Daily Community Chat Megathread

scwizard · 2023-08-18T17:29:26+00:00

I would 100% rather be in a harem where Henry Cavill takes care of me and sleeps with me along with several other women than spend 2 seconds with a broke, overweight, porn-addicted no-chin.

Ouch man. Guys can't help the shape of their chin...

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-18T00:55:39+00:00

I had a conversation yesterday that inspired me.

Gonna convert a closet into a gamer den so I can have more space for activities.

potoricco · 2023-08-18T00:38:01+00:00

“The Wall” is the biggest lie being told to women!!!

There was a post asking about your guilty pleasure subs, mine is r/redpillwomen which is where I got the inspiration for this

potoricco · 2023-08-18T00:35:27+00:00

What is the difference between a wedding ring and engagement ring❤️

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-18T00:22:48+00:00

Is calisthenics good for building muscle mass?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-18T00:11:25+00:00

It's really frightening how many men here demand sex because it's what they want regardless of whether their partner wants it or not.

It's quite horrifying how many men here feel like they are owed sex because marriage is involved. And that a woman should stay in a relationship where the other party demands sex.

It's eye opening that so many here view sex as solely their pleasure vs a pleasure act between two persons.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-17T23:53:40+00:00

She might be a whore, but she ain’t wrong

Men who date how woman want them to, rather than how they want to or what works don’t deserve to get laid.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-17T23:45:57+00:00

are airpods worth it ?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-17T23:39:33+00:00

"Anytime a man on here says women just have to be thin and learn to put on makeup just don't sound to me like they know much about womens inner world. There's a lot more intricacy to female grooming, if you're unaware then maybe don't assume that's all it is"

First yes that's all it takes since we constantly agree men will lower their standards for the access of sex

Claiming being thin and putting on makeup is not enough makes no sense since women who aren't thin or put makeup still get attention from men

Second, most women wear makeup when going out to places and even at work or sometimes just alone with their friends

So seems there's no intricacy of female grooming beyond that, so this narrative is a lie again

But for argument sakes let's l agree with this claim, if so then why are makeup companies still around and still in high-demands ? Someone pls explain this phenomenon then ?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-17T23:31:05+00:00

Today, I learned that some people think that disagreeing means someone was right or wrong.

It's strange that people assume everyone will agree with them. And that being right is only done by agreeing to a specific thought, idea, or concept.

scwizard · 2023-08-17T23:21:39+00:00

Some people think that if it feels good it's totally fine with a 40 year old guy to be with a 18 year old girl.

Like if it's legal and it makes their dick hard there's nothing wrong with it.

No sense of right and wrong.

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saraimarsena · 2023-08-17T00:01:24+00:00

first?

mummydontknow · 2023-08-17T00:05:01+00:00

I really use this place as a venting space.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-17T00:06:55+00:00

Damn I really want sushi or fish rn

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-17T00:11:47+00:00

Someone got stabbed at the place I was invited out tonight… (I skipped since I don’t drink)

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-17T00:17:30+00:00

What’s up with Daily thread restarting so late?

sine120 · 2023-08-17T00:18:50+00:00

What are your guilty pleasure subreddits you lurk on? Juicy stuff like r/DeadBedrooms, r/AsOneAfterInfidelity, etc?

webernicke · 2023-08-17T00:19:41+00:00

The real Red Pillnis that wen want men who are mentally/emotionally capable of being patriarchs. That's what "an attractive personality comes down to."

The looks/money/game stuff helps, of course, and some (especially modern) bluepill advice does make polite reference to this. But the real reason why so many men are struggling to attract women today is because most of them don't have a naturally patriarchal temperament, and society doesn't instill this in men anymore.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-17T00:19:49+00:00

I told my trainer I want to grow my upper body area. He said "I can turn you into Captain America if that's what you want " lol.

Now we're shifting from a performance routine to a bodybuilding one. I'm excited.

potoricco · 2023-08-17T00:23:56+00:00

I never liked Neymar but now I want to date him

MysterySolverDog · 2023-08-17T00:27:07+00:00

Once again we're back to explaining that having a friend isn't a substitute for having an intimate loving partner, so it would appear everything is back to normal around here.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-17T00:41:30+00:00

Q4All: Out of curiousity why are you really here? Is it just because of the entertainment value or do these discussions evoke a primal feeling you can't shake?

No judgment.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-17T00:44:50+00:00

Q4M: why is your empathy conditional upon getting your dicks wet?

I'm childfree. I still vote for school levies to fund education. I still think that the government should exist, and that includes a national defense to protect that existence. I don't think we should all go back to flinging our feces at each other and not living in a civilized society where it's every man for themselves just because I'm not getting fucked on demand.

It's because I'm a decent human being and my empathy for my fellow human beings to live safe, comfortable lives has literally no relationship to whether or not I have a dick in my pussy or children coming out of it.

But it's frequently expressed on this sub that if men don't have guaranteed access to women and offspring, that they will or should not only not participate in society, but should and/or will actively harm it. Even though they're still benefitting from the same civil defense, existence of tort and infrastructure/education/hospitals/laws etc. that everyone else in society is, they don't actually think any of that counts. Apparently the only way male members of a society "benefit" is by having guaranteed access to pussy and children.

