Daily Community Chat Megathread

Peacesquad · 2022-08-23T23:06:13+00:00

Men and women handle status very differently lmao

lulll · 2022-08-23T22:59:52+00:00

all im gonna say to women is that OSHA has recommendations for vibrating tool use.

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-23T22:57:58+00:00

Vote Senator Armstrong 2024 baby!!!

edgyny · 2022-08-23T22:51:17+00:00

Okay so NPR is running this story (I think it's on the NYT The Daily) about the groups that are pushing fetal personhood laws to make abortion be homicide at conception. So that women who have an abortion would face death penalty for murder etc.

But that kind of brings me to a different question: States (particularly the States that this is bubbling inside) have Castle Doctrine laws where trespassers can be killed by landowners. How can somebody invading your body and threatening your life be less invasive than invading your home or land? If you can use deadly force to expel somebody from your house why can't you use deadly force to expell someone squatting in your uterus?

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-23T22:39:26+00:00

True Masculinity=conviction

By Bald Omni Man

https://youtu.be/p-Axdiu33KM

While I like a lot of the red pill message there are serious flaws in red pill ideology

Great youtube video that goes into what is lacking in the current red pill message regarding masculinity

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-08-23T22:37:25+00:00

Any woman I talk to on online dating, she conveniently reveals that she is just recently out of a bad relationship or she got hurt by her ex. They reveal this quite early on.

Is it best to stop talking to these women? If she says this early on, clearly she has issues that she hasn't resolved yet.

I tried dealing with a woman like this once and it was horrible. She treated me like sh*t, was very hostile, and of course withheld any sort of intimacy or sex. Can't deal with a woman who has been mentally f*cked up by another man. Maybe this was a one-off though.

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-23T22:20:37+00:00

I'll blow up my spot because I'm feeling generous.

For any of you looking to date or marry a tech guy, there's a 50/50 chance he's going to cheat on you when he travels for a conference or convention.

scwizard · 2022-08-23T22:15:35+00:00

/u/chilikettlechips why do you think a sahm should have sex with her husband if she doesn't want to? What kinda bad stuff is gonna happen to her if she doesn't?

CallMeButch87 · 2022-08-23T22:03:53+00:00

I’m inviting over an old acquaintance of mine who just came back to town and we plan on going to an bar and grill to eat some loaded nachos, play pool for a while, get a couple beers in me and when we get back home I plan on showing her the two Sjamboks I’ll be using on that ass.

Funny-Ant8077 · 2022-08-23T22:01:49+00:00

How would you feel if you dated or had sex with a transwoman or a butch lesbian? Have any of you already? How do you feel about it?

FFTzzz · 2022-08-23T21:42:44+00:00

Fuckwits with bigass ears should always be banned from all social media.

SuspiciousArdvark · 2022-08-23T21:33:54+00:00

Tibbies

chilikettlechips · 2022-08-23T21:32:43+00:00

Real pathetic post I can't link cause it's to a subreddit mods enable.

Feeling pressured for intimacy by husbandman rant 🚹

Posting on an alt since he reads my post history sometimes. This is not an abusive situation, but we are currently in a state of conflict.

We’ve been married 5 years, two toddlers. I’m a SAHM.

We’ve been having intimacy issues for a couple years and I’m having trouble understanding what is going on/how to fix it. I’m in therapy, for unrelated grief, but we discuss this as well.

Basically, sex is a major priority for husband. I enjoy it but it is not a priority. He gives the look and I pretend not to see. Then the cycle begins. He silently lumbers around with “the look” never directly asking. He will be extra nice at first, but it feels gross so I avoid, then he pouts and sulks.

This goes on until we have sex. After that, he no longer follows me around or is extra nice. He’s just a regular dude. He also doesn’t sulk, so I appreciate that at least.

I guess what bothers me the most is that when he wants sex, he’s willing to hang out and watch movies with me at night- in hopes that maybe sex will follow. But if we already had sex that day or yesterday, he’s just off to bed. It leaves me feeling cheap.

Well he’s getting a vasectomy Friday and wants sex as much as possible before then. I’ve had enough and told him how the behavior makes me feel cheap. Didn’t raise my voice or say anything nasty.

He says “well I’m just terrible I guess” and ends the conversation.

How do we fix this? I love him, he’s a good father. I just want the cycle to end.

Comments proceed to gas up the OP and then say the husband needs therapy because it's manipulation, abuse and coercion(rape). How can the low libidos that get the whole sahm provider experience be this entitled?

scwizard · 2022-08-23T21:28:49+00:00

I had a man well into college pursue me while I was still a junior/senior in high school. That man got me pregnant (which nearly killed me), raped me while I was carrying his child (which caused further issues in my pregnancy), and raped me even more trying to get me pregnant AGAIN while I was recovering from having his child (which almost certainly would have killed me and another hypothetical child). When I left him and spoke up about ALL THAT ABUSE AND RAPE he dove hard into the "false rape" narrative, and funneled ALL of both his parent's substantial money AND his own (because GOLLY - I made sure he graduated college - with two degrees, no less - and he had a good job! Not me, though!) into keeping my child from me.

