Daily Community Chat Megathread

jobbo321 · 2023-07-31T10:25:57+00:00

Women be like "Stop trying so hard to impress women!" and then take 30 minutes to 1 hour out of their day to put put on make-up and do their hair.

4SSh01e · 2023-07-31T07:47:42+00:00

I think the lagbtqia2s thing is getting unwieldy and frankly ridiculous. They could adopt something simple like Non-Standard Sexuality (NSS) and stop being clowns.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-31T07:27:17+00:00

ANY MAN WITH BIGGER BOOBS THAN ME IS GOING STRAIIIIIIIIGHT INTO THE DUMPSTER. I BET NONE OF YALL WILL ADMIT TO BEIN A FAT GUY.

scwizard · 2023-07-31T06:52:03+00:00

So that documentary about the lady who ran an Underground Railroad of sorts for children of sex abuse. The statistics were shocking, and I thought I was well informed. These cases are like never prosecuted. If the divorcing mothers bring it up, they can have their custody removed.

Wtf?

Is that really how that works?

scwizard · 2023-07-31T06:20:48+00:00

Still thinking about that cult leader who convinced women that getting his initials branded on their thigh made them empowered badass warrior bitches.

scwizard · 2023-07-31T06:15:36+00:00

How common do you think it is for a girl to want to become a housewife? It seems super rare.

purplish_possum · 2023-07-31T05:47:24+00:00

Small towns are petty AF. Swung by my office on my way home to pick up files for tomorrow morning -- a local police sergeant trolled me in a police report he knew I'd be reading.

AbdelBoudria · 2023-07-31T04:57:19+00:00

Sadly, only the top 20% of men can experience true love.

The rest of us get the cheap version and other nothing.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-31T04:07:19+00:00

Q4A: State your age, gender, and your level of experience with twerking

22, M, bad at twerking although I tried to do it in private before out of curiosity

eye_fuck · 2023-07-31T04:04:39+00:00

What way of men finishing you think is superior and you prefer:

On face
In mouth
in mouth, swallowing
Deep in throat
On clothes
On hair
On eyes

HolidayWhile · 2023-07-31T03:33:03+00:00

How exactly does one steer a conversation from business-like and innocuous to suggesting a more personal, permanent connection?

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MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-07-30T07:02:35+00:00

First!

Ylduts · 2023-07-30T07:12:52+00:00

Women have unlimited options from 18-25. They are encouraged to explore options to find out what they like and don’t like. Most men don’t get to explore options until late 20’s to early 30’s. Why can’t men explore options and find out what they like or don’t like?

TheArchmaghea · 2023-07-30T07:19:09+00:00

Does face or body matter for attractiveness of women? Can a woman with ugly face but very good body still count as attractive? Also, what can a facially ugly woman do?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-30T07:25:11+00:00

I didn't kill myself tonight 😊

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-30T07:25:32+00:00

If I do kill myself eventually I have it set up that everything I have goes to the Ukranian military

dbz__f · 2023-07-30T07:30:36+00:00

Question for woMEN, if you’re on a date with your boyfriend/husband/partner/fiancé/FWB/sugardaddy/groomer, and your female friend calls you, do you take the call?

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-07-30T07:41:44+00:00

Women: "men need to express their feelings".

Men: expresses negative feelings about women

Women: No, not like that.

Ylduts · 2023-07-30T07:58:20+00:00

43, attractive, in shape, and a money making machine. I only sleep with women who are monogamous to me, I am honest about not being monogamous in return. Do you consider this to be misogynistic?

prowitzki1 · 2023-07-30T08:08:24+00:00

If age gap relationships are so wrong, why arent they banned? Like if a 45 year old man is dating a 19 year girl old is inherently abusive, why not criminalize it?
That seems a lot simpler then it being legal and keeping men and their natural tendencies away using shaming tatics.

Ylduts · 2023-07-30T08:35:44+00:00

Women already outnumber men when it comes to college enrollment thanks to sexist/racist practices which thankfully the Supreme Court tried to curtail.

$929 billion in student loan debt belongs to women. Women hold 66% of all student loan debt. 41% of women undergraduates take out student loans, compared to 35% of males.

Student loan forgiveness is sexist and is just another attempt to poop on men.

Does no one else see this?

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-30T09:15:28+00:00

When I got unbanned and everyone here is still stupid 😔 please y'all go outside

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-30T09:16:25+00:00

I never really understood this objectification argument that feminists use, for example if I meet a woman at the club and hook up with her, I didn't hook up because of her personality ofc, it was mainly looks.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-30T09:18:26+00:00

Taken the lesbian pill now time to experiment on how overdramatic men are being

blebbyroo · 2023-07-30T09:27:04+00:00

First time in emergency room for my little 😭 thankfully everything is ok and back home now

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-30T09:48:46+00:00

Its really funny whenever leftists pop into the pill sphere. One guy made a Marxist breakdown of incels in the dating market, about how women have no solidarity with proles 😂 and how hypergamy is the result of uncontrolled capitalism. Pussy = capital

I'm seriously gonna die 😭

keebydee · 2023-07-30T10:01:33+00:00

I ran into that cashier for the third time on Friday at my grocery store that smiled at me and said that she's seen me around the store a lot a couple of weeks ago. This time she told the bagger that I was her "bestie" and that I was a good kid that shops for his mother. Ugh! Our first two interactions were so good! I'd be greeted with a pretty smile and a mini conversation as I'm checking out. Now I'm getting the usual attention I receive from women.

