Daily Community Chat Megathread

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-03T04:15:48+00:00

I realized I became the ultimate lower middle class white woman this week. I worked 68 hours but still found time to make a cheeseburger casserole (extremely midwestern) for a work potluck and bring it in hot.

What other things do lower middle class white women do? Being obese is not an answer.

afk_row · 2023-11-03T02:35:54+00:00

u/FunEducation1434

this u? https://www.youtube.com/shorts/E2qwQReezAk

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-11-03T02:11:42+00:00

Are some people wired a certain way that they can't not cheat? Like an autistic person can't act normally no matter how hard they want to.

Are hot people more likely to cheat knowing that it'd be easy to find another person? I know uggos cheat too.

scwizard · 2023-11-03T02:10:21+00:00

anything that makes you stop and stand outside of your car for a few minutes to remove is potentially a sign that someone’s tryna nab you

Are all girls on alert for this kinda thing? Trying to stay two steps ahead of the kidnappers that are lurking everywhere? Or only some girls.

I can't wrap my head around being this anxious about getting kidnapped and then also feeling safe going down to 6th street and getting hammered.

scwizard · 2023-11-03T01:59:16+00:00

https://www.villagenews.com/story/2021/06/10/regional/girlsdoporn-producer-set-for-sentencing-in-sex-trafficking-scheme/66588.html

Oh this guy got sentenced to 20 years damn. I heard he got arrested but didn't hear it was such a long sentence.

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T01:49:39+00:00

Should i take the sat on december 2nd Answer quick because todays the deadline to register i dont know what the dates are for next year and i dont want to only have the opportunity to take it at school but the thing is that its like only 1 month away and i know Im not gonna study to my fullest potential so if i get a mid score it wikll look bad

Gladboys · 2023-11-03T01:34:28+00:00

most promiscuous girl I've ever known went to church found god got married has kids and turned her life around, happy endings are so rare but I'm glad it happened.

scwizard · 2023-11-03T01:26:02+00:00

I'm not as into sex as much as my bf. We found a compromise where we have sex once a month and we plan it out and make it special. Maybe something like that would work for you?

Would you want to stay in a relationship like this?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-03T01:14:49+00:00

“Just be tall bro. My friend looks like the elephant man but pulls because he’s 6’5 bro”

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T01:11:48+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SjspAe/

Fyp getting a little too personal

scwizard · 2023-11-03T01:09:26+00:00

Glad you are safe! I had this happen to me as well. I was in the grocery store and noticed a Hispanic male was always in the same aisle as me. When I went out to my car, I noticed a paper by my car tire which usually means you've been marked for trafficking. I ran to my car and locked the doors and sped out of there.

Anyone here ever been marked for trafficking?

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T00:55:11+00:00

I need my back handspring like right now but my mom wont spot me and im not paying for lessons bc no job but if i get a job i wont have time to go to lessons cant get a trampoline or an air track bc its too cold outside my life is so hard like seriously though

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T00:53:47+00:00

Omg im scared to join the ppd discord like discord as an app is just so eerie and weird ill never go back. That place is the trenches

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T00:51:35+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SjUDQb/

I cant believe i forgot ALL about cillian my man

scwizard · 2023-11-03T00:49:06+00:00

Question for women. Do you have any friends from church?

Would they still be your friend if they knew your n count?

princedune · 2023-11-03T00:43:49+00:00

do women ever get intimidated by the idea of dating someone much more successful than them or is that a massive cópe?

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-03T00:37:35+00:00

5’7 is a weird height. People don’t call you short or make fun of you as much, but they still don’t respect you enough.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-03T00:33:58+00:00

I wouldn’t be opposed to dating an older woman if it weren’t for the age gap. I guess I just want a mature woman my age (20).

Big-Television-5670 · 2023-11-03T00:20:01+00:00

Why do kitchen scales have an option to measure in milliliters? For one you can’t measure ml by weight so it flat out doesn’t make sense, secondly they are just converting 1g to show 1ml so why add the option when you already have grams.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-03T00:02:10+00:00

Q4M: If dating was completely equal and fair where both men and women had sex with 30 people before they got married, would you marry a high n-count woman?

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T23:59:55+00:00

Women : what is the both the hottest and ugliest guy you have slept with ? And what is your own rating. Don't lie by underrating or overrating and try to be as objective as possible. Naturally the ugliest guy you have slept with should have at least been your own rating if you ain't lying.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-11-02T23:43:51+00:00

facial looks is not important for a man, only height. when placed next to each other in real life, a woman will always choose the taller ugly man over the shorter handsome man.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-11-02T23:40:32+00:00

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-02T23:29:50+00:00

The first thing anyone should know about me is I’m a shameless high n, slutty, skanky, whore-y slut slut

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T23:18:10+00:00

A WW3 would greatly benefit the (surviving) men as male supply would be reduced with barely changed female demand; taking away a lot of the advantages women have in the dating market.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-02T23:17:51+00:00

https://twitter.com/chud_posting/status/1719464080438665392?t=dC-rvoW2GYt7Ml_7RPO2wA&s=19

What do you think would happen to her male version?

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T23:16:42+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8S2ExA6/

Millenials destroy culture, lin manuel miranda needs to be stopped asap. Disney is falli ng off so hard

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T23:16:04+00:00

Its getting so cold

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-02T23:15:00+00:00

Sitting here drinking kefir

Call me a mother fucker, but I never let her

Talkin' Stacy, and Chad, but you're not even in her orbit

Found out her n-count, had to write your own obit-

-uary she's been with kevin, devin, marvin, and larry

Had you up late night googling limb lengthening surgery

Had you considering joining the clergy

Not everyone makes it in this life

It's over

Alpha fucks, beta bucks, bought a bride

Just to find out shes like the town bike

everyone's had a ride

Maybe they're right, and it never began

All bro knows is it's No Nut November, can't even use your hand

scwizard · 2023-11-02T22:46:25+00:00

This weirdo just pmed me like "did you know u/GrassToucher29 is a WHORE she once traded NUDES for MONEY and that's why she's INSECURE and puts down low n women."

