Daily Community Chat Megathread

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-19T16:47:20+00:00

QFM: Do you think if women stay off dating apps and only go for guys in real life that are interested in them, their standards will stay more normal? Or is it possible to meet and date Chads IRL for average women

Billsandasonom · 2023-09-19T16:43:49+00:00

The most blue-pilled piece of dating advice I agree with is just how much social awareness and intelligence matter in harnessing attraction and chemistry. And it's a big one.

Looks matters to men is common sense to the point that it never ever needs to be mentioned? LOL ok, let's assume that's the case. But you won't find very much specific or comprehensive advice on how to achieve or at least fake social competence in any variety of generic articles dispensing dating advice to men either - it's just "embrace who you are, don't be afraid to show your true self, listen to her".

They can't even follow through on their own shit, that's how much the BP tiptoes around everything. You'll actually find more sources in RP circles with more concrete steps on how to cultivate social skills and this is all despite the RP's association with the nihilistic blackpill.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-19T16:25:04+00:00

Women don't have a "hoe phase".

Either she is a hoe, or she is not. And if she is having a "hoe phase", she is just a hoe.

mummydontknow · 2023-09-19T16:18:48+00:00

If a man "knows what to say" or has rizz it's because he practiced that shit.

The hard part is figuring out whether he practiced on the homies or women.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-19T16:07:52+00:00

Q4A: Have you ever found yourself dating someone significantly above/below your “league”? What was the experience like?

Peacesquad · 2023-09-19T16:01:43+00:00

Q4A: whose love is more real, a man’s or a woman’s? Why or why not?

Peacesquad · 2023-09-19T16:01:21+00:00

Q4A: are women slaves to their emotions and hypergamy? Why or why not?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-19T15:49:33+00:00

Bro really thought this was a relevant post. I never understood the importance of rule 9 but god this is a shit show lmao.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-19T15:46:09+00:00

One of the most fun things to do on ppd for me is to hold and defend position I personally don't believe in. Just to argue with people and to try to think from new perspective

baiser_vole · 2023-09-19T15:32:47+00:00

Why do you think couples are usually looksmatched? Let’s assume these couples are decent people and in a decent relationship (they cared about compatibility). Why do you think they are still looksmatched so often?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-19T15:29:03+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_law

Based blue

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-19T15:20:23+00:00

CMV

metoo ruined dating for the average guy.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-19T15:20:15+00:00

Went mushroom foraging with two friends and each of us only found one mushroom lol. We're gonna order sushi for dinner.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-19T15:13:19+00:00

Touched sone grass today and went grocery shopping on the way. Noticed noticable amount of young moms with their kids (~5-8yo), sometimes with husbands sometimes not, dressed very inappropriate (?). Like they went grocery shopping with their kids and the thing they decided to wear is.. Skin tight yoga pants and small cropped t shirt or low cut dress with push up bra?

Dressing sexy is not a crime, but choosing to wear that to outing with your kid just feels weird. But maybe in today's economy young moms don't have much money and sexy clothes is only clothes they have

old_new_age · 2023-09-19T15:03:26+00:00

All of my female friends are in relationships, so I've now been delegated to the role of "the guy friend she told you not to worry about." Their boyfriends all dislike me and my existence causes drama. I will not get my dick wet but I will have fun nonetheless

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-19T15:02:55+00:00

What do you think?
Are all the men whining about women caring about male looks evidence that men are not as psychologically tough as women, and could not handle being judged on looks the same way women are?

Or are these men complaining because men are now getting judged on looks almost as much as women are, but in addition to all the things men are judged on that women generally are not?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-19T15:02:54+00:00

In what world would you ever consume nearly a litre of cola in one serving?? Americans are fucking wild man...

https://reddit.com/r/interestingasfuck/s/vWlTNGT2hT

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-19T14:57:07+00:00

Guys here always act like they don't shoot out of their league yet many of them are pushing 30 and wanting some virgin 20 year old woman. You do realize virgin 20 year old women have sky high value right? That tons of guys want a girl like that? Why tf would she go for some 30 year old with 0 experience.

Do any of these ppl realize they are being unrealistic? Competition is fierce and will blow you out of the water fast.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-19T14:54:46+00:00

Dudes unironically out here thinking this is the female ideal not realizing 99% of women will find this comically repulsive and these guys likely frequent escorts or are dating sugar babies.

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HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-19T14:54:11+00:00

Tinder never became the main way of meeting people and starting a relationship.

If you have no social circle, and Tinder is your only option, that's on you.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-19T14:53:41+00:00

anyone who has been to graduate school, how did you start figuring out what school you wanted to go to? besides researching which schools have the right program

VampireKissinger · 2023-09-19T14:49:27+00:00

Anyone else feel that "redpill"/"purplepill" has basically won the debate in the mainstream? Outside of Reddit which is a virtue signalling echo chamber, I feel like everyone kind of just kind of accepts certain "truths" that would have been called redpill a few years ago, even when talking to women friends they generally are pretty agreeable to purplepill.