Why do I always recieve infantilizing-like attention from most young women? I'm obviously not her bestie, we don't even know each others names! And I do shop for mother but I'm not a kid! I'm 21! We're around the same age and I think I'm older! I can buy beer if I wanted to! I am young looking, super skinny, 5'6, and socially awkward but I do really come off as that childish? It's been like since I can remember.

I just wish wasn't seen as this asexual "bestie" that's harmless and awkward. sighs I guess it's better than being seen as a creepy monster rapist. I just miss the normal interactions! I loved that smile! 😥

Ylduts · 2023-07-30T10:21:08+00:00

Meritocracy

mer·i·toc·ra·cy /ˌmerəˈtäkrəsē/ noun government or the holding of power by people selected on the basis of their ability.

How can this be argued against? Isn’t this the end goal?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-30T10:36:42+00:00

Narcissism study finds boomers are more 'hypersensitive' than millennials

A study published on Dec. 10 in Psychology and Aging found that although individuals tend to become less sensitive as they age, overall, millennials were less sensitive than baby boomers.

Well would you look at that, generation calling everyone snowflakes, is made up of actual snowflakes.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-30T10:43:16+00:00

The more I read about the writers strike the less I sympathize with them. It’s full on narcissism thinking the whole world should hold back progress so they can keep their dumb writing jobs.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-30T10:49:40+00:00

Of course, leave it to the neckbeards in this subreddit to not understand why dehumanizing other people is a problem, thinking it's no different from trying to get a hookup from a nightclub.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-30T10:52:38+00:00

Arguing about hypergamy will always be a waste of time.

The redpill just rewrite definitions.
The imaginary definitions they have for Hypergamy are dumb and can be applied to men, so Idk why they only talk about it for women.
When using the actual definition of hypergamy, women are far less hypergamous now. It’s just losers are screwed over because now women arent forced to stay with losers.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-30T11:06:17+00:00

CMV: The problem with ahort guys is not their lack of confidence, it's their unattractive height. Anything else is just gaslighting....

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-30T11:18:27+00:00

Husband got hit with the ol bait n switch from the wife

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-30T11:33:45+00:00

I’m convinced I have Dysautonomia. Either too much time to read medical websites and I’m being paranoid or I’m right and it just really sucks 😬. At least it’s not deadly. I’m pretty much confined to home until I get a CT scan next week. Meanwhile, I’m hyper aware of my blood vessels and nerves in a way I’ve never been before…freaky.

dbz__f · 2023-07-30T11:40:18+00:00

Paying for dinner is the ultimate power move. Guys who bitch about paying for dinner are cucking themselves big league.

Just think, when you go out to dinner with your boss, who pays? Your boss always pays. You never split it. You never pay. Your boss always pays. Why? Because he's your boss. He holds the power. It's the ultimate power move.

IMO women who want the guy to pay for dinner will turn out to be more submissive later in a relationship because they believe in gender roles and "men taking care of the women" and male authority. Whereas women who want to split the costs are more likely to want an even-handed relationship or even to wear the pants in the relationship.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-30T11:47:42+00:00

Getting really tired of Pick Me Girls and Simps thinking I should coddle self-pitying sexists. Coddling prejudice individual with a victim complex does NOT make you a good person.

social_mules_alt · 2023-07-30T11:56:36+00:00

PPD Women:

https://preview.redd.it/bmzjvp17d3fb1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cbed3c64a43fb058e946a0c5ce83731d44e60a9e

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-30T12:01:21+00:00

Nothing is funnier than watching people accuse me of strawmanning, just after they did their own strawmanning. Like expecting me to take them seriously. 😂

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-30T12:02:11+00:00

Nothing is funnier than watching people accuse me of strawmanning, just after they did their own strawmanning. Like expecting me to take them seriously. 😂

Btw, straw manning is NOT code for “How dare you criticize my stupid ideas?!”.

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-30T12:11:53+00:00

Mods need to do something about intentionally deliberately misrepresenting other people's viewpoints. Understanding what other people say is the ground for normal debate. We might as well call it purplepillstrawmanning

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-30T12:12:10+00:00

Mods need to do something about intentionally deliberately misrepresenting other people's viewpoints. Understanding what other people say is the ground for normal debate. We might as well call it purplepillstrawmanning if they don't want to take action.

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-30T12:19:31+00:00

Little announcement, if you don't have reading comprehension of elementary school kid, feel free just to scroll through my comments and not reply, please and thank you.

Ideology-619 · 2023-07-30T12:20:27+00:00

All the surveys done on this sub have shown that most users are red-pilled. I think these findings are very inaccurate given the absurd dislike to like ratios on red-pilled comments.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-30T12:22:15+00:00

Do you have a sexy scar? I’m housebound so entertain me and tell me about it.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-30T12:34:01+00:00

F1 is so pussified these days. Drivers afraid of a little rain.

printerpal · 2023-07-30T12:40:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15cwi6t/aita_for_telling_my_girlfriend_that_she_isnt_the/jtyv47c/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3

Youre not "tall", "muscular" or "tatted" but you're financially responsible, have a good head on your shoulders and are probably amazing with her kid. You're the "end game" kind of guy, not a temporary fling. She went for shallow self absorbed guys until she needed someone reliable.

