Daily Community Chat Megathread

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-09-29T14:29:52+00:00

If you want an attractive partner you need to be secure in yourself because other people are going to pursue them.

Attractive people and insecure people don’t go together.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-09-29T19:57:46+00:00

Incels and dumbass conservative men: “Toxic masculinity isn't a thing! Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to go back to watching Andrew Tate explain why being a toxic asshole is super manly!”

GridReXX · 2022-09-29T13:22:09+00:00

“That’s why you’re single.”

“You’re going to die alone.”

“Plant lady!”

I notice on Reddit, Twitter, IG comments, TikTok comments, YouTube comments, IRL, all over… those are some of the top insults from men to women. They can’t call those women ugly, fat, or even bitches because they simply are not. So they lead with the aforementioned.

And it’s always interesting because they usually say it to women unprovoked. She could post a pic of her friends that says girls trip and she’d get comments like that lol. Plus the woman they’re saying it to doesn’t appear to be sad nor alone, but the guy saying it does seem bitter.

My Take: They’re projecting because they are scared of dying alone. He is lonely. He has no friends. He has no joy or love on his life. He is bitter, angry, and sad. Hell he’s calling her plant lady, but maybe if he had some plants and treated his abode like a sanctuary he would be less miserable. “Dying alone” isn’t top of mind for women. Even if she has no SO in her life, most woman I know from girls to old ladies, have deep friendships and intimate community bonds they maintain all of their life. My 95 year old neighbor is “single” now, but plays bridge with her girls, has her church friends, always at a function, is close with her friends and neighbors who are always over or checking in on her dropping off food. She is not “alone.” She puts effort into building community. Shocker. People who do that don’t “die alone”.
My Second Take: It’s they’re unconscious or intentional way of trying to “shame” these women into caring about men like himself. But she’s probably single for the time being to avoid men like that. It’s not like being insulted by a mean man quoting Tate would win her over “oh that’s what I’ve been missing lovely 😍!”

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-29T17:22:52+00:00

If the PPD rate you a 5 or 6, consider yourself Hot cause y’all are ruthless with ratings

bossman146 · 2022-09-30T06:22:51+00:00

Everyone’s flaming Jordan Peterson for crying on Piers Morgan’s show

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-09-30T04:42:52+00:00

A photo of a girl can only really be like a 7.5 no matter how hot she is. You have to see them with your own eyes, see them in motion for my brain to give them a higher score.

2baloons · 2022-09-30T03:20:25+00:00

How does both the narrative that the foster system is over-crowded and awful, and that there's many good families that want to adopt kids but can't, exist? Which one is most true?

fakingandnotmakingit · 2022-09-29T05:59:29+00:00

What advice to you give to a guy who suffers from the same issues as some women?

Which is to say, he only gets hookups not relationships.

He's a good guy friend of mine. He's very attractive. And I mean very. He's been bought drinks by women. He gets attention pretty easily.

But he's kinda over it. He's been over it for years. He went through the university hoe phase but now he can't really be bothered. He still does it sometimes (cause why not) but what he actually wants is a relationship. Partially Brought on by the new wave of marriages and kids in our group as we hit our 30s.

But while he has no issues getting a first date... Getting more than that seems to be a problem.

He's not socially awkward. He's stable with a pretty good job. Owns his own apartment unit. He's managed to make some shorter relationships happen after we tweaked his tinder profile to add some shots of him playing dungeons and dragons and warhammer to soften the "jock" image that he does have. (he does honestly look like one though).

I personally wonder if it's because he's almost too nerdy for the girls who are attracted to jocks but also comes off as too "jock" for the nerdy homebodies?

gastongang · 2022-09-29T09:43:51+00:00

I'm so fucking pissed right now, I checked out my apartment gym for the first time since I moved, and realized that what I initially brushed as just a worthless smith machine from a distance, was actually a real squat rack, WHICH MEANS I HAVE BEEN WASTING MY FUCKING MONEY FOR THE LAST TWO MONTHS

madsskayyy · 2022-09-29T11:12:10+00:00

I was out and saw one of those interview TikToks. The guy took the video and it’s been really hard getting a hold of him so he could delete it. I might have to send some fake cease and desist letter at this point

AquaChip · 2022-09-29T11:54:27+00:00

Are there men here who have actually had the opportunity to have causal sex but turned it down because they think it’s “morally wrong”? The only men who seem to think causal sex is morally wrong are the one who are unable to participate in it. Funny.

Edit: I’m not asking about the “I had a causal sex phase and found out it’s wrong” men. I’m asking about the “I’ve had opportunities to have causal sex but always opposed causal sex, never had it and never want to start” men.