Umm chill out yo.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-02T22:36:25+00:00

Reformed Bad Boy who is now a sweetie pie>>> guy who has always been reasonably sweet >>>>>>> Life long bad boy>>>>>> Guy who’s been a door mat all his life

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-02T22:32:07+00:00

I’m thinking about improving myself and trying to meet people again.

huhwhatokok · 2023-11-02T22:24:44+00:00

Having your wife slam the door in your face while you try to run away from gunshots and while your kid is still outside is wild lmao. This is what this guys wife did imagine if you tried to help a random woman in danger.

https://www.reddit.com/r/SomeOfYouMayDie/s/iVcdKR487l

ratboi34 · 2023-11-02T22:13:21+00:00

Have people in this sub started dating each other before? I mean it gives great insight into people's personalities.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-02T22:11:44+00:00

Even the mid girl that doesn't wear make-up on Tinder stopped responding

https://youtu.be/-Jm3Tq_q4yU?feature=shared

LowCreddit · 2023-11-02T22:05:08+00:00

CENTCOM just cancelled the Marine Corps Ball in order to raise readiness. WW3 is coming faster than I thought.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-02T21:54:31+00:00

The comments here aren't sort right. When I scroll down to the last comment and click 'more replies', the comments stop being sorted by new

supremethrone · 2023-11-02T21:42:09+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelExit/comments/17m28g2/i_feel_like_even_if_i_drop_the_black_pill_stuff/

good post. A lot of people who tell you to drop all this shit and touch grass don't actually offer you any alternatives or what will happen. It often sounds similar to "love comes when you least expect it" or "love finds you when you stop caring", and other such nonsense.

My favourite post:

They told me I'll never get laid, while I had boyfriends, and almost daily sex.

Woman bragging about getting sex lol

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-02T16:39:00+00:00

If you replace the words ‘girls’/’women’/’females’ with ‘Stacy’/’Stacies’ and ‘Women I want to fuck’, men’s complaints in PPD make a lot more sense.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-02T13:53:15+00:00

Just join a hobby group bro

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-02T16:36:35+00:00

Remember, if a woman's dating profile is nothing but pictures of her from a high angle and you see nothing beyond her massive cleavage, she's fat and trying to hide it.

I fell for the 'ol fatfishing routine twice, don't let yourself fall for it too (unless you into that then more power to you)

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-02T02:34:50+00:00

When guys on here say "fit" I imagine a toned athletic woman. Or is fit just "not fat"? I'm confused

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-02T14:54:29+00:00

PSA: a “pickme” is NOT simply “a woman whose personality is pleasing to men.”

A “pickme” is a woman who is pretending to like what men like, or pretending to like doing what men like, in order to get male attention. She thinks of herself as better than other women and often explicitly says so, because she pretends these things. She often inserts herself into men’s spaces where she’s not welcome and tries to be “one of the guys,” but the guys find her annoying. They found her annoying to begin with, that’s why she resorted to pickme behavior.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-02T15:31:31+00:00

The guys here seem to like 'pick me' women, because they tend to affirm their beliefs. Any guy that has been around women knows, that these type of chicks are unstable, very insecure and attention seeking. Just having signigicantly more male than female friends is a red flag most of the time and not even women trust them. The ideal wifey type is a feminist that lives like a conservative.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T04:12:02+00:00

Once again you guys have to try this sleeping hack

Say you wake up at 6 am like me. You need to set an alarm for like 4 am and then one at 6. You will sleep way more satisfied because the first time you wake up youll be like yesss i still have 2 more hours!! Try it

demedermidimi · 2023-11-02T13:47:00+00:00

watch what they do and then discard that and make up your own paranoid delusional reality

MalePsychopath · 2023-11-02T15:48:47+00:00

Akin to gender reveal parties, there should be paternity reveal parties after the child is born.

Women should get a paternity test and then invite their family, friends and the whole neighborhood to celebrate the fact they aren’t lying cheating whores. 🥳

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-02T02:05:03+00:00

For the people who say that women aren't romantic, take a look at this DIY

the comments are hilarious

SianOiseau · 2023-11-02T03:31:48+00:00

Ive noticed this among married friends, associates, and some family members. Most of them have terrible marriages. When i tell them have sex on e a week minimum, or go on dates 1-4 times a month minimum, i have been told im being unrealistic.

Is it unrealistic? Maybe with small kids, but without kids having sex at least on weekends and going out on a date at least once a month seems pretty doable. Although if we had a date only once a month I'd be pretty unhappy about it - it's too rare.

Gladboys · 2023-11-02T05:43:38+00:00

You don't know rock bottom till the youtube algorithim flames you https://i.imgur.com/zaaBsfw.png

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-02T09:34:48+00:00

There's no guy(not even chad) who is pumping and dumping women. You just have shit shit personality, no fun and bad at sex. That's why he dumped you. Get your shit together and improve yourself women.

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-11-02T15:03:33+00:00

Don't really understand the anger and confusion here. If you don't want to date shitty women don't date shitty women. I wanted to date good looking women who had their shit together so guess who I am happily married too. It's quite a simple process.

I'll never for the life of me understand why guys here are arguing about and with women they don't want to date? Can someone please explain this to me?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-02T16:29:34+00:00

Bro, got hit with the truth. Fat men are not desired by women, in fact fat men are treated far worse than fat women -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/17l8qx5/the_pain_of_rejection/

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-02T18:12:11+00:00

Been watching Maury Show compliations of “You are NOT the father”. Btw, plenty of the women are exactly like guys in PPD describe as AWALT and ‘the average woman’, which says a lot.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-02T02:26:11+00:00

Ladies, this is ur sign to be fit and feminine and let the blessings come to you. Use that education and/or job to position yourself in the right social circles. Reach as far & high as you can & attract those high value men!! DO NOT under ANY circumstances let dusties in or around your coochie!!!!

