CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to women

I was challenged in my view that the bottom 80% of men want a relationship. What makes me think the bottom 80% want a relationship and aren't just like the top 20%?

I realized that I don't have any good reason to believe this other than my own bias, so I'm looking to have my view changed.

My thinking is that most women are marrying a beta bux tells you that the bottom 80% men ARE getting into relationships and marrying the women that couldn't land a top 20% guy.

CMV that women who say men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship are only factoring in the top 20% of men, and they are ignoring the vast majority of men in their feelings because they are literally invisible to women.