Daily Community Chat Megathread

spunkystoic · 2023-06-20T18:04:01+00:00

Man...purge week was eye opening.

Multiple women seriously arguing the point that they are fully entitled to a man's friendship, time, and affection.

I'm friends with a good few (female) licensed counsellors, some of whom are pretty harcore feminists, and honestly the type of rhetoric by some of the women on here would curl even their toes...

...it's been said a million times before I know, but I think a significant portion of both men and women here are just in pain and venting rather than any real desire to find common ground...

keebydee · 2023-06-20T18:43:37+00:00

That post where women were arguing that a guy must stay friends with them after confessing feelings was absolutely wild. "You're not emotionally mature if you gotta leave the friendship." Lol. Absolute insanity. "You just gotta endure listening to that girl talk about the guys she likes!" I can't believe some women actually think this.

It's so funny some scream all day about how "you're not entitled to relationships and sex!" Which no guy here legitimately tries to argue that they are but they're straight up undeniably trying to argue how they're still entitled to your friendship and you must handle your unrequited feelings the way they want you to.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-06-20T21:49:11+00:00

Claiming ugly men will automatically treat you better than attractive men is just another version of the just world fallacy.

No-Boat5713 · 2023-06-21T03:43:05+00:00

Let's be real: "Removed for OP abandonment" really means "Mrs_Drgree didn't like how you brought up uncomfortable truths."

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-21T18:06:51+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/14f03ai/aita_for_telling_my_girlfriend_her_home_decor_is/

Posts like this reminds me of how weird the average redditor is. One of the top comments is

Yeah, you don't really love her. If you did, you would rejoice in these FANTASTIC examples of her quirkiness. She sounds great.

YTA because you're pretending to love this woman but you secretly look down on her and feel superior.

Break up with her and let her find someone who will cherish her awesomeness.

I can understand dumping on her tastes and calling them "childish" is uncalled for, but I think he totally has a point. Anglerfish and dead bug collections on the wall is not something normal people decorate their houses with, so I can understand how people can be weirded out by seeing that. If he doesn't want his colleagues over, I understand that. She made the suggestion they come to her place, not him. He also didn't ask her to remove any of it to accommodate him, his solution was to skip his rotation until his place is done. So I don't see why people immediately jumps to he hates her and demand they break up. People with different interests and tastes can love and coexist with each other.

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Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-06-20T21:36:20+00:00

So if emotional labor is something women are only capable of doing for men, what name do we give to the tasks that men do that women never would?

old_new_age · 2023-06-20T23:06:21+00:00

i had a moment of empathy today when i set my linkedin to "open to work" and got a decent number of messages in 24 hours, i got to sort through the best ones and pick the best offers, and i finally felt what women feel when they're on dating apps

now if i could just get these recruiters to suck my dick :(

WestCombSplit · 2023-06-20T23:21:56+00:00

She said, "I been where you are, he left without a trace, With two mouths to feed and another on the way"

Baby, don't you cry, 'cause men, they're like trains, If you miss one, there's another on the way

These are some based lyrics

legaliserikkekritise · 2023-06-21T00:03:17+00:00

are women to blame for the war on drugs? They constantly poll as supporting it much more than men.

Due_Action1754 · 2023-06-21T03:56:16+00:00

You know, I'm glad that this group still find themselves justified in all that's happened. All of this madness and yaw have not slowed down a bit. I'm not going through a character development phase, neither is this some ‘new me’. What y'all are unwilling to accept is that you're the bad guys in this scenario. Y'all know that I see the disrespect on a daily basis, I just choose not to speak on it.

Now while Zherka mimicking my life is unhinged, what's more unhinged is this idea that'll hate asian people through silly behavior done by your friends. I find yaw attempt at social conditioning hilarious. Putting people on my bus who are in relationships won't make me yearn for love. I'm never going to befriend the unhinged folks involved and never will I date them. Keep putting them on my bus, won't change anything. As for the manager who's done highly illegal things and continues to lie to my face daily. I have responsibilities. I'm helping people that need me. Your silliness is not worst my response. Although if you want me gone, just tell me. Don't have a ‘scam caller’ attempt to trick me into doing something to allow me to lose my job.

As I said before, y'all know this is highly illegal, it's immoral and it's cope at its finest. I have not evolved into some enlightened being. I have accepted that what's out of my control is out of my control. The fact that y'all say these silly things to justify it, shows how far gone yaw have become about this situation. I remember all the disrespect, I notice everyone who comes to the job. You people just not worth the energy of calling out every second of the day. I needed to accept that y'all will never feel in the wrong, that moving on meant that once you're finally bored to death, you'll just act like it never happend. Again, it's highly illegal in the first place, releasing private information, the manager did some weird inappropriate touchy thing, camera access...

