Daily Community Chat Megathread

catchtowards12345 · 2023-10-25T19:54:10+00:00

Once again, do not discuss minors in sexual situations or ways. It's a warning for innocent first remarks and 30 day bans after that.

scwizard · 2023-10-26T06:26:29+00:00

She needs to date younger. I've had the best time exclusively dating younger guys.

Can't wait for "40 year old woman 20 year old man isn't predatory but 40 year man 20 year old woman is."

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-10-26T06:14:11+00:00

Anybody else here struggling with insomnia :(

scwizard · 2023-10-26T05:46:08+00:00

Me: "so she asked me what my star sign was and I was like cancer and she was like byeeee"

Some player guy: "what you gotta do is ask her what her sign is, then you pick a sign that's compatible with hers."

Yeah I'd rather die a virgin.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-10-26T05:08:15+00:00

If the people you date saw what you post on PPD would they still be into you?

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-26T03:32:30+00:00

Do you think we appear to other people as we appear on a camera or a photo, or is a mirror more accurate than those things?

Gladboys · 2023-10-26T03:19:40+00:00

is this bottle service shit as lame as it sounds my friends are asking me to drop $500 for a contribution to a table but this shit sounds so insanely corny

what is the point of bottle service is it supposed to attract gold diggers?

sine120 · 2023-10-26T02:53:28+00:00

Q4A: If you've been broken up with/ rejected, what reasons did they give?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-26T02:50:16+00:00

Most relationships in movies and shows rub me the wrong way.

The man is constantly trying to chase and impress a woman for no reason. She never does anything to deserve it and sometimes even treats him poorly. She barely reciprocates the devotion or love back.

Why?! Why are you so devoted to this random dumb woman who barely knows you and who doesn't care about you? Why do you forgive all the shitty things she's done? She's barely reciprocating. Stop it. You're giving me 3rd hand embarrassment.

Every man in the media is the male version of the manic pixie dream girl, the man who will drop everything and be devoted to a woman for no reason at all.

Luciansleep · 2023-10-26T02:45:57+00:00

Can some women here explain why it matters if you go to a mom and pop shop rather than a chain restaurant for a date?

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-10-26T02:34:46+00:00

Are most women that attention seek unhappy with themselves or their lives?

monster_lily · 2023-10-26T02:31:10+00:00

Im having madddd burnout right now like nothing is enjoyable all i want to do is sleep for like 12 hours straight. Im probably going to start drinking 5 hour energy

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-26T02:16:06+00:00

What was said that made the mod announcement?

monster_lily · 2023-10-26T02:06:35+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8kWpK1X/

I NEED HIM AHHHHHH HES AN ANGEL

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-26T02:03:33+00:00

If you are having a gathering of people over who you want to impress. Is it more prestigious to have catering ordered, or to have your wife cook food. Assume the food is good either way and is of comparable quality

I could see an argument for both sides. What do you guys think

gigrabbit · 2023-10-26T01:44:04+00:00

to add to what gridrexx was saying:

1)No online friends don't fucking count unless you know them irl

2) you don't have to be in a crew with moving pieces always interacting like some Seinfeld shit. But it's good practice to have other people KNOW who you are and what you're doing.

Most women like to see men engaging with other people. There's no other way around that. Social proof is the golden ticket. And it's more valuable now than it ever was since everyone is a shut in or glued to their phones.

Having no friends is even a harder game than being 5'3 imo. It's a hard pill to swallow but if nobody knows you, women will treat you like a nobody.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-10-26T01:40:05+00:00

Men that say they are looking for a “casual and consistent connection” just sound so dumb to me.

FizzleMateriel · 2023-10-26T00:58:36+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17g90ig/he_asked_me_for_money/

Another example of how women give hot guys way more leeway than they give average guys.

romantic-knight · 2023-10-26T00:42:39+00:00

Has anyone been playing super Mario wonder?

monster_lily · 2023-10-26T00:16:53+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8knF1Gb/

this is ME LMAOOO

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-26T00:14:46+00:00

Q4M: What does being a man mean to you?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-26T00:08:25+00:00

There still is no podcast that I check for every single episode like I did for certain Tv shows 10-15 years ago. I’ll watch individual clips on YouTube here and there or if a certain guest is on that I like sure? But not every episode.

SkookumTree · 2023-10-26T00:07:01+00:00

Was Sam Patch, the 19th century daredevil, Chad?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-26T00:03:25+00:00

I never had a favorite sex song. Like how people would play music to set the mood I never did that. So I remember when I was single on date this girl asked me what’s my go to sex song. I was kinda confused so I just blurted out I wanna sex you up and she started dying

MalandiBastos · 2023-10-25T23:10:22+00:00

SEA update:

Just had sex with 2 different women yesterday, almost 3. That makes it about 5 girls fucked just this last 10 days. (1 was a repeat).

