Daily Community Chat Megathread

catwatchwsmyshame · 2023-09-02T16:48:15+00:00

Does anyone else solely sort by controversial on ppd? And most of this incel/blue hair attractor site?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-02T15:46:34+00:00

I think a lot of problems people have are just living in large metropolitan areas. Where I live I am 5'9 and taller than or around the same height of 70% of people with only 30% of people I encounter being noticeably taller than me. This changes when I go to my hometown which is a larger city and I'm typically the among the shortest men anywhere I go.

Also, I see people complaining about not being able to afford a home or rent and that rent is 1700 a month and homes are 400,000, but in my experience I only pay $1100 for a two bedroom townhouse with a gorgeous view, and my partner and I are looking at a 3 bedroom two bathroom home on 5.5 acres of land and the asking price is only 240,000 right now.

I haven't tried dating because I'm taken, but before I moved here when I was a teenager there were a few girls I was involved with from this town.

The only thing that sucks is that there is a huge gap between the wealthy and the poor. There are several families who own car dealership or farming empires and their wealth goes back many generations with buildings and streets named after them, and there is a lot of meth addiction, but if you have a good head on your shoulder you can easily carve out a middle class living here.

potoricco · 2023-09-02T15:31:44+00:00

I don’t know if it’s just me but whenever people see a pregnant woman or a mother on tiktok and they’re like “where is the girl with the list” it’s sooo offensive

Peacesquad · 2023-09-02T15:23:12+00:00

Who hurt us?

Peacesquad · 2023-09-02T15:22:10+00:00

What did I miss

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-02T14:40:49+00:00

Storytime about a bitch I hated:

A girl I talked with was venting that people called her out for saying she doesnt want to date asian guys. She also whined that it’s her standards. I rolled my eyes at her victim complex. She brought it up for no reason other than to be asshole. She brought it up, out the blue, just to talk shit about asian guys. Everyone’s having a great time talking about something else, and she came in announcing how she doesn’t like Asian dudes.

Why would I bring this up:

To show women do get called out.
To show that men and women arent different. Because men will also be complete assholes and pretending its just about them “having standards and preferences”.

Reminds me of that dipshit that got called out for complaining Emilia Clarke “hitting the wall” when all she did was post a picture of herself with a mug being happy. I bet that motherfucker whined about no one “allowing men to have a standard” too.

potoricco · 2023-09-02T13:51:06+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/GvcA8ymaPI

Sooo excited to peak at 18 guys

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-02T13:32:12+00:00

I wonder why all these "common sense" people who already know the "obvious truths" that these terminally online guys consider to be some sort of hidden thing, I wonder why these people exclusively chose to entertain themselves by whiny, depressed men online as opposed to the giga-prevalent, default feminism influenced progressive gender ideology that quite literally denies any and all of these truths, from something as simple as "men are kind of hornier than women".

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-02T13:30:38+00:00

I realize the biggest difference between me, and most people is that I give far less of a shit about social validation/acceptance. And I’m shocked that guys care way more about social validation/acceptance than I do because I was told throughout childhood that was just a ‘girl thing’ to care about.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-02T13:29:31+00:00

I think my neighbor is birthing a goddess tonight. The screaming is usually loud and pained.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-02T12:58:25+00:00

Why do people feel the need for those rating subs? How people treat you matters, not some arbitrary number from online strangers, or moderators who can’t stand pretty people.

According-Dinner-406 · 2023-09-02T12:55:18+00:00

One thing about red pill people and conservatives in general is that they really don't wanna hear the cold hard truth. Which is ironic because they claim to take the pill that wakes them up, but really they're the sleepiest among us.

I've been banned from so many of their spaces just for just speaking facts.

In the BDSM community you'll find some of these types and the guys can't be reasoned with and women who want to be forced.

It really all reminds me of that guy Andrew Tate.

potoricco · 2023-09-02T12:31:38+00:00

Is it bad that I’m excited to be a little sick

I woke up with a mild cough. When I’m sick everybody in my family pays more attention to me.

potoricco · 2023-09-02T12:30:54+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/s/H0I1y4DtT7

It’s absolutely insane how little self awareness some people have. This man literally couldn’t comprehend that maybe a young woman wouldn’t feel safe or be safe around a drunk strange man at night. He then computed this as “gen z women mean and don’t care about me.” Lmaoooo

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-02T12:16:50+00:00

it's a desire to see the world a certain way driven by her own psychological issues for it to be so,

I love that people say this about me solely because they can’t provide evidence of their bullshit while I can provide evidence of my world view.

For example: The topic was “Men can be insulted by women but not the other way around” and my point was “What’s the context”.

https://youtu.be/6lgWdMiPZFY?si=Eemot09tCzumJOIi

Because why would I feel bad about guys getting their appearance insulted when they just harassed and insulted a trans person because a fictional character in a trailer wasnt good wank-material?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-02T12:06:20+00:00

When you've lost people who are so close to you to such horrible things as suicide or drug overdoses it fundamentally changes who you are. I will never be the same carefree person I was when I was younger and it's so painful.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-02T11:44:00+00:00

Again, really funny how men and women are allegedly super different in behavior, but this sub Reddit shows that men act just like women to a fucking T.

