Weekly Community Chat Megathread

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This weekly thread is designed to be a place for all the funny discussions on PPD. Feel free to post off-topic questions, information, points-of-view, etc......

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I would humor that if my parents didn’t spend the last 40 years of their life dedicated to helping boys and young men. Nothing about boys comes off as “more or less dysfunctional.” Their expression and internalization is different. But the dysfunction of acting out, harming others, silently raging, coping with hard drugs and alcohol are all “dysfunctional.” Boys are more likely to self-medicate via substances or aggression. (Coping via aggression via a disciplined martial art is cool. Coping by punching walls destroying property and punching others around you isn’t. And quite frankly no one prescribes drugs for violence and aggression unless the kid is bipolar or something. It’s also not seen as a “disorder.” But a woman saying I’m quite stressed and detailing why gets marked as a “anxiety disorder.”)

The most I can say is women are more expressive and perhaps more neurotic if I were to mean neurotic as “constantly considering multiple factors simultaneously.”

But boys have their own unique things that are quite dysfunctional.

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I'm saying if one requires pills and the other requires simply punching a wall and that gets them both the same benefit then the wall punch is obviously more efficient.

They don't all require pills. "Anxiety" is readily diagnosed quite frankly and certainly overprescribed. The "human condition" is moments of angst and sadness. The "mental illness" is simply "anxiety" and "depression."

male hormone

Obviously. I’m well aware of the effects of testosterone.

And women aren’t broken men.

What you’re calling “dysfunction” is the atavistic neuroticism AKA “considering multiple factors simultaneously” that makes women natural nurturers and especially more apt for keeping infants and prepubescent children alive.

If you want to call everything a “dysfunction,” feel free.

But that is not my conception. I’ve detailed quite readily that neither is more or less “dysfunctional.”

Cheers. We disagree. There is no “permission.” It’s a turn of phrase most normal people understand dear.

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Walk it back...

She said:

My favorite manopshere argument: “Men invented everything so women should be grateful to us.”

When does this come up on PPD?

It always starts first with some BP/woman blaming all men for the actions of a few. All men are violent rapists because some men are, etc... I know I've personally seen her respond/comment in a number of these threads. Now I'm not going to waste my time scrolling back through 600+ comments to find the smoking gun, but you know she's been in the middle of those arguments, I know, she knows.

Course what do the RPs/men say? Something like 'you can't paint all with the same brush/NAMALT' and 'what about all the good men have done'.

This didn't just materialize out of the blue, even if poppy didn't explicitly say 'I blame all men', she's taking up the mantle, and she knows it. Claiming 'that's not what I said/prove it' is just her being disingenuous.

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Ahh yes, that one. I actually agree with him on it.

Some fun excerpts

Not one of you young men of Reddit did shit to “advance society” or make “women’s” lives any better.

Actually I spent 5y as a bouncer, and prevented more sexual assaults in an average weekend than any of the keyboard # SJW warriors will do in their entire lives.

But apparently that doesn't matter, I'm a bad person unless I act like a good little sheeple telling people what they want to hear.

You're right but we also didn't oppress women either yet you guys constantly want to blame us for that. If you won't allow us to take credit for the good things that other men have done then don't blame us for the bad things they've done either.

He brings up a good point. I agree.

If you say dumb shit like “women should pay men back for giving them equality with their bodies,” expect to get called out on it.

Except he never said that, in fact the only time I see that being suggested on PPD is in sarcasm or as an argumentative tool to show irony or an contradiction/double standard (well if men are expected to do X than women should expect Y, type stuff).

Didn't you start a thread a month or two ago along the lines of 'What do RP men expect from women and/or want women to do?'?

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First you said you resent that men get stereotyped as rapists then turn around and say as a bouncer you regularly prevented men from raping women. Mental gymnastics indeed.

No I said I prevented sexual harassment. Harassment != rape. I know women love to conflate the benign with the heinous to construct their silly narrative of 'all men iz bad' but it's just not true.

Here's the thing, women commonly sexually harass men as well. I mean I've been poked, prodded, groped, grabbed, massaged, and touched more times than any non-stripper/sex worker.

Most of the shit that goes on between drunken people is pretty benign. People get drunk, get a little too excited, I step in and make them take it down a notch or toss them out.

So it's not a contradiction no matter how you want to hamster it. I've stopped a lot of sexual harassment, and (given the few thousand people that go through the clubs I worked at in any given night) it's rather rare for things to turn serious.

Will a few boobs/asses get grabbed, sure. Inappropriate touching, of course. Spicy language, you bet. Rape??? fuck no! Even if people were having consensual sex we'd throw them out.

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That doesn’t really fully answer my question, or maybe you’re just not thinking too hard about it (but thanks for the downvotes I guess, whatever moron is downvoting).

If there are varying degrees and you think nuance is in order, then again, why is it “funny” that leftists don’t stupidly apply all the exact same rules to every facet of the government “owing them a high quality standard of living”?

Sexual access is not the same as healthcare is not the same as military protection (something most libertarians still demand from the government) is not the same as public infrastructure (both the right and left both usually want this to some degree outside of extremists) is not the same as the criminal justice system is not the same as education. You merely call certain things “basic government protection” when you agree with them, but crazy wild entitlements when you personally don’t like them... but there’s not a lot that distinguishes them. Like, for healthcare.... why is it a “basic government protection” for the military to prevent you dying from a military attack, but something frivolous and stupid if the government prevents you from dying of starvation?

And like, I haven’t seen “leftists” insist everybody get a personal chef, or be provided with a bidet, or be provided a free car— is it “funny” they don’t ask for those too? They’d all improve quality of life.

Your viewpoint is just baffling. I suppose I think it’s funny that you gladly apply nuance for “rightists”, but dumbly insist “leftists” are crazy if they also don’t all uniformly treat everything exactly the same.

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If you're a leftist and you believe in using collective action...

...to solve some issues, then they’re stupid if they think it’s wrong to use collective action to solve people’s bedroom woes? That doesn’t make sense unless you think nuance is stupid. Why do they have to treat everything the exact same? Nobody does.

I'm not sure how this is so hard for you to understand.

Eh, I think I understand just fine now, really. It’s simply a classic case of anything I think that’s inconsistent is nuanced and practical, but anyone who thinks different from me is a a dumb hypocrit.

It’s just a way for you to rag on the other side without having to think about it too hard. The same way lots of pro-choicers rag on pro-lifers, who typically support the death penalty. I mostly don’t rag on them for that, though, because I can still recognize there are actually nuanced reasons why they are anti-abortion but pro-death-penalty, even though I disagree with both positions.

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You're the one saying that as long as anyone believes in any form of taxation and government, they're on equal footing in regards to entitlement.

No, I’m the one saying nuance matters for both, and that viewing people you disagree with in pure black and white terms while mocking them for not applying the same demands to everything under the sun is silly.

So you believe there's no difference between someone who believes in a 99% tax and a 1% tax

No, I do not believe that. If you have to argue with stupid strawmen to make your point, make yourself feel better, then I can’t really help you. Seems like making up dumb strawmen is just how you try to discredit people you disagree with. I think I’ve found the pattern here.

But one is clearly more entitled than the other, in terms of wanting things from others.

Well first, considering “leftists” in the US tend to be less entitled in terms of military and police spending (whether that is smart or not), it isn’t actually true that they are “more entitled” than the “please spend ridiculous amounts of money on pork barrel projects in my state building tanks even the pentagon doesn’t want” or “please regulate the sexual behaviors of gay people” rightists.

But even if one side feels more entitled to more things... again, it doesn’t mean they are silly for also drawing the line somewhere, just like you do. A union man demanding to be paid more than what other minimum wage earners expect doesn’t mean he feels entitled to be paid like Jeff Bezos. Likewise, while I’m sure you support the military providing protection on a broad scale, it wouldn’t make you “funny” that you oppose the government being required to provide personal protection to all citizens— you draw the line somewhere also, even on the areas you feel entitled to.

Not everything is black and white, you know. These horrible scary “leftists” as you call them see the government as playing a different role than you, but that doesn’t mean they are hypocrites just because they also draw the line somewhere different from you. “Leftists” in general oppose big government nosing in on private sexual and reproductive decisions, which is something many “rightists” support.

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Melinda Gates and MacKenzie Bezos are not good examples of “gold diggers.” It’s boring when they’re brought up as such by the bitter.

Both grew up “well” and went to elite prep schools and elite undergraduate colleges.

Melinda studied Econ and Computer Programming and worked her way up at Microsoft / Expedia. Worked high enough up that she rubbed elbows with the founder enough times and they started their relationship likely because he respected her greatly on some level and vice versa. The renown Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation is her brainchild.

Mackenzie loves literature. Studied under Toni Morrison. An “e-commerce book retailer” was her idea. She drafted the business plan and secured initial capital/funding for what we now know as Amazon. She met Jeff at the hedge fund they both worked at. They started a relationship and he believed in her idea. They both left their jobs at the hedge fund in NYC and moved to Seattle to go full force on Amazon. She took a step back to focus on raising their children.

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Also Bill isn’t the “beta victim” this sub paints him as. He negotiated into his marriage the right to take an annual beach house weekend with his ex-girlfriend.

And said ex-girlfriend seems pretty high intellect too. Gates has a type.

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Even in the counter argument “Twitter thread” it was only “men” committed to proving that the research was wrong. If men didn’t care about marriage, why were so many men hoping adamantly that “married women with kids” were less content (probably more burdened) than single women with no kids?

It’s not adding up. Seems like men in general are hyper invested in ensuring women care about marrying men, despite how many men of PPD feel 😃.

So many men combat single women with “why would you want to be single?” “You’re going to be lonely!”

Recently, I was cajoled into a Clubhouse room with a semi famous celebrity woman speaking. She said she didn’t want to remarry at all. Literally every man on stage tried to convince her otherwise. Meanwhile the women were “do what’s best for you sis.”

PPD men are surely anti “partnering with a woman”, but most men are not anti relationships.

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The anecdotes and observations don’t suggest women don’t want to get married?

The “now debunked by Oxy” research purported that “married women with children” and “single men” were less content than “childless single women” and “married men.” I think it also suggested divorced men were the least happy.

