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potoricco · 2023-09-01T15:27:02+00:00

Am I annoying

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-01T14:55:44+00:00

I can't lie, I roll my eyes when I hear women say they want men who are healed, spiritual, in touch with their feminine side, confident in their sexuality, liberated.

I mean what does that stuff even mean?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T14:51:49+00:00

An aunt of mine is upset that her ex-husband is finally marrying his mistress. It’s jealousy. However, we reminded her while she moved on quickly from her shitty ex-husband, his side chick has been his side chick for 30 years and she’s only now a wife because his second wife died during surgery. Also, her two boys love her and always take her side on the situation.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-01T14:41:44+00:00

What is the population of where you live/lived?

I currently live somewhere with a population of 30k which interestingly is the number of people who attend the college I went to on average every year.

I was born somewhere that the population was approximately 150k and went to college somewhere that the population was 270k

potoricco · 2023-09-01T14:36:27+00:00

I want a dbrand case for my laptop but it’s really expensive

potoricco · 2023-09-01T14:36:05+00:00

Should I get a class ring

gabejohn · 2023-09-01T14:28:18+00:00

Women want a dominant man and then be suprised when said dominant man is awful to be around when he's slightly inconvenienced and quickly gets mad/annoyed.

Gotta feel those evolutionary tingles though, right? Have your cake I say.

And before anyone says it: I'm not saying all dominant men are awful when they're mad, moreso that you'll quicker have fights with them over stupid shit because they need to be in control.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-01T14:11:03+00:00

The most toxic sub on reddit --> https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

The biggest feminist sub reddit --> https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/

Young men smell the hypocrisy and take TRP

Maffioze · 2023-09-01T14:06:02+00:00

For u/Katatonicsnake, AMA lmao.

Slipthe · 2023-09-01T13:53:12+00:00

Bruh seeing old people get robbed makes me feel so sad.

Just knowing that them getting pushed over could kill them is just.... ugh.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-01T13:48:53+00:00

Nothing is funnier to me than when Redpillers make posts and comments trying to rationalise why it's ok that they can't, or won't even bother, trying to make a woman cum.

"I'm bad at sex, here's why that's ok and why it's actually women's fault!"

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T13:43:32+00:00

The “Im so above all this immaturity here” people are so pitiful. Not only do they pretend to be better than everyone else, they’re even more boring than everyone else. Being boring and arrogant does not make someone mature.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-01T13:15:33+00:00

So we all agree that uglypostwall “woman” is a man trolling right

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T12:39:10+00:00

You could just tell so many guys here have no idea what it’s like to be around someone mentally ill that hasn’t been diagnosed.

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-09-01T12:28:25+00:00

If you want to fuck virgin women you don't care about good sex

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-09-01T12:18:34+00:00

Q4M: what would you do in Logan Pauls shoes if someone was publicly attacking your partner for her past. I wonder if they’ll still be getting married.

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RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-31T14:01:06+00:00

First :3

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T14:04:00+00:00

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-31T14:04:39+00:00

Went to a dance festival over the weekend, an absolutely amazing experience but now my body is giving me a thorough tell off, which is of course totally worth it anyway.

It was interesting though just how many hot girls I saw with munters of men...get some gear and go dance fellas.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T14:05:50+00:00

if your thug boyfriend ends up beating you and you ignored all the obvious signs that were leading up to that because he gave you the tingles, don't expect any sympathy from society for your poor decisions!

But when guys keep pursuing obviously toxic unhinged women because she’s hot and/or hypersexual… the guy is obviously the victim and we should feel bad about how “ALL women are like that” /s

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-31T14:09:45+00:00

Males: “They respect women in traditional countries! Those women honorable! Western women need to be more modest like 3rd world women to get respect”

the traditional society in question

If anything western society has forced males to not act sexually aggressive en masse like this and at least ACT like they respect women.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-08-31T14:18:01+00:00

Who drinks at a bar alone on a Thursday night?

🙋🏽‍♂️ This guy here.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-31T14:19:09+00:00

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-31T14:19:20+00:00

Today on PPD: Let's blame our parents for everything

specially mothers, they are the worst

hannahg000 · 2023-08-31T14:29:56+00:00

i’ve come to the realization that i’m a flight risk. as soon as i feel threatened, i run away. yet another thing about myself that i have to work on 😓

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-31T14:35:12+00:00

Greatest blue pill lie is that people aren't a monolith.

All masculine men want a fit (tiny waist, big glutes), feminine, cooperative woman.

All women want a tall, fit(V taper shape, chiseled jawline), rich chad.

The exceptions don't matter

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-31T14:36:07+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Cancer.

The disloyal one. She often is good looking, cute, sexy, and smart in a girl next door kind of way.. She's got a lot going for her, but there are A LOT of downsides. She's not terribly imaginative, she can be a bit gossipy, she can be a little too materialistic (and that's coming from a capricorn man!) and probably the most problematic element she has in her love life, she dates and fucks really toxic and substandard men. She does have a tender sensitive side, but somehow it gets morphed into a strange attachment style towards emotionally unavailable men, married men, drug users, failure to launch man babies. She just absolutely loves fuck ups.

My suspicion is that she is drawn to these types of men as to hide her inadequacy of rising up herself and growing/becoming better in life through her own active efforts. She's just transmuting her own laziness.

