Daily Community Chat Megathread

Xtal333 · 2023-10-30T12:03:21+00:00

Is it good if a woman describes you as flirtatious?

A while back I went out with a buddy and his female colleagues, some of which were decently attractive to me. I talked with a lot of them and we had a great time. One of them described me as flirtatious to another one of my buddies from that same friend group.

What did she mean by this? I wasn't doing anything specifically or thinking about flirting, but just being "myself". Is that a good thing? What do y'all think? (Women especially)

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-30T11:53:35+00:00

I’m buying a hair dryer for the first time in my life and the guilt I’m feeling is surprisingly strong.

monster_lily · 2023-10-30T11:46:01+00:00

Ngl I love the smell of weed but thats because i love anything that smells earthy i like the smell of mint, orange peels, castor oil, grass, rain, dirt, is there something wrong with me

monster_lily · 2023-10-30T11:43:23+00:00

90% of kids that are dumber than me but have As cheat this is my roman empire

hannahg000 · 2023-10-30T11:38:07+00:00

fellas would you date this woman?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-30T10:36:38+00:00

Does anyone else flirt by trying to be as annoying as possible?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-30T08:49:05+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/17iwxji/tinder_insights_as_21f/

That chats to dates ratio is wild, but probably the only way for a girl to ensure she has a good time getting fucked.

supremethrone · 2023-10-30T08:39:25+00:00

Anyone else notice an increase in the "there's nothing wrong with shy/quiet guys" propaganda by women? What's their goal here?

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-10-30T08:12:52+00:00

Why are religious figures so attractive to so.e women? Have you noticed that nearly every religious leader in history has at the very least had a sizeable female following?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-30T07:31:53+00:00

I know as a man, being a fuckboy is a lot of guys wet dream. I'm just worried about my daughter encountering them when she gets older.

dbz__f · 2023-10-30T07:16:30+00:00

Killers of the Flower Moon is an amazing film

Took the gf to see it but she was pretty bored throughout

NoTea4448 · 2023-10-30T06:46:39+00:00

Imma be real with yall. I only show up on this subreddit to shitpost in this megathread.

Sillysheila · 2023-10-30T06:39:14+00:00

One of the posts for women just has huge seas of removed comments. It’s kind of obnoxious looking tbh

purpleventrilo · 2023-10-30T05:54:30+00:00

I had a great weekend :) got out of my shell and went to a few bars. Had someone halfway approach me TWICE but I was too dumb to realize until a friend and his wife enlightened me. Plan to spend the whole week in social situations before I have to go back to being single parent.

Blocksplain · 2023-10-30T05:48:26+00:00

Ask girl to see show

She declines, she has been seeing the... married man with two children

Give and give and give and give

Women never ask me out

I give more social attention to others than that girl gives to anyone

Give give give give give

Never receive never ever never receive never ever never

Never get asked out no one asks me to the show but I give more than she does but she gets asked

Never get what you give never ever

Is this most men's existence?

scwizard · 2023-10-30T05:44:48+00:00

People accuse me of hating women, but Republican politicians hate women way more.

When Roe was overturned, I thought the next thing people would be focusing on is the details of the exceptions for rape and so on that I thought would surely be quickly passed.

But that didn't happen. Not only were no rape exceptions passed, people even started talking about rolling back no fault divorce.

So my women hating views are abortion shouldn't be allowed except in certain cases. And the Republicans politicians view is ban abortion in all cases. Also rollback no fault divorce, gut workplace gender discrimination laws. Also maybe ban onlyfans while we're at it.

It's like yo chill lol

scwizard · 2023-10-30T05:17:51+00:00

My ex was the same way- said he cheated on his first serious gf with a lot of diff people. Said he had changed and it was 8 years ago and he would never do that again. Sure enough, 6 months into dating I found texts between him and his ex gf as well as other female coworkers that were inappropriate that he was sending while we were together.

Ok but how has he changed did you ask him that?

"I'm a more mature person now"

"I started going to therapy."

"I'm a better person these days"

"I was going through some difficult stuff in life but I'm over it now."

Those aren't real answers. Get him to talk about the fundamentals of his moral beliefs. Get him to go over his past in detail and see if he has any empathy for his ex gfs of if he's talking shit about them instead.

scwizard · 2023-10-30T04:58:53+00:00

19 days ago

Recently became aware of the term negging. Please help me understand if these comments from my boyfriend are negging?

You should change your profile picture to X, you look better in it (completely out of the blue comment). You look like a child when you wear X. You look like an art teacher when you wear Y. "You’re a mess." If I spill something while eating he’ll chastise me and tell me over and over that I’m like a child. Say my nose is big (I’m not going to show my face on this app but it’s really not big; he has a big nose and a lifelong complex about it). When I have an allergies flare up he’ll say it’s disgusting. Will make fun of me for saying “I think…” before replying to something.

Good thing twox straightened her out and she broke up with him isn't it.