And my own observations have shown me that divorced men/widowed men are quicker to remarry than divorced women/widowed women. It seems like divorced women/widowed aren’t that excited to jump back into it.

My take? Married women with kids take on more mental burden, so yeah they probably have a less enjoyable daily QoL than the counterparts (except single men).

That doesn’t mean that married women aren’t grateful for their kids and their family and their “picture perfect life.”

It also doesn’t mean that married men don’t complain about their lives.

Nuance is key here.

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Lol I didn’t even mention divorce once. This has nothing to do with anything i said.

The point is, a lot of women want to be married. That’s a goal for them. Only in here will you find a few women who claim they don’t want to be married. This may be true but they still want a LTR. Marriage without the title.

divorced men are quicker to remarry than divorced women.

That’s because women at that age have little to no value. She’s sorting through the leftovers. The abundance of options she once had are gone and this is a shock to her.

Just wait until the dating app era women marry then divorce. Their standards are already sky high. They’ll never remarry. If they think 80% of men are unattractive in their 20’s, I wonder what the think of men in their 40’s and 50’s with baggage.

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Ok, but Bill Gates isn’t MGTOW. He’s signed lots of contracts with lots of people, including some that lost him billions of dollars, and this is another contract with a lot of money involved. It worked for him for 27 years, he’s leaving with vastly more than he started with, and she’s taking her share, as both agreed to. Even on her own she is worth $70 billion. They started their charity foundation together 21 years ago and are co chairs. This is how business contracts work - people sign them and agree to some things, including how things will be split if the contract is dissolved. Then, if they dissolve it, those agreements are enforced.

Why is this any different than any other contract Bill signed? He was an adult, and I’m sure he understood what it meant, I highly doubt he was somehow tricked into believing that a marriage didn’t involve any sharing of wealth. He has stated before he thinks they are equal partners.

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He’d have no kids, then!! That means nothing to you? The money is way more than enough than anyone needs, and he didn’t go in with that much, you are counting money that grew while they sat on it... both of them, together. You have no idea how much money there would be if they didn’t get married, you couldn’t possibly know, because they did, 27 years ago. She could have contributed in any number of ways, or altered their life path, or he could have just wanted children and to give them a good life. He’d also have even more money if he had no kids because he spent money on them.

He may think having a 27 year partnership and raising healthy kids was worth sharing half the wealth generated during that time. Many people don’t think it’s foolish to have a family. That’s why they sign marriage contracts, if it’s worth it to them. You are free to value money more than children or a family or a partnership and never get married, but you have no evidence Bill Gates has the same values as you.

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He didn’t “lose half his shit” though. He went in with $9 billion and came out with healthy children raised to adulthood and $70 billion. No one in their right mind would consider this “losing” anything.

He is partnered with her jointly on all their ventures since they’ve been married, and he has stated before she is his equal partner. She is an accomplished professional, she isn’t a trophy wife or something.

Are you seriously feeling sorry for someone that has already raised the richest family in the world and now has to split $130 billion with his partner that he willingly entered into a binding agreement with? It’s like feeling sorry for someone losing a penny in a bet, it won’t make any difference to how he lives his life at all. He couldn’t give his money away as fast as it increased by just existing as it was, I don’t think he’s some poor put upon dude that he has to share an essentially infinite amount of money with someone he agreed to do so with.

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A 30 year marriage is a “free ride”?! I wouldn’t even want the same job that long! Why hate on her for getting into a contract with Bill? It makes no sense, it was their private contract, it doesn’t affect anyone else. It’s his money, he can do whatever he wants with it, and apparently what he wanted to do was form a partnership 3 decades ago with a woman to raise children. Would you be complaining this hard of he formed a partnership with a man?

You are just spouting shit, there probably isn’t a single woman in the world you think deserves a cent of her own at all. How on earth could she have done anything right in your eyes here? Keep in mind she took half the money 30 years ago, not now. Should she have raised the kids on her own without marrying him or moving in or using a cent of his money? Why on earth would Bill want that? There isn’t much benefit to having money if you aren’t even willing to use it to care for your own family...

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It’s his money, he can do whatever he wants with it, and apparently what he wanted to do was form a partnership 3 decades ago with a woman to raise children. Would you be complaining this hard of he formed a partnership with a man?

He may have wanted to form a partnership but that doesn't mean he wanted to give away half his shit in a divorce. That applies to hetero, gay and lesbian marriages.

You are just spouting shit, there probably isn’t a single woman in the world you think deserves a cent of her own at all.

No you're the one that's bullshitting here, not me. You are staunchly defending the right of women to blood suck off of men's bank accounts. LOL you're so offended at the idea of a woman having to make her own money yet then you accuse me of being the same? Nah bro I expect women to have their own money and their own jobs. I'm not a tradcon.

Again I'm going to re-state: never EVER marry a woman below your station.

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He was already rich when he married her, If he didn’t want to give her half his money, he shouldn’t have gotten into a contract to do just that.

LOL you’re so offended at the idea of a woman having to make her own money yet then you accuse me of being the same?

Huh? She made her own money also. And I am the breadwinner in my relationship, I have no problem with it and I think men should marry women who earn the same as them if they don’t want to give up any money they earn. I also understand I signed a marriage contract and that means half the money I earn is my husband’s.

Again I’m going to re-state: never EVER marry a woman below your station.

Sounds like a good plan. At the time he married her he was one of the richest people alive so it wasn’t really an option for him, but he could have easily chosen to not get married if he wanted, obviously he doesn’t have your beliefs and wanted to share his wealth with her. I highly doubt he was tricked into marriage or something. he has always claimed they are equal partners, seems like he willingly shared everything with her.

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He was already rich when he married her, If he didn’t want to give her half his money, he shouldn’t have gotten into a contract to do just that.

And in case you didn't read from the get-go I said this is why MGTOW is a thing. MGTOW says never get married.

Huh? She made her own money also.

She made $65 billion of that? Tell me, what huge tech company did she start again?

And I am the breadwinner in my relationship,

And if you get divorced and stripped for resources I want to see you post all this shit after that.

At the time he married her he was one of the richest people alive so it wasn’t really an option for him, but he could have easily chosen to not get married if he wanted, obviously he doesn’t have your beliefs and wanted to share his wealth with her.

This is what's wrong with marriage today - if you do have that kind of money you automatically have to share it with your wife. This is why we now have plagues like FD$ and women like this too

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I said working in NYC not living in NYC. If it's not NYC then it's philadelphia or D.C., some east coast metropolis. Maybe SF/LA but I'd be a bit surprised if you're there. From your own admissions on this forum you're a black woman with an ivy league education engaging in upper-middle class society.

I'm not surprised you're not a registered democrat. Most people aren't registered with their state party. But we both know you either did vote for Biden or would have voted for him over Trump. If you didn't vote it's because you live in a blue state, no way in hell you live in a red state.

It has nothing to do with being neurotic. Cancel culture is a real problem, and saying anything out of the mainstream gets you canceled these days, and if you don't see that then you are wilfully blind or not paying attention or both. The covington kid got doxxed and canceled simply for smiling awkwardly at a loud, rude native american man banging a drum in his face.

It is not just right-wing views. Kevin Hart got canceled from the oscars for making jokes about gay people 10 years ago. Aziz ansari got unfairly me'tooed. If you say "the election was stolen" or some variant of that free speech goes out the window and social media bans your account for "spreading election misinformation."

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Again. What opinions and perspectives do they have that they are scared to say aloud?

This isn’t about being a “cis white man.” Kevin Hart bitches about “canceling” too because he got caught cheating on his wife and saying some anti-gay shit about his sons and then trying to tell Lil Nas “gay ppl and gay black men don’t face ostracizing,” despite saying what he said formerly. Newsflash. Kevin wasn’t cancelled. He was reneged for an opportunity because of his own actions. In the non “everyone does something to meeeeee” world that’s called basic accountability. He’s on a Netflix special now complaining about being “cancelled”. Wow. What canceled. Very lucrative canceling deal he got there.

OP has opinions that he’s scared to say. What are those opinions? This isn’t 1857 Mississippi. I doubt his opinion is that he secretly thinks chattel slavery is inhumane.

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One time I heard a prostitute say on reddit that her pimp always told her NEVER reveal you have a pimp because men are less likely to give you money if they think it’s going to another man. They don’t care if you take the money and blow it on drugs for example, they just don’t want it to go another guy at the end of the night.

I heard this and then Thought about things like Onlyfans, how many of these accounts are being run/managed by Quasi pimps in the shadows with the same Principle? Let’s say their not even pimps/managers, many of these girls have boyfriends and are smart enough to not put pics of those guys on their IG or Snap, they keep it on the down low for a reason.

It reminds me of this one girl who put a pic of her and her man on IG, then took it down less than 2 hours later. She said the reason for that was she got MAD hate messages from her “fans” on some “omg you got a BF, how come you didn’t tell me” and all sorts of reckless shit lol. She was like never again lol

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The dude also knew she was uncomfortable and kept on trying: he says “I see your hesitancy”. It’s really weird to keep pushing an interaction when the person is making multiple clear signals that they don’t want you here, and you know they want you gone.

Like, yeah he’s a creep for ignoring pretty obvious signs she’s giving him to leave her alone (including a pretty clear statement telling him the same “I didn’t say you could sit here”), and some women are calling him a creep.

So what? Why does this bother you so much? Why do so many guys get their panties in such a bunch over women calling some guy a creep? It’s just one word, and nothing bad happened to him whatsoever here. Nothing. No one was even rude to him, unlike him (yes, he was being rude by ignoring a clear request for him not to join her). Seriously, the word “creep” triggers seems to trigger guys like no other.

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Men are more “depressed” than women in that same scenario. The research highlights that relative differential.

Why?

Men have more testosterone and thus a more consistent sex drive and thus don’t like not being able to have access to sex. The average woman can go much longer than the average man without sex before they start feeling mentally distressed because of it.
When women do want sexual intimacy, they have an easier time gaining access to it.
Women rely on their friends for emotional and physical intimacy. So they aren’t intimacy-starved when they are single and sexless. Whereas, men report being intimacy-starved and touch-starved when they are single because they don’t seem to get emotional or physical intimacy from their close male friends or close male family members. A woman can collapse into the bosom of her best friend and have a good cry which satisfies physical and emotional intimacy. Men don’t do that with other men, so of course, he’s going to feel more “depressed” relative to a single woman.