She is boy crazy in her youth, and often throughout life. In the meanwhile tho she indulges. Heavily. Food, alcohol, occasional drug user, she is an escapist in my opinion. I guess life is too bland and boring for her.

She isn't often single in life, you will end up encountering her in a situationship, with a boyfriend or married. You can still hit on her, unless she is completely and madly deeply in love, she will entertain offers. She is a romantic at heart and 99% of the time the person she is socially attached to isn't the close to the prince charming she envisioned in her dreams. She cares about passionate love and security of the future, although she only seems to procure it through the men in her life and not through her own efforts.

Sex with her is tepid. She's will be submissive to the right man, and could be totally down with extra partners, gender not mattering. There's an odd element of coldness in her fucking and lovemaking.

Recommended approach: Playful and indirect, emphasis on fun and a good time! She will cheat if a good enough opportunity arises, she seldoms goes hunting for it. She is sexually disloyal, don't go looking for sexual fidelity if that matters to you.

potoricco · 2023-08-31T14:39:49+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/74yhpn9ijglb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a98d01216a993e780b3e7c2c175d5d2c4cff6ab

This makes soo much sense actually

potoricco · 2023-08-31T14:41:29+00:00

Everyone gets on my nerves

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-31T14:43:02+00:00

Always remember if you are consistently getting ghosted or dumped after sex, you’re lame in the sack. This applies to both men and women.

“Damn bro this girl gave me the best pussy I ever had in my life, I’m never gonna call her again” lmao yeah right

The only positive if you’re a guy tho is that alot of dudes can’t even get to this point when they get ghosted after sex. You are clearly passing women’s looks, personality, game etc threshold because they are fucking you at least once

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-31T14:48:22+00:00

I hate being 5'11. Not because I wish I was 6 foot (well, of course I'd take it but that's not the point), it's because every woman assumes I'm 5'10 and I'm just bumping it up by an inch because I can get away with it.

I will be that petty fucker who gets the tape measure out.

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-31T14:51:07+00:00

You can’t get a girlfriend because your presence is very unsettling. Being around you feels like being around her creepy uncle.

baresquad · 2023-08-31T15:04:02+00:00

I fucking hate leaving the comfort of my big city for the shithole Bible Belt. I was just in a McDonald’s and they had fox news on lol.

I don’t even like being on dating apps and mingling here. I assume most options here are anti abortion pick me’s that are adverse to fun.

baiser_vole · 2023-08-31T15:08:20+00:00

I don’t know if I should be happy or offended. I asked my boyfriend what I bring to the table, and got told my existence. I guess this prob means he is a normie unlike us here.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T15:15:00+00:00

Question: Who’s telling men they should be obligated to pursue terrible shitty women?

Because everytime I bring up men who l clearly have bad taste in women, I get this:

Somehow it's always the fault of the one who has the options and power in a market isn't it? Must be because these are the ones with the options and power.

Who the fuck is forcing men to date women like Amber Heard? Who?

Who is sitting men down and saying: “Buddy! You MUST pursue walking red flags with nice pussies and that is your only option!”?

old_new_age · 2023-08-31T15:15:16+00:00

what's your guys' take on disclosing mental illnesses? second date, tenth date, after the wedding vows? people seem to be split super 50/50, like some people want to know immediately and will advise you be up front, others will say that makes you look crazy and nobody's entitled to your psych eval in the first week of knowing you. all I got is ADHD but I'm curious

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-08-31T15:26:18+00:00

If you're not a simp for your significant I feel bad for you.

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-31T15:32:02+00:00

The way married males use their babies to get female attention on social media is very sinister, demonic even.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-31T15:36:44+00:00

I want to post some pictures of couples I know IRL here but I think that would be weird. Should I do it anyways?

baresquad · 2023-08-31T15:43:10+00:00

Average men say they just want average women to see them but they know good and goddamn well that they’d leave their average girlfriend the split second a 10 showed any hint of interest in them.

Please stop bullshitting us with the idea that they make perfect boyfriends and are better options than the rest of men.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-08-31T15:51:32+00:00

I accidently passed a written exam yesterday that I planned on taking in two weeks. My oral exam is tommorrow. I'm dumbfounded.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-31T15:58:41+00:00

Q4A: Is it a red flag to you if your long term partner suddenly decides to hit the gym hard?

Heard this sentiment recently and it raised an eyebrow.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-31T16:11:01+00:00

It sure would be nice if the more "rational, logical" sex would stop intentionally conflating indifference with "hate."

https://preview.redd.it/jywxu1tszglb1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8f698f22a61a61a2ded8ec22a1c7e2ea7f64c93a

Hate is not:

A woman not being attracted to you A woman not wanting to fuck you A woman not noticing you exist

If you feel like women should be noticing you exist everywhere you go, you suffer from Main Character Syndrome and should probably spend your energy working on that instead of whining about women.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-08-31T16:17:05+00:00

I had my community college orientation yesterday and there were some cute guys there. I’m hoping that some of them will be in my classes. I’m really eager to be around people my age again. My problem is that I look at a guy once and start to plan our first date in my head. I’ve never been on a date so it’s fun to daydream about.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-31T16:18:22+00:00

I'm beginning to train for a half marathon. I'm excited for all the people I'll meet during the training process.

I'm not excited to run for 3-4 hours.

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-31T16:23:48+00:00

Males don’t understand women because the female mind reaches a dimension males can’t even fathom. We know things that you couldn’t comprehend.

