Daily Community Chat Megathread

decoy88 · 2022-08-06T01:01:43+00:00

Every now and then I feel like when users say “women” they really mean “white umc liberals from my college”.

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-06T00:27:29+00:00

IMO this is a very wifeable ass as it’s very big but not so big that you have to worry about her becoming obese perfect relationship material booty

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-05T23:52:07+00:00

took the red pill and things were never the same...

decoy88 · 2022-08-05T23:33:28+00:00

This subreddit is too full of female nerds that have an over represented experience dealing with porn addiction (from male nerds).

purplish_possum · 2022-08-05T23:02:58+00:00

One pool. 200 BBWs. Gotta love America.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-08-05T23:01:19+00:00

Who the fuck gave a silver to this thread?

lulll · 2022-08-05T22:58:56+00:00

women should all have this vibe

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-05T22:46:57+00:00

TIL Guyana got some super fine women

Guillaume_Francois · 2022-08-05T22:43:33+00:00

Androsphere > manosphere. Pass it along.

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-05T22:34:56+00:00

Today I have two essays two exams and a discussion post due tonight, and I still found time to go gym . Whats your excuse

FFTzzz · 2022-08-05T22:34:51+00:00

CMV.

Women do not like men to watch porn mainly because it destroys the male illusions of female innocence. If it promoted the women are wonderful effect they would promote it everywhere.

"Oh look! a nice fit cute young woman, she seems like nice classy girl. I wonder what her personality is."

"Oh her personality involves letting 36 guys in a row jerk off on her face for a few hundred bucks "

decoy88 · 2022-08-05T22:11:04+00:00

Watching Cody break down Jordan Peterson is refreshing and confirms all my assumptions about him lol.

EDIT:

I didn’t know JP claimed to be a neuroscientist or evolutionary biologist while actually just being a psychology professor.
I didn’t know Jordan Peterson didn’t get good professor reviews until he went viral.
I didn’t know most of his highly praising students referred to him “changing my life” more than anything academic
I didn’t know how close to self-help guru JP was. I thought he became famous off academic shit. But this shows him as a more of a motivational speaker than educator.
I didn’t know he discussed climate change with Joe Rogan while absolutely having no clue how any of it worked.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-05T21:50:21+00:00

Ladies and gentlemen, can I have your attention please…

That’s it. I just want attention

Tramelo · 2022-08-05T21:49:29+00:00

Is confidence half nature and half nurture?

Play_Muted · 2022-08-05T21:43:15+00:00

q4all which social media users have the lowest iq?

twitter
reddit
facebook
instagram
other

I think its twitter.

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-05T21:38:10+00:00

Buy her flowers, write love letters, treat her like a queen and it’s a countdown till she swallows another man’s kids

Treat her like cannon fodder and you won’t be able to get rid of her even if you want

Handisriv · 2022-08-05T21:32:36+00:00

As soon as I hear someone refer to the “patriarchy”, I instantly lose all and any respect I had for that person.

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-05T21:17:30+00:00

What do women mean by a boring guy ? The niceness post was good but we need to define boring

FFTzzz · 2022-08-05T21:14:36+00:00

Twitter got real

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-05T21:10:50+00:00

I'm waiting for evidence that men hit the wall

lostwanderer28 · 2022-08-05T21:09:15+00:00

After all these years and complaining about women, I finally figured it is my fault why I am still single and virgin and no it is not because I am "misoginystic" or "abusive" or an "incel". It is because I am simply stupid.

In school there was this one girl who told me that she likes my face. Mind you I was quite young then, maybe 12 or 13, I didn't know how to react so I didn't react at all. 🤦🏻‍♂️ And I had a crush on someone else. 🤦🏻‍♂️

Then, when I slowly became frustrated about still not having a girlfriend when I was about 16, another girl seemed to pick up interest in me. Hanging around me with her friend. Slapping my ass... I counted that as sexual harassment because she didn't have my consent and I had sworn to myself to never slap any woman's ass without getting her consent first, so to avoid being a hypocrite I had to tell her to not do that again. She even once complimented my ass, I thought she was trolling me because my pants kept gliding down and I had to pull them up quite high so they don't drop down easily. We couldn't afford well fitting pants or whatever. She also asked me what my favorite cookies were. Man, I was so stupid back then, I didn't see any of the signs of interest. 🤦🏻‍♂️ I am probably still stupid.

It is too late now. It is too late to apologize. I gotta own my stupidity now.