Even down to whining about imaginary sexism such as “I cant insult people but the opposite gender can!” which is not true. It comes down to who you’re insulting, what’s the insult, and why the insult. However, these variables mean nothing to someone with a victim complex.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-02T11:22:01+00:00

I already feel like I've lost weight it feels amazing

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-02T11:21:04+00:00

I'm re upping to get my high stronger. I ended up puking last time lmao I need a better experience this time fingers crossed

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-09-02T11:11:15+00:00

Just scrolled through r/accuratelyrateme and most of the guys there have awful haircuts for their face, and a couple of the women have terrible haircuts that would significantly change how they look. Like significantly going from say a 3-5 to 6+ with just a haircut, maybe a shave(or a few guys growing a thicker beard), and a few women have awful weird eyebrows that would look better with a more natural style.

I'm surprised there isn't a service that doesn't go "We will tailor you an amazing dating app profile for a very small fee(or even free until they're proven to work.)"

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-02T11:10:19+00:00

Women make being treated like a sexual object sound so awful, yet I love when women treat me that way. Why would I ever care about them wanting to know me as a person? We're not special, valuing someone as a human being isn't that important.

gabejohn · 2023-09-02T10:06:11+00:00

How do I stop getting tired of being around people other than my family? If I can't freely express myself around the other person I get tired of the constant pressure to avoid saying anything weird. Can't look them too long in the eyes, but also can't avoid their eyes too much. Everything you say must be related to what's been said before and must follow a clear path. You can't delve too deep into any subject, must remain shallow.

Sounds cringe but I want to be exactly like Michael Scott in the office. The way he is around his co-workers. He has zero social shame. He says/does anything. Some jokes will inevitably come off as stupid, but if you met him in real life he'd carry the conversation for you. I don't want to be him in the sense of making endless jokes. I want to be him in the sense of freely expressing yourself.

shanshkrishur · 2023-09-02T09:22:09+00:00

Women have multiple methods hitting men under the belt and they are nearly all socially acceptable. A woman can call us insecure, make fun of our appearance, weight, height, hell even make fun of our genitals.

So, what is a strong equivalent and socially acceptable below-the-belt insult that men can use? The only equivalent things I can think of are slut-shaming, and anything involving her appearance or weight, but all of those are considered taboo and “misogynist” these days. So what would be something to hit them where it hurts but in a way that is socially acceptable? Thinking they are trans? Insulting their capacity to be fashionable?

Note I don’t want to use this to hurt anyone except only the assholes who like hitting men below the belt. In other words I want a socially acceptable comeback that hits them where it hurts for when a woman tries to hit a man where it’s supposed to hurt.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-02T09:04:12+00:00

Some woman asked me what I was reading and I realized the following;

I'd rather fantasize about killing myself than getting laid

The other girl i hooked up with last week texted me a "u up?" text

I didn't respond

because I was too busy thinking about ways to kill myself while drinking my 8th(?maybe?) drink

People have always accused incels of being miserable on purpose and I thought that was bullshit but I realized it's true

I would rather kill myself than be happy for a night

If Selena Gomez appeared in front of me completely naked and on her left was a gun with one bullet in it I would dive for that gun faster than you can imagine and my brains would be plastered against the wall and that would be the (glorious, righteous, truthful) conclusion to my story

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-02T09:03:10+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/kIUHBNAZ99

No amount of your respect and you doing chores will deter your girl from doing this.So Keep coping

SlashCo80 · 2023-09-02T08:56:15+00:00

The dating scene will continue to be dominated by Chads, fuckboys and aggressive "alphas" as long as women keep choosing and rewarding them. You can either join them or opt out of the game. Just my 2c

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-02T08:49:00+00:00

Any gamers here? What about any gamer girls? (I mean the legit ones and not the kind who stream for attention lol)

Can't wait for Super Mario Wonder to come out next month. (Yes am almost 38 and I still play like a teenager 😅)

shanshkrishur · 2023-09-02T07:41:49+00:00

Isn’t it funny how women can hit men below the belt and it’s socially acceptable by the mainstream but men can never do the same?

Women can accuse us of insecurity, make fun of our appearance - short, bald, fat, skinny, etc. - and even make fun of our genitals (“small dick energy”), but we can never say a single thing against them or else it’s “misogyny”.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-02T07:32:01+00:00

tall men having kids with short women should be considered child abuse

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-09-02T06:44:07+00:00

I really hate women on some of these threads get into on this weird darwinistic shit, and act like they are doing the world a favor by only reproducing with chad. And it always seems lost on them that if 80% of men are trash and should't reproudce, then most women including them are no better.

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-09-02T06:34:35+00:00

Q4All: What’s the optimal environment for raising kids? Anecdotal experience is fine. Data driven opinions too. Open to all.