Today...

My bf told me that during his first serious relationship he cheated on his girlfriend with MANY people. Can people really change?

My boyfriend (28) told me that when he was in his first relationship from 15-21 that he cheated on his girlfriend “many many times” simply because “he wanted to.” he said he couldn’t even remember the amount of people that he cheated on her with. He said it was very deliberate (not like a one time mistake). He would seek out these people at school, parties etc.

We’re still in the early stages of dating. However has made it clear he has jealously issues and has projected on me about cheating which might stem from him having done this in his past.

Nope she's still dating the same guy lol

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-30T04:48:49+00:00

Creepy guys: Those bitches just hate me for being ugly and socially awkward! They would have let me take panty shots if I was CHAD.

The manosphere: Oh you poor thing! We know you did nothing wrong! Why you bitches hate on sweet ugly awkward boys?! 🥺

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-30T04:37:31+00:00

bringing back would you rather questions

Gf A: fucks you everyday or anytime you're dtf. can't cook and won't learn to; she is generally uncooperative and very bitchy/entitled, but very enthusiastic with sex. 4/10. Love language is recieving gifts.

Gf B: only fucks you once every 2 weeks or more. very affectionate and will cook your favorite food, give you gifts etc. she prioritizes your happiness but has low libido or something. 8/10. Wants words of affirmation.

You can assume they both have n-count of 0 or 1. They also are not interested in other men.

Whether she loves you or not is up for interpretation.

scwizard · 2023-10-30T04:16:21+00:00

Positive pregnancy test and freaking out

Girls write a whole essay here and never once mention them having sex or who they're having sex with.

When I was 21, I got pregnant and had an abortion. I have since started taking BC pills and have been (so I thought) extra cautious. I took a test earlier just to be safe and check all the boxes before going to a doctor about the abdominal pain. Welp, test was positive and now I’m freaking out. I’m really not sure how this could have happened, especially being on BC, and I’m hoping it might be a false positive although I know those are pretty rare. Gonna go to Planned Parenthood tomorrow morning but I am just absolutely terrified and scared that if it is positive, it’s too late to do anything about :/

It's weird that abstinence never even crosses girl's minds as an option. It's like unthinkable basically.

scwizard · 2023-10-30T03:51:31+00:00

It’s Sunday. He’s at the “climbing gym” which happens to have a bar inside. I’m home. Just did the dishes and straightened up. About to vacuum cause our (really his) husky sheds like crazy. Then laundry and dusting and bathroom. Our anniversary was yesterday and we both forgot. I haven’t brought it up yet so he probably still doesn’t know. I’m feeling like this isn’t a great sign.

What the fuck does she want? For him to stop going to the gym? If you want your husband to help out with the cleaning you need to stop cleaning so much. It's hard to chip in if whenever you have free time, such as when you get back from the climbing gym, there's nothing to do because everything is already done.

leosandlattes · 2023-10-30T03:44:36+00:00

Forget the advice about dating; let’s have advice on how to completely fuck a man’s/woman’s life up. Like give me the most toxic, unethical advice you have about getting a woman to hook up with you or getting a man to give you money, etc. 😭😂

scwizard · 2023-10-30T03:43:08+00:00

I think I don’t want to marry my bf anymore

I was absolutely in love with this man, we have such a beautiful child together. I wanted to marry him because I wanted to show my absolute commitment. Commitment I thought he reciprocated but overtime I just see that I was delusional.

At this point it doesn't matter. You have a child together and you live with him you're effectively married already. Legally married in some jurisdictions.

Months later I log back into my private tiktok. The likes and follows. HUNDREDS OF GIRLS. He was logged into my private account on his phone, knowing I was checking in on his account from my end. I confronted him, told him with the lengths he went to try and hide this, him doing it over and over knowing it hurt me, I consider it cheating and I won’t tolerate it again. He agreed, promised not to do it again and we moved on.

Moments where I feel happy and confident, I just remember these women and how I look nothing like them. Moments where I look at him lovingly, happy with our growth, it’s tainted thinking “what new way is he hiding his addiction to these women.” Him calling me pretty or beautiful feels like a lie.

Damn this isn't even breaking up with a guy cause he looks at porn. It's cause he looks at thirst traps on Instagram.

You love the man you want him to be, not the man he is. You know what you should do.

Imagine when your kid is all grown up having to explain why you got divorced to them.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-10-30T03:38:27+00:00

Heartland makes you want to go live on a ranch, ride horses and round up cattle.

scwizard · 2023-10-30T03:27:59+00:00

i changed my name to the gender neutral abbreviation (like Christina -> Chris) and i noticed a significant increase in customer service. i get refunds more often & i have my food stolen less frequently. the mcdonald's near my house also coincidentally stopped forgetting my orders for half an hour.