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You can have nice things before your old lol

Yes, we all know this

when I’m 40 I’ll need something even nicer to get the same positive feeling and it still won’t be as great

You don’t know that it won’t be as great - you haven’t gotten there yet

But it very much may not be as great. I don’t give a shit about cars, personally, and was very happy when my Benz went kaput. I prefer my cheapass Nissan

This is the point, though - what you prefer to spend your money on is personal. For me, it’s not cars. I prefer experiences, especially shared experiences with loved ones ... Higher end vacations, higher end dinners, better wine, all of that. The ability to just up and go “hey, we’re going to Vegas this weekend”

Sounds like the issue is career and finances

Actually, no. LOL, I’ve been in my dream industry for years and make a very good living. Better than most of the STEMlords here, actually, which pisses them off

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Why would functional women in happy relationships even post and comment here?

Because Purple Pill DEBATE (PPD) is a DEBATE FORUM MEANT TO DISCUSS HETERO SOCIO-SEXUAL DYNAMICS.

It is not a place for "sad lonely men." It is not TRP/MGTOW/Incel/Black Pill/TwoXX/FDS/MTRP/NiceGuys/WAATGM and so forth. It is not a circle-jerk about "why I hate everyone and the opposite sex" sub. If that's all you want to do... go to TRP/FDS/IncelsUnite or whatever lol.

It is a place for the analytically-minded who have sociological proclivities oriented toward romantic relationship dynamics to debate freely.

It is literally the only interesting forum on Reddit to do so. Which makes it fun and enjoyable for people who want to discuss the above.

PPD =! "pathetic place for misanthropes who can't attract anyone to commiserate"

Sadly, this is what many guys here wish it were, which is why so many people are confused by the demographics here.

Sincerely,

a mod/long-time denizen of PPD

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I’ve been here just as long.

The highlight of my observation isn’t what you deduced.

My point is my female friends who are married are all good looking. They chose men who look just like them for the most part. Hence most of them look like siblings.

My male friends who are married have average faces and some have good looking faces. But the average faced ones were able to secure wives who are demonstrably good looking in the face even more so than he.

Average-faced men are able to secure commitment from hot-faced women more easily than average-faced women are able to secure commitment from hot-faced men.

Why? Because women are more likely to include “frame” and “masculinity” as SMV uppers (those things arouse her) for men who are average-faced. Whereas hot-faced men are more strict about her SMV being mostly or totally defined by how pretty she is.

These are my observations. My average-faced male friends are still swaggy and stylish and cool asf which is why they can get “hotter” women to want to fuck them.

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I’m sure there were signs.

But not always very obvious ones.

A friend of mine was dating a guy last year. I’ve met him at a few small gatherings. Stand up guy. He’s gone with us to several park days and water sport activities.

There were a few times he couldn’t make a few things because something came up. Once it was his aunt was sick. Another time he had to babysit his niece. All plausible. He grilled for us. Was always cooking something. Super great.

But 8 months into their relationship the excuses ramped up for a month. And that’s when she did some deeper investigating. Anyway he has a longtime pregnant girlfriend who lives 45 min south of us.

I guess the pregnant gf was being needy during that one month so he had to make more excuses to be around her. And hence his “excuses” didn’t make sense anymore or seem fair.

And because he lived about an hour south of us, it wasn’t that rare for them to only see each other 3x a week.

So, sure. People overlook things when they like someone a lot. But quite frankly he even fooled me. I was in disbelief that he was pulling that off.

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And the reason? 🌈🔥 Hormonal fluctuations due to menstrual cycle 🔥🌈

I didn't have good skin before using an anti-androgenic birth control pill. My natural androgenic hormones are just way too high eau naturale, so most of my cycles were spent being oily as fuck and extra pimply the week before my period.

Next half of the cycle was spent healing up the damage from my fluctuating hormones, by using products that flared up my skin as little as possible, while being as healing as possible and getting rid of excessive oil.

Repeat ad nauseum. Perhaps one week of nice enough skin in the course of a month.

Now, on the pill I wash my face with a gentle soap in the evening and moisturise after. Sometimes I rinse my face with water in the morning. Perfect skin. Not oily, not dry, just clear and even. Now, I can sleep with makeup on and not wash my face for two days and get the teeniest pimple that disappears after a day.

I even took a two year hiatus from the pill, but my skin just gradually got worse and nothing I did fixed it, not even the exact same skin care routine.

So don't you think you're special for having nice skin compared to women; you have stable hormones throughout the month, we don't.

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no no, you're very wrong. the free radicals are the problem, they cause the damage. they're the oxidative stress that ages you, and not just your skin. the sun ages and damages your skin dna strands, staying in direct sunlight without protection increases the UVA rays damage and creates all sort of skin problems and notably skin cancer.

Meant "antioxidants" which are the opposite of free radicals.

sweat does clog pores. it creates an occlusive layer of water, salt and bacteria that adds onto the natural oil of your skin, dead skin cells and dirt that sits on your skin, thus clogging your pores.

So it's not really the sweat, but gross dirty skin that's the problem.

skin is very related to diet but most of its appearance is genes and how good they are at self regulating it.

Uh, no. This sounds similar to when people blame their weight on their genes rather than their unhealthy lifestyle and general ignorance about how their own bodies work. "Genes" are the magical scapegoat for "I don't know why my skin is so dry and itchy all the time" despite not sweating or eating a healthy diet, or "I don't know why I'm so fat" despite eating more than they need without realizing it.

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well antioxidants are different yes, but still don't protect the skin from the sun bc oxidation is only one issue provoked by the sun. DNA damage is the biggest one.

no the sweat is the problem. as you know, oil and water dont mix. your skin has a natural oily layer and on that layer, throughout the day, you get the growth of both good and bad skin bacteria and air dust that is inevitable settles on that oil layer. when you sweat a lot, you trap that oil and bacteria, so the only way for the bacteria to grow is by getting into the pores instead for spreading out and up. that's why working out can increase breakouts and washing your face before and after helps but it doesn't change the fact that sweat increases the risk of breakouts.

yeah, except that's not the same thing. weight is manageable and controllable despite bad genes that slow down your metabolism. skincare is mostly managing the skin your genes give you and unlike weight control, there's only so much diet and moisture can do. for some people, maintaining or reaching good skin only takes soap and water for some others it takes harsh medications and 10 steps routines to not make it awful.

if your skin is naturally overly oily and acne prone, it's going to be very very hard and expensive to reach the clear skin someone else might just be born with.

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well antioxidants are different yes, but still don't protect the skin from the sun bc oxidation is only one issue provoked by the sun. DNA damage is the biggest one.

There are other vitamins and minerals and antioxidants that the body creates to protect the cells from DNA and other types of damage, so as long as you're getting a varied diet with your vitamins and minerals, you're really buying into the beauty industry's fearmongering propaganda about the sun and sweat being bad for you so they can sell you some special lotion or skin cleanser.

no the sweat is the problem. as you know, oil and water dont mix. your skin has a natural oily layer and on that layer, throughout the day, you get the growth of both good and bad skin bacteria and air dust that is inevitable settles on that oil layer. when you sweat a lot, you trap that oil and bacteria, so the only way for the bacteria to grow is by getting into the pores instead for spreading out and up. that's why working out can increase breakouts and washing your face before and after helps but it doesn't change the fact that sweat increases the risk of breakouts.

So is this a permanent health issue, or just a temporary one? Freaking out and saying "0h n0ez, a bweakout!!!! My fwawess skinz!!!" over a few blemishes that will go away isn't as big a problem as you seem to think it is.

yeah, except that's not the same thing. weight is manageable and controllable despite bad genes that slow down your metabolism. skincare is mostly managing the skin your genes give you and unlike weight control, there's only so much diet and moisture can do. for some people, maintaining or reaching good skin only takes soap and water for some others it takes harsh medications and 10 steps routines to not make it awful.

So why is it that guys who exercise and wash their face with the same thing they use to wash their asscracks with have just as good of skin as women who don't do anything all day except sit inside and use their skin products? Is it because of genes? Magical ball sweat?

The people who have to use medications and 10 step routines might be doing so because they're not doing something, or doing something wrong. I knew a guy whose family had horrible skin because they were all lactose intolerant but chose to continue eating dairy products anyway. That's the type of ignorant stuff I imagine when I hear these things.

if your skin is naturally overly oily and acne prone, it's going to be very very hard and expensive to reach the clear skin someone else might just be born with.

-OR-

It might just take some time to figure out the problem and adjust your diet and hygiene routines accordingly. The beauty industry is only trying to sell you expensive shit on purpose by making you think you need it.

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it's not beauty industry propaganda since it is solved by staying out of the sun and avoiding leaving sweat on your face, no magical product needed. most of the skin industry lives on cosmetic elegance propaganda. but the sun damage and sun impact is literally scientific facts. there is no diet or special vitamin that will protect you, your skin and dna from the sun, it's been proven as being responsible for most of the skin aging and skin cancer is currently a big issue since tanning used tobe and still kinda is very popular.

yes it's because of genes. first of all female and male skin are kinda different, male skin is thicker and less prone to fluctuations and female skin is heavily influenced by menstrual cycles. so while a dude can wash his face with his 4 in 1 soap shampoo and come out of the month with a pimple or two, that might only work for 1 week of the month for the woman.

a lot of acne issues are really rooted in genes. some people are born with overactive sebaceous glands and that doesn't have any link to a magic elimination diet, their glands overproduce oil and they need to manage it either with meds or products and no diet change can work as well as getting to that root cause.

again the beauty industry live off cosmetic elegance selling points. treating acne can be really cheap but it takes a good derm and a few tries to get the right treatment and that costs adds up. and tbh if skin issues were really as simple as diet change and miracle vitamins and weren't majorly determined by genetics, being a dermatologist wouldn't take years of training like that.

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I have a plethora of degrees, and a plethora of pinatas. Pinatas are more fun.

As someone who associates with people with a lot of degrees, you can tell the insecure ones because they will tell you what degrees they have, they use the degree as proof of competence because they don't have any real competence.