So why are men different? If the only way for men to care about their fellow mankind is through guaranteed access to women's bodies, aren't y'all sociopaths who shouldn't be in charge of anything at best and probably in an institution somewhere at worst?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-17T00:52:22+00:00

Q4All: how important do you think male height is as a trait? Truthfully, I actually try not to think about it too often. But there's tall guys that can't get anything who argue height isn't that important, and short guys who think it's the end all, be all trait. And vice versa, tall guys who think it is important and short guys who still get a lot of women. Who do you think is right?

mummydontknow · 2023-08-17T00:53:27+00:00

How do I find a homebody if the usual advice given is to go out and meet people? I'm mostly gonna be meeting outgoing people.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-17T01:05:29+00:00

I know enough women in the 5’11-6’ range that I see it as a completely normal height for a woman.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-17T01:08:43+00:00

!Been doing NoFlick for the entire time I’ve been away on my hiking trip so that when I finally get home, I’ll get the minigasms just from my husband touching me!<

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-17T01:22:27+00:00

Would the men and women here agree that Chris Evans physique in the first Captain America movie is an example the "ideal" male physique?

Photo A

Photo B

He firstly has naturally wide clavicles, giving him a broad frame that can't really be replicated through just having big muscles alone. This itself plays a huge role in why he looks so "heroic", and thus suited to play a superhero. Additionally, he has a great amount of muscle mass, while not having the overly vascular or wrinkly look that many steroid-using bodybuilders have. Lastly, he has a short torso and long legs, which in my opinion looks more majestic than the reverse. Combine all of that with his tall height and handsome face, and you have an example of an ideal male specimen in my opinion. If Chris Evans in that picture were just an ordinary civilian walking around town looking like that, the public reaction would be immense. Women would be calling up their girl-friends to tell them about how "the hottest guy ever is standing beside them at the bus stop". Wives would forget about their marital status, for as long as Chris Evans was in their sightlines. Gay men would be fainting. And most straight men would feel like garbage lol.

I've seen so many great bodybuilding physiques, yet when I think about how I wish I could look in clothes, the first image that comes to mind is Chris Evans as Captain America.

Those photos should be an encouragement to the men on here to wear tighter shirts. It makes you look more masculine than any looser shirt ever can.

But I'm curious to hear what others think, because people might have different preferences.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-17T01:48:40+00:00

https://edition.cnn.com/2023/08/16/europe/otzi-the-iceman-physical-traits-scn/index.html

Q4W: Otzi? Yay or Nay? Hot or Not? Ancient Chad or just not tall enough?

hannahg000 · 2023-08-17T01:56:20+00:00

my brother is in middle school and his school had an open house tonight. it’s been forever since i’ve been around kids that age. it’s so weird because they either look 6 or like adults with baby faces. but some of those girls looked older than me low key, full face of makeup and trendy outfits.

potoricco · 2023-08-17T02:00:04+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/inmpmcb5vkib1.jpeg?width=670&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=320adca0fa9eac977c941e5df2428d3cf05da5f3

I hate him sooooo much him and Andrew tate are destroying an entire generation

My brothers used to watch him I made them stop

SorryEm · 2023-08-17T02:06:26+00:00

Okay, so about Andrew Tate. Why do people dislike him?

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-17T02:11:28+00:00

I am over 6’3” and I never put that in my dating profiles. Judging by the effect I have on women in my personal life, I think I’m doing a good thing and leveling the playing field.

potoricco · 2023-08-17T02:21:35+00:00

I only have one of these products, even though I buy too much makeup it feels good to know that i haven’t completely become a consumer

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-17T02:39:04+00:00

The fashion advice for men here is ass. " wear cloths that actually fit", its alot of shit that fits, but its also mainly about your style. There are alot of dudes that wear baggy cloths and they got drip. Its more than that, its about color choice, material choice, footwear is huge, the trends that are going on , patterns, ect....

Maybe you can be boring and wear slim fit black jeans, and fucking button ups but thats boring. Where's the style, the imagination, the pop.

Cloths are suppose to be who you are in garment form

potoricco · 2023-08-17T03:15:18+00:00

Literally 12 days until I go back to school 😢 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭👶

VTHokie2020 · 2023-08-17T03:22:24+00:00

One thing I find annoying about women is how they literally never disagree with each other.

I'm talking among friends obviously, not some female politician or something.

Sometimes half their conversations are just rewordings of things like "Yeah, you're right, your mom/roommate/coworker is not being reasonable at all."

I swear to God, sometimes the complainer friend is talking at the listener friend, and the listener friend literally shuts her brain off until the complainer friend stops talking.

At least with my guy friends if they're being raterded I'll let them know they're being raterded.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-17T03:36:16+00:00

Where we live now you can get far more nice things and a better lifestyle compared to our home country. But we got heavily downgraded - from middle class to poor as a consequence of our sudden relocation. I hope the situation will get better with time, but for now I'm struggling with feeling envious of people who have it better and/or who have been born here. It's something...new. At home we had a good lifestyle and I was fairly content with it and I knew what and when we'd be doing to get into a better position.

I should use this feeling to work harder.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-17T03:39:49+00:00

PPD has crashed into my real life.
Since I have no skin in the dating/mating game anymore, I will now regard every social interaction that I have as an opportunity to gain insight/truth into male nature. It will be an experiment, my new hobby. So far, it’s really not going so well trying to establish friendships but I am a determined human.

According-Dinner-406 · 2023-08-17T03:51:55+00:00

Reading these incels ramble on about weird shit like adherence and blah, blah, blah. I don't know but it's a guilty pleasure.

I once met an indian chick on here who lived just a state away and I probably could have banged her if I hadn't delayed.

Finally, a place to bully lesser men while also meeting women for potential sexual encounters.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-17T04:15:44+00:00

You can change. Just keep going one day at a time. Remember to be kind to yourself in the process.

sine120 · 2023-08-17T04:24:37+00:00

Anyone listen to Whatifalthist on YouTube? I'm fascinated by "the other side's" predictions of potential societal collapse. Not sure where gender's mutual lack of empathy and all this debate leads in the end. More political polarization? Economy crashing?