Raven-Ray · 2023-09-02T04:49:57+00:00

I HATE N-count discussions. They’re so fucking annoying and nobody but religious people and people who make being a virgin part of their personality even give a fuck irl

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-02T04:11:54+00:00

I don't vote purely because I don't respect politicians as people or politics as a profession. You have to be a certain kind of person to get into that line of work, someone who's willing to be vindictive and fuck people over.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-02T03:58:53+00:00

I just took 3.5 grams of mushrooms. Could do more mushrooms or take the tab of lsd I have. Anyways bon voyage I'm going on a trip

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-02T02:46:59+00:00

I only listen to super depressing music when I'm getting trashed. It's like, why can't I just have fun? But I'm addicted to depressing shit so I can't stop

meteorness123 · 2023-09-02T02:16:19+00:00

Rate the speech I will give to my wife before producing kids together :

" I will love you as you have loved me. You will provide me with an heir of pure blood, so that Meteorness and his progeny will rule for 1000 years."

And then it begins.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-02T02:11:51+00:00

Since meteor brought up Jesus I'd just like to point out how much I hate and how stupid I think the morons who think Jesus wasn't real are. We have more evidence for the existence of Jesus than pretty much any person living in the Roman Province of Judea.

We literally know more about him than we know about the governor of the province (Pontus Pilate) and have more evidence for his existence.

Here's what we know about Jesus

He was baptized by John the Baptist sometime in the early CE
He was crucified by the Romans
He had a variety of followers before and after his death

That doesn't seem like a lot of information, but compared to what we know about 99.999999% of people from that time period, it's a shit ton.

We have also been able to reconstruct some ideas about what he actually said and thought and those are

Jesus thought he was going to be king of Judea.
He didn't think he was the son of god
He was ready to lead an actively revolutionary movement to make him king of Judea.

dbz__f · 2023-09-02T02:09:45+00:00

When I’m around my gf, I’m a literal animal. No human being turns me on and arouses me as much as she does. It’s like I’m a sex maniac. I don’t know how she does it

potoricco · 2023-09-02T01:44:30+00:00

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Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-02T01:33:46+00:00

I always love dating advice that is like x type of woman isn’t worth dating anyway so you shouldn’t care what they think.

Thanks, guess I’ll try and find a wife in the dating pool of the 2 people left worldwide who don’t get screened out using this criteria.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-02T01:26:44+00:00

So, apparently 2033 marks the 2000th death anniversary of Jesus and the date where Jesus comes back.

Y'all hyped or what ??!

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-02T01:15:41+00:00

The guys that get the most girls are literally athletes. These dudes is running through bitches. If only I played defense

meteorness123 · 2023-09-02T01:12:24+00:00

I want a woman to clean after me.

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RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-01T15:00:47+00:00

First :3

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T15:02:08+00:00

2nd I think

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T15:06:39+00:00

When grown men say “No woman wants a short guy” what he means is “No woman will immediately get wet over my height and instantly want to fuck on the spot and that’s not fair”. These guys are actually mad that they have to put in work to convince someone to like them.

It’s similar to how a lot of fat activists just angry that they can’t get super model Stacy treatment.

itzReborn · 2023-09-01T15:15:28+00:00

I’m still struggling trying to approach women(people in general I guess) new semester started and same problems. I’d see a girl sitting alone but it’s impossible to even attempt to approach because most women are wearing headphones/ don’t want to be bother. Not many women in any of my classes but the few that are basically do the same thing and only take their headphones off when the teacher starts talking and right back on when he stops. (Commuter school btw so no dorms)

Going to look into clubs again but last time it didn’t work out for me. Honestly just feeling a lil lost.

Obviously don’t want to be creepy but I’m coming to find out that if I want any type of relationship with women I’m going to have to make it happen single handily.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-09-01T15:16:24+00:00

Now that it's trendy for a lot of these people to get views off of and grift off of pretending to care about men's issues, I have seen a number of religious tradcon types like Ben Shapiro, Lila Rose , Michael Knowles, etc., reacting to Red pill content and a lot of them have visceral kind of shock or disgust towards what they're listening to, almost like whenever a feminist sees that stuff for the first time, like bruh ITS NOT FOR YOU lol

hannahg000 · 2023-09-01T15:21:38+00:00

i’m studying abroad in seoul and the couples here do a lot of pda. lots of hand holding, cuddling, and even just causal playing with hair and shoulder rubs.

it makes me want to go lay in the road 😭

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-01T15:22:22+00:00

Can you imagine building your whole life around 6,000 strangers' responses to a survey?

People here read a study and let it control their entire life.

It's so sad. They create their own self fulfilling prophecies..

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-01T15:25:11+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Leo.

The Lionness. She often is good looking, sultry, and sexy in body. She definitely pays attention to her hair. She's got a lot going for her, but there are A LOT of downsides. She's not romantic, she's incredibly selfish and narcissistic, she can be a bit gossipy and she often has a MAJOR victim complex. But probably the most problematic element with her is her need to always be in the spotlight. She dates and fucks really toxic and substandard men. It's her way of being such a lazy fuck up in life. By picking "lower" men, she is always on top and will never need to put in effort to "better" herself for a man that has his shit together. Such a man would never give her the time of day.

