What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?

FireCaesar23 · 2022-05-24T17:15:53+00:00

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Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-24T14:31:08+00:00

If you only care about a woman's youth and beauty and nothing else, you deserve to get played for your resources. I'm not even on some "it makes you a bad man" type of shit, but rather, I say this because it's just short-sighted and stupid.
A relationship with a woman just for the sake of having one isn't worth it.
If you're supposedly "average" but yet never gotten any attention whatsoever from even a single woman, you either haven't realized it, need to get out more, or you're not actually average-looking.
If you refuse to self-improve just because it won't necessarily get you any action, that's the whole reason why you get none

bison5595 · 2022-05-24T15:13:39+00:00

I don't think age gap relationships are inherently predatory or bad.

I do think men vastly overestimate the number of women in their early 20s who find 40-something men attractive, though.

ohheyhi99 · 2022-05-24T19:25:17+00:00

Men totally care about personality. A woman that can make a man feel wanted has a huge edge over one that can't; it's why men tend to fall for BPD women.

dobrevaria · 2022-05-24T13:31:27+00:00

Promiscuity in women is bad (it is also equally bad when it comes to men but that’s another story)
Nothing wrong with mandatory DNA test. If you are faithful, you have nothing to worry about
Face > Height (don’t know if it’s actually unpopular)

social_mule · 2022-05-24T15:59:38+00:00

I don't know about men in general but it's a commonly held belief among RP men that a man who impregnates a woman should just be able to declare I financially abort after conception and relieve himself of any obligation to care for his offspring. That has got to be the stupidest shit I've ever heard of.

I do not want children so I had a vasectomy. If other men do not want children they should get vasectomies, or wrap it up, or otherwise stop busting nuts inside skanks.

RinoaRita · 2022-05-24T14:18:00+00:00

I don’t care about my man’s income as long as he’s working or trying. When I first got with my husband he was working a crap retail job but he was hard working and smart. Now he makes almost a much as me because he found a better job.

wtknight · 2022-05-24T12:06:43+00:00

Women vary in personality a lot more than most men on here seem to think that they do.

Demasii · 2022-05-24T12:46:06+00:00

I don't think it's wrong for a man to want to do a paternity test on his child. Even in a happy trusting marriage.

The mother's feelings are going to be hurt BUT a mistake in paternity affect the child, the bio father and the acting father.

Three trumps one in this case.

Infammo · 2022-05-24T12:43:49+00:00

I don't believe that:

A man cheating is any more justifiable or acceptable than a woman cheating.
Women should be socially (or legally) discouraged from sleeping around.
Women have more obligation towards housekeeping/childrearing responsibilities than their male partners.
You can't successfully date with below average physical characterisitcs.
Big butts are attractive.

Joelypoely88 · 2022-05-24T12:19:24+00:00

I find older women (approx. 35-45) more attractive than younger women (approx 20-25). At 27, I think most other men around my age here find younger women more beautiful.

Urbanwitch666 · 2022-05-24T13:18:40+00:00

I think dating does suck for men, and that many men don't understand how to appear attractive in a deeper sense. Charisma and interesting hobbies are so important, and I believe if you're not natural gifted in looks you can add a lot by being fit, stylish, etc but these are qualities often not encouraged or out of reach due to MH reasons for young men. And that is shit. I don't blame women for having standards, or men for struggling to fit them.
I think "looks don't matter" actually applies to a minority. I think it's lying to pretend most women aren't that concerned. I think we're all a little shallow, men and women both, but that some of us manage to break through that for real and that's wonderful, though not to the extent some women claim. Pretty privilege is real. Thin privilege is real. I was blind to it for so long because I didn't realise I benefited from it. And I didn't really consider my own partaking in it until I thought about my dating history and realised most of my lovers with only a handful of exceptions have been conventionally attractive to an extent.
We need to work together as a society to tackle the crisis of loneliness. It will never be okay if we blame each other endlessly.

I mostly agree with women here but there's a few points I don't on average.

CptKillsteal · 2022-05-24T12:05:18+00:00

A lot of men, especially these RP dudes, take the overly logical approach of assuming/insisting that a woman's attractiveness (ie. 8/10) is directly correlated to how difficult they are to hook up with. With the less attractive chick's being easier.