Then there were two women who wanted to play my favorite boardgame with me (not at the same time), fucked that up as well. 🤦🏻‍♂️

Seriously.

The cherry on top.

I then came on reddit and complained about women not being interested or attracted to me and having too high standards and picking the wrong men. 🤦🏻‍♂️

You can't get any worse than this, can you?

😭🤦🏻‍♂️🙈

flash13131313 · 2022-08-05T21:02:41+00:00

goddamn I gotta go into the city city more often. So many fine ass women in all different shades, I totally see why its harder to cultivate an abundance mentality in other places

annabeelongx · 2022-08-05T20:56:16+00:00

Long Acrylic nails should be banned in food service, I don’t care.

Today I ordered a drink from Aunt Annie’s and the young girl with chipping long fake nails started squeezing the whipped cream on top. I noticed she had no gloves on so the cream basically slid under her nails and into my drink. I grew disgusted immediately, asked politely that she put on gloves and make me another drink

decoy88 · 2022-08-05T20:45:16+00:00

Men’s definition of “asshole” here tend to be any behavior that’s not being an absolute simp so i take it with a grain of salt.

Accurate.

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-05T20:41:10+00:00

Do I wife the thick asf feminine long haired girl or the short haired fit tomboy 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

BumblingBeta · 2022-08-05T20:27:47+00:00

When you're applying for a visa just to visit a foreign country for a few days, maybe a week, do you have to give "biometrics"?

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-08-05T20:12:58+00:00

When guys tell women to dress modest…how modest are we talking? Give me some clothing examples.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-05T20:09:25+00:00

Spamming today, but—

Why do men have their panties in a twist about being called “husband material?” I love my husband to death, I think he’s amazing and a sex god and the best partner I could have asked for. I wouldn’t have married him otherwise. So why is “husband material” virtually an insult?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-08-05T20:08:14+00:00

Going on my first “date” with an older woman (F44) this evening; I’m M22. This will be my first time trying something like this, so I’m pretty excited.

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-05T20:07:06+00:00

Idk where you guys get the impression that women get pickier as they get older, young women are way harder to get

poppy_blu · 2022-08-05T19:53:18+00:00

From the helping men thread, I’ll open up my question to everyone:

How do you feel the manosphere is helping men? In concrete terms. Not just “they post a bunch of stuff on websites,” but what are some data points that show the manosphere helping men in a measurable way?

Here ls why I’m asking. I am in a unique situation.. For the last 10 years, a big part of my professional work in public health has been focused on mens health. When you are immersed in an issue where the opposite of the norm is true and men don’t get enough attention, support or funding, you do get a different perspective.

Despite the fact that mens health is a stepchild, there is an entire universe of people out there who are working everyday to solve mens problems. They run advocacy organizations, community groups, church groups, therapy groups, fatherhood groups, they help men to be more empowered men in family court, they go to funders and plead the case for men. Ive seen what these groups have accomplished despite few resources and support and it’s eons more than the manosphere has ever done for men.

One of my mentors and the man who got me interested in mens health many years ago and is highly sought after expert on the topic (he was an advisor to a Obamas men and boys initiative) said to me early on that the only topic the mainstream wants to discuss when it comes to mens health is sexual health. This is in large part because it’s the only thing men themselves want to talk about. And you can see it OP’s post, for example, he attributes high male suicide rates to men not getting laid. It’s so much more complicated than that. But when you have tunnel vision, your own problems can become literally larger than life.

Hey if the manopshere has helped you achieve your dating goals, well then great. But lets not try to compare it to actually addressing the myriad of issues men face and let’s not pretend that all of these issues can be attributed to sex.

By the way, many of the people in that universe helping men have vaginas like me. Maybe don’t be so quick to write us all off as misandrists simply because we don’t want to hear you whine about how you deserve casual sex with Stacy.

houstongradengineer · 2022-08-05T19:51:37+00:00

Today sucks so bad. I'm still not able to find training as an engineer, but I'm probably going back to the shithole known as Houston!

Husband isn't home now. Don't know when he'll come back. I'm just fucking alone. My mom is dead, and you just know my stepmom is going to make my life a NIGHTMARE if I do have to stick around with her and my dad for a bit.

I'm totally willing to work, I'm smart, and I try my best. Even the man who fired me said so. But I can't find a way to survive. This is bullshit. I don't want to be an adult anymore. I don't want any of this.