AF/BB

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-30T12:44:50+00:00

i did not just see one of you mfs here say that liking plushies and being scared of bugs is feminine, ask men to describe feminine women and then ask them to describe children and their answers will be around the same.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-30T12:49:13+00:00

Just visited my friend and her newborn. That’s 5 of 11 friends that have kids now and we’re 23/24. It feels like my friends are single handedly increasing the birth rate

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-30T12:51:18+00:00

Wise word

Sparkling_gourami · 2023-07-30T12:59:37+00:00

So many of the posts here are such stupid questions. Would you date a man who looks like this, has this attribute, is x or y. Sure, there are factors that increase attractiveness like being tall, or having a good income, but there are so many intangibles to attraction. There are also so many traits that can make you unattractive, like lacking empathy, that the men here completely ignore.

I’m starting to come to the conclusion that most of the red/black pill guys are just neurodivergent in some way, or have gone through trauma, and struggle to understand the complexities of the human experience. They treat relationships like a video game character build trying to maximize DPS.

nexkell · 2023-07-30T13:12:29+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15ccf81/im_noticing_something_alarming_while_being_in_a/

Oh look not a single woman holding mothers accountable for sons not learning life skills. But instead they want to blame the sons for not learning life skills.

Like we have a well stocked kitchen at work, two girls are terrible about leaving it a disaster and dishes everywhere if they make their lunch. One girl blew her blocked up the toilet (there’s a plunger next to it), no idea how to use and went and told one of the cleaners to come deal with it.

But of course its the men who are the problem not the women.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-30T13:28:38+00:00

Woman 1 - Men should be more emotionally open

Guy - OK. I'm afraid of...

Woman 2 - That's insecurity.

Guy - Well yeah, I'm...

Woman 2 - HEY EVERYONE, THIS GUY IS INSECURE!!!!!

Ylduts · 2023-07-30T13:38:06+00:00

Q4W

This question is specifically for PPD women. How many of you would make me a sandwich? Everything our family could desire would be taken care of. Are you ok with that? Are you willing to be a traditional woman?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-30T14:01:35+00:00

Advice for bitter men.

Create a new reddit account, a "female" reddit alt. Write your issues and frustrations on reddit subs, but switch all genders.

Now instead of other users calling you out as a misogynistic nazi pig, you get compassion and emotional support you need.

You might get some dick pics too though.

Ylduts · 2023-07-30T14:03:41+00:00

PPD women make terrible long term partners IMO.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-30T14:08:00+00:00

Insightful Facebook posts #2

Video:

Caption: The kind of support moms want from their spouses

Wife: "Hey kiddos, I'm putting my puzzle away! If any of you want to see it, come see it before I put it away!

Husband: KIDS COME STARE AT YOUR MOTHER'S PUZZLE

Wife laughs.

250k likes

Responsible_Wrap_646 · 2023-07-30T14:09:09+00:00

Q4M:

I (30F) recently connected with 28M on a dating app. On paper he’s great, in reality he’s a “nice guy”. It’s been 4 days and he’s already trauma dumped, has been calling me pet names (which I corrected immediately), and has been giving me grandiose praise that also doesn’t make sense (I’ve also told him that it’s a turn off).

Most people would say he’s lovebombing me- probably right (which I haven’t fallen for because therapy and whatnot). That’s not my question-

My question is- I can tell this person is desperately lonely and is a stereotypical “nice guy”. Would you want someone tell you IN DETAIL why you’re struggling to attract a partner/have chased someone away after 4 days (and never met in person)? He definitely needs therapy and more male friends too probably. Usually, I would just unmatch someone who has this many flags but I can tell this guy is just… lost? Down bad? Idk.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-30T14:17:13+00:00

Enablers: You’re so mean to bigots!

Me: How about they stop being bigots?

Enablers: BUT YOU ARE SO MEAN!

Me: To bigots.

Enablers: You’re giving women a bad name!

Me: By standing up to bigots that blame all their dating problems on the opposite gender? LOL Okay.

huhwhatokok · 2023-07-30T14:27:35+00:00

You know when the Zillow listing doesn’t start with the exterior of the house it’s gonna be ugly. You starting out with the granite countertop isn’t going to change that.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-30T14:35:18+00:00

When the men in here talk about how unfair it is that they are expected to pay for dates, do they realize that it's only because of our changing society that you no longer have to:

Pick her up in your car
Bring flowers
Walk up to the door
Meet her parents
Get intimidated by her father
Open and close the car door for her
Pay for dinner
Pay for tickets/snacks for movie/bowling/fair/dance
Drive her home
Walk her to her door
Call her and hope her father doesn't pick up?

And you would be expected to pay 100% for all of this, several times? And if you knocked her up, you'd have to marry her?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-30T15:12:55+00:00

Because of the rise of feminism and social media mainly Instagram guys are putting in 80% to 110% of work time money and effort to barely get boring average ass chicks lmao😂😂😂

Peacesquad · 2023-07-30T15:13:07+00:00

Ok I took a piss. What did I miss?

prowitzki1 · 2023-07-30T15:14:12+00:00

Is it common for women in their 20s up to early 30s breaking up with a guy for virtually no reason?

Meaning the guy does none of the things men typically get broken up with for such as not cleaning after himself, not being financially iresponsible, not gaining weight, not becoming abusive etc. and the girl still dumps him. For pretty much no reason.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-30T15:18:15+00:00

At the end of my dating "career" I was telling women honestly on why I don't want to date them anymore.

