This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.

BongSlurper · 2021-10-19T13:37:11+00:00

That last message legit chilled me to the bone.

ConfusedBisexual1992 · 2021-10-19T13:55:12+00:00

Nothing. She did literally nothing to deserve that. This shit isn’t fucking funny. Can men stop making gross comments about an innocent young woman being killed?

zany301 · 2021-10-19T13:22:03+00:00

I would’ve blocked and deleted after the 2nd sentence. It just went from bad to worse to disgusting real fast.

shockingupdate · 2021-10-19T13:17:04+00:00

His incredible walk date idea has been rejected multiple times, likely women have explained why it makes them uncomfortable over and over, but instead of coming up with something better he’s perfectly happy trying to roast women for not wanting to follow in Gabby’s footsteps. What a catch

FDS-GFY · 2021-10-19T13:35:19+00:00

Report this guy to whatever service you met him on.

hopeful_flounder93 · 2021-10-19T13:05:02+00:00

"i WoNdEr wHaT sHe dId tO dEsEr-"

Shut the fuck up, Gary.

Looks like you dodged one hell of a bullet there sis.

Trust me, you're not missing out on much. My PickMe roommate just had a coffee/walk first date. The natural progression of that relationship was: he started coming over, just for her to cook for him in her underwear. She's spending so much time catering to this dude that she's now comfortably failing her uni course, and that's the best possible outcome to this type of relationship.

Peak clownery.

pinkgirly111 · 2021-10-19T13:31:54+00:00

this is how they think. seriously. its scary af.

HermiticalyKermit · 2021-10-19T13:37:47+00:00

I wonder what she did to deserve that.

Mother of God, the helllll is wrong with this guy. And let's not ignore the short red flag parade beforehand.

SpiritualPlan5 · 2021-10-19T13:45:32+00:00

Holy shit people on that app need to be warned about this one? An the whole “communicating with people has no value if I am not trying to mate with them” is not the flex he thinks it is.

nothingt0say · 2021-10-19T13:51:36+00:00

That's evil and disgusting. He is probably sitting there like why doesn't anyone get my sense of humor???

How many women will be murdered by their men this year and it won't make the news at all?

Block. Delete.

chainsawbobcat · 2021-10-19T14:09:55+00:00

His first message was already a red flag. Oh really buddy? You're never going to use your phone again? He makes himself seem like a psycho with a phone full for dating apps.

Spittens · 2021-10-19T13:06:21+00:00

Yep, you dodged a 50 caliber shot right there.

Funny how they always tell on themselves the minute we don't just fall into line with their plans.

extragouda · 2021-10-19T13:30:14+00:00

Whatever app this was on, I hope you reported him. He's disgusting.

MsWriteNow07 · 2021-10-19T13:38:59+00:00

Oh my GOD. This man is a mur.derer.

oddcharm · 2021-10-19T13:51:15+00:00

Ew what the fuck? What would merit being killed and left in the woods by someone who is supposed to love you? Bullet dodged.

xfelugirlx · 2021-10-19T13:51:45+00:00

Wtf. How can you joke about a murder? They are sick fr, psycho shit

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-10-19T14:03:43+00:00

I’m fucking traumatised.

I_know_right_AS_IF · 2021-10-19T15:18:16+00:00

"That Gabby person"

Fuck off!

whatsausername1000 · 2021-10-19T15:09:42+00:00

its so sad because Gabby went on that trip with her boyfriend of 2 years and look what happened to her. men are such a big danger to women

seadragon6 · 2021-10-19T14:08:35+00:00

Wow, gonna go ahead and pile on 5 years of singledom and avoidance of men to my life thanks to this. This is TERRIFYING.

slayeroftruth · 2021-10-19T14:43:34+00:00

That's disgusting thing to say. Every time one of these weak losers open their mouth I feel lucky grew up with normal father so I know to stay away. I never once heard men in my family make gross comments about dead women. Its weird thing for him to say. Who knows what would have happened to you. That's why I hate when women are shamed for telling teens and young women to be cautious about certain behaviors and situations. This is red flag with flashing red lights blinking non stop. Glad you dodged that bullet.

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-10-19T13:38:09+00:00

I actually quit watching a live stream because the host did a poll on if Gabbi deserved it and there were way too many votes for comfort saying she deserved it. This is the world we live in. And men wonder why women want to cut themselves off from men most of the time.