The pathway to this heavenly plane in the male mind is congested by the carnal need to constantly hump something, anything. The only way males can access it is in the after life.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-31T16:25:09+00:00

The myth that gym bros are toxic is perpetuated by obese femcels projecting their insecurities and inadequacies. Gym bros are some of the most disciplined HVM around

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-31T16:26:09+00:00

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Where are y’all on this ?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-31T16:29:10+00:00

wook at da gwaph bwo, wook at da gwaph. see? wehmun owny wike men dat awe top 10 pewcent becauwse dey're hypewgamous. It's in da gwaph bro it has to be twue becauwse it's in da gwaph

baresquad · 2023-08-31T16:40:06+00:00

I don’t know what the fuck dudes here want me to say about women lmao. I speak to what I know, navigating dating as a man. Of course that includes harsh criticisms because it’s warranted based on what I observe. We are lost.

I don’t need to factor women and what they do into every single topic. Women fucking hate me in real life. I just don’t speak harshly to what I observe or experience involving them because 1. Nobody would know what I’m on about 2. Im not a complainer.

Nobody wants to see “q4w: why can’t you just be chill?” type post from me.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-31T16:47:18+00:00

One of the biggest mistakes of progressive gender ideology is the assumption that gender roles (which they all deem arbitrary and silly) can be totally separated from sexuality.

Yes, there was (is) a lot of arbitrary gendered shit in society. Sure, let people of either gender wear blue or pink. Let women be mathematicians. Let men be nurses. Whatever. And yes, I know there are people who would still get triggered by me saying stuff like that, but just looking at these things in a vacuum is pretty boring.

What if there ARE general trends in what is considered sexually attractive about the opposite gender? Why wouldn't there be trends around it? Trends form around basically everything we do in a society, from eating, to clothing, to music, to where we shit.

The very fact that "you cannot demand people to be attracted to those who they aren't attracted to" is what makes this aspect of "gendered expectations" wild as fuck. Sexuality is having some sort of gendered ideal, a blueprint of what you seek in other people, it's judgemental by nature (is he/she good enough for me?) and these ideals are something that almost everybody on the planet has in their heads. But noooo, there is absolutely no way this plays into these unpleasant, annoying feelings about the world having certain expectations of my gendered self, because... trust me bro.

Like, imagine that someone organised a "down with recipes!" kind of event, which was all about liberating people from societal pressures about eating. And a bunch of people showed up eating McDonalds burgers, while every single one was saying "what I eat as an individual is irrelevant here and you have no right to make a comment on it".

People having gendered preferences sexually is quite literally the one aspect of this "humans have impressions about genders" shit that is real, and that we, every single one of us, prefers to hold onto. It's the one aspect that we wouldn't have easy answers for. And what does the left have to say about it? "Oh, but that doesn't matter." That's literally it. I do lurk and sometimes converse in feminists subreddits, leftist subreddits, and this is predictably the case, these people quite literally short-circuit, their brains get shut down if I ask them in the most polite manner "what if sexuality play into gender constructs?" They can't deal with that thought, usually they lowkey don't even understand what I'm talking about. I think it's cowardice.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-31T16:58:23+00:00

Man caught his wife cheating

Perfect example how cucked Reddit is.

Woman: My husband didn’t do the dishes.

Reddit: Divorce him

Man: Caught his wife cheating with another man.

Reddit: Hold on a second have a conversation.

lowiqtrader · 2023-08-31T17:15:23+00:00

I'm not really sure if this girl is into me and if I should continue pursuing her. Matched with a girl on Bumble and facetimed her. We talked for like 2 hours (she was working and just sitting at her desk so she had time). When I asked for a date she was kinda dodgy and gave me a tentative date like more than a week from now. She kept saying she was unsure of her schedule etc. I tried to laugh it off and tell her its cool if she's not into it or w/e but she said no no she's down to meet up.

Idk if she's really into me because 1) she's not giving me a strong date as to when to meet up and 2) we had talked about physical types/dating etc and in that conversation she kept talking about how "she's not shallow" and she talked about non-physical qualities in a guy a lot, and when she looked at my profile she didn't really mention my looks she just mentioned other non-physical stuff.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-31T17:29:09+00:00

Any zero or low cal drinks that are non alcoholic but taste like beer/wine/liquor? Looking to try something new

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T17:35:32+00:00

“The average woman is so terrible! I have proof!”

Shows videos and comments from e-thots whose profile is filled with her admiring herself.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-31T17:39:47+00:00

If those only fans girls must send me message requests, they should at least be my type. Why do half of them have a dirty hair?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T17:46:09+00:00

I'm never getting over some guy honestly saying that learning social skills and to be likable is “to twist your personality to suit [other people’s] desires.

If this is how a lot of guys is socializing with people, People should definitely not give a shit about the “male lonliness epidemic” because it’s by choice at that point.

Serene_hex · 2023-08-31T17:56:56+00:00

It's amusing how most can agree than no one cares about you. But if you get specific and say that one gender doesn't care about the other, you'll be labeled as a misogynist / Misandrist.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-31T18:08:32+00:00

The obsession with BMI is unhinged. It's so obvious those obsessed with it haven't ever seen a woman's body in real life.

It's wild to see such strong opinions from people, and yet they fail to see why they struggle with women.