I have disabilities resultant from my pregnancy. I literally cannot afford to fight this man and his parents. I haven't seen or talked to my son in 9 years because of this. It's horrific. And at least some part of the why is because a grown-ass man was allowed to date and fuck around with a high school minor. I am not exaggerating when I say this man ruined my fucking life. And he's still doing it to this day.

This girl's lived a pretty intense life...

Same girl as:

My mother kept me locked in our basement for YEARS as a sex-toy/slave for her boyfriend (later, husband).

IlIlIllIIIlllIIlIllI · 2022-08-23T21:13:30+00:00

I am F 25 and have very limited dating experience. I am shy and would like to let guys know when I am interested as I have not been approached much by the guys that I want.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wvh474/as_a_shy_woman_what_are_some_ways_of_flirting/

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-23T21:05:51+00:00

men who haven't looksmaxxed, shouldn't whine about dating.

c'mon bro!

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-23T21:02:23+00:00

Step into the PPD confession booth. I'll trade sins for sins. Share a secret, and I'll do the same.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-08-23T20:39:45+00:00

Anyone in the Portland, Oregon area and want to roll together to a strip club this weekend?

unloader71 · 2022-08-23T20:39:05+00:00

You people are unemotional.

IlIlIllIIIlllIIlIllI · 2022-08-23T20:29:35+00:00

sex with me is a privilege. Whether I give it to someone for the long-term or short-term, it should be treated as such by men

Also realized that I was using sex as a way to bring value to a relationship. I thought if I offered sex, then I was giving men what they wanted and shielded myself from them rejecting my looks or personality. In the end, the rejection was they didn’t care about my looks or personality at all.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wvs67j/test_run_in_hookup_culture_lessons_learned/

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-23T20:25:19+00:00

I don't know how you can genuinely believe Men and Women are equal whilst simultaneously believing in a patriarchy that's designed to favourably benefit Men; and that it's existed since the beginning of humanity.

GridReXX · 2022-08-23T20:20:46+00:00

Millennials who are very cavalier about not having children are in for a shock when they enter their 40s & realize life is only half over. What do you do at that point? Keep trying to be sexy & have fun? I expect to see a lot of sadness & confusion about what to do at that point. 9:05 AM · Aug 23, 2022 · Twitter

I was like okay Mr. Shane Morris has a point in there about some people not level-setting their future.

But the fact that he focused it on children and not a sense of community was my first 🚩that he was probably projecting. Well, that, and that he is attacking a group of people of no import to him unprovoked — reeks of bitter energy 🚩

Without the natural connections and belonging that literally emerge from marriage and fertility, the latter years become very cold and lonely. Those "Friendsgivings" will get old, quickly. 9:07 AM · Aug 23, 2022 · Twitter

But then his follow-up tweet proved my theory out imo. This man is likely a loser whose only “friends” and “bonds” he has he got from likely Beta Bux’ing his way into a wife who barely likes him and creating kids he probably guilts with filial duty.

But I’m also just hot-taking!

TLDR: I wanted to agree with his first tweet, but unfortunately it gave me pause. His second tweet confirmed my pause.

That__EST · 2022-08-23T20:01:55+00:00

I wonder how gender relations would change if men and women had the same general size and strength.

unloader71 · 2022-08-23T19:57:28+00:00

I am watching my college crush, the only woman I imagined as my wife, slowly turning into a rave girl.

It's like watching your family getting murdered slowly, in tears but incapable of doing anything....

scwizard · 2022-08-23T19:52:19+00:00

My mother kept me locked in our basement for YEARS as a sex-toy/slave for her boyfriend (later, husband). I still have a CNC (consensual non-consent) fetish decades later as a result of all that trauma

I also want to take a moment and note here that having a CNC fetish does NOT mean I "want to be raped" - it means I want to deconstruct and reprocess my trauma in a safer place with someone I trust, who cares about me, so that those memories hurt me less over time.

It's hard to blame girls for acting kinda crazy. If I went through this kinda shit I'd be crazy too.

I'm still kinda crazy even though my childhood was pretty normal.

rurunoa · 2022-08-23T19:35:39+00:00

Redpillers say being dominant as a woman is bad but wouldn’t dominant women be the first ones in line of women that are sexually attracted to beta males? isn’t that a good thing

Lysa_Bell · 2022-08-23T19:32:31+00:00

At this point I have no idea how a woman is supposed to look like. Guys in here rate models as 6. Women outside look very different from anything online. How is a normal woman even supposed to look like now?

Not-barry-63 · 2022-08-23T19:11:12+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/wvqf82/the_unheard_holiday_inceltines/

Which one of you did this? Jimcel?

codi_biter · 2022-08-23T19:07:52+00:00

During the talking phase with my now gf I got the opportunity to hook up with 3 women I found attractive and I turned them down because I felt like I was preemptively cheating. I regret not taking advantage of the opportunity before settling down and will now always wonder what sex with those body types and women would’ve been like. Arrgggh!!!!

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-23T19:02:06+00:00

Q4A- Would you find someone weird for being a virgin at 21?

Smoogs2 · 2022-08-23T18:53:28+00:00

Would you still date your SO if they took really good voice acting classes and then spoke like the opposite gender for the rest of their lives? Nothing else about them changes, just their voice.

