Daily Community Chat Megathread

VirtualRow4074 · 2022-10-04T12:40:34+00:00

It’s always funny when men talk about the good old days I’m always like have y’all actually sat down and talked with older women from previous generations about their lives and the decisions that they had to make. I volunteer at nursing homes the amount of women who told me they wish they could have divorced their husbands earlier due to unhappy marriage circumstances such as cheating , abuse , or neglect never fails to shock me. I’ve talked to women who were widows who told me that even though they might have loved their husbands they would never choose marriage again or some who were straight up relieved the man died. My own grandmother who was married for 50 years said she loved my grandfather but would never have married as young as she did and almost left the man early in the marriage. A lot of previous generations of women were simply tolerating a lot of men due to societal circumstances at the time why would anyone want to go back to a time where people are forced to tolerate you. A lot of older women have told me not to rush into marriage & that if they could do life all over again they would have made more times for their dreams and goals before starting a family & this was from older women who were still even married at the time.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T15:14:53+00:00

I can't believe how many men base their worldview on dating and women around what intentionally inflammatory people say and do on social media. Your idea of women stems from TikTok and Twitter provocateurs 🤦

tinasnow-poty · 2022-10-04T21:02:39+00:00

Some of the n count numbers women pull out for their arguments are ridiculous 😭 okay if a guy is shaming a girl whose slept with 3 people we can agree that’s probably a bit of insecurity or jealousy. But EIGHTY?? Bitch I’m shaming her too

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-10-04T13:27:26+00:00

I always find it telling and hilarious when guys here will get in a hump over women suggesting that a lot of men are shit in bed...

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-10-04T10:47:15+00:00

Getting my angry man hat on here - I hate it when women online try to justify the idea that men should pay for dates. Like if you want that traditional aspect of dating, just say that. People may disagree with you and think you're hypocritical if you don't follow other traditional gender roles, but at the end of the day it's your call and your life. Trying to use ridiculous arguments to justify it seems so disingenuous.

"Whoever asks for the date should pay!"

Of course it's just a coincidence that it's almost always the man who has to ask for a date...

"I paid money on clothes and make up to look pretty for the date, hence the guy should pay."

...what? Where does the line stop? If you were really interested in a guy in part because he's a great musician, should all the money on lessons and instruments count towards who pays for the date? Men spend money on clothes too, should the guy not pay for a date because he has a sick watch? Or expensive shoes? It's a bafflingly terrible argument.

I'm just so glad I'm in a country where it's very much normal to go Dutch 😅

HeartCatchHana · 2022-10-04T18:33:54+00:00

Sometimes I wish I had a typical orientation but when I see all the bs and drama that comes with dating on here it makes me glad I'm not typical.

Also I never understood why some people make dating so complicated. I remember when I was 12 I would watch mgtow/mra videos. The men complained about modern western women. None of the stuff they complained about fits me. I've dated two men in the past and we rarely got into arguments. Mra/mgtow/pua/incel types think all women are naggy shallow cunts that only want men for resources.

poppy_blu · 2022-10-04T19:51:19+00:00

Hard truth: if you care more about forcing people to accept your views on n count than you do your actual sex life/the person you are actually fucking, you’re losing the game and so badly you ought to be suspended from the league.

17milestoempty · 2022-10-04T20:32:17+00:00

I’ll say it for the people who are apparently confused, a woman wearing a low cut shirt or leggings is not “advertising herself sexually.”

Women are allowed to wear clothing that they like and are comfortable in, even if YOU think that clothing is “sexy.” It isn’t for you.

Wearing clothes that closely fit their body does not mean they’re in heat begging for a mate.

It is not an invitation to sexually harass her.

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-04T16:23:31+00:00

How some of you care enough to write essays in the daily chat is beyond me

HeartCatchHana · 2022-10-04T18:04:31+00:00

Men hit the wall at 25

GridReXX · 2022-10-04T13:45:43+00:00

I’ve been hearing and reading the reactions to the recent professional poker scandal. I watched the video with Garrett and Robbi and read her thread about how he threatened her in the hallway.

I don’t have a replete understanding of professional poker, but I understand game theory and humans.

So it’s been interesting to see so many people believe the only answer to her winning that hand is cheating.

I also believe he reacted like an aggressive punkass puerile child.

This person’s thread is how I read the situation.

Importing a former life for a moment..

This televised poker hand has been a discourse mill for the last three days. I'm honestly baffled by how many pros think cheating is likely here. I'm 95% on this being legitimate, just an outlier case of fancy play syndrome

People get flustered! They act on impulse then narrativize after the fact!

Calling a shove on the turn with J high no draw is weird but absolutely in the range of what a human would do. I've played in similar hands.

The cheating explanation has the additional burden of explaining why she chose this horrible spot to realize her edge. Yes, blatant cheats like this -do- happen, because players act incomprehensibly, which itself is justification enough for this hand going down like it did

There are dozens of likelier explanations. She was dead set on the 87 soul read. She literally forgot this was the turn. If you're nervous you can conjure up elaborately flimsy reasoning — even using the language of sound theory — that just evaporates in the heat of the moment

And by evaporate I mean even inside her own head, ten seconds later. You can literally forget the rationale you brownian motioned into to make the play. That's happened to me. People pointing to holes in her story after the fact are missing this huge point.

(This is called acting on intuition. She also states in the linked video that she’s done this to him before. Her unconscious read his tells which made her feel comfortable enough to even entertain the play she did.)

There's a delicate dance of performative skill happening all the time at the table, exaggerated even more since poker became televised, and it affects how you think, how you present yourself, what you say when confronted over how you played a hand...