She is boy crazy in her youth, but despite being physically sexy and alluring, she has no idea how to KEEP a man. Destructively, her laziness and sloth get in the way of having a richly fun life.

She isn't often single in life, you will end up encountering her in a situationship, with a boyfriend or married. You can still hit on her but 99% it'll go nowhere. Extra men or side fWbs are just too much of a hassle often times. She'll do an occasional threesome because she's curious, and she likes being the center of attention, but that interest dissipates quickly.

Sex is a chore with her. She can be submissive to the right man, and could be totally down with extra partners, but she has a lot of sexual hangups and naiveté.

Recommended approach: Innocent earnest and indirect, emphasis on connecting and bring something of value that she cares about! She can be loyal, but it takes so much outsized effort for what you're getting back that you have to ask yourself constantly if it's worth it. Her ego is huge and she will be hurt if you cheat but don't worry, her ego will make her forget in about a month.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-01T15:27:06+00:00

Yesterday, I was called out by a bunch for women for implying that most women want dominant alpha males.

So to settle this, how many of you PPD women are into submissive beta men?

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-01T15:32:56+00:00

Which is worse : wife having an affair baby or husband having an affair baby? They dont know about the affair.

Inspired by this https://reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/da67Sv2OQj

baresquad · 2023-09-01T15:33:19+00:00

ok

do it

Lmao this is the don’t give a fuck attitude that I want men to quit being soft and have.

potoricco · 2023-09-01T15:33:47+00:00

Am I annoying

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-09-01T15:40:42+00:00

Anyone following residential real estate trends? People on r/REBubble have been calling for a crash since late 2021. I don't think homes are going to be going down in value anytime soon.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-01T15:41:53+00:00

Update: Boychild isn't nearly as lonely as I feared. Last night we attended a back to school event, and he happily broke off to run around and play with a merry band of weirdos from his class (2 boys in dresses and The Weird Girl).

I ended up speaking with his teacher and she said the group spend lunch and recess together, and that boychild and The Weird Girl are very attached (always sitting together, working together, etc).

Phew. I'm relieved.

Although it is funny? curious? that this is the 3nd time boychild has become BFFs with a bigger + taller tomboy that doesn't get along with other girls. Whenever I watch him play with these girls they roughhouse and chase each other, but they also coddle him a bit and protect him from rougher kids.

I wonder how early our preferences and dynamics are set.

demedermidimi · 2023-09-01T15:44:17+00:00

i fucking love olives

According-Dinner-406 · 2023-09-01T15:47:34+00:00

I was just thinking about this, but I'm 40 and all I want is an emotional connection at this point. But in my 20's all I wanted was sex from hot women. I wonder if there's women who are pushing 40 who still wanted exactly the same thing they wanted when they were younger because I think most single guys at my age are just like me: too late for a career and no education to even try and look for one.

I feel like most of the provider guys at my age are only gonna entertain another woman if they're about to get divorced or cheaters. Better not be women out here praying some men become single all of a sudden instead of giving the men who been waiting patiently a shot.

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-01T15:49:37+00:00

Males hate Sex & The City because of the “message” but will clap like a seal for a show like Entourage.

demedermidimi · 2023-09-01T15:51:14+00:00

is everyone on the women are responsible for their own orgasms, it takes too long etc side of things forgetting that making a woman orgasm is like really hot? it's like no one takes it into consideration. why would you not want to make a woman moan and squirm from pleasure like what

Willow-girl · 2023-09-01T15:57:30+00:00

The doctor ordered a routine Cologuard test for my boyfriend.

He wanted to put googly eyes on the specimen ...

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-01T16:05:20+00:00

Had a pretty decent ONS this week.

Have a first date this weekend where I won't have sex.

I'll see an old fuck buddy in a few weeks.

Single life is fun.

pterry-dactl · 2023-09-01T16:10:50+00:00

Tell me a hook up story, I'll go first.

Was admiring a guys arms at a music festival, he was wearing a dress because it's a festival so why not. I admire his muscular arms and tell him how much I love cum gutters. We both laugh and I disappear.

Several hours later I'm in the woods and there's this topless dude in shorts. I tell him I like his cum gutters, he winks at me and I ask if I can lick them. He says sure but only if I can bite your bum. We lick, bite and start kissing. Then I take him to my tent.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-09-01T16:14:34+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/amiwrong/comments/166sgrc/am_i_wrong_for_feeling_resentful_toward_my_wife/

So many Ls here. Marrying a woman with 2 kids and he as 0, marrying a woman that aborted his kid because she wasn't ready despite having 2 kids, complying to having condom only sex despite being married, sexting other women instead of leaving her, realizing 10 years too late she never wanted a kid with him and she strung him along. I get his resentment toward her for that but he should resent himself as well for being so green.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-01T16:28:48+00:00

What's funny to me is the variance of males that have delved into manosphere content, whether it's positive or toxic.

Two guys I know have read Mark Manson's Models. One is socially awkward and obsessed. The other, while not a player, is chill, confident and successful. Same height, same ethnicity, similar upbringings, but two different outcomes lol.