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-17T04:37:14+00:00

It was 107 F here today (41.6 C). The pool felt amazing.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-17T05:34:53+00:00

In the book Princess by Jean Sasson, a true story about a Saudi princess dealing with being a woman in Saudi Arabia in the 1950’s to 1990, Sultana, the princess’s brother, has massive disdain for Western women, who he sleeps with en masse. Sultana wishes she could travel to the West and walk around behind her brother at the seedy bars and clubs he goes to get one night stands holding a sign that says

THIS MAN SECRETLY DISDAINS YOU AND HOLDS YOU IN CONTEMPT! IF YOU SAY YES TO THIS MAN, HE WILL BRAND YOU A WHORE TO THE WORLD

This settled deep into my core about how “alpha Chad” men who sleep with women on PPD behave.

TheCounsellingGamer · 2023-08-17T05:50:55+00:00

In a few weeks I'll be bringing home my first Bengal kitten. I lost my old girl of 14 years recently so getting this new baby will be bitter sweet. I went to go and see the kitten today and she still looks more rat than cat, but I'm sure she'll grow into her looks lol.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-08-17T06:01:24+00:00

Women are not real.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-17T08:08:39+00:00

Male to male (admiration?) harems… I’m doing a life review & looking for patterns & truth. My ex had a whole hippie commune spring up next door to us that was built & run by a hetero man. My current has an actual shrine in his honor that exists within the home of my longest term male friend. It’s basically his only decorative effort since the 90’s.

SlashCo80 · 2023-08-17T09:43:02+00:00

The older I get, the less highly I think of "traditionally beautiful" women - by which I mean the Instagram influencer type. This came to mind recently as I was catching up with an old friend who's an airline pilot. We were at a restaurant together with a few of his colleagues, including a couple of stewardesses - the traditionally pretty, men-do-anything-I-want type. Not surprisingly, they acted stuck-up and arrogant the whole time, like if you weren't a rich businessman with a male model physique, you had no business talking to them. Their intelligence is usually average at best, they have no outstanding talents or skills, and their personality is often dull. Yet they act like haughty queens due to a lifetime of men kissing their asses and never telling them "no". What stings is that there used to be a time when I was one of those men. Now I can just look back on it and laugh. Such is life.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-17T10:52:14+00:00

It's irritating how oblivious women are of the upsides of men being different from them. Which is that men are more forgiving and less hung up on literal human worth, it's just not as much our ideal. Or you can also say that male sexuality is kind of dumber, maybe that's more of a digestible way of putting it. But this totally benefits women, imo this is quite literally the main reason why women don't "attach their self-worth to sexuality" like those whiny men do. Yea, because men aren't primarily drawn to literal human worth in a female body. Like, that's it. At our core, we just like women and find them beautiful enough that it makes us want to be with them. And sure, things do get more complex than that in actual serious relationships, obviously. Still, it's absolutely a double-edged sword kind of thing, but it's like women are only capable of comprehending the bad things about it, when men are genuinely shallow or asshole-ish with their drive. It's honestly sad, I really don't think that deep down us being drawn to retarded stuff like beauty is nefarious, but it's like women can only ever accept it if you can hide it well enough from them. And the other thing is the total superiority and mocking manner in which women interact with these "whiny men", how they roll their eyes at them, as if they have any fucking idea what it feels like to be on the receiving end of a gender's expectation that longs for utter fucking excellence. They don't know that. Not anywhere near to that extent. They should somewhat get that sexuality-related expectations can feel pressuring after many decades of feminism hyper-analysing their social status and coming up with stuff like "oppressive beauty standards", but they don't get it. I guess if you genuinely think that all you want from a partner is actual meaningful and amazing things, like literally "worthy stuff", then it's gonna be difficult to see how that can be kind of shitty, I guess that makes sense. But it's still annoying as fuck.

Turbulent-Fig-3123 · 2023-08-17T11:20:39+00:00

So this sub is like 90% neoliberals vs neocons each arguing over their nearly identical views of the world that both uphold societal alienation, market domination, and the status quo to varying degrees?

Whew lads

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-17T11:35:08+00:00

If you seek something, it's kind of arrogant to be unwilling to be something. If you have a gendered ideal in your head that you long for and seek in other people (sexuality), then the mature way to do that is to accept that others also seek their own gendered ideals, therefore some degree of willingness to mould yourself into what they like is actually... just fair. This is absolutely a balancing act, and a delicate one.

But I do think that this is something that all people have a hard time accepting. And yet, women keep dressing objectively sexier than men, which to me is a sign that in some deep subconscious level they do get this. They are hating on the concept rationally, but are still leaning into it subconsciously, almost in a passive-aggressive, provocative way. "Here it is, this is what you guys are so fucking dumb about! Now what? What are you gonna do?"

Meanwhile, men just whine. Well, what women like about us is not quite so simple to just "lean into", at least for men who actually struggle.

Novel-Tip-7570 · 2023-08-17T11:35:50+00:00

Do feminists even realize that "rights" are enforced by humans through the threat of violence? And since men have the monopoly of violence in our society, rights are enforced by men? I am just saying because they're acting as if women's rights are completely independent of men which is bs. Look at what happened in Afghanistan once men stopped fighting.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-17T11:58:57+00:00

A man recognizing another man’s attractiveness like this is super cute.

potoricco · 2023-08-17T12:14:58+00:00

Good morning

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-17T12:29:31+00:00

The poshest British people ever are sitting nearby me at this hotel’s breakfast and I’m barely restraining myself from cracking up at their accents.