Even on TikTok you see young women with the ick stuff and similar dating memes be far more truthful about what they actually find attractive. Incel memes and lexicon has also hit the mainstream meme culture and are popular even among women, where the blonde wojack being true about her feelings for a hot guy over the "male feminist"/"soi" wojack is basically the feminine gigachad.

Even talking about how atrocious online dating was for men was considered taboo just a few years ago, I even got banned from some subs for discussing how the algo specifically preys on men, but even here on Reddit everyone seems to agree it's especially predatory for men now.

Even on liberal subs where it was unthinkable, people make fun of The Guardian and it's insane "feminist" opinion pieces now.

Kind of hoping this is a sign that some rationality and nuance is finally re-entering the discussion. The more that people just accept the realities of dating and they become mainstream, the less we will need "pills" at all.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-19T14:44:48+00:00

Guy in the original post was saying the truth -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/NotHowGirlsWork/comments/16mdeu6/saw_this_scrolling_instagram/

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-19T14:28:22+00:00

Another week, another couple of matches on Bumble. The quality tho... leaves a lot to be desired. 40+ nail technicians, live in home aids, community college drop outs,or it's 55+ women divorced from their long term (20+) marriages with all the uptightness of a prude ,but without any of the sexual vigor. Jesus it's bad.

Q4M: To you older guys living in major metropolitan cities, how are your run of the mill matches looking for you?

NalkaNalka · 2023-09-19T14:11:04+00:00

Two things that women really hate from men:

Being lied to.

Not being lied to.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-19T13:55:13+00:00

why do i go insane when i get a crush?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-19T13:54:58+00:00

When a fattie woman exclaims "I'm so fat I need to lose weight" to everyone fishing for sympathy and validation from people telling her "you're not fat. you're beautiful and perfect the way you are" and you need to bite your tongue from telling her "yes, yes you're a fattie who would be a lot more attractive if you lost weight"

CringeButCorrect · 2023-09-19T13:45:27+00:00

It is my opinion that dating will always be difficult for most people. The easier it is, the more higher you'd aim, which would make things hard instead of easy. This is why many very attractive women say dating is hard for them.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-19T13:37:59+00:00

What’s the haps

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-19T13:13:01+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Bangkok/s/dLXHU2n9X4

Your daily reminder that not all Thai women are prositutes

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-19T13:04:33+00:00

Q4All: What does it mean for a Woman to submit to a Man?

nexkell · 2023-09-19T13:00:36+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13m6cps/why_dont_men_approach_me/

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v37bo2/why_do_guys_never_approach_me_but_only_look/

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9eds6g/27f_why_dont_guys_approach_me/

Bonus: A woman who wants the attractive men to approach her not the ugly ones inflated ego anyone?

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/115be07/why_dont_men_approach_me/

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-09-19T12:54:47+00:00

After reading some of y’all posts.

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-19T12:05:21+00:00

If you can have enough income to afford a stay at home partner, would you do it?

And I mean good looking model type chiseled eye candy stay at home partner. Not some fat ass lazy one.

Internal-Fig-7902 · 2023-09-19T11:40:12+00:00

Drove over to my grandmother's to bring her some produce from the farmer's market and helped her cook and helped around the house with chores.

Cherish your time with your grandparents, folks. Buried my other 3 grandparents in the span of 6 months and I would probably give all my money to spend one more minute with them.

potoricco · 2023-09-19T11:35:11+00:00

I’m deadass going to cry, I hate how elitist seniors are. “did you know sophomores can drive now like as I was parking today they were just staring at me and then one fucking idiot came up to me and tried helping me park, he looked smug, wish I could have told them to like fuck off

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-19T11:32:00+00:00

Would you be happy if your girlfriend spent 9k on a bag? (Provided it’s her own money)

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-09-19T10:58:32+00:00

How do I stop being an immature jealous asshole

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-19T10:50:14+00:00

I'm sorry to burst some of y'alls bubble, but the only rich Men that are dating broke women are guys that just want to bang 19/20/21 year olds

The rich Man that makes the McDonald's cashier his wife is fantasy that doesn't play out irl

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-19T10:06:59+00:00

a true man stands behind his original statement even when he realizes halfway into the argument he's wrong

dbz__f · 2023-09-19T09:42:46+00:00

I low key want to move to Asia, not to be a passport bro, I already have a gf,, just sick of the ridiculously rising cost of living here

eye_fuck · 2023-09-19T09:21:35+00:00

While no one is here check out old ass painting of mine

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eye_fuck · 2023-09-19T09:10:52+00:00

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TheBluePillRipper · 2023-09-19T08:53:45+00:00

On the topic of age gaps:

What if a 30-year old man is basically a manchild/shut-in and/or virgin who is deciding to come into the dating scene for the first time? All the women his age are already well-versed in relationships and black belts in social skills and would not even be on his wavelength nor have anything in common with him.