The biggest player I know told me about his younger days browsing RP content on reddit. Has 50+ bodies and would bring a new woman to our hangouts like every other week. I knew someone else who was subscribed to RP back in the day and he's a loser League addict (and not even good that guys is like Silver).

The variability hypothesis is a pretty good one imo lol.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-01T16:34:38+00:00

What meals do you eat the most?

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-01T16:37:19+00:00

Today I managed to take care of myself, my apartment and my plants. Feelsgood.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-01T16:51:42+00:00

Women will go on a few dates with a guy and start telling people that they're "seeing someone" as if it's a committed relationship, she'll cut off all of her orbiters.

While the guy on the other hand will go and tell people he's still single until he specifically says that he wants to commit.

Men definitely do it better in that regard, I've never gotten why women call it so quickly.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-01T16:53:33+00:00

Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1672cxh/question_for_women_why_do_you_think_there_are_so/

HealthyDrawer7781 · 2023-09-01T16:58:49+00:00

What's something someone says from the opposite sex that makes you think "so ur just like the rest of them"?

For me: when a girl asks my height.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-01T16:59:41+00:00

Are any of you fellow PPD men attracted to strong, independent, 'I don't need a man', masculine, smart mouth, boss babes?

Maffioze · 2023-09-01T17:02:52+00:00

I keep seeing people saying that toxic masculinity is mostly created by men telling eachother to not be pussies. Is this even true?

I have just never experienced a man telling me something like that. Most man-up messages in my life came from women.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-01T17:04:45+00:00

My "ick" is women being bothered when someone uses the term "female." Like, jesus christ stfu. Can't imagine being with someone who complains about such a non-issue. It's not dehumanizing or whatever nonsense they make up for being mad at it. I pray to GOD that women irl aren't like this and it's just a reddit/online thing.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-01T17:06:50+00:00

There's nothing wrong about shy guys, hell l even l was one through my entire high-school life

It's just they can never get the favorable outcome when interacting with women they want, because a lot of women especially back when l was in school, they always want the guy who initiates a romantic/sexual connection between them

That could be flirting, going for the kiss when it seems too early, holding her in certain places

Many women want this type of guys even from watching my friends growing up be like this but unfortunately they are never honest about their attractions which leaves a lot of shy guys confused or least not knowing what to do

Shy guys are always gonna loose to guys who can evaluate sexual tension because many women just want an exciting experience

CradleCity · 2023-09-01T17:23:38+00:00

For the first time in years, a woman winked at me.

Too bad she did so while working as a cashier at a market, so, it's not like I could/would invite her out. So, I just smiled at her as a way of thanking her.

Still, gave me a boost of confidence.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-01T17:26:01+00:00

Theres nothing quite like being told that men you are genuinely attracted to on an animalistic level are just average looking, then hearing those same guys say that average men will never be lusted after.

And no I don't mean I think they have a nice personality I mean I'm instantly physically attracted to them on a primal level. I don't understand some of yall.

scwizard · 2023-09-01T17:44:42+00:00

The provisional birth rate for teenagers in 2022 was 13.5 births per 1,000 females aged 15–19, down 3% from 2021 (13.9), reaching another record low for this age group

You think the abortion bans will have an impact on the 2023 or 2024 numbers?

To have a baby in 2022 you probably had to get pregnant in 2021, and to get pregnant in 2021 you had to go outside and people weren't doing a lot of that.

But here in 2023 in Texas not only are people going outside again but you can't get an abortion anymore.

y2kjanelle · 2023-09-01T17:50:33+00:00

I think it’s weird that men scream in everyone’s face about not getting sex and then scream when they do get sex that they shouldn’t have to make their partners finish.

I literally don’t understand. What benefits would a woman ever receive in her life from being with a man who’s complaining about being single/sexless?

Like these men are literally some of the worst humans I’ve ever encountered. I would be overjoyed to hear about 1 nice thing they’ve ever done for a woman because they’re all so mean imo.

Chad has never said anything remotely comparable to what incels and Redpilled men have said. Chad is nice and funny and attractive and keeps his mean thoughts that he usually doesn’t even put in the effort to think, to himself.

Sexless men actively enjoy the suffering of others. It’s sick how they complain but treat people horribly.

But this is just my experience

go ahead and try and make me challenge what I believe but y’all better keep ur comment histories in mind 😂

According-Dinner-406 · 2023-09-01T18:11:56+00:00

Still seeing couples where the chicks a little taller.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-01T18:22:28+00:00

This encapsulates like, half the conversations I have on here:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwpEhthOFk9/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

DerayRevan · 2023-09-01T18:29:28+00:00

The whole narrative of men humping and dumping women and not committing is blatantly False

Men always commit if sex is involved

I know this because the worst types of women single moms,promiscuous and even narcissistic women, they always receive commitment from some bluepill simp

When women talk about men leaving after sex, they are literally referring to the top % of men because most men just don't have the sexual options of sleeping around whenever they feel like, that's why you've all this terrible types of women being wifed up by even top level