I'm trying to tell myself that these problems are temporary. I'm trying to just feel the feelings and let them pass. I want to believe my problems are going to get better. But holy shit, after the past decade, like all I have really is my degree and that is worthless now apparently. Everything else is so much worse. I had a husband, who the fuck knows where he is now. He isn't doing too great right now, I know that. I'm worried about him. At least that's something that will get solved in time. The military will let him call in a week, and go from there. -sigh- -ugh-

lulll · 2022-08-05T19:47:08+00:00

well i feel dumb. if you want to scroll all the way to the top in the iphone reddit app you just click above the search bar

Trucums · 2022-08-05T19:43:00+00:00

Why do women become pickier as they age, despite getting older and less attractive? Young women are easier to impress and get in to bed. A 40 year old man or woman would have an easier time getting a 20 year old lover than an 30 year old. While the young one is of higher quality, it's price tag is also lower.... why? Make it make sense.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-05T19:42:59+00:00

Q4men: would you LTR/marry a woman who would never, ever give you a BJ, but was an exceptional partner in all other regards?

1Here4Bach · 2022-08-05T19:33:01+00:00

It’s “everybody makes mistakes” until a woman makes one then it’s, “that bitch got what she deserved.”

Pizdamati6969 · 2022-08-05T19:06:15+00:00

"The male sex drive is basically a highly trained Navy Seal who goes to war and ends up guarding a vending machine." - some youtube comment

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-05T18:46:19+00:00

Is it weird to wear your partner’s dirty tee shirts around the house because they smell like him? 🙈

CanOfWoody · 2022-08-05T18:45:28+00:00

Meat eaters, would you go vegan for life for 500k USD? Why or why not.

Slipthe · 2022-08-05T18:33:38+00:00

For the first time ever I'm playing video games while on the clock.

And then I see a coworker also playing lmao.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-08-05T18:31:29+00:00

Damn there was this young girl in total Euphoria-wear looking likes jules ...

My brain just went eggs sizzling in bacon fat

Yummmmmmmmmmmmmzzzzzzzzzzz.

Guillaume_Francois · 2022-08-05T18:27:22+00:00

You know what we need more of in media (all)? Big-tiddy vampire bitches.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-05T18:25:43+00:00

Just had my first date with the girl that asked me out, fucking went perfectly.

This chick is actually fucking amazing, British accent won me over but she's just so much fun to be around. Went for a couple of drinks, went to the clubs, made out a bit, overall good night.

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-05T18:04:32+00:00

If a woman becomes fat after she was skinny/in shape, and lowers her standards as such, is she attracted to her new league? If she’s mentally the same person, does that mean attraction is negotiable to women? Or is she just coping?

Willow-girl · 2022-08-05T17:57:17+00:00

Went outside to hang up laundry and ended up spending 20 minutes watching the kittens exploring the garden. Too cute!

"So much world ..." Imgur

The citadel is breached: Imgur

(For the record, we don't stick them in that cage; they climb in on their own volition, so please don't report me to PETA, lol.)

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-05T17:31:11+00:00

Ok so I know what all 3 of my coworker’s wives/gf look like. Keep in mind, all three of these guys are engineers in their mid 30s making 100k+. I will be breaking down each one. Fake names provided Ranking system for me is 5/10 is average.

John - significantly overweight, extensive balding, id rank him a 3.5.

His wife doesn’t speak English, is a tad overweight, but not bad by any means. She doesn’t have a job. I’d give her a 4-4.5.

Rick - Here is an interesting one, stereotypical nerd, has that analytical voice, and significantly overweight. I put him at a 3.5

His girl is actually not bad for him, I expected something way worse. She’s got a decent face, a bit chunky, is an educator(tutor)? I’d put her at a 4. They have an old picture of them and they looked way better and like less fat too.

Steve - I consider Steve the Chad of the group. Looks great for his age, is in shape (not muscular however), and cool coworker. I’d put him at a 6.

Not surprising, his wife was the best looking, cute face, and not fat. Apparently she does volunteer work. I’d put her at a 6/10 as well. Think if they ever divorce, he’ll be fine and can bounce back with a hottie.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-05T17:10:10+00:00

If someone has to meet your laundry list of standards for you to “LOVE” them is that even love?

scwizard · 2022-08-05T17:05:35+00:00

Ok so at the church thing, I asked the 40 year old grandmother has 3 daughters. Two that are 13 and one that is "almost 18" who I haven't met yet, maybe she's not at the conference.