...your words aren't a console readout of your thoughts. There are layers of social performance here. (it's part of what makes live play so interesting!)

Another guy replied to the first tweets in his thread with:

the best explanation i have read is that she thought she had J3 and forgot she had J4. otherwise very little of this makes sense to me. sure maybe you think he’s bluffing but you don’t call if you can’t beat the bluff!

To which the thread owner suggests to read his whole thread.

It does seem that the poker world over-indexes on people with very black and white thinking. Which is why their first and only hypothesis when a play like that happens is cheating or at most gracious, incompetence. Which of course are possibilities, but it’s interesting to me that the possibilities in the thread don’t cross their mind at all.

Another person replied to his thread with the following takes, which I also agree with.

I honestly think this was a heat of the moment "fuck it, we ball" decision that she lucked out on. And when you make such decisions, your brain tends to scramble for any retroactive rationalization - especially when you're televised and thus feel the need to posture.

No televised poker player wants to say "yeah I just acted without thinking and lucked out" on camera, in front if fellow players and god knows how many watchers - they got an image of a calculating professional to maintain.

baresquad · 2022-10-04T17:24:39+00:00

Why don’t men who struggle shift 100% of their focus on aspiring tradwives? With as popular it’s becoming I gotta imagine they’re not hard to find on dating apps or in person.

Focusing so much on the women who “only go for certain types of men” or have drastically different morales and lifestyles from you when there’s so many women available who conform to your standards makes it seem like those men either feign for acceptance from the women they hate or want to be like the me who date and fuck those women.

redditcleanslate · 2022-10-05T22:00:38+00:00

It's crazy to see some people in good faith dealing with people that are clearly weaponizing the subreddit and admin functions in order to remove people from the platform.

I don't envy the mods for having to deal with it.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-10-04T11:36:43+00:00

women's expectations arent really all that high

example: your parents

Libah05 · 2022-10-04T11:50:25+00:00

I still can’t get over my date yesterday. There was no fucking, no kissing, minimal handholding but a very good and entertaining conversation. I think I’ve friend zoned myself. I’ve never felt like this before.

JoeRMD77 · 2022-10-04T12:07:04+00:00

I meet women through a couple online platforms and sometimes they're married. This one married woman is 5'7 and her husband is 5'3. She showed me a picture of them and it's kind of jarring but I can tell she really doesn't care about looks or she wouldn't be with this guy.

Apparently she took fancy to his writing and that's what hooked her.

You multiply women like her and you realize there's probably 15 to 20% of women who really just do not care about looks at all. They'll date men who are shorter, fatter, whatever.

Some of these women have hearts of gold. Completely opposite of their femcel counterparts who only want to simp for a Man based off his physical attractiveness.

It's no surprise this woman is taken.

2baloons · 2022-10-04T15:50:23+00:00

"That’s just the world we live in, unfortunately. Even with glowing reviews, great Rotten Tomatoes scores, an A CinemaScore etc, straight people, especially in certain parts of the country, just didn’t show up for Bros. And that’s disappointing but it is what it is."

"Everyone who ISN'T a homophobic weirdo should go see BROS tonight! You will have a blast! And it is special and uniquely powerful to see this particular story on a big screen, esp for queer folks who don't get this opportunity often."

Quote from the director of the movie Bros, a gay rom-com.

Apparently not wanting to consume gay content now makes you a homophobic weirdo.

Talk about moving the goalposts. It used to be about having equal rights and treating everyone with respect. Now, it's about actively participating in and praising their bullshit.

GridReXX · 2022-10-04T16:11:43+00:00

All else equal, a man of average height and an average face and a medium physique is not going to have the same experience as a 6’1 broad-shouldered man with an above-average face.

All else equal, a man of below average height and a below average face and a slight physique is not going to have the same experience as a man of average height and an average face and a medium physique.

All else equal, a woman with a manly broad build, a non-ideal WHR, and a plain face isn’t going to have the same experience as a woman with a feminine slight build, an ideal WHR, and a beautiful face.

This isn’t “black pill” insight. This is common sense to the masses.

When it comes to attracting others, the only thing these people can do is “count it all joy,” lean into niche-maxxing (everyone else calls this getting in where you fit in) hone their skills of perception/intuition, and optimize mutable characteristics where and when they can.

chattanoogacat · 2022-10-04T16:41:41+00:00

Like him or not I respect the fact that Kanye has reached a point that he can do anything and not be canceled. The pinnacle of what every artist should strive for.

He’s never gonna be “over with” until he’s dead

jackedsoon · 2022-10-04T16:46:30+00:00

a guy i mentioned here a few times whos 6'5 goodlooking and white, said to me 'why is it always guys sayin im goodlooking but not the girls'. he has a valid point tbh, cuz i can relate a lot. was only told by male friends i was attractive but never women until i interacted with them and they told me or made it known they found me attractive.

his problem is mostly being antisocial and incredibly awkward. but still i wouldve expected girls to tell him hes attractive because he objectively is. why are women so stingy with compliments

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-10-04T17:56:53+00:00

If I’ve given a bj to a guy, I slept with him too. Why are people having oral sex and not just going all the way?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T18:53:09+00:00

I grew out my mustache for the first time in my life and I look like a pedophile's apprentice 💀 Looks like a strip of tape that got pulled off the carpet smh

biggestuzifanea · 2022-10-04T20:08:32+00:00

People that say people aren't having kids because it's expensive can't explain why the poorest places can have a ton and still survive

17milestoempty · 2022-10-04T21:28:55+00:00

I like when disgruntled men block me & the trash takes itself out.

scwizard · 2022-10-04T21:42:43+00:00

Do you think 10 years from now it'll be much more common to realize your mom did onlyfans?