Was thinking about how so obviously attracted and adherent we are to gender roles and how it’s near impossible to escape from a thread I was reading of a trans woman desperately trying to pass in order for her to become attractive. The amount of gender roles we just subconsciously adhere to whether that is a secondary characteristic of biological sex like voice tone or more obvious choice like clothing is fascinating. I think the people so vehemently against gender roles don’t realize just how much they are attracted to them themselves and exactly how much of their behavior is gendered.

IlIlIllIIIlllIIlIllI · 2022-08-23T18:49:47+00:00

I actually really admire woman. If we hadden a sudden switch of men and women's situation, I know the women would use all their manipulation, subversion, friendly, determined and most of all solitary with each other tactics.

Men would never work together towards an end goal with more or less blind trust into other men. Rather they would do the diametrical opposite. Women are superior to men in that regard.

IlIlIllIIIlllIIlIllI · 2022-08-23T18:46:46+00:00

If men had a makeup equivalent that's functional and socially accepted, do you think they would use it?

Given the general complaint about men's lack of care about themselves.

chilikettlechips · 2022-08-23T18:46:31+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/wvrito/i_had_been_chatting_with_this_girl_for_a_little/

lol rage bait. "look I need a petite girl so I can feel protective and can be masculine"

Q4W: how often have you heard a man say that to you?

over348 · 2022-08-23T18:38:23+00:00

I've been thinking about dating outside my race but ehhhhh idek

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-23T18:36:32+00:00

When black girls have their hair in those puff balls, so hot.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2022-08-23T18:35:19+00:00

Just got back from a vacation and my ear hurts like a mf

I currently have a clove of garlic stuffed in my right ear grinding my teeth, how is everybody else doing today?

AquaChip · 2022-08-23T18:27:11+00:00

I don’t know any woman who has a problem with men getting together to share stories about being unsuccessful with women or being used by women etc. But for some reason men absolutely can not share their frustrations about women without it dissolving into a “you know what, women shouldn’t have rights” shit show.

I think that’s why you see women have a sort of reflex response to male relationship discussion pages/groups/movements. It’s because 99% of those spaces are misogynistic black holes where they just cry insistently about women being “the tallest children”.

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2022-08-23T18:22:43+00:00

I’m getting my realtors license in the mail, I’m excited af.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-08-23T18:16:07+00:00

TRP’s problem is that it doesn’t teach men how to use their weaknesses/personality flaws as strengths

A lot more traits than you think can be flipped positively and used as a part of your “game”

Of course you also have to learn how to mess with niches a bit and this is assuming that you’re not ugly

AstronomerNo42 · 2022-08-23T18:13:21+00:00

Q4A would you date someone significantly less intelligent than you?

PeanutBetaAndJelly · 2022-08-24T05:21:27+00:00

My mom and I talked tn. She is blaming herself because all of her adult children have never been in a relationship. Lol my loneliness makes my mom depressed

Prestigious698 · 2022-08-23T18:12:26+00:00

Do men understand that very tight lady parts are usually a product of how much the woman is turned on and not a sign of youth/n-count?

GridReXX · 2022-08-23T23:38:17+00:00

What is it going to take for guys here to process that a women’s sexual arousal and sexual attraction is not solely based on “looks”?

The entire OP is a faulty premise. The men he’s talking about are struggling because they’re not sexually arousing, probably because they lack game, charisma, and common sense to looks-max. They don’t turn women on. No one called them “ugly.” He made that up.

Blame_the_Muse · 2022-08-24T00:34:55+00:00

This thread is weird. Do you guys think exhausted moms of 2 toddlers are aroused by just "a look" from their husbands? Especially if that husband refuses to spend time with her without sex and makes her feel unloved?

What happened to men and women being...what was that word again...different?

scwizard · 2022-08-24T04:51:47+00:00

Tate’s content included arguing that “women are the property of men”

Weird how this resonated with so many people.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-08-24T04:18:41+00:00

Results of CT scan: stage 1 polycystic kidney disease.

Prognosis: no cure, end stage kidney failure.

Cause: genetics.

Treatment: newish drug that slows down kidney dysfunction, dialysis, or kidney transplant.

I turned 38 two weeks ago and I was feeling really happy and content with my life. Wtf is happening.

I guess I should start being nicer to my relatives, I might need a kidney from one of them.

No but seriously, WTF.

-angels-fan- · 2022-08-24T04:50:49+00:00

So my boss wants to give back to the community and brought in a local charity organizer that has 5 different charities.

Two were "getting more women into college". One of those was helping women navigate applications and getting scholarships (many of which are female only scholarships). The other was some kind of outreach to rural women and helping them to go to college.

Then another was a women in business that provides women business mentors for women.

One was getting more e-sports into schools. Of course, he had to make a comment that "this is mainly male dominated, and we're trying really hard to get more girls involved"

Now... I dare all of you blue pillers to look me in the virtual face and tell me we don't live in a gynocentric society.

Women have been exceeding men in college for several years now. But don't let that get in the way of some causal sexism to help out the poor helpless women.

I was actually really happy about the e-sports thing! This seems like a fantastic way to get more boys out of their basements and social with real people.

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-23T23:34:11+00:00

“I’m ugly”

“Have you tried shower and deodorant?”

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/wvxh5y/what_can_an_ugly_average_salary_guy_do_to_still/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-24T15:15:21+00:00

I maybe in trouble, or not, I don't know. I drove a coworker home last night. She sat in the backseat like I was her Uber driver lol. She thinks I was going to do something weird to her I guess?