And yeah I had experienced some outbursts, was called names.

But how the hell do you expect the other gender to improve if you are not being honest with them?

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-07-30T15:28:17+00:00

I think I may have fucked up big time with this friend group I'm trying to get more involved with.

Drunkenly making out with a 4 in the corner of a party you're not really attracted to is negative social proof. Have standards fellas, don't be like me.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-30T15:30:52+00:00

i hate when i see art that i like and then i find out its done by a man, that really ruins my day and then i have to reread the scum manifesto to remind myself men cant be artists sigh my life is so hard.

iliyb · 2023-07-30T15:31:22+00:00

Why does a lot of the manopshere think a high n count woman is more likely to settle for a man she isn't attracted to as opposed to low n count women? Never really understood the logic behind this one.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-30T15:39:38+00:00

"A lot of redpill and blackpill men show autistic traits and the entire "looksmax"

Honestly am getting tired of people lumping RP and BB beliefs in the same category

Because they are not the same

Blackpill is: women only care about looks and endless nihilism

Redpill is: women care about looks BUT also other things

And everytime l correct many people they just want to chop off my head telling me am wrong, listen if your say something wrong go ahead since this is the internet but better expect people like me to correct you on it

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-07-30T15:54:36+00:00

Imma need about 5x the daily autism posts as we have now so it can finally go the way of the n-count posts. Good lord has it been done to death and back

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-07-30T16:08:32+00:00

I am hearing more people call our current culture sexless. I’m not sure I understand what that means but our society does feel awfully sterile. Does anyone know what people mean by a sexless culture?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T16:14:03+00:00

I’m starting to come to the conclusion that most of the red/black pill guys are just neurodivergent in some way, or have gone through trauma, and struggle to understand the complexities of the human experience

This is so true.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-30T16:20:43+00:00

One of the biggest things guys struggle in approaching is knowing what to say to the woman

Which normal because l used to say many stupid things since it was my first experience but after a couple of minutes she's completely forgotten and we never gonna see each other again, so l just move on to the next woman and practice on her

So when people here say approach in your social circle, your putting yourself in a disadvantage because this people are the one's you see regularly so that awkward moment between you and the woman will continue unless you cut her off completely

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-30T16:23:14+00:00

Why are some guys in here shaming women for ignoring most men? As if they weren't checking out the hot cheerleaders rather than the girls with frumpy clothes, big teeth and glasses.

Yeah I was one of those girls and couldn't get a date to the dance to save my life. Much better now that I'm older, though.

River_Archer_32 · 2023-07-30T16:23:44+00:00

Men do like 95% of the emotional labor in relationships so how the hell are women on reddit delusional enough to think they do most of it?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-30T16:25:14+00:00

why are people involved in heavy metal so ugly never understood the aesthetic tbh

prowitzki1 · 2023-07-30T16:27:23+00:00

Hypothetically say you have a man and a woman. Both in their 40s, both fit, both average looking, both without children, both high earners working as lawyers (or any other high status job). They are having a short term fling but the man doesnt want to commit long-term because he believes he has a higher SMV than the woman.

Is he more likely correct in his evaluation or straight up delusional?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-07-30T16:43:36+00:00

New post is a great reminder to the ladies to do our strength training even if it’s “not feminine” or “masculine”!! So important for bone density and overall health.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-30T16:50:30+00:00

Is it true that guys who preach “I want peace” really mean that they want a doormat who won’t ever call them out on their bad behaviour

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-07-30T16:54:07+00:00

Sales force vs SAP, what should a self improver trying to get his money up pursue? I Have some training experience from trailhead

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-30T17:03:59+00:00

Q4M: how often do you actually run into OF girls in your life? Do you actually know any girls that do OF? Have your friends dated a girl who turned out to have an OF? Don’t include examples of friends of friends please. Don’t include women you’ve met via tinder or other dating apps - they’re basically advertising platforms for sex workers. That’s like standing on a street with street walkers then saying you keep bumping into prostitutes.

I hear so much about how every girl has an onlyfans these days but I don’t know of anybody with one. Can’t tell if OF is just ubiquitous in the states and it’s not caught on in the uk, or if people are reading things online and applying it to their lives, despite not actually knowing any OF girls

Maractop · 2023-07-30T17:04:16+00:00

Does this make sense? A girl told me thats she is straight but is attracted to and would have sex with women who have traits that are associated with men. Like being taller and more masculine acting. I was told shes attracted to them because of the traits not because they are women. How does that not count as bisexual?

Maractop · 2023-07-30T17:04:36+00:00

Does this make sense? A girl told me thats she is straight but is attracted to and would have sex with women who have traits that are associated with men. Like being taller and more masculine acting. I was told shes attracted to them because of the traits not because they are women. How does that not count as bisexual?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T17:31:22+00:00

The difference between a 5'7 guy who is neurotypical and a 5'7 who isn't. The first one recognizes that he's shorter than averge, accepts it, moves on and still finds a romantic partner. The latter goes on the internet, researches about how height affects dating, his life logs on to a forum, voices his opinion about it and hyperfocuses on this specific trait.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-30T17:39:34+00:00

The fear that promiscuous women put in the hearts of men who struggle to even get a date/casual sex/a relationship will never not be funny to me. All these big feelings and revenge fantasies about promiscuous women. Meanwhile, these women continue to reject these men, and the women still end up happily ever after.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-30T17:47:12+00:00

Been reading Date-onomics, and it sheds some very interesting details on the impact of gender ratios in dating. Even the smallest differences can add up in a major way. It also shows interesting insights into human behavior depending on the area.