ConstantNurse · 2021-10-19T13:52:41+00:00

Wow, that jackass is nothing but a troll. I’m sorry you had to deal with a shitstain like that.

Radenoughyet · 2021-10-19T15:09:14+00:00

I know it’s not allowed, but I wish you could publish his name. I don’t feel like it’s doxxing if you’re literally warning other women for their safety. Are you able to report him? This guy is a predator and shouldn’t be allowed on the apps.

missisabelarcher · 2021-10-19T14:44:03+00:00

Wow, this person is a sociopath, from the "island unto one's self" rooted in contempt for the rest of humanity to that chilling comment. So glad you held your ground.

This is why we assert boundaries early -- people really reveal themselves when faced with them.

MaxPatatas · 2021-10-19T15:08:28+00:00

He sounds like an Incel MGTOW type, sounds like he has "issues" with women and society.

Kimpractical · 2021-10-19T15:31:51+00:00

If doesn’t read the news then how does he know who gabby is and that she died?

XNjunEar · 2021-10-19T13:13:28+00:00

What a disgusting xy-chromosome-bearing conglomerate of cells.

anne-goldy · 2021-10-19T13:44:13+00:00

Yes, sir, this guy right there.

mariesb · 2021-10-19T13:56:22+00:00

Seriously WTF

Coder-Cat · 2021-10-19T14:46:49+00:00

“I have a sarcastic sense of humor.”

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-10-19T14:49:30+00:00

OP, wow! this is frightening! you dodged a bullet there!

he doesn't make fun of you, he tells you who he is and he tells you how psychopathic he can be. he just happened to mention the Petito case out of the blue and then proceeded to blame the victim 'i wonder what she did to deserve that?"

WTF x infinity

this dude's a psycho

RuntheContinent · 2021-10-19T13:23:08+00:00

What the fuck. I'm sorry, are you sure that's even meant to be a joke? I hope no one gives this creep the time of day.

SpecificPatience8 · 2021-10-19T14:48:58+00:00

Wow. This is scary AF! Please be safe and thank God you blocked him! Im sure he is an abuser

ironglaciers · 2021-10-19T15:00:51+00:00

Set boundaries from the start and let the scum float to the top to skim off.

lucidlotus · 2021-10-19T14:58:16+00:00

He's trying to either get a reaction or test how much you'll put up with down the line.

questcequunefemme · 2021-10-19T16:04:01+00:00

You probably just extended your life by decades right there by unmatching him, THANK GOD

firenest · 2021-10-19T20:05:54+00:00

I don't think he even wants to meet anyone; he signed up to a dating app just to distress and upset any women who match with him for his own amusement. The degree of seething hatred for women you'd have to have to do this is extreme to say the least. This is the kind of guy who follows women down the street at night because his idea of fun is to terrorise women by making them think they're about to be raped and murdered.

corkymuu · 2021-10-19T14:30:22+00:00

100% the type of guy that would kill you over a minor dispute and rationalize that you deserved it.

notroyaltyyet · 2021-10-19T15:30:02+00:00

I’m sure it was a “joke”, you just didn’t get it, you don’t understand his humour, can’t you take a joke babe? /s

Disgusting.

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-10-19T16:01:07+00:00

There isn't anything, literally anything she could possibly do to deserve such fate.

modernmedusaa · 2021-10-19T16:10:09+00:00

Me lady??? tips hat

‘I literally don’t use my phone except for trying to find my (next victim) soul mate’

Suuuuuure creep

Lmfao what PUA manual did he pick that from?

He clearly spends his time down the manosphere since he doesn’t do much else

He sounds like a red piller barely disguising his seething hatred of women lol

They think they’re so slick at hiding it….clearly not

fishingirl9310 · 2021-10-19T14:53:22+00:00

literally gave me nightmares

vaporwav3r · 2021-10-19T14:22:53+00:00

Bruh

WandernWondern · 2021-10-19T14:53:07+00:00

‘Forever person’ I had that phrase used on me by an extreme manipulator. The context was after I decided I would not commit a felony to benefit him he said once he found his forever person he’d be sure to let me know. Lol. That was after 6 years of relationship fishing me for sex and attention (on his time table of course)…

CheetahEnergy · 2021-10-19T15:28:50+00:00

Mouth. Wide. Open

sveji- · 2021-10-19T18:00:53+00:00

Bet this guy says "but not all men tho"

SupremeDearLeader · 2021-10-19T16:45:23+00:00

This is why I've been training in MMA/ Muay Thai / Boxing/ Self defense for years on end, you might never need it but if you do it may one day save your life.