This morning I was making fun of her for it. I joked being offended and said, "That extra foot of distance wouldn't have stopped me anyways if I were a crazy person".

She laughed or at least pretended to. But I just made a joke about forcing myself on her. That was not great in hindsight.

I'm going to apologize and pray I don't lose my job.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-23T23:58:03+00:00

The focus on yourself and it will eventually happen advice seems stupid to me because I feel like if it was bound to happen naturally I would have just lost my virginity at the average age to lose it.

errrright · 2022-08-24T02:30:04+00:00

Q4M - would you feel more proud or threatened if other men were always checking your girlfriend/wife out?

2baloons · 2022-08-24T16:26:33+00:00

Man, the more I get to know the rest of the world, the more I love America

Still have not been able to find in my country: unscented pads. I don't want pussy to smell like chemical flowers, thanks.

AquaChip · 2022-08-24T18:01:19+00:00

Meh, student loan forgiveness would be cool but I won’t be mad if we don’t get it. Y’all know what it means when you take out a LOAN, right? It means you have to pay it back. You knew that when you signed on the dotted line.

VirtualRow4074 · 2022-08-24T00:00:12+00:00

I think the ultimate betrayal is someone cheating & having a baby outside of a relationship idk if you are a man or a woman if you ever take back or forgive some one who had a whole baby on you you’re the ultimate sucker , simp , & dummy. Men who cheat & have babies outside of a relationship & women who do the same & commit paternity fraud deserve to be scorned like how heartless can you be.

daniiiuiiil · 2022-08-24T01:16:36+00:00

“Men tell me they have a girlfriend/wife without me asking

Whenever I end up in a conversation with a man (platonic), whether they initiated the conversation or not, they tell me they are taken. Basically they will say oh my girlfriend blah blah blah or my wife has blah blah blah. Ive noticed this in the workplace especially, I was a supervisor and was trying to get to know everyone. The men just assume I'm hitting on them? I'm not flirty. To me this is basic human decency. To just say hi how are you nice to meet you. This man started a conversation with me the other day, I thought he "might" be interested so I continued it...for him to Say his wife has a hard time with him being gone so long. Like clockwork. 👍”

so wait, you’re having a “friendly convo” but get mad if the dude brings up his SO? sounds super nice guys to me…

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-24T11:19:59+00:00

Calling yourself (or even worse your kid) non binary is a surefire way of telling people you're a crazy person

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-24T18:49:58+00:00

I hope y’all don’t get loan forgiveness. I got a full ride scholarship, let me have one of the few advantages in life for once.

2baloons · 2022-08-24T00:00:19+00:00

TIL my neighbor murdered two people

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2022-08-24T01:20:08+00:00

all men want is a kim wexler but all women can give is a skylar white

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-08-24T06:04:45+00:00

The idea that women like to be chased is dumb. Everyone likes to be chased. Who doesn't like effortless validation and attention.

purplish_possum · 2022-08-24T14:56:46+00:00

My 13-year-old daughter who looks quite a bit older starts high school this morning. What could possibly go wrong?

lulll · 2022-08-24T15:27:49+00:00

It's raining men, hallelujah, it's raining men, amen

I'm gonna go out to run and let myself get

Absolutely soaking wet

It's raining men, hallelujah

It's raining men, every specimen

Tall, blonde, dark and lean

Rough and tough and strong and mean

please stop objectifying tall, blonde, dark, rough, tough, strong, lean, and mean men

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-08-24T17:32:51+00:00

u/Willow-girl

Look what I found on a hiking trail

growandappear · 2022-08-23T23:27:01+00:00

Emma Watson was a real 1 for introducing the term "self-partnered" lol

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-23T23:51:45+00:00

r/r4r is weird to me because why would you want to be friends with a redditor

Willow-girl · 2022-08-24T03:43:19+00:00

It was my good fortune that the dumpster at work was full tonight, so someone left a wooden table beside it rather than chucking it in. It was upside-down and the "Lane" stamp on the bottom caught my eye. I flipped it over and found a nice MCM piece with tasteful, understated inlays. The top is badly scratched and I'm not sure I can work the scratches out without blasting through the veneer, but I guess it's worth a shot as I found one just like it (albeit in better condition) listed on eBay for $294. My lucky day!

Edited to add: just found a pair on Etsy for $1,485! https://www.etsy.com/listing/1277184876/vintage-mid-century-modern-lane-acclaim?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=lane+acclaim+table&ref=sr_gallery-1-2&frs=1&sts=1

One man's trash truly is another's treasure ...

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-08-24T03:59:07+00:00

Tate farewell message timestamps in the comments

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-08-24T05:03:48+00:00

Really off topic but I feel very lost rn and need to scream into a void that is all

some-retarded-douche · 2022-08-24T07:44:04+00:00

i like men

edgyny · 2022-08-24T11:55:03+00:00

Top comment after a day on that post in the other nameless sub about the guy who is only nice when he's horny:

Have you tried being blunt as fuck? Men are dense. They need bullet points. Like dude, you’re not terrible except when you act like this. I’m trying to communicate that you’re only nice to me when you want to fuck and I want you to be nice to me all the time. Don’t bribe me with kindness for a bone, be nice to me all the time and you might get more bones.