Ive been using a phillipines specific dating app, and this app's premium version allows you to automessage women just by liking their profile. Aka you can message about 100 women in a matter of minutes. At first I would just send a generic opener asking for their whatsapp, but I got far too much attention and chaff to seperate from the wheat. I legit got about 200 phone numbers in the first day. So I just kept further refining my message to be more and more explicit about my intentions, that im looking for casual sex and no sexworkers/trans/women that live too far away (some women lie about being in manila when they actually even live on a different island altogether).

Now I still get about a dozen or more responses a day, and theres still some time wasters in that group, but much more manageable.

So anyways using this method I just had one girl spend the night 2 days ago, then when she left another girl came to my room about an hour later and I fucked her too. Then that night a 3rd girl came to my room, and even my bed, but wouldnt have sex. Its annoying because she had already agreed to it before we met, and after she arrived she even agreed to go in my bed and let me feel her up. So I just sent her home when it was clear she wouldnt be putting out.

Tired of bitches playing games and wasting my time, so I only meet with women who will agree to come straight to my room to have sex beforehand, at most a coffedate at a place 30 second walk from my apartment and then head up after. Sure theres a ton of filtering and messages sent out to get to this point, and stoll some flakes/ghosts, but its way less effort and mental load than wasting my time going on actual multi date setups with the dynamic in their favor instead.

https://www.reddit.com/u/MalandiBastos/s/Xw9FDxpDDO

sine120 · 2023-10-25T23:09:31+00:00

Q4M: For a relationship, how important is her intelligence to you? Not necessarily talking about her ability to do math or whatever (but it can factor in to your answer), but just general intelligence. How capable she is, common sense, ability to communicant effectively, stuff like that?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-25T22:34:19+00:00

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/14/89/6d/14896d8deb1f9b9483054bce7d0e9d01.jpg

Prime Anni-Frid Lyngstad is just 🥵

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-25T22:24:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/s/IjD2bqoRUO

A 26 year old, handsome LAWYER TO BE cant even get a date

monster_lily · 2023-10-25T22:17:07+00:00

Guys zaza is legal in my state

monster_lily · 2023-10-25T22:07:41+00:00

Should i be an optometrist or do cybersecurity

afk_row · 2023-10-25T22:01:49+00:00

Rate physique

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96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-25T21:55:39+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/s/sFJOwXPxW0

Lol pure gold. Even at 33 she still plays this game. Again. Never pay attention to what comes out of her mouth. Just pay attention to her actions

afk_row · 2023-10-25T21:51:18+00:00

Question for guys.

Are you friendless? Female friends don’t count.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-10-25T21:31:42+00:00

I was watching this clip of the Clinton kid criticizing an onlyfans girl. He said, "You could've been a lawyer, what will your future child think of you doing onlyfans?

I thought it was funny that he thought she could've been a lawyer. It's something a naive kid would think.

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-25T21:29:40+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/s/veGZrbFyX2

Ill bet any amount of money hes a chad and she is going to give him another chance regardless of whatever the comments are saying. If she was “meh” on him she would have cut him off without needing the validation from others

I guarantee she will fuck him

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-25T21:27:11+00:00

Q4M: what do you think of men who have a child outside a long term relationship?

GridReXX · 2023-10-25T21:24:00+00:00

TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️

When you come to this sub and ask why you can’t find a date and in return we ask you if you have friends, we’re not trying to make the point that if you had friends you’d be able to hit on them and date them.

We’re making the point that at your big age you have not attracted a single person that enjoys regularly hanging out with you **even platonically***…*

We’re making the point that you don’t even seem to be desirable as a…. buddy… to other guys???

We’re making the point that you’re putting too much dip on ya chip in that you don’t know how to intimately connect with others AT ALL.

We’re making the point that bro… you suck at striking up and having interpersonal relationships. Like for whatever reason you’re terrible at it. Step 1 to improving is admitting that.

Learning to be open to platonic bonds and building up skillsets of strengthening relationships like that is where you’re at on the learning curve. You are at that stage. And tbh, your comforts aren’t even there yet and sure not beyond that yet.

Building this muscle is progressive!

You guys are trying to learn how to play the piano by unintuitively smushing your fingers on the keys and then being frustrated everything sounds a discordant hot mess. Like no bruv. Practice your scales first. Hell before that… idk… learn what a scale is and what comprises it. Start at the foundational elements.