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2021-10-19T16:52:07+00:00

Wow. At least he gets to feel good for a couple minutes about weirding out a woman.

But his pp will remain untouched.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-10-19T15:42:16+00:00

I’m more interested in what he does do. He sounds super boring.

And he’s an asshole.

Was he trying to make a joke? About a murdered girl? Maybe not a good idea…

Ashamed-Reputation-2 · 2021-10-19T17:09:34+00:00

This legitimately scary omg. He needs to be blocked on all apps

aluriaphin · 2021-10-19T18:53:44+00:00

I literally gasped aloud when I read what he said. That is the most disgusting thing I've seen all week. I would report him, might not actually accomplish anything but Hinge tends to be pretty strict so maybe it would.

UrsulaVonTwinkle · 2021-10-19T14:14:04+00:00

This feels like a threat, no lie.

FuriousTalons · 2021-10-19T14:19:07+00:00

That's chilling. The second text from him was definitely a threat.

kriolihau · 2021-10-19T15:36:58+00:00

Ex fucking scuse me? Did to deserve being strangled to death by someone she thought loved her? Nah he gets to go in the volcano.

jintana · 2021-10-19T15:49:25+00:00

This makes me sad.

CloacaDiddler · 2021-10-19T17:30:36+00:00

I have no self preservation because I wouldn’t block this fucker and just reply “why the fuck did you think that was appropriate to ever say”

ItsFreezen · 2021-10-19T17:32:33+00:00

Same Scrote "But Why Can't I Get A Girlfriend?"

enchantedglow · 2021-10-19T20:12:10+00:00

WTF. Also the fact that he bragged about not reading the news lmao. What a loser

revengeofgivingtree · 2021-10-19T15:59:55+00:00

🚩🚩🚩

sheokay · 2021-10-19T17:14:18+00:00

IS THERE A WAY TO SEND HIS INFO TO POLICE

Faunakat · 2021-10-19T13:30:52+00:00

Fucking psycho. I'm not retracting this comment

LindaBitz · 2021-10-19T15:36:04+00:00

Jesus hell. This is awful.

Aina98 · 2021-10-19T16:19:35+00:00

Excuse me, what

Specific-Composer300 · 2021-10-19T13:57:24+00:00

Noooo I can't actually believe this?!!!?!!

laguna1126 · 2021-10-19T15:13:25+00:00

That giant first red flag is the "forever woman" like wtf who talks like that?

pyramid_fud · 2021-10-19T13:48:50+00:00

Do report him. If it's too late to do it through the app, maybe find out how to send them an email and attach the screenshot.

horsepeenOG · 2021-10-19T15:04:51+00:00

What a complete dipshit. He seriously seems like he's too stupid to function.

cwfs1007 · 2021-10-19T17:46:48+00:00

WHAT. Sounds like a serial killer

alien665 · 2021-10-19T18:42:57+00:00

Victim blaming POS

PokePrincess95 · 2021-10-19T19:51:01+00:00

He is definitely planning on murdering you

aquietsword · 2021-10-19T20:37:51+00:00

Well, Christopher, I know men like you hate taking accountability for your actions, but let me assure you that they are your own and she did nothing to deserve being murdered.

I hope your shitty emotional regulation keeps you warm at night because you will die alone ❤

Half_Halt · 2021-10-20T02:23:06+00:00

Holy shit. Just when I think we've plumbed the depths of clowndome, some dude comes along & mines down to a new, subterranean parking deck of cray cray.

megan03 · 2021-10-19T14:17:53+00:00

I honestly wonder how people like him sleep at night, especially if he has females in his life like a mom or sister or aunt… I wonder if they have the depth to apply the things they’ve said and act as though someone else was saying it to their loved ones. Would they change? Probably not, and my hope for the end of male depravity continues to decrease…

MysteryDiva · 2021-10-19T14:33:07+00:00

Sounds like a murder threat to me

Morepaperplease · 2021-10-19T22:36:35+00:00

Did you just find Brian Laundrie?

dragon_wolf4 · 2021-10-20T00:06:07+00:00

Wtf. That last line makes me think this guy too is absolutelt capable of killing his gf if he feels like it.