Edit 2: okay, no one is actually answering my question so my theory is right.

That__EST · 2022-09-29T13:24:04+00:00

I think there is some confusion by what I mean about N counts and risks of cheating based on how people downvoted and argued with me last night. Basically it's this: for all of this talk of High N being a higher risk of infidelity, we can't even seem to agree on what High N even is. I've heard some people claim that starting at 5 is High N. Which is bananas to me. We also can't seem to agree on what the best age to get married is. But onto my bigger point: there are worst things in a marriage than being cheated on. But from the way people talk, you'd think that was the only problem a person could have in a marriage. None of this to say you should blindly marry the town bicycle of either gender on a whim, but if you feel like you have a true connection with someone, I say go for it rather than doing N count stuff. By the time we kind of agree that people should be settling down, most of your peers will likely be moderate N counted. And there are other red flags that you'll notice about an unstable person even if by some strange stretch of the imagination, they were a virgin when you met them.

And for those of you who want to virtue signal about how YOU have morals and would vet wisely and never allow yourself to be cheated on (nevermind that people change and we can't control other people's actions), please write a book because obviously we as a society could learn from your great wealth of knowledge. And tell us how your marriage of at least 10 years is going as well and what temptations you've swerved along the way. Otherwise it's just wishful thinking.

huhwhatokok · 2022-09-29T13:59:49+00:00

This is why I tell you guys that the percent of women on dating apps is misleading. She found her a chad and deleted her profile. Meanwhile, chad still has his dating profile up. It’s not that few women actually use dating apps, it’s just most are never on it for a long time until they’re added to chads harem.

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/xqu9cb/is_it_too_soon_to_ask_a_guy_24_if_he_is_seeing/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Lysa_Bell · 2022-09-29T14:51:39+00:00

I found the perfect relationship for you guys. It's all about bOuNdArIeS. Just go hard like her then you won't have to worry about Chad or anything.

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T18:16:42+00:00

Race is so relevant to dating it's insane that we can't talk about it except in this nebulous way.

There's so much more than the inceldom of "oh woah is me I'm [insert race] I'll never be successful"

But we can't talk about it at all. It's ridic

meteorness123 · 2022-09-29T19:01:19+00:00

My nightmare is to end up with someone with low emotional intelligence and then argue all the time. Being emotionally mature > looks

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-29T19:34:13+00:00

It's official, wife is preggers with baby #4 ❤, maybe it'll be a girl this time, either way my swimmers still shooting strong 😂

a_sinking_ship · 2022-09-29T05:49:19+00:00

How do you get over the lonely depression? It started for me in 2020 and just keeps digging inside my mental headspace.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-29T11:55:03+00:00

One girl said the dude with the biggest dick she ever saw never bragged or talked about it. She was so used to guys working their penis into conversations, talking about their size, sending unsolicited dick pics but not this dude. When he finally pulled it out she was like AYO

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-29T13:53:28+00:00

The women that be saying they are looking for a long term relationship/ serious dating the most online be the unattractive ones quite ironically

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-29T17:01:21+00:00

I wonder what happens to relationships after a person has been a victim of a sex crime. For example When we think of rapes or sexual assaults we always view it happening to single women, but there are women who are victims that are married and have boyfriends.

Do they tell their partners? Do they keep it to themselves? Does the partner find out and break up with them?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-09-29T19:06:35+00:00

Wooohoo! Rehabilitated from 72 hrs in PPD jail. Guess I can't promote going go the gym anymore and just stay in my lane and focus on FOMO, resentment, and cheating on your high n-count spouse.

gastongang · 2022-09-29T19:24:12+00:00

it's fine to be a virgin, as long as you don't have the mentality of one

InfoVariety-8842 · 2022-09-29T20:28:50+00:00

How common is the scenario of “seeing a Relationship Material guy non-exclusively without getting physical, but also seeing a FWB on the side.” PPD is the only place I hear this discussed frequently. Is it common in different age groups? Is it always women doing this?

(Don’t worry I’m not seeing anyone that’s holding out on me. Your mom usually puts out, so no risk of that happening)

lacuti3 · 2022-09-29T20:41:12+00:00

I feel like guys don’t realize girls hate being average looking.

Guys see average looking girl: 😍 she’s attainable
Average looking girls: 😑 I hate being average looking

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-30T03:19:49+00:00

Normalize women taking less time to get ready man , fuck !

urbangoth · 2022-09-30T02:01:17+00:00

I think reading dry ass books and essays for fun is the reason I'm long winded. The fact I have been working my way through the same dense book since January probably doesn't help.