Some of those girls on r/pregnantgonewild have three or four kids and are still making content.

Mydragonurdungeon · 2022-10-04T22:09:14+00:00

My thoughts on the supposed male entitlement of men saying women should want their looksmatch.

Men and women differ greatly it would seem to me in their capacity to view the world as an ordered place, and valuing that order as a source of peace.

Women seem to not care for order nearly as much especially if they view it as a threat to the way they want to behave or somehow disadvantageous.

Look at society, we created order from the chaos that was our tenuous place in the food chain and in relation to nature.

We bent these things to our will because men abhor chaos and love order and objectively they are correct, as order is better than disorder by every objective measurement.

Two family homes are better in terms of measurable stats for the married and the children of the married.

Number one indicator of criminality and poverty in children and adults is being the child of a single mother.

And the worst part is that nobody is happier. Not men, not children, not women themselves most importantly.

Nobody will argue that this current system is better from a place of logic.It is not entitled to long for order in chaos. Order benefits everyone demonstrably.

What I would argue is entitlement is the perpetuation and defense of a system of chaos that degrades happiness and prosperity for all in return for fleeting tingles that don't even effect or even negatively effect your own happiness in the long term.

lulll · 2022-10-04T11:07:42+00:00

the internet is in decline

stronk men create good internet, good internet create weak people, weak people create bad internet

lostwanderer28 · 2022-10-04T11:56:47+00:00

Is this Red Pill, Black Pill or MGTOW in a nutshell?

As someone who is still a virgin at 28 and was super frustrated until recently, it still made me laugh positively haha.

On that note, I don't think today's mating problems are women's fault. The actual problem is that especially women got brainwashed into desiring and consuming rather short lived and unimportant materialstic things. Not every women of course, but a majority got brainwashed into forgetting their own superior biology.

Of course, this is not one sided. As long as men rather want lots of casual sex instead of an actual solid life long lasting relationship, I honestly don't see much changing lol.

JohnDoe_Rip · 2022-10-04T12:21:24+00:00

I wonder how many women secretly hate their husbands.

dbz19_kai · 2022-10-04T12:24:57+00:00

Men should casually bring up topics like alimony to their partner. Not like an interrogation, but just casually like "did you hear about ____, hahah". The way she responds could be very telling. If she vigorously and unambiguously defends it, you know what her stance on the issue is, and watch out. My take would be any woman who defends alimony is 100% not marriage material, not even remotely.

social_mule · 2022-10-04T13:06:38+00:00

I have a question about going Dutch. In the United States we call it going Dutch when the man pays for his meal and the woman pays for hers. What is this called in the Netherlands? Certainly Dutch people don't call it going Dutch. Do they call it going Japanese?

Asking for myself.

empresa_josefina · 2022-10-04T13:36:55+00:00

I understand that incel content is banned (if you’re not 6ft Chad, it’s over, cope cope). However is blackpill content also banned (looks are 80% of the equation, work on your looks, looks looks looks)? Do the mods distinguish between the two?

TheKarmicWoosh2 · 2022-10-04T14:09:41+00:00

Most days I sleep better on 3 hours of sleep vs 8 hours of sleep. Sleep disorders are so stupid

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T14:26:55+00:00

It's a godsend that Chads tend to have bare ass personalities because it makes them so easy to mog in a social setting

AquaChip · 2022-10-04T14:27:51+00:00

Good morning 😌

Peacesquad · 2022-10-04T14:37:19+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/UZiuPZIqkg0 😂😂😂😂

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-10-04T14:54:35+00:00

Are water signs more likely to be incels? Women avoid Pisces men like the plague. Should men start hiding their birthdays (or tell girls they're Leo or something) to get laid????

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-04T15:13:41+00:00

big mistake I made was thinking that owning a house would help be more attractive to women.

Its not.

It still helped me preserve my net worth because my house is up 30% since I bought it and all the stocks/cryptos I sold to buy it are down 70-80% in just over a year.

but as far as helping with women its not very effective

Willow-girl · 2022-10-04T15:15:39+00:00

Agatha's favorite toy is a raccoon tail that came off a fake coonskin cap that we used to put on Hector. Imgur At some point the hat must have fallen off Hector and the cats detached the tail. Sometimes she carries it around the house in her mouth. Quite often in the morning, we find it drowned in the cats' water bowl. This morning, when I found it in their food dish, I wondered if perhaps she is trying to feed it and give it a drink of water?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-10-04T15:36:24+00:00

CMV: Eating pussy (where other dicks have been) is cucking

lulll · 2022-10-04T15:38:57+00:00

but why?

LaloTwins · 2022-10-04T16:06:22+00:00

Damn I missed Mean Girls day

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-10-04T16:32:38+00:00

Q4W: What’s preventing you from looking like this

gastongang · 2022-10-04T17:04:55+00:00

men, it's not your fault that society failed you, at an early, they age they drowned you in frivolous bullshit, and never gave you the guidance you needed to develop into a strong man

WHAT IS YOUR FAULT, IS KNOWING ALL THIS AND DOING NOTHING TO SELF-IMPROVE

TheKarmicWoosh2 · 2022-10-04T17:04:58+00:00

If the average woman could outpower the average man how would that change society? Let's assume same builds and size too, we don't live in Amazon world, just now but Women are magically stronger.

You know now that I think about it I don't think the average woman has a natural "simp" instinct for the average man the same way dudes have for girls so I wonder if that changes things too.