Yes you’re behind the socialization 8 ball for whatever reasons, but it’s not impossible. However the way some of y’all are going about it, you’re going to be stuck on stupid for a very long time or forever. It’s really up to you. Find some grit (others have to all the time for different aspects of their life) and start using that good ol common sense!

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(SN:* I love this gif of the Learning Curve because it highlights that mastery or competency in something comes with failing at it after you think you’ve gained steam and then having to force yourself to almost rebuild from scratch. But alas! It’s not from scratch because you actually know the ins and outs now. Now it’s about “pushing through” even when you’re tired or mad or frustrated. THIS IS GRIT. THIS IS RESILIENCE. People who were in sports, the performance arts, visual arts, or the like had to go through this a lot as kids. It’s a great skill/mindset/outlook to have!)*

supremethrone · 2023-10-25T21:23:13+00:00

Looks like Ukraine will probably lose the war, then it's my country next. Wish me the best bros. I still might get lucky and die a man's death

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-25T21:08:07+00:00

Mods, are we allowed to bring Michael Jackson (or any other pedophile) to conversations?

ratboi34 · 2023-10-25T21:03:58+00:00

Do you feel like thinking about all the pill debates and knowing about dating/mating studies messed up your ability to have a decent relationship? I had a wonderful relationship in the past and I've always had a very romantic understanding of love and relationships. If I would be in a relationship now, I would calculate our SMVs and think about mate retention strategies and shit to figure out our risk of divorce. She would literally be a behavioural study to me.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-10-25T20:47:10+00:00

Some men say they don't feel sorry for women when they hit the wall. Because men have always been undesired.

I feel sorry for these women. They're like ex drug addicts. Their drug of being pretty is gone forever.

supremethrone · 2023-10-25T20:43:01+00:00

Bro, just shower, bro. Bro, you, like, need to brush your tee-... oh

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17ft2sp/my_27f_boyfriend_28m_doesnt_brush_his_teeth/

I love these dating subreddits.

supremethrone · 2023-10-25T20:35:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17g3ruj/anyone_else_just_completely_given_up_on_dating/

Woman can't lock down a Chad so she's given up (spoiler: she will be in a situationship anyway). I love these posts from women complaining how hard it is. Imagine living life on easy mode and still losing

Maffioze · 2023-10-25T20:27:56+00:00

It's funny to see people use a study to accuse others of projection when they can't even properly interpret the study themselves. It's immediately used to confirm their beliefs without thinking any deeper about it.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-25T20:26:43+00:00

Here's my theory for maximising society's happiness:

Gather many different salarymen/women in as many different industries as possible. So doctors, barbers, accountants, etc. At the very least 20 people in each kind of career.
Survey them to rate their career satisfaction and life satisfaction, with a focus on career satisfaction.
Finally, collect all of their genetic data and link them to their answers.

Now you overlay your own genetic data and compare it. Choose your career careers based on which group has statistically the highest career satisfaction and the most similiar genetic data. Now everyone chooses the best possible career for their genes.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-25T20:24:08+00:00

I love watching women smoke cigarettes. Any movie recommendations with smoking hot women?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-25T20:07:38+00:00

"Cold approaching doesn't work"

Listen, three criterias for it to work

Right place

Social skills

Doing it more

Sillysheila · 2023-10-25T20:06:01+00:00

Love a good 5 am walk ☀️good morning motherfuckers

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-25T20:00:10+00:00

Hey mods, can you please be clear about your rules before threatening to ban people?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-25T19:54:28+00:00

When you date a woman and she's not a feminist and instead a compassionate, level-headed woman who doesn't indulge in ideology :

youtube.com/shorts/QqGEqohEtJ8

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-10-25T19:43:35+00:00

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Men mainly message the top women lmafo. Look how fast the curve declines for “medium” and below women lmfao.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-25T19:31:01+00:00

One thing to always remember: Shallow people project. They’re shallow, so they typically only hang with other shallow people. Hence, they can't fathom that people who can see past superficial bullshit exist. So of course, why would a shallow person think personality is relevant? It’s not relevant to them personally nor to their social circle.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-25T19:29:23+00:00

I think a lot of RPers have the problem of putting the cart before the horse. They seem to want a relationship to fall into their lap and see dating as a hurdle they have to overcome to get to a relationship. When it seems like it should the be the opposite. You meet people and date to have fun, and relationships blossom from there.

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Slyfer_Seven · 2023-10-25T19:01:42+00:00

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-10-25T19:01:45+00:00

First?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-25T19:03:40+00:00

Shit creepy guys say: “It’s so unfair when women just claim non-Chads are creepy.”