This has never been true in my experience. Some of the easiest lays I've had have been some of the most attractive women, and as a 6'5" athlete I've been rejected by tons of chubby 6/10 girls who were standoffish.

Funniest is when you hear virgin guys or other losers here say "oh ya I could easily hook up with some 4/10 broad but I won't stoop that low". No you couldn't, shut up. If you could bang ugly chick's you'd also be banging 7s and 8s as well.

Flip side of this for women is assuming that men are more intimidated by talking to more attractive women. This is obviously a cope for why they didn't get approached by the hot dude at the bar. But also in my experience zero difference between talking to a fatty and talking to a stunner. All the same shit really.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-05-24T18:50:40+00:00

Most people don't have the maturity for platonic guy/girl friendships, and often platonic friendships with girls just ends up with the guy acting as a pseudo-boyfriend without what being a boyfriend entails.

Men put more value on looks than women do, but women have a higher threshold of looks that you have to meet before stuff like personality factors into the equation to begin with.

jayval90 · 2022-05-24T18:05:13+00:00

Men aren't "evolutionarily predisposed" to try and "spread their seed" everywhere. That's just shitty dudes trying to say "Darwin made me be a shitty father."
While the negative consequences of Feminism are very real, it's not women who are benefiting from it or women who are primarily responsible for it. It's just as much the responsibility of good institutions for allowing themselves to be run over by such an ideology as it was women who "benefit" from the extra responsibility thrust into their lap as they are forced to live more of their lives centered away from a male partner.
Investing a lot of effort to have "game" to get women to have sex with you is really pathetic and sad, not a sign of anything people should want. You're basically dancing to some vapid whore's tune so she'll come with you and have sex with you, like it's some present she offers you since you obviously have nothing else to offer her.
It's not natural for guys to be horny bastards all the time. Something is pushing men to be ridiculous simps and out of control, and it's probably a slow-moving trauma response from extreme sexualization that we push onto boys from a young age.

pop442 · 2022-05-24T12:42:03+00:00

The belief that confidence and personality doesn't matter because women only care about looks.

I think a lot of dudes here confuse confidence and personality for being a PUA or a Johnny Brave impersonator(and, ironically, he always gets rejected on the show.)

But, as someone who used to work as a sales agent and a college radio host and has dated plenty of girls, I can tell you that personality and confidence is a useful skill in general and it's really effective when it comes to talking to women when done right.

All you need to do is be able to read a person, know how to break the ice, and keep them engaged. And you can just end the conversation with the dating/hookup question. It's worked for me plenty of times.

Even if a girl was taken, she felt comfortable enough to follow me on IG and vice versa just based on that connection.

And, before you assume, I'm 5'9, slender, slightly above average(like 6.5-7 out of 10) and Black.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-05-24T12:18:52+00:00

1) I also don't care about N counts (within reason)

2) Women are not a hive mind who only care hypergamy to inform their dating decisions.

3) Dating for the average guy is not an impossible task. Sure, the emphasis placed on men to be the ones always making things happen is tiring, but it's certainly not impossible or even very hard for an average guy to get laid/get a relationship.

4) Friendships with women are just as valuable to me as friendships with men.

5) Women have hobbies and interests. I find it particularly hilarious when a guy here will criticise women for supposedly only liking Netflix and wine, yet their only hobby is gaming.

6) The idea of "Female promiscuity = Bad, Male promiscuity = Good" is an obvious double standard. No, I don't give a shit about your "biological" argument behind it.

Swordfromthecement · 2022-05-24T12:30:56+00:00

I think men enjoy the provider role more than they let on.

The wall doesn’t really exist. Dating gets easier for men but there’s no point where the genders essentially flip when it comes to dating.

melody_of_ · 2022-05-24T18:18:56+00:00

The idea of a "wall" men Terp'ers especially want so badly for women to have to put in the same work men have to do to be successful in relation to dating. What they dont realize is that all the things you can get from a relationship. (Companionship intimacy community, support) Are already a given to women. They will have east access to this relationship or not.