As for the people trying to befriend me; I have a close circle that doesn't disrespect me behind closed doors. I made a mistake two years ago, y'all constantly bring it up to further the inappropriate behavior going on right now. It's textbook projection. “Let's talk about how creepy he is because we are being creepy”. It is funny seeing the analysis go from I'm autistic with no skills to im autistic but good at masking. Now it's I'm highly depressed and every excuse in the world is used to explain my behavior. When really that monotonous tone of voice certain people are getting is a indication I'm not fucking with you.

Due_Action1754 · 2023-06-21T03:56:24+00:00

So to close this and get back to peace of mind I'll say again what you're doing is highly illegal! I'm done poking the bear. Hurling insults back would only provoke and reaffirm this fictitious justification. When you finally accept like I've done that neither I or yaw are evil; that you've allowed monkey brain group thinking to create a toxic community, then yaw can disappear without guilt. Stop creating attempts to provoke me, the prank calls will continually be met with ‘call back later’. I've noticed the stuff like the dude subleasing coming outside and flashing his light into the window; it only paint perfectly the picture of yaw intentions.

You people know how wrong this stuff is. It's been psychological torment and whats worst is the immediate attempt to befriend me afterwards. Again, any girl or friend of y’all will be met distance. I have responsibilities so I'll continue to do my job respectfully. I hope this brief reminder of what you people have done serves as a exit.

You’ve tried to bully me into submission and it hasn’t worked. The better synonym is stalking and harassment. From delivery drivers, to coworkers, old friends and even repair men. It’s so illegal and that’s what led to my paranoia. Is there a hitman at the end of the tunnel or did y’all just want me to inevitably hurt myself? Can you people drop the ego and ask yourself for moment why you’re continuing this? Regardless I hope yaw think about what you’re capable of when there’s no repercussions involved. Some people funded the actions, some acted themselves. All who were involved created excuses to justify it. I have no hate for any of y’all, I just won’t disrespect myself. It’s only going to be more boring from here on out.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-06-21T04:04:00+00:00

In college, a lot of the women I knew would bring their girlfriends to parties/hangouts.

After college, it seems like women just bring themselves. Like they have no gal pals, ever.

Anyone else relate to this?

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-22T03:06:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/14fj84m/my_wife_is_considering_divorcing_me_i_am_angry/

There's a reason divorce rate sky rockets when the wife significantly out earns her husband. Generally speaking a woman who's a breadwinner will not respect a stay at home father she is supporting financially.

No-Boat5713 · 2023-06-21T18:01:40+00:00

u/Mrs_Drgree

And yet you have no examples of it ever happening. Cool story bro.

Here's your example: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14eovv2/most_women_havent_experienced_loneliness/

Top 2 comment threads are deleted, by the way. She tells you everything you need to know about her "debate" sub, and how she treats people.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-06-21T17:51:28+00:00

important update on the titanic situation

False_Cod_4747 · 2023-06-21T16:38:08+00:00

Recently been hooking up with a complete nympho and after sex I've noticed she'll usually say something like omg I came 4 times to your 1 or wow I orgasmed like 3 times.

Knowing that PiV orgasms (though I get some clit stimulation in there as well) aren't the most common thing for females I get some is she fake orgasming vibes and I'm a strong believer in trusting your gut.

On the other hand she's very sexual, confident in herself, knows her body that way, and it's not like I'm pressuring her to cum for me so maybe she just does easily 🤷

She'll occasionally have those remnant twitches and random shakes in her thighs once we're done but mainly a question for the females are all your orgasms those stereotypical earth shattering, convulsing ones?

purplish_possum · 2023-06-21T16:21:05+00:00

Multiple nations are spending millions of dollars looking for the missing billionaire toy submarine. Always amazes me how rich people expect unlimited government help when they're in trouble buy work to limit or outright deny even the most basic help for ordinary people in need.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-06-20T17:08:08+00:00

I wonder if they still do those modeling scams, ya remember the ones at the mall? They’ll go up to a mother with her daughter and be like

“OMG your daughter is so beautiful she can be a model do you know that? Come sign up with us”

Then they pay hundreds if not thousands for classes photo shoots that go absolutely nowhere lol. I saw a video about this years ago and they tell the scammers specifically not to go and approach men with daughters tho cause they’ll shut that shit down quicker than the moms.

chilikettlechips · 2023-06-20T17:40:51+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/14dhu71/singles_events_big_discrepancy_between_type_of/

Discussion: men bad????