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-09-30T01:50:08+00:00

I ain’t got nothin to say Hope u are all doing well

TigerRude4 · 2022-09-29T13:02:54+00:00

Cmv mods are more likely to ban men than women on ppd even if their comments are similar

meteorness123 · 2022-09-29T18:52:16+00:00

Everytime I go out, I see short ass dudes with girlfriends. Even fat dudes.

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-29T10:09:52+00:00

For women who like taller guys because he makes her feel “safer” or she likes the feeling of them looking better together because he’s taller, couldn’t this just be described as an insecurity? She wouldn’t be any less safe around a guy shorter than her and they wouldn’t look “worse” as a couple. She’s being irrational and insecure to have this preference.

Willow-girl · 2022-09-29T05:29:24+00:00

Aww shoot, we have a new daily thread ... right after a posted a new cow pic for your enjoyment. Ah well!

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T14:16:28+00:00

Men should screen for women's IG follower N-Count too. Anything more than 500 disrupts people's pairboding and attention abilities

dark_min10 · 2022-09-29T06:18:31+00:00

Honestly knowing how much of a slave myself and my fellow men are to pussy is quite depressing. It’s like it’s all that matters. This is all we party, work and live for. This is the end all and be all. We would betray each other for pussy. We would betray our loved ones and significant others (who ironically have a pussy) for pussy. We would cheat, lie, steal and go to war for pussy. Pay for it. Do whatever. It’s all that matters. If there is no pussy to be gained then men would argue against self improvement. No one wants to make enough money simply so they can afford nice things and live a comfortable lifestyle. No. If there is none to be won then you become a neet.

dark_min10 · 2022-09-29T09:03:52+00:00

Let me preface by saying that I’m somewhat blackpilled but not to an incel level. Anyways I think I’ve figured it out. Confidence and charisma will give you a chance with a particular woman assuming you’re not in direct competition with Chad. Let me explain. I tend to be very confident and have little approach anxiety. I can charm the socks off a woman but as soon as one of my Chad friends appears she loses interest. An example. We were all out at a bar with very attractive women. No one was approaching. They were just trying to make eye contact. Myself and another friend approached 2 ladies. The woman I was talking with was very attractive and into the conversation. Things were flowing until one of my Chad friends came by to let me know that we should be leaving soon. He quickly introduced himself to the girl then left. She immediately asked “Is that your friend?” This is not the first time that’s been asked. One woman even asked that after I explicitly introduced the guy as my friend. Anyways she proceeded to lose a lot of interest and things went considerably downhill from there. I wasn’t even in direct competition with him right then and there but him being in the vicinity and made seemingly available to her made her lose all interest in knowing me. Dating apps amplify this. I don’t know how this plays out when the woman in question is already in a relationship or hooked up with you. Other factors come into play like her attachment/attraction level to you and the type of woman she is (cheating/promiscuous type vs the more loyal type). What do you guys think of my observation?

Libah05 · 2022-09-29T11:20:31+00:00

This is for my gen z people: Matched with an attractive girl on tinder and we’ve been texting back and forth for the past three days. She is very responsive, asks me questions, and jokes etc. which are very good signs for OLD. I got her instagram handle and she has 12K followers. It made me feel a little depleted seeing that, but not much you can do about it.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-29T12:56:08+00:00

I kinda envy the fact that women live in a constant state of post nut clarity. Ladies, correct me If Im wrong.

As a guy, my horniness can make me do stuff that I regret later. I’ve made a lot of bad decisions because of it

QuenchlessGato · 2022-09-29T16:59:23+00:00

Height is a core part of toxic masculinity. The idea that taller = bigger, stronger, better reinforces the idea that men should focus on physicality and continue the dominance hierarchy.

Therefore, women who have a thing for tall men are directly encouraging and enforcing toxic masculinity which they then cry about later.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-29T05:05:16+00:00