Wouldn’t it make sense for that 30-y.o. to date women sociomentally on his level? That would be 18-early 20s. They would actually have much in common with him experience-wise. In this case, there is no “power dynamic imbalance” because the man has no experience to even be able to manipulate the younger woman in the first place. If anything, he is the manipulatable one since most girls get approached even as teenagers and generally have more social skills.

None of the women his age would even want to date him, the only women he would relate to are those younger adults. So if he followed the stupid prescriptivism of SJWs/feminists/wokesters, he would be stuck in a paradox where he cannot escape. Not only is he unable to date the older women because he doesn’t have the bare minimum social skills & experience (they see him as a manchild), but he also should not date the younger women he is actually mentally/socially on par with that would help him gain that experience in the first place.

So what is he to do? Stay forever alone and die?

Bona fortuna et Deus vult!

mrcs84usn · 2023-09-19T08:51:54+00:00

A man with money will change a broke woman’s life

A woman with money won’t even look in a broke man’s direction.

Treacle-Flimsy · 2023-09-19T08:16:12+00:00

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LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-19T08:15:20+00:00

This place is too quiet, so I'll post this:

https://preview.redd.it/z8kg2jy886pb1.jpeg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c47fb787911fb38b245612bf67da08f82e75a428

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-19T08:03:42+00:00

It's wild how in some SEA countries they really want to be as white as possible and in countries where people are that white, they really want to be tanned. In one country they're bleaching their skin. In the other they're wearing fake tan and going to tanning salons

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FuuraKafu · 2023-09-19T14:21:51+00:00

Would it be better if the sexier gender was also be the bigger and physically stronger? How would society structure itself in that case?

angels-fanatic · 2023-09-19T14:39:02+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/comments/16m4zkl/how_he_thought_the_dog_was_gonna_react/

Here's another little sweetie just being his sweetums little self!! Such precious creatures!

old_new_age · 2023-09-19T15:31:56+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1c8DFfzipZo I forgot about this song, I saw it 7 years ago and I didn't really get it but now it resonates

TheBluePillRipper · 2023-09-19T16:53:19+00:00

If you can’t handle me at my worst…

First of all, men don’t want women they need to “handle”.

We want a partner who brings peace and enjoyment to our lives, barring the occasional relationship conflict that is an escapable part of EVERY relationship since the dawn of humanity. (And no, this is not what those women mean when they say they need to be “handled”.)

How do women, especially the SJW/woke/feminist crowd here not understand that men don’t want to date women who are going to project their insecurities from past relationship trauma onto us? Would you as women want a jaded, insecure, traumatized partner who’s going project his insecurities and trauma onto you and that you have to “handle”?

We don’t want that shit. That’s why we deal with (A) younger women or (B) women with low partner counts. If she’s 35 and had a bunch of relationships and they all failed, the common denominator is her and she probably now has a bunch of learned problematic behaviors and defense mechanisms from those failed relationships and heartbreaks. We don’t want to have to deal with that, sorry not sorry.

No matter how much you say it’s “wrong” we just don’t want to deal with that shit. Get it through your thick skulls. If you’re not even gonna provide your best looks (when you were early 20s), the least you could do is provide your best personality. If you can’t even do that, then stay single and stay calling us names for wanting younger or lower body count women. Or go have a relationship with a 30 to 40 year old virgin, he’s your same age!

old_new_age · 2023-09-19T16:55:58+00:00

I swear to god if I eat anything besides vegetables and water my skin breaks out, I've had to turn down cake twice in the past week and people think I'm worried about weight, no I just don't want pepperonis on my forehead

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-19T16:59:14+00:00

YouTube will demonetize a falsely accused but not guilty Russell Brand and Fresh and Fit for no reason. But will still let rappers profit off music that promotes actual misogyny, drug use and gang violence.

Is the matrix real? You decide

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-19T17:18:34+00:00

Would I make Fauci, Klaus Schwab, Clinton, Soros, Romney, and McCain's reanimated corpse into a 6 person Central Committee (but capitalist this time) like dictatorship?

yes

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-19T17:24:48+00:00

Hey betas, down vote this

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-19T17:24:55+00:00

First date was a dud

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-19T17:34:35+00:00

It's been a little while and I'm getting along with my co-workers. I need to start getting discord @'s lol. I think a lot of incels desires for a woman would be eased by having friends they see everyday.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-19T17:41:15+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/irce9ck619pb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4a8555ae2c22e890c508a66e5d3b8bcc123e2d8

whats for dinner folks? Pretty pleased with myself today 😎

SianOiseau · 2023-09-19T17:52:46+00:00

u/AnonPinkLady, I'll post it here since the post got deleted.

It would be good if you included a list of traits you're talking about, as people tend to have different points and traits talking about these mythical successful men. I'll use the list from PPD wiki instead.