Should parents be giving their daughters gender neutral names so they get better treatment?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-30T03:20:48+00:00

you're the teacher. wyd in this situation?

scwizard · 2023-10-30T03:14:30+00:00

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Ayy lmao.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-10-30T03:03:55+00:00

Dating apps are overwhelming.

I know I’m lucky as a woman that we get tons of messages but they just blend together into blah

meteorness123 · 2023-10-30T02:52:39+00:00

Looking back,can you actually believe what they made people go through during the pandemic ? Wearing masks 24/7 and forcing young, healthy people get vaccines despite them being healthy LOL

monster_lily · 2023-10-30T02:35:26+00:00

Not even in a pick me way but i just genuinely look better without makeup like Tbh the only makeup that i like on myself is eyeliner, mascara, blush, lip gloss and inner corner highlights tbh.. Probably because my skin is so amazing like i have genetically clear skin (not bragging), I do not even like lipstick it turns out which sucks because Ive spent $40 on lipstick like an IDIOT because i saw this lipstick on tiktok that was actually hot garbage, Which is a shame because 99% of my money goes towards makeup

EulenWatcher · 2023-10-30T02:31:16+00:00

We have to make some new traditions here. Back at home most celebrations were tied to visits four families, but now it feels like of lonely here. Husband has some relatives nearby and I have no one. With winter holidays coming up I feel the urge to bring up some festivities or I’ll get lonely and depressed.

What are your seasonal traditions?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-30T02:29:27+00:00

If you can't be happy being alone, you will never be happy in a relationship

Do you agree/disagree with this statement and why

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-30T02:21:45+00:00

Pretty bummed to be spending another Halloween without friends, which means there is nothing to do. I even planned a costume before I realized I have nowhere to wear it. My old high school friends partied all weekend at their colleges. Even my younger siblings had more fun than me this weekend. I have no idea how I ended up this way.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-30T01:56:02+00:00

I seriously can’t take the whole “oh the plight of autistic guys” thing seriously.

There are females with autism.
Alot of autistic guys put 0 effort in socializing.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-30T01:54:34+00:00

Q4All: Who was your first cartoon crush growing up (excluding anime)?

Mine was 100% Kim Possible. She was the perfect mix of giga stacy + girl next door. Plus the fit goes pretty hard ( crop tops are goated).

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-30T01:29:08+00:00

I don't believe in dating coaches until I listened to Diary of a CIO: The Love Expert: Why Women Are Addicted To Toxic Men,"Have A Boring Relationship Instead!" Logan Ury

This is non biased dating advice

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-30T01:26:29+00:00

Women don't need to leave their country to passport bro. Just move into a military town. High ratio of M:F and all the M are young, fit and single or cheating on their wives.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-30T01:17:57+00:00

If there’s one thing I always remember: Don’t give sympathy to people who don't want to help themselves.

As much as I like this one guy, I have to remember: He’s stupid. Always crying about being alone but he fucks it up for himself. Can't be bothered to be more social, always wanting to keep everything secret, struggles to return affection, and sympathizes with neck beards embarrassing themselves.

Like, I care about him, but....he’s 32 and still needs to grow up. That’s embarrassing.

romantic-rose · 2023-10-30T01:15:46+00:00

Is there a sub where we can debate about dating culture without pills and the like.

princedune · 2023-10-30T01:08:21+00:00

idk what happened but it looks like my hairline has receded at least a centimeter in just the past week. I lost a whole handful of hair when I took my shower this morning

SianOiseau · 2023-10-30T00:53:42+00:00

Places (some) women refuse to go on a date.

Tbh I don't think it's that unreasonable with the exception for coffee/ice cream dates, bowling, a bar just for drinks (if you both drink alcohol and comfortable doing so on the first date), maybe waffle house (have no idea of the quality or ambiance) and sport events depending on one's tastes.

Food chains are just...not really romantic. It's okay if you're on a budget and you're teens or if you're both real fans of these places but otherwise it's just not romantic imv. In my case I also can't really eat much from these places and I'd split the bill anyway so it's not that my date would have to go broke.

Going to their place on a first date is a no-go for many women because a) sex is expected and most aren't comfortable with it for the first date and b) that's not safe unless you've known each other for some time before.

Going to church...that doesn't sound like a good place to talk and get to know each other.

Going to a family function puts too much pressure on the first date.

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-10-30T00:38:20+00:00

This place sometimes feels like I have been transported to a foreign planet. Every single one of me and my friends from college is either married now or in serious relationships. Being a late bloomer meant being a virgin as a college freshman.

I am just assuming a lot of the guys here were probably loners growing up because the peer/social pressure alone made you get your shit together as far it came to women.

CradleCity · 2023-10-30T00:35:25+00:00

Does anyone have examples in pop culture (well-knwon movies, music, books, etc.) that show/portray a male virgin in not only a positive light, but a romantic light or a sexually desirable light?

As per one conversation I had recently, there 's Jack in Titanic (at least prior to him having the time of his late with Rose), but I want to gather others, in order to do a write-up on pop culture and its distorting/warped romanticisms (I like to regularly question media/culture stuff, it's how my mind rolls).