“Bayyycon”

“Jell-lay”

“Po-tayy-toes”

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-17T12:30:36+00:00

What are some of the biggest reasons you think men find promiscuous women icky in a relationship context?

Maybe with the way the human psyche is we were always bound to find those people somewhat questionable especially in a relationship context because what makes it especially beautiful is being special to each other, sort of owning one another in a consenting way, and just being deeply vulnerable perhaps.

When men look at a woman like that they see how she had let numerous men in that vulnerable position so it doesn't mean much, but when women look at men like that they get more so impressed by his competence, experience, and desirability by other women?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-17T12:44:56+00:00

Who was in the wrong here -> https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15t8fcm/he_let_me_walk_home_alone_at_1_am/

potoricco · 2023-08-17T13:01:20+00:00

Apparently r/FemaleAntinatalism got brigaeded by a bunch of men

Why wont they let us have anything to ourselves

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-17T13:09:17+00:00

The “War On Boys in School” also proves that men are truly no different from women when it comes to finger pointing and dont care about discipline.

Boys disproportionately have learning and behavioral problems.
School use to be optional, so the kids who failed at school would just drop out and take a blue collar job.

But apparently, expecting kids to sit down and shut up is “turning boys into girls” even though that’s been how school’s been even before society pushed women into education. So much for “men caring about discipline”. Apparently sounding mature is much better than actually being mature.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-17T13:16:38+00:00

Do OnlyFans, TikTok, Instagram and Twitter models also "dress up for themselves" in skimpy outfits such as anything tight, sheer or revealing?

Would they also keep dressing up like that "for themselves" if it generated no attraction, no followers, no likes and thus no money?

Peacesquad · 2023-08-17T13:19:00+00:00

It’s actually funny looking back on Drake’s old lyrics and his new ones there are so many red pill quotes “I like to fuck on a regular bitch, famous hoes lame but they stay on my dick” or “everybody married is miserable”

Peacesquad · 2023-08-17T13:19:10+00:00

What did miss. Don’t BS me dammit

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-17T13:19:44+00:00

I think a lot of guys in male dominated spaces don’t realize how abnormal the gender dynamics are there when it comes to dating.

Dating wise you’re better off increasing the amount of places you’re meeting women instead of pining for the women with multiple times more options than you.

Johnsky321 · 2023-08-17T13:30:13+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/1hcwdn59aoib1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=658bc93b29175e0a3f3d9846eed3f937c5ddbe6e

You got Redpill on one hand and FDS on the other, don't be surprised when a middle-ground isn't found around here.

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-17T13:31:24+00:00

I think we need a novel in some fictional world with ideologies very similar to our own but superficially differences in thoughts but not in motives where they keep psychologically fighting with one another until the whole thing just crumbles on the both of them. What should be highlighted the most I think is that complex situation one finds themselves in where they know exactly what is going to happen and how it's gonna end but no one wants/can stop it. So it's just a gradual and slow agonizing destruction of everything that was built in the span of the thousands of years.

Johnsky321 · 2023-08-17T13:39:22+00:00

"Women don't need men" or "Men don't need women", are pathetic arguments, life is more than just about getting your needs; even homeless people have food, water, and meds.

This type of materialist thinking ignores the fact that if you aren't achieving your desires you might as well be a sleepwalker waiting for it's death.

potoricco · 2023-08-17T13:51:51+00:00

My room is SO CLUTTERED I don’t know even where to start

Slipthe · 2023-08-17T13:52:34+00:00

Just learned that my boyfriend is 5'7'', not 5'8'' like I thought.

Here comes the hypergamy.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-17T13:54:18+00:00

You know how women are saying "men don't get American Psycho is a satire! They're basing their personality on a film/book that was criticizing the very thing these men are embracing!"

Something dawned on me the other day. It's like how women wear makeup despite hating it and when you tell them they don't have to do anything, they will say that it's society that says they HAVE to wear it.

Sure, Patrick Bateman is shallow and vain, he is narcissistic and self serving, but he is also doing well in life (on the surface level despite all the murder stuff). He has many things that men covet. In a way, becoming Patrick Bateman is a necessary evil in a cruel and unjust world. It is something we don't want to be, but must be in order to propagate our own survival in the social arena.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-17T13:59:12+00:00

I'm convinced that some men here compare their sexual partners and that's why they are afraid of women who have had sex.

They think they'll be compared to some man, the same way they compare women.

It's wild. Who has time to compare sexual partners? Seems pointless.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-17T13:59:46+00:00

Is anyone moderating this site anymore? Is Mrs drgree not around anymore?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-17T14:14:06+00:00

Imagine not having casual sex and thinking you're an expert on casual sex. 🙄

I'm always amazed at the experts in this sub. Expertise built off shoddy research and Reddit subs.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-17T14:16:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/shitposting/comments/15tfgix/anon_is_evil_heil_spez/

Probably not real but this happens IRL so i'll entertain it. Imagine if bro put this much time and effort into being desirable he probably could have had a real date with the chick lol

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-17T14:18:30+00:00

I unironically think that men's constant whining online has helped women take men's grievances a bit more seriously. Because imo there was a noticeable improvement over the past 5 years, not much, but it's noticeable. That's the one undeniably good thing about the whole manospherian shit, guys were relentless enough that they are now hard to ignore, if nothing else.

BigCollectionFor · 2023-08-17T14:23:37+00:00

What is up with young people looking really old these days?

I thought we were supposed to look younger. That the premature aging thing was a thing of the past. When children worked in mines?