sex with a small dick is like getting c*nt punched by an angry seal

VirtualRow4074 · 2022-09-29T05:22:34+00:00

How would y’all feel if you were seeing somebody for about 6 months you weren’t official mostly due to distance/school/career stuff but communicated & texted everyday during those months, went on at least one trip together , plenty of dates , & of course sex was involved towards the end. However the other person calls you and ends things & tells you it’s been something they’ve been thinking about for awhile however something you did finally made them decide that things finally to end they mention nothing about other people. Then 3 weeks later they pop up on instagram with a whole new relationship complete with pictures some recent but some also were clearly taken during the time you were actively seeing the other person complete with dates on the pictures & everything. They are also gifts in the photos that the person & their new person bought for each other. To add another layer to things you and this person know a lot of the same people from college & are friends/acquaintances with a lot of the same people and due to the fact that you both are in the same career field know a lot of the same people that way. You were not officially in a relationship but how would y’all feel regardless would y’all feel upset , sad , confused, mad or disappointed. Or would you feel nothing because you were never officially with the person & y’all technically were never committed. Would you tell the person how you feel or just be quiet & never speak to them again? Would you tell how you feel to people you knew mutually or keep it to yourself? I’d like answers from men & women but I’m specifically interested in answers from men.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-29T06:28:25+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/8xhyARN

these collarbone piercings on a guy y/n

gastongang · 2022-09-29T07:16:08+00:00

Masculinity is Ours to Keep: Male Power Fantasy and Masculine Archetypes in Grappler Baki

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yzr-FrMtW9E

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-09-29T08:57:22+00:00

While waiting for ps5 price to drop (i refuse to pay 800-900 euro that legit shops are selling it for, while the msrp is 450-550 euro) there is less and less incentive to get it as the games for which i want to get a ps5 start to get ported to pc.

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T11:34:09+00:00

This post gives me emotional catharsis by proxy

Snoo_16536 · 2022-09-29T12:06:41+00:00

Lead with your words, body language and your cock, and that will be her focus.

Lead with your wallet, and that will be her focus.

Learn Life

sparklyyblueberryy · 2022-09-29T12:13:02+00:00

According to TRP women are only attracted to maybe 20 percent of men. I don’t find this to be true, what do you think?

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T13:12:32+00:00

The only reason you don't see rants like this on here anymore is because the mods now have a no rants rule.

gastongang · 2022-09-29T13:39:09+00:00

Have ya'll seen this new post? She acts like she loves you after marriage, not before then. You're aware that she doesn't love you, but she never complains, cheats, or leaves you. I would never fucking want a forced partnership and this clearly seems like a forced marriage. I have a question for the people that picked that option. Would you treat her the same in return? Would you still marry her if she could dead bedroom you if the rest stayed the same?

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xr6f7r/which_would_you_pick/

Slipthe · 2022-09-29T13:52:37+00:00

What YouTube videos do you actually look forward to as they come out?

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T15:00:04+00:00

How tall should your wife be for your sons to become at least 6'2" when you're 5'10" ?

-angels-fan- · 2022-09-29T15:51:28+00:00

Why is the iOS keyboard such utter shit??

I have been using Swype for years, but thought I'd give the native keyboard a try.

It is constantly going back and changing words to different words that I don't want it changed to! I even turned off the "auto correct" setting, but it still does it.

Plus Swype lets you drag from the bottom row letters to the keyboard to do punctuation.

My only gripe with Swype is that it puts too many words into your personal dictionary and it will freeze up every so often and you have to reboot your phone.

But overall, it's just a far superior app. I'm mad they went out of business or whatever happened to them.

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T15:57:20+00:00

Tall men should never marry short women. Just look at Robert Downey Sr, a gigachad marrying a midget and producing another midget like RDJr 🤮

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-29T16:26:49+00:00

You can’t Advise men to get status and money if they are bad or average looking to attract women then make fun of them when they use status and money to attract women when they finally have it , you know

(Cough -fresh from fresh n fit )

MalePsychopath · 2022-09-29T16:55:34+00:00

Inspired by this recent post: if you would be concerned about your partner being a slave, you’re an abuser.

If you have a true intrinsic motivation to treat your partner well, then them being a slave is irrelevant. It doesn’t matter that they are vulnerable to abuse when you don’t (want to) abuse them.

People who are concerned about this situation know that they would abuse their position of power and need an external threat like divorce to prevent them from abusing their slave partner.

dark_min10 · 2022-09-29T17:01:08+00:00

If Chad would stick to one woman the dating market would be more equal. I have Chad friends and they all either cheat on their girlfriends or are free and seeing multiple women. Add this to the fact that a lot of somewhat decent women enjoy staying single and indoors. Chances are you aren’t going to meet any good women for a long time.

dysonRing · 2022-09-29T17:14:18+00:00

Andor is really good show, it goes to show how good writing can save any premise. Give me more adult Star Wars please

SpicyRamenAddict · 2022-09-29T17:20:33+00:00

My date cancelled our third date one hour before our date. I asked her if she wanted to continue to date she said yes. Now she hasn’t responded to my message for three days(we agreed to date exclusively). I just don’t understand some people.

huhwhatokok · 2022-09-29T18:49:01+00:00

I use to think I had a problem bc I’m on my phone a decent amount of time at work but I realize old heads in the office spend the same amount of time chit chatting with others about dumb shit.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-29T19:33:51+00:00

CMV: Women who do anal are pick me's 🙋‍♀️

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-09-29T19:38:46+00:00

Okay something for the RPW's here on PPD: Who are these redditor legends who were once called danabanana9 and phantomdream09 ?