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-10-04T17:11:24+00:00

Harly Quinn animated series taking a note from PPD.

https://imgur.com/a/MoRWZEm

Edit: it gets funnier https://imgur.com/a/n8nvrh6

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T17:47:52+00:00

Men who are in their late 20's or older and still pining for virgins are pathetic. You missed that boat 10+ years ago, let it go. Either stop being a puritan and pursue casual sex or marry a woman and be the branch she grabbed before she hit the ground.

Katatonicsnake · 2022-10-04T18:23:15+00:00

I’m so glad I didn’t get what I wanted in my teens and early 20s. Being single nowadays sounds horrible.

RahLyt · 2022-10-04T18:53:51+00:00

What's these entitlement thing that every men supposedly feel towards women?

QuenchlessGato · 2022-10-04T18:54:27+00:00

Q4W: Do you think ordinary men (i.e. those not in show business or TV) should wear makeup? I don't mean drag clown makeup, but the "no makeup" makeup to cover imperfections or adjust some things? What would be your reaction if you went on a date with a man and saw this stuff on his face? Do you think this should remain a woman-only thing?

tinasnow-poty · 2022-10-04T19:03:51+00:00

“Bars/clubs are skew heavily male” y/n?? Seen this a couple times and can’t say it makes any sense to me. Since when do young women not like to party

gastongang · 2022-10-04T19:05:47+00:00

Hungarian peptide abuser: I'm LGTOW(lifter going there own way)

stacy: oh that's cool, I'm gonna go spot chad now byeee

hungarian peptide abuser: You'll be sorry one day Stacy, when the times, and they come for our research chemicals Chad won't be able to protect from the anti-lifter globalist deep state,

truly a tragic tale showing how deep the anti-lifter sentiment across the globe is

(all of this was stolen from a variety of posts by Dark_Iron_Gains on Instagram I have never had an original thought in my life)

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-10-04T19:27:56+00:00

Hitting a massive depression wall and unsure how to move forward. Anyone got tips?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T19:37:48+00:00

How do I become a PPD legend that people will talk about 5 years from now. I have nothing else going on in life so this is all I got goddamnit

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-04T19:59:57+00:00

Q4All That Have Done FWBs: Good idea or bad idea?

2baloons · 2022-10-04T20:15:11+00:00

I have a "round two" interview tomorrow. Never done one of these before. Are they different from round ones?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-10-04T20:35:42+00:00

"In a West End town in a dead in world, the East End boys and the West End girls, West, End, girls..."

nothatyoucare · 2022-10-04T21:01:47+00:00

"Post your evidence"

posts a load of evidence

"I don't like your evidence."

Meanwhile has posted NO EVIDENCE to back up their views or claims.

gastongang · 2022-10-04T22:02:24+00:00

Harvey Weinstein, Epstein, Bill Cosby, and Dan Schneider were such open secrets it's crazy, if you go back and watch celebrity interviews, "comedic" roasts, oscar speeches, and "jokes" in tv shows, they are just straight up publicly airing all of this dirty laundry for decades, but everyone just brushed it off as humor, they made it so obvious it's like they were not even trying to hide it, hell as a 15 year old I had theories about Dan Schneider years before he got busted

(seriously google Seth Macfarlane's oscar speech, 30 rock Cosby roasts, etc)

Patrickstarho · 2022-10-04T22:08:31+00:00

Doing no porn for the month of October and this sucks. I didn’t realize how much dopamine comes from masturbating to porn.

Like I masturbated yesterday to my imagination but it didn’t hit like when I watch porn. A lot harder than I thought it would be real talk

2baloons · 2022-10-04T22:37:03+00:00

Anyone else masturbate to zero sexual thoughts?

Like, just turn on some music and clear your mind

2022-10-05T15:47:47+00:00

What was this subreddit’s best year?

dbz19_kai · 2022-10-05T09:08:47+00:00

Women and men should stop trying to convince each other of each other’s opinions. They’re never gonna agree. Too many differences in life experiences, wants, desires, plus the advanced rivalry. You’re not gonna convince each other. Just live your life.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-05T08:46:24+00:00

So I heard from a friend about what a mutual friend said about me after we went out.

Apparently the reason she told our friend she didn't want to see me again was because I "catfished" her.

Supposedly my voice doesn't match how I look, apparently I'm not hot enough to have a deep voice according to her.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-10-05T08:32:16+00:00

There's a 50 year old woman at work who you can tell was the hot but crazy girl back in the day... It's hot.

dbz19_kai · 2022-10-05T08:26:20+00:00

The Other Guys makes fun of husbands who’s wives did kinky stuff with past boyfriends but not with them. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XPV8F48TLJA

ririsbaby · 2022-10-05T07:46:19+00:00

Q4M: What would you think if a girl started a conversation with you and complimented your outfit?

gastongang · 2022-10-05T07:45:32+00:00

90 percent of arguments on PPD would be finished if everyone just fucking read this

https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/men-are-no-longer-lovers-or-fighters-so-what-are-they

VirtualRow4074 · 2022-10-05T07:19:27+00:00

What is even considered high maintenance like it differs person to person some people genuinely are high maintenance then some people think that having any modicum of standards is high maintenance.

gastongang · 2022-10-05T07:10:16+00:00

I want to join an MMA gym so bad, but lifting is my first love, and I definitely cannot afford a commercial gym membership on top of an MMA gym

gastongang · 2022-10-05T07:04:56+00:00

weebs who don't train for something are a complete fucking disgrace to the anime community, how on earth do you watch all this awesome inspiring cool shit and not get the urge to train

slayerfreiza666 · 2022-10-05T06:36:53+00:00

Lol nothing like getting flaked on last min

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-05T06:18:26+00:00

Guys, we have to start supporting our femboy homies.