If being gay were a choice, most women on the planet would choose that instead.

cherieblosum · 2021-10-20T02:04:04+00:00

Dude you don't owe this guy any explanation. If you say no to a date idea he should accept and suggest something else.

Shot_Presence_8382 · 2021-10-20T14:44:37+00:00

Sadly, Gabby KNEW her murderer and he was someone she was supposed to marry and have a good life with! Don't go into the woods with men, PERIOD! Unless it's your brother or father and you have a good relationship with them and know for a fact they won't abuse you, ditch you there, leave you behind, etc. Otherwise, don't go in the woods with men, only go with female friends or relatives, stick together and make sure you carry some sort of weapon or deterrent (pepper spray/bear spray, gun, hunting knife, etc) and be prepared to USE it on someone if they should threaten your life. Women are the safest when they stay away from men and protect themselves from being in situations where they are vulnerable or alone with men... unfortunately, some women still fall victims to men's disgusting behaviors...so the problem is really MEN and always has been 😒

Wchijafm · 2021-10-19T16:39:25+00:00

EXCUSE ME?!?! Almost dropped my damn phone.

kinkardine · 2021-10-19T16:39:40+00:00

So weird! Why would he even try to justify taking a life? And Gabby did know and lived with Gary for quite long time before getting killed, knowing a person cannot save you enough it seems.

blackgirlnorhythm · 2021-10-19T17:33:38+00:00

mynameisrominka · 2021-10-19T18:50:20+00:00

I feel so disgusted

2021-10-19T19:09:24+00:00

Another thing is that he mentioned Gabby first without the other woman bringing her up.

firewithin89 · 2021-10-19T19:12:02+00:00

What a sick fuck.

misandryisnotreal · 2021-10-19T23:28:18+00:00

Little guy really said “lemme get under the ‘male depravity’ tag”

Feministtiktok · 2021-10-20T00:20:44+00:00

Women are killed in the news on dates where women are asked to go for a walk and men keep trying to take us out for a walk. It’s either they’re all idiots or they like the option to be able to commit assault during the date. It freaks me out how many guys try to insist on date ideas where women feel unsafe and secluded and away from public areas to find help.

machiavella_89 · 2021-10-21T18:45:10+00:00

I almost downvoted this post out of pure self-protective instinct.

That guy is a bigger psychotic clown than Pennywise.

MsXxSelfDestructxX · 2021-10-19T23:08:54+00:00

That is the favorite line my misogynistic family liked to use when they talked about the Gabby case, is what "Did she do?".

Professional-Pea-317 · 2021-10-20T00:09:50+00:00

🚩Abort!

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-10-20T00:24:45+00:00

He kind of proved your point though. Woman: "I don't do hike dates, the man could be a psycho killer" Man acts like a psycho killer gee why woman no want to hike with me? I can't help but wonder if this guy is actually Brian Laundrie. Just like a narc to be online dating while on the run. Not serious, but also kinda serious.

Bitemebitch00 · 2021-10-20T04:41:59+00:00

Disgusting

smilodon91 · 2021-10-20T04:42:38+00:00

Holy ****, his response!!! God help all us women.

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-10-20T04:50:00+00:00

WTAF? Who says that?!

MiaNaim · 2021-10-20T15:13:24+00:00

Wow. Just wow.

Japanese-Spaghetti · 2021-10-20T23:50:06+00:00

Yeah I only talk to men in person for a reason. TOO MANY CREEPS ON OLD

Datonecatladyukno · 2021-10-19T19:42:35+00:00

Holy shit

BabyGothQ · 2021-10-19T20:33:06+00:00

JAIL.

Risoa · 2021-10-19T20:46:03+00:00

There’s a special place in hell for this boy

Real_Cover1572 · 2022-08-27T08:54:23+00:00

I would say that is a red flag, but that would be the understatement of the century.

quasarbar · 2021-10-19T16:04:30+00:00

I would have assumed it was a sarcastic "I wonder what she did to deserve that" because obviously nothing. But yeah, good riddance to this POS. He's probably a murderer or will be someday.

Junior-Lion7893 · 2021-10-26T20:22:22+00:00

Shhhiiiiiittt 💩

💃🏻

Typical_Candle_5627 · 2021-10-29T03:39:29+00:00

“me lady” ffs they don’t even try to disguise their fedora-wearing community affiliation now

Title	This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.
Author	sewingmachinesavior
Upvotes	3345
Comments	176
Date	October 19, 2021 12:59 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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