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-20T19:22:09+00:00

The batshit crazy pornstar Zion (nba player) was hooking up with is now tweeting and threatening to release their sex tapes. Just casually threatening to commit a federal crime, reverse the roles and imagine what would happen.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-06-21T00:40:29+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14erz0t/attractiveness_is_extremely_important_for_men/jowgp8s/

How different would things be if women were always this brutally straightforward about their preferences?

chilikettlechips · 2023-06-20T17:39:52+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/14dphq2/calling_out_a_ghoster/

Q4W: What about his safety????????????

1Here4Bach · 2023-06-20T21:12:05+00:00

Selfish males wanting a woman who is selfless. Bring the flood.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-06-20T19:51:10+00:00

Today I think I saved my soul. Compared to even last year the way I view women has improved so much. I'm ready to grow up. Finished uni today, applying to jobs tommorow.

I feel happy and sad at the same time, I'm going to miss my friends, but I'm onto a new world. I think my days as an incel are coming to an end.

No-Boat5713 · 2023-06-20T22:36:43+00:00

In another post, someone complained about how men have terrible online dating profiles.

Q4W: What exactly would my profile have to say for you to want to go on a date with me? (or start talking, whatever you want the "next step" to be). I want to hear the specific words that you want. Don't say "talk about your hobbies." Tell me which hobbies a man would need to have for you to be attracted, and what I should say. Write the paragraph for what I would need to put in my profile to make you want to date me. Show me some example pictures: if these were your pictures it would make me want to date you. What are those pictures?

Usually, women refused to give specifics because they don't want to give away the "cheat code." If women say what is good enough they will be giving up on the "better man" they believe they can get. This right here is the hypergamy.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-20T19:17:25+00:00

100k isn’t even that special anymore with inflation and especially living in an urban area. It should be adjusted to like 150k or something at this point

1Here4Bach · 2023-06-20T19:21:32+00:00

As a proposed “leader”, “protecter” and “provider” ,why would you want to subject your family to a life of lower middle class misery, financial limitations and limited opportunities because you don’t have the knowledge, talent or ambition to obtain a 100k+ job?

Being comfortable being the sole provider with a sub 100k salary and claiming you have your family’s best interest in mind is an oxymoron.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-20T22:15:34+00:00

I want to know people's thoughts on this. A couple of months ago OP made a post about her boyfriend having issues with her travelling out of the country solo. In her words, "He says it’s “single person” behaviour to go solo travelling, and he’s been scaring me by telling me of all the dangers of me getting roofied and SA’ed. He says he trusts me but not other men". Ofc most of the comments were trashing the bf saying he's being controlling and manipulative by trying to scare her into compliance and to get her to do what he wants.

Earlier today she made an update basically saying she spent the first night crying in her hotel room from all the harassment that she received. As soon as she got to the airport one guy followed her and kept asking for her number and she got catcalled by 8 other guys.

I think as an adult she is free to come and go wherever she pleases, but the bf was absolutely correct and he got unfairly trashed by hating ass women for trying to protect his gf. This guy did hit the nail on the head though. If my gf acted like her idek if I'd want to continue that relationship.

EulenWatcher · 2023-06-21T01:37:05+00:00

Went on a date today, 10 kilometers, museum, library, Korean kitchen, cupcakes, beer and a bunch of pastries on a sale for us and our roommates. A really good day today and we went over the top lol.

VampireChaser · 2023-06-20T17:08:52+00:00

People who took the covid vaccines give me the ick.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-06-20T17:32:48+00:00

I am free! Still didn't touch grass.

night-time_coffee · 2023-06-20T18:20:34+00:00

When you guys say body n count , do you count oral sex and other stuff or is it only piv ?

A girl recently told me that she is virgin and she want to keep her virginity to her future husband , and so far she only had anal sex with several men

Is there just one universal definition of body n count or it depends on the person and the culture ?

VTHokie2020 · 2023-06-20T18:27:53+00:00

In the last few months a lot of people irl have brought up 'the ratio' unprompted (though, we were talking about dating).

One of them even mentioned NYC specifically as having surplus of young single women, and this is a pretty liberal/feminist friend of mine lol. Previously this is just knowledge that gets contained to dating forums.