This will assist in 2 major aspects of the dating market:

More hot femboys means more competition for women for the remaining men. Its like artificially creating a higher ratio of women to men which benefits men.
More femboys also means less men to compete with because those guys are trying to be women. This also leads to a better female to male ratio in favor of men.

We need to get a hashtag going like #StartingMyFemboyJourney and getting more guys to become femboys.

Solving world problems with big brain ideas. Thank me later.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-10-05T06:15:42+00:00

is it just me or are men the ones looking for a relationship and women looking for sex. like women think they want a relationship and men think they want sex but its actually the opposite. men logically should want a relationship over sex because the standard for the girl they can get would be higher and a relationship means consistent access to sex. where as women prefer sleeping around because it allows them access to higher quality men than they could normally get. thoughts?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-10-05T06:15:05+00:00

People easily become resentful when they try so hard for any kind of relationship for years only to fail. More often when men are resentful, they cheat the first opportunity any woman throws herself at him. Whenever you hear stories about most husbands cheating, their underlying reason stems from it.

Whenever women are resentful, they rather be alone and claim all men are bad. Although they control the selection process whenever it comes to dating, their failures come from the other person refusing to meet their needs.

If you understand the root cause of people being resentful, then you can understand why they behave the way they behave.

kljcfg · 2022-10-05T05:26:29+00:00

Jordan Peterson has got it wrong when he tells these "incels" that they have to be aware of their capacity to do "evil." What most of them lack, I think is to do "good" things and be appreciated for it.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-05T05:16:03+00:00

Rate this man

https://yt3.ggpht.com/ytc/AMLnZu_KdWn5E1AAnzjF_sSrUKnw7HbLAiivr3Vg8JYs2A=s900-c-k-c0x00ffffff-no-rj

https://barbarapijan.com/bpa/Scientist\_Philosopher/TolleEckhart\_with\_mittie.jpg

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-05T05:10:57+00:00

Alright, who had money on Tom Brady getting divorced again besides me?

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CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-10-04T10:00:48+00:00

Hey you.

Yeah, you.

Guess what I am.

Katatonicsnake · 2022-10-04T10:08:06+00:00

How would you define intuition and do you trust yours?

Fat_Papaya · 2022-10-04T10:51:33+00:00

I think I got COVID for the third time haha fuck this

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-04T11:18:57+00:00

Wow so one of my best friends is mad at me because I called her new fuckbuddy a "slender man looking ass" (dude's tall and lanky af)

I'd understand if it was her actual boyfriend, but they're just fucking, why you so mad over a little joke about him?

enten_24 · 2022-10-04T11:38:17+00:00

Question for everyone

What do you think a relationship with the average PPD woman is like? I’d personally imagine it would be a deadbedroom with a high n-count and bitchy woman but what do I know.

JoeRMD77 · 2022-10-04T11:57:00+00:00

I seen a spoof video on the whole no fap thing by cer spence. Men really think they have anything to gain by abstaining from masturbation?

Apparently they do and there's entire subreddits dedicated to it lol. It's kind of comical if you read it.

It's like these men aren't getting sex already and now they want to stop jerking off too. Just cut your penis off. No one wants it and you don't want to touch it either.

JoeRMD77 · 2022-10-04T12:19:26+00:00

Speaking of tall men, every 7-ft oaf I see is never with a woman. They almost look as sad as a 5'6 guy.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-10-04T12:40:29+00:00

Q4w - do you believe there is a such thing as a LVW?

teball3 · 2022-10-04T12:40:48+00:00

Q4W: What do you think of Chaucer's wife of bath tale? Is it old Misogynistic BS, or surprisingly progressive for it's time? Why?

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2022-10-04T12:49:49+00:00

romania

chilikettlechips · 2022-10-04T13:14:07+00:00

Q4W: how many women you know living that Kim life of getting the "yep yep yep" pipe and the most they can connect with their lover is "miracle whip vs mayonnaise"?

LaloTwins · 2022-10-04T13:28:46+00:00

In my experience >50% of pussies smell too bad to go down on

Peacesquad · 2022-10-04T14:37:30+00:00

What’s the update

enterthevoid999 · 2022-10-04T15:06:31+00:00

women hate if men judge them based on age because it ruins their whole strategy of playing the waiting game with dating.

enterthevoid999 · 2022-10-04T15:14:41+00:00

why is it that if i say i want a virgin people will say its about sex but if i say i want to date a whore i'm met with crickets? can people actually think that wanting to date a virgin and not a whore could possibly be about sex? lol

TheGoldenChampion · 2022-10-04T15:21:39+00:00

BASED SOUTH KOREA LETS GO, STILL A CAPITALIST HELLHOLE, BUT DAMN I WANT THAT

CanOfWoody · 2022-10-04T15:51:13+00:00

Hate so much how resturants be skimping so much on bread with dishes that go with bread.

Like: heres a dish that reasonably would use 5+ pieces of bread. Heres 2 pieces.

Inb4 "just ask for more"

Not the mf point it should be the default 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

CanOfWoody · 2022-10-04T16:10:41+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/xvfnd1/theres_a_lot_to_unpack_here/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

🙏

rivetcitymayor · 2022-10-04T16:36:43+00:00

most men been known the way they look will have the most impact on their dating life when it comes to who THEY wanna date unless they got money or status but as soon as it’s said …

Here goes the comments about how they know this ugly guy who gets the attractive women by being funny or charismatic living in a cardboard box etc lmao

geyges1 · 2022-10-04T17:43:05+00:00

There's a lot of bashing of black pill today.

It's fine if you reject causal determinism. That's you rejecting science, that's fine. People are not easily separated from their delusions.