They act like women magically turn into men on their 30th birthday 🤣

revente · 2022-05-24T12:24:37+00:00

I have absolutely no interest in a guy that lifts. I recognize that many women enjoy a more built guy. Give me a nice lean runner. I prefer a scrawny ass guy who isn’t athletic at all to some dude who lifts.

Height is nice. If I’m constructing a perfect guy he would be 5’11 to 6’. But being tall in no trumps being handsome. A handsome guy who is 5’6” >>a less handsome guy who is 6’. Face over everything for looks.

I’ve got a stem degree from a pretty good school and could care less about a guy’s formal education. Don’t be dumb, don’t be lazy. That’s it. My h is an electrician. And yes, he has a handsome face.

PMmeareasontolive · 2022-05-24T12:57:08+00:00

Male perspectives that I disagree with; 1. All sex is good (it isn't; in fact most sex isn't super great, but the thought and effort definitely counts), 2. "The Wall" is the end of women's desirability (it isn't, in fact they are kind of sexier because at that age they have been around long enough to CHOOSE whatever it is they do, rather than be doing it because it's cute or popular on campus or whatever), 3. Casual sex is or should be the goal of all males (casual sex is often the worst; novelty is exciting - but good sex is rare enough that when you find it, you don't want to let go of it so quickly. This won't apply to guys for whom a dry spell = 2 or 3 weeks.) 4. LTR's are bad and only loser males compensate by being in them (there may be a kernel of truth here, as if we were omnipotent we might choose to have harems. But would women also? If women were omnipotent would they choose monogamy? That aside, it's not an awful compromise because you can do a lot of interesting stuff within the confines of a LTR that you couldn't do with relative strangers).

FineDevelopment00 · 2022-05-24T14:12:33+00:00

The idea that it's wrong to care about n-count. The only times I take issue with it are when one is hypocritical about it (holding a double standard) and when one otherwise dehumanizes someone over the issue (fetishizing virginity, etc.)

2022-05-24T14:57:20+00:00

The entire Alpha Beta Sugma male traits nonsense that is so popular around here.

miyawkt · 2022-05-24T16:09:53+00:00

>don't get the appeal of having someone 2 feet taller than me

>don't get the appeal of mainstream male beauty standards

>don't gt the appeal of liking ''dangerous'' men over genlemanly ones

Alfalfa2-Throwaway · 2022-05-24T16:43:06+00:00

Women should be "spoiled" and men need to be "providers" (I will preface this by saying I think men need to be able to support themselves but I don't get women who think men should pay their way too)
Height the if <6' need not apply bullshit. Like why, if you're a 5'11 woman I get it but like the average height for a woman in the US is 5'4 why do you need a guy to tower over you - it's also a really awkward reach and makes certain sexual positions sort of difficult or near impossible btw
Men need to do the chasing. Ffs ladies, if you like someone just ask him out or if you won't be super obvious as in "I like you - do with that information what you will" don't play weird mindgames and then get mad he's not picking up your weird ass breadcrumb trails
I not only don't date gym bros but they would actually be a dealbreaker in most cases for me which apparently makes me weird for a woman, I've also never slept with a man just because he's hot
Dating a man for something extremely superficial like looks or money those things are bonuses but if they are all that's drawing you- it will always end in disaster or at best, just a really unfulfilling relationship.
Sex should be fun and not some chore you do to reward a man - and if he's that bad at it for the love of god leave him (unless you don't really care about sex, then I guess to each their own)
Dating a man you're "not that into" fuck that. Men are also guilty of this and it's the shittiest thing you can do to someone

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-05-24T13:39:10+00:00

The whole “Stacy” look like you see in the memes . Not my type. Looks like a Barbie doll with a bad attitude. Or that getting a “Stacy” means you “won” Yeah, dudes might be jealous for a minute: but that’s just cause they want to fuck your girl, but only for Like one time.
So many dudes trying to impress their friends with arm candy when they should be looking for someone that makes them happy.

KirthWGersen · 2022-05-24T11:32:52+00:00

I can't understand the number of men who like a big arse on a woman.

What the hell is that all about?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-24T11:48:06+00:00

I don't think all women are liars.

I believe that a woman can't maintain a low n count if she sleeps with you on the 1st date (meaning she's done this before) and it's counter-intuitive to want a low n count woman who sleeps with you on the 1st date.