Edit: Just so we're clear here, what I want to focus on is romantic or sexual light portrayals, so, beyond the mere positive light. No monks or non-sexual heros, please.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-10-30T00:28:08+00:00

Lmao what's with this flair requirement

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-30T00:19:14+00:00

Anyone can quantifiably and empirically measure female privilege in real life.

Go to any social setting and count the number of men vs women not socially engaged with someone or how often they are not engaged with someone. There will always be many more men than women who are being marginalized on the social sidelines, who people are not engaging or being interested in.

This isn't just at bars, parties and night clubs where men are trying to hit on women. This is in every part of life. Meetups, work events, classes, conferences, social clubs, running group, co-ed sports, etc. Everyone, old/young, female/male, everywhere are treating women better, more actively engaging and being interested in women.

Female privilege

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-30T00:10:50+00:00

Can't stop thinking about him...

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uccelloverde · 2023-10-30T00:05:51+00:00

Does anyone remember the sketch comedy show The State? Yesterday, I saw the cast perform sketches live at a theater, and it was awesome.

monster_lily · 2023-10-30T00:03:47+00:00

Also at rite aid today i saw this old man wearing young people's clothing, like he was old but you could tell he was young in his heart, anyways when he went to check out his change was like $40 and he told the cashier to keep the change TWICE and then i went outside and he had a pretty fancy looking car

RedditLiesMore · 2023-10-29T23:58:37+00:00

There's too little discourse about the role of testosterone when discussing male sexual and romantic desire.

monster_lily · 2023-10-29T23:57:34+00:00

I cant stop thinking about my future wedding day its going to be so bombbb and I get to have 2 different wedding ceremonies

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-29T23:57:22+00:00

"Serpents of heaven befall us

Come when temper and lust are awake

Arise from the deep of the battle

And awake when lust can't wait

Send all misgivings to heaven

And unveil all the beasts in your head

Stand tall for the rain

Remember the pain

When in Rome we all attack

Time to see the sky forever

Find eternal life in fever

Time to copulate

And come alive and break the chains

Commit the sacrament of sin - in for the kill

The sacrament of sin - for the sin is my will

Sacrament of sin - believe it or fall

All the night neanderthal

Ten thousand times we have wondered

And prepared for the ultimate sin

Three times had our lord been forgiven

And three times we fell for skin

Ban all the morals to heaven

And forget all good manners in rage

To rebel in lust

In body and bust

Fornicate to break this cage

Time to see the sky forever

Find eternal life in fever

Time to copulate

And come alive to break the chains

Commit the sacrament of sin - in for the kill

The sacrament of sin - for the sin is my will

Sacrament of sin - believe it or fall

All the night neanderthal

Confess the sacrament of sin - mistress or wife

Sacrament of sin - lead a sinister life

Sacrament of sin - desire to call

Stand up high when cloth will fall

Commit the sacrament of sin - in for the kill

The sacrament of sin - for the sin is my will

Sacrament of sin - believe it or fall

All the night neanderthal

Confess the sacrament of sin - mistress or wife

Sacrament of sin - lead a sinister life

Sacrament of sin - desire and call

Stand up high when cloth will fall

Commit the sacrament of sin!"

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T23:52:21+00:00

I'm thinking a lot of guys have a comprehension problem and that’s why giving them advice doesn't work.

If they can turn “Be nice to girls” to “you deserve a sex/romance just because you’re so nice”, you can't help these guys.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-29T23:47:42+00:00

https://youtu.be/1QvKP3_rbUE?si=MWf8IwqDrmZcQL12

Man, I love this song,this album and this band

PaintingEmergency919 · 2023-10-29T23:37:05+00:00

The only people willing to date me have been poly with several other boyfriends. I know that I want monogamy but I'm aware that it's dying and I even read an article explaining how monogamy is immoral and only jealous, insecure, abusers would want monogamy. No man or woman wants me monogamously so I have to just accept if I want any kind of physical or romantic connection I have to join the group fuck and patiently wait my turn for affection while shes fucking her preferred boyfriends. You guys are obviously evolved to above people like me so how do I let go of this disease?

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MyLastBestChance · 2023-10-29T23:01:14+00:00

Specialist-Olive7828 · 2023-10-29T23:08:36+00:00

Women get dunked on by Chads and then take it out on the bottom 80% of men cause they couldn't do shit to Chad if they tried. They would just get dunked on even harder and feel worse at the end of it.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-29T23:12:56+00:00

PPD guys: Omg! Stop saying there are no good men! YOU just don't want them because you’re too busy chasing Chad!

Also Ppd guys: It’s women’s fault I can't find a decent woman to love/fuck me. I'm a victim!

baiser_vole · 2023-10-29T23:18:20+00:00

It seems like my mom is accepting my boyfriend a little more. She has told two of her three siblings, her parents and one of her close friends.