Many blessings 💅🏼🥰✨💖

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T02:48:37+00:00

I personally love my side profile

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T04:08:31+00:00

Of all names to refer to an attractive guy why did it have to be chad? I feel like it should definitely be Jude

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-02T05:38:47+00:00

If you went on a dinner date with the intent of paying the whole bill, how many oysters could your date eat before you change your mind?

dbz__f · 2023-11-02T07:53:59+00:00

Cuteness >>>>> sexiness and it’s not even close

GoldenHornyChicken · 2023-11-02T09:16:35+00:00

I initiate sex with my man like, every night ? Not an evening without cuddling him and starting to touch his body, leading to more most of the time. What was that question ?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-02T10:58:06+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/blackmagicfuckery/comments/17lwaqj/barber_transforms_his_customer_from_looking_77_to/

Is this what people mean when they say get a good haircut?

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-02T12:22:25+00:00

Direct game is underrated. I have Asperger's so this is literally all I can do effectively. I just say a greeting and pay her a compliment if the vibe is good and then escalate the flirting and jokes from there. It's very simple, you just need to have masculine frame and say things directly with genuine confidence and solid vocal intonation.

Took me years to learn this, unfortunately. In my teens and early twenties I was (wrongly) more focused on thinking of the perfect lines to say. Since then I've learned that the key to attracting females is how you say things. What you say doesn't matter nearly as much. Follow for more tips.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T12:31:55+00:00

Question for women :

Why do women complain about unwanted male attention and only be seen as an object but still do their very best to look as sexy as possible while going out in public ? I was looking at pictures of a local Halloween party and almost half of the women there had a revealing outfit which showed some skin instead of putting on a fully-clothed Halloween costume.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-02T14:10:38+00:00

Women: Not all girls are like that, you're just choosing to pursue the shitty ones

Also women: *defends women at all cost, calls them pick mes for being amicable to men, posts on r/notlikeothergirls if they say anything to critisize women in anyway*

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-02T16:47:51+00:00

Feminists and accountability -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17lbr0h/i_feel_like_telling_women_to_vet_men_is_setting/

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-02T19:05:42+00:00

Why would men complain about women they didn't want?

The audacity to say this while men in this subreddit blaming an entire gender for the ratchet thots and Stacies they’ve been chasing after.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T02:56:28+00:00

They look so cunt should i make this my profile

https://preview.redd.it/eufhb84fnuxb1.jpeg?width=920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d2063e10f9397f8b8a7b16a6c703fede8b7a71e

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-11-02T02:57:30+00:00

How was everyone’s Halloween? I got tied up working till almost 9 pm. Never even got to carve my pumpkin.🎃 Its life has been extended another month as it will now be a Thanksgiving decoration.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-02T05:00:58+00:00

how do people eat a lot bc when I eat more than usual I shit like a fucking dinosaur

meteorness123 · 2023-11-02T05:40:58+00:00

Famous football/soccer player Ibrahimovic's wife is 53 years old. He is 42. They met when he was 21 and she was 32. They have kids and they are still together.

So..following the logic people sometimes use here, what is your opinon on this union ? Was his wife preying on him ?

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-02T06:52:03+00:00

Meg is not an ugly character. She literally just looks like a younger, brunette version of Lois.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-02T10:10:03+00:00

why men love boobs so much?

!the world is hard and cold, they are soft and warm!<

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-11-02T11:55:03+00:00

For men at least, making real friends as an adult is really hard, the ones I've made only happened via prolonged contact at work, and now remote working is becoming more of a norm that's going to be going away.

I don't count pseudo-friends you only see at [social hobby] and maybe go to a bar with sometimes as real friends.

Women seem much quicker to form friendships, and maybe more likely to keep existing connections alive. They have a stronger networking impulse.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-02T11:58:09+00:00

that moment when you see a relatable post and then look at the caption and it says #autism #neurodivergent 🫣

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-02T12:06:21+00:00

Manosphere: Women are SO PICKY!

Then how are most men having sex and in relationship?

It never made sense to whine about how high women standards are when most men are able to fuck them.

Here’s what’s actually happening:

A bunch of below average guys think they’re average.
Guys are chasing Stacy and they don’t want to admit it.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-02T12:23:20+00:00

Gasp I JUST REALIZED ITS NO SHAVE NOVEMBER AND MY HUSBAND HASNT SHAVED! FUCK YEAH!!

I ❤️November

supremethrone · 2023-11-02T12:45:51+00:00

Decided to shave my beard to see if I've made any face gains after all this weight loss. Nope. Still a double chin and undefined jawline

saraimarsena · 2023-11-02T13:04:46+00:00

the uncanny valley effect is really interesting, at the party i was at there was a girl whose boyfriend just gave everyone the weirdest vibe. i couldn’t put a finger on it, he just seemed odd and unnatural. i wasn’t the only one who noticed, and someone wondered aloud “maybe he has autism?”

he was also maybe 5’6, and perhaps i’ve spent too much time on this sub because i felt really curious about their dynamic.

i kinda wish there was a way for neurodivergence to be more accepted in social settings. i remember being in elementary school being introduced to autistic kids in my class, but everything was handled with kid gloves (makes sense, we were like 6 years old). beyond elementary school i went through life thinking i never met anyone who was autistic but i probably have, i was just perhaps put off by them. and i feel kinda guilty for feeling that way.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T13:04:47+00:00

Once women hit like 45 you should dye your hair gray gray hair is really majestic. For men no

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-02T14:09:38+00:00

"No!! TRP isn't a philosophy or an ideology, it's just a framework!! You see..."

Proceeds to explain TRP exactly how you would if you were describing a philosophy or ideology

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T14:25:29+00:00

If women have a way lower sex drive why do they still allow themselves to be in risky and illegal behavior regarding sex ? (mostly talking about the uprise of female teachers fucking their students)

https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/teacher-faces-jail-sending-nudes-student-missouri/

iliyb · 2023-11-02T14:51:18+00:00

man finds out what escorts think about their clients and freaks out. absolute comedy gold

https://preview.redd.it/cui0e9307yxb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c731915092a977004dc302a44c4b264d70b85c39

DerayRevan · 2023-11-02T16:27:40+00:00

"Men shouldn't be going out just to meet women"

Right but the hoes need to be there regardless

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-02T18:00:16+00:00

Under 5’6? Got a receding chin? Just dress sharper and put on a nice cologne my man

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-02T19:06:44+00:00

Women make friends easier than men because women are more agreeable. Women don't always think for themselves, they just adopt the opinions of those around them.