So I'm gonna assume the infant is the eldest daughter's and not the daughter of the overdeveloped 13 year old that's bottle feeding her 😬

decoy88 · 2022-08-05T17:00:44+00:00

Q4ALL:

What’s your gender?

What age were you when you learned looks were important?

purplish_possum · 2022-08-05T01:50:03+00:00

I just saw a tiktok of a woman joking how she gives mediocre 6'2 white dudes a chance when she is drunk.

Is this what women mean about giving ugly men a chance? Is this what women feel dating down is? Choosing men that all other women desire? An above average man?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-05T01:20:20+00:00

After reading swinger stories, I am convinced it's just all cucking. Don't try to cmv

purplish_possum · 2022-08-05T02:10:24+00:00

The house we lost in 2005 because of my 1st ex-wife's drug addiction sold a few months ago for $1,150,000.00. We paid just over $160,000 for it in 1999. I'd been pretty close to forgiving her -- but this opened the old wounds.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-08-05T08:29:14+00:00

Hypergamy ladies. Do it.

Have lots of partners. Learn what red flags are important to you. Drop them quick if they show any. Always look for a better partner. Start young so you develop your relationship skills quick. Have sex with different people so you learn what you like and don't like. If a dude stops treating you good or puts in effort? Drop him like a hot potato. They will blame you if you stay, they will blame you for their lack of commitment, they will blame you for everything anyway. Be the egoist they want you to be. No second chances. You can find a new guy instantly so why stay with that guy that stopped putting in effort? Only commit to him if he has proven himself for a long time. Don't sleep with the guys you want to date LTR soon. Rather have some fuck buddies and fwb. He doesn't need to know. It's not commitment until he asks you to be his girlfriend.

Play the game. They blame you if you do and if you don't anyway.

BumblingBeta · 2022-08-05T01:45:53+00:00

Does this sub attract people who have zero grasp of people and social skills, or just people who are looking to argue and disagree for the sake of it? Because I had an argument with a couple of posters who say that "you can't assume a woman is promiscuous" even if that woman is obese, has big visible tattoos, is loud, obnoxious, likes to drink, party and do drugs.

JustaGuyinFinance · 2022-08-05T07:07:04+00:00

Tip: Walk at least 30 min everyday

throwaway264757 · 2022-08-05T10:58:17+00:00

You know how it's popular to say "touch grass incel" all the time in places like this? The other day I was thinking I should go touch something in nature, that sounds like a great idea. So I found this fern right next to my building and started stroking the leaves to see what it felt like. It was amazing. It felt so soft and I do not regret it.

The next day I go out to visit the fern again and someone had cut or pulled off the parts that I touched. I immediately look around to see if there's cameras but there's only one that's facing the parking lot.

Wtf? Did someone see me then decide to do that? And if so why would they give themselves away by tampering with my environment? The plant wasn't encroaching on the building or anything so this wasn't like landscaping. I can take a pic of the stems. It looks like someone pulled off the stems rather than cut them. Am I being stalked? Should I call the police? Is that a huge over reaction? It really freaked me out though. I can't stop thinking about it.

If someone was stalking me why would they think that touching the fern was a one time thing? Wouldn't they know that I'd notice? I feel so weird.

Willow-girl · 2022-08-05T01:50:17+00:00

Pedometer says I logged 16,218 steps at work today. Whew! I have some fabulous-looking floors to show for it, though.

My co-workers were joking about whether I was gonna make them take their shoes off to go in the bathroom, lol.

scwizard · 2022-08-05T02:56:31+00:00

So I'm at a church youth conference type thing.

It's so wild hearing a pastor at a youth conference say that the media is brainwashing people. Just a huge lack of self awareness.

scwizard · 2022-08-05T04:04:15+00:00

Dude, birth control tanks libido like a mother fucker. I didn't realize how much until I got off of birth control for the first time in so many years. I had absolutely no libido at all. I could have gone my whole life without ever having sex. After stopping it, I immediately felt so much more energized, better in every way, and stupidly horny all the time. It's amazing how much those hormones effect you without you realizing it, as a woman.

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-08-05T09:36:42+00:00

Do you think women who don’t participate in casual dating/sex have a harder time with dating in general?

I’m sure many relationships stem from hookups. As we all know, men are very clingy and catch feelings way faster and easier than women. I heard a woman once that “men aren’t letting me have this hoe phase, they get way too possessive” lol.