17 year old looking to be in her 30s.

https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/15kohke/people_men_keep_telling_me_i_look_older_than_i_am/

26 year old looking to be in his 40s.

https://www.reddit.com/r/RoastMe/comments/15t1zxx/26yo_finance_bro_unroastable_try_me/

Has it always ben like this?

scwizard · 2023-08-17T14:47:48+00:00

This is what I'm talking about. I knew somebody was making like $250k as some code monkey and he was always complaining about how he didn't know how to do his laundry. Almost burned down his apartment several times.

I remember rolling my eyes at him and being like, "for somebody who prides himself on being so smart, you sure can be stupid."

He's a sexist POS so I don't hold back with him.

He's almost 40 and undateable. Even with all his money women don't want to touch him with a 10-ft pole.

I'm sure he could find a girl from overseas who would marry him.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-17T14:48:27+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Aquarius.

This girl is WEIRD. The eccentric of the bunch, she simultaneously walks to the rhythm of her own drum ... and still manages to be as basic as a williamsburg hipster. On the surface she seems independent and different due to her unorthodox feelings on the world, religion, mainstream culture, whatever the convo du jour is. Don't be tricked, she isn't as remarkable as she thinks she is. Sex for her is tied up in many things, but if I had to narrow it down to one thing, her sexual mantra, it would be "ohhhhh the possibilities!" She lives in her head, her dreams, and in her fantasies. The real world is often just too mundane for her. There's an escapist element to her love. She never wants to be tied down, freedom is what she lusts for. And the impossible.

Because of this she will easily get entangled with married men who promise so much while at the same time rejecting truly compatible suitors. She feels a deep need to be liked by everyone. And if that isn't achievable, at least no one to hate her. The image of an Aquarian girl in my mind is a childlike, foolish little flower power Woodstock girl from the late 1960s. At the peak of her sexual and feminine powers, and completely ignorant and unaware of it.

Sex with her is just ok. She's not the most imaginative lover. Occasionally she'll be down for a threesome. New experiences greatly appeal to her, so if you can pitch something as fun and taboo, she'll often be onboard.

Recommended approach: There's not a lot you can do, it's love at first sight for her. First impressions. You'll just have to identify if she's into you by the signals she emits. Honestly, I'd say just avoid her. 99% that she speaks about her feelings hold no weight. Changes her mind frequently.

Don't worry too much about hurting her feelings. They are only skin deep. Later in life she becomes just another cog in the machine. A pity, because she talked a BIG game in her youth. Just another chicken shit, risk averse woman.

hannahg000 · 2023-08-17T15:02:52+00:00

do people still use craigslist for hookups?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-17T15:11:39+00:00

Are passport bros meeting women in hostels or are they just complaining online?

meeting women or people in general in hostels is so easy I'm still surprised nobody even talks about it

Lovemelikeareptile1 · 2023-08-17T15:11:54+00:00

Most people spend more time making up stories about why they are undesirable and why nobody wants them, that if they spend this time actually trying to meet someone, they'd be swimming in pussy.

TheSunWillShin3 · 2023-08-17T15:16:40+00:00

Q4W: Would you rather your partner be underweight or overweight?

hannahg000 · 2023-08-17T15:20:43+00:00

ok but Johnny_Autism will just post the same shit as everyone else but gets twice the engagement

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-17T15:21:26+00:00

I miss the days of critical thinking when it came to the internet.

I was always taught never to believe anything on the internet unless it was from a reputable source.

An anonymous internet platform isn't a reputable source. And yet some men here think Reddit posts are an example of all women.

webernicke · 2023-08-17T15:23:27+00:00

I just learned that Gen Alpha has made it's first internet meme.

GenZs hitting the Wall like

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-17T15:30:04+00:00

"59% of men within the 18-25 age group (Zoomers) have not approached someone in the past year"

I'm wondering if this translates to women experiencing less sexual harassment

Willow-girl · 2023-08-17T15:30:20+00:00

Putting gas in my truck this morning, the fellow at the next pump struck up a conversation with me, introduced himself as Dave and started showing me pics of his hunting trip to British Columbia. Not my thing, obviously, but I entertained him, as why not pass the time of day with a stranger? We're put here to make the world a little brighter place for each other.

Finally I excused myself, saying I had to get back to work. As I was getting in my truck, he said, "Who's that you've got there with you, your father?" I said, "No, this is my boyfriend, ----."

Rest of the morning, the man and I had a laugh about it, me calling him "Daddy" and him yelling, "RUN AWAY, DAVE! SAVE YOURSELF!"

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-17T15:42:17+00:00

That science post about women's self reported attraction to male faces not lining up with their genital arousal was actually interesting. Wish there were more science posts tbh

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-17T15:47:10+00:00

"For women who were approached in person for a date, but didn’t desire to be, the top reason indicated was not finding the man attractive."

This accounted for about 50% of women finding this the reason.

Fear of harm is at 18%.

Don't shoot the messanger. I just found this interesting

Source: https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-17T15:54:27+00:00

People who call evolutionary psychology pseudo science are being disingenuous and it comes from activism rather than academia. They only call it when the context is gender differences. But when it comes to overeating and many more psychology, there is much more consensus on how it relates to our brain operating on an ancient world level.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-17T15:56:31+00:00

A double post for today. Luck you.

I really enjoy Orion breaking down what men don't understand about women's sexual selection.

Thoughts?

princedune · 2023-08-17T15:59:57+00:00

Theres so much difference between age and location of the people here that its basically impossible to have any meaningful discussion. I've lost count of how many times people have told me my personal experiences couldn't have happened, and its usually because their dating experiences come from a time before dating apps or they live somewhere with a vastly different culture.