What's more hypocritical is saying shit like: "it's not interesting", "it's boring", "not worth talking about", "everyone knows this". So why don't you talk about things you want to talk about? Who's stopping you?

Just be honest, your entire insight into dating struggles of men is "try harder, incel". And the reason you're saying this is only because you're here to displace and transfer your anger onto other people because of your own failures in life.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-04T18:08:22+00:00

Man, Jay Z is one ugly motherfucker.

Still top 5 though.

nothatyoucare · 2022-10-04T18:29:50+00:00

I made this in reply to someone but then I added some quotes from a study to give it more substance and felt it worthy to be its own top level comment.

The importance of stimulating demand helps resolve a seeming paradox that has spawned a long, ideologically complicated debate. Feminists have long objected to the fact that women who wear sexy clothes sometimes become the targets of male harassment (or worse). They assert that women should be permitted to dress however they please without attracting unwelcome male attention.

"Women should be permitted to dress however they please without attracting unwelcome attention." No one gets this privilege that women want. No one is able to dress however they want and be free consequence. That's the main issue. Women want a privilege or right that other members of society don't get.

Opponents point out that wearing sexually revealing or enticing clothes convey an impression that men reasonably misperceive as indicating that she is sexually available. After all, they say, why dress in such a sexually revealing fashion if she does not want to attract sexual attention?

This issue in a nutshell.

The social exchange analysis makes it understandable that it is fully rational for a woman to seek to stimulate more male desire than she wishes to satisfy. By analogy, a house seller may want to have many different interested parties to bid up the price even though he or she ultimately can only sell a given house to one person.

Ok but this is like getting pissed off perspective buyers coming to check out the house you advertised.

If men could be brought to understand this, they might recognize that a woman may dress in a sexy manner without it meaning that she wants to have sex with all of them or even with any particular one of them. Given her role in the sexual marketplace, she will rationally seek to get many men to desire her, but she does not want to have sex with most of them.

Ok but then women need to understand that they are advertising themselves sexually and if their advertisement works that's on them.

NOTE: I'M NOT SAYING A WOMAN WAS "ASKING FOR IT" WHEN IT COMES TO SEXUAL ASSAULT OR RAPE. SO MISS ME WITH THAT BULLSHIT STRAWMAN.

Edit: If men dressed like this, they'd get looks and reactions too. But women feel like they should be able to do this and only have the men they deem worthy notice. Delusional. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RgHKUgWfGGU - Colbert talking about butt-crack leggins https://imgur.com/7S356dj https://imgur.com/pvO2fYj https://imgur.com/SwH6oEv

PROOF that if men do this they also get attention: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY - and his pants waaayy looser https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/202wd3/i_participated_in_one_of_the_biggest_magic_the/ - instead of sexual attention these guys were mocked. So still attention, just the type is different.

Slipthe · 2022-10-04T18:53:50+00:00

PC or Console?

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-04T18:54:04+00:00

Q4A What age would you like to die? 65 is good for me personally

AquaChip · 2022-10-04T19:53:56+00:00

Can someone explain to me the Dream situation and why people are allegedly unstanning because he’s ugly?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-10-04T20:05:00+00:00

It’s next to impossible to even get into a damn toothpaste commercial much less be an actor or actress in a movie or tv show lol

I wonder how many people move to LA with hopes and dreams of being the next Jennifer Lawrence or Leonardo DiCaprio finding within the first 5 mins I have no chance. You thought you’re the only cute 19 year old woman who wants to be an actress? They got them by the thousands already born there.

This is why I was always fascinated about those stories of people whose parents moved them there as a child to get on the industry. That takes a huge leap of faith

daniiiuiiil · 2022-10-04T20:16:06+00:00

what are the social and political implications of dream holding his face at a 45 degree angle from the screen for his entire face reveal

-mixedsignals · 2022-10-04T20:55:50+00:00

I like Vaush, he's so calm

People call him saying "I love you I want to debate you 🤍"

gastongang · 2022-10-04T22:03:27+00:00

Mark my words, the Dress Ritual, and all the other stuff that comes along with it will be the new Weinstein scandal

-mixedsignals · 2022-10-04T22:13:43+00:00

What do you say to your friend who has cancer and it's the first time you are going to see them bald?

I don't want to be condescending "it looks good" or "it'll grow back"

what tf people say? "that sucks" "you look like professor Xavier" ?

Fat_Papaya · 2022-10-04T22:47:46+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8_6OfqcfLHc

How accurate is that video? Share your opinions haha

lostwanderer28 · 2022-10-04T12:17:42+00:00

What goes through people's minds calling Jordan Peterson an incel?

Let's look at it neutrally. That guy is married, and that since 1989, he is literally a non-incel.

It is like me calling a triangle a square. Both are two different things.

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-10-04T13:16:48+00:00

At least I didn’t fuck the campus murderer like one of my groupmates…

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-10-04T21:05:40+00:00

Poll: What is your n count this year?

Mine is 6

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T21:07:44+00:00

I looked up the "worst" attachment styles are and fearful-avoidant describes me to a T oh god im toxic

kljcfg · 2022-10-05T05:10:16+00:00

CMV: A man should not marry a woman if she is not willing to have anal sex with him.