They're judgemental assholes who give up creepy Uncle vibes with the single goal of getting laid so they can brag to their boyz. Nobody wants to fuck that or date that.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-31T18:14:48+00:00

I don't why people still come up with various reasons for many men struggling in dating, when it's always been about competition

You want that girl and other guys do, and one of them ends being the better option for her

And the guy goes home single and doesn't know what's to do about his current situation

This is the experience of many guys in dating, and l always say you need to realize it's a competition game id you want the best outcome

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-31T18:17:38+00:00

So this is an interesting development. A long time fWb, who had gone dark for about 10 months, reappeared with a txt today. She is "eager to submit to my touch" and get "on her knees and pleasure me, and let me do what I want to her".

Looks like the cat is back for alittle while. I guess the grass wasn't greener. Women really are just predictable creatures in the end.

Their greatest lie, that they are deeper, more virtuous, more mature, more sophisticated, more intelligent, more more more than man. To you young men, especially the unsuccessful... know that women aren't "more" than you. It's the lie they tell themselves to cover up the truth.

On the whole, the majority of women are lame, and they have trouble hiding it.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-31T18:40:47+00:00

According to this sub, every man is constantly seeking validation for their appearance.

I'm gonna start telling all the men that I come across in my day to day that Jesus thinks their hot.

Hopefully, it will help with their external validation.

I average interacting with at least 3 men during the day.

UnstoppableCheekbust · 2023-08-31T18:42:28+00:00

What's the deal with everyone online claiming women don't majorly like dominant men? I get that women don't like emotionally-immature bully, and that tastes are variable, but the vast majority of women does indeed like when a man takes charge and is socially and physically dominant. Those women who claim they like reclusive geeks and submissives are in extreme minority.

afk_row · 2023-08-31T18:44:46+00:00

I want to get steroids but legally. Trans people can get hormones of the opposite gender, what if I transition male to female then I transition back to male can I get male hormones legally?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-08-31T18:55:52+00:00

All I'm beginning to realize is that chasing women is absolutely worthless. If you're disadvantaged enough, the juice simply isn't worth the squeeze.

Maractop · 2023-08-31T18:59:21+00:00

Some straight women say that their need for a taller partner is based in biology and wanting to feel feminine/protected but lesbians have no problem dating a shorter woman. But why does the biology and the need to be protected go away once you start dating women?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-31T19:07:41+00:00

Why are broke men the most worried about having their "material wealth" taken?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T19:09:43+00:00

Whiny men: It's not fair that women have what I don't!

Women: Gives advice on how to get those things.

Whiny Men: IM NOT DOING THAT!!!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T19:29:15+00:00

This has nothing to do with competing. Alot of motherfuckers dont want to even try. They just want to sit down on their lazy asses and wait for people to give them what they want. It’s pathetic.

Judging by how this comment of mine got -4 votes, I believe I hit a nerve.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-08-31T19:30:03+00:00

Q4M: what if women actually brought nothing to the table?

I don’t agree with this mindset. But let’s play with a hypothetical here. What if womens only job was to sit at home and have babies. They don’t cook for you, they don’t clean for you. They don’t raise the children hands on pass the age of five. What if women’s only job was to find a man, give him access to sex and child birthing and that’s it. What would be the straight male plan here? What are they doing?

I ask this because I often see guys saying that women don’t provide much and don’t do anything. It got me thinking, so what if women actually didn’t provide much? Would it stop straight men from wanting to have sex with them? If men had to provide everything, house, money, clothes, on top of doing child care and cooking, in order to get female companionship and families, would it actually change how men are so desperate to interact with women?

So hypothetically, all women bring nothing to the table. She looks good. She will have sex with you if you marry her, but you are responsible for everything including domestic duties.

eye_fuck · 2023-08-31T19:36:07+00:00

Ugh hate it when you write a message to a girl and she's too busy riding other guys so it takes her 20+ min to answer every single time. So annoying ugh girl can you fuck through them faster or something

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-31T19:47:01+00:00

Well, its finally happened, boychild is experiencing social problems at school. 😭

Namely, he has nothing in common with the other kids so he feels like an outsider.

I wonder if we fucked up by allowing him to indulge in his niche-ish interests.

Boychild loves all things tech and gaming; seems like it would be a common ground, right? Unfortunately his classmates comprise of ultra coddled granola kids that aren't allowed to use the internet, or poor kids who can't afford a gaming rig/Switch/PS5/etc.

Right now boychild is obsessed with creating his own animations, Mario Kart, programming little 8bit games, and creating Roblox Obbys.

The other boys seem to to be more into basketball/football, whereas boychild is only into soccer (playing not watching, he has no idea who any of the big soccer stars are.)

As much as I love our community, I wish the parents weren't such granola Nazis about allowing their kids to use youtube.

There is a Mario Kart esports league through the community rec-center that boychild is dying to join, but the minimum age is 10+.

I don't know what to do other than schedule lots of playdates with his one friend thats on his level, sadly that friend lives 40 minutes away.😭

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-31T19:48:33+00:00

Women: We want to be treated like men!

Men: OK, so what are you bringing to the table?

Women: Not like that!

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-31T20:04:28+00:00

I'm always befuddled at the level of ignorance of the people who seriously believe that Women would be treated better in day to day situations if they were treated exactly like Men. Those people clearly know nothing about the way Men treat each other

Sure if Women were 7ft tall bulky extremely physically capable assassins, then they'd get treated better. But considering the very real fact women are on average significantly less physically capable, they'd get treated like agreeable scrawny short guys

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T20:08:32+00:00

Women’s advice is mostly trash on men’s dating issues

That’s because those men arent honest about what they actually want to know and they internationally misinterpret a woman’s words.