Never trust a guy who thinks unattractive men are just sweet innocent victims of evil female nature.

scwizard · 2023-10-25T19:04:45+00:00

Who here has beaten chapter 9 of Celeste?

Workaholiconew · 2023-10-25T19:11:54+00:00

I am having a hard time believing these guys who find women who are doing things for them like baking cakes or giving them birthday gifts... no woman I've met after the age of 18 or before the age of 50 I've known has been willing to sacrifice any of their own resources in the benefit of others significantly... where the fuck you finding these women?

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-25T19:14:40+00:00

Nikola Jokic is Anthony Davis father

GridReXX · 2023-10-25T19:21:15+00:00

RATE HIM.

Rate his “me at my worse” Vs. “me at my best for now.”

He’s not even worked on his fitness yet, and already basic things like styling, grooming, holding his face differently, and being fun changes how women view him. He goes from “omega” to “ooh I’d dirty dance with him all night and see where it goes” to many women.

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-10-25T19:26:12+00:00

Modern dating mainly sucks because women have the illusion of choice and their little lizard brains can't handle it.

antisplatter · 2023-10-25T19:26:24+00:00

I used to judge my friends in high school for dating weird girls. Jokes on me, they got starter pussy and I didn't.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-25T19:27:32+00:00

Personality is a complement to a woman's fantasy she can make about you, it's not however widely attractive

So guys have to stop lying to themselves about their personality being automatically attractive

old_new_age · 2023-10-26T01:10:44+00:00

people not dating certain races is often excused because "it's their choice who they want to be intimate with" - could this not also extend to friendships/other areas of life? "I just don't want to be friends with black people, they're not compatible with me <3" "I just prefer not to join social events with asian people, it's my preference <3"

inspired by all the people justifying not dating indian men in this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17f3lgk/why_do_women_lose_interest_in_me_once_they_find/

scwizard · 2023-10-26T06:58:36+00:00

Has anyone noticed the tides changing in their local “Are We Dating the Same Guy” Group?

I swear the last month especially, it has just been post after post after post, of women saying they’re done, and the comment sections just filled with the same sentiment.

I feel like we’re at some kind of crossroads when it comes to relationships with men, anyone else?

Babies have to come from somewhere. So even if your circle is friends has sworn off intimacy with men 5ever, there's women out there somewhere who are getting pregnant.

What concerns me is that, with reasonable women like her swearing off relations with men. The women I've met who have 3+ children, they kinda aren't all there mentally speaking.

Some of them are quite sweet. But they can be kinda disorienting to talk to.

janedoebreakin · 2023-10-26T07:48:05+00:00

I finally quit my CNA job after being relentlessly bullied by nurses who are younger than me. I came home and cried. If I want to go to college I’ll probably be thirty or older by time I graduate. I talked it over with my husband and he said maybe it’s time to start our family, and I agree.

Ten years ago I was a high school freshman, and I thought my life would be so good by now. I thought I’d be a navy pilot, or an engineer, or something important. Instead I’m in community college trying to finish my high school diploma. I’m not unhappy that I haven’t accomplished anything, I’m upset because others will look down on me for not accomplishing anything. I think I just have to calm down and enjoy my time with my husband.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-26T07:59:03+00:00

About the friends topic: personally I've been friendless since the end of middle school so about 15 years.

This was never due to me not finding people who would want to be friends with me. I could easily make friends if I wanted to, in fact I've had a few online friends that I cut contact with because it was too much time and energy for me.

I'm just that introverted. To give you an idea of how high my introversion level is: when I was about 14 or 15 I stopped talking to my sister (she's 3 years younger than me). I'm now almost 30 and we haven't talked since that day. When I say not talking, I mean not even saying "hello" even though we were living in the same house.

And just to make it clear, this has nothing to do with me not liking my sister or anything. I just don't have any kind of desire or want to interact with most people irl, including my own sister. This may sounds crazy, but that's the life of an absolutely hardcore introvert (which I fully understand normies absolutely can't relate to).

Despite my extreme introversion, I still need human interaction, preferably with a woman I'm attracted to though I also enjoy spending time with my mom. I'm now in a relationship and very happy and I still don't wish to have friends irl (online can be fine).

And to conclude: I fully realize that having no friends / no social life makes it ultra hard for men to find a relationship. If I ended up single again, I would force myself to have a social life for the sake of increasing my odds of finding a partner, but that doesn't mean I would particularly enjoy it.