About the only time I bring mine up is online and usually when someone thinks I need to be "educated" on a subject I have a degree in, usually by someone who has nothing but a YahooPhD in the material. And that being said I know many people without formal degrees who are very good in subjects because they study them like a hobby. You can be an a least learned on many topics by just reading few hours a night on it provided you have the intelligence to understand it.

Hell I'm slightly embarrassed when people use my honorific of "doctor" and I have a low opinion of my colleagues who insist on it as I don't know any of that type who are any good.

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Yeah totally got to flex on the NEETs and Spergs on Reddit for validation and attention-seeking, because you feel too inadequate of a person yourself.

I know people who are much more successful than you are, and they aren't on Reddit 12 hours a day like you are. They also would not care in the slightest for validation from some random dipshit on Reddit. It's like the average person going up to a hobo and saying, "Hey, I got $100 hahaha". Are you sure you're not just LARPing as someone you WISH you were? Because I could think of about a dozen more interesting things to be doing with all that free time you have if you have the kind of money you claim you have.

Btw, you're getting DOMS, but you're apparently super fit and active and have been lifting for a while? It's entertaining how absolutely clueless you are. You're weak as fuck.

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They've confused and mixed loyalty with faithfulness, when these are pretty different things especially in dating context. One can be loyal and not faithful or the other way around and it doesn't really depend on one's gender. There are open relationships, people with cuckold kink, people who faithful but don't really support their partner or would leave them over financial issues etc.

I can't consider women, who agree with being "taken care for" and tolerate him having other sexual partners because they get financial support, anyone but gold diggers.

I also agree with the woman who said that women can take care of themselves now.

It's also hilarious to listen to him talking about Russian mafia. Most people here aren't criminals and most men can't provide for a whole family. Being faithful is a requirement here, it isn't really different from the West at least in this regard.

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I'll just copy paste my other comment if you don't mind:

The reasons can be divided into two groups - sentimental and legal.

Even non-religious people who don't intend to have children can value marriage and find it important and meaningful. It's a traditional and accepted way to prove one's intentions and confirm your desire to spend quite a long time with each other. Also a way to confirm your relationships in the eyes of all your close ones.

It's also pretty much the only way to make the law see your couple as a family and treat you accordingly to it. Medical complications, inheritance, tax benefits, visas, mortgage, job benefits etc.

And, well, I think most people think they don't get divorced or they're okay with the risks and ready to take them. We usually date and initiate relationships not exactly because we think that they'll last. We hope they'll do.

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Y'all can't handle this Y'all don't know what's about to happen baby Team 10 Los Angeles, Cali boy But I'm from Ohio though, white boy

It's everyday bro, with the Disney Channel flow 5 mill on YouTube in 6 months, never done before Passed all the competition man, PewDiePie is next Man I'm poppin' all these checks, got a brand new Rolex And I met a Lambo too and I'm coming with the crew This is Team 10, bitch, who the hell are flippin' you? And you know I kick them out if they ain't with the crew Yeah, I'm talking about you, you beggin' for attention Talking shit on Twitter too but you still hit my phone last night It was 4:52 and I got the text to prove And all the recordings too, don't make me tell them the truth And I just dropped some new merch and it's selling like a god, church Ohio's where I'm from, we chew 'em like it's gum We shooting with a gun, the tattoo just for fun I Usain Bolt and run, catch me at game one I cannot be outdone, Jake Paul is number one It's everyday bro It's everyday bro It's everyday bro I said it is everyday bro! You know it's Nick Crompton and my collar stay poppin' Yes, I can rap and no, I am not from Compton England is my city And if it weren't for Team 10, then the US would be shitty I'll pass it to Chance 'cause you know he stay litty Two months ago you didn't know my name And now you want my fame? Bitch I'm blowin' up I'm only going up, now I'm going off, I'm never fallin' off Like Mag, who? Digi who? Who are you? All these beefs I just ran through, hit a milli in a month Where were you? Hatin' on me back in West Fake You need to get your shit straight Jakey brought me to the top, now we're really poppin' off Number one and number four, that's why these fans all at our door It's lonely at the top so we all going We left Ohio, now the trio is all rollin' It's Team 10, bitch We back again, always first, never last We the future, we'll see you in the past It's everyday bro It's everyday bro It's everyday bro I said it is everyday bro! Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on (espera) Can we switch the language? (Ha, ya tú sabes) We 'bout to hit it (dale) Sí, lo único que quiero es dinero Trabajando en YouTube todo el día entero Viviendo en U.S.A, el sueño de cualquiera Enviando dólares a mi familia entera Tenemos una persona por encima Se llama Donald Trump y está en la cima Desde aquí te cantamos can I get my VISA? Martinez Twins, representando España Desde la pobreza a la fama It's everyday bro It's everyday bro It's everyday bro I said it is everyday bro! Yo, it's Tessa Brooks The competition shook These guys up on me I got 'em with the hook Lemme educate ya' And I ain't talking book Panera is your home? So, stop calling my phone I'm flyin' like a drone They buying like a loan Yeah, I smell good Is that your boy's cologne? Is that your boy's cologne? Started balling', quicken Loans Now I'm in my flippin' zone Yes, they all copy me But, that's some shitty clones Stay in all designer clothes And they ask me what I make I said is 10 with six zeros Always plug, merch link in bio And I will see you tomorrow 'cause it's everyday bro Peace Ya tú sabes baby, Jake Paul

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I remember cardi b said one of the problems she had in the strip club was that strippers who would fuck for money on the side. Like girls would go in the back and offer dudes sex for money. “I’ll give you head for 100 dollars”. The whole point is that you’re getting guys to give you money without fucking them, lol if you gonna fuck em anyway might as well just go out on the corner. Those guys would come back the next week and expect every girl to do the same thing. And some of these dudes can be violent/drunk and won’t take no for an answer.

Also strip clubs would take the cutest girls and put them up front as bartenders. The bartenders would wear skimy sexy outfits serving drinks to the point where dudes would spend all the night at the bar throwing them money, not the strippers. Many of these girls have their own following and were big on social media. So there would be war between the bartenders or “star tenders” and strippers in the same club.

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Most black women who grew up hood-adjacent or grew up in the hood and left, don’t like the term. That isn’t a dislike we learned from Reddit or Twitter.

Meaning, growing up, guys used female/females as a placeholder for more unsavory words but the sentiment was still bitch/ho/slut/harpy/or something othering.

9/10 was used synonymously with “bitch” “ho” “slut.”

“You females do this or that.”

It was his way of saying “you bitches” without pissing off his grandmom.

Also, women didn’t call men “males” in the same way. So it always sounded like something men called women, but I never heard women use males like that.

This isn’t a thing outside of these circles. Obviously military, scientists, researchers, and lots of people use male and female to mean men and women.

But if a woman claims she doesn’t like it’s because of how’s she’s been socialized with the word, where no one used male/males in casual convo, but lots of folks used female/females, and when they did, the sentiment was unsavory.

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I’m actually black and from the culture and areas I brought up. So yeah it’s very much a thing for the specific subset of black women I’m referencing (ones familiar with hood culture; or from it but left). Not liking “female” was made a thing by women on the black side of Twitter. The threads went viral and the cause got picked up by white liberals. I’m not even sure the white liberals know the context I just explained.

But yes that is why “femalesssss” is triggering to those women. It was mostly used as a pejorative growing up. And I have never heard “male” or “males” used like that growing up or ever. Except for on FDS. And they do it as a “gotcha” to the men who only use female but never male to describe someone.

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I’m realizing more and more how much of manospherian speak is “macho black American male lingo” from my childhood. From “simps” to “femalesssss.”

It’s like black male culture goes viral on the manosphere and black female/ black gays inspire what goes viral on Twitter/Vine/Tik Tok/etc.

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Its common for a reason because most of these tik tok women are below 25. Most young women usually go to college or work in entry level jobs. Because of this, we usually don't have any clue about what young women's actual preferences are.

But most women beyond that age who we all interact with on a regular basis will primarily use sex to try and fish out relationships from guys they want. And they usually fizzle out by the time they hit their late 20's or mid 30's thanks to female hypergamy that instinctively chooses non commitment oriented men for commitment. (not saying older female hoes don't exist though. They do, but they comparatively dowplay their hoe behavior)

This is why most people, even other women assume women in general are in it for commitment.

This tiktok girl (who I assume is below 25 years old) is just a alpha widow in making. By the time she hits 30 or 35, I bet $10 that she will start to bitch and whine about how guys don't take her seriously anymore and how they treat her like a piece of nice ass and where are all the "gentlemen" to """save""" her sorry ass, etc etc.

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The ppl who claim they want “100% transparency and 100% honesty” are in denial or completely oblivious to how many “soft white fibs” they experience throughout their life that make their day more “swell.”

My dad would die a slow death if my mom was “100% honest and 100% transparent” in how she communicated with him. Her “sweet nothings” and “pleasantries” uplifts everyone’s mood in the house. No one enjoys explicit “hard truths” 24/7. And men ESPECIALLY can’t handle it when it comes from women. More importantly, highlighting certain things benefits no one and is only done as a compulsory and undisciplined idiosyncrasy of improper socialization.

This side of Reddit is full of humans who have no semblance of basic pleasant interaction, nor can they fathom how much they actually benefit or could potentially benefit from it.

Sorry for the rant. This sub’s lean feels more stark today than other days 😂😩

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Women are delusional thinking that being tall for men isn't a colossal advantage.

Although the majority of women don't have strong height fetishes (i.e. women who think a tall guy with a below average face is a 7.5+), they exist and in high enough quantities (estimate: 20% of women) that most tall men can get laid easily. The demand for tall men greatly exceeds the supply. In most environments, there will be many more female height fetishizers than tall men, so in most environments, a tall man will be guaranteed multiple available women who are strongly into them based on looks alone. The tall guy just has to walk up and not mess it up by talking too much.

Tall men can't sleep with any women of their choosing because the majority of women don't fetishize height, but they can easily find an attractive woman to sleep with. The latter would be considered a superpower to most average men. Women who are height fetishizers are fairly diverse and desirable, and even attractive UMC women fetishize height.