I believe women are hypergamous but not in the 80/20 sense. I believe they just want a man that is superior to them.

I do think monkey branching is like a worst case scenario and is also more common for high n women, it's not as common as PPD wants you to believe.

whyamiherewhatawaste · 2022-05-24T16:28:32+00:00

I agree that women are naturally hypergamous and disagree with women who say we arent. We rarely act on it but it's always on the back of our mind (is he good enough? Where is his career going? Is he gaining weight?) and always consider our options on the market constantly. Most girl friends I have in happy relationships always discuss about their current guy as a job and whether there is future, market value etc. It's not explicit but we all know we think about it.

If you have a guy friend who's less successful and or attractive than you with a girlfriend who exchanges looks with you for more than 2 seconds, she's thinking of you as an alternative one day, odds are good.

BrummieAMN19 · 2022-05-24T17:38:33+00:00

Underestimating how a man's behaviour can cause a woman to lose or amplify attraction towards you
Underestimating game and its importance
Money is by far the least important and most overrated attribute in what women want in a man in terms of pure desire. You're more likely to be more sexually successful broke as fuck than earning six figures due to you having more free time tbh. Which will lead to my 5th point.
Average looking men can and do have a very high laycount (200+) its not just good looking to handsome men and no its not dumpster diving I don't know any man that does this who I know has a high laycount. If anything we have by far higher standards than the average bloke because we live in an abundant reality.
Thinking American dating norms apply to other western nations. Many on here believe a significant amount of money is essential to keep a woman around and this applies everywhere yet in my country women are very very accommodating towards a mans income.

Kentucky_Supreme · 2022-05-24T17:56:17+00:00

I'm not so sure the wall exists for women.

I remember seeing some documentary on online dating where this lady in her 80's was actively banging guys from tinder.

A friend of mine did an experiment where he used photos of an overweight woman and his phone blew up.

I think both examples are just a testament to how bad the current dating landscape is for guys.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2022-05-24T14:08:31+00:00

I hate fake boobs, they look awful and feel terrible too.

slutmuffin29 · 2022-05-24T14:18:24+00:00

Easy. Using social media. I think it's abysmal. All it does is crystallize opinions instead of fueling discussions and debate. Thought and speech are the cornerstones of an open and free society. Hard, unyielding positions are the hallmarks of authoritarianism.

Just stop scrolling and think for a minute. Nothing is written in stone.

ohheyhi99 · 2022-05-24T12:33:54+00:00

That “woman on PPD” = “all women.”

Some PPD women (and men) have a tendency toward views that are less common or at least polarizing in the general population.

Swapsta · 2022-05-24T14:38:09+00:00

People should only have sex in marriage or some close to it.

Men should be punished for promiscuity as should women.

You don't need to love everything about your partner to be in a successful marriage.

EulenWatcher · 2022-05-24T11:32:55+00:00

I'm not sure how common these beliefs are here, I've seen quite a lot of women not supporting them, but here's my list:

Men should pay for dates. I don't think there's any real justification for it besides it's being an outdated dating norm.
Men don't have any real ~~dating~~ issues. They do, but I'd argue that major male issues don't have much to do with them not having sex. It's mostly about violating law, alcohol/drug abuse, homelessness, mental health, suicide rates etc. Oh, also family law system seems to be a bit fucked up in the US. Not sure about other countries.
I don't share the preference for a male provider, but that's just a preferences and not really an opinion.
I don't see anything wrong with mandatory DNA tests, I think they can be highly beneficial if they were used not just for proving paternity, but for creating data base for scientists, medical professionals, police etc.
I'm theoretically okay with paper abortions, as long as they will protect women as well.

absoluteidealismftw · 2022-05-24T12:22:14+00:00

Most of the men I know feel uneasy if not outright guilty about being men, and wanting to possess and dominate their women, and even liking it when women dress sexily, and so on.

Hoopy223 · 2022-05-24T14:05:25+00:00

The posts where kids talk about how their college roommate has slept with 200 women are hilarious.

DreJ-X · 2022-05-24T14:16:18+00:00

Wall exists for men. It's much more easier for men to lose their sexual appeal than it is for women.