For example: Women tend to lock men down at higher rates where the competition for women is higher (i.e. many sites along the west coast like Seattle). Women's preferences also tend to rise, given the increase in suitors to choose from.

Men tend to have more abundant sex lives where the women are plentiful (i.e. NYC), and are slower to settle down simply because they have more options to choose from.

Many colleges are becoming significantly woman-dominated. If you're a guy going to college, you take care of yourself & you're sociable, you're probably going to feast. Meanwhile women who go to colleges that are heavier in maths/sciences (where there are more men) do quite well.

Enjoying this book because I think it's one thing that isn't talked about enough: Location.

If you're doing all the right things but still not having much luck (you're genuinely trying), one thing to consider is your location. Male-heavy areas like the west coast will typically be more woman-friendly due to competition. If you're a man, and you want to increase the odds of having a more abundant sex life, consider heading east.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-30T17:48:44+00:00

Your wife can't replace with anyone better Steph curry

So just cheat anytime you want

And if she does, she's gonna the biggest idiot of all time

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-30T17:53:30+00:00

I don’t think I’ve seen this much hatred towards neurodivergency since middle school. When someone says something odd or wrong here, often there’s someone replying with ”you must be neurodivergent/autistic”. Very different attitude compared to my real life experience.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-30T18:10:12+00:00

The lack of confidence and the woe is me, I'm so ugly vibes from some men here is so ick. Reddit is anonymous and a place where you could pretend to be cooler, hotter than you are. Fake it til you make it vibes. But instead....folks just whine about how they are short or ugly or whatever.

prowitzki1 · 2023-07-30T18:11:34+00:00

There's just seems to be no middleground between mens preferences and womens preferences in modern day dating.
As a man I can say that I want quality x,y,z in a woman and she'll just respond Im sexist, misogynist, predatory, creepy or whatever for seeking those qualities.

Its a bit sad because it feels like what was once pure and romantic is now just an intense competition where people are just going to do whatever it takes to win, regardless if it means hurting other people's feelings. But ok.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-30T18:20:53+00:00

my flair is a great at detecting weebs. they usually assume that it refers to some obscure schoolgirl anime instead of a popular soviet folk song from ww2.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-07-30T18:22:57+00:00

Q4W: are you or have you been physically attracted to your male partners?

Bc someone here thinks we don’t find men sexually attractive

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-30T18:32:44+00:00

One time I was in my college's library and I was with my boy and we were just bored and we were just talking to random girls here and there. One time we were talking to this girl about her classes and how math is hard asf and some random dude sitting close jumped in the convo. And it was a chill convo.

Fast forward like 2 weeks, and im boutta hop on the trian to go to class and I look I see the dude that jumped in the convo, but we didn't make eye contact so I was like whatever. A couple of minutes later I walking to end of the platform cuase when I get out I can be infront of the crowd . So im walking I turn around and see bro, as soon as I make eye contact he turns away, im like , ok, and I keep moving. Why tf I turned around agian, bro is following me and I make eye contact agian , and he turns away.

Later im walking on campus, I see from my prefferals bro is behind me again, I turn around and he looks away. Ik he's not a weirdo, I think he wants to talk to me and say hi, and I think he's socially awkward or something. I'm sitting here like, damn, imagine he did what he's doing to me to a girl, he'd be in jail for stalking.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-30T18:39:17+00:00

People used to ask me, "Has any woman even touched or seen your penis?"

And I used to feel so ashamed and lie, but I could tell that they could tell.

But now it's all changed, I can confidently say, hell yeah guys I am one of you now!

Yeah I was just walking by a urologist and I felt slightly anxious at the thought of exposing myself and I thought, "What? There are still things that I am afraid of?", and I immediately booked an appointment! A Female nurse and a male doctor were both holding my junk as I lied there looking at them seriously working.

SorryEm · 2023-07-30T18:45:24+00:00

The things people on r/purplepilldebate want you to believe

The average man has easy opportunities for dating and romance. If they don't all they need is a change of clothes, a shower and a haircut.
Women are somehow psychic and can detect the full intent of every man she interacts with
Relationships and dating are completely fair without and don't have any opaqueness or inconsistencies regarding the rules.
Biology is a lie, we're are completely equal humans

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-30T18:49:58+00:00

Q4All: Did you workout last week?

Maractop · 2023-07-30T19:06:28+00:00

"When lesbian talk about women, it sounds like they are really passionate about women and how beautiful they are; with so much desire. It feels good. Wish that was it with straight women and men, but I guess is not gonna happen or not soon."

I seen this comment and it is actually kind of true. Gay men do this for other men, lesbians do it for other women, and straight men do it for women. Why dont straight women do it? It feels like their attraction to men is something they just put up with at times

DerayRevan · 2023-07-30T19:13:54+00:00

I got fired from my video game store in my early 20s because it against the policy flirting with a customer

That was really stupid firing me especially when the only reason she still decided to come at the store was to see me with her friends and she would come regularly

And guys who wanted to hit on her came also came because of that

So l was bringing more people for them yet because some stupid dumb policy they made a big mistake loosing their most valuable employee at that time

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-30T19:15:19+00:00

Q4A: How many people have you rejected this year? Rejected for dates, rejected for numbers, rejected for sex, rejected for a relationship, rejected from the relationship, etc. Please include your gender.

huhwhatokok · 2023-07-30T19:22:22+00:00

That’s why I tell y’all you need to lie on shit like this or never bring it up. Pre-selection is a big thing subconsciously and consciously in womens brains.