My husband does this kinda. After we have sex he is nicer and super attentive for a couple days. To the point I can make sure to fuck him when I need something fixed in the house. When we lack sex he gets distant. At least he doesn’t do it in reverse where he’s nice beforehand as that would make me angry lien it does to you, he’s literally the opposite of your husband.

See, this is pretty on point. They've got it all backwards. Similarly I find my wife gets cranky when I don't fuck her enough and is super sweet for the next few days after sex.

But I think it's somewhat of a trap. If you're not fucking enough it gets into a deathspiral. Sometimes you just have to fuck it out for a bit to reset.

EulenWatcher · 2022-08-24T13:56:54+00:00

A doctor sharing some of her patients' experiences. Abortion bans kill.

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-08-24T14:55:38+00:00

Imma get hate for this but I am stressed and confused. Slept over a guys house we had sex 4 times. I trust him sexually so I thought it wasn’t a big deal. The next morning he doesn’t make breakfast and we don’t eat until 5pm (I felt weird and rude trying to cook in his own kitchen) then makes roasting comments about how we could’ve had a cute romantic date and makes me feel bad after he drives me around and points out places where he has had sex with other women. Then I say to him after sex, something nice along the lines of how I am happy I came over and he just mentions how he’s happy we made this pizza together to get the recipe. And I say really, did you say that, and he says how of course he is glad I came over cause my dick is in his hand.

just purely sounds like this dude has continually not liked me at ALL. I’m really not being satisfied here and he is barely lifting a finger and he says these wacky comments where I just don’t know how to reply. Yet in the middle of sex he asks me if I am enjoying myself ( like mid moan) and I say yes of course (Wtf). Not looking for answers. I just wanted to rant into a void, cause now I feel slightly dumb at how I thought he liked me a lil bit at least. But I think he just views me as a fuck buddy. The bar is so low😭

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-24T17:46:37+00:00

Say what you want about Andrew Tate but he has donated millions more to domestic violence shelters then his haters

urbangoth · 2022-08-23T23:27:12+00:00

My coworker might have to put her diabetic cat to sleep and she said, "My mother in law says you shouldn't have pets if you can't afford them, but you could say the same thing about kids!"

Yes. You can say that about kids. People do. I do. I'm baffled by how she thought this was a justification for struggling to accept she should put her suffering animal down instead of complaining about not being able to afford his cat insulin. She's still has another cat and a dog. I am frequently astounded by her selfishness and obliviousness but this one takes the cake (so far).

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-24T00:26:46+00:00

If she is the only source of your happiness, Then she will become the main source of your pain.

Not because she wants to, but because this is nature’s way of correcting what’s wrong with you.

2baloons · 2022-08-24T00:32:09+00:00

I... I just got blocked for indirectly telling a PPD user I didn't wanna fuck them

Egos be fragile

ExcelAcolyte · 2022-08-24T01:27:25+00:00

Anyone have tips for moving to a new city? Im moving to Austin for work in a couple weeks and am hoping to use it as an excuse to do a mid year self refresh

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-24T02:08:36+00:00

The more I red pill and PUA stuff the more I realize that this is all just basic social skills. In hindsight I do a lot of this stuff unconsciously(at least when I take adderall or drink) So it makes me curious why people hate this stuff so much, because it just seems like teaching people with bad social skills how to talk to woman

CallMeButch87 · 2022-08-24T02:26:20+00:00

I’m only going to commit to a woman who doesn’t want marriage if I commit at all.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-08-24T11:02:07+00:00

I would watch MTV Cribs growing up and whenever the celebrity would get to their bedroom they would point at the bed and say something like

“Yeah this is where the magic happens” 😆

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-08-24T11:43:49+00:00

Swear down my physical development is like 5 years behind. I looked about 18 when I was 23.

It's starting to pay off now that I'm 29 though, let's just pray that I don't go through that 30s collapse.

Willow-girl · 2022-08-24T13:15:55+00:00

Update on the table: I think the scratches are gonna be too deep to sand out. It will probably end up being a classy piece of firewood, lol.

errrright · 2022-08-24T13:25:15+00:00

Q4A - what void are you filling by being on PPD?

Cjaylyle · 2022-08-24T13:49:40+00:00

Your direct female twin genetic equivalint is more attractive than you, a lot of men don't get this....

Let's do a little thought experiment.

You take a embryo and clone it, EXACTLY, besides the sex. This produces two people, one man, one woman.

Let's have the woman's fully grown description first.

She's average height for a woman. 5 foot 5 or 4 or whatever. She's of healthy body fat. She's not athletic or muscular, she doesn't work out, but doesn't eat much. She's got a standard head of hair. She doesn't have a particularly remarkable face, structurally, softish features but not ugly or unsymmetrical. She's got standard sizes breasts and proportions.

So we have a 5 foot 5 girl with hair, a NPC face, standard softish features, normal sized breasts and she's thin.

Envision her....

MOST men would find her at least passingly attractive. And a little bit of make up and a nice outfit, she's starting to look hot to most.

Lets take her clone.