BigCollectionFor · 2023-08-17T16:03:57+00:00

What is the benefit of dating a woman who "knows her worth and wont put up with bullshit"?

It just sounds so unappealing. As if you would shame women for not wanting to date a man who: "Puts his foot down and refuse to settle for the bare minimum. Demanding that you cook and clean to his standards." That doesn't sound very appealing, does it?

Why do women think that they can shame men for this?

sine120 · 2023-08-17T16:05:24+00:00

If you were being honest with yourself, what's your type?

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-17T16:06:16+00:00

Everyone talks about looks being the most important factor. The most important factor is:

Money

Slipthe · 2023-08-17T16:22:27+00:00

Lonely men are the modern day cannon-fodder in the political landscape.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-17T16:22:28+00:00

No wonder some men here struggle with sex. They only view it as something pleasurable for themselves, and they don't care about the other person.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-17T16:24:27+00:00

Reasons I think so many guys dont take the time to look into the girls they’re attractive/attracted to:

Not just a deep thinker. These guys are very surface level about their world view, so thinking anything beyond “nice tits/ass” is too much for them.
Not wanting to admit theyre as bad as the Chad/Badboy chasers they criticize. Alot of guys want to believe theyre superior to women, so it’s soul crushing to realize you’re not that better, you’re just not attractive enough to compensate for the bad personality.

hannahg000 · 2023-08-17T16:31:51+00:00

how can education be better suited for boys?

things i’ve heard mentioned before is more recess beyond only elementary school. and more hands on teaching and trade oriented pathways like carpentry and mechanics.

i also think there needs to be a push to get more men into teaching. i’ve barely had any male teachers until the collegiate level. i think young boys would benefit from more male remodels in their life.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-17T16:42:42+00:00

it's kinda weird being 20F and a virgin right? so I've been thinking what if I hired an escort to get the whole thing out of the way. But the hypothetical question is do I go the gay route (female escort) or straight route (male escort)

all hypothetical idek if straight male escorts exist

potoricco · 2023-08-17T16:53:48+00:00

After spending enough time on reddit and twitter, it’s so interesting how you can tell when a woman posts an innocuous selfie vs an only fans promotion selfie

Something about the way they pose, the filters they use, even their facial expression

potoricco · 2023-08-17T16:54:12+00:00

Wtf is Bama Rush

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-17T17:01:33+00:00

I feel like if feminism was a warring country then its citizens have absolutely no freaking clue about how being on the opposite side of that behemoth is like, which to me is very important information for those people to have.

I don't think they actually realize and the depth and weight of the power and influence that they hold simply because the vast majority of its members indulge in some sort of victimization and downplaying either themselves personally or the movement as a whole.

potoricco · 2023-08-17T17:03:00+00:00

I wish trump was a comedian/personality and not the former president because he is just sooo unintentionally funny

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-17T17:07:16+00:00

People who act like everyone should revolve their lives around romance annoying the shit.

Like guys saying “acting like that won't get you man” when the woman gave ZERO INDICATIONS that was even her priority.

Not everyone is codependent on the opposite sex. People can have better things to do.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-17T17:10:12+00:00

Better to eat protein before or after excercise?

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-17T17:24:37+00:00

I've recently realized that I felt "comfortable" within a victim mindset. Feeling helpless allowed me to feel like I had no chance at success in the first place, therefore my lack of success was easier to accept. Accepting that I have more control over my situation than I want to believe, places more responsibility on me and prompts me to step up to the plate more. And it actually offers me the possibility of success, which should have been my only focus in the first place.

That's why I don't plan to be here much longer. This subreddit and the manosphere in general rewards a victim mentality. But feeling like a victim feels even worse to me now than feeling like someone who gave their best effort and simply didn't succeed.

I am taking responsibility for my life now. Not blaming neurodiversity or ugliness or plain lack of intelligence or my younger self or women's rigidity of preferences anymore. Society is a machine that doesn't care about any of its members at any deeper level, but I care about myself and I am committed to making myself happy moving forward. Women's opinions of me, contemporary dating dynamics, manosphere narratives, social media trends, my familial conflicts...none of it or anything else will take away from my happiness anymore.

I CREATE MY OWN HAPPINESS

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-17T17:34:05+00:00

How absolutely cool it'd be if we could organize a certain discussion by frequent users but the twist here is everyone will argue for the side they're usually arguing against.

I am 100% sure I can smoke anyone in a pro feminist debate. You think women should belong in the kitchen? Well think again!

ToLiveandDieinL8 · 2023-08-17T17:36:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/15t1kk3/chris_pine_and_mystery_girl_on_vacation_in/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

The comments on this are a shitshow lol.

scwizard · 2023-08-17T17:41:08+00:00

Man girls are perverted in all sorts of ways lmao

https://old.reddit.com/r/ReverseHarem/comments/15qz2v3/looking_for_groveling/

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-17T17:42:48+00:00

How do we define leagues? I don't think a 5 can get a 9, but like a 7-8 can probably lock a 9 down. So like maybe a point or two above you you can realistically get? I think leagues is broader than just a point on a scale, seems to be a range of values.

I also don't think 9/10 Chads actually want to bang a 5, most highly attractive men I know won't go below a 6 for sex. Usually if you're in the upper echelon of attractiveness as a man, your options are so good you can just ignore average women all together. I think the guys who ONS the average chick are probably more like a 7. Good looking but not amazing ykwim. Def not Chad level.