Caring about the count is an internet thing. Majority of men don't care about it offline. You can even see prominent pron stars getting married in their 30's and many other fantastic things like that.

People should be able to have an authentic approach to their situation instead of going around it with "self love" and "learn to love your self" and "learn to love to be alone by yourself." Even though these ideas are probably empowering and beyond, they are inauthentic when someone is lacking success in relationships.

Swordfromthecement · 2022-05-24T13:41:38+00:00

That attractiveness is normally distributed and with mean = 5. I think Attractiveness is ARGUS distributed.

sarkington · 2022-05-24T14:16:42+00:00

“I want to feel safe and protected”

Typo_of_the_Dad · 2022-05-24T15:07:17+00:00

I don't even know what n-count means

ruboyuri · 2022-05-24T15:25:45+00:00

Love and babies are unselfish, unlike sex

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-24T15:48:21+00:00

I think that personality is the most important thing to look in partner.

And I'm willing to die on this hill! ( figuratively )

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-24T16:12:28+00:00

I don't understand the fascination with giant asses. They do nothing for me.

I hate all the "Enjoy the decline" plate-spinning bullshit. It's pure evil.

I like the idea of being a provider.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-05-24T16:18:46+00:00

Here is a summary of stuff I don't buy:

Blue Pill:

- The "standard self-improvement items" don't help as much as they claim.

- The "who she can sleep with is her SMV" myth.

- The "men should have standards" and "men are too picky" contradiction.

- The claim high RMV career women are marrying fry cooks and broke musicians country wide.

- Alpha/Beta is for wolves only. Disagree. These terms are well defined for humans and do not represent "wolf pack" behavior as purported.

Red Pill:

- The "standard self-improvement items" don't work at all.

- I want lots of sex with sluts but I want a low n-count gal for a relationship.

Black Pill:

- The idea that It's all of no use. That dating is impossible for the average man.*

* I was an average man and got lots of dates, lots of sex, got married and had kids.

All Pills:

The SMP is a dumpster fire, but it's not all women's fault and not all men's fault. Both genders have a hand in why the SMP is the shit show that it is. Any Pill that says it's the fault of one gender or the other is Wrong Pill.

LTBR1955 · 2022-05-24T16:54:17+00:00

Women don't like equality , in a dangerous situation a man with his wife, daughter, mother, sometimes even a stranger, is expected to give up his life defending her, and would be branded coward if he didn't, when a woman would be brave if she did, and brave if she survived by running away.

i don't believe a woman who runs away is coward, by i appreciate men taking this burden and praise them for it, it also in my opinion blows through claims of equality in society .

This is just one example ..

2022-05-24T18:27:10+00:00

I never got the appeal of Kardashians, Jenners, or Real Housewives.

Over_Noise3530 · 2022-05-24T19:03:18+00:00

I don't think Getting married is the pinnacle of life

Transmigratory · 2022-05-24T23:45:45+00:00

You're not really that special, deep, nor are you as intelligent, let alone as emotionally intelligent as you've tricked yourself into thinking you are. You are merely tolerated because you're pretty enough to stick in, or you make it easier to get pretty people to stick it in.

Sad, but true. The smarter more people of my gender get, the more disillusioned we'll become. But, its more what we'll do with it. Most reds/blackpillers/bluepillers aren't as smart as they believe themselves to be, hence their passionate preaches. When you realise the other gender isn't that special, even the ones that give you a stiffy, you really don't see them as anything that special. Like any other human.

Except when you're horny, then you'll want to shag, after you bust you don't care, and perhaps want them out of your sight so you can do something more pressing- but this depends on your relationship with them.

2022-05-25T00:59:35+00:00

I don't think men should pay for dates, especially first dates.

Devourer_of_felines · 2022-05-25T11:36:16+00:00

Men age like wine while women age like milk.

Most men age like milk because they don’t put in the effort to take care of themselves

GhostofCamus · 2022-05-25T14:13:26+00:00

The idea that only the top 20% of men can play the field. I know some hit up, toothless, scandalous pieces of broke shit with mediocre dick game that can effortlessly have beautiful women paying their bills, and buying their weed.

2022-05-25T15:09:22+00:00

Women often say that men don't care about pleasing you on a ONS or the first time you bang.