Like yo real talk l've seen so many rich and famous marry women who many would consider relationship material, Jake Paul is literally doing it right now

Hell even pornstars or sex workers themselves still get commitment from the men they want

So for this narrative to flying around as the gospel is blatantly false, men are always gonna commit of they know well she's my only source of sex

That's why you've all this redpill shows telling guys to stop wifing up this types of women

Thick-Passenger-2517 · 2023-09-01T18:31:25+00:00

Fuck I made a based post about how women objectify men more than the opposite but still waiting for days.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-01T18:42:30+00:00

I have a problem, and I would appreciate some advice. I am just a collection of red flags and unpopular opinions. It isn't so much that I'm contrarian, it is just that I see flaws in people's logic. I can easily suppress this and pretend I support their point of view if I feel there is something to gain, but nowadays there is nothing I want to gain from people so I just openly express how I feel. Everything is just nonsense nowadays and it's made worse by the internet allowing different factions of micro opinions to form. You can't even indicate any hint of conceding to the opposing view point or else you get labeled as supporting that view point entirely. I can't say that Trump is treated unfairly in the media without being labeled a Trump supporter. I can't say that a developed country should offer health care to it's citizens without being a communist.

A more direct example of this is that I believe that men should have a say in the abortion discussion OR they shouldn't be responsible for child support. In my view the often repeated phrase should be "your body, your choice, your responsibility" and I have not had any pro choice person point out why this makes sense. But of course I get told I'm trolling and I can't be serious.

I wish I could just dumb myself down to other people's level and base all of my political beliefs on screenshots of simplistic political tweets I've seen and off of Bo Burnham's Netflix Special.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-01T18:44:12+00:00

I think I sound really dumb when I talk. I don't sound like an intelligent person whose brain works quickly. I don't think I'm dumb, I think I'm pretty smart, I just have a slow manner of speaking and I often struggle to recall names of things even though I can remember the overarching idea of different concepts.

potoricco · 2023-09-01T18:52:30+00:00

You ever had that kind of person that basically treats you like a pet? I do and it’s soooo fucking annoying and dehumanizing

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-01T19:06:26+00:00

I often see men (only on Reddit) complaining about women not wanting anything serious. And girls just wanting to hook up right away. Are these guys for real, perhaps gay? Or trolls?

Peacesquad · 2023-09-01T19:14:42+00:00

But what did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-09-01T19:14:55+00:00

Need my weewee sucked

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-01T19:20:59+00:00

Sex in the wild vs sex in captivity? How different are they?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-01T19:26:18+00:00

What are your top five character strengths?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T19:33:22+00:00

I hate this whole “Being an asshole is better because being nice get you walked on!”

That’s not true. It’s about not being a doormat who coddles people. Because once I put on a “Im not putting up with your bullshit” attitude, the people in my social circle straightened out really quick. Most of them got better and the most annoying ones stopped talking to me. Win-win.

AlmostKindaGreat · 2023-09-01T19:35:25+00:00

I don't really believe in the wall. I think men or women can stay hot, glow up, or let themselves go. In fact, I believe men's horniness gives women a big SMV advantage from puberty until the day they die.

The only good argument for the wall is that fertility does inevitably wane. So yeah, there's a wall for women who want to have children with a man (unless they freeze their eggs or something).

But women who don't want children (or more children) will still be able to attract men for sex and relationships forever, with more or less options depending on if they stay in shape.

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-01T19:35:38+00:00

My current (second) weird smutty story is not doing as well as the previous one :/ I even made a Patreon but so far 0 subscribers there. It may still catch up over time I guess.

On the other hand, I completed my previous story months ago, and it's still getting about a hundred views every day on wattpad (a hundred in total, across 30 chapters). So I'm second guessing myself a bit. There was one guy who said that he would love to see a sequel to that first story, and I actually considered that too on my own. It would probably do better than what I'm doing now, but nah, I'm not gonna let my readers dictate my decisions. Maybe after I'm done with this story, but I will go through with it. Either way, there is hope.

But also, it's still kind of surreal to think about that I technically made a bunch of people horny, even women :P

Thick-Passenger-2517 · 2023-09-01T19:44:52+00:00

What does it say about the state of the dating landscape and gender issues in general when there are several men here who are pro everything women, blue pilled, feminist, all of it. But there is no female equivalent? Such an interesting asymmetry.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-01T19:46:03+00:00

When women here say "OMG stfu, turn gay and date men or become asexual if you're having so many issues dating" do they really mean that or is it just another way of saying fuck you? It confuses me because they seem so sincere when they say it, like you can actually become gay or something to solve your problems and I don't think I gotta explain how this makes no sense.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-01T19:58:19+00:00

Do you guys consider this subreddit gender studies?

In a way I do. And I totally mock real gender studies, the type you can get degrees in.

I just like talking about gender and gender dynamics without the inherent ideological pressure from academia.