She had anal sex with other guys before, but now she doesn't do it because that she is not comfortable. Well, being in a committed relationship is about Love and compromise.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-10-05T05:09:48+00:00

ladies for real tho why does it upset u so much when men care about n-count? like i dont get it. ill see women who say they have really low n-counts or even are virgins get mad at this standard and it just doesnt make sense to me. whats so bad about men preferring lower n count women? especially if ur a low n-count woman urself this should be good news.

nothatyoucare · 2022-10-05T04:22:50+00:00

Men cheat, men's fault. Women cheat, men's fault. https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/comments/xvr21u/this_damn_near_made_me_delete_the_app/

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-10-05T04:13:42+00:00

considering most women in this group when asked said they had a low or average bodycount why do the women here care so much about men's preference for lower n count women?

betterevery · 2022-10-05T04:11:33+00:00

My dad always liked my sister more than me. As an adult, when men prefer other women over me I get upset and I think that’s the reason why. Like even if it’s men I would never date or even care about, I feel this kind of upset-ness. Guys that I am not even interested, if they are not single and they show interest in me, I feel so great even though I am not truly attracted to them.

nothatyoucare · 2022-10-05T03:59:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/xvp86h/everybody_lies/ - straight into my veins

RegTextoffender · 2022-10-05T03:46:17+00:00

So it is being reported that Musk has actually bought Twitter for realzees this time. This was fun originally but I'm too burned out to laugh.

poppy_blu · 2022-10-05T03:37:13+00:00

I love putting extroverts in their place when they start mischaracterizing and disparaging introverts. This guy was a young wokester too. Like oh OK “let’s celebrate differences!!!!’” doesn’t apply to introverts?

So,

Introverts — what drives you crazy about extroverts?

Extroverts (who i suspect there are few of here) what drives you crazy about introverts?

Those in the middle, how often do you wanna smack em both?

empresa_josefina · 2022-10-04T16:48:19+00:00

PSA to all the ladies and to Lift-and-Lurk:

Just because a guy on PPD uses analytical language to discuss dating doesn’t mean he’s an autist or uses manosphere lingo in real life. Analytical language on PPD is intended to cover nuanced and complex topics as efficiently as possible.

“Chad doesn’t need to BB to get post-wall Stacy” conveys a message that would take paragraphs to explain to a layperson.

prettymuchredpilled · 2022-10-04T17:32:52+00:00

Do people not consider a blowjob to be sex? In my view, if a girl has sucked a dick before then she's no longer a virgin in my eyes.

HeartCatchHana · 2022-10-04T18:01:40+00:00

Kissless virgin

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-04T18:26:20+00:00

mgtow gets a lot of hate but in reality lots of people are going their own way.

in this new era of the world having a partner isn't the asset it used to be and for many is instead a liability.

ririsbaby · 2022-10-04T19:39:14+00:00

How to show a guy you’re interested in him so he gets the hint?

AquaChip · 2022-10-04T20:18:48+00:00

Q4SexlessDatelessMen: Why don’t you try Rent-A-Girlfriend websites? They aren’t illegal and you can get practice on how to interact with women before putting yourself out there.

gastongang · 2022-10-04T23:03:53+00:00

Q4All

Rate my childhood fictional crush

https://imgur.com/a/Nq28l1j

as you can tell you I like the stoic (at least not needlessly emotional) type

edit: probably also why I think girls with big foreheads are cute

meteorness123 · 2022-10-05T03:34:53+00:00

There's little things more fun than to give a woman that "I'm gonna fuck you" look and her smitten eyes going like "Oh shit, he's right. I'm probably gonna fuck him. "

SmoOoothModerator · 2022-10-05T02:54:53+00:00

Of course nerds can only refer to Online Dating apps. It’s their only experience of ‘dating’ and therefore their only source of data.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-05T02:52:09+00:00

Women will choose a dominant man over a pretty man.

2baloons · 2022-10-05T02:45:30+00:00

Q4A

Do you feel you were pushed into career when all you wanted was family?

I hear this being said a lot more about women, but I hear men express the sentiment more often online and irl.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-10-05T02:26:24+00:00

Thoughts on this thread? I must say that I’m surprised a lot of the comments were agreeing/sympathizing with the guy. Thought it’d have a more Split reaction.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-05T02:20:09+00:00

I'll never understand the people who get too scared to voice their opinions here despite their "I'm hard and based and so Red Pill/Black Pill zero fucks given" personas. Everyone is politically incorrect until it's time to be politically incorrect.

No-Regular1667 · 2022-10-05T02:17:53+00:00

What does it mean if someone says a guy has an "incel face"? Is that just a synonym for ugly or is there more to it?

CouldYouExplainMore · 2022-10-05T02:15:21+00:00

When she shows you her fortified basement you know she's the one

Patrickstarho · 2022-10-05T02:11:07+00:00

Should i go to sexaholics anonymous meeting to get laid? Is this morally wrong?

gastongang · 2022-10-05T01:41:47+00:00

a woman who wants you to cry in front of her, to show her your emotional weaknesses, is a woman who wants to use those weaknesses against you to destroy you

meteorness123 · 2022-10-05T01:31:48+00:00

Women in their thirties are hornier than women in her twenties.

WHY, I ASK

nothatyoucare · 2022-10-05T01:29:04+00:00

u/LadyofTheGreyPath Here is a video of two people skating https://imgur.com/a/DVZbVQo

TheKarmicWoosh2 · 2022-10-05T01:18:03+00:00

"Social Media Game" wasn't a thing when I was a freshman in college. You actually could go out and talk to people and mostly everyone was receptive and not on their phones vibing on a night out. If you wanted to meet someone you had to leave your room, you had to find a group or make new friends.

Now I got buddies buying 10k instagram followers, photoshopping supercars, and using facetune to get clout on instagram and sliding into DM's. It does work, but holy fucking crap we really are in the 21st century now. I keep saying this, online platforms are the new bars, it's not dating apps. With enough clout you don't need to swipe. The DM's come to you.