MalandiBastos · 2023-10-26T08:03:48+00:00

Just went to a filipino university today, putting in a lot of thought to going. I already have a degree, and dont have to worry about money, id just be going as a hobby/to meet women. To pursue a fine arts degree.

There were zero foriegners at this university. Like as soon as I walked into the school grounds everyone was looking at me. I feel like it would be an absolute hole goldmine. Tons of hotties. Only problem is it would be quite annoying to get a student visa, and thats just based on the on-paper requirements and before considering having to deal with the absurb amount of inefficiency present here in general.

Only would cost 1200-1500USD a semester to attend, so I think its worth the cost, im not going Just for women, I have a genuine interest in art as well.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-10-26T08:05:02+00:00

I keep getting boners whenever I'm sleep deprived and trying to stay awake

supremethrone · 2023-10-26T08:31:09+00:00

I wanted to travel on my own. Went to book the tickets and the moment I changed the hotel guests from 2 to 1 I immediately got charged an extra £700 as a fuck you single person surcharge. Then some normie on Reddit tells me that it's all my own fault and I should travel more

ratboi34 · 2023-10-26T08:45:45+00:00

Us when we hit our prime at 40 and ask 20 year old women their body count:

https://youtube.com/shorts/8dYK0dQS4Io?feature=shared

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-26T09:42:04+00:00

I've entered adulthood very late: 27 yo when I moved out of my parents house. Before that everything was being taken care of by my mom (except work obviously). I've adapted quite well to most adults activities:

work, boring but fine
groceries shopping, once or twice a week, pretty easy
cleaning, tedious but not awful
making food, fairly easy though my diet isn't the best
buying gifts, a bit hard but manageable
administrative work, I do that in my job so I'm used to it
planning vacation / dates / activities with my gf, I'm not the best at that I'll be honest, but getting better

Anyway the one thing I absolutely struggle with and I dread is buying fucking clothes. I just have zero idea if that thing is looking any good on me and what to pick. Socks and underwears I can manage (by that I mean I'll take the first option on Amazon), but everything else is a real pain in the ass. I really need to figure a way to get better at that.

Maffioze · 2023-10-26T09:48:11+00:00

Seeing the posts about women here make me feel really lucky with my gf.

macone235 · 2023-10-26T09:53:39+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/TIlCYTyLwIg?feature=share

It's crazy how much credit women get for doing literally nothing. This woman cuts her hair a little bit shorter, and people act like she's done some great deed. Meanwhile, men actually go bald with their wives when they are the ones who get cancer.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-26T09:58:50+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17gh8v8/i_hate_my_boyfriend/

Gone Girl TwoX version

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-26T09:59:24+00:00

I can’t fully understand people who don’t enjoy exercising, especially cardio. When I’m sick (like now) and can’t go swimming, it’s hard to keep my mood up. One of my biggest fears is to grow old and so frail that I cannot hike or swim anymore.

farm_hand_7 · 2023-10-26T11:07:33+00:00

We hired a new batch of interns at work. I overheard a group of women talking about one of them, and one says that the girl is really pretty. The other says "She's not pretty, she's just young"

Ouch.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-10-26T11:11:59+00:00

There’s no difference between asking a woman out in real life vs text. If she likes you, then she won’t care how you deliver the message.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-26T11:34:20+00:00

A tweet that I think will resonate with a lot of people here:

Why are so many young men single?

Are men excluded from a brutal mating market by society?

It seems not.

Men were asked: “When was the last time you asked a woman in person for a date on the street/in a bar or club/at school or class/at work/at a hobby or social gathering/other location?”

45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a woman in person.

Never.

This isn’t primarily because of #MeToo either - between 60% & 70% of men cited cited “fear of rejection” as why they don’t approach.

This is actually a whitepill: it isn’t the powerful forces of society at large that explain young male singledom.

It’s much more mundane.

Young men are simply not trying.

There is a lot out of your control, but at the end of the day one thing is clear: if you’re afraid to talk to women you’re not going to meet very many women. Women are not just going to fall into your lap.

And before we look for the systemic roots of modern dating woes we should look at individual behaviour.

The amount of men who simply are not trying, who believe everything is out of their control, seems to explain a lot of it.

Some people will read this and say “but I’m in the bottom 1% of men and I have approached a thousand women, no bites.” OK - you’re a special case. Your situation is not why 50% of Zoomers are single.

More of you will read this and know: “that’s me, I haven’t asked a woman on a date in a year.”