Basically once you're an 8, I think you're pretty much good to go trying to date almost anyone. In fact I think being an 8 might actually be better than being a 9 or a 10, you can get with 9s and 10s but you're also not as intimidating to 6s and 7s. You probably have the most options at this level.

These are just my stupid fart thoughts tho

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-17T17:49:16+00:00

My virgin ass brain really thought that song was:

I don't wanna be your lover, I wanna be your friend.

Instead of the opposite, what does it say about me?

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-17T17:52:33+00:00

And on today's episode of "women, I am once again asking you to consider sex and relationships with men you're not attracted to

scwizard · 2023-08-17T17:53:29+00:00

One thing I've found that I really enjoy is a virgin MMC in the harem. I love me an emotionally insecure hot man who's never been to pound town.

Ummmmmmm ok 😳

This makes me kinda scared to start lifting or anything.

scwizard · 2023-08-17T18:04:52+00:00

Good thing I'm not a 7 foot tall werewolf with a knotted doggy dick so I'm safe from the girls who read romance novels.

dyngladfel · 2023-08-17T18:07:21+00:00

Crazy day, the bartender gave me my drink on the house, the food guy upgraded my food for free and I had to get a taxi and the driver was so helpful and lovely. Either a lot of people are nice or I'm hot which is a win win I guess.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-17T18:08:53+00:00

I used to feel bad for conventionally unattractive women, but if the social norm is that we take pride in not giving a single fuck about whether people can mingle with others...

Women, do you even care about this beauty standard shit still? And why?

Maffioze · 2023-08-17T18:44:43+00:00

My brother and my mom argue like fucking children. Take me away from here.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-17T19:01:46+00:00

My friend shot two roe deer and gave one of them to me. Which is nice, of course. But now I have to come up with different recipes for them, and it makes me feel like an old fashioned housewife lmao.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-17T19:23:12+00:00

The better a country makes food, the more traditional and attractive women tend to be. Feminist countries don't know how to cook shit.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-17T19:26:58+00:00

When comparing people in the same environments:

Drug usage
Game (ability to show interest and notice interest)
Standards

Are greater predictors of how much sex they’re having than sex drive.

potoricco · 2023-08-17T19:27:44+00:00

My brother is getting fat and it’s bugging me

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-17T19:28:22+00:00

http://www.themillennialman.com/2018/06/sharing-household-chore-secret-happy-marriage/

This is a good analysis about household sharing, women do not consider a lot of things to be part of men household duty.

Seems to be the key is sharing dishes duty, proving again it comes down to making her feel, rather than objective household shares.

DangZagnutsSon · 2023-08-19T03:54:25+00:00

Does anyone want to read screenshots of me degrading this Stacy who's in love with me's bf? He's real fit and muscular. Triggerwarning. No seriously I'm not a sjw woke snowflake, you are about to be disturbed. Please don't report this post because one hundred percent what I do in my free time will scare you. This is a legitimate warning. Stop reading unless you are a hard stomached dark tetrad. Triggerwarning: age gaps, suicide encouragement, gender dysphoria encouragement, necrophilia, amputation, torture, disabling surgery, castration, rape, doxxing, gang stalking, and large wealth gaps.

First I told the Stacy she needs to kill herself if she wants to be a good tradwife. Cos she's so ugly alive her rotting corpse is preferable. To either do that or pretend to be a pathetic guy again. I kept telling her I only want men around me. Because I only like men. When her Chad bf finally came in and tried to rescue her is when it actually got fun enough I took screenshots of it. That's where most of the fun triggerwarning stuff comes in. The stuff about the voice box removal surgery actually really hurt him cos I never could remember his voice or distinguish it from others in vc and I know hours upon hours were spent amongst them talking about my perception of voices. Because they would try to trick me by doing different voices or sharing accounts. One of them asked me if I liked another for his voice. I had never heard of someone being objectified for their voice before so I told them I needed to taste the location from which the voice emanates. A kiss. 😳 I think the synesthesia aspect of that thought really dazzled all of them.

I just posted it on my profile if anyone wants to get a glimpse into conversations between people who are this interesting. It starts out with images of his fit body. 🤤 Chadrick is a billionaire. The Chad being degraded is Eric.

potoricco · 2023-08-17T23:07:36+00:00

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DerayRevan · 2023-08-17T23:07:16+00:00

"Are men and women's sexual standards too high because of over stimulation"

How are men's sexual standards too high ?

If anything men will lower their standards for the access of sex, that's why more ugly women will get more attention from men than ugly men

See another contradiction on this sub

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-17T22:54:20+00:00

Guys bitching about things they wont change part 2:

Whiny guys: Arg! Women are so stuck up on tinder!

Me: Well, there’s 3 guys to 1 girl. How about meeting people through social groups/gatherings and meeting people in a non-dating situation-

Whiny guys: NO.

mummydontknow · 2023-08-17T22:47:36+00:00

I want to be a whore, but I also want my first time to be special and intimate.

I made it this far as a virgin, might as well go all the way.

Tramelo · 2023-08-17T22:45:45+00:00

I get that some people are amputees or have diseases, but unless that's the case, wouldn't you have a better life by dieting and exercising rather than preaching body positivity? That seems easier to do compared to fooling yourself into believing that being obese is okay.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-17T22:37:32+00:00

"The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen"

It does but only high-status men get that privilege of women approaching them

Seriously girls would pay someone like chris brown to take pics with them

And women throwing their underwear at drake and he just ignores them, G for that

But for most men this lust behavior will never happen to them, so yea it is a fact society will never come to be like this

And most men don't even approach, so you can't expect women to fill that role if majority of guys don't want to approach in the first place

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-17T22:33:25+00:00

So many underweight skinny guys act like they can eat anything and they can't gain weight no matter what. Then you notice they skip meals all the time. Like lol. Basically the opposite of a fat person who doesn't understand why they are gaining weight.