Women like to shame men for being lonely. The reason men are lonely is because men aren't sheep.

Women are the ones who should be ashamed. Women are sheep.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-11-02T02:11:54+00:00

If there were support groups for men that helped them come to grips with the fact that they’ll have no real protect of getting married or having kids, how would that support group function? What would be the curriculum? How often would they meet? Would they have a Reddit sub?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-02T02:58:11+00:00

Holy shit, who remembers this piece of creative writing 🤣

https://www.reddit.com/r/self/s/kLzaJY7SMC

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-02T03:01:27+00:00

I'm sick of Reddit recommending for the third time

Recommended: social skills

If people DISLIKE you, there are TOP FIVE reasons

fuck you reddit

grillopie · 2023-11-02T03:22:47+00:00

to our residents in thailand, how would you rate the thai new year? its been the only thing on my bucket list for a while.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-02T05:01:33+00:00

Ughhhh - I had to have a molar extracted today. Implants to replace it are affordable here at least but I dread the process & they don’t give you nitrous oxide like the US.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-02T05:14:05+00:00

NNN already lost

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-02T05:18:17+00:00

Currently mortified because I accidentally pulled some of my boyfriend’s chest hair out during sex. It was only my second time ever and he put me on top. I was gripping his chest hair and afterwards he told me it hurt because I was holding on so hard. He thought it was funny but I died of embarrassment.

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-11-02T05:31:15+00:00

💀 Even AutoMod couldn't tell I'm a woman, hence the ever-so-slight amendment to my flair.

Spaciousone · 2023-11-02T06:22:57+00:00

Anyone got any nicknames

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-02T06:44:25+00:00

Disney has always been shit. Even before the woke stuff.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-02T09:28:40+00:00

Guy's standards are way higher than women's. You can find 666 guy with fun personality but you can't find kind, emphatic, intelligent and fun women easily. Improve yourself women.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-02T09:59:54+00:00

Lesbian relationships are wild man.

My GF has a friend who has gone through this saga recently:

Met girl whilst travelling in Thailand
Instantly "fell in love" within weeks
Moved in together in Thailand within 2 months (both took up teaching jobs there)
Got engaged 3 months in Went travelling again, had a fight, broke up and went there separate ways (literally, they were like "I'm going to this island, you go to this island)
Girl then finds next Love on the next island

Say what you want about heterosexual relationships but at least there's usually one person who is putting on the brakes...

What do Lesbians bring to their first date?

A U-Haul!

WilliamWyattD · 2023-11-02T11:58:26+00:00

Is it 'entitlement' for men to expect that if they are not really ugly, weird, and have their shit together they should TYPICALLY expect to spend the vast majority of their adult lives having regular sex with women of roughly equivalent SMV rank, either casually or in relationships or married?
And if not 'entitlement', is this still a reasonable expectation for society to foster given what we are learning about women?

DerayRevan · 2023-11-02T12:51:38+00:00

I find it extremely funny how this sub knows absolutely nothing about TRP yet simultaneously have so much confident ignorance to strawman/misinterpret it

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-02T13:20:05+00:00

If you’re happy being single, can you have whatever standards you want?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-02T13:28:58+00:00

A situationship most of the time is just a fancy word for Bootycall. There’s really nothing “complicated” about this on the other persons end at all lol

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-02T13:46:25+00:00

Wife came up to bed with me last night so I couldn't pump one out as is my nightly ritual. I wouldn't say I'm addicted to porn, but it definitely helps me sleep better at night. Like, I'm not just watching porn casually or when I should be doing other things. I have no interest in the personal lives of porn stars. What I'm saying is, I masturbate 1 - 3 times a day but I'm not a coomer or something. Even when I have sex, I still like to pop one out. Nobody can love you the way you love yourself.

Anyways, what I'm getting at here is I might hop on the No Nut November bandwagon. I only have two active vices. Overconsumption of food and masturbation. Perhaps I should refrain just to prove to myself I can. Maybe it will somehow help in other areas of my life. I was feeling depressed last night. I had spent the whole night deep cleaning the kitchen, and since I didn't want to dirty the dishes and countertop, we ordered Doordash. $60 fucking dollars. Can you believe that? Anyways, I felt disappointed in myself for spending that much money on one meal, for eating take out, and for failing myself and my partner because we are focusing on getting healthier so we can have children. We're both in our early 30s and it feels like the window is rapidly closing.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-02T15:10:54+00:00

Emotionally unstable adults rarely want to admit their “problems” are stupid and petty. This is true across all genders and orientation. Some people are unaware they act like mental toddlers and never was taught “some shit isn't that serious. Can you please just learn to shrug it off and be grateful for what you have?”.

Also, way too many guys tolerate awful women for the sake of pussy, so they think there’s a double standard not realizing they enforced it. While y’all comfort those women for the sake of getting some sucky sucky, I kick them out because they're not worth my time.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-11-02T15:31:08+00:00

https://www.tmz.com/2023/10/31/ex-nba-joe-smith-wife-kisha-chavis-does-not-think-onlyfans-scandal-divorce/

This probably been talked about already idk but pretty much this dude has been an nba player for 16 years, blew thru $61 million dollar career earnings and living paycheck to paycheck, so his wife turned to onlyfans to make money and didn't tell him, which he took as disrespect. She brought up the fact she was a pornstar before they met and kept saying that was the past, thing were supposed to change. I really don't understand why guys will marry women who were sex workers then get upset when they can't leave that life behind. This man can't even google his wife's name without finding pics of her taking random meat to the face, but her doing a solo OF is the hill he's dying on lol.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-11-02T15:37:24+00:00

On the advice to go to church to find a nice Christian woman. Larger thread's context is a 28 year old man with 0 dating or relationship experience asking for advice on the whole thing.

x-posting because it's tangentially related to this sub, but MORE importantly I don't want my effortpost to go to complete waste on the downvoted comment I replied to.