For some reason, these idiots see a woman saying “I dont really care about looks” and then think “Oh! ALL WOMEN dont care about looks”.

Also, these guys keep insisting “what women like” and “I just want love” but when seeing their behavior and priorities, they actually just want to know how to fuck Stacies.

Barneysparky · 2023-08-31T20:20:41+00:00

What do you guys think about this take on Tate? (on a post about middle school boys)

https://reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/FssSJsd0Gf

SianOiseau · 2023-08-31T20:33:32+00:00

But the river is deep, fish will eat the fisherman.

Absolutely out of context here, but I like the phrase and I find it ironic in the context of "don't ask the fish...". It's from a Russian song about domestic violence btw.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-31T20:37:36+00:00

Women which think that men are anything less then the gentle flowers they are had their brains rotten by the femsphere.

Women which think that guys only want to fuck them and dump them are misandrists.

Guys only care about love. Sometimes women force us to have sex before we are ready to...

After being used to satisfy their dirty urges we think "I guess she is not my soulmate after all".

And we ghost women to prevent them from doing more harm to our sensitive souls.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-31T20:45:35+00:00

Isn't it insane how so many modern women have the audacity to demand men care about their numerous "problems" right after hysterically berating them for imaginary offenses?

old_new_age · 2023-08-31T20:50:50+00:00

Starting to realize how much my ex fucked me up - she asked me out over Discord after 6 days of talking to me, without even confirming if I was a catfish or not. She did most of the initial pursuits, and dare I say "lovebombed" me, probably in part due to her mental illness(es). It's been several months since we broke up, but now that I'm trying to date again, when I have to be the main pursuer/chaser, I just immediately lose interest because "she's not as interested as my ex was." Problem is, initiating everything is kinda my required role as a man; I just happened to stumble upon a unicorn (who stabbed me with her horn several times, but whatever). Everything's just dull now

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-31T20:52:40+00:00

Some guys are laughably hypocritical. They refuse to even acknowledge the path of paying for sex workers to satisfy their needs because they want something more "meaningful". But then they love to complain about how Women have so many dating options and how dating is so easy for Women

Having a victim complex/mindset seems to blind them from the hypocrisy spewing from them

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-31T20:54:09+00:00

So a lot of inc3ls see the enslavement of women as the only way to fix the problem of young sexless men.

But how about using the antique Greece way to solve it?

Older men become "mentors" and younger virgin men become their lovers.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-31T21:04:59+00:00

Man, some of the takes I've seen on here are awful today

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-31T21:07:45+00:00

Women do love bad boys, which are not afraid to break some social norms and some laws.

So you should have sex with prostitutes.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-31T21:09:15+00:00

So this girl that I know is “heartbroken” from the the guy she was “dating”. He would take her on nice dates and for drinks. They even went to florida together a couple months ago

This guy told her that he wanted her to be his girl. She always told me that she didnt wanna be exclusive with him because 1) his dick is small and cant fuck 2) she personally does not feel ready for a relationship because she does not wanna get played or fuck someone over 3) she does not really trust him cause he also plays the field and he lied about it when she asked him about it

Oh and mind you, I was fucking this girl consistently while her and the guy were “dating”. She always would text me and tell me during sex how much she wanted to have my babies

Its always mind blowing how a girl can use a guy for dates, not even enjoy fucking him and still get upset when that guy pulls back his boyfriend behavior all while shes fucking another guy (me) for less

The female mind fascinates me

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-31T21:13:33+00:00

Who is the mvp of the sub this year

potoricco · 2023-08-31T21:22:31+00:00

Back from school

potoricco · 2023-08-31T21:26:45+00:00

Can bugvulva come back I miss her soo so much

I miss all my friends

Vampire chaser

Adopen432

Bigvulva

And some other people that I forgot probably

potoricco · 2023-08-31T21:35:40+00:00

Let me tell you something SO fucking embarrassing that happened today

I was sitting alone in a stairwell at lunch (NOT because I don’t have friends, but because it’s calming I sometimes nap there for like 30 minutes because our lunch is 1 hour and at the time it just wasn’t convenient to go to the cafeteria).

And OMG. This girl came up to me and she sounded really sweet and she offered me to come eat with her in a class room. I said thank you but NO. Because her mother is my teacher and I just didn’t want to fucking deal with that.I hate people pitying me. Her mom is also nice she’s known me for 2 years which is why I didn’t want to go like

She seemed super nice now that I think of it I should have said yes. It was so embarrassing for me she probably told her mom she was going to invite me. Like why can I just never be normal. Why didn’t I say yes like a normal person

Maffioze · 2023-08-31T21:46:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/166j7r5/i_22f_found_out_my_boyfriend_22m_had_sex_with_his/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

I can't with redditors double standards. This guy is being described as merely an asshole, meanwhile when a woman cheats on a man in a way less understandable situation everyone tries to understand her reasons. Fucking ridiculous.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-31T22:04:58+00:00

Randomly ran into a dude I had flirted with in the past at a coffee shop this week. We've been texting throughout the week.

He's such a nerd, and it's adorable. He's so sexy too.