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/15dqwo0/a_guy_ive_been_seeing_told_me_hes_never_has_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

jobbo321 · 2023-07-30T19:30:54+00:00

Been working on my website while listening to 80s pop music. Good evening.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-30T19:36:36+00:00

Q4M:

Do you remember a time when you didn't really notice women/girls? Maybe before age 10 or puberty?

Or perhaps as an adult, when you are already happily in a relationship and not really looking at women that way anymore?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-30T19:41:32+00:00

Do women consciously know when they are boobing someone?

I was at a bar/club and resting my arm on a table/countertop and the girl next to me who was talking to someone else was touching my elbow with her boobs for a full minute or 2 (me gusta). It was very crowded and people could barely move but I think she had enough room to adjust to not make boob to elbow contact if she wanted to.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-30T20:02:53+00:00

I've excused step curry to cheat on his wife because you ain't gonna another him, simple and facts now moving on to Elon

Elon brings more value than most men, out here building spaceships and electronical cars(Telsa) and one of the richest man in the world

While most men same shit everyday, work and come home and watch propaganda TV like the news

So if Elon wanted he could get any hot woman yet somehow you mean to tell me he choose that bitch who divorced him

C'mon elon your not playing your cards right brother

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-30T20:12:37+00:00

Buying something you always wanted as a kid but could never afford >>>>

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-07-30T20:24:25+00:00

Q4A: Would you date a fat person? If no, would you leave a partner if they got fat? Also are you fat yourself?

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-07-30T20:39:52+00:00

Another weight based Q4A: what do you consider as too fat to date. Feel free to give me a BMI or a photo.

AbdelBoudria · 2023-07-30T21:13:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15cwi6t/aita_for_telling_my_girlfriend_that_she_isnt_the/

This is what happens when you date a single mother when you don’t have kids.

Probably the worst choice a man can do.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T21:19:28+00:00

relationships are better than they were a hundred years ago.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-07-30T21:31:26+00:00

Could a 6ft+ dude with a 5-6/10 face be more attractive and have better odds approaching women if he lost weight, got in shape, and wore fitted clothes?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T22:09:41+00:00

Question regarding sleep : Is it important to completely darken your room while you sleep ? I already have blinders in my room but there's still light coming through and I' wondering if it could interfere with sleep quality.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-30T22:09:58+00:00

I was looking at /r/rateme and was thinking about how dire the dating market is for men. Healthy bodies like these should be normal for women, but only a small minority of women these days have these healthy, easily achievable bodies.

Is it too much to ask for to want a woman to have a healthy body in these modern Idiocracy times?

text-redacted · 2023-07-30T22:32:24+00:00

How to deal with grief?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T22:36:42+00:00

Personality is more important than looks. The problem is there is a lot of cognitive dissonance among manospherians as to what personality means.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-30T22:43:19+00:00

Some people are truly narcissistic cunts

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-31T12:13:12+00:00

The amount of guys who have let blackpill poison their minds are insane. They really believe if you are not chiseled by god himself with a 8 inch cock you should kill yourself

Yes dating apps and social media have changed the game but my god the world is not some dystopia

Sofia Vergara just divorced Joe fucking Manganiello. The guy is a complete stud and Sofia said “Im out” once he brought up having kids. According to you blackpillers, since hes top 10%, she should have been under his chad spell and had his kids right???????

Please get the fuck away from blackpill content before you drive yourselves insane

Workaholiconew · 2023-07-31T03:25:54+00:00

My head been bad lately. I need some vacations

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-31T03:21:34+00:00

I am planning a solo trip in April & can go anywhere. I am from the US but live in Thailand now. I’ve already been to most of the other SEA countries & I don’t want a repeat of other places I’ve visited before (Japan, Paris, Netherlands, Italy, Nepal, Mexico, The Caribbean islands). Air pollution here is bad then necessitating travel so other bad air quality places are a no go. Cooler to moderate climates would be nice.

PPDer’s: where would you go?

Mundane_Vacation4989 · 2023-07-31T03:05:52+00:00

I’ve been with two 304 type women the last week. I feel depressed. They are just going to compare me to previous lovers so what is the point ?

Ya I cum. But there is no passion. And the orgasm is weak. How can men have passion with a woman when you are just another notch on her belt? And she’s probably been penetrated by a dick much larger than yours. She’s just comparing you to previous lovers.

May as well just watch porn. It is about as validating as having sex with a woman who will just compare you to previous better more hung lovers.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-31T02:57:46+00:00

Am I the only dude who doesn’t have a shit about the opposite sex? Not in some mgtow “you can’t fire me I quit!” Type of way.

But in a “I just rather be around homies”?

I have no hatred over the women folk. But I don’t have this wild need to please them every dude at my job or at my friends group seems to have.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-31T02:56:18+00:00

Whenever women accuse men of being insecure, it's like how can you not be insecure as a man who isn't top tier when there is such a power imbalance in dating?