Some of them are a bit concerned, but my grandma wasn't. Basically she said, I am a smart girl and I will work things out just fine. She is one of the few people I have utmost respect for, and it means so much to me that she trusts me. :)

afk_row · 2023-10-29T23:35:42+00:00

Idk why some men dont like going down own their woman. A good looking pussy is appetizing 🤤

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-30T12:28:58+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/17jp4wl/oc_3_years_of_old_in_nyc_as_a_53_south_asian_man/

Very proud of my 5'3 asian king

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-30T12:29:30+00:00

Surprisingly I was the only Ken at my Halloween party. There were 2 other Barbie’s aside from my main squeeze.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-30T12:32:02+00:00

There was a Instagram post I saw the other day where a guy asked why he sees so many couples break up right after or shortly after they have a child. Many of the women said that some guys get jealous of their child because they aren’t the center of attention anymore and the sex isn’t as frequent as it was pre child. I think a lot of these relationships were on the rocks and she just happened to get pregnant tbh. They thought oh the baby is gonna make us bond and go back to how we were and it’s like nah

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-30T12:34:21+00:00

My entire time on Reddit people have told me how horrible friends is but since the dude who played chandler died everyone loves friends again lol. I never cared for it but it’s interesting

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-30T12:35:29+00:00

No woman on the planet will ever admit this, but imo men's constant, relentless whining online, depressed, grumpy outlooks, and significantly more severe and obnoxious expressions of hopelessness helped women accept that men aren't exactly just thriving in privilege, and that men's life may even suck in ways that are more unique to them. As I said earlier, I definitely think women are slowly being more accepting of that sort of stuff, and I genuinely think this manospherian stuff was needed for that.

Gladboys · 2023-10-30T12:55:36+00:00

Q4A: how high do you think the overlap is between women who can orgasm from penetrative sex and women who regularly engage in promiscuous behavior? are the 20% of women who can orgasm with penetrative sex accounting for 80% of the casual sex seekers?

AspiringMogger · 2023-10-30T13:09:45+00:00

Q4redpillers: I’ve heard stories about men downplaying their jobtitle since it’s better for slaying cause when women find out that you’re a high earning guy they’ll put you in the BB box. So what are some high sex appeal medium paying jobs?

I initially thought bartender. Thoughts?

SianOiseau · 2023-10-30T13:40:16+00:00

There are 2 users who got my "women are disinterested in shy/awkward men" as WOMEN HATE SHY MEN.

I keep forgetting that for some men here not wanting to date them equate to hating them. Is this a form of narcissism?

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-30T13:40:54+00:00

What's the difference between black and pink pill

monster_lily · 2023-10-30T13:53:41+00:00

I need him to accuse me of witchcraft NOW

https://preview.redd.it/oib6e1qshcxb1.png?width=1334&format=png&auto=webp&s=3e5bdeb7207ef424f4bc3e9c4216aead1865991b

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-30T14:10:11+00:00

In time times before history, humans hunted with endurance and cardio. Ectomorphs would walk down animals for hours or days until they exhaust the animal and can kill it. Thin people were evolved for hunting

Thin skinny women have apex predator alpha hunter genes. Even more so if they are a stalker/obsessive type. I firmly believe that slender women have the best genes

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-30T14:11:53+00:00

QA4: would you stay in a relationship with someone you genuinely love if you knew that within 5 years they'd leave you?

(yes, this is an hypothetical scenario)

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-10-30T14:20:41+00:00

I love how women bitch about prostitution being bad because women are sometimes trafficked, yet, they have no problem eating chocolate grown by trafficked children.

edgyny · 2023-10-30T14:35:44+00:00

Due to the amount of dumb shit I hear from pro-lifers on nextdoor (we have as abortion amendment on the ballot), I have come up with an idea for a new prequel to The Terminator franchise: the machines travel back in time to take over the Supreme Court and pen Roe vs Wade and then pose as Planned Parenthood to talk Sarah Connor into having a partial birth abortion.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-30T14:55:52+00:00

Roasted up an oven full of big butternuts this morning and now I'm a having a nosh of squash, lol.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-30T15:04:49+00:00

I think women are way more predatory than men are

Peacesquad · 2023-10-30T15:05:00+00:00

Are we fertile today? What I miss?

sine120 · 2023-10-30T15:27:43+00:00

It's spooky season, carved pumpkins and harvested the seeds. Brined, drenched in hot sauce and dried. The oven takes most of the immediate heat out, but there's ghost chili and Carolina reaper in there so the heat builds. I'll be able to tell who braves them by how much they're sweating.

supremethrone · 2023-10-30T15:36:10+00:00

Is lifting worth it? It seems like lifting is one of the few decent pieces of advice that normies offer and it kinda makes sense, but the amount of posts I see from guys who hit the gym 4 times a week, but still end up as gymcel losers is kinda worrying

monster_lily · 2023-10-30T15:46:12+00:00

I swearr everyone got a 15/25 on our physics frq

Justwannaread3 · 2023-10-30T15:46:28+00:00

Q for people in relationships:

Are you only interested in your partner sexually, or do you also have romantic attraction to them? How is romance expressed in your relationship if that’s important to you?