Funny how people show back up in your life at the right time.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-31T22:14:57+00:00

Married people of the subreddit: Did you get a prenup?

Unmarried people of the subreddit: Do you plan on getting a prenup?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-31T22:23:47+00:00

guess i got to get my lazy ass up and review for the coming semester

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-31T22:40:05+00:00

My relative stayed in a bad marriage “for the kids”, and I never understood why. He already tricked her money, kissed his female colleagues, yelled at the kids for no reason, and was secretive. How is that good for the kids? Excluding violence, what could be worse? Yet somehow, in this scenario, her sacrifice made her holier than ever and it meant that we had to endure her stress induced tantrums.

slackforce · 2023-08-31T22:45:42+00:00

Check out this thread from /r/datingoverthirty

fucking lol

Same issue here. I’m attracted to about 10% of the men I meet for first dates. When you add in the need for mutual interest, compatibility, and availability for a relationship, it gets pretty damn difficult.

I'm 33 now and definitely find this to be an issue. So many guys around here just let themselves go or something? Why are you 35 looking 55?

I wish it was easy to go out and know who is single but most are attached or the ones who I know are single really aren’t my type.

This is me 💯. I've been on around 50 dates this year and was probably attracted to 4 of them

I have this problem all the time! The signs of aging just are not attractive. Bald head men and big bellies. But financial security is hot and sexy. I try to focus on that

Also, I'm apparently very superficial and am only attracted to "hot" gym guys....who generally are rather self absorbed and obsessed with the gym.

I love these ostensibly neutral dating subreddits because of how honest everyone is. I hope younger men are paying attention. There are more than enough blackpills to go around.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-31T22:45:54+00:00

I was at a co workers desk working on something with him and he has a youtube video up on another screen playing a video titled "how to become a high value man". I don't really care personally I just find it interesting, he's a real nice Christian dude and doesn't even seem like the type that would consume manosphere content. It's also interesting considering he's in his mid 40s making 6 figures and these types of vids are generally aimed at younger men coming up.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-31T22:48:53+00:00

For the guys out there, when did you financially hit your stride in life? At what age?

Asking as a 27 year old

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-08-31T23:22:28+00:00

Question for those raised religious but left the church. What was the final thing that pushed you to say this is bullshit?

My moment was my very conservative pastor father asking me if I wanted an abortion at 16.

Maractop · 2023-09-01T00:01:52+00:00

How do I get a ban?

blebbyroo · 2023-09-01T00:01:57+00:00

I hate working while sick :(

meteorness123 · 2023-09-01T00:06:19+00:00

Top 5 Hip Hop albums, no order

The Blueprint

The College Drop-out

Marshall Mathers Lp

Section 80

All Eyez on Me

BLKSKNHED · 2023-09-01T00:22:06+00:00

I don't think I've heard any differing definitions of "love" from a woman perspective beyond finding the rare guy that does not get pissed off being around her or wanting to do basic stuff for her. Sad! on both men and women.

potoricco · 2023-09-01T00:22:21+00:00

Apparently disney channel is shutting down and I’m actually going to cry

It’s so special to me 💔 why why

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-01T00:45:34+00:00

GUYS MY BOYFRIEND IS BRINGING HOME A KITTEN!!!

I'm so excited, this will be my first cat as an adult.

Any name suggestions? It's an all black tomcat (the goober is 4 weeks old {rescued from a dumpster})

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-09-01T00:45:43+00:00

I don’t understand men who talk-up polygyny like it’s so good. Bro, you think it’s going to be easier to get even an average woman when the super hot or super rich men can just openly have all the partners they want?

Explain to me how you’d compete with someone like Elon Musk who could, if he wanted to, have thousands of wives and still have tons of money and status for every single one of them? He could literally marry 1000 women, give them all a couple mill and still have some left over to call himself a billionaire.

potoricco · 2023-09-01T01:21:06+00:00

Guys i have an assignment that was supposed to have been done all summer like with dates and stuff but i did it in 3 days, used different writing tools, fake dates and rumpled up the paper to make it look old. do you think she'll care?

potoricco · 2023-09-01T01:44:52+00:00

There goes my fucking parents again I swear they never shut up about anything.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-01T01:57:29+00:00

Does anyone have any puppy breed recommendations for small children? The oldest is 8. We're fine with large breeds or small.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-01T01:59:25+00:00

A lot of people did not grow up having their emotional and attachment needs met. They become emotionally stunted adults. Then, they will look for these needs to be met in their relationships. Which doesn't work.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-01T02:24:26+00:00

The fact that so many nice guys wished their moms taught them how to get pussy made me realize there’s a mental problem. I cannot fathom getting mad that a mother taught her kid “be yourself”, “be nice”, “just ask” in elementary/middle school to get a date.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-09-01T02:27:50+00:00

If you claim a man can love his partner and still cheat on her by having sex with other women, you're full of shit.

If you truly love someone you would never want to intentionally hurt them this deeply.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-01T02:33:20+00:00

Didn't reply in time, the post got locked.

As I've said from species point of you, it doesn't really matter whether this particular man passes his genes or not. What does matter is the survival of the offspring and in this context having many people providing for kids is more beneficial.

The penis being shaped to scoop something also might be an evidence of men sharing women. Men had to evolve to compete with other men's sperm hence the shape. All of it is just speculation though. We don't have enough information about prehistoric time to know for sure how people lived or evolved.