Went down a rabbit hole while in PPD jail and discovered these two women who no longer exist on reddit anymore. Any info?

Edit: u/TemptestTcup I know you're around here somewhere. Maybe you can shed some light on those who have been on reddit <5 years.

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-09-29T19:44:01+00:00

Boyfriend broke up with me because I wouldn’t have sex

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/xr8dv1/boyfriend_broke_up_with_me_because_i_wouldnt_have/

Oh boi, I am so excited to see all the comments by women saying "You aren't entitled to sex sweetie. Go see a therapist" who always say that to the men on this platform haha right

Edit: It seems like people believed I was excited because of those comments being there. No, it was obvious sarcasm because it's clear she's never criticized in that manner at all.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-09-29T19:53:03+00:00

I can't believe I'm still seeing incels claim “If women hate toxic masculinity so much, why do they reward it with sex?”

Any guy who says this does not believe women are people.
These guys prefer women who “reward toxic maculinity” because these women are hyper sexual.

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T20:35:46+00:00

Wider Reddit acknowledging the possibility of those crazy sexless men uprising

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-29T20:43:05+00:00

Q4All: Is it rare to be attracted to someone's personality more than their looks? I wonder how uncommon is it to date someone mainly for their personality/vibe and how it fits with mine.

baresquad · 2022-09-30T01:41:40+00:00

I’m learning that people are stupid as fuck concerning causal sex. Decided to search the term on twitter to see what people there was saying and I seriously can’t make sense of the cluelessness of what people are saying.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-09-30T01:38:13+00:00

I keep seeing the same post on TwoX every week of

"Stop sleeping with conservative men"

Bro you realise they can just lie right? I lie about my beliefs to women all the time. Everyone here knows I'm the most anti-politics you can get, but when I'm on a date with a girl I'm as progressive and left leaning as they come.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-30T01:18:55+00:00

Making out is better than sex. Yes it is.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-30T01:04:59+00:00

I think the reason many athletes to struggle to adapt after their career is over is bevause their profession, value and identitiy was predicated on youth. Probably a good lesseon for everybody else. Enjoy your youth, beauty etc but try not to base your identity on it.

HeartCatchHana · 2022-09-30T00:56:01+00:00

When you see an attractive person do you immediately imagine having sex with them? I do.

YaKnowEstacado · 2022-09-30T00:41:37+00:00

My mom got banned from an al anon forum for "invalidating people's trauma" and telling a girl she was stupid for staying with an alcoholic "fiance" for ten years. I'm an apple that didn't fall far from the tree it seems.

huhwhatokok · 2022-09-30T00:34:54+00:00

I have the tea on what almost was a paternity fraud in my city. Basically, girl has a dude she fucks in-between relationships, she ends up getting into a relationship and gets pregnant fast. New dude buys a house and they make an ig post where she says Mrs and Mr “new dudes last name”. Well, layover dick is worried it’s his baby bc he would go raw in her. He pushes her to get a paternity test, and low and behold, it’s his.

The good thing is new dude kicked her ass out immediately lmao. Glad he didn’t fall for the shit women talk about in here about raising another man’s kids. Props to the actual father though he really saved the new dude. I don’t know if she would have ever gotten the test if he didn’t push for it.

lulll · 2022-09-30T00:22:47+00:00

q4w: rate this outlaw gangster

chattanoogacat · 2022-09-30T00:19:16+00:00

Q for all

Have you ever deliberately cut off friends or removed yourself from a social circle? Why and what consequences did you face? benefits?

figuringMylife · 2022-09-30T00:17:59+00:00

q4m: are the same men who won’t date fat, or xyz women the same ones who tell women to lower their standards?

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-29T12:40:26+00:00

What’s the point of using dating apps if women only make up 20-33% of them? Seems like a waste of time

gastongang · 2022-09-30T00:17:14+00:00

how would guys define the difference between being assertive and sexually aggressive, versus using coercion and intimidation? How pushy is too pushy?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-30T00:16:18+00:00

I tried Tinder a year or so ago but stopped after a few weeks. Is it worth picking back up for me?