Most men are insanely turned on by the female orgasm, just look at how many of them watch lesbian and solo female porn.

I know some men ARE shit, but thankfully I don't think it's a universal experience.

It's a mixture of being tired, being drunk and not knowing what the individual woman wants/needs.

Also I'm not interested in marriage and have spent little time of my life thinking about it. I think about sex, love, companionship, growing old with someone and kids - but not marriage at all.

bison5595 · 2022-05-24T15:50:35+00:00

The idea that you just need money and muscles and women will just flock to you is stupid. You still need game

Dating single moms is ok as long as you have your own kids and/or she will give you kids. Also, it’s fine as long as you don’t spend money on them outside of groceries and you still put yourself first.

Gigamon2014 · 2022-05-24T13:35:18+00:00

Probably bannable, but I actually think men attribute behaviors to too many women. But whereas most "bluepilled" types would say men are wrong, I actually think its that men are half right.

I actually think it varies more by culture, with some being more toxic than others. Honestly, I tend to find the black women/WOC who post here (who aren't femcels, there are a lot of those) very insightful and often genuinely open my mind to new perspectives. By comparison I tend to find a lot of the white/middle class/formerly suburban posters just awful by comparison...and I think it lends to a lot of the malaise among men here who largely hail from the same homogenous, surface level liberal networks. This is why I also disagree with men who speak about "the wall", there is so much to learn from older, more mature women and/or those you find from POC communities. Often tends to be a waaaay greater sense of perspective and acknowledgement of gendered thinking.

Swordfromthecement · 2022-05-24T12:07:18+00:00

Why do you not care about body count op?

Puzzleheaded_Bet7294 · 2022-05-24T14:00:20+00:00

Sex is not important to me at all. To the point that I’m close to being asexual. It would be the last thing on my mind when getting into a relationship. I genuinely can’t believe people sleep together by the 3rd date. I could definitely wait for marriage

throwawaylessons103 · 2022-05-24T14:54:17+00:00

Women can be absolute children when it comes to rejection, meanwhile consistently tell men they need to embrace it. Many women who say they've "asked men out" before asked out 1 or 2 dudes, got rejected, and now say "women shouldn't approach first cause it never works" lol.
Women will often compare their experiences to men, saying they "might have quantity but don't have quality" but they fail to realize quantity is how you GET quality.
Women who want marriage/kids should prioritize finding a life partner in their 20s. I don't agree with RP dudes saying women should be married before 25, but I do think mid-late 20s is that sweet spot where women have had some life experience, but still are somewhat malleable and also physically attractive. High quality options are still on the table.

chalkandapples · 2022-05-24T18:25:21+00:00

I don't think men lie, I think they're on average good people that care about you even if they're not attracted to you.
Women do have higher standards than men. It's hard for men to date.
I don't think men are commitment phobic, most of them do want a family and a solid relationship.

MelodiousTones · 2022-05-24T12:40:09+00:00

In fact a lot of redpillers and incels want to be dominated by women sexually.

CptKillsteal · 2022-05-24T11:49:42+00:00

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ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-05-24T16:53:36+00:00

I don't think men pump and dump that often and women desire casual sex more than the average low socio sexuality woman on this page would have you believe

Neptune-Jr · 2022-05-24T18:39:54+00:00

For me, I find older women more attractive than 18 year olds. And I blame disney channel for this. I remember watching shows like Wizards of Waverly Place and Good Luck Charlie and the moms would be way hotter than the daughters.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-05-24T19:10:30+00:00

" Toxic masculinity " is not a real thing, the amount of other guys that I see on here play along with that bullshit is ridiculous

Carloverguy20 · 2022-05-24T21:09:23+00:00

"Women only go after 20% of men, and ignore the bottom 80% of men."
These guys here don't get out much, because if you go to any public setting, I see average to below average couples all the time.

I don't hate women or men who have Onlyfans, do SW, they are just making content.

I also tend to like older women and mature women tbh.

I like single mothers and they aren't a grievance to society. I think Single mothers get a bad rep.