Status - nope. We started dating as broke students, what kind of status is it?
Masculine features (facial) - yes.
Height - yes and no. He's tall, but guys here seem to obsess over the number 6', he's a bit shorter than that.
Bias to action (a willingness to approach) - yes, he approached me.
Confidence - yes.
Masculine body shape - yes and no. When we met, he was on a much skinnier side, but he has the triangle naturally.
Muscles - yes and no. As I've said he was very skinny when we started dating.
Facial symmetry - nope.
Ideal weight - nope. Was underweight.
Leadership/dominance - he can take the initiative, decide for a group and take care of others, but we don't have dominant/submissive powerplay in our relationships.
Linguistic ability - yes.
Intelligence - yes.
Educational attainment - yes, we met at college.
Risk taking behavior - nope.
Ambition - very moderate.
Pre selection - he had a gf before me, but I had no idea.
Social proof as "male circle of friends" - no. We studies in a field full of women, it made sense he was mostly around girls.
"I don't give a fuck" attitude (not caring, or not appearing to care, about others opinions of you) - yes and no. He cares about his close ones' opinions.
Musical ability - no.
Style/fashion sense - not when we started dating lol.
Practical competence - not when we started dating again.
Skill mastery - again, not when we started dating.
Active hobbies - nope.
Fun and sociable personality - yes and no. He's fun to be around, but he's more on an introverted side.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-19T17:55:32+00:00

Am really getting tired of tradcons and autistic bluepillers representing the manosphere

Density of all people has spoken about it and thinks he knows a thing or two when his flat-out just strawmans the hell out of it

Pearl from pearl things clearly has no clue what she's talking about nor the material she's using, and that's why she can't defend herself nor her talking points whenever she's confronted by other people such as piers morgan

Kevin Samuels died and he did a great job lifting the material

So the only one's who can speak on the manosphere is Rollo and Myron, since they clearly know their work and always been consistent with the material they speak about

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-19T17:59:14+00:00

Thug shake

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-19T18:11:11+00:00

Equaliser>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>John Wick

Denzel>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Keanu

AngeCruelle · 2023-09-19T18:18:50+00:00

I think of this video whenever people fixate on not getting to date in high school

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-09-19T18:24:28+00:00

Partner booked a couples massage. Has been treating me to drinks and meals and we've been working out of resorts for two weeks. I love not being poor and having a generous man.

Men out here crying over paying for pasta on the first date. I cannot imagine.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-19T18:39:38+00:00

“Do men even like women?”

-Women who don’t like men

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-19T18:42:24+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/NewGreentexts/s/wmp0zw6qwK

thoughts?

DerayRevan · 2023-09-19T18:47:15+00:00

Cold approach is always inefficient if it doesn't rely on social proof from her friends

Because if you aren't charismatic or your body language is a bit off when you interact with women then your always at a high risk of rejection

9/10 time's, you just aren't gonna get the best outcome from approaching if it ain't back by any social proof

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-19T18:49:45+00:00

Found out a woman at my work who I think is cool and seems to get along with me, is in the work group chat. Kinda tempted to private message her, see if she'd want to have a friendship beyond co-workers. It feels risky which is probably a sign I should.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-09-19T19:02:00+00:00

Lmao that "Happily partnered folks, does your (heterosexual) relationship seem at all similar to RP beliefs or is very different?" really just strengthens my blackpill beliefs.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-19T19:08:44+00:00

Me and my GF don’t want kids but if I ever did and had the money to hire a nanny or even just a night nurse you goddamn right I would and I don’t care if anyone shames us as some how less or parents lol

Who the Fuck wanna change diapers at 2am in the morning?

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-19T19:09:32+00:00

You want to talk about hive mind? Males want daddy to tell them what to do so badly that it translates into every aspect of their lives. That’s why males are more likely to become extremists.

They want Hilter, Trump, Julius Caesar, Jesus, Allah, Stalin types to give the a clear blueprint on how they can be better than everyone else through covert or blatant domination. This is why Catholicism has become so popular amongst young males because it’s a religion with a very clear rank where males are at the top and at times, compared to God himself.

Males are extremely hierarchy driven and they’ll make sure those who don’t want to follow the rules of the hierarchy are socially and/or physically punished. Consequently the reason males have had such a hard time accepting that women are their social equal. It doesn’t compute in their mind. There has to be winners and losers at all times. Someone — some group — must be subjugated for males as a class to feel powerful.

business_explained · 2023-09-19T19:10:21+00:00

Q4W: Do you find this guy attractive? He has the archetypical face that would get friendzoned by every woman he meets. By attractive I mean: would you want your husband to look like that?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-19T19:10:37+00:00

There’s that meme I stay seeing on IG where dudes go on vacation don’t talk to no girls and be like “it was a vibe bro” 😂

Same thing with going to the club

scwizard · 2023-09-19T19:13:06+00:00

Half my male “friends” tried sending me dick pics after my ex and I split. I feel your pain.

Can girls not tell the difference between actual friends and orbiters?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-19T19:21:37+00:00

Never trust a man who’s married to powerful, but ugly women.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-19T19:25:10+00:00

I have gone out with this girl a couple times and I do sorta like her problem is I am not that physically attracted to her due to her weight. But I think I can grow to like her maybe???