I keep hearing that sluts have a hard time finding commitment, but this just seems like a revenge fantasy to me. The men who are against casual sex are the ones who aren’t getting any LOL.

Anyway, thoughts?

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T00:23:41+00:00

Tom Cruise and his female co star then vs now

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/c3/7b/08/c37b080c98d827ccb248f8bc22fc9780.jpg

KombuchaEnema · 2022-08-05T00:41:46+00:00

I think there’s a fine line between “being confident” and “acting the way you think a confident person would act” and that’s why a lot of people struggle when dating. Especially men.

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T01:14:13+00:00

Chad and Stacy at 30 respectively

https://media.gettyimages.com/photos/actor-brad-pitt-attends-the-true-romance-hollywood-premiere-on-8-at-picture-id156163918?s=612x612

https://www.hawtcelebs.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/kelly-brook-in-bikini-at-a-beach-in-caribbean-05-09-2009-3.jpg

Chat and Stacy at 40

https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod.s3.amazonaws.com/images/actor-brad-pitt-attends-the-los-angeles-premiere-of-news-photo-1570653198.jpg

https://c8.alamy.com/comp/2C220A9/london-uk-16th-june-2020-kelly-brook-seen-arriving-at-the-global-radio-studios-in-london-credit-sopa-images-limitedalamy-live-news-2C220A9.jpg

cruciod · 2022-08-05T01:18:18+00:00

Nothing gives me a greater serotonin boost than roaming a mall on my own while listening to music and shopping end of season sales

Yes sell me your summer dresses for 65% off give me them aaaall mwahahahaa

decoy88 · 2022-08-05T08:18:10+00:00

Average PPD user ~~Tinder~~ ~~Hinge~~ Bumble profile

scwizard · 2022-08-05T03:18:43+00:00

Funny how the entertainment media isn't calling Dane Cook a groomer for marrying a woman he's known since she was 15 and started dating the second she turned 18, but they went all in on calling Ezra Miller a groomer for helping a trans adult get away from transphobic parents

Excuse me what? Are people seriously trying to say it was totally fine for Ezra Miller to be involved with this child since they were 12?

Why can't both behaviors be bad?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-08-05T08:02:02+00:00

It's funny how many of y'all tried to claim that you're moderate, rational, good people, weren't misogynists etc yet rushed to suck the dick of Andrew Tate as soon as that pathetic cunt blew up 😂

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-08-05T13:41:26+00:00

This one always tickles me:

"I just want a man who's taller than me in heels!"

Heels in question are 7 inch platform shoes that she's never worn

EulenWatcher · 2022-08-05T15:18:10+00:00

Baking spree continues and today it's sour cream pie.

lulll · 2022-08-05T15:42:01+00:00

hello men i think we should make today an international apologize to women day, what do you think about that

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-05T00:13:18+00:00

Are stay at home moms entitled to half of the money that their husband makes?

SeaSquirrel · 2022-08-05T01:28:52+00:00

I unlocked a new achievement that I assume is pretty uncommon for men; ruin a group photo by looking too slutty.

Marzipan-Happy · 2022-08-05T02:24:27+00:00

My husband is anxious that I'm going to be gone for two months finding us a new home and starting a new position. He thinks that I will discover what it's like to live without chaos and dissappear into the ether. ( we have four kids, three dogs, 10 chickens and two cats).

I won't dissappear, but you can bet I won't even be turning on the TV. I'm just annoyed I can't find a good yoga studio.

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-05T02:54:03+00:00

ESPN just posted a segment on how Derek Jeter and his wife met and his wife was trying hard to spew bullshit lmao. “We had a connection the first time even though he was mainly talking to my mom”. They met when she was 22 and he was 38.

errrright · 2022-08-05T03:49:59+00:00

Q4A - do you want to be more or less like your parents?

Mark_Freed · 2022-08-05T03:54:28+00:00

I maintain that both genders have shit taste when it comes to the kind of people they are attracted to. Evolution did us dirty.

neetykeeno · 2022-08-05T05:04:31+00:00

https://youtu.be/RE0_3NRfAyw

Neolithic vs Mesolithic baby feeding and the population growth associated with agriculture

Just dumping this link here because so many guys seem interested in using prehistory to justify their theories, so I might as well help them out.