Sometimes I think this is what gender studies should've been.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-09-01T20:04:31+00:00

I can't decide which mold to get. I like the traditional look but I think the bunnies are cute af.
1 or 2

Falling_fruit_234 · 2023-09-01T20:10:41+00:00

Hmm. Why do you need the red pill to understand women with probably low self esteem? It's not like all women make 'boyfriend' material wait and immediate sex with 'chad'. In fact, you should probably avoid women like this because it's not healthy thinking.

Or some single moms who chose to have kids with some questionable people. Like you don't have to date someone like that.

There's plenty of normal women out there, but if you treat all women like dumb objects, no women is going to date you..

meteorness123 · 2023-09-01T20:29:25+00:00

How much does the population of a city and her being known by people relative to it impact womens sexual behavior ? In my observation, women will have an interest in avoiding being known as the one who gives it up to everybody. Which is also why travelling for women is so great because what happens there,stays there

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-09-01T20:45:45+00:00

Our dryer just caught on fire. Can't have a single day off fr. Washer will probably flood labor day

DancesWithMyr · 2023-09-01T20:49:12+00:00

Yeah, this place brings out the worst in me that should really be dealt with in a therapy setting. Posting here is just picking at old wounds.

Goodbye again for probably a good long while.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T20:54:41+00:00

I still cant believe there are still guys claiming “Men are the logical gender” and all that other bullshit about men while seeing guys act like little spoiled princesses about things.

potoricco · 2023-09-01T21:06:14+00:00

Haven’t eaten since 7am

potoricco · 2023-09-01T21:07:01+00:00

What happened to the guy that was obsessed with fat women I think his name started with Automatic

potoricco · 2023-09-01T21:07:35+00:00

Lmao my schools football team is just adding anybody at this point

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-09-01T21:09:38+00:00

Going to a jazz festival thingy that Mr LoveShack is working later this afternoon. am not a huge jazz fan but I am a fan of free drinks, so off I go.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-01T21:10:25+00:00

I wonder why we talk about penis size nowadays, but almost never about vagina size.
Or why can't be as sophisticated as the Kama Sutra people 1000s of years ago and talk about penis and vagina FIT. Small for small. Large for Large, etc.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-01T21:12:42+00:00

Ok so I switched from MyFitnessPal to LoseIt. I like the macro tracking of LoseIt but it doesn't have the nutrients like MyFitnessPal does. Should I switch back to MFP or is there yet another app I can try for logging food

Maffioze · 2023-09-01T21:21:21+00:00

Having long hair as a man really makes you understand why women spend so much time on their hair. My hair has started knitting together often and it's incredibly annoying.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-01T21:28:53+00:00

Nothing says a Friday night like hanging out in the daily thread all day. 😪

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-01T21:42:24+00:00

One thing I’ve noticed is that when women are caught in hypocrisy or say something really stupid, they l’ll do this sorta cutesy feminine laugh. They immediately turn on their feminine charm to try move away from the lit hypocrisy/stupidity.

It is funny and cute but I won’t fall for that garbage.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-01T21:45:12+00:00

“Wow you’re such a NICE guy!! I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY YOURR SINGLE?!!” “Hold on guys let me ASK THE WIFE FIRST!!”

Peacesquad · 2023-09-01T21:45:19+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-09-01T21:47:14+00:00

It’s not my fault officer. That woman coerced me under duress and groomed me to commit a crime. Why do I have to be accountable for my actions?

happy_discus · 2023-09-01T21:48:11+00:00

Every time I read posts on here or any other dating subreddit I get sad. All of this advice, all of these stories of people succeeding or failing. It also makes me convinced women and men just despise each other.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-01T21:59:40+00:00

Big tits

Thoughts?

eye_fuck · 2023-09-01T22:06:26+00:00

Q4A:

Dumb big ass

wheartv · 2023-09-01T22:15:11+00:00

Feminists try to tell men how vaginas feel around penises

It is the craziest thing

They write that there is no way a guy can tell if a woman is cheating by the feel

Excuse me? Have you had a penis? Have you experienced the sensations a man feels inside a woman?

Every guy knows if you sleep with your GF 3 times in one day after being apart a few days that the second and third time feels different than the first (unless your penis is too small to stretch the muscles at all)

If you GF suddenly feels like sloppy seconds regularly, then that is a red flag

But some obese woman with purple hair will tell me “that’s not how vaginas work”

Really? The muscles don’t temporarily stretch and frequency of sex and size of the penis has no influence?

I’m glad you are so smart, you’re even an expert on penis sensation

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-01T22:20:01+00:00

Hello

I have returned

3 things

Got laid, will not be a wizard at 30. Best part is that it was purely a hookup, matched on Bumble and she said she liked my picture in the gym (shirtless). Apparently I'm pretty good at The Sex, probably can thank the TRT for that, because she wants to hook up again.
I was wrong about losing weight. It didn't actually improve my face at all (like people said it would) but I now have visible abs, apparently the difference between visible and non visible abs is about 10 pounds if you're already in shape (5'6 175 right now, did a dirty bulk to get a few lifts up so no abs, going back down though). The person I hooked up with literally gave 0 shits about what my autistic ass had to say, just liked what I looked like 🤷
Went to the rave and woke up in some random girls tent. 99% sure I got laid. Not sure it counts because I don't remember it because I was on so much coke and molly and alcohol. Like a lot of coke. Like a lot of coke. Oh my god it was a lot of coke. I love coke. Never did coke before and I just went fucking wild, off the rails. I also spilled an entire bag of molly in my pockets. I was so mad.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-01T22:32:31+00:00