LoFiPanda14 · 2023-10-30T15:55:28+00:00

Hating everyone equally > Debating which gender has it worse 👍🏽

Workaholiconew · 2023-10-30T16:00:55+00:00

I find it funny that so many women say the guys saying they should work more if they wanna be respected for their work are considered gaslighters...

But not the guys who just look almost exclusively at their breasts or fake women who keep repeating they are doing a good job ...

Girls... here between us... gaslighters usually gaslight for a positive look.... not negative...

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-30T16:43:38+00:00

Caring about celebrity deaths is so cringe. What is even more cringe is all the funko pop you win the internet today sir kind of posts people make after a celebrity dies.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-30T16:47:24+00:00

Listen about this post

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/SbjYI2dMEM

I want guys to understand since women can now make their own money and educated, a large portion of them don't need men but want men, and who do they want ?

Guys who can emotionally stimulate them and give a fun experience but often enough this guys have options to not commit

So that's the reality of dating, women can now afford to make bad reproductive choices at the expense of their relationships

DerayRevan · 2023-10-30T17:03:37+00:00

"The podcasters like whatever podcast or fresh and fit are not helpful otherwise that'd be in relationships themselves If the goal is to teach men how to pick up women then these men wouldn't be single"

Determining a man's success in dating based on wether his in a relationship or not is a very female/bluepilled way of thinking, because only women will say a guy is not successful even though he has many options to sleep with but because since his not investing his romantic time/attention it puts them of

But l agree, whatever podcast is a total grift

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-10-30T17:03:41+00:00

12 months of cooking breakfast and dinner for my family.

And as I expected, I still hate it. Its not my thing; there is no joy in cooking, it just a means to an end that I've unfortunately been saddled with.

I'm even trying out inventive/obscure recipes, international food, simple foods, batch cooking, baking, etc.

And its just drudgery. I feel nothing but annoyance while I'm cooking, and then anxiety when when people eat it.

Everything I've made has turned out pretty good, but its such an uncomfortable an annoying task. There is no love in my food, just petulance and anxiety.

The idea that women are meant for the kitchen is some grade A bullshit.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-10-30T17:18:48+00:00

I don't know how people who work in an office all day do it. This shit is so mundane...

saulbasedman · 2023-10-30T17:25:57+00:00

Be honest, is my grandpa cute?

https://ibb.co/h8NjHkK

demedermidimi · 2023-10-30T17:41:15+00:00

who let the ppders out

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-30T17:43:10+00:00

Have you guys watched that couples intervention episode from Fresh and Fit?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-30T17:44:29+00:00

Most of the guys here are fake-cels.

Most of you would get in relationships if only you agree to go after your SMV match or lower.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-30T17:45:25+00:00

I absolutely hate it when I’m trying to read someone’s online comment and they type phrases like “den” instead of “then”, or “allat” instead of “all that.” Don’t even ask me what “ian” means. I can’t even understand it and it’s just such a sign of low intelligence.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-30T18:03:37+00:00

If you are an emotional guy She will use you. She will manipulate you. She will play with your emotions. She will dump you. She will marry someone better than you. And still she will use you. As long as she will completely exploit you. Don't be an emotional fool. Facts don't care about your feelings

lacuti3 · 2023-10-30T18:14:28+00:00

Q4ALL

what do guys think or feel after sex? because my boyfriend just be smiling goofy after he nuts

supremethrone · 2023-10-30T18:23:12+00:00

Wanted to sign up for a boxing gym. £130/month. 🤡

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-30T18:29:10+00:00

Can someone give me a convincing argument why evolution equipped women with sexual desire. It doesn't make sense to me. They don't benefit from having sex a lot. It would make more sense of they rationally assessed men and had sex only when they wanted to have children

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-30T18:33:35+00:00

Creep: Women are so mean! If I was Chad, they wouldnt have cared that I sniff their hair!

Manosphere: Yet again, women harm a sweet innocent guy whose only crime is being socially awkward and ugly. 🥺🥺🥺🥺 Gynocentricism is hurting men.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-30T18:35:21+00:00

Shortcels rejoice today as Argentinian manlet wins over the viking giant

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-30T18:59:08+00:00

CMV

Being a manchild = getting emotional about your own issues

Being in touch with your emotions = putting women's issues above your issues

Being a manchild is better than being in touch with your emotions.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-30T19:05:14+00:00

If you picked up your girlfriend from a hookup environment you should expect to be cheated on.