tl;dr, at best a your mileage may vary. Bad to do if you're not a Christian

hoisk · 2023-11-02T15:57:09+00:00

When tiny actions add up, and you wonder if your boyfriend has a character flaw that is not conducive for marriage:

When I’d come over to his house (after we were in a relationship), and leave, he wouldn’t watch to make sure I got to my car safely
Declined attending some friends’ events with me, even after I told him I’d really like him to join me
I was running around all day and needed a quick gift to bring to a friend’s get-together (which he declined to go to). I still made time to go see him beforehand. I said “I’ll be in a pinch for time before the party, could I borrow a bottle of wine from you and I’ll get you a new bottle sometime?” He said “well, I bought those for me and you to enjoy”. It was a cheap Aldi bottle of wine too - nothing special. It hurt me that he didn’t care to make this small sacrifice for the sake of making my life a little easier.
I want to travel to South America before we have kids because I wouldn’t be willing to drag kids around there. He says absolutely not (ANY country) because it’s unsafe, but he also doesn’t want me to travel alone.
We were at the dollar store getting stuff for his house and I felt kind of weird so we decided I should take a pregnancy test. Negative. He threw his dozen items down, but had me buy my pregnancy test separately as a new transaction. He wasn’t willing to be like “I got this” for a $1.25 item. This just bothers me - maybe I am too giving, but for any friend I would’ve been like “just toss it in with mine”.

Please tell me if I am being unreasonable. Maybe a list like this could be made about any overall good person, and I need to let these things go?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-02T16:12:29+00:00

In 2005 there was no social media; no online dating apps; less feminism and female empowerment movements

The fact that people believe this..... 😂

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T17:30:33+00:00

This place is still very bluepilled. I came from the incels .is to tell you guys the truth.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-02T17:51:40+00:00

Anime was a mistake - Hayao Miyazaki

scwizard · 2023-11-02T18:11:04+00:00

I’m turning 30 today, getting divorced, and having all sorts of weird feelings about it.

I did everything “right” in terms of what society wants for women. I went to college, started a career, met a man, bought a house, got married just before my 29th birthday…. And 6 days later my world fell apart. He had been keeping all sorts of secrets from me, had a mental health crisis, nearly killed himself, and cheated on me with another man.

This happened to a woman at my church too. Apparently some women struggle to identify closet cases. Which makes sense, since they get weird around men not around them.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T18:55:46+00:00

My dumbest girl math moment is that ill sometimes deliberately pay for things in cash and then it somehow registers in my brain that i didnt spend that much money because my bank account balance is the same

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-02T18:58:15+00:00

I was looking up how often legitimate prenups actually get thrown out, and found this site that basically said “prenups are only thrown out if they render one spouse so impoverished as to be dependent on the state.”

So that’s good news.

scwizard · 2023-11-02T19:00:49+00:00

You have no idea how many 30yo women are stuck right now in loveless marriages with children with no way to go. We are blessed we were able to avoid that scenario from happening.

Our time with healthy romantic relationships will come. It’s just not today, but it will come. ❤️

I don't know if there's enough healthy stable guys out there, such that all the women who want a healthy romantic relationship can have one.

The culture would have to change a lot for there to be any meaningful number of healthy and stable guys.

scwizard · 2023-11-02T20:19:37+00:00

That's how my daughter's dad cheated on me. Everyone at his work thought we were open.

My ex tried this trick. Apparently most of our friends and all his coworkers thought we were open 😂

Women say it's an incel conspiracy theory that they're being shared by attractive guys, then they post shit like this.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-11-02T21:42:02+00:00

I can never be blackpilled cause I see so many ugly dudes with hot girls at university.

John_Oakman · 2023-11-02T02:01:28+00:00

Warnings are just relaying threats by 3rd parties.

DumbDumbDatingPhD100 · 2023-11-02T02:16:51+00:00

Is the average male PPD’er low, medium, or high inhibition? How does this affect their dating outcomes? Anecdotally (for myself and for people I observe), low inhibition is highly correlated with success, at least at the initial stages of dating/casual sex.

SianOiseau · 2023-11-02T02:21:29+00:00

Not a serious list of "adulting" from Conservi:

Separation from parents. You shouldn't be dependent on t hem financially and should be able to solve your own issues. If your parents still decide for you, you haven't separated.
Good financial habits. You should know much you make and spend. You should have an emergency fund.
You know yourself: you know your likes, dislikes, your physical and mental traits.
You accept and respect yourself, i.e. you don't tolerate mistreatment from yourself or others.
You take care of yourself and you can help yourself. You clean and cook for yourself, take care of your health physical and mental etc.
You don't let shame and guilt dictate your life choices. You know your sphere of accountability and you know what you can and cannot resolve.
You have your papers in order.
You have at least 2 hobbies that you don't monetize.
You're mindful about your social circle and you choose friends that enrich your life.
You have a comfortable place of living.
You don't stop learning
You recognize, understand and know what to do with your emotions.
You're honest with yourself.
You know your life values and you can rely on them.
You accept your achievements and you do not depreciate yourself.
You do not take advice like this seriously

So...how much have you scored and how old are you? I'm in my late 20s and got 12.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T03:04:15+00:00

I feel like i have a superior immine system to everyone else cuz i dont even get sick like that like i swear theres a disease going around and im totally unaffected. Like i never even had covid glory be to god. But it does suck because then i have to go to school more

Anti_Thing · 2023-11-02T05:13:03+00:00

Is it a bad idea to date a Ukrainian refugee?

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-02T06:40:25+00:00

I genuinely cannot get into marvel. DC just has better stories imo.

gremvinros · 2023-11-02T06:57:05+00:00

Just took a Disney character quiz. Turns out I'm Clayton from Tarzan :)

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-02T07:08:53+00:00

Do you guys think reversable male birth control will ever become a thing?

(and before someone mention condoms, you get what I mean)

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-02T08:28:34+00:00

I see how this sub already fucked me. Yesterday my mom told me how one of her long time friend just retired at 55 (he's missing an arm so could retire early, retirement age is 62 in my country). He has 250k€ savings and will get 2k€ pension per month from the government.

With the money, he just bought a nice house in a little city in my country. He is single and doesn't know anybody in that city so he will basically be starting a new life at 55.