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2022-09-30T00:06:24+00:00

traditional virgin is an insult todays guys just thought I’d give you a heads up

TigerRude4 · 2022-09-29T23:53:52+00:00

On one hand, short women are hot, on the other hand, I want my son to play in NBA

TigerRude4 · 2022-09-29T23:50:43+00:00

Dear Council of men,

Which rights are we stripping women off today to get laid more?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-29T23:48:50+00:00

CMV: Clinginess is attractive

TigerRude4 · 2022-09-29T23:46:49+00:00

Why are so many songs simpy

CaseyAnthonyFanClub · 2022-09-29T23:44:18+00:00

I wonder what this phenomena is called: the less effete and retarded I get/got, the more insecure I get too. I started as an oblivious skinny fat nothing, gradually built myself to a halfway decent human animal, read lots, more than anyone I know, got decent job, saving more than anyone I know, did/do more pullups than God, cool as fuck near perfect girlfriend, overall super pleasant life, some amount of real self-esteem, everything going better than I ever expected... and the insecurity has never been more overwhelming. It's so bad I'm having genuine sweat-inducing nightmares of my girlfriend cucking me by having a train run on her by a bunch of local meatheads she swears she's not attracted to (basketball meatheads wink wink). Then we're in the dream bedroom and she tells me it's not the same with me anymore and she needs more in order to cum and my pathetic Jewey beige nothing penis will never do it for her ever again. Every time she gets in her car to drive away I either imagine her getting into a terrible wreck where she gets face-smeared on the sidewalk or I imagine her clandestinely driving to some insanely chiseled (she swears she prefers a soccer build to big muscles) Idris Elba look-a-like and laughing with him about cucking me and paying for her dinner sometimes.

It's kinda like I do hope we get to live forever eternally as cybernetic computer god-men with a billion-trillion pleasure sensors on our face-genitals and simultaneously also it'd be pretty cool if the world just blew up and all this gay shit was finally over

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urbangoth · 2022-09-29T05:02:28+00:00

beep beep

Cor_ay · 2022-09-29T05:22:31+00:00

I’ll kickstart a potential debate before bed….

When I was young, my father was given a toughbook from his job. Look up 2005 toughbook, you could easily kill someone with this thing lol. Now picture a 9 year old walking around the house holding it by the handle.

I think I was in 4th grade and he showed me YouTube and the internet in general at that age. I was one of the first people I knew to have a laptop to use. People use to make fun of me for watching YouTube instead of TV in 2008, but I just thought it was more fun. I was young and used to argue “Nobody will care about TV in the future because YouTube is cooler!” (I guess I was KIND OF right haha).

I mainly stayed on YouTube, would go elsewhere but I would look at comments and how people interacted on the internet because at the time I felt like that was really cool (still do in a way, but yk, jaded at this point) and all the comments seemed pretty kosher. Supportive comments, interested comments, seemingly very rare to see really negative stuff.

Now, you go on TikTok, and it’s almost unbelievable how bad the comments are. Constant arguing, people trying to make others feel stupid, really bad takes (like not even close to respectable honestly, and I have a high tolerance), and overall (hate to say it) a bad vibe.

Here’s my question, has this always been like this but I was just too young to notice?

Or

Are people just genuinely declining this badly and their life is just too controlled by gaining internet points?

Or

Was a place like YouTube just filled with better people because less people had access to it so the people who actually were early were just “better people”?

luliloo · 2022-09-29T06:12:37+00:00

I saw this and immediately thought of purplish. Too much ppd on my mind.

hmmm

Patrickstarho · 2022-09-29T06:38:35+00:00

I hit a new low today. Shaved my nips and now I fondle them because it feels like a women breast 😣

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T10:34:39+00:00

This post proves it's the BluePillers who be shifting the goalpost on here.

Not once have I or anyone on that post claimed that past promiscuity directly causes future infidelity.

All we've said is there appears to be a strong correlation in women so it's best to avoid those women for LTRs (they can get a good dicking at most)

All the Bluepill comments keep saying "correlation doesn't equal causation" like they're a hivemind trained to throw that any time there's evidence to refute their position that a woman's history doesn't matter.

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T11:02:46+00:00

Say something that would make me hate women

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T11:38:40+00:00

Get a polygraph with your prenup boys

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-29T11:55:55+00:00

Since I was a kid I don’t think I ever had pajamas. I usually sleep in a T-shirt and my draws

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-29T12:23:48+00:00

Q4All: Do you have a "type?" Is it strict?