Any woman you talk to has been hit on or talks to men who are better than you, better looking, smarter, makes more money, than you in every way. On the dating app or a night out at a bar/club, she'll have gotten at least 10x the interest that you did.

You finally meet a woman who thinks you're attractive and is interested in you? She's the only woman who has been interested and putting in effort to talk to you on the dating app while she has dozens and dozens of men interested and putting in effort to talk to her. A girl at a bar/club is checking you out? She's the only (healthy BMI) woman who is willing to even engage in a conversation with you in the entire venue while tens of men, many better looking than you, have been checking her out and hitting on and trying to talk to her. Meet a girl at the bookstore? She's casually seeing 2 men, "talking" to 3 more dating prospects and has 3 male orbiter friends.

The power imbalance is so great in modern dating, it takes herculean confidence for a man to not be insecure. "Insecurity" for men is just a natural reaction to the power imbalance.

DumpApe135 · 2023-07-31T02:36:35+00:00

Can someone who owns STATA or SPSS download this and check the amount of time men and women have had sex since 18 based on age and if they had sex in the past year, I could probably do it at my school during the semester but might lose interest by then. https://gssdataexplorer.norc.org/gss_data

NoTea4448 · 2023-07-31T02:35:16+00:00

I actually watched the Barbie movie.

It was actually pretty good. I went into it hearing it'd be a feminist movie, and expected a ton of "men bad" jokes as a result.

What I found instead, was a really sympathetic view towards incels and men in general. Like, the main antagonist wasn't hated and spat on as an enforcer of the patriarchy, but was actually sympathized with as a victim of the system he was made in.

I dunno if I would have called myself a feminist before, but the barbie movie might have made me one now.

AbdelBoudria · 2023-07-31T02:29:56+00:00

r/ChadFish should not have been banned by Reddit. Sadly, we live in a world that doesn't want to help normal guys.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-31T02:11:58+00:00

Men who struggle with dating should go on a party holiday in Europe. Even the ugliest man on earth could pull there

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-31T01:33:46+00:00

So the country of Niger has been in the news lately because of insurgency. So I decided to look up some stuff about the country.

TIL "Niger has the highest child marriage rate in the world among girls. More than three fourths of girls aged under 18 were married, with nearly 30 percent of them being younger than 15 years old."

And apparently boys can only legally marry at age 18, but girls can be 15. 🤮

Very thankful to not live there right now.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/1226532/countries-with-the-highest-child-marriage-rate/

ETA source.

scwizard · 2023-07-31T01:33:42+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15dwxf7/aitah_for_walking_out_of_my_sisters_wedding_after/

No one's perfect but weddings really bring out the worst of some women.

The groom probably realizes she's out of line and is just praying after the wedding she'll go back to normal.

Vast majority of women aren't like this even during their wedding though.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-31T01:29:42+00:00

Q4M: Should not autistic women really be happy with autistic men? If she is "normal" but he is autistic, maybe he is smart, has friends and a good job but still on the spectrum, how is she to feel comfortable with him not understanding things or his almost childlike behavior pattern, especially in public.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-31T01:27:22+00:00

Personally I think this sub should be gen z only. As a gen z male (23) I think my generation has been hit the worst by women controlling the dating market. It’s incredibly hard to find women of that age that are of quality and single. Most women my age are very masculine and it’s a really huge turn off. That and the acceptance of n count not mattering to women ruined dating. Females don’t even paint there nails that much anymore.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-31T01:17:27+00:00

It’s sad women aged 18-29 are cock blocking and in many ways gatekeeping young men in experiencing the joy of a women’s nectar.

Since a women’s nectar is so overvalued they basically control the dating market and will not give average young men a chance because they all want the top 20% of men. Meanwhile yo have lizzo’s who are able to get boyfriends because even tho she’s obese her nectar is still set at a high price.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-31T01:09:38+00:00

Why are anonymous social media platforms like reddit, twitch, and 4chan male dominated?

It could be said that these platforms are more "socially detached," with their anonymity and inability to foster tight social circles compared to platforms like tiktok, instagram, facebook, and twitter where you can add and chat with friends, see them on your feed, see their faces and real names etc. Those platforms tend to be more female-skewed.

In the opposite ends of the empathising-systemising quotient spectrum, it seems that empathy>systematic thinking type people (type E) tend to be women and systematic>empathy thinking type people (type S) tend to be men with a ratio of 2:1 in each. In particular, most autistic people are found to be an extreme case of type S thinking.

Anonymous platforms tend to focus on discussion rather than the development of one's social identity. It's therefore expected that type S people tend to dominate use of these platforms. Reddit is no exception.

A common problem that occurs in PPD is that a RP man makes an assertion about women's behavior and inevitably a woman comes up and says that this isn't her experience or thought process. (note that I am not saying everything a RP man says here is gospel)

She's probably telling the truth. The women here on reddit are significantly more likely to be type S than than the average woman who is overwhelmingly type E.

The women on reddit are poor representations of how the average woman thinks or behaves.

I find, in my anecdotal experience, that gender discourse tends to take very different tones on reddit compared to, say, twitter or tiktok. Reddit at least attempts or, feigns an attempt, at rationally debating these topics such that it follows the type S mode of thinking, while on twitter and tiktok it's basically just tribal shit flinging with neither side budging or conceding anything.