It would depend on the time period and culture really. During our written history most people were pretty monogamous at least in terms of marriage - only rich and wealthy could afford having multiple partners. In my culture polygamy was mostly an exception to the rule, not the rule.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-09-01T02:51:56+00:00

Mental health baggage makes relationships more difficult than all the typical red flags this sub discusses.

Ever dated someone who’s bipolar? Or has diagnosed anxiety/depression? Or an addict?

Talk about emotional labor.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-01T02:55:03+00:00

Why is the most "desired" woman in this sub always described as a flat 2D character whose sole purpose is to agree and fulfill the requests of someone else (aka a man).

LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-01T10:28:50+00:00

This place is dead today.

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-01T11:00:01+00:00

I heard that some feminists actually took a look at women's unwillingness to date Indian guys in the US, and even called it a bias. Wild.

Thick-Passenger-2517 · 2023-09-01T12:20:23+00:00

A lot of people seem to have this misconception that psychological healing is supposed to feel good. But I don't think that's true, what brings pain is our attachment to people, places, things, and ideas which gets adopted by us when we're trying to run from another pain and so to no longer get the security of something so that we no longer suffer by it and get in conflicts with people because of it we have to drop it, which would be quite painful. If there will be any good feelings it will be afterward when you've more or less understood and processed everything and so now you're more lighter as you've dropped something very easy but was necessary for your survival once. Right here right now, how many attachments do we have at the deepest parts of our minds and how many pain and fears are they hiding? Can we expect some semblance of right actions and order from a mind that is so burdened by decades old problems?

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-01T12:37:41+00:00

"It's not your parents job to teach you how to attract a partner."

Mostly agreed. Loving parents who encourage you to socialize is definitely a plus, but it's not the end all be all of things. Personally, I think my parents were pretty ok, but I became a hardcore introvert when around 9-10 years old my classmates turned obnoxious as fuck. I wasn't even deliberately bullied (that much), but just seeing everybody around me yelling at the top of their lungs, farting into each others mouth, being racist as fuck, harassing the girls (until most of them basically switched schools), literally putting toilet water into a girls drink, stuff like that is why I "failed to socialize". Just a casual 3-4 years of that at the beginning of my teen years did it's work. And let me tell you, my dad's nagging for me to be more active, to have hobbies, to be more social, that really didn't help. At all. He was well meaning, but I was struggling, and he just didn't get that. By the way, the cherry on top was that one kid who wasn't at all worse than most of the others who the teachers singled out for some pathetic, cowardly reason, he got expelled too. I guess it's easier to expell one kid than 20.

Things did get better towards the second half of high school (a lot of the kids left, and the rest of us began to do drugs, lol), but by that time I was already very introverted and socially anxious.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-01T14:08:22+00:00

The most toxic sub on reddit --> https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

The biggest feminist sub reddit --> https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/

Young man reject modernity, take TRP

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-01T12:11:18+00:00

People who go to therapy are a red flag, it's probably one of the most unattractive traits in someone.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-01T11:57:20+00:00

Just saw a YouTube short where a woman had the tiniest amount of armpit hair and people were losing it in the comments. Like, just look away if it bothers you, it's not that hard.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-01T11:54:45+00:00

I want to see all the interesting users here do AMAs.

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-01T11:52:23+00:00

The self respect leaving my body when I see an attractive woman…

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-01T11:09:35+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/ThailandTourism/s/xDfevuOO5y

I scan this sub for funny or snarky posts. The comments section in this one though 🫢

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-01T11:05:08+00:00

Fellas, what do we think about anal only virgins? Is it better for a woman who has had vaginal sex with two men. Or a woman who never had vaginal sex, but anal with 100 men?

https://i.imgur.com/hRlVFG1.jpg

gabejohn · 2023-09-01T10:48:11+00:00

Would you rather be:

38 year old average male citizen in North-Korea who has a loving wife and family. You're poor but can survive. You've always had a good love life.
38 year old male tech billionaire in the US who is 5"5 and a virgin.

I'm picking North-Korean and it's not even close.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-01T10:28:05+00:00

I’m as redpill as the next person and there may be some truth to AWALT but I don’t understand these youtubers/dating coaches who dea with clubs/party girls from from places like Miami and then complain about the type of women they meet.

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-09-01T08:43:37+00:00

Feeling quite happy today. I think it is recent successes of Australian cardboard drones in Ukraine that is doing it for me.

shanshkrishur · 2023-09-01T08:08:01+00:00

Question for non-American men and for those American men who have dated abroad

Have you found that non-American women don’t play games compared to American women, as in flaking, ghosting, and playing those hard-to-get mind games that are so common in the American dating scene, at least on dating apps in the USA?

blebbyroo · 2023-09-01T08:02:45+00:00

Babies trying to eat tagliatelle pasta is cute and funny

My little one won’t let me help, finally gave up on utensils and got at it with her hands with a bit more success. And back to using the spoon to get all the mushrooms, beef and stroganoff sauce lol

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-01T07:16:22+00:00

Q4A: Why do you believe that men have become more emotional and feminine, especially throughout Gen Z?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-01T06:49:52+00:00

I'm at a point where I can no longer just date women "for fun". (Unless she already has kids or is very young). If a woman really likes you, she wants to marry you and have kids with you. This is what most women want despite claiming otherwise. Anything else is just a waste of time. It is a sad thing for a woman to approach her mid thirties, unmarried without kids. Which means that me just sport fucking her is an utter waste of her time. Which sucks for me I guess. But taking her limited reproductive window into account, I would feel like I was taking valuable years of her time. Which ethically I wouldn't feel good about. She may also not meet a man like me after me which is also not good.