That’s totally in your control. It may be hard or frightening, but it’s a choice. — @datepsych*

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-10-26T11:47:38+00:00

I had a hunch that my ex girlfriend was probably a closeted lesbian. Was never completely sure though…

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-10-26T11:51:04+00:00

I like my new therapist. She’s much more intelligent and blunt then everybody else. Male therapists in the past were always too afraid to hurt my feelings.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-26T12:04:05+00:00

I don’t understand why you wouldn’t want to go to the cheesecake factory, we don’t have one in this country as far as I know and cheesecake is elite

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-26T12:30:13+00:00

I feel like when people get to the point of accepting that everyone can’t be a great student will be in a much better place. I know we have gotten there when it comes to college, we have the term “college material” but when it comes to K-12 we still are not there yet.

There’s still this idea that little Timmy can be a 95 student in 6th grade he’s just not trying hard enough. It puts too much pressure on Timmy and the teachers who are tasked with getting him to that level.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-26T12:32:35+00:00

Guys, if you ask a bunch of guys who were never in relationships if women are romantic, they are obviously going to say no. They don't know.

Women are obviously romantic, it's crazy to think otherwise. Been are romantic too. I even suspect that some men are romantics because that's what they think women like

hannahg000 · 2023-10-26T12:52:50+00:00

pms blues 😭

saulbasedman · 2023-10-26T13:30:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/StableDiffusion/comments/17gm3u8/thanks_to_ai_i_can_now_identify_as_caucasian/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

This is so interesting to me. I think in the future when AR glasses are normalized, people will use this to overlay a better face on themselves. Now instead of your wife closing her eyes during sex and imagining Henry Cavill or her high school crush, you can just overlay his face on yours!

The wonders of technology, am I right?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-26T13:30:53+00:00

Just wanna thank everyone who commented on my post for the support. I’ve definitely come a long way. Therapy and constant investment in mindset has done wonders for me. It was just one of those days where I realized how far I’ve come and it really hit me.

Let’s keep going.

mummydontknow · 2023-10-26T13:35:55+00:00

How would you treat an elderly war criminal?

Like let's say you saw 80 year old hitler walking around.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-26T13:39:02+00:00

i want to beat up my brain 🧠 🥊

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-26T13:47:45+00:00

Name an unlikely job you think makes it easy to get laid. For me it's bodyguard or security. Tangentially related are bouncers.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-26T14:37:12+00:00

Sometimes I wonder why people here have such a negative view on relationships. So many of you seem to expect to not be truly desired, that your partner is going to lie to you about something important, that sex isn’t going to be satisfying, that you’ll be the one doing all the housework, etc. What happened? I don’t remember having such beliefs ever.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-26T14:38:14+00:00

Q4M: Your wife really wants to retire you early. She offers to support you as a provider and you a house husband/SAHD. She makes 60k a year. Your family would live fine (since you both desire a low key/ minimalist lifestyle) on her salary but some sacrifices have to be made here and there. Would you accept this offer?

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-26T14:46:49+00:00

A hot women just height mogged me🥲. She was 5'10 with a little bit taller bf(ig).

Willow-girl · 2023-10-26T15:02:24+00:00

You guys are so slippery! I had to return a business-related call to a man I'd never spoken to before. The dude who answered the phone said, "Ron just left, he'll be back this afternoon," but when I identified myself, he said, "Oh hi, this is Ron -- I thought you were someone else."

Something tells me Ron is trying to dodge a girl that he ghosted!

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-26T15:03:23+00:00

Honestly it's pretty wild to me that men watch porn with another dude clapping TwoX cheeks when....

A) This is one of the highest forms of cucking, second to allowing your gf or wife to fuck another man. Living vicariously through another male is sad and pathetic no matter how bad you have it.

B) Does not help that most of the porn actresses are really ugly imo. Like the makeup big boobs excessive moaning has never been attracted to me. I prefer more normal looking women even though I love goth and alt women they are still more normal looking then porn actress.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-26T15:07:21+00:00

Every dude knows the pain of talking about past relationships and you're like "My first kiss was blah blah blah" and she goes "oh that is so cute, let me tell you about the football team story."

and bro is just there on Facetime like *Gulp...ehrmm...the football team story?* and you gotta endure the most gut wrenching thing you've ever heard from a girl who you legitimately thought might be the future mother of your children.

https://preview.redd.it/p804mnu7bkwb1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=588637772da022bfee52529de36c306d879c9f8a

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-26T15:10:51+00:00

How you look when she tells you "the football team story"

It's over bro, ain't no coming back from that.

https://preview.redd.it/bvyc9nb1ckwb1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=37629b737c6eb1cd45d56182e2c111b1c296c9da

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-26T15:15:10+00:00

Thought about building a tiny house on my parent’s property but I remember I’m scared of the woods a night.

slackforce · 2023-10-26T15:21:57+00:00

OP: My girlfriend told me I'm boring and that I'm not her type.