How do I stop getting women infantilizing me? All my life I've never been treated like a sexual/romantic being. I don't know if it's because they sense that I'm awkward/different but I always get the feeling that women see me as kid no matter what age I am.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-01T22:43:09+00:00

Calling a team "world champions" for winning an American League is embarrassing enough. Trying to actually defend it and having the main stars of the league doing that, takes the embarrassment to a whole nother level

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-01T22:51:06+00:00

Oh one more thing before I go lift again: Women seem to really fucking like wrestling. Not the sport specifically, I mean the whole "control" thing. I've put that I wrestle (and have a picture of me wrestling) on both Bumble and Tinder and women will bring it up and be like "Do you think you could pin me" and it seems they just really really like the whole control aspect. The one girl I hooked up with I used a bunch of moves on to get her to move around to and she was like "haha yes".

Like literally picking her up and flipping her over, or putting her in some control holds where she couldn't move and she loved it, it was crazy.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-09-01T23:02:51+00:00

Of all the masculine stereotypes seems like bikers are the least appealing to women.

At a dive bar right now with some once percenters.

I’ve seen girls fawn over drug dealers, gangsters, soldiers, men in uniform, finance bros, athletes etc in this bar.

But the bikers always have the ugliest girls lol

dbz__f · 2023-09-01T23:07:34+00:00

Women, is it a turn on when a man is very intelligent and well above average IQ?

MysterySolverDog · 2023-09-01T23:15:12+00:00

Been job hopping a bit recently, haven't liked any. Decided to get some more academic qualifications on top of the ones I've already done to increase odds of actually getting the desirable ones that I will enjoy. Are women gonna think it's a red flag if I'm retreating back to academics in my mid 20s without something immediately lined up after?

I know what I'd like to use the qualification for and my mind's already made up, just wanna know how open I should be about it.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T23:19:56+00:00

It’s weird seeing people claim parents are too eager to get their kids diagnosed with something. From my experience, there’s way too many parents not willing to admit their kids should get professional help.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-01T23:20:48+00:00

I remember the beginnings of tinder and sending the same opener to like 10 women and just merely switching the name. Those were the days !

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-01T23:22:15+00:00

Guys, this is important.

What dinosaur would you choose?

Triceratops

Stegosaurus

Tyrannosaurus

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-01T23:41:48+00:00

I know a lot of my classmates used tinder when it had just released, we were 14.

gabejohn · 2023-09-01T23:50:18+00:00

I need a cigarette even though I've never smoked before.

People who smoke because they want to fit in are cringe. People who smoke because they see no way out are based.

gabejohn · 2023-09-01T23:59:45+00:00

I'm watching the Office and the actor for Ryan seems like a bad casting pick. It's obvious they wanted Michael Scott to awkwardly try and be his mentor but the actor for Ryan doesn't sell his role well. He is too old and doesn't add value to any of the scenes he is in. He should've looked like a kid who seems naive and can easily be taken advantage of. Ryan is supposed to represent "the new kid". Yet his actor doesn't have any of these qualities.

A better choice would've been Will Poutler had he not been so young in 2005. Thoughts?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-02T00:13:06+00:00

Fellas that are in our 20s with no relationship/romantic experience whatsoever, just remember don't let these people fool you that kids/teens dating is some rare thing and that you didn't miss out whenever you vent.

Your female counterparts have been getting attention from their peers since they were 11 and teens start regularly dating as early as 13. I fucking seen it all while I sat on the sidelines. Don't buy this whole "it's all awkward and messy anyways" and "relationships only last 2 seconds though" cope.

There's PLENTY of people who fondly look back on their dating experiences as a teen even if it supposedly ended badly. Don't cope and just accept we missed out.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-02T00:43:32+00:00

Consider the following: My physique is about 20 pounds off (losing weight) from being godlike.

You shall worship me when I lose that weight and then I jump on tren, gain it all back as muscle, and ascend to the heavens.

Those of you who begin worshipping me now will be spared when I bench press the earth.

old_new_age · 2023-09-02T00:49:39+00:00

all the successful/long-lasting marriages I know of are because the wife is pretty chill. yeah maybe her husband is emotionally unavailable, doesn't clean up after himself properly, etc., but she doesn't really seem to care

my advice for men: don't bother improving yourself, just find a woman with a high chill factor

potoricco · 2023-09-02T00:52:42+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/8n3wh2dqpqlb1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7aabd99428f2eb2e4184b841173c5dc96b18eb01

Probably the only face piercing I would ever get. Too bad I don’t know what it’s called. I want to be mcbling

LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-02T09:28:00+00:00

Let's say someone is early-mid 30s, but gets mistaken for being a teenager to early 20s. What age girls/women should they be going for?

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