I've noticed that the only physical traits my exes and crushes have in common are a slim build and long hair. Everything else has room for variation. Race, personality, etc. all vary a lot.

dark_min10 · 2022-09-29T12:30:18+00:00

Q4M

Have you considered going for quantity over quality? If after all that self improvement you can only get women you think are below your level then just don’t commit. Use them for sex. As long they’re decent looking you should have some fun. No fatties though.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-29T15:15:14+00:00

Status changes womens' physical perception of you. Show up at a college party (or anywhere else), have people and especially women gather around you and you'll have other women think and say "He's so hot".

Welcome to the female mating mind.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-29T15:28:27+00:00

Im straight but honestly I see a lot of good looking guys in my city when I’m out and about. I don’t know if they’re sexually attractive to women but I think I can tell when a guy looks good. This is why I don’t understand when women say they go months without seeing a single attractive man. Makes me question their sexual orientation tbh.

ComboboxFromHell · 2022-09-29T16:26:10+00:00

Sorry for breaking up todays serious issues, its just its time for

90 day fiance season 2 episode 3

Dude had her fiance and his 6 years old daughter over. They all slept in the same bed.

Not the end of the world, I just dunno, are beds in short supply in the USA?

Couldn't he het get one for the kid?

Like the fiance is seeing the kid for the first time and they are already sleeping together as if it's a family on a TV ad.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-09-29T17:07:43+00:00

Anybody else watch Resident Alien? Just watched the season finale last night. It's such a good show, honestly might be my favorite ever.

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T17:47:31+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?reload=9&v=ytenJGzx80g&feature=youtu.be

Can't believe they made this doll like that and not Andrew Tate smh

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-29T18:00:26+00:00

Q4W What does misogyny smell like?

huhwhatokok · 2022-09-29T18:08:21+00:00

No reason for men to blame Chad for taking all the women when a good chunk of women would rather be a side for Chad than a main for an average guy.

I remember when my Chad friend showed me his ig dms and legit 50% of his lays were initiated by women. Like a good portion of women would dm him shit first like “Hey 👀” or asking to hang out. That’s when I realized the gap between Chad and the average guy is truly astronomical.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-09-29T18:29:41+00:00

Stop letting these plain ass PPD hoes dog you guys and call you incels trust me they are NOT what they say they are 😂

This is a PSA by your friendly neighborhood Derek Morgan

Slipthe · 2022-09-29T19:18:58+00:00

Lol I didn't know who the Try Guys were, but this video makes the whole cheating situation pretty cringe-y.

ComboboxFromHell · 2022-09-29T19:27:18+00:00

Its so awesome

https://old.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/xr6qxi/fish_play_soccer_in_their_tank_after_owner_trains/

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T19:38:54+00:00

What's wrong with having in-gender preferences?

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-09-29T19:47:36+00:00

It confuses me that all people (on reddit) always say cheating is really horrible. Why do so many people cheat then?

For instance, in the United States, a study shows that 20% of married couples are likely to encounter infidelity. Meanwhile, 70% of unmarried couples may have to deal with cheating in the course of their relationship.

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-09-29T20:07:55+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/DXAbhX9.mp4

This horse has had more action than me in my entire life just like that💀💀

On second thought, more than 99% of the men on this subreddit if we take into account the hotness of the girl

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T20:08:11+00:00

How would the world look like of women had penises and balls and men vaginas and wombs, BUT each had the same physical stature

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-09-29T20:39:48+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3O49Exj_5M

German video, but she is actually addressing the OLD problem and how fucking useless it is for not-above-average guys. More empathy than all of the female ppd users combined.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-29T20:43:03+00:00

How many married men are actually virgins?

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T09:55:35+00:00

Men's sexual appetite is three times bigger than women. That's why ideally men should have three lovers and women only one

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T12:09:37+00:00

u/mods why can't we see virtually anyones downvotes or upvotes on posts except our own

TigerRude4 · 2022-09-29T13:55:54+00:00

Really wondering whether I'll get banned now, if mods sre consistent they shouldn't ban me.

Peacesquad · 2022-09-29T15:03:55+00:00

Yo, update me. What did I miss?

Libah05 · 2022-09-29T19:29:05+00:00

CMV: Cheating is a toxic masculine trait.

Masculinity is about being proactive and taking risks. Cheating is a by-product of taking the risk of trying to get your cake and eat it too.

johnnyGotHisTabla · 2022-09-29T23:41:23+00:00

CMV: smart and capable women are still better off with a steady, masculine hand on the tiller.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-09-29T23:22:09+00:00

This is why this hell hole is kinda addicting: you can have 3 notifications to comments you wrote and one is "I like to dip my fries in chocolate milkshake from Wendy's", next one is "married men always get easier pussy" and then you have "the female orgasm is a useles leftover from an evolutionary point of view".