Responses: You're making a mistake! Just because she's settling for you and will forever be comparing you with guys she thinks are more attractive doesn't mean you should throw away a perfect relationship! Oh and also she's going to be resentful of you for not allowing her to "explore her sexuality" but don't let that stop you from being her bronze medal! You're making a mIsTaAaAkE!

Thank god the OP had enough self-respect to dump her.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-26T15:27:16+00:00

How you look when your girlfriend asks to look at your phone, but you know you already deleted everything

https://preview.redd.it/3pmdi8tvekwb1.png?width=886&format=png&auto=webp&s=588f0454864fdd86c9bef0c9ea09de4eabd06108

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-26T15:30:48+00:00

How you look when you're out on a date with your girlfriend and your wife shows up

https://preview.redd.it/8dgt6ypmfkwb1.png?width=637&format=png&auto=webp&s=2c9f86eb04f607a093c04fb549cef8e6f9b7338b

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-26T15:57:22+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/s/tq91sSlxd8

Q4W : Would you get turn off if someone mostly dated Miami type of girls and want to date you now ? Would you date him ?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-10-26T16:02:51+00:00

Q4W: Have you had men telling you tales of previous sexual escapades when you were dating?

It's common internet trope for women to tell men such things, just wanted to see if it's just a universal trope.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-26T16:05:09+00:00

It's fucking wierd when women say fuckboy is not a relationship material who she always involved with but sluts(her) are relationship material.

MAKE IT SENSE MAKE IT SENSE

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-26T16:11:45+00:00

It’s actually pretty easy for guys to be friends with women, speaking from experience. The key is making sure your needs for intimacy (physical and emotional) are being met outside the friendship- this prevents the friendship from being contaminated by thirst.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-26T16:20:04+00:00

Back when I was in my fuckboy era I'd keep the dating apps I used in my games folder because I was such a player. Cringe af, but I always thought it was funny lmao.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-26T16:25:00+00:00

This might be an unpopular opinion on here but I think most men and women are good people with good intentions.

Most men aren’t violent manipulators waiting in the wings to fuck women over and use them for sex.

Most women aren’t selfish, shallow hags looking to beta bucks some unsuspecting man.

text-redacted · 2023-10-26T16:26:53+00:00

mic check, is this thing on?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-26T16:43:52+00:00

Male dating experience:

- has first crush

- crush rejects him

- crush gets involved with fuckboy

- realizes women like douchey guys

- becomes a douche too OR becomes an incel OR becomes a beta buxx OR remains a decent guy in spite of all this

Female dating experience:

- meets guy she likes

- he pressures her into things she isn't ready for

- she gets hurts

- is scared of being hurt again so puts a guard up

- gets hurt again by a guy in his revenge arc

- swears off men for a while OR gets a high body count OR actually meets someone decent (may or not be a beta buxx)

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-26T16:47:07+00:00

Bro, if you are too safe with women and don't escalate, you will get friendzoned or thought of as a non confident beta.

Being a guy, you will get dumped if you exercised boundaries, asked for consent and confirmed to the woman's frame.

Men have to take risks unfortunately. A flirty ass slap can be interpreted as sexual assault depending on the mood of your partner.

Life on EXTRA HARD MODE

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-26T16:52:10+00:00

Do you notice how strangers perceive you to be a jerk or f-boy, if you have an above average body?

sine120 · 2023-10-26T16:52:14+00:00

"My type for just borrowing and driving around was always fast sports cars. Usually a red Ferrari, because I don't want to go slow when I'm driving around a borrowed car. For my commute I didn't weigh in things like their mileage, reliability or insurance costs because those things just didn't matter when you don't own it. I would cruise around for ENTIRELY fun reasons because cruising around with a vehicle you don't own is meant to be fun.

I wouldn't have borrowed my current car, I bought it for a cheap price. It is extremely reliable and easy to operate. It's something that I would have back then commuted in, so that rules it out as something fun to drive. It's softer in both sound and appearance than many of my fast cars, but that's what I BOUGHT for cheap. I don't want to own something whose maintenance I'd struggle with (and tbh every car I ever borrowed would have been a miserable car to maintain). It can be hard to explain because many brands immediately jump to "So im not as fun as a red Ferrari" when really that's not the point. You look for different things in different cars your own. I find my car MORE attractive to own than any car I've borrowed because I find it both reliable AND it gets better mileage, and my commute is getting longer. Brands always jump to the insecurity of being the second fastest when someone says it's a different kind of commute, but it legitimately is different. If my car was the kind of car I used to borrow, I wouldn't have bought it. Full stop."