Maffioze · 2023-08-17T22:15:29+00:00

Why is it impossible for women on this sub, with a few exceptions, to ingage in good faith? They never admit they were wrong about something either. They remind me of my ex.

Maffioze · 2023-08-17T22:12:35+00:00

My gf will be moving to Alabama next year. How can I deal with the fact that I think it is unsafe there and my worries related to it?

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-17T22:06:19+00:00

QFA: Why do society value so much on looks? looks has no utility and purpose.

(To PPD women do not emotionalize this "Men wants us to have sex ugly guys")

dbz__f · 2023-08-17T22:02:18+00:00

My gf is emotionally fragile. She did shopping for my family and put a lot of effort into it but they didn’t like some if the stuff she bought (wrong brand or whatever) and she cried in my room. I don’t think it was worth crying over but if made me remember that her heart is fragile and precious and I must always protect her no matter what

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-17T21:46:15+00:00

Tattoos on women is like heavy makeup on men.

Except the man can just remove the makeup the moment he realizes it makes him look like an idiot.

AreOut · 2023-08-17T21:42:31+00:00

it's crazy there is only 3 years of age gap between them, I had short flings with girls 20 years younger than me but they looked older than her and I sure look younger than him lol

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cn7sZ7MDkWq/?hl=en

baresquad · 2023-08-17T21:21:04+00:00

Based on their behavior across the internet, where the fuck did the idea that unattractive men automatically treat women better come from?

We all see how they lash out and talk about women online. It’s a far better risk for women to take it on an attractive man who might be a fuck boy. At least he’d be attractive and not have resentment over a bad dating life.

The sweet nice boys who bash and attack women all day online aren’t gonna do a complete 180 and all of sudden become the best boyfriends or husbands in the world.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-17T21:11:56+00:00

If dating apps suck so much, guys can just….stop using them!

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-17T21:07:27+00:00

We talk about male loneliness and unhappiness, i guess my question why do you think that is not the default for men?

I went to a conference, a lot of very successful men high 6 and 7 earners most of them were married. I talked to one individual, if they ever felt like they were never good enough despite their success? It seems a lot of them face this issue and when he has talked to others. Lots of drugs, women and lavish cars, etc. I guess to reach that level what else could make a man so determined to reach that level where he is working 60-80 hours, and giving up so much of his personal life. Kinda running away from this deep insecurities and being unloved.

I am convinced that is inescapable feeling for many men, especially those that are career driven.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-17T21:02:22+00:00

Young Robert DeNiro was a certified snack

meteorness123 · 2023-08-17T20:51:23+00:00

Ladies,

Would this physique be too intimidating for you ?

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fh4bcogpjz7f71.png

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-08-17T20:43:33+00:00

Trans women banned from competing in female chess events: https://www.reddit.com/r/news/comments/15tnz0n/trans_women_banned_from_world_chess_events_while/

It's wild how Redditors in that thread are completely avoiding the elephant in the room. The problem isn't necessarily that men are smarter than women. However, male brains tend to be better at systemizing whereas female brains tend to be better at empathizing. Since chess is a skill that requires a fuckton of systemizing, obviously men are going to excel relative to women (on average). And since transwomen are biologically men with male brains, that's why it's unfair to allow them to compete with biological women. It's that simple.

Even liberal ass Psychology Today acknowledges these psychological differences. But Reddit is so shitlib that nobody wants to talk about it.

SorryEm · 2023-08-17T20:35:28+00:00

What right or advantage do men have in courtship that women don't?

SorryEm · 2023-08-17T20:35:01+00:00

Dating apps are biased towards women
Relationships are about the woman
Society is about women
More attention is given towards women

The women here talk about men's issues as if they're some entitled upper class.

dyngladfel · 2023-08-17T20:12:40+00:00

Anytime a man on here says women just have to be thin and learn to put on makeup just don't sound to me like they know much about womens inner world. There's a lot more intricacy to female grooming, if you're unaware then maybe don't assume that's all it is.

purplish_possum · 2023-08-17T19:58:11+00:00

So many pretty young fat women ruining summer with god awful tattoos. Can't be a pretty BBW in booty shorts if your legs are covered with low budget tattoos.

Maffioze · 2023-08-17T19:54:00+00:00

Man:

Makes a post about a kind of sexism men face, which is extremely obvious to anyone who is interested in actually paying attention regardless of what pills they are popping.

Women and some other men who have themselves ingaged in this exact kind of sexism on this sub :

"Where does this happen?" "I have never seen this happen" "This does not exist" "Who are these people doing this" "no one is doing this to men"

The jokes really write themselves on this sub.

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-08-17T19:48:00+00:00

This place is probably one of the most insane subreddits ever.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-17T19:45:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fhwdkwpohckib1.png

Once again, sometimes bullying is a good thing

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-17T19:37:02+00:00

The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.

At this point, a good quote is now being used by guys pissy that they cant get pussy. I didnt realize for a person to be embraced by their village, the village has to give him Stacies to fuck. And people wonder why “male issues” gets ignored?

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-17T19:29:12+00:00

And here is today's version of "Women resent the existence of unattractive men, who need to die in a fire".

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-17T19:28:39+00:00

What information is someone seeking when they ask for sexual history?

Number of partners?

Sexual positions used with others?

If a specific act was done with #3, #7, and #13 but not anyone else?

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