Well as my mom told me about it, I instantly thought that if I was in a similar situation, I'd have became a passport bro :D

Gladboys · 2023-11-02T09:53:00+00:00

where do i find girls into midwestern emo music

Dusttyy · 2023-11-02T11:16:59+00:00

What’s Reddit’s obsession with this idea that men can’t “open up” and be “vulnerable” to women or they’ll use it against them? I’ve only really happen to me once, but I almost don’t even blame her. I wasn’t really taking accountability for some of my issues or even making an attempt to work on them my own. They’re not your mother, and nobody else wants to hear about this either… including your friends and even your mother herself, assuming you’re a grown adult.

You also have to consider why a woman would invite you to open up in the first place. Maybe women can chime in here, but I speculate it’s just another talking point and bonding experience to solve issues together. She’s NOT inviting you to use her as a pillow to cry on. In my one bad experience with this, I complained about weight gain, losing my hair, and how both are severely affecting my confidence. She can’t really help with those, beyond subjective surface level encouragement. I have to be the one to lose the weight, treat my hair loss, and retain confidence. And she knows that too, so the fact I’m making it someone else’s problem is kind of weak/cowardly.

I guess ultimately men need to realize she’s not your therapist either. If you can’t handle emotional stuff on your own, see a real therapist. If she truly wants and asks you to “open up” (I have found this to be far more rare than Reddit claims), talk to her about more tangible issues that are weighing on you. For example, “My boss said [xyz] to me and not sure what he meant by it” or “Sometimes I think about moving to [x] city, but not sure if it’s worth the risk.”

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-02T12:18:03+00:00

Something I recommend for people looking to build or expand their social circle: If you live in a big city, join a Facebook group for people new to the area. Moving to a new place without knowing anyone can be intimidating, so you’ll have the chance to meet a lot of folks who are actively looking for new friends.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-02T13:13:02+00:00

Does anyone ever watch a full 2 hour porn film? Within 20 mins, you'd probably get bored?

saulbasedman · 2023-11-02T14:44:46+00:00

https://youtu.be/ZVuToMilP0A?feature=shared

Loved this so much as a kid. Technically not from my time but watched it a lot as a youngster.

Also this. Such a lovely scene. Kinda how life is when you're studymaxxing until the dread of being alone kicks in

What do modern kids have now? Fortnite, brainrotting Tik Tok with Instagram shorts and mindless Youtube videos. The new Spiderman movies suck too.

I'm glad the things I watched had some kind of morality and thought built into them. And if you're going to attempt humour by equating this entire comment to: "My entertainment back in the day was better than what the kids have now!", you're absolutely right it is.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T14:49:07+00:00

Im so embarrassed wahhh

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-11-02T14:51:56+00:00

A common complaint is that women have kids while men didn't. Obviously not the case for childless couples. I think that's fair, pregnancy entirely and child rearing mostly falls on women. Men however don't take as much paternity leave. Obviously not the same thing but worth bringing up.

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/19/parenting/why-dads-dont-take-parental-leave.html

Apparently 70% of men take 10 days or less of paternity leave in the US as of 2012. I assume it's gone up.

Far more men in the article in tech jobs making 100k or more use more of their paternity leave especially if it pays 100%. I hadn't considered it in the past but I think I'll take 100% in the future if I have kids.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-02T15:31:08+00:00

I kind of want to try poverty food beyond kraft mac n cheese. Is hamburger helper any good?

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-11-02T15:38:03+00:00

Red Pill guys are so out of touch from reality you are now lying if you have a healthy social life after school. Never even knew what the term chad was but I feel like King Chad here comparing my life to some of the RP guys here.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-02T16:31:11+00:00

Average anime fan -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17lqr4x/im_a_man_but_i_want_to_be_the_woman_in_the/

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-02T17:14:20+00:00

Some people here write like high vocab poets, and others write like stunted zoomers. I’m getting whiplash

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-11-02T17:42:38+00:00

Some women just cuck themselves.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-02T18:18:30+00:00

I'm looking at my local school district's school lunch menu page and I am honestly kind of shocked public schools serve breakfast as well. I don't think my elementary school served breakfast, is this a new thing?

scwizard · 2023-11-02T18:18:51+00:00

Today, I’m 35. My birthday is in January, and today is our first wedding anniversary. We both took today off work and slept in and we’ve got a gorgeously fun day planned. We have a house and a dog and a cat, good jobs (I actually out earn him now, which he is forever praising me for), and are super excited for our first Christmas in our new home.

If you had asked me on my 30th birthday if I thought I’d have ANY of this less than six years later, I would have laughed and called you an out of touch dreamer.

I hope she enjoys life and doesn't freak out and start to break down when her ivf doesn't work and people keep bringing up that adoption is an option.

Some women live very happy lives from these sorta circumstances but some really struggle with learning they're infertile.

cactusbeam777 · 2023-11-02T18:20:33+00:00

People here are way too dismissive about what a serious decision it is for men to get married. Whenever there's a thread about "why get married instead of just being bf/gf" there are always so many glib responses that say things like "get married or don't get married nobody cares".

They completely ignore the fact that there's a massive amount of societal pressure to get married from family, from women, from your girlfriends friends, even from media "if you liked then you should have put a ring on it." Some women will use marriage as an ultimatum and leave if they don't get it. And men will fall for all of the pressure because they're in love and don't want to lose her.

Or people will say "it's simple, if you love her and want to be with her forever marry her". But it's not that simple. I love my partner and would happily marry her and vow to be with her forever if it were just a beautiful romantic ceremony. But it's also a financial contract which in my personal situation is too much of a risk to take on. But women have a vested interest in convincing men that marriage is no big deal and just something to enter into lightly.

mummydontknow · 2023-11-02T18:51:02+00:00

Thoughts on this:

Married people with kids and career find time to have affairs, don't let a person that's single tell you they're too busy for you.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T18:52:40+00:00

Ngl with some of my friends who are like CHRISTIAN CHRISTIAN it feels like im walking on eggshells around. Like when barbie came out i went to see it with my friend and she said she hated it because it was feminist then she started talking about the bible, like how the bible says men and women are bla bla bla i was like damn I didnt expect this from U

Its like even to the point where i have to watch what i wear around them

scwizard · 2023-11-02T19:42:57+00:00

Their revenge fantasies are getting wilder and more varied.