We know that Ferraris are fun, we know they're too expensive for you to own and we know that if you could afford a Ferrari in your garage, you'd get one. I'm not gonna mesh well with someone with Ferrari tastes, because I don't own a Ferrari. I'm been working on a life that will fit us, the dog and a car-seat. I've always been working toward that for my whole life. I'm not gonna invite someone into my car who wants to drive it like a borrowed Ferrari.

princedune · 2023-10-26T17:04:40+00:00

How much monry do you have to make for gold diggers to consider you?

Maffioze · 2023-10-26T17:05:19+00:00

https://youtu.be/gB7SvMdxVmU?si=ve7fvcwiz517VwFo

I can't get over how fire this while he looks like a teenager.

sine120 · 2023-10-26T17:37:40+00:00

It kind of seems like the sub's rules are perfectly crafted to prevent anyone posting in it anymore. Can't post more than once in 12 hours, titles have to be crafted a specific way, limiting more and more topics, can't question men/ women as a man/ woman, can't respond unless you wanna make your flair boring, etc.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-26T17:42:50+00:00

Nah, asking for consent is not sexy. If anything, it shows you are not confident and are probably a beta.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-26T17:46:01+00:00

"RP tends to describe the behavior of the worst dregs of women, and how to get them to have sex with you. If you're looking for a healthy relationship, it's the wrong tool for the job. RP will get proportionally larger as a greater percentage of dating aged women do things that is described by TRP"

Ahh yes the presumption women don't want sex too, listen there's one thing l've learned over and over again since high-school, is girls love the fun sexual experience players give them

Listen l've a nice guy, he used to paint women's nails for fun and they always complain how too perfect their boyfriend was, that's why chase the broken guys because they wanna fix them, let the ladies have their fun

Now when coming to relationships, TRP says create the type of women who qualifies for a relationship

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-26T18:02:56+00:00

"stop chasing women and focus on career and life"

This is a sound advice. It really means focus on a independent, fun, and healthy lifestyle for yourself first. If you have a lot or things going for you, women will be a byproduct of that.

It also doesn't mean you have to reach a final destination before dating, usually on the journey that will attract women.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-26T18:08:02+00:00

A woman is with a flat-chest is no no

We can't negotiate with that

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-10-26T18:26:12+00:00

Youtube is cracking down on adblock users. Youtube gives me inappropriate ads and then they get mad at me for using adblock. I used to have an eating disorder, I shouldn't have to watch ads for fast food.

LoFiPanda14 · 2023-10-26T18:40:43+00:00

Hard for me to find sympathy with this post. Messed up situation but obviously a very messy family dynamic going on if the money isnt even going to the OP or family. Nurse played the game though.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-26T19:06:21+00:00

IMO the only bad place for a first date (unless you’ve known the person for a while/social circles) is at home. Somewhere public is ideal

scwizard · 2023-10-26T19:28:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F5bjmkdeomjwb1.jpg

Oh lawdy. Cheating is one thing but when someone thinks I'm actually that stupid I get right livid. I would lose it.

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-26T19:28:28+00:00

Incel to trans pipeline

Very interesting video, can recommend. Women hating what's expected of them and rebelling against it, refusing to be like that sometimes even to the point where they no longer identify as woman, that is much more well known. This is like the gender flipped version of it. I honestly wonder if this is part of why we already had more transwomen than trans men, maybe stuff like this actually play into it more often than we would think. Not that it makes it any less valid imo.

scwizard · 2023-10-26T19:59:26+00:00

This guy be kissing a girl on the lips at the airport that's at least 10 years younger than him. She's probably in her mid 30s.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-26T20:21:45+00:00

I remember going on a date once with this 40 yo woman when I was 23. I also had a baby face so I might as well have looked 18. We definitely got weird looks from the table next to us. Especially since they were a black couple and I am black and she is white. They could not stop looking at us. It was a fun time.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-26T20:57:44+00:00

I once saw a real passport bro in a Hard Rock Cafe. It was an old guy atleast in his 60s with an Asian girl in her 20s or 30s. She was either Thai or Filipino.

Such a weird sight to see. He caught me glancing a few times. It sorta felt wrong. I'm certain that he tried to fuck her that very evening.

WistfulPuellaMagi · 2023-10-27T05:01:28+00:00

The cheesecake factory date viral video is fake. It was a skit made by a redpiller.

Old_Speed_7861 · 2023-10-27T14:10:26+00:00

Women want equality. Yet they want men taller/stronger/make more money than her.

Thoughts?

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