Average height. So 5 foot 9. So already in that awkward zone of "is he short?...I guess not...but he's definitely not tall..." Head of hair. Well, as a man, especially dating age, all that does is not make him instantly unattractive. Like his clone he's healthy weight, but also like her he's not athletic or muscular...so just an almost short kinda softish body.... His features aren't remarkable either way, like his clone. Kinda soft, no definition...so almost unnoticeable...not really "masculine"

So to women of dating age, this guy is totally unremarkable. He is shorter than 50 percent of her dating pool. His face is blah and his body is beaten by any man who has been in the gym for 6 months.

This man is totally unremarkable. He is essentially bearing no actively attractive quality, physically.

Most women don't find him attractive to look at.

Men HAVE to be MORE sexually dymorphic. They NEED STAND OUT qualities to hit ANY attractive "beat" with a woman. They need to be above average in some way to register as attractive AT ALL physically. So you place a remarkable face, or an amazing body, on that female clone of his, and now she's naturally just HOT.

So my point is, moaning and crying unfairness over women not being attracted to or dating their "looksmatch" is pointless and makes no sense. "Looksmatch" doesn't matter, attractiveness does, which is why fundementally women are more attractive than men as a whole, as an "average" woman is MORE attractive to men then her male clone is to women.

Fair or not, that's just the reality.

script_eater · 2022-08-24T14:41:01+00:00

After trying everything and going through all pills. I can honestly that dressing well, having a career, haircut, working out etc will increase your chances with women negligibly (in terms of genuine attraction). These will only help you when the woman already has some sort of interest in you already. What women will pay most attention to is your face, height and may just maybe your common hobbies. Your best chance at attracting women is to meet as many as possible. Online dating and cold approaching (although irl cold approach is better) will have the odds stacked against you. Your best chance is social group game (just be cool, well presented and wait for the woman to start showing signs of attraction) and luck (just coincidentally having opportunities to interact with women). Cold approach is next best if you can handle the rejection and know how to pick a target. It has to feel almost organic that you’re meeting her which is harder than it seems to pull off. You also just have to get lucky that the woman you’re interested in is single at that particular moment. If she is it could be because she is extremely picky or has something else going on. Either way your chances aren’t looking too good. Point is. It’s dependent on luck with luck being a function of how many women you meet (you nerds will get it).

Peacesquad · 2022-08-24T14:43:53+00:00

What’s up purple party people?!

Slipthe · 2022-08-24T16:33:37+00:00

I'm gonna say something controversial:

I've never been to Disneyworld.

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-08-24T16:50:04+00:00

I “ghosted” a guy on a dating app because I just suck and didn’t feel like responding. I just messaged him today after 2 months, I gave him my number in the messaged and told him he should text me. I hope he responds…

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-24T19:06:23+00:00

Romania is a terrible country filled with deplorable people. When I visited for vacation, u/Apprehensive_Cut_146 and her husband screamed "Glory to Andrew Tate" before violently assaulting me and robbing me of my personal belongings. And if that wasn't enough, she kicked me one last time before whispering in my ear, "Welcome to Romania, gringo".

Mods, suffice it to say, I think you should ban her.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-08-25T13:30:17+00:00

Can confirm Romania is a terrible country filled with deplorable people.

I saw their president, Klaus Iohannis, at a grocery store in Bucharest one time. I told him how cool it was to meet him in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything. He said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?” I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but he kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing his hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard him chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw him trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen ROMs in his hands without paying. The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like “Sir, you need to pay for those first.” At first he kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter. When she took one of the bars and started scanning it multiple times, he stopped her and told her to scan them each individually “to prevent any electrical infetterence,” and then turned around and winked at me. I don’t even think that’s a word. After she scanned each bar and put them in a bag and started to say the price, he kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly.

What an awful place.

rurunoa · 2022-08-23T18:08:33+00:00

i skipped school today and it was a good decision tomorrow ill go to school free from anxiety and stress

labormarket · 2022-08-23T23:28:33+00:00

Captain Sinbad’s content is based without being clownish like Tate or roosh, why hasn’t he blown up?

Is it due to race?

He’s a lot better looking guy than Tate or roosh.

Snoo_16536 · 2022-08-23T23:36:49+00:00

PPD posters I’d love to fuck; I’ll start,

u/houstongradengineer (the tension between us would lead to some nasty, hate sex)

u/Aquachip (we would be one of the shallowest couple around but I’ll bang her just to hear her call me “daddy “)

u/figuringMylife (explanation not needed)

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-08-23T23:39:53+00:00

Do '' CHAD'' types (ugh I hate that term) tend to be bluepilled?

Brethren_of_Purity · 2022-08-23T23:44:02+00:00

Saw an extremely handsome middle eastern looking man today. Well dressed and tall too. Everybody around him took a double take when he walked by.

He was hand in hand with a 5/10 asian girl. She was cute and fashionable but he was clearly out of her league. How do redpill and incel types make sense of relationships like this? I thought chads only pump and dump average girls and have soft harems?

labormarket · 2022-08-23T23:45:07+00:00

How will 18% inflation in the uk change the marketplace dynamics there?