“Women told men not to approach now all the women are crying “Why don’t men approach anymore”.

“Women who don’t like men will end up alone with a houseful of cats”.

“Women who choose physically attractive, tall men will be cheated on”.

“Women are all sharing the most attractive men, enjoy being a part of Chad’s harem”

You can't call these silly revenge fantasies then turn around and post stuff like: whenever I try and talk to this guy I'm casually dating about being exclusive, he changes the subject. If I have sex with him without a condom do you think he'll realize I'm serious? I'm not on birth control by the way.

scwizard · 2023-11-02T19:56:18+00:00

The modern dating thing of dating people and even having sex with people with exclusivity being a later step, of course you're going to have guys sharing girls and girls sharing guys.

Considering this status quo how is women sharing the most physically attractive guys an "incel fantasy?"

I swear. It seems like guys see a hot girl and are like "damn that girl is hot I bet she gets tons of attention." Girls see a hot guy and are like "he's just my type, everyone has their own type and it's evenly distributed and tall confident men with strong jawlines just happens to be mine. I'm sure he gets the same amount of attention other guys get, which is plenty. Because the normal thing guys and girls do is to go on a date with a different person every week. I'm sure there's a rare few guys that don't get that kind of attention but it's just because something is wrong with them."

Like this is the only scenario I can think of that would lead to girls being surprised that the guy they're "casually dating" is also "casually dating" other girls.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-11-02T20:36:23+00:00

What's your favorite song?

Mine

Sillysheila · 2023-11-02T20:59:23+00:00

My partner and I initially bonded a lot over sharing our “war stories” of bullying. We were both bullied for years in school, and I think sharing these stories made us more intimate leading to a romantic connection. Being those “weird kids” makes us feel like we’re part of a secret club. Has anyone else experienced this?

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-02T21:02:42+00:00

I’m going on a bowling date tonight 😀 that’s a first for me lol

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-02T21:37:59+00:00

Are there any other genuine truecels here?

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mike-sonko · 2023-11-02T02:20:30+00:00

Anyone else following the Charlie Adelson "Hitman Murder" trial? That shit's wild

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-02T02:21:10+00:00

Se acabó

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-02T02:54:44+00:00

Why do the hypotheticals here always bring up sex bots? If you’re thinking about a sci-fi replacement for human contact, why not go for virtual reality girlfriends? Would probably be cheaper and you could really have limitless possibilities with that. As long as there’s some way to simulate touch, it would be completely perfect in my eyes. Hell, even if there isn’t that, just being able to go on dates with a virtual character who feels real would be like heaven to me. Just seems so much better than a sex bot that you’d also have to never take outside, lest you get shamed to the moon and back by your peers.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-02T03:31:24+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzEaU5-uKEd/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Gladboys · 2023-11-02T06:20:27+00:00

alr bro fuck this im making a new youtube account i cannot take this slander https://i.imgur.com/6V3qi17.png

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T10:03:57+00:00

The guy from the gigachad meme will do well with women but he is not ideal imo. Women prefer a maesthetic guy : a guy with masculine features like a good jawline; fit body and dark hair and thick eyebrows mixed with some prettyboy feminine features like big lips and pretty eyes.

The gigachad looks too masculine like a caveman. He'll do well with older women but younger prime girls will tend to go for a maesthetic chad.

Any women agree ?

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T10:38:39+00:00

Women who stayed with their high school boyfriend or have a very low N-count are feminine and ideal because women cannot be satisfied anymore once they experienced something better in the past.

If a woman slept around a lot she is more likely to have experienced a big dick so she cannot be satisfied anymore by anything smaller. If she slept or dated around a lot she is more likely to have walked around with men over 6 feet and she cannot be satisfied anymore by shorter men. She is more likely to have interacted and kissed men with good looking 8+ faces and cannot truly fall in love anymore with less good looking males. She is more likely to have experienced a fun and thrilling bad boy and cannot be satisfied anymore by a boring LTR job office male.

This is why it is essential for men to lock a girlfriend as soon as possible (preferably already in high school) and if you missed out on that try to find a virgin woman.

Agree or not ?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-02T13:27:44+00:00

There are neighborhoods that don’t have a lot of kids like that so you’re not really gonna get trick or treators. My best friend is 35 and his wife is 31, they have 2 kids(a third on the way)but they are babies. The rest of their block is basically all old people who either have no kids or their kids have long moved out. My area is like a decent mix

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T14:13:45+00:00

Have you people been around the lipstickalley forum ? What's up with them ? They all claim to be perfect 10/10's and supposedly have chads hit on them all the time so they can be picky about which chad they LTR. They never post pictures though. Is it larping or are they seriously that deluded ?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-02T14:53:27+00:00

It’s so odd to see how people, mostly men, view feminists here. Brightly colored hair, overweight, can’t cook, etc.

My grandmother forced me to learn a lot of traditional housekeeping stuff. She taught me how to cook and grow food, fix clothes and furniture, unclog sinks, tax planning, etc. Once a month we would wring my sheets, twice a year we washed the windows and rugs in several relatives’ houses (it was actually humiliating). She wanted to teach me because she was a radical feminist and because she hated men. She didn’t like overweight people or uneducated people, and she gave her grandchildren stern lectures whenever someone had dyed their hair.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-02T15:17:27+00:00

"Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?"

Yes since that's life after school

Workaholiconew · 2023-11-02T15:20:20+00:00

I dont understand why women keep saying to find better women.

After the hundreds of thousand of women I hit on, dozens I had sex with and the few I dated...

Ive only found around 18 women total who I would think are mature enough to be considered a positive, instead of a neutral to negative. 18. Whose names I can repeat by heart.

Dont misunderstand. These 18 are not women around my age who are mature, not single women who are mature. In fact most are old enough to be my mother and have been in fact married for decades... they are just women ive met in general who are a positive to those around them...