I’m pretty sure she likes me though, is what I am doing bad by leading her on if I don’t find her physically attractive? The problem is that I consider any girl I consider attractive is likely out of my league or like really really crazy. So I do have to settle.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-19T19:55:21+00:00

Can someone explain me why Americans have such a toxic dating discourse?

Like Holly crap guys,you litterallly make pseudo movements Based on dating. Its absurd.

What could may be some underlying reasons for that?

eye_fuck · 2023-09-19T19:58:13+00:00

q4w

would you stay with your current partner if you had to pay for them?

cactusbeam777 · 2023-09-19T20:03:26+00:00

CMV: Most attractive, dateable, neurotypical american women with healthy libidos have had casual sex at some point. I don't understand why so many women here insist that MOST women haven't.

Some reasons why a woman may not have had casual sex:

- Stayed together forever with her first boyfriend. She's not on the market, is literally undateable and therefore irrelevant to discussion of the dating landscape.

- Too unattractive to get any offers. i.e. undateable.

- Asexual, low libido, or other sexual dysfunction. Not dateable

- Extremist religious beliefs. They are in the minority. All evangelicals, catholics, mormons, jehovahs witnesses, and muslims combined only make up 40% of the US population. And a large number of those don't really practice what they preach anyway.

- Still very young and just haven't had casual sex yet. Although high-school sex is basically casual sex since most people don't go into a teenage relationship thinking it's going to lead to marriage and happily forever after. It's a time for casual experimentation.

- She's so hot that every guy she's ever slept with has wanted a relationship and led to a LTR. This I can see being somewhat common, but most women like this are very picky about who they get into relationships with so it's pretty likely that there are guys she slept with but didn't consider "boyfriend material" and just kept it casual.

Where are all of these attractive single women who have never had casual sex and aren't religious nuts? I'm not buying it.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-19T20:10:24+00:00

Some Women: The only reason Men get paid more is because of misogyny and the patriarchy blah blah

Reality: https://youtube.com/shorts/G8b2z9-e5wQ?si=WHOq8TSzkuyB9aJi

Me: 👀

antisplatter · 2023-09-19T20:13:01+00:00

just fuck dudes bro

DerayRevan · 2023-09-19T20:24:42+00:00

People wanna throw rocks at the redpill community because instead of teaching guys how develop their social skills that they should have already done at the age of 5, instead we just give details of female behavior

Are we your parents ? Because that seems to be the endless criticism l see from tradcons,incels,blackpillers,femininits

"Oh redpill takes advantage of socially awkward men"

Is the common response they always use, and l always ask them why don't teach this men the skills that they should of learned at a young age, but again nobody cares about this men so everyone keeps dumping shit on them

Sufficient-Ice-5400 · 2023-09-19T20:30:43+00:00

Any other men out there who have deep respect for sluts and hoes? They're doing the lords work.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-19T20:35:46+00:00

I’m trying to identify the reasons I want to be with an older guy. I think a lot of it is that I don’t want to be ignored, and I want someone to give me attention. I’m ignored by most people and they don’t listen to me or tolerate me. They’d rather pay attention to someone else and it makes me feel like I’m not good enough. But if an older guy were to listen to me I’d feel much more secure. I just want someone to care about what I have to say.

business_explained · 2023-09-19T20:44:24+00:00

What do you think about these glasses?

This is my current one. It's ok but I dislike the black colour. Feels like it seperates too much from my face. Plus it also feels very 2010ish.

Also been thinking about something like this, but it feels risky. Think my jawline is too round for that.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-19T20:49:02+00:00

When women say getting easy male validation and attention isn't a privilege, I always have to roll my eyes. It's so obvious and apparent that it is, that I feel like there is some amount of dishonesty.

I'm in a few smaller discords where women talk candidly about dating and they rave about random hot guys who hit on them or who they want to hit on them. I'm sure a lot more is said in women only private group chats and go into raunchy details. In real life, if you're in public and bored and listen to random women talking to each other, it's 50% about dating and have the same talk about "omg this hot guy was talking to me blah blah blah". It's all about it being an exhilarating and exciting experience to get the attention and validation from a hot guy with little care about whether he wants a relationship or not or just smash and dash. They treat attention and validation from a guy like they won the lottery and don't care about his motives.

I feel like I'm being severely gaslit in these conversations. Do some women never really encounter other women talking about how exciting it is to get validation and attention from men even though it's so common?

potoricco · 2023-09-19T21:15:14+00:00

People with glowing macbook logos 🤡🤡 Get a real macbook or stop chasing clout and just get a windows

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-09-19T21:16:02+00:00

There's no way this is real, right? I know Americans have this "exclusivity talk" culture where it's okay to fuck other people as long as you haven't had the magical talk, but I doubt anyone takes it to such extremes, right?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-19T21:20:24+00:00

A piece of advice that really helped me: Whenever you’re feeling overwhelmed, think to yourself “What’s something I can do right now that will make my life 1% better?”