I think a lot of 'normies' are tuning into this.

dyngladfel · 2023-06-20T20:44:50+00:00

Got my first date in months coming up 😭 I am a little too excited and a little too nervous.

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-06-20T20:53:02+00:00

Do men commonly lie about their age on dating apps by decades? I'm still getting the deets on my coworkers tinder adventures and there is a guy claiming to be 44 but he looks 64.

She did say 42 is either when men glow up or decline.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-20T21:17:06+00:00

I don’t think I’ve ever been on an OLD date where the woman showed up on time, they’re always running “a bit late.” Frustrating but it is what it is.

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-20T22:27:23+00:00

I'm pro-choice despite the pro choice arguments. They are all so, so, so stupid.

The pro-life argument of "you're killing a person" is much more persuasive than "it's just a clump of cells" and "bodily autonomy".

Personally, my argument is that we place too much value on human life as it is. I have no problem murdering a human that won't ever know it was alive and has no sentience. And, no, I have no problem murdering vegetables in that state either.

VampireChaser · 2023-06-20T22:48:12+00:00

Q4M: What's your cock size? Did it have any negative or positive effect in your relationship? Be honest.

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-06-20T23:27:17+00:00

Why are men here if they're just gunna drop a lame ass comment and block you? Like damn are you that insecure?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-20T23:52:19+00:00

Im willing to go 80/20 with the woman on expenses (I pay 80) if she does all the emotional labor and cooking. Deal?

meteorness123 · 2023-06-20T23:54:04+00:00

Making it your life mission to be attractive to women is such a waste of time.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-06-21T00:00:54+00:00

Question for those ghost, why not block? That is what I do, feel this is more considerate.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-21T01:59:28+00:00

Question4Women: would you date a trans man?

No-Boat5713 · 2023-06-21T02:16:46+00:00

There is nothing wrong with having "finding a good person, who I am sexually attracted to, to for a long term relationship" as something that brings you a lot of satisfaction in life, and making it a priority. Brass tacks: what do you care about in the short time you have on Earth? That is up there.

Now, if you were one of those adults obsessed with visiting Disney World? Okay, that's "out there," you might want to re-assess. Obsessed with chocolate? Chocolate is great, but there are a lot of other great foods too.

Good sex? Except for straight up drugs, it's hard to find anything comparable. Spending time with your spouse, assuming it's a healthy relationship? Even rarer.

On their death bed, people regret not spending more time with their loved ones, not spending more time on their "hobbies." Hobbies are just things to do while you wait to die.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-06-21T02:22:31+00:00

Yum sandwich with fresh lettuce picked from your backyard.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-06-21T03:01:20+00:00

The health care system in the US is truly fucking horrible compared to the UK. My individual health insurance policy cost $1200/monthly plus copays/non allowed meds, etc added another $500-$3000/monthly. Lots of people in the US can’t afford it and go without, risking bankruptcy if they have a heart attack & need expensive hospital care. It’s a big reason why I left to live in Thailand last year where I can see any specialist I may need to within 2 days max & pay $50.

baresquad · 2023-06-21T15:25:23+00:00

Q4A: Are men too far gone?

Because of the manosphere, I don’t see dating and sex ever getting better for disgruntled and struggling men. Now that it’s common knowledge how prominent manosphere beliefs are, it’s not likely that women are ever gonna relent and give those guys a chance.

They let far right ideology, Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuels and “alpha males” grift them right out of a normal dating life, all hyped up on movie’s plot device (red pill).

Other men will be fine though. There’s too many men who don’t struggle, for women phasing manosphere men out of dating to have any real or detrimental impact.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-21T15:22:21+00:00

I think it’s insecure to date men that make more money than you. Feminism tells you that you’re equal to a man why not support a man and provide for him? Why be so insecure? Women run the world right?……right?…

Peacesquad · 2023-06-21T15:18:22+00:00

Also what did I miss

Workaholiconew · 2023-06-20T17:01:50+00:00

first.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-20T17:23:55+00:00

I think being overly analytical may be one of my biggest detriments. I am not comfortable doing things on instinct and prefer to have most of my actions heavily planned out with all outcomes considered as much as possible.

I also heavily try to minimise downside risk in favor of taking a neutral to slightly positive path.

Infammo · 2023-06-20T17:56:07+00:00

Why is Andrew Tate being charged with rape/human trafficking such big news today?

Didn’t this already happen a while back?

Phillysportsfan52 · 2023-06-20T18:58:33+00:00

Took off work to go on a 5th date with someone. Just for her to end up canceling cause she isnt in a good mood.

