I keep seeing this brought up in TRP threads and Youtube videos, where someone says "High value Men don't care about your career. They'd date a McDonald's worker if they were hot enough."

I can say from experience falling into this cohort of men...that is almost certainly untrue. I don't know a single wealthy man who isn't dating someone in their same educational, income, or at least intelligence bracket - and you can't attribute that purely to social circles because many of these couples met through online dating.

Intelligent successful driven people date people like them. If my family or friends asked what my wife did for work and I said 'she fixes people sandwiches' it would be utterly humiliating.