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-05T10:22:53+00:00

Adult diapers outsell baby diapers in Japan since 2011. Lool

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-08-05T11:09:13+00:00

Having to explain the concept of a "you'll do" shag after a dry spell to my girlfriend was an awkward conversation to say the least...

tinasnow-poty · 2022-08-05T11:20:21+00:00

Okay so I really like lifting apparently. I hate that they were right when they said exercising lifts your mood 🙄

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-08-05T11:20:46+00:00

There was never this golden era where men didn’t seek relationship/dating advice in some form, it’s just social Media now.

“In 1972 men just winged it when it came to women/relationships and let the chips fall where they may” it’s like nah lol

Slipthe · 2022-08-05T13:47:28+00:00

I was involved in a car accident yesterday because an idiot thought that he could speed and beat the signal light. 10/10 bad experience and I do not recommend trying it. I am apologizing in advance if I seem snippy to anyone.

scwizard · 2022-08-05T13:53:06+00:00

I was chatting with this (40 yo) woman at the church youth conference thing I'm at.

I asked her how old the baby she was holding was, she said she was her granddaughter.

And her 13 year old daughter introduced herself to me as "the pretty daughter." Her mom passed the baby to her and she started bottle feeding them.

Pls don't tell me that's the 13 year old's daughter... Church people be wild sometimes...

OrdinaryFarmer · 2022-08-05T14:16:29+00:00

If abortion isn't attainable, do you think men might try to baby trap women?

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-05T15:07:27+00:00

Another Friday in the office burning time.

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-05T15:20:49+00:00

My religious friend is back in our home country for a few months and his family is having him meet women and their families for potential marriage. He’s 21 and no degree lol. Going to be a long road of rejection.

baresquad · 2022-08-05T15:43:13+00:00

People hate casual sex and casual sex culture which I can kind of understand but there’s something seriously about the weekend that makes you want to go out, have fun and experience sex with someone new

You can’t fault anyone for that

MalePsychopath · 2022-08-05T16:13:42+00:00

Did you know that chainsaws were invented for childbirth?

https://www.pharmacytimes.com/view/fun-fact-unfortunately-chainsaws-were-invented-for-childbirth

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-05T16:23:43+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/television/comments/wg5oaf/demi_lovato_calls_out_former_boyfriend_wilmer/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

From what it sounds like, she approached him and initially got rejected. Then once she was legal, she got what she wanted. Now that she’s older, she wants to be mad about it. But like, did he abuse her, or just date her?

edgyny · 2022-08-05T00:00:32+00:00

yrw i'm first

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2022-08-05T00:04:23+00:00

Welp, rumor is out that my buddy and his wife are splitting after two years of "'til death do us part"

Can't wait to be thrust into the role of supportive friend for someone who has been anything but since getting married

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-08-05T00:21:30+00:00

First! 🥳🎉

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T02:07:59+00:00

Bald chad at 50+

https://aisvip-a.akamaihd.net/masters/1779665/800x450/jason-statham-diesen-ratschlag-nimmt-er-sich-zu-herzen.jpg

Stacy at 50+

https://www.livesportv.online/pageone-https-i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2020/03/03/14/25481866-8069845-Frank_talk_Paulina_Porizkova_says_it_s_really_freaking_hard_to_b-m-6_1583246839494.jpg

Stacy looks nice imo. Very beautiful older lady.

But older Chad still looks like he's ready to impregnate.

poppy_blu · 2022-08-05T02:58:14+00:00

What conspiracy theories do you believe?

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T03:15:35+00:00

what are good subtitudes for the gym to keep yourself fit that you can do relatively independently ?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-08-05T03:35:36+00:00

Trying to expand my workout playlist; what are y’all’s go to running/lifting songs?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-05T12:08:56+00:00

If women's noses are sensitive enough to smell misogyny then how come all of the best chefs are men?

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-05T12:46:29+00:00

It's scary seeing modern women wanting to be single moms, you're putting our lives in jeopardy with your little criminals

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-08-05T13:05:12+00:00

Q4All: What is your gender, and could you be happy in an LTR/marriage with somebody who isn’t your best sexual partner ever?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-08-05T13:15:20+00:00

So, I guess “friend zone Thursday” turned into “Troll the fuck out of Friday?” Ok then.

dbz19_kai · 2022-08-05T14:13:14+00:00

Day 6 of Covid: I thought it would be gone by now. Still feeling drowsy and lightheaded, lethargic, coughing, sneezing. Having weird smells and fearing long term brain damage.