I also find that women on non-anonymous social media platforms tend to be much more likely to be non-egalitarian in their view on gender dynamics than women on reddit who tend to be more idealistic and egalitarian minded.

tldr The women on reddit are poor representations of how the average woman thinks or behaves.

Willow-girl · 2023-07-31T01:06:20+00:00

A shoutout to my man, who has perfected the art of making bread in our new bread machine! After a little experimentation, he's come up with versions much better than anything you can buy in the store. As a side benefit, our house is often filled with the heavenly fragrance of fresh-baked bread. Mmmm!

Tonight while bringing produce in from the garden, he mentioned that perhaps he will dry some of the cherry tomatoes, grind them up and use them in a loaf of Italian herb bread. When I rolled my eyes and asked whether he was getting a bit bougie, he replied, "But it's European! Don't you want some European bread?" Which is, of course, exactly what a bougie would say ...

I'd better hope I don't come home and find our trailer has been transformed into a Tuscan villa!

meteorness123 · 2023-07-31T00:55:43+00:00

Come and follow me. And I will make you fishers of men.

antisplatter · 2023-07-31T00:48:44+00:00

feminist dating advice for men from TikTok is peak comedy

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-07-31T00:42:59+00:00

Q4M: are you more concerned with n-count or chin-count? You can only pick one.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-31T00:15:24+00:00

The average male attention has been reduced and it's only gonna get worse from here, and that's the facts

Women can get attention online: Instagram,dating apps,Only-fans,tik-tok etc

Women can attention from their social support groups such as friends

And even guys she rejected but kept in the friend-zone

So you've to be aware of this when dealing with them

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-30T23:59:35+00:00

One RP concept that I do believe is preselection. I've witnessed it and experienced it myself before I even knew there was a word for it. Somehow its controversial.

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-30T23:56:07+00:00

If you want to know what males think about SAHM’s look no further than how they talk about SAHD’s. A dude posted a video about “a day in the life of a SAHD” and 90% of the comment were basically males saying that he was his wife’s slave.

That’s how males view stay a home mom’s: slave’s doing her husband’s bidding. Males will tell on themselves if you listen closely enough.

AbdelBoudria · 2023-07-30T23:54:35+00:00

It's funny how men are seen as insecure or pedophiles for wanting a virgin or low body count woman (max 3).

Whatever, when most women say loudly they dislike men with no to little sexual experience then that’s perfectly fine.

It doesn't help when you have some men agreeing with this hypocrisy and going to women's side of this problem.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T23:46:37+00:00

Would you rather be

A) good-looking but have a traumatic childhood or

B) Be normal-looking but have a happy/good childhood

DerayRevan · 2023-07-30T23:43:47+00:00

If you interact with a woman you like or find attractive

You've to push for sex as quickly as possible

Because if you don't then your gonna end up giving her free attention without getting anything in return

And also to see if she likes you back, because women don't open their legs just for anyone fellas

jobbo321 · 2023-07-30T23:39:23+00:00

I hope that virtual reality glasses will come soon that automatically removes make up from women.

You wear that shit and see them for the mid humans they are.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T23:37:53+00:00

I find myself caring more about money and job opportunities than dating these days.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T23:29:59+00:00

I remember reading somewhere about a guy telling a story about a girl he was dating and how her 'love language' was to receive gifts. Lmfao.

saraimarsena · 2023-07-30T23:29:42+00:00

something about the idea of competing for a man fills me w complete DISGUST

bluewayne23 · 2023-07-30T23:17:03+00:00

We have women on this sub who are neurotic as all get out talking down on men for having the same issues in their day-to-day lives.

We, also, have sub 3-body-count women on this sub talking ab not being willing to be an adult man’s first romantic or sexual partner.

Yet, they cry wolf at men for using underhanded tactics to just even the playing fields with them in order to have an actual dating life.

Lmaooooo

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-30T23:05:04+00:00

New obsessive behavior unlocked: every time I pour myself a (small) bowl of chips I proceed to eat the small broken ones and the crumbs first, saving the big whole ones for last, because the last bite you take should always be the best.

Same concept as my avocado toast + coffee breakfast. Always finish the coffee first, that way you can take your final bite & still taste the avocado toast after you finish breakfast.

Anyone else with weird habits like this?

meteorness123 · 2023-07-30T22:56:24+00:00

social skills, numbers game and personality. The wholy trinity.

DragoonXFury · 2023-07-30T22:50:53+00:00

I'm 26 now and it's got to the point where it's common to greet most my friends with hugs that's lasts about 2 seconds breaking a way with a smile. Like both male and female friends, sometimes both male and female acquaintances and definitely some colleagues. It's a decent place to be.

4SSh01e · 2023-07-30T22:47:23+00:00

A funny conversation I just recalled, many months ago I was dancing by myself on the dance floor and a girl came and started dancing near me and looked at me intermittently.

Me: Nice dress

Her: WHAAATTTT

Me: (gesturing to her dress) Nice dress

Her: Oh, I thought you said "Nice breasts"

Me: (on the defensive) No No No, I said nice dress

Her: Haha yeah, that would be an awkward way to start. I am like oh.. okay

Me: haha true, but they are nice still.

Her: haha thanks, btw I am going to the bar to get shots

Me: Cool, but I don’t drink anymore.

—— the end ——

She was cute but in the moment I thought she was trying to swindle me for a drink so I didn’t follow her

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