lady_ven0m · 2023-10-30T19:12:33+00:00

It’s amazing how even losing a little bit of weight boosts your self esteem. I’m kind of obsessed with myself rn and feel healthier overall. Not that I was that fat to begin with but still. This is probably the best I’ve ever looked. Even my hair is fuller and healthier. I actually stopped working out, and I eat very little food most days, mostly try to focus on eating quality food and only eating when I’m really hungry. Ill eat healthy snacks through the day to curb my hunger and eat a big meal (late lunch, early dinner). I think if I pick up weightlifting I’ll be unstoppable. 😎

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-10-30T19:19:19+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/s/CNMiZMgusn

How the Chads of pill forums view themselves

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-30T19:20:35+00:00

The moment you accidentally like someone

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-30T19:40:48+00:00

People who struggle to understand the opposite gender are suspicious, specifically the ones from the west. Western societies dont really segregate the genders that much. How does someone not able to relate to the opposite gender?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-30T20:06:09+00:00

If you as a man can have casual sex regularly, then finding a girlfriend should be no problem

Problem is this guys don't wanna loose all their options by committing to one woman

DerayRevan · 2023-10-30T20:14:18+00:00

Guys who wanna have more than one woman/girlfriend, should be honest about it, in my experience many women were ok with it, especially when that guy was high-status around his community

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-10-30T20:21:07+00:00

This man’s profile says “I’ve trained three dogs so if you don’t piss on the couch I’ll consider it a good start.”

Why would you think this would make women want to match with you?

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-10-30T20:24:25+00:00

Q4W: how tall is your dad?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-30T20:27:22+00:00

To be successful at dating, you must exhibit some traits linked to "toxic masculinity".

Never forget that, bro.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-30T20:28:05+00:00

Creep: If I was Chad, women I dont know would be okay with me complimenting their tits! I was trying to be nice and suffered for it!

Manosphere: Why must women be cruel to socially awkward ugly men?! 🥺

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-10-30T20:31:47+00:00

The idea that being pestered/pressured into sex is somehow rape/SA is such bullshit. You can refuse. You have no reason fear violence from them unless they threaten you or confine you in any way. Because if the wanted to use violence to get what they wanted then they would have done that already instead of trying to get you to agree.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-30T20:48:48+00:00

"We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women"

Laughable just completely laughable

If you asked most women from GenZ to Millennials, how many are gonna classify their relationship as a "partnership"

I can tell you a huge percentage are going to say "well me and my man are equals"

Also how many would pick Instagram over their boyfriends ? A very huge percentage also

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-30T20:48:54+00:00

Bro, using this checklist, are you considered a male adhering to toxic masculinity? -->

https://www.aurorand.org.uk/news/top-10-toxic-masculinity-behaviours

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-30T20:54:24+00:00

For some of these hyped restaurants , it seems like it’s more about the vibe ambiance and the pics people will take on the gram, with the actual food/customer service being secondary

scwizard · 2023-10-30T20:54:51+00:00

My grandma on my dad's side who I was never that close with due to language barriers died. My mom really wants me to drop everything and fly halfway across the country for the funeral so I can be miserable with everyone else.

I don't want to do this and it's clearly because I'm heartless and have no soul.

My dad is fine with me instead visiting around Thanksgiving time and giving everyone a hug then.

I'm fucking torn man.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-30T20:55:13+00:00

Guys here, would you date a women who does sex scenes in films

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-30T21:06:22+00:00

My husband is so ruthless when I ask him why some of our friends are still single. I say “maybe the timing has never been right” and he laughs.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-30T21:10:50+00:00

The manlet nerd in my school was unironically one of the most liked dudes. I just don’t get the whole nerd’s get bullied narrative.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-30T21:11:02+00:00

My voice is just starting ro come back. I went from no vocals to sounding like an almost dead person. Hopefully its restored by the end of this week.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-30T21:15:06+00:00

How could a man increase his toxic masculinity realistically?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-30T21:22:39+00:00

One thing I find very annoying is someone without asking, feels the need to give me a suggestion or advice but is completely oblivious to where they stand in their own situation.

If you are obese or overweight, what the hell gives you the right to say what I should and shouldn't eat without asking? Do you really have any credibility on advising me of my food choices? Gtfo.

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-30T21:22:50+00:00

Why are men on here so obsessed with getting empathy from women about their horniness?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-30T21:23:44+00:00

Just remember:

Shortcels are just jealous that height queens fetishize tall guys and not them.
“Nice Guys Finish Last” just means “How dare Stacy not fuck me after I was nice to her?! I DESERVE HER!”

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-30T21:28:03+00:00

What's the fastest and surest way to psychopathmaxx (without committing crimes)

GrassToucher29 · 2023-10-30T21:29:18+00:00

Trying to plan some nice things for Hubby’s birthday. I want to take him to a sex party for some specific acts he’s always wanted to try, but I’m having trouble finding one that has those things for his birthday weekend.

I’m also undecided about making a fancy cake that’s themed from a special memory of him our daughter, or a pair of boobs with the caption “Tits your birthday!”