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-05T00:54:35+00:00

Men aren’t supposed to say:

”It’s giving ___’’

or

”Not___😭”

those are very feminine sayings, it sounds very sus whenever a guy says those things

meteorness123 · 2022-10-05T00:28:49+00:00

"A woman does not want the truth; what is truth to women? From the beginning, nothing has been more alien, repugnant, and hostile to woman than the truth - her great art is the lie, her highest concern is mere appearance and beauty."

Rate this quote.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-10-05T00:17:01+00:00

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thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-10-04T23:55:27+00:00

One of my friends is at the absolute peak of Down Bad right now over a girl who doesn't like him all that much; efforts to snap him out of it have been unsuccessful so far. Send thoughts and prayers!

Edit: Speaking of which, tell me about the worst case of down bad y'all have seen in someone else (or yourself, maybe). I could use a laugh.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-04T23:53:49+00:00

Messed up is what Dua Lipa would be after a night with me.

lulll · 2022-10-04T23:47:10+00:00

like really?

biggestuzifanea · 2022-10-04T23:30:17+00:00

https://twitter.com/evellynnncc/status/1577135153259782144?t=NNTtOioK5nP9QKReltQWug&s=19

Short kings fuming rn

gastongang · 2022-10-04T23:27:50+00:00

and it is quite a sad thing but if you get two with equivalent looks and status, and one of them is a horrible misogynist who treats women badly, the misogynist will be far romantically successful because there will always there be girls with daddy issues who are addicted to men who treat them badly, while the dude who did nothing wrong beyond just being unattractive will, and treated women with kindness and respect will remain alone

although to be fair the toxic man has no chance of ever having a real healthy relationship with women,but he will still be better off then the non-toxic man at least he has something

(this is assuming that they are both ugly and unattractive and neither of them stand a chance of self-improvement due to magic)

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-10-04T12:50:58+00:00

It’s crazy When you think your first GF got that fire box u till you sleep with other girls and realize it was eh. It’s like burger king, you are a kid and thought the whopper was the best burger ever. Then you go to legit burger spots or a great diner and it’s like damn the whopper is mediocre at best. Same thing with the idea of love, I thought I was in love with my first GF but I was just in lust, she was cute had nice titties and put out lol. This is the first relationship where I feel I’m actually with my best friend instead of a girl I like and lets me pipe everyday.

It reminds me of an interview with Jay z from the late 90’s and they asked him has he ever been in love. He was like nah, I’ve loved aspects of individual women I’ve dealt with but I never felt in love like I couldn’t be without any individual woman

meteorness123 · 2022-10-04T16:57:32+00:00

Something I don't understand. Some married folks help me out here. People complain about the decline in sex after marriage and attribute some obscure reasons to it. But decline in sex is normal because of age and having kids/responsibilities. It's inevitable. Even in ltr, sexual novetly goes away. How is this supposed to be shocking ?

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-10-04T18:01:20+00:00

Do people still not realize that BLM was a scam?

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-04T19:36:53+00:00

Everyone's worried about getting laid, getting married, or having some sort of intimate connection and my biggest concern in life is making sure my dad is comfortable when he retires and comfortable at my place now while he recovers.

RahLyt · 2022-10-04T22:06:31+00:00

For the women saying N count doesn't matter. Would you date a Bi guy who has a body count of 35 (he got fucked) that's now ready for a exclusive relationship with you? He's a perfect guy on paper.

scwizard · 2022-10-04T22:26:04+00:00

The things men will talk about with other men when it's only men in the room, and they believe every man just agrees with them automatically is literally disgusting. I've heard just about every vile opinion on women you can think of. From being undeserving of basic rights, to expecting servitude and ownership. This is of course not every guy, but fuck me if it isn't so so many of them.

Why is it so common for guys to believe women shouldn't have rights and that they should be property?

HeartCatchHana · 2022-10-04T23:20:03+00:00

Q4ALL Sexiest western cartoon character?

AdditionalPrice7336 · 2022-10-04T23:14:22+00:00

who else writes poems?

Infammo · 2022-10-04T23:11:07+00:00

Despite my skeptical disposition and critical thought process, astrology is a constant guilty pleasure.

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-10-04T23:10:53+00:00

How serious do you guys view religion? Like are you looking for someone with like minded faith?

I could never date someone who attends Church every Sunday, unless he is ok with me not attending.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-04T23:05:23+00:00

Rate this line :

My dick is an acronym because it stands for you.

errrright · 2022-10-04T15:58:55+00:00

Just thinking about how funny I am and how my bf probably never laughed before he met me, that's so sad.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T16:11:34+00:00

I feel like half the time people are asking for help, they just want to explain why your advice won't work 😒

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T17:23:01+00:00

If I bring chocolate syrup and whip cream to bed and sprinkle rose petals around the room that's arousing right

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-10-04T18:02:53+00:00

Men who are panicking about their sexlessness need to relax. It just takes time for her circumstances to match your looks. It'll happen eventually.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-10-04T19:01:35+00:00

Q4RP Men/Men That Come Across As RP/BP: How should women dress to avoid getting harassed or raped? I want to hear your expert opinions on how women should dress so men don't think stepping out of the house is an invitation for sexual attention. I figured you'd have a wide range of ideas and opinions to share on this subject that you'll be happy to provide.

RegTextoffender · 2022-10-04T23:04:19+00:00

Women: We aren't sex objects for your gaze!

Also women : 365000 new breast augmentations in 2021.

Discuss.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-04T14:29:02+00:00

Update on the situation with my friend earlier, she went and unadded me.

Wow, really shows how much our friendship meant if a little joke pushed her to unadd me.

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