Fat_Papaya · 2022-08-24T00:37:23+00:00

How do you guys deal with your demoralization? It all seems so hopeless when it comes to dating and relationships. I don't want to give up just yet, at least I don't think so, but I know that once I start trying, that it's going to be an absolutely horrible experience and I'm going to be made to feel worthless by however many women. Its a bit hard to admit, but it's inevitable haha

scwizard · 2022-08-24T00:53:09+00:00

Are guys entitled for thinking their wives should have sex with them just cause they ask nicely, and they shouldn't have to seduce their wives?

Or a girls entitled for being homemarkers who don't have sex with their husbands, because they aren't interested in doing so?

Joelypoely88 · 2022-08-24T03:12:09+00:00

The word 'dehumanising' is confusing, though maybe I take it too literally. It seems impossible to remove a person's humanity even if you are much more interested in them sexually than their personality. Even 'objectifying' someone does not seem to be dehumanising them as you are appreciating their humanlike beauty.

RentedPineapple · 2022-08-24T12:02:37+00:00

Some men here will find this thread useful: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/wvxh5y/what_can_an_ugly_average_salary_guy_do_to_still/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb

tinasnow-poty · 2022-08-24T14:19:44+00:00

This has tickled me

https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/wqglgc/is_fixing_a_landwhale_a_good_idea_landwhalemaxxing/ikmt1pk/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

-angels-fan- · 2022-08-24T14:39:40+00:00

I love my unicorn wife, but one thing she does that drives me up the wall is when brushing her teeth, she doesn't run the water when she spits, so there's just this glob of toothpastey spit sitting in the sink.

How hard is it to rinse that down??

TastyCucurbits · 2022-08-24T15:14:25+00:00

So many PPD posters will scream 'just world fallacy!' at any attempt to make them reconcile their views of the world with their own shortcomings.

I propose that a new explanation is needed for this behaviour: the Unjust World Fallacy - a fallacy which operates by presuming that things which happen to the person are always unjust, and never or rarely a result of the actions or inaction of that person.

Discuss.

Fat_Papaya · 2022-08-24T15:29:52+00:00

This damn sub feeds my addiction of arguing with people, I can't stop 😭😭😭

I keep putting out bait to see if I can trigger people but you assholes smartened up to my tricks 😭😭😭

labormarket · 2022-08-24T16:28:34+00:00

tate's facial aesthetics are really poor, he has no hair, and being of mixed race, it's clear why he leaned heavily into red pill thought.

there's a reason why tate, roosh, hamza, sinbad all come from different angles of the manosphere in different degrees.

you can't be blue pilled (unless you are super rich) and and have conventional market success in the west with the demographic those four are from.

chilikettlechips · 2022-08-24T16:47:04+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/Whatcouldgowrong/comments/wwi5dv/wcgw_catching_a_fish/

Every man's biggest, "what if" fear come true.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-08-24T18:21:07+00:00

While I think no-fault divorce should be legal, I don't like the mentality behind it. Divorce should have a very high thresold. ''I'm bored by you '' or ''we are growing apart'' isn't really a good excuse.

Here are good reasons for divorce:

Infidelity

Abuse

Neglect of familial duties

Deception

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ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-24T00:37:56+00:00

Question for the ladies here:

Scenario A.) Your partner introduces you to a new drinking buddy of his who’s younger, prettier, and bustier than you and an all around 9/10. He claims he feels nothing romantic towards her, but she’s oddly fond of your partner and flirts openly with him in front of you.

Scenario B.) Your partner introduces you to his work wife. She’s slightly less physically attractive than you are, but his eyes light up when he speaks of her and they seem to share more interests and understand eachother better than even you do.

Which one of these scenarios is more threatening to you and why?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-24T00:56:37+00:00

My pussy isn't tight enough

Q4W - Would you wear a pussy tightening device if your man hinted you were too loose for him?

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2022-08-24T03:04:56+00:00

just laying here after jerking off 6 times today listening to the super mario world ending theme trying to fall asleep.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=waKumDkYrDY

Gaycunt453 · 2022-08-24T09:56:55+00:00

Lookspill mfs coping and seething when they see Pete Davidson banging girls way rich and more attractive then him.

Further seething when they see Salim from the nelk boys hooking up with some of the world’s most famous influencers

Tramelo · 2022-08-24T10:33:51+00:00

Q4All, is this guy really that attractive?

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-08-24T11:29:16+00:00

Someone on the best sex post said that a man having experience prior to meeting you is going to be irrelevant 15 years in with them. And I understand that logic cause in those years they would have taken the time to get to know your body and would become your best sex even if they weren’t in the beginning.

That being said, I value a man who has significant experience under his belt prior to meeting me.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-24T13:59:33+00:00

Alrighty, fresh from PPD jail again. Before I go back to bitching about FOMO, I wanna just make a few comments from my observation since I couldn't comment on any posts.

PPD jail had to been lit yestetday, bc I know there had to be ppl who ended up there for the same reason I was. It would be funny to see the average number per day (I would say an average of 3).
Although I don't believe TRP 100%, I will say it has allowed me to be more focused in self improvement. Looking back at when I was around 19 years old, I made a lot of rookie mistakes and it took me years to figure out how to get on track. I wish TRP was as mainstream back then as it is today, because I definitely would've been better off than I am now. Someone said in the thread that its better to have a plan than none at all. Back then I didn't have a plan, and just thought things would just happen if women were interested. Decades later, I have a plan.