The crazy makes the brain tingle.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-29T23:11:28+00:00

I'm starting to think a social support system is the cure for almost every mental disturbance the average person has.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-29T23:10:31+00:00

Brad Pitt couldn't hold down a marriage. This is what happens when your value as a man is based on a feminine value system : looks.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-29T23:07:56+00:00

I feel like ppl who don't procrastinate are urban legends or greek myths. They don't exist to me.

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-09-29T22:54:45+00:00

There's no actual difference between a 7, an 8 or a 9.

Whenever I see a hot girl I just randomly assign her one of these numbers depending on how I'm feeling in the moment.

-mixedsignals · 2022-09-29T22:29:09+00:00

This posts in RP women confuse me so much

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/xrill1/thinking_we_should_try_to_live_on_my_husbands/

she earns significantly more than her husband, she likes her job but she wants to live off her husband's salary who isn't money driven, she doesn't want to change the lifestyle that comes with the money

she wants the man to be "the captain" and she wants to loose money for no reason to achieve that. Money that could be well spent on their daughter.

Mark_Freed · 2022-09-29T22:26:06+00:00

Q4M would you date a transwomen?

I was watching this video was wondering what percentage of straight men would be open to that nowadays.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-29T22:26:05+00:00

Q4All: Best sex position?

IMO missionary. I'm not boring I'm just tender 💅

gastongang · 2022-09-29T22:18:59+00:00

bullying fat people on Twitter, harassing Redditors into watching random youtube videos

the duality of man

doshkhaleesi · 2022-09-29T22:05:00+00:00

"Writing drunk is bad advice," said some failed author.

lulll · 2022-09-29T22:01:43+00:00

no for a real question. do you put ketchup all over your fries or do you put the ketchup off to the side and dip the fries in it

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T21:55:24+00:00

Why does anyone care that that TryGuys dude cheated on his wife with a coworker

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-29T21:55:07+00:00

Is there any relationship to having a big dick and preferring big butts on women?

Play_Muted · 2022-09-29T21:51:48+00:00

Q4M rate her https://prnt.sc/ruXqRrRVFfZN

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T21:42:44+00:00

Is there any relationship between sex hormones and melanin?

whittingham_centeno · 2022-09-29T21:39:31+00:00

I have an interesting idea for a study. Measuring the distance of women's urethra from their vaginal entry and their attitude about sex in general and casual sex in particular

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-29T20:53:46+00:00

Q4W- have you ever known a woman including yourself who was lil n count, not into casual sex but preferred big dicks ?

I guess men can answer too

LaloTwins · 2022-09-29T20:51:14+00:00

Bruh, Lizzo is so fucking fat what business she have thinking she could bag Chris Evans 😂😂😂

bunnakay · 2022-09-29T20:49:28+00:00

It's always fun to explain to men how I have casual sex in roughly the same way men do and watch their heads explode.

trail22 · 2022-09-29T20:45:29+00:00

I feel like in most peoples minds all any guy has to do to get a date is to have a social circle and workout for a few years. Like they cant understand how a guy couldnt get a date if they put the smallest effort. Liek the gulf of experience cant be that large.

chattanoogacat · 2022-09-29T16:41:56+00:00

Here’s an n count story. I remember asking my ex how many guys she’s been with. This was a year and a half into our relationship. Mind you;I was baited into the question because she kept talking about various exes and wanted me to talk about mine. i specifically remember her saying “eh around 18” Im not gonna necessarily say that’s high or anything in theory but at the time ,18 seemed like a high number to throw out after saying eh around~

It really bugged me out lol. I feel like after 10 partners you should just say over 10 and just cut the conversation short. The relationship ended but i still think that conversation was purposefully planned to let me know how many people she’s been with. I still think she wanted to gauge my reaction but i never understood why. Just an all around strange conversation.

I never care about my partners history but i always end up finding out somehow. It almost seems contrived. Probably anecdotal but women always seem to tell on themselves. I never look for the n-count yet it always surfaces.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-29T19:40:44+00:00

Are most men under 6 feet technically virgins? By technically I mean that their sex partner wasn’t enthusiastic about the sex or the sex was out of pity or they were beta bux or they got laid because a Chad wasn’t available nearby. Interesting thought

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Oh boi, I am so excited to see all the comments by women saying "You aren't entitled to sex sweetie. Go see a therapist" who always say that to the men on this platform haha right