BruceLeesSidepiece · 2023-09-01T06:48:45+00:00

If u think getting women to admit they're average is hard, try getting them to admit their bf is average

how all y'all dating someone "above average" 💀

scwizard · 2023-09-01T06:09:32+00:00

I used to have a coworker that was exactly this way! She used to tell me "you never know, you could be pregnant" constantly, despite me having an IUD and using condoms. Her reasoning was that she "didn't plan on" having kids with her husband until they had been married for at least a year, but then she got pregnant within two months of marriage. Then had 3 more kids in 3 more years. She later said that they've never once used condoms or birth control, and she never bothered to track her cycles.

So I want to know how she thought two healthy young people weren't going to get pregnant just because they "didn't plan on it"? Completely baffles me.

Stupid women are pretty adorable tbh.

Well until you try and talk to them then they're not so cute anymore.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-01T05:41:50+00:00

Am I the only one who doesn't like setting boundaries. I just think if I have to explicitly make something a boundary then im in a way asking you to alter your behavior in some way. I wouldn't want any girl to feel like she has to change for me. I'd rather we just end it there and move on

md8716 · 2023-09-01T05:29:50+00:00

Signs that you're getting old:

Historical dramas are increasingly being set in your high school years.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-01T05:20:59+00:00

I do think a lot of Western women have overly inflated standards that could change.

But here's the thing. You can't argue that women should try to do that FOR men, or even for the good of society. You have to show why doing so is in a given woman's individual interest.

Modern women are not necessarily assuming anything about the overall structure of mating, or what is natural or to be expected. I do not think they are sold on the idea that almost all adults should be able to get a partner. After, in their minds, 1000s of years of oppression, a lot of women feel we know next to nothing yet about how women TRULY are when free. Maybe men are worse than women. Maybe 1 pot for every lid is bullshit because there are just never going to be enough men that are attractive to women and can add value net of costs to women. I think in women's minds, the jury is still out.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-01T04:45:04+00:00

My aspirations are constantly at war with each other : A) Just live a chill life with friends and family or B) Become one of the most impactful and important human beings to have ever walked the surface of this planet.

I need to make a decision.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-01T04:43:42+00:00

Had some excitement tonight! Driving home from work at 11, I came upon a group of four deer standing across the road. I figured I didn't have a prayer of emerging unscathed, but put the brake pedal to the floor (where it stayed -- blew a line) and someone managed to steer between numbers Two and Three before coasting to a stop on the shoulder. Whew!

Called my man to rescue my sorry ass. Limped the broken truck home ... repairs tomorrow.

Never a dull moment here in WhiteTrashLand ...

dysonRing · 2023-09-01T04:41:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlGamers/comments/165qw40/the_romance_in_bg3_is_killing_my_immersion_and_i/

Act 1 after you defeat the goblins was super cheesy and cringey and gave me so much second-hand embarrassment that I had to reload the save and start again, turning him down instead. It felt very fake (turns out my trust issues extend to digital men, who knew) I said to myself "no matter, I'll find someone else as the game progresses"

You don't have "trust issues" you are just mentally ill and typical dark triad chaser

NalkaNalka · 2023-09-01T04:30:05+00:00

Absolute relationship red flag: anyone that uses any variation of the phrase "steal my thunder"

According-Dinner-406 · 2023-09-01T04:16:10+00:00

"Citing the mental health impacts of ghosting, Bumble now considers the act — specifically, two people agreeing to meet up and one of them flaking without contact — Bullying and Abusive Conduct in the guidelines."

This will boot about a quarter of the women off apps altogether.

potoricco · 2023-09-01T03:52:39+00:00

What I hate about English is the fact that it’s Soooo fucking cringe and corny. like right now they’re making us write poetry about ourselves and I’m here writing shit like “Beneath the hidden silence, my eloquence thrives🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓” Sooo fucking cringe but I have to do what I have to do to pass

potoricco · 2023-09-01T03:47:12+00:00

My physics teacher is old as shit he said he was in college in the 80s

SianOiseau · 2023-09-01T03:43:14+00:00

How many women really do it?

Also when I ask husband what he wants his usually answer is "you, maybe in a new ____" and I think he really wouldn't mind me not getting anything for him besides getting something fancy he would have to take off me. We didn't use to make gifts as we were saving, but these days I try to make some small gifts anyway and I have to figure out what he'd like to get on my own.

BruceLeesSidepiece · 2023-09-01T03:37:49+00:00

How many ppl here are gen Z

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-01T03:06:10+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22UKBv4b4zo

“Get you a mail order bride…”

Even tall rich Jed Clampet had dating problems, lol.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-01T03:00:55+00:00

One of the common PPD women (and women outside PPD as well) takes is that men who are romantically and sexually unfulfilled have no or very few friends and don't take the time to cultivate relationships. This is the common braindead lilith take.

Personally, I have see that many men have solid friendships especially with other men, solid hobbies, social lives, but fail to succeed romantically. It is one of the defining parts of this "male loneliness epidemic" that many men with good social lives, hobbies, and friendships are unable to succeed romantically because the standards are just so high from western women.

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