The problem for average men is that they never get past the 7.5/10+ looks threshold with any women, so with all woman they talk to, they will always have to compensate by being a dancing monkey for hours to generate the same attraction that the tall men got for free. While the tall men just have to find the height fetishizers that are an almost guaranteed lay, average men always have to be a dancing monkey for hours to prove himself to even get attention and dates (nevermind sex). If you're an average man and don't enjoy being a dancing monkey and proving yourself to women, dating won't be fun for you.

Also, height > face because women all have the same standards for height (tall is always tall) but different standards for face. Even if you have an objectively 8/10 face, only a small subset of women will be attracted to your type. However note that these differing standards are no solace to average men: the differing tastes can't push an average man up from 6/10 to 8/10. It's only for differentiating between men who are already attractive.

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CMV: Men being "gatekeepers of commitment" is apex fallacy, a small amount of attractive men have high standards for commitment because they have an abundance of options.

But average and ugly men are just as, if not more lonely and desperate for non-sexual emotional intimacy as women. And commitment minded average and below will usually lock themselves into a relationship with the first non-crazy average (and I don't mean incel standards of average, I mean overweight frumpy frizzy haired mediocre skinned girls) who comes along.

The two people who argue against this are femcels/femcel supporters who will find any excuse to feel bad for themselves/other women, or TERPs who refuse to acknowledge that men don't have as much negotiating power as they'd like, their sole reason for refusing to see the truth being that it scares the living shit out of them.

Probably gonna make this a real thread later but I'm too busy right now to consistently reply to counte rarguments.

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Matching personality is just a baseline requirement to making a relationship a lasting prospects; those are plenty...

I think you’re wrong on this one. I also think this is why a lot of relationships and marriages don’t last.

Most people put an emphasis on looks and hope friendship, compatibility falls into place. Also why “nice guys finish last”. These sort of personality characteristics, friendships aren’t as important initially.

During the honeymoon phase you can overlook these red flag incompatibility, low character traits, meh friendship baseline. As the relationship continues into its true form then you’ll see the couple start to waver until their sick of each other and the initial looks can’t compensate for their flaws.

Some women do this all the time. Go for the more attractive guy who has character flaws because as you’d say finding friendship is “plenty”. Women hope their friendship and his character improves with time. It often doesn’t and these women end up hurt when the guy doesn’t change.

It’s like accepting a white collar job (baseline) that pays you a ton of money. You’ll like it at first but realize the organization is bad, co-workers are lazy, the commute is horrible and you have no work-life balance. You either continue to suffer or find something a little more sustainable. This new job doesn’t pay a good amount but not like the first job. This position has lot of the amenities you were looking for. Good culture, good work life balance, good benefits, etc. Most people end up taking job #1 first.

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people say that, but others’ experiences seem to show that outliers are everywhere.

even if it’s a statistical outlier, there’s so many people in the world that the “outlier” would still include a lot of people. there are literally billions of people in the world, even 1% of that is a lot of people. if i’m surrounded by “outliers,” how much of an exception can they really be in the grand scheme of things?

and even then, these statistics don’t show that women wouldn’t ever date men with traits that aren’t conventionally attractive. just because you find exceptionally attractive people to be attractive (like most people do, regardless of gender) doesn’t mean you can’t also find average people attractive too, these things aren’t mutually exclusive.

men sit on this app gaslighting women all damn day, but it’s only a problem when it’s being done to y’all. don’t like the gaslighting? then maybe stop telling women what they like, how they feel, and what they experience.

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Okay, I'll bite. What do you mean by shorter women?

shorter women? i wasn’t talking about shorter women, is this a typo?

Even if it is 1% (realistically it's more like .00001%), you're not factoring in the fact it's very unlikely you'll ever run into said person even if it is a large number of people by large quantities.

this is still just speculation, because there’s really no way for you to truly quantify this. it could be 5% or 10% or .0000002% for all we know. there’s almost 8 billion people in the world, that percentage still counts a lot of people.

and, like i said, if a person is running into multiple people who fit the description of what’s supposed to be “the exception;” then how can it really be an exception? unless you mean to tell me the exceptions mostly tend to happen in specific areas (which is hard for me to believe when discussing something like height).

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Damn 😤, that’s pretty 👰 poggers 😎💅 to be honest 😇! Sounds 🔊 like 💖 one ☝ bloody 💉 hell 😈👿 of a fun 😃🐟😂 time ⏰ your 👈 having! Anyways 💁 unfortunately 😯 for me it’s a school 🎓 night 🌑, and like 👍 all 💯 m’fellow good 🐟🍜 boys 👦 i 👁 feel 😜 like 😄 it’s best 👌 that I 👁 start 💢 getting 🉐😒 to bed 🛌 as it’s getting 🉐🏡 quite 📺 late 💤💨 and I 👁 have to be up ⬆ in exactly 👌 6 🕕 1/2 🍆 hours 😞😳 from now, as that’s the responsible 👍 thing 📴 to do, (i 👁 hope 🙏 your 👉 proud 😤 of my well-being 💅👅💄 centered 🎯 decision 👯 making 🖕, I’m working 😩😫💪 hard 😫🍆 on 🔛 changing 📈 my bad 👎🔚 habits 😵 UwU 😍). It was truly 💯 an honor 👑 to talk 💬 to such a fine 💯👌😩 lady 👩 like 💖 yourself even 🌃 if for such a short 👖 amount 💯 of time ⏰, and i 👁 hope 🙏 we can continue ⏩ this fine 👌 conversation 🤐 some time ⏰ soon 🔜 and possibly 🤔 even 🌃 have a joint-gaming session 🔵😇😥 (wouldn’t that be quite 📺 wholsome100!). Anyways 🔛 I 👥 guess 🤔💭 I’ll just say 💬 goodnight 🚫 now, After 2️⃣ all 💯 i’ve been rambling 😧 for quite ✅ a while now. Goodnight 🚫 my Queen 👑, I 👁 wish 🙏 you 👈 the most perfect 💯 sleep 😴. UwU 😍

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I’m still dying at the idea that paying for sex is more efficient/cheaper than dating. It would be one thing if you paid 300 bucks and you got access to some girls body unlimited for the near future. Like a one time fee, but that’s not what it is, It’s 300 for each time.

Me and my GF have been dating since January. If I had to pay her 300 each time I had sex with her I’d be like 40,000 in the whole right now 🤣. Like when she comes over Friday we usually have sex multiple times that night. So it’s 300 for the first hour/session. Take a break, then another 300 for round 2, what about the blowjob to wake me up for the third session? 100? It just doesn’t make sense.

Also remember the average dude in America is living paycheck to paycheck with no real savings. You spending 1,000 a week on sex? You don’t have 1,000 in your bank account right now

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As many others have said LTR cost a lot. You might not pay it when you ride her off the lot, but the monthly payments in the future are a killer. The sex generally dwindles as the relationship goes on and looks fade. That $40,000 a year valuation could depreciate to $4000 or $400 in a decade or so. But the costs usually stay the same if not rise.

Of course you can never enter a LTR. Only fuck with women that are "finding herself." In which case you get the $40,000 worth of sex a year for however may years she is good for, and leave some BetaBux to pay the bills later on. Casual sex and short term relationships are the ideal TRP strives for after all. Its just hard to achieve and even harder to maintain. About as hard as working for the money to just pay for it all.

Also remember the average dude in America is living paycheck to paycheck with no real savings.

There is so much to unpack here. The reason the average American man has no money isn't that he doesn't earn enough to save, its that he doesn't try to save. People in China have a savings rate 10x of Americans while making a fraction of what Americans make. Saving money can be done and is easy, the average American just chooses not to do it. In a lot of cases, spent on going out and dating.

I think there is also some sort of a cause and effect reversal here. To you, it looks like people are poor so it is more effective to date than to pay for sex. But it could easily be that its because they chose to date instead of taking the more effective way of paying for sex that they stay so poor. Its a vicious cycle, a man spends all his efforts on dating for sex, so he neglects to save money, and because he neglected to save money, he needs to spend all his efforts dating for sex.

With money things work differently. The more you have of it the more it works for you. After you hit a critical threshold, you can have enough earned in dividends to pay for the rest of your life, let alone sex. You can sit back, relax, have enjoy having your cock sucked without lifting a finger ever again. This simply can not be done with casual dating. At best you rinse and repeat, and put in all the effort to date a new girl all over again. At worse you start balding, the younger girls see you as a boomer, and you basically hit the male equivalent of the wall where no amount of effort would get a woman to want to fuck you.

Of all the issues I have with your mentality though, it is that to you making enough money to pay for sex is hard. It is certainly not easy, but its no harder than dating. Put in some extra effort to get a STEM degree instead of gender studies, or do a coding boot camp if you already graduated, its doesn't take that much more time than learning game. You can do 12 hour shifts instead of the usual 8. Pretending to work for a few hours while surfing reddit is no harder than pretending to give a shit about what the thot is on about while at the bar.

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This is a pretty one sided take. I guess having a girlfriend is “unlimited” sex until it isn’t. The average amount of sex between married couples is once per week. Maybe 2-3 times a week for the average younger couple.

Then you have to factor in how much you spend on your partner. Not just with money but with your time and attention. There are also ups and downs in relationships. Shocking I know. You have to be deal with someone else 24/7. Their mood, life changes, etc. Throw in all the dates, vacations, gifts, money you wouldn’t have spend otherwise, it can add up. Thousands a year. Women aren’t “high maintenance” anymore. Men are just “low effort” so you will be spending these days.

If you take all this into account and more which I probably missed. Just paying for it may be a better option especially if you’re older and have extra money. This doesn’t need to be a everyday thing, but a concoction of solutions. Paid sex, w/e casual sex you get, porn. Using all 3 in combination to satisfy you and spend all that extra time and peace of mind on yourself.

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Why would I find a partner when I can just pay?

I wouldn’t say that I tend to spend more than he does.

I don’t think any woman would ever admit to spending more than their husband even when it’s clear as day. Also depends on how much each of you are contributing.

You’re also looking at this strictly from a financial perspective. Some men don’t want to deal with a woman. Burdened by a relationship just to have sex. Some men want to have sex and use their free time on themselves. Sleep in their own bed alone. Enjoy their life without the thought of someone else.