John_Oakman · 2022-08-05T15:23:26+00:00

Plot twist: women's intuition & 6th sense do work, it's just that the average incel/LWM/nice guy/whatever is an order of magnitude more terrible than the abusers/assholes/fuckbois they do end up with, and it's only the lack of capabilities, rather than intentions, that makes it seems otherwise.

It really puts things into perspective doesn't it?

TedTheMod · 2022-08-05T15:29:42+00:00

Is it even possible to not be a beta bux if you have a good job?

I mean in a long term relationship

Peacesquad · 2022-08-05T16:23:48+00:00

Why does body positivity exist for women but not men?

EulenWatcher · 2022-08-05T16:47:51+00:00

The following study with 113 participants analyzes the evaluation bias effects that happen when people are confronted with a typical profile of a online dating service that contains a false photo, i.e. a photo that obviously does not portray the profile owner. It is known that profile photos have a great impact how the profile owner is judged. As predicted by the attractiveness halo effect, an attractive photo leads to better evaluations of the displayed person than an unattractive photo. The results of this study show that even if the evaluator knows that the photo does not actually portray the profile owner, he is nevertheless influenced by the perceived attractiveness of the displayed person. But this is only the case for men judging women. Women seem to be more resistant against this automatic evaluation bias. The findings are fully in line with other empirical findings that support an evolutionary perspective, namely that men ascribe a higher value to physical attractiveness in judging women than women do in judging men.

https://journal-bmp.de/wp-content/uploads/JBMP-1-2010-Halo-Bak.pdf

decoy88 · 2022-08-05T16:55:42+00:00

PPD always be arguing on Gender Wars. But when you ask Men or Women questions like these, they end up repeating the same advice the opposite gender frequently gives.

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hardfine · 2022-08-05T00:05:18+00:00

Skimming through "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and it seems like pretty good advice so far, but I'm not sure if I agreed with this:

Nice Guys constantly report that their own moods are often tied to the moods of their partner. If she is happy and doing OK, so is he. If she is angry, depressed, or stressed, he will feel anxious until she is fixed. This connection runs so deep that many Nice Guys have told me that they feel guilty if they are in a good mood when their partner is not.

Is there anything actually wrong with this? I'm like this with my close friends so I can't see why I wouldn't be the same way with my girlfriend. If my friend is sad and moping around it's gonna put me in a shit mood as well and I'm going to want to help them out of it. Of course there's a difference between wanting to help them out versus mirroring whatever mood they're in, but personally I don't see anything wrong with sharing the pain that your partner feels and trying to help them feel better.

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-08-05T00:16:42+00:00

LCQ is an emotional roller coaster

HeartCatchHana · 2022-08-05T00:24:26+00:00

Do you like being tickled?

zoloftabuser · 2022-08-05T00:53:57+00:00

This could legitimately help some guys, but even those who don’t need it will use them.

Fisherman runaway is unreal.

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-05T00:54:36+00:00

I was having this convo in the previous thread and my take is this….if you are a woman who has a guy in the “friend” zone and you don’t want to or never tried to hook him up with a friend of yours then I don’t see how you can yourself his actual friend , you just using him in some way

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-05T01:04:01+00:00

late night thoughts.....

being a sexual object is addictive.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-05T01:52:21+00:00

Every time I get down on myself I remember how easy this dating stuff is, puts me right back into a good mood.

growandappear · 2022-08-05T01:55:57+00:00

The only time I actually virtue signal is when I offer pretty much anything. Damn is it annoying when people take you up on things

edit: I am gonna do it. It's just that I would have rather not.

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T02:23:07+00:00

So..this is what game looks like. The conviction behind your words matter, am I right

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gJKYpt6UpMw&ab\_channel=ShortMoviesClips

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-05T02:29:23+00:00

I see so many women online complaining about how their men don't put in any effort to look good for them, telling them to lose their guts and all that.

Why the fuck are you dating a man that doesn't work out and go to the gym? You have nobody to blame but yourself if your husband looks like shit or doesn't put any effort in, you chose to pick a lazy prick who doesn't go to the gym.

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T02:44:33+00:00

Rate this body shape.

http://cdn.avsforum.com/3/3e/525x525px-LL-3e1168cb\_vbattach57923.jpeg

Mark_Freed · 2022-08-05T03:30:43+00:00

Ok ok guys...

Imagine you meet a 11/10, absolute perfect girl. Super attractive and you are blown.