Are women that unaware of how most women are a deep negative... and even the "good ones" as they say are usually neutral at best?

I mean I understand not seeying how your friends are better than they actually are. They arent the ones thrwing tantrums in your ear all the time... but come on, you cant go to a mall without seeying at least a few girls throwing tantrums or mistreating people... you shouldnt be this blind.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-02T16:47:06+00:00

Men who love masculine women are sus, CMV

DuetLearner · 2023-11-02T17:11:02+00:00

I have no respect for “muh pro life” and “muh family values” who see Palestinians as terrorists but preach about “the sanctity of life”

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-02T17:11:36+00:00

Friend is trying to get me to go to a speed dating event

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-02T18:13:11+00:00

Does increasing T-levels improve your jawline?

InfinityLink_ · 2023-11-02T18:37:21+00:00

Ex NBA player Joe Smith’s wife talks about how he left home after finding out she had an onlyfans. “You knew I was an adult video star when you met me. If I would do anything for my own survival then, what makes you think that would change.” This is why men should never allow women to gaslight them into thinking her past does not matter because when shit hits the fan, she will say you knew what you got into. Her past matters no matter how much she says it does not

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T18:49:27+00:00

Ngl like having multiple bfs/husbands as a woman is kind of based. NOT THAT I WOULD DO IT. And not polyamory ew. But imagine if you had several men that absolutely adore and worship you and dont expect anything from you

DerayRevan · 2023-11-02T19:10:51+00:00

Do yall know how cool this guy is

https://preview.redd.it/wd3lu59bhzxb1.jpeg?width=338&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5de1d2ab437732aaac2e45e31b409a73279c864d

I need to watch bleach again 😩

Maffioze · 2023-11-02T19:19:54+00:00

When you're in a long distance relationship after a while you crave cuddles more than sex lol.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-02T19:51:17+00:00

Patrick bateman meets tate

https://youtu.be/IReiEgrWMi4?si=bWghUanj4rZ4DL4G

ratboi34 · 2023-11-02T19:54:05+00:00

I can't stop watching single mom cooking videos. If there is an afterlife I hope, that I'll be reincarnated as a single mom of many children. There is just so much love that I couldn't give away in this life.

slackforce · 2023-11-02T20:03:47+00:00

I eat a lot of fast food and go grocery shopping every week, and here's what I've noticed:

Old people: Probably going to use cash to pay and will just stand there fishing around for toonies while everyone behind them quietly seethes.

Women: About a 50/50 chance that they use cash and will take 600 hours to collect their things from the checkout counter. If they're at a drive-thru, they will take as much time as their is in the universe to decide what they want and then second-guess themselves 700 times instead of just going the fuck inside.

Guys: In and out. Always uses debit/credit. Polite smiles and a "thank you" and Bob's your uncle.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T20:16:03+00:00

Im SO happy i dont have any homework thats like imminent today yassd

InfinityLink_ · 2023-11-02T20:24:24+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/0b268vgfuzxb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17342a399938df59c3517c9cca2afcf03bf69327

Per usual

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-02T20:38:20+00:00

Seriously, listening to guys describing AF/BB just sounds like a guy dating an older Stacy.

Seriously, women fucking every (hot) guy around and then having a guy play stepdad or just outright being cucked? I often notice from older women were were extremely popular with guys in their youth. As long as they're still attractive and charming, they don't have a problem getting guys.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-02T20:41:56+00:00

Sometimes I (briefly) long to go back to being young and in college and casually dating hot, interesting people without any expectations, while making airheaded friends easily, and the days being filled with classes and schoolwork and going out on the weekends to get moderately drunk and dancing with said friends…

But, I cashed in on my maximum SMV value early, and made it so that I could have my child young within a stable family environment and have lots of energy with which to keep up with her, and that’s more important to me. So I wouldn’t really trade, even if I could.

scwizard · 2023-11-02T20:45:55+00:00

Q4M: Would your rather date a girl who is a virgin, but who won't have sex with until you've been dating as least a month? Or a high n girl who will have sex with you on a first date.

Let's say that virgin who will have sex with you on a first date isn't an option.

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T20:51:05+00:00

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Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-02T20:52:48+00:00

The "tragic" part about dating for average men and average women :

Average women = will be able to sleep around with chad; getting a taste of him and what could have been but in the end will not being able to make him commit (unless she gets extremely lucky). Will be forced to settle with her looksmatch who she is not sexually attracted to but might be decent in other ways.

Average men = won't be able to sleep around unless he goes well below his league. Will eventually find his looksmatch willing to settle with him. He will be sexually attracted to his looksmatch but she won't be sexually attracted to him. He will try to make up for it in other ways.

Who has it worse ?

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-11-02T20:53:54+00:00

Glad I saved my response to that deleted thread on averages lol

DerayRevan · 2023-11-02T20:55:09+00:00

Lakes beat the clippers and oh my gosh, this old guy Lebron with 35pts, he made everyone look old and their 20s

One thing l did notice is him relying more on his skill than athleticism, he used to do those mid-range jumpshots but now l see him trying those pull mid-range shots, which is the fundamental basics, so glad his improving his craft

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T21:11:48+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SYVok4/

Ppd men when women have opinions they disagree with

monster_lily · 2023-11-02T21:17:32+00:00

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scwizard · 2023-11-02T22:52:54+00:00

I can't read my orangereds wtf

I click and it just logs me out.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-03T00:03:49+00:00

Men are exposed to more pictures of sexy women than ever in history. There's more advertisements now than ever.

I'm shopping for shorts on Amazon and I scroll down and there's a video ad playing. A sexy woman is wearing booty shorts and bending over and running in slow motion zoomed in on her butt. These ads are almost porn. This is why men are constantly horny.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-02T21:31:23+00:00

Feminists argue with statistics, random questionnaires that they treat as facts.

Men argue with logic and independent thought.

Women are sheep

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-02T15:28:47+00:00

I'm' beginning to think there's little left to "debate" on PPD. The collective level of women here is low relative to the foundational knowledge that has been built up by RP and adjacent resources over the decades. Critics refute a lot of it, but offer no alternatives. A lot of rhetoric but no specific, actionable details.

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