This can be something like doing the dishes, folding the laundry, doing one of the easier tasks on your to do list, etc. Once you’ve taken the first step, the next steps come easier.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-19T21:21:44+00:00

Having high standards automatically makes you entitled. It’s a standard and you already assume you’re entitled to it. Hence why women can’t even retain the caliber of men they want in general.

y2kjanelle · 2023-09-19T21:23:09+00:00

How y’all gonna be hating on promiscuous people when you can’t even pull them 💀💀

she’s so “easy” and “slutty” and “for everyone/for the streets”, and yet you didn’t make the cut. In fact you haven’t made anyone’s cut. 😭😂

like pls be real😭if ur such a catch that u think u can hate on someone else just for choosing to have more sex than ur irrelevant ass thinks they should…why doesn’t anyone want u🧍🏽‍♀️

Peacesquad · 2023-09-19T21:24:52+00:00

Q4W: do you ever wish you could view men idealistically? Like love a man who isn’t social proofed, doesn’t have status or a lot of money but he’s nice to you?

DerayRevan · 2023-09-19T21:26:04+00:00

Here's the thing, guys who are insecure about being a woman's best option are too outcome dependent

I see it all the time where you get an entire population of guys who shoot themselves at the foot because they just wanna give a woman who doesn't show high-interest a good experience, and at that moment they are putting themselves at a major disadvantage

If you worry to much about giving a woman a good experience your just going to end up messing it up one way or another and guys know this, which is why many of them end up as nice guys

Maffioze · 2023-09-19T21:37:43+00:00

https://youtu.be/TGjep7ERugA?si=CCsD06k_7ekv9ETd

This is my new personal anthem when going to vote.

afk_row · 2023-09-19T21:42:38+00:00

Fellow fightporners are ground stomps legal in mma?

AlmostKindaGreat · 2023-09-19T21:45:59+00:00

I see posts about men using porn and wanting all these extreme sex acts. I've watched some porn, mostly in the past, and I've asked to try them sometimes with a steady partner. Nothing I require or would ask for the first few times with a woman.

In my experience, women are the ones frequently asking for things like anal and rough, degrading, or otherwise porn-y sex acts, including the first few times with a woman. I know some of them watch porn and I'm assuming they're influenced by it.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-19T21:52:29+00:00

Ellie Goulding has aged like milk wtf. I saw her in some music video recently and thought “damn she’s 50 already”, but she’s still in her mid 30s…

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-19T21:58:01+00:00

I’d recommend everyone thinking it’s just AI girlfriends that’s on the rise to look up what’s actually on these AI character sites. (Venus Chub, Janitorai, etc…). On janitorai 3 times as many characters has the male tag, as the female tag and on venus chub it’s about 70% male characters and on character AI. Seems like a lot of women are getting AI boyfriends too.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-19T22:00:41+00:00

The only problem with 25+ year old women is they come with an opinion.

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-09-19T22:07:44+00:00

Q4W: do you know any woman who is a "modern woman who wants a traditional man"? i.e. a woman who holds modern beliefs like "there's no problem with women sleeping around/doing sex work" etc, while at the same time wanting the men they date to fit a traditional male role like "paying for stuff", "being the protector" etc.

I'm curious to see if women here know women like that (or maybe even are women like that), or if you see that as just a red pill boogeyman that doesn't exist IRL.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-19T22:10:37+00:00

Ok final point, l think the us team as stacked up good obviously with Lebron James,steph curry,Kevin durant

All this guys are the efficient at hopping the basket

I just think they need to focus more on defense and distributing the ball because l look at the dream-team in the 90s and it was perfect

You had Michael Jordan, the greatest scorer but you also had magic and bird, two of the best passers the NBA had seen

You also had scottie and mj who made the defense a nightmare for attacking players

Amazing centers such as Charles,Karl malone,John Stockton

That's all that this current team is missing in my opinion

Trazyn_of_Infinity · 2023-09-19T22:17:11+00:00

I’m water-pilled, meaning I only drink water—no beer, coffee, alcohol of any kind, you name it. I don’t enjoy those beverages, and it’s not for religious reasons.

I’ve had dates on occasion (mid-20s university male here), so it’s not like I have a complete dry spell, but I often wonder how much I’m hamstringing myself by not going to coffee shops / bars because… what the heck am I going to be doing there, drinking water and looking like some goddamn Puritan?

Maybe my dating life isn’t optimal because I got a really rigid lifestyle, but I don’t know if this contributes to it.

LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-19T22:28:38+00:00

Test upload, don't reply:

https://preview.redd.it/pzg07dkhgapb1.jpeg?width=255&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=564b95c425ec6f21cf7c1d4c692c090ec94e3417

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-19T22:29:52+00:00

Alex Jones should have been a wrestling manager, he would have been perfect for it.

potoricco · 2023-09-19T22:42:20+00:00

this world hates women.

potoricco · 2023-09-19T22:44:59+00:00

I’m immune to Ppd brainwashing. The reality is as a woman there is always someone out there who wants you. Even if youve slept with 4 billion guys. Even if youre 103837282 years old. Even if you have kids, tattoos, piercings. You can’t lose!

LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-19T22:59:01+00:00

Bitches ain't shit but Hosen-Tricks!

https://preview.redd.it/l9hf2aiwlapb1.jpeg?width=280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0367f9303b52841446f55e10f0b10e2c722af4c4

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-19T23:19:30+00:00

Probably how people assume the average black piller lives

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cw8Z8YNAca5/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

potoricco · 2023-09-19T23:22:27+00:00

One thing I really hate is when unimportant, irrelevant classes think they’re important

Like as a health or gym, you have No business giving people homework. Ever

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-19T23:38:39+00:00

After spending the weekend hiking with your typical overachieving UMC girl I’ve come to term with the fact that I don’t have the energy for that lifestyle.

janedoebreakin · 2023-09-19T23:46:01+00:00

I wish my family wouldn’t say anything about me using baby utensils to eat dinner. I’m trying to recover from an eating disorder and using small utensils helps me pace myself and enjoy less food for longer. It’s so embarrassing when they say something or bring attention to it when we’re eating in public. My fiancé tells them to stop. He’s been more supportive with my recovery than them. He even bought me a new set of utensils and a little carrying case for them.

No_Weather6880 · 2023-09-19T23:57:15+00:00

Lauren Boebert left her tall cowboy husband and is now dating a democratic bar owner who's not that much taller than her.

Seems like women get tired of tall bums after awhile.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-19T23:57:42+00:00

Women want to serve, and this is where their happiness lies.

But the free spirit does not want to be served, and this is where my men's happiness lies.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-19T23:58:45+00:00

What’s with me and randomly stumbling into American athletes or their family here in Norway. I met an American pro skier in the ski lift in Hafjell and the UMC girl I mentioned earlier is the sister of an American pro cyclist. I’ve never met a Norwegian pro athlete or their family.

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-09-20T00:11:33+00:00

<sup>I stand with Brand.</sup>

meteorness123 · 2023-09-20T00:29:56+00:00

What do you think of the movie Gladiator ?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-20T01:08:24+00:00

Kids are extremely redpilled before indoctrination :

https://youtu.be/S1Onniy08AY?t=23

meteorness123 · 2023-09-20T01:30:57+00:00

They really ruined that witcher show.

This is still my favorite fight scene, possibly ot ouf any fight scenes :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWZjJ6j5qHI&ab_channel=Netflix

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-20T01:50:33+00:00

Since men make the first move 95% of time, in practice men go for the same women more than women go for the same men

demedermidimi · 2023-09-20T01:57:27+00:00

im addicted to drinking water and I'm overhydrated how do i stop

houstongradengineer · 2023-09-20T02:22:00+00:00

The older I get, the less hope I have.

I don't think I like life today.

My husband made an accomplishment. Things finally started moving fast for him. I, on the other hand, got rejected after doing my absolute best.

There's absolutely no objective reason why I should be the anchor holding him down. I have been working my ass off to lose weight, I worked my ass off for STEM, I got a job, I weathered through the hard times. And yet... I've lost everything. He just wants me to be happy for him, and I've lost everything. Family, friends, promising ambitions. All fucking gone. What am I supposed to do now? Go hungry for another 6 months and then MAYBE I can do something in the armed forces? Keep humiliating myself for these jobs that just don't fucking want a qualified person? Ugh

scwizard · 2023-09-20T02:33:35+00:00

New generational trauma just dropped.

https://english.elpais.com/international/2023-09-18/in-spain-dozens-of-girls-are-reporting-ai-generated-nude-photos-of-them-being-circulated-at-school-my-heart-skipped-a-beat.html

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-09-20T03:01:08+00:00

What is the best equivalent insult for "small-dick energy" for women?

I think it's well established that things like "loose vagina energy", "flappy vulva energy" etc do not hit as hard, since those things tend not to be that relevant to most women.

I've seen people propose the term "A-cup energy", but that doesn't really work IMO. First, you can see the size of a woman's boobs easily, so calling a big-boobed woman "A-cup energy" is pointless. Second, although it is a point of insecurity to some women, I doubt it's as relevant as dick size is to men.

Would something related to smell be the most appropriate one? "Rancid vagina energy"? I mean, it's both something invisible to people, and also a point of insecurity to some women, but I don't know if it really hits that hard.

Perhaps the tried and true slut shaming is the best after all? Just say the woman sounds like a turboslut/whore/prostitute and watch her screech? I've had some good results with this. The ancient tradition has a long history behind it after all, maybe there's no need to reinvent the wheel.

There's also the option of implying that the woman has a loose vagina because she's promiscuous. This one works well because it has that body-shaming flavor that exists in "small-dick energy", and it has the advantage of baiting many women to link r/badwomensanatomy smugly, but it can backfire if too many people take it seriously and think you genuinely think that fucking multiple men makes the vagina actually loose.