She is into you and is talking to you with a lot of interest but as you talk to her you realise she is completely bat shit insane

Totally cray cray.

What's your threshold? At what point do you say fuck nah and walk away?

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-08-05T03:52:42+00:00

Men on PPD who endorse age gaps: Are you really comfortable with your 18 year old daughter dating a 30 year old man?

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRUUYDqa/?k=1

This is the mentality I’m seeing. The thing is I never see these men go for soft, quiet 18 year olds. It’s always the ones who are out partying and drinking.

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-05T08:56:05+00:00

I read a post on dating advice about a 20 year old woman who had a brief fling with a 40 year old man cause she wanted to try something new (like he was a type of food or something). Now he’s obsessed with her and she wants to move on to something more age appropriate.

Can the age gap crew help me to understand how this is possible since him as the older person in the relationship is the one with all the power. Why hasn’t he just mind manipulated her yet? It’s weird. Almost as if she has her own agency

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-08-05T10:17:12+00:00

If women hit the "wall" at 30 why aren't large age gaps in relationships the norm?

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-05T13:31:15+00:00

I’d only date a single mother seriously if the reason why she’s a single mother is because the father died

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T13:46:55+00:00

Both of these guys are the same age/36. But one looks way younger

https://3j3l0a2aebmweww4l3h6k6hk-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/andrew-schulz.jpg

https://content4.promiflash.de/article-images/gallery1024/filip-nikolic-laechelt-2.jpg

villarconstante · 2022-08-05T15:24:22+00:00

This what beta bux have to forward to at the finish line ungrateful housewife

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T16:10:22+00:00

So while some guys here bullshit themselves, I realized women (who accuse these men of that) do the exact same thing. It's pretty easy to spot. Very disappointing

dysonRing · 2022-08-05T16:25:09+00:00

Alright someone was kind enough to foward me this link yesterday during the bruhaha

https://www.newsweek.com/2014/12/26/angel-death-one-worlds-most-prolific-serial-killers-292388.html

Two views I have held are now shattered,

1) Women can be the worst of humaninty (record breaking mass murderer), they are just incompetent at it.

2) Men that sent her love letters, marriage proposals or any form of attention need to be jailed along with her. They are doing the equivalent of giving her money.

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T16:26:10+00:00

Psychologists who think they're experts on dating because they studied psychology gotta be braindead.

EveryNizastar · 2022-08-05T16:29:41+00:00

I do not have the stats to back this but from my observation, I believe it’s easier for women to be financially successful than men today especially in areas of entrepreneurship, businesses , I really do notice this

scwizard · 2022-08-05T03:32:04+00:00

Republicans want girls to grow up believing that the government controls their bodies. That the government decides who they can love or marry & what gender they are. All while telling them that unless they’re pretty & thin they’re worthless.

Is it even possible to rebuttal this?

Retarded_Jizz · 2022-08-05T14:36:07+00:00

How a vagina works https://m.tiktok.com/v/7126529190861507846.html?u_code=0&preview_pb=0&language=en&_d=e31i79g88h0hj6&share_item_id=7126529190861507846&source=h5_m

/s

Retarded_Jizz · 2022-08-05T14:52:52+00:00

Ok ppd help me out

I met this 18 yr old female that is a virgin and happens to be interested in me. Is it predatory for a 23 yr old man to have ?

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T16:05:03+00:00

CMV: It’s impossible to be a high quality woman and older than 26.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-05T06:44:08+00:00

I don't understand why people still believe stats and figures and accept them as facts when it's common knowledge by now that they're deliberately skewed to push a narrative that either the government or media wants to be pushed.

No you're not right because that's what the "statistics say" Those are just the ones they want you to see.

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T09:15:18+00:00

Good looking men with health issues are way more disadvantaged in the dating market than guys who just look normal but dont have any issues

TedTheMod · 2022-08-05T13:33:12+00:00

Its funny that women get abused and then take it out on every other man out there

I had nothing to do with your shitty choices

meteorness123 · 2022-08-05T16:28:35+00:00

Also : Psychology is not a science and psychologists referring to themselves or psychological testing as "science" are incredibly cringe .

nothatyoucare · 2022-08-05T13:22:14+00:00

Ladies, pick better men.

Edit: My response was somewhat inflammatory in that thread but I backed up every single thing I said with a quote from psychology studies or articles to prove that I wasn't just talking out of my ass. Result? Downvote. lol. Can't handle the truth.

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