Im a whole 🤡

Think im done with dating for a while. None of these bitched want actual relationships and have a ton of trauma and insecurities.

Just feels pointless af when u know every situation is gonna go the same way. Thought this one would go different because we meet thru friends but nope, same shitty behavior. Woman are such cowards they will lead you on and use u for attention/validation rather than be upfront with how they feel.

1Here4Bach · 2023-06-20T19:10:56+00:00

On a mission to save women from being tradwives to any male making sub $100k.

WestCombSplit · 2023-06-20T19:21:28+00:00

Is abortion a female rights issue?

If so, then what if the foetus is a girl?

bison5595 · 2023-06-20T20:33:50+00:00

Q4W: which would your prefer? 10/10 oral and 5/10 sex from your partner or no oral and 8/10 sex. Assume you have sex 2 to 3 times a week and you orgasm every time from oral.

dyngladfel · 2023-06-20T20:49:28+00:00

Any UK people here? Always intrigued when Americans talk about $100,000 as the gold standard income and what the equivalent is here. Saw someone on one of the UK subs say percentile for percentile it would be £42,000.

I ask because I have genuinely never heard a woman speak in those terms here, sure we joke about how nice it would be to have a rich husband sometimes but I've never heard actual figures be dropped.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-06-20T21:30:05+00:00

Jonathan Majors almost got FUCKED

Really sad that his career was almost completely destroyed off the back off a white woman’s lie

This is some Emmitt Till level shit

social_mules_alt · 2023-06-20T21:34:52+00:00

Why are people reporting my posts to reddit?

Vronicasawyerredsded · 2023-06-20T23:10:56+00:00

Men are bad at creating and facilitating intimacy in platonic friendships with other men which is why they’re lonely and desperate.

dyngladfel · 2023-06-20T23:48:37+00:00

Off topic but anyone got ADHD here? I've been referred for assessment (women my age weren't being assessed or diagnosed with it much when I was growing up). Just wondering if it affects anyone's interpersonal lives especially romantic or sexual.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-21T00:05:05+00:00

Question4Men: would you date a trans women?

Chokeman · 2023-06-21T01:36:31+00:00

TIL

Divorce law in sweden doesn't require a mutual agreement between both partners. One partner can file for a divorce and if the other doesn't agree, they can ask for a 6 month reconsideration period. If the partner who files a divorce still insists after 6 month, the divorce goes through.

But asset division and child alimony will be settled out of the court so i guess it's not too bad.

huhwhatokok · 2023-06-21T03:16:23+00:00

My cologne came in. That gentleman givenchy smells mad good.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-21T15:18:14+00:00

Fuck it. I’m going Mahogany Pill, Orange Pill, Fuchsia Pill & Silver Pill!

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-06-21T15:08:44+00:00

The more I read and learn about relationship dynamics, the more it dawns on me that it is just another materialistic thing in this world.

It is like exchanging a certain amount of money/gold for an object of your interest like a laptop or car.

Man has to find her attractive (physically).
Woman has to find him attractive (physically).
Man has to provide certain amount (financially).
Woman has to provide homemaking and maintain good looking.

These are all natural requirements, all biological, there is nothing to be shamed or judged. Yet, at the end of the day it makes a relationship rather materialistical.

It is sad since I am more of the hopeless romantic type of guy. It feels like I am slowly being shown the true side of worldy matters.

the-lone-squid · 2023-06-21T15:03:44+00:00

Pill progression

Blue pill- everything is ok

Red pill- everything is not ok

Black pill- nothing is ok

White pill - nothing is ok and that's ok

Ppd needs a white pill flair

Barneysparky · 2023-06-21T14:58:50+00:00

My husband and I made new friends on the weekend, I think.

We were sitting beside each other on a patio, and our conversations started lapping over each other and combining each other and it was perfect, these are our people moments. We have way too much in common, I've been thinking about doing a Bumble BFF because there are activities I'd like to do that my friends aren't into and she likes those activities.

Making friends in middle age is just like dating. We are feeling each other out, and worried if the text you just sent will be received well.

We have a date set, their not being swingers is established (thank God), hopefully, our date night goes well and we can set up more activities together.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-06-21T14:03:33+00:00

Why do red pillers think a man cheating in a relationship isn't a big deal. I mean surely whether or not it's a big deal should be decided by ya know the person getting cheated on?

VampireChaser · 2023-06-21T13:31:56+00:00

"Damn, she's hot. Too bad she doesn't have a college degree." Said no man ever.