I’m sure you were in the prostitution/sex trafficking post today. Women never give an ounce of thought towards other women and sex trafficking until prostitution is brought up. Then they pull every statistic they can find from the world encyclopedia to defend their position. As I said, I think it’s pretty fake. I think women know sex is their main value above all else. If I’m wrong, women shouldn’t need to defend the position they like do, but they defend it like they’ll become obsolete if they don’t.

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Nah, I'm not saying that you should look for a partner if you don't want to. It's all about your own preferences.

We have similar income and we track our spending. Plus, we don't have a lot of different categories to spend money on. Women usually spend more on clothes and makeup, but I'm not into either of these things.

I'm talking about financial side, because the phrase is mostly about finances. And yes, I'm against prostitution, always was, because where I live there aren't these fancy sex workers who choose their clients and live in a penthouse. There are women who got involved into it when they were underage and it's the only thing they know. Women who lived in orphanages and got molested and pimped there. Women with addictions who do everything to get some more. Trafficked women. Girls who ran away from home and got to a pimp. Girls who thought they were going to work a waitress, but got into prostitution.

Also when I was a teen stories about women who found a job in a foreign country but got trafficked were really common, so, of course, it gave me a bias again prostitution of any kind. And there are studies and stats supporting my view.

And I wouldn't mind if men suddenly stopped considering sex that important. Sex robots, medicaments or whatever. As long as it doesn't involve exploitation of women.

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Not funny I didn't laugh. Your joke is so bad I would have preferred the joke went over my head and you gave up re-telling me the joke. To be honest this is a horrid attempt at trying to get a laugh out of me. Not a chuckle, not a hehe, not even a subtle burst of air out of my esophagus. Science says before you laugh your brain preps your face muscles but I didn't even feel the slightest twitch. 0/10 this joke is so bad I cannot believe anyone legally allowed you to be creative at all. The amount of brain power you must have put into that joke has the potential to power every house on Earth. Get a personality and learn how to make jokes, read a book. I'm not saying this to be funny I genuinely mean it on how this is just bottom barrel embarrassment at comedy. You've single handedly killed humor and every comedic act on the planet. I'm so disappointed that society has failed as a whole in being able to teach you how to be funny. Honestly if I put in all my power and time to try and make your joke funny it would require Einstein himself to build a device to strap me into so I can be connected to the energy of a billion stars to do it, and even then all that joke would get from people is a subtle scuff. You're lucky I still have the slightest of empathy for you after telling that joke otherwise I would have committed every war crime in the book just to prevent you from attempting any humor ever again. We should put that joke in text books so future generations can be wary of becoming such an absolute comedic failure. Im disappointed, hurt, and outright offended that my precious time has been wasted in my brain understanding that joke. In the time that took I was planning on helping kids who have been orphaned, but because of that you've wasted my time explaining the obscene integrity of your terrible attempt at comedy. Now those kids are suffering without meals and there's nobody to blame but you. I hope you're happy with what you have done and I truly hope you can move on and learn from this piss poor attempt

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WOW kid you just got r/WOOOOOOSHED!!!! 😂😂👀

"Wooosh" means you didn't get the joke, as in the sound made when the joke "woooshes" over your head. I bet you're too stupid to get it, IDIOT!! 😤😤😂

His joke was so thoughtfully crafted and took him a total of like 3 minutes, you SHOULD be laughing. 🤬 What's that? His joke is bad? I think that's just because you failed. He outsmarted you, nitwit.🤭

In conclusion, I am posting this to the community known as "R/Wooooosh" to claim my internet points in your embarrassment 😏. Imbecile. The Germans refer to this action as "Schadenfreude," which means "harm-joy" 😬😲. WOW! 🤪 Another reference I had to explain to you. 🤦‍♂️🤭 I am going to cease this conversation for I do not converse with simple minded persons.😏😂

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Troll? Is that what you think I am? snort Pull up a chair bud and I'll tell you about trolls. The real trolls are the guys who tried shooting me down when I was in Iraq. Desert Storm my friend. That's right, I was dodging scud missles at 25,000 feet while you were still poopin' in your nappies. Why? Because I'm a patriot. Proud to be American and not afraid to say it even in today's PC police climate. When I go to my 6 figure a year job, I drive 12 tons of cold rolled American steel my friend. None of that Asian or Mexican overseas stuff neither. All made in the USA parts. Because I love this country. It's treated me well, given me a chance to use my IQ of 157 to make something of myself. And I've taken that opportunity and run with it because I'm a man. A real man from an era when men were men and females were females. So next time you call someone a troll, think about who's out there fighting to protect your ability to play keyboard cowboy. It's the people you look down upon and call "troll". We're done here my man, capiche?

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I'm 100% atheist.

To be honest, I wasn't fan of any of the horror movies by A24 that I've watched (Saint Maud, Hereditary, It Comes At Night).

In regards to Saint Maud, I thought the movie was incredibly boring. The movie lacks any suspense, it is quite predictable and there's nothing much going on. Maud's actions are incoherent - one moment she acts pious and ultra-religious, and immediately after she decides to be a local hoe. None of the characters are likable at all, and for whatever reason all male characters are portrayed as bad guys. The only nice thing was the scene where she burns but it wasn't a surprise at all.

Whereas Hereditary had some redeeming features, Saint Maud had none.

And for the reference, of the recent horror movies I watched my top 1 is Autopsy of Jane Doe, and 2nd is It Follows.

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but it's not that she can push her baby back.

Yeah, you don't get a do-over.

I think something most people don't consider is that your kid is an entirely separate person who will develop his/her own ideas and preferences, which may not mesh with yours. For instance, /u/Reluctantly-Red has written about how his parents were back-to-the land hippies in the '70s, but he evidently grew up hating the lifestyle and resenting his parents for forcing him to live on a hobby farm in the sticks. Now, imagine you're living your dream but it isn't your kid's dream and he/she constantly shits all over it? How much fun would THAT be?

I think this happens fairly often ... parents are all excited about introducing their kid to the things they, the parents, love, but the kid is usually at best "Meh" about it. Meanwhile the kid is interested in something the parent(s) couldn't care less about but are forced to indulge or risk looking like a bad parent.

Even if your kid is perfectly normal, things can still go horribly awry, and as you say, once you'd had that kid and decided to keep it, you have to play the cards you've been dealt. You can't easily get rid of an older kid that you don't want (as my own parents found out, much to their chagrin, lol).

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Confidence is like Faith

No. Faith is a belief. Confidence is more like a certainty.

you have to have an abundance of it in order for it to mean something but it can't be artificially created.

Its not an object. It comes from your own sense of certainty about life and yourself, so if you meant that it doesn't come or cannot come from you, you would be wrong.

I'm a person that has faith in nothing so everything that I believe in comes from evidence or reasoning .

If you have no faith in yourself then you won't have any confidence. Confidence isn't like courage. It's not doing something that you're not sure whether you can do or want to do. No amount of courage or confidence is going to allow you to jump over a house, for example. It can, however, make you feel more secure in yourself that being judged by others won't affect you, so you can comfortably be who you are around them.

Most people are like that when it comes to confidence we can't just believe that they're good or that they're great based off of nothing things need a factual basis.

Confidence doesn't come from believing, so simply believing something that you know isn't true would probably end with you looking like a fool, and I think thats how it usually goes, so don't do anything until you know that you will be fine in doing it. That, of course, isnt an excuse to not do anything that you don't want to do.

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I’m not being slow you’re just being a dumbass.

It would have to happen for multiple generations AND the kids would have to add back into the accumulated assets. But that’s not how most wealthy families operate. Most generational wealth happens like:

Person A gets rich => their kids inherit the wealth and add to it => kid’s kids inherit and add (now you have a family where the first cousins are all wealthy) => kid’s kid’s kid’s inherit etc

The reason most wealthy families operate this way is because it’s much easier to ensure your immediate children & grandchildren are smart about the money. Unless all your cousins are business savvy (which I doubt) you’d have to be an idiot to just blindly give them money and assume they’ll accumulate wealth with it.

In fact there’s plenty of old families in the peerage where the descendants are living pretty middle class lifestyles because someone somewhere down the line fucked up their portion of the wealth.

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You're the one who claimed generational wealth can happen by giving money to relatives that aren't direct descendents even though that's NOT what most wealthy families do. Then you tried using Asian families as an example and when I pointed out Asians families aren't building wealth that way, you started spewing a bunch of unrelated BS.

Asians tend to start family businesses jews buy up entire neighborhoods and put close relatives in houses.

Yeah when the come from ALREADY RICH families. And they start businesses with their SIBLINGS and the businesses are inherited by their KIDS. No one gives money to their cousins expecting to build generational wealth. You are making a fool of yourself by talking about things you clearly have no idea about. Calling other people autistic isn’t going to make you seem any less dumb.

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Americans crow about freedom all the time but once you live here you discover there are actually far more regulations governing far more aspects of your life in the USA. If you need one regulator to sign off on something in Canada you can be sure you'll need at least five in the USA. Closing on a house in Alberta took only a handful of signatures. When I closed on my first American house in Portland Oregon I was signing document after document for over an hour. The new house in Portland and the old house in Edmonton were of similar value. However, I soon discovered that American Property taxes are at least double Canadian property taxes, and American home insurance costs many times more expensive.

Getting permission to build a house on land you own was far easier in Alberta.

Unless your idea of freedom is riding around armed to the teeth with semiautomatic weapons you have more freedom in Canada. Even then, in Alberta, we used to park our pickup trucks in front of the high school with shotguns in the gun rack during duck season and rifles during deer season.

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The whole healthcare thing seems like a total riot. Turning healthcare into something to profit from is nothing short of disgusting. Also they have some of worst maternal mortality rates in the developed world due to too much intervention during birth - which essentially just seems like a way to add more lines to the invoice regardless of whether it might kill a mother and/or child.

Guns and all that associated crappiness including from police.

All the nutcases who care more about "muh freedom" than anything else. We're starting to get more of that here unfortunately as well but it doesn't seem anywhere near as bad as the US. Although just had an election and the number of flyers I got through for single issue parties who basically just wanted to end mask-wearing, with literally no other policy, was just ridiculous 🤦 If you want the government to have no influence over your life then go live off the grid, no money, no power, no healthcare, no car.