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-30T21:37:15+00:00

Is this Zherka guy another loud mouth retard streamer

demedermidimi · 2023-10-30T21:46:46+00:00

you guys talk about chad so much. when i meet a chad I'll hand him over and you can have a gay orgy together

DerayRevan · 2023-10-30T21:52:59+00:00

They say beautiful women have very low self-esteem, so fellas we still have a chance if you've a higher self-esteem than her

afk_row · 2023-10-30T22:19:19+00:00

An actual benefit of having a female friend https://www.reddit.com/r/funnyvideos/s/hexVCI7HR5 it might be worth it to pretend to be gay and join skin care sessions

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-30T22:20:39+00:00

why do we have an ncount megathread if people are going to keep posting about ncounts

you guys don't realize how funny it is to constantly read about how you don't have sex while being picky about who you have sex with

monster_lily · 2023-10-30T22:22:14+00:00

I actually love short guys like actually

monster_lily · 2023-10-30T22:23:17+00:00

The guy that i said was my crush a few weeks ago isnt actually my crush i just love his hair soooooo much its like fluffy and super curly and its shaped like an afro and its jet black i love it but I dont love him

sine120 · 2023-10-30T22:25:10+00:00

I'm gonna make sure to name my kid Chad or Stacy to ensure they have the easiest time dating.

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-30T22:25:52+00:00

In a hypothetical life where I would give birth to two twin boys, I would name one Chad and one Beta to find differences in life outcomes as a scientific experiment

JDWhiz96 · 2023-10-30T22:30:36+00:00

The "Vibe" thread is about as true as it gets. Never seen so much justification as was in that thread.

macone235 · 2023-10-30T22:32:21+00:00

I feel like at least a third of TRPers here are larpers.

demedermidimi · 2023-10-30T22:34:05+00:00

It is completely possible and non contradictory to be super liberal and fight for gender equality and still find tall men attractive.

true but it's so funny that something actually warranted this response

grillopie · 2023-10-30T22:59:00+00:00

what is wrong with sexual objectification in and of itself? things like catcalling are obviously disrespectful, but its the disrespect thats wrong. isnt it conceivable that the first thought that crosses your mind when you meet someone is “damn she has a nice body” and end up deeply loving her and getting married?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-30T23:00:12+00:00

By short i mean less than 6 ft tall not little people no offense

Based zoomer girl telling it as it is.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-30T23:05:46+00:00

Guys in the west have a terrible selection of names to choose from.

saraimarsena · 2023-10-30T23:19:50+00:00

any hockey fans here???

saw the video just now and i’m horrified by the adam johnson video. scariest sports incident i’ve ever seen. is there any legal recourse for the victims family??

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-31T00:14:54+00:00

Has anyone read The Sun Also Rises? I hated the book because it made me sick to my stomach. I saw a lot of myself in the Character Robert Cohn. I think a lot of us who inhabit these spaces are similar to the character Robert Cohn.

This passage of dialogue is said by a woman who Robert Cohn was in a relationship with but refused to marry. He is now interested in a character named Brett who is a notorious flirt and follows her around like a puppy dog despite her not reciprocating interest. The woman asserts that Robert refuses to marry her because he was to have the experience of having had a mistress and by marrying her, he wouldn't be able to say he had that experience.

“Listen, Robert, dear. Let me tell you something. You won’t mind, will you? Don’t have scenes with your young ladies. Try not to. Because you can’t have scenes without crying, and then you pity yourself so much you can’t remember what the other person’s said. You’ll never be able to remember any conversations that way. Just try and be calm. I know it’s awfully hard. But remember, it’s for literature. We all ought to make sacrifices for literature. Look at me. I’m going to England without a protest. All for literature. We must all help young writers. Don’t you think so, Jake? But you’re not a young writer. Are you, Robert? You’re thirty-four. Still, I suppose that is young for a great writer. Look at Hardy. Look at Anatole France. He just died a little while ago. Robert doesn’t think he’s any good, though. Some of his French friends told him. He doesn’t read French very well himself. He wasn’t a good writer like you are, was he, Robert? Do you think he ever had to go and look for material? What do you suppose he said to his mistresses when he wouldn’t marry them? I wonder if he cried, too? Oh, I’ve just thought of something.” She put her gloved hand up to her lips. “I know the real reason why Robert won’t marry me, Jake. It’s just come to me. They’ve sent it to me in a vision in the Café Select. Isn’t it mystic? Some day they’ll put a tablet up. Like at Lourdes. Do you want to hear, Robert? I’ll tell you. It’s so simple. I wonder why I never thought about it. Why, you see, Robert’s always wanted to have a mistress, and if he doesn’t marry me, why, then he’s had one. She was his mistress for over two years. See how it is? And if he marries me, like he’s always promised he would, that would be the end of all the romance. Don’t you think that’s bright of me to figure that out? It’s true, too. Look at him and see if it’s not. Where are you going, Jake?”

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