Cjaylyle · 2023-06-21T13:16:39+00:00

Its actually a beautiful thing that she is able to reject you so freely

Crazy how we take a step back and have an actual look at the debates here, we see men essentially arguing for or reeling from the “negative” side affects of what was essentially female oppression for generations.

Up until very recently women basically had no choice but to settle for men who they didn’t find attractive. They had to have sex with men for years who, whilst some of them may well have been nice men and good fathers, literally hurt them physically (sex when not turned on can hurt) and mentally (once again, sex with a man you don’t want sexually can mess you up)

They were basically almost in a transactional provision for sex relationship, and if they wanted out of that it was incredibly hard.

Now women have the freedom to be with who they actually want. They don’t feel physically and emotionally trapped. They don’t feel miserable and helpless. It’s not frowned upon to be single and to make your own money and career. Its not frowned upon not to settle.

Whilst it may be a bit of a cold plunge shock for modern man, her freedom to reject you and not feel pressure to “love” or have sex with you is indicative of social progress, and if you’re suffering for that it may be time to self reflect and check yourself

1Here4Bach · 2023-06-21T13:05:40+00:00

Males: “Social media is rotting woman’s brains!”

Meanwhile, males

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-06-21T12:51:49+00:00

People are still confused on why the decline in testosterone is so prevalent, but comes down to these habits you can do to help increase your testosterone as a man:

-Stop drinking alcohol

Stop smoking
Stop eating junk food
Stop sitting on your arse all day
Stop drinking full cream milk
Exercise every single day

Things that should be common knowledge and common sense, yet the average man's testosterone is between 350-500 ng/dl nowadays.

Our grandparents had over 1000ng, that's where your testosterone should be as a man. The way we're going roughly 20% of men will be infertile in the current generation, but the next generation? Probably 50% of men will be infertile.

1Here4Bach · 2023-06-21T12:51:30+00:00

Males: “Don’t ask dead beat dads to take responsibility. Hold the women who choose them accountable!”

The single mother is taking accountability by raising the kids. That’s her taking responsibility. Now it’s the father’s turn.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-06-21T11:47:49+00:00

I doubt anyone would be buying the bodily autonomy argument if fetuses were able to communicate.

dyngladfel · 2023-06-21T11:31:36+00:00

Coming to accept that I'm not going to have children. I used to want them, but realistically it just seems to expensive and time consuming. I think I'd prefer the DINK lifestyle and spend Sundays having brunch and doing things we liked, rather than pissing about with prams and nappies and dummies and the like.

Anyone else make a similar realisation?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-06-21T11:18:45+00:00

Imagine being Tom Holland and seeing Zendaya making out with two random actors in her new movie trailer.

That's gotta hurt. I don't know how any self respecting man would be okay with that, actor or no actor.

VampireChaser · 2023-06-21T10:21:04+00:00

Why was the 'women never experience true loneliness' post removed? Pussy mods.

happy_discus · 2023-06-21T09:27:05+00:00

Is this effort in the room with us?

WestCombSplit · 2023-06-21T09:09:00+00:00

This situation (if real) requires a bunch of ignorance from multiple people

Donating sperm is still opting to become a father and some people are ignorant to that fact

throwawayVishot · 2023-06-21T06:41:20+00:00

Am I the only one who likes lean and defined women? It feels like all other guys are into big butts. Explain yourselves.

For example the woman at 3:40-4:30 in this video. https://youtu.be/cVHftZfq0D0

She looks amazing. How am I supposed to want average thots after seeing this?

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-06-21T06:27:31+00:00

Anyone more scared of success than rejection? I match girls on tinder and text them for a few days and then ghost them, I've gone to the club the last 2 weekends and I'll meet girls and got few girls numbers but I'll never text them. I've just never gone on a date and can't imagine asking someone out

DrainBrah · 2023-06-21T05:22:25+00:00

So if you're boring, irredeemably unattractive (lifting wont save me), poor, have a noxious personality (cynicism is my ultimate sin) and most importantly never had a female friend ever at the age of 25 its all a wash right? Like theres no chance of entering the "dating arena" and being even remotely successful? Like im doomed to a lifetime of "professional pursuits", "charity" and "volunteering" if i ever want anything that remotely gives my life any sort of meaning? Like a relationship feels like its completely off the table for minimum next five years of my life while i make a herculean effort to change everything i can about my conditioning and personality (that for some reason all my male friends love and enjoy?)

its not all my fault but it mostly is i cannot lie

bfrateguess · 2023-06-20T23:48:23+00:00

Tate charged

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