Effective_Fox · 2022-05-25T01:14:14+00:00

Any overly broad generalization about women that are loosely based on truth. I.E. anything about hypergamy

roblox_porn_addict · 2022-05-24T13:48:00+00:00

I also don't care about n-count, there's no way to really know for sure anyways and marriage is ALWAYS a bad idea. If she cheats or starts treating you badly you can just leave. Too many guys are huffing that tradcon copium, looking for their unicorn.
There's nothing wrong with dating an OnlyFans girl, it isn't "cucked". They're not having sex with anyone else and they're mainly doing it for the money. Their job doesn't mean they aren't attracted to you or that they won't treat you well, both sexually and otherwise.
If your partner cheats on you shouldn't be angry at their affair partner. They weren't the one that promised you sexual fidelity.

CFinCanada · 2022-05-24T14:27:57+00:00

That women benefit from having children.

That men need to be 6 feet tall to be attractive or dateable.

just_a_place · 2022-05-24T16:34:24+00:00

Online dating

The Incel ethos disguised as Red Pill knowledge.

This autistic world view of women, for example: using language like "N-count" and obsessing over dumb shit like height, jaw, etc

The meaning of life is between women's legs

purplish_possum · 2022-05-24T19:12:46+00:00

I like honest sluts. Women who are selfaware and open about sex are the best. I don't care what her n-count is so long as I'm getting her A-game.

ChiBron86 · 2022-05-24T20:26:12+00:00

Obsession with virgin women. How they'll wife up or take a girl serious only if she's a virgin.

I've messed around with virgins and they're beyond lame in bed. It's a humongous turn-off. And that lack of experience permeates in other aspects of their personality too. They just lack a certain sex appeal that makes you desire 'em sexually or even romantically. It's hard to explain, but virgins just come off lame.

None of this means I want a hoe, but there's a happy medium between virgin and hoe and those are the women I go for. Obsession with virgins only makes sense if you are one yourself. Otherwise, go for the girl who knows a thing or two. You'll find her far more attractive.

2) I'm genuinely attracted to bigger girls (around 200 lbs) as long as they have curves (ass/hips/quads/hams).

3) The whole men-don't-care-about-your-money/job/degree. While it's not necessarily a turn on, being unemployed most certainly is a turnoff. Because it's usually accompanied by other undesirable characteristics - laziness, entitlement, stupidity etc. Have something going for yourself and the ability to support yourself. I'm not your Daddy.

eye_fuck · 2022-05-24T23:13:42+00:00

Porn addiction is fake.

Shaiziin · 2022-05-24T19:22:27+00:00

Going 50/50 is not a relationship. That is a roommate

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meteorness123 · 2022-05-24T23:51:03+00:00

The idea that men don't care about a woman's degree or her intelligence. Patently false.

.2. N-Count. Don't really care unless it's huge

Women don't care about a man's intelligence. This is just projecting on the side of highly
analytical nerds. They think that since they're scientists or engineers and they're not
getting play, this is therefore proof that women don't care about intelligence. They
definitely do, it's just that you're probably too autistic which is not attractive.
Marriage. Not really a scam and still the best way to start a family. Divorce risks can be
mitigated by making smart partner choices

5 Beta bucks. Virtually never happens unless big age gap plus discrepancy in earning
potential between both partners

2022-05-25T03:10:57+00:00

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Skycat9 · 2022-05-24T13:01:21+00:00

Finally a thread where I agree with many of the top rated comments

Crushed_95 · 2022-05-24T13:11:37+00:00

<<<<<definitely a Phat Azz man but, thanks to Sir-Mix-a -Lot "Baby got Back" and Beyonce "Bootylicious" and Kim Kardashian have made Caucasian women having phat asses acceptable. Having ass in the "Community" has always been the thing back to Jim Crow but, now it has branched out!

badgersonice · 2022-05-25T01:24:38+00:00

I don’t care about height as much as most women. I’m tall for a woman, but I don’t need a guy 6 feet tall to make me feel feminine or dainty or whatever. I will never feel dainty and tiny, anyways, so whatever, it’s not something im looking for.

I didn’t date much, but in practice, I always seemed to prefer guys right around my own height (which is below average height for men). I don’t know why, I just do.

eye_fuck · 2022-05-26T12:22:09+00:00

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Title	What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?
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Comments	463
Date	May 24, 2022 11:10 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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