Also the incredibly batshit approach to work and money. Why do people work so much? Why do they have such an aversion to holidays? I don't want to live somewhere I might get 2 week's holiday that I'm strongly discouraged from taking plus 3 "sick days". I have more than 8 weeks holiday this year and I intend to use all of it, and if I got ill I'd have 6 months full pay, 6 months half pay for sickness. Meaning, I'm not going to suddenly get fired if I develop a health condition.

And food. Lower food standards, lower animal welfare standards. The "chocolate" is a hideous affront to chocolate, why does the bread have SO much sugar in it??

Oh and it seems that you need a car for basically everything. From my house I'm within walking distance of a national park, supermarkets, butcher, doctor, pharmacist etc. I've got direct public transport links to two major cities. My friends who are there just now live in a city (Houston) and say it's basically impossible to get anywhere on foot, everything is so far away you need to drive. They love hiking and adventuring and hate the fact they now need to drive at least an hour or so before they can do that.

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Mostly political. There’s obamacare and aca

These things apparently don't cover everything though and you're in shit if you get something long term. I've read lots of personal stories from people on this and I think those that think it's "mostly political" are just lucky enough to have not been in the situation where they were underinsured or had something not covered etc.

Hard to hunt without a gun

People hunt here but we don't have the gun problems the US has. The issue is obviously not people hunting.

Personal choices.. average homes are huge. I bought a small place and retired at 40

But how much did you need to work prior to 40 to achieve that? You still don't have nearly sufficient holiday entitlement/sick pay etc. Besides which, as far as I recall you don't have kids. Sometimes people need more space depending on circumstances. Besides which, you might live in a city or somewhere more expensive where you can only afford a studio or something shitty but still need to work loads, and you can't move because you need to live where the work is etc.

You get what you pay for. It’s extremely easy to get fresh meat and eggs from local farmers

If you live near local farms. If you don't, if you're poor, don't have a car etc. You're stuck with whatever shitty processed options you have.

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Meh, you can find personal stories gripeing about healthcare from every country. It’s not really an issue for most

It's an issue for many, particularly poorer people.

I live in a state where most people have guns and no license is required to carry one. I rarely see violent crime. It’s very safe.

Most people rarely see violent crime. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Regardless of whether you see it or not, the US has appalling gun crime stats.

You can also get quality food at most grocery stores. Sure it’s not as cheap, but the cheap food is redicoulsly cheap.

A few years ago I spent 6 weeks travelling around the US. I went to many supermarkets all around the country and decent food was hard to find and very expensive - in my experience it's cheaper to eat out in the US than it is to buy relatively healthy food from a supermarket. I could get a burrito from taco bell for like $1.30 but it would be several times the price to get something of a decent quality. Again, this is an issue for poorer people or people that live in places where it's harder to get access to decent food.

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On the other hand if you have less kids you wind up with your eggs in fewer basket (an idiom sorry if it doesn't work) which means if one or two of those baskets/people fail you have less chances of success. Would you rather roll the dice more times with worse odds or fewer times with better odds? This can also have a negative effect on the fewer children as well because they experience much greater pressure from their parents as we have seen among Asian immigrants in America and some Asian families in Asia. Personally this is one of those times where I am not going to blame someone for their choice because both options have problems and I am not the one in their shoes experiencing what they are experiencing. I know what I personally think is right, but I am not them. People tend to take the path of the least resistance that they consider to have better odds which means we have to shape the system so the option we want them to pick is the path of the least resistance.

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Best reply:

High inhibition, risk averse men who don’t like to socialize use the idea of self improvement as a way to postpone putting themselves out there. A lot of these guys have bought into the idea that, if you’re not a rich tall millionaire, then women will have to thrown in prison for chatting with them. That’s extremely unrealistic, but they are accurately communicating how scared they are of social rejection and flirting with women. They are afraid of approaching women in person, so instead of going after women they want now, they imagine that someday, when they have XYZ money-looks-status, maybe then they will try to get wha they want, but not yet.

If you’re socially awkward and/or introverted, it is way easier and more comfortable to lift weights and buckle down at work/studies than it is to stick your neck out and socialize with women.

So to answer your question, yes, the manosphere should also help these guys have more realistic standards. Yes, self-improvement is a good idea, but the extensive fear-mongering and claims that women will inevitably cheat unless you’re a 10/10 guy is teaching a lot of guys to wait until some far off someday fantasy rather than helping them more practically.

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Where has it been proven that women hate men showing emotions? They can have issues with that, some don't find it sexually appealing in the moment and some just prefer their men to be always stoic otherwise they lose their attraction (or at least I am told there are women like this).

People should work both on their issues and stress they cause them. Especially when it's chronical stress. Interestingly enough a lot of thing that solve our problems do nothing for our stress, because our body doesn't recognize them as stress-relievers.

And there's something inherently wrong in the idea to keep everything in yourself.

https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-020-2475-y

In adjusted models, greater conformity to violent norms (OR = 1.23, 95% Confidence Interval [CI]: 1.03–1.47) and self-reliance norms (OR = 1.40, 95% CI: 1.15–1.70) was associated with higher odds of reporting suicidal ideation. Greater conformity to norms regarding heterosexuality was associated with reduced odds of reporting suicidal ideation (OR = 0.80, 95% CI: 0.68–0.91).

https://www.healio.com/news/psychiatry/20200212/high-levels-of-masculinity-linked-to-increased-suicide-risk

Men coded as HTM were 2.4 times more likely to die by suicide than those without this designation; however, they found no association between HTM ( рigh traditional masculinity)and suicide attempts. Further, those in the HTM group were slightly more likely to report easy gun access (OR = 1.1; 95% CI, 1.01-1.2) and had modestly lower depression levels.

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okay i used these terms as synonym of unhappiness and happiness...

griddy...thats the conclusion of the study:

We may have suspected it already, but now the science backs it up: unmarried and childless women are the happiest subgroup in the population. And they are more likely to live longer than their married and child-rearing peers, according to a leading expert in happiness.

Sorry to define THE HAPPIEST SUBGROUP in the population as "having a blast", when Paul Dolan, the author of the group imply heavily that they are very happy and that women who are not married are way less happy and live shorter life.

It identified no one as “miserable” or “having a blast” or “living the life.”

I will stick to the script next time, can we now argue about the study which was the main point of my post? like idk you focus on the most useless part lol.

The most important part is the claim that childfree unmarried women are happier than married women with kids, WHICH IS WRONG.

I dont get why you focus on my clickbait tbh?

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You can only help once she figures out what's upsetting her.

uh hello, this is the point. to encourage her to figure out what’s upsetting her. yes you can help her figure out what’s upsetting her, what do you think therapists do for a living?

The idea of being upset and not knowing why and needing another person to investigate potential reasons you could be upset is so freaking female brained it's absolutely foreign to men.

this is literally the reason people go to therapy. last i remember, women aren’t the only people who go to therapy lmfao

Such a childish and narcissistic mindset.

there’s nothing childish or narcissistic about not being sure of your emotions and why you’re feeling them, you just say that about literally any and everything concerning women because you hate them. this isn’t even a gendered thing.

If you're upset for no reason that you can figure out by yourself you need to just drop it

people aren’t usually upset for no reason. i don’t think that’s how emotions work, but okay.

have you ever even been in a ltr?

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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/n7bf87/why_should_a_woman_have_sex_with_you_what_do_you/gxbvy0y/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

Nobody SHOULD do anything, except for follow what they want to do

I see this statement on here a lot(discord and subreddit) that the only thing people should do is what they want to. I do not particularly like this because:

1) There are things I want to do, that I think I should not do. What I wanted to do last night was play Hearthstone until 3:00 AM and eat an entire box of cookies, but I do not think I should do this because I do this for other reasons.

2) We can only see that sometimes what other people want to do, they should not do it. Surely people do not think others should cut themselves, eat junk food, kill others or anything like that simply because they want to.

Anyway that is kind of why I do not like those statements. Before someone starts going like “something something moralizing God no real so no shoulds”, this could simply just apply to strictly practical reasoning and other ends.

Another thing too is that I started boosting my friends League of Legends accounts(just to Gold) and it is amazing the discrepancy between the players at those ranks egos vs. how good they actually are the game. I get the impression a lot of these players think they make zero mistakes, everything that kills them is overpowered and their losses are always the fault of their terrible teammates. It might be the case that sometimes this is true, the sheer amount of mistakes they are making is what is holding them back largely.

I was kind of thinking about how this applies to dating. A lot of people online tell you about how much they struggle with dating and there is nothing they can do about it, but if someone were to examine their lives, habits, social skills etc. from a different viewpoint how obvious why the issues they have dating occur. This is not to say all of their problems are their fault, there are obviously some external or static factors(geographic location, height, illness etc.) that could actually be preventing them from success.

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We were outbid for the gated community in the suburbs, but the more I think about it we probably wouldn't have fit in with UMC ~~Trumptards~~ suburban republicans. So we're scaling back to an inner ring suburb of Chicago.

Pros: we're more accustomed to "city life", the village we're looking at has a nice mix of night life, family activities, actual yards (none of this 4X4 grass patch nonsense), walkability, Ernest Hemmingway tourism district, bougie nonsense, and reliable public transit.

Cons: the village is starkly divided by the haves and the have-nots, and if you're not careful you could easily wander into Blighthaven shooty McStabsville. The localized elementary schools are amazing, (rated 10/10) but the high school funnels from all over (Blighthaven, working class industrial wastelands, historical mansion districts, etc.) and is rated 1/10. If we stay here, we'll definitely have to switch to private school by the time boychild comes of age.

Moving was so much easier when it was just me, Husband, and a cat.

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Can a woman be in between a virgin and a slut? I know you guys are all going to respond yes, but hear me out for a second.

A virgin is defined as never having sex before. It's a strict definition. There is nothing subjective about it. You either are a virgin, or you're not.

Being a slut is subjective. One person might say a woman with n = 10 is a slut, another might say she's "normal," and some feminist sex-positive wacko might think the n= 10 woman is a prude.

So given that being a slut is subjective, can you argue that there is no in between? What if n = 0 is a virgin, but n = 1 is considered prudish if she only gave it up after being married (after having dated for 5 years), n = 1 is normal if she gave it up to her boyfriend of 1 year, and n = 1 is slutty if she gave it up in a ONS.