WDYT?

baiser_vole · 2023-09-20T03:01:41+00:00

So my looks bar didn't go as haywire as I thought. Saw a cute guy who looked rather reasonable on the elevator, and he does pass my looks bar. I guess my boyfriend's face just makes me question myself.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-20T03:02:35+00:00

CMV: The idea "self improve and get women" eventually creates resentment and entitlement, essentially if even after "self improvement" nothing happens.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-20T03:25:54+00:00

Anyone else find it funny when someone lies a lot?

Anti_Thing · 2023-09-20T04:05:51+00:00

Every women I've met through social circles has, so far, rejected me when I asked them out. Should I

a) only ask out women if they give me clear signs of interest from now on, or

b) keep asking out women even when I'm not sure they like me?

Keep in mind that I have NVLD (similar to autism) & have very limited options due to my strongly held religious & political beliefs being out of whack with mainstream society in my area. I'm a naturally awkward guy who struggles with nonverbal communication & doesn't really get flirting. Right now the only women I regularly see whom I consider to be potential options all attend the same Bible study at a local church, so getting rejected by one of them would "poison the well" & make things very awkward.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-20T04:08:57+00:00

Its actually crazy how fixated some women are on height

The ones who would rather be a part of tall guy’s rotation and be treated as 3rd-4th option than commit to a guy who is shorter.

Truly fascinating stuff

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-20T04:21:43+00:00

Okay I have no fucking idea how to deal with this girl I'm talking to. I've been talking to her for about 2 weeks now and we actually matched on Tinder but she's in Boston and coming to Seattle.

And every fucking night she wants to talk for like 2 or 3 fucking hours. I'm not joking. And that's at minimum. I am up to like fucking 11:30 PM asking her "Can I go to sleep?" because I'm fucking tired and she gets upset when I ask and wants to talk more.

But then when I show that I'm tired because I'm not being engaging enough in the conversation she's also fucking upset. We've been sitting here in silence for like 10 minutes because I haven't been getting any fucking sleep and I fell asleep for a minute and didn't respond to what she said and then I called her back and now she's mad that I'm not super engaged in the conversation after we've ALREADY BEEN TALKING FOR 2 HOURS.

I just

It's so fucking exhausting I don't even know what to say.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-20T04:26:51+00:00

There was a lot wrong with feminism. But I do not get why the men and women advocating more traditional gender roles do not understand this one thing.
Sure, most women probably ideally do want to do more childcare than their husbands and work more flexibly to allow this. BUT BUT anything but full steam ahead ghettoizes your career. Part-time workers dont usually make as much as full timers, even per hour. There are tons of age-related checks in a career path where if you are a few years too old because you took time off for a young child, you are streamed off the high performers track.
And the bottom line is that women do NOT want their husband to have much greater financial leverage in a relationship. That is what these anti-feminists don't get. It isn't so much that most women want to work like men. It is just that to women, time has shown that if you put yourself in a position such that a break up or divorce means you lose a lot in lifestyle while he doesn't, men will abuse this power. They will cheat or abuse you and make you put up with it because the alternative is a huge lifestyle hit.
So until there is a solution to this dilemma. women are going to put career first because they never want to be in that horrible position of having to put up with a bad man because the alternative is poverty.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-20T04:38:39+00:00

I'm trying to tell her that I still like talking with her and that it's fun to do so but it's hard to for this long because I get tired after meetings all day and wrestling and lifting and all that

And she's crying

I actually really like this person

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-20T04:39:27+00:00

I think a problem a lot of guys have is that they view women only in terms of "can I date/sex them".

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-20T05:30:46+00:00

I completely forgot about mugshawtys on Twitter. I'm enjoying watching coomers simp over convicted women.

supremethrone · 2023-09-20T07:33:09+00:00

All the girls I used to find attractive at work have gotten fat. Grim.

Maffioze · 2023-09-20T07:40:58+00:00

Often times as a man your vulnerability is either fethisized or seen as a burden. Only for rare people of exceptional quality can it just exist as something part of you, and will you have people want to selflessly help you instead of either using it for their own gain or just outright be completely indifferent to it.

We men on this sub keep trying to tell this and how it's problematic when male vulnerability needs to be done in women approved ways yet somehow it seems impossible to get this experience across to most women on this sub. They do not realize how bad this feels, similar to how men do not realize how bad being objectified as a sexual object feels to women.

If the act of being vulnerable needs to be another careful performance in which the woman is once again the emotional centre of the relationship who needs to be pleased, the help and support you could have gotten by being vulnerable just evaporates into thin air. Once your vulnerability can not be a raw expression of the things you are dealing with, it is no longer yours but now revolves about the other person being pleased. This does not help,it makes us feel cheapened and worse than if we just remained silent. Why is this so hard to understand?

And yes not all women are like this. My gf isn't like this, that's why I will marry her.

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metoo ruined dating for the average guy.