation to yourself

I have pseudo autism and TO ME when people tell me something I try to contribute by sharing my own experience Or something else similar that happens to me. But obviously there is a line between relating to someone and just being self centered. Which I am SUPER conscious about like what else am I supposed to say? I hate coming off as egotistical

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-28T23:46:32+00:00

I’ve seen a lot of “traveling is overrated bro” posts/ threads on Reddit. Especially in r/unpopularopinions

potoricco · 2023-07-28T23:49:03+00:00

As soon as I see your birth year begins with 198_

Opinion discarded

Like I love all ages but people born within this 10 year period are so unbearably annoying

lolmastr13 · 2023-07-28T23:49:46+00:00

It’s gaslighting that women are more physically attractive than men.

For one yeah no duh women would put more effort in their appearance since men care more about appearance than women do.

The second thing is that men are more physically active than women and of those active they tend to do resistance training, which has a bigger effect on aesthetics than women’s main forms of physical activities.

However there is an argument that most men should be putting more effort into their looks especially as the wealth gap between men and women diminishes .

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-07-29T00:11:31+00:00

Haven't seen the Barbie movie but the complaints were entertaining. I personally don't get why people enjoy Yellowstone, so I haven't watched it, but I haven't' written any 30-page essays about why it sucks (whether it does or not doesn't matter to me).

Barneysparky · 2023-07-29T00:21:43+00:00

I definitely had an awakening. Some people get it after taking mushrooms.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-29T00:32:45+00:00

I think gay men might be the secret to better understanding women.

Think about it: Many gay men have a type of relationship with women that straight men may never have. They can get super close without seeming dangerous. They can understand them better because they're all attracted to men. Gay men are usually more feminine and socially oriented.

Maybe if you don't believe what women tell you, a gay man's opinion might hold a bit more weight.

(unfortunately gay men will never understand but they can probably empathize more.)

blebbyroo · 2023-07-29T00:35:20+00:00

What do you think makes a “bad boy” ?

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-07-29T00:59:46+00:00

https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1685012500625121281

Ok boys here's your chance to both find a potential marriage mate, and/or shoot your shot with Aella.

potoricco · 2023-07-29T01:35:10+00:00

Did anyone else peep the obvious Life in the dreamhouse clones in this barbie movie?

Like even though raquelle and ryan werent in it, the asian ken was very obviously a clone of ryan, in that he was always trying to get barbies attention and beefing with ken. the president was obviously just Nikki. Theres even barbies artificial intelligence closet.

I am like, a hugeee fan of barbie if you cant tell

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-29T01:36:17+00:00

Let's have some fun.

Q4W: If you were a man, how would you approach women at a bar or club?

Let's help women develop some empathy.

This is your experience: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14zk9qz/daily_community_chat_megathread/js0dls4/

What next?

There is not a single woman who is not socially engaged with someone
Women there have been hit on by multiple men already and want to look like a baddie who is unattainable in front of their friends

Maractop · 2023-07-29T01:37:10+00:00

Most girls would have no issue dating a guy 8 to 10 yrs older than them but one thats 2 to 3 years younger is off limits. Make it make sense.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-07-29T02:07:23+00:00

I’d like to issue a formal apology to everyone that I’ve been a dick to on this forum. I’m making a conscious decision to be less of an asshole to online strangers. I’ll still argue with you and tell you you’re wrong (you probably are), but I’m going to try to be more polite about it.

I deleted my last account because I realized I was just using my time here to be a dick to compensate for not being able to speak my mind in my day to day life, and I want to avoid being such a negative person in the future.

Thank you for reading my diary entry.

Maractop · 2023-07-29T02:10:58+00:00

There are femisists that actually hate all men. All I mentioned was empathy. Most of them probably think the same too

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-29T02:46:41+00:00

The entire game is just twisting and contorting yourself to fit the needs of others. That's it. How much of yourself are you willing to sacrifice for the woman of your dreams? How much blood will go down the drain to please the ever devouring mouth?

potoricco · 2023-07-29T02:56:58+00:00

No because when I’m say 19 if I still don’t have a boyfriend I’m just gonna do this

HolidayWhile · 2023-07-29T03:04:08+00:00

Q4W: I have zero sense of fashion or aesthetics. I'm going to a formal event soon, all the men will be wearing suits and ties. What should I change up about mine to stand out and look "cool' in the eyes of women?

potoricco · 2023-07-29T03:05:42+00:00

How can i apologize to my dad over something mean i did over 6+ months ago? he doesn’t seem to even remember but it’s making me sad everyday and eating at me inside

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-29T03:16:26+00:00

The sexuality of 80% of men ian fundamentally disgusting and creepy to women.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-29T03:27:40+00:00

You have fun with your friends but your friends aren't the type to be super loud and attention grabbing so you were just having fun with your friends and no women, except maybe a stray fattie, noticed or approached you guys. What next?

I have literally never had less sympathy for "romantically unsuccessful men" than this moment

My god. I can't reply to the original comment with this because I'm not sure it's civil but oh my god.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-29T03:30:26+00:00

How many of you guys live in a major city

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-29T03:35:42+00:00

A women should always bring up her n count on the first couple of dates.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-29T03:49:46+00:00

What incentive is there to be nice to women in todays world?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-29T03:56:45+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Oy_HiDFfVo

This is the best opening to any film ever made and if you disagree you're just objectively fucking wrong

SianOiseau · 2023-07-29T05:31:10+00:00

I've noticed that I can walk a bit more freely in dresses - I'm not that conscious over hips movement because a wide skirt hides some of it. It feels nice.

baiser_vole · 2023-07-29T06:00:54+00:00

Kinda amazed.

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