I guess where I'm going with this is that maybe slut vs non-slut isn't so much about the n count number since that's always going to up for debate. I guess it's more about the behavior. Unfortunately the behavior is up for debate too, but perhaps it's a better indicator than a simple number.

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n = 1 is normal if she gave it up to her boyfriend of 1 year, and n = 1 is slutty if she gave it up in a ONS.

Even that wouldn't get universal agreement.

I guess it's more about the behavior.

At the lower counts behavior has more influence but number definitely factors in.

At the end of the day we all have different tolerances for what counts and behaviors would make us feel uncomfortable or turned off by and slut is just an insult tied to people who illicit that reaction in us. Slut is basically just a mean way of saying "you're not relationship material/worthy of commitment to me" and because of that it will always be a more subjective definition.

Perhaps we could draw a line at which most people would be turned off but that would also be a moving target as it likely varies on what the average sexual history is at the time and region.

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Why are people so scared of “being cancelled”?

(“Canceling” is simply a meme that went viral because of this video of an espresso machine that wouldn’t work. It’s a cheeky turn of phrase used often in the black and black gay community when someone or something causes a minor inconvenience or irks us. It’s always been a light hearted joke on Twitter “ugh my fav didn’t win a Grammy— the Grammys are cancelled. Over it. Next topic”.

Now “Doxxing” is an internet culture thing that I don’t participate in but has always been a thing of the anon forum users. You mix discontent with novel virality and internet’s fav pastime of doxxing their enemies, you get what I suppose you think “canceling” is now — “someone’s going to tell my job that I call ppl “sand nggrs on the forums” which sure that sucks for you but also why is that a thing you do???)

What opinions do you have that you feel you can’t share?

I have countless thoughts that are uncouth and just downright mean regarding certain people. I don’t say them. I’ve always known that expressing things like that when I am not around extremely like-minded people who understand my discontent could lead to some backlash. I’ve always known this. It’s a basic social etiquette thing my parents instilled. It’s called mindfulness and accountability.

So I don’t understand people who truly feel disenfranchised because they can’t scream into the diverse void all of their ornery bigoted thoughts without any critical feedback.

What world do you all live in where you could express views that clearly are offensive to another party and not expect any reaction from anyone? People I know say what they say and they stand in it and will be assholes to the other person’s face. They don’t expect the other person(s) who they have wayward opinions about to tolerate or like them.

Who raised you to believe this was a thing?

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I have countless thoughts that are uncouth and just downright mean regarding certain people. I don’t say them. I’ve always known that expressing things like that when I am not around extremely like-minded people who understand my discontent could lead to some backlash. I’ve always known this. It’s a basic social etiquette thing my parents instilled. It’s called mindfulness and accountability.

The above applies to basic "at work" etiquette.

If I wrote a memo at work and disseminated to the entire employee staff that:

Men aren't good at thinking holistically and empathetically thus this is why we shouldn't...
Indians aren't good at...
Blacks aren't good at...
Whites aren't good at...

I would get canned too.

Just looking at the guy who sent it I can tell he's probably on the spectrum and thought his Live Journal thoughts and opinions were appropriate for mass publication at work.

Who besides a raging autist would think that broad generalizations was appropriate to mass disseminate at work?

He wasn't "cancelled." He was fired for doing dummy scribes at work and for creating a disruptive and unsavory work environment for others. That’s why Google fired him. And it’s their prerogative to do so.

Said dude landed another job at a company that aligns with his stances.

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If I wrote a memo at work and disseminated to the entire employee staff that:

Men aren't good at thinking holistically and empathetically thus this is why we shouldn't... Indians aren't good at... Blacks aren't good at... Whites aren't good at...

These quotes being strawmen aside....

What If you write a memo to the entire staff that "white men are oppressing others and occupying too many positions at our company. We need to employ new hiring programs to ensure fewer white men."

That memo gets praised. And wouldn't you expect such a memo getting praised as setting some kind of precedent? You wouldn't follow that a similarly thought out response is appropriate?

Just looking at the guy who sent it I can tell he's probably on the spectrum and thought his Live Journal thoughts and opinions were appropriate for mass publication at work.

Yep. Clearly his thoughts aren't for mass publication like the equally autistic feminist SJWs who publicly disseminated the memo he was responding to.

You're clearly either A) being obtuse about the actual issue at hand here, or B) making the argument of "hey man that's the game, play it or lose" which I can't disagree with from an individualistic perspective, but dang that's a sad way for society to decay.

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These quotes being strawmen aside....

They're not straw men... they're comparable to the verbiage of his memo.

What If you write a memo to the entire staff that "white men are oppressing others and occupying too many positions at our company. We need to employ new hiring programs to ensure fewer white men."

I would never write some bullshit like that. Again, people who have zero semblance of human cohesion write stuff like that.

First and foremost, if you want to uplift one group that you feel is disadvantaged, the way to do that is to focus on that group. Not to bring in other people. That quote you curated gave me no insight into the groups that are "being oppressed." It's just a generalization of one group and their perceived misdeeds. In short, it's a stupid tactic for working with others and trying to get your point across.

Yep. Clearly his thoughts aren't for mass publication like the equally autistic feminist SJWs who publicly disseminated the memo he was responding to.

What memo did he respond to? Can you link it?

You're clearly either A) being obtuse about the actual issue at hand here

I'm not. I don't agree with many here that "canceling" is a tangible thing. I don't agree with the concept that what you say doesn't have consequences. It's always been a thing. Especially "at work."

B) making the argument of "hey man that's the game, play it or lose" which I can't disagree with from an individualistic perspective, but dang that's a sad way for society to decay.

Your idea of society "decaying" isn't mine at all. Name a point in time throughout history and throughout the world where one group or another wasn't being actually disenfranchised or, to make it comparable to social media victims, "felt" they were oppressed. I'll wait for your response as to when this magical time in history was.

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they're comparable to the verbiage of his memo.

And in the memo he was responding to. One of them gets put on a pedestal, the other villified, that's my point.

I don't agree with the concept that what you say doesn't have consequences

Of course what you say has consequences. The issue being discussed is the breadth of things being said that have consequences. How offensive can your speech be before you're ostracized. I think it's obvious which way society is moving in regards to that...

Name a point in time throughout history and throughout the world where one group or another wasn't being actually disenfranchised or, to make it comparable to social media victims, "felt" they were oppressed.

I don't know how this relates to what I said.

Do you believe in the current societal climate that people are more resilient with regards to public speech, or less? Do you think people get more or less offended at speech than they used to, say, 30 years ago?

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And in the memo he was responding to. One of them gets put on a pedestal, the other villified, that's my point.

Again, can you link this memo? I asked earlier. It wasn't clear he was responding to anything when I Google searched his memo.

How offensive can your speech be before you're ostracized. I think it's obvious which way society is moving in regards to that...

This doesn't compute for me. IME, offensive speech has always been met with feedback, critical or otherwise. The difference now is it can go viral, which means other people outside of your network can respond and react.

I've always known I can't dictate how others react to me.

So again, the biggest difference now is "virality." Prior to "virality," the only people who had multitudes of reactions to the offensive things they do or say have been famous people (celebrities, politicians, major industry leaders, high-status people with a lot of influence in networks small or large, etc)

I don't know how this relates to what I said.

It was a direct response to the following comment you made, particularly the bolded:

making the argument of "hey man that's the game, play it or lose" which I can't disagree with from an individualistic perspective, but dang that's a sad way for society to decay.

Answering your question:

Do you believe in the current societal climate that people are more resilient with regards to public speech, or less?

I think people who think things have gotten "less resilient" are the people in the past who didn't notice how their outspoken offensive views were affecting those around them and creating an atmosphere that kowtows to bullies and people who want a "safe space" for their oppressive nature.

This all comes down to different people with different approaches to life feeling like their "safe space" doesn't exist anymore or didn't exist at one point.

Do you think people get more or less offended at speech than they used to, say, 30 years ago?

I think the people who kept quiet/would have kept quiet 30 years ago about their dislike for other people's offensive comments feel more comofrtable to speak up about their discontent. The people who have always been offensive are reeling that people have an opposing reaction to them. They probably prefer when people kept quiet and let them bulldoze the narrative.

This pendulum swings back and forth.

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This doesn't compute for me. IME, offensive speech has always been met with feedback, critical or otherwise.

Sure. The difference is what constitutes "offensive speech" which is a shifting goalpost. Like, I can find people who are offended by the speech "women and men shouldnt be able to play in eachother sports leagues"

I think people who think things have gotten "less resilient" are the people in the past who didn't notice how their outspoken offensive views were affecting those around them and creating an atmosphere that kowtows to bullies and people who want a "safe space" for their oppressive nature.

Fair enough. I disagree. I think people have become more sensitive and more quick to find something that someone else says "offensive" and I don't think that's a positive for society in aggregate.

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The difference is what constitutes "offensive speech" which is a shifting goalpost. Like, I can find people who are offended by the speech "women and men shouldnt be able to play in eachother sports leagues"

Maybe. I haven't seen someone receive fervent backlash for an opinion like that.

But as I implied earlier, I think ppl "who 30 years ago felt offended by the offensive comments" held their tongue more.

In the same way, female support staff held their tongue about male colleagues touching their ass or massaging their thighs or saying lewd sexual comments (" Oooh yeah ;), your rack is looking great today Charlene!") to them during the workday.

Fair enough. I disagree. I think people have become more sensitive and more quick to find something that someone else says "offensive" and I don't think that's a positive for society in aggregate.

Coolio. Yeah, I disagree. I think the people who felt sensitive didn't speak up before but are now, and them doing so is triggering other people who got used to speaking their offensive remarks into the void unopposed. I also think "virality" plays a huge part. And, I think the people calling everyone "sensitive" nowadays are being earnestly sensitive asf which is... ironic.

But yeah, I think it's cool for us to have different perspectives on this.

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Weekly Community Chat Megathread

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Title	Weekly Community Chat Megathread
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	9
Comments	3281
Date	May 3, 2021 8:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/n45qyb/weekly_community_chat_megathread/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/weekly-community-chat-megathread.759317 https://theredarchive.com/post/759317