1a. I've been lurking on the RPW sub recently. I will say that its a good thing that those women are aware of what kind of behavior they need to focus on. That said, I would say 60% of the women there seemed to have been on the right path from the start. 40% of them are something like "I have an n-count thats twice my age, but I want to be a good wife someday. I'll just go into nun mode and hope that I can find a HVM and make him wait because I'm more or less damaged. Oh yeah, I can't cook for shit either." At least they are aware and know where they stand.

I always believed that whenever you hear feminists say that AF/BB and TRP are toxic ¡n$€! stuff and entitlement, that they are triggered because they know its talking about them whether past or present. Also, women know they are more selective than men when it comes to casual or LTR, but will shame you for calling them out on it .
Men wouldn't trip about n-count if the average one had close to the same number as the average woman.
I think lesbians are the most red pilled in the LGBT+ community.
Speaking of lesbians, I slept with one shortly after graduating college. She could have been a shorter version of Brittany Griner. I will say I was surprised how her appearance went from masculine to feminine instantaneously. Also, I have slept with the other one that was mentioned when I was between the ages of 18~20.
Women on PPD: My SO's dick is not perfect but good enough for me.
Women on PPD: The bar is set higher for FWB than for LTR.
I wouldn't care if you were checking out my SO, but I would buy you a round if you have the balls to step to her whenever I'm around lol.
A SAHM is a hell no for me. Most SAHM are not active and obese. The military likes to promote SAHM especially when the family is overseas, like here in Korea. I see so many fat wives on this base, I'm surprised their husbands don't have a Korean or Filipino side chick who is younger and more attractive out somewhere.
Women gatekeep sex and men gatekeep relationships. Whenever one doesn't get from the other is when they become jaded. Men become jaded because of the lack of attention they get from women in their life, while women become jaded because of their poor choices.
If a woman (or man) tries to Madonna Whore Complex you in a relationship, I already told you what to do to fix that problem (go behind their back and have your own fun). Two wrongs can make a right here in my eyes.
Because I fall in love so easily (or confuse it with lust, idk), someone I would enjoy would be someone I would want to marry almost immediately.
Women who want children have a problem of having them out of wedlock. Its more common in the west but they do that bullshit in the east too. If a wife says she doesn't want kids but already has them before you met, its disrespectful asf and shows that she only values you for resources. Pure BB there.

jackedsoon · 2022-08-24T14:21:03+00:00

Q4A: straight guy lets a short, small dick guy fuck his wife for a bit.

is he a cuck, yes or no

_mwk · 2022-08-24T14:21:21+00:00

what do you look out for when visiting an appartement to rent?? i know the obvious stuff but i just know i won’t notice something that will come back to haunt me later

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-08-24T14:40:58+00:00

I posted a question on xxfitness. It's advertised as a female fitness sub but it does say all genders are welcome to post. I asked a polite question, wasn't rude, and immediately one user told me I "shouldn't invade this sub" because it's "not for me". Basically I got met with hostility. My post got downvoted a lot for no reason.

It's been like that on other female dominated subs too. When they find out you're male, no matter how polite you are, you get met with bitterness and vitriol.

Has anyone found this to be the case? It's strange, because the main fitness and bodybuilding subreddits, which are male dominated, there are many men who rush to the protection of women if they are criticized in any way. They try to make that subreddit as inclusive and friendly to women as possible. On female dominated subs, women will never do the same for men.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-08-24T15:19:00+00:00

Talking to people who want student loan forgiveness, they’re very similar to incels and radfems in that they have no sympathy for others, but expect everyone else to coddle their asses.

Why I say this? Whenever I asked those people about the responsible adults who paid off their debt, the response is “They get nothing”.

If you don't care about other people's plights, stop expecting people to give a shit about yours.

2baloons · 2022-08-24T15:27:21+00:00

Q4W

sad boy vibes are more attractive than hot boy vibes. Yes or no?

baresquad · 2022-08-24T17:41:00+00:00

She sent him a pic of her sucking dick

What the fuck has people so afraid to trust their gut/judgment, question everything about themselves, and do what they feel is best for them? I really can’t fathom stewing in so much confusion over somebody that I know I don’t want to be with

They’re casual which makes it make even less sense to me. Are people just trying their hardest to make every single connection work?

Peacesquad · 2022-08-24T18:56:14+00:00

Q4W—why do you think a lot of married women or women in committed serious relationships still post their bodies all over the internet, mainly Instagram?

ririsbaby · 2022-08-24T19:42:50+00:00

I’m not American but this loan forgiveness discourse is interesting. Let me give you my unsolicited opinion on it. I don’t think loan forgiveness should happen. I don’t think it’d be fair to people who got scholarships, paid off their loans, made responsible financial choices instead of taking out a loan etc. You chose to take out a loan, now pay it. The government should make the education free for the next generation of students though.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-08-24T14:54:42+00:00

How much have you guys spend on dates for your date?

As a guy so far I've never paid for anything for my date, refuse based on principle. I don't care if she is offended, equality goes both ways and it helps ward off gold diggers / entitled people. Rather be single.

Funny enough I had a date buy me coffee once and had another buy me a beer 😁. Both unexpected

some-retarded-douche · 2022-08-24T15:25:44+00:00

The US government did 9/11.

Sandy Hook was a hoax.

Islam is right about women.

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