Daily Community Chat Megathread

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-03-28T16:18:32+00:00

Men on here constantly crying about how they wish women would "just be honest" about dating, then I go an be honest and they're crying how it goes against what other women have said. 🤡🤡🤡

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-03-28T13:49:30+00:00

I love seeing the delusion that a large number of women in their 20s are attracted to 40+ men.

Face it, take away the wealth and remove the "but women find insert celebrity here who is in no way reflective of the average 40 year old man hot!" bullshit and it completely falls apart as a theory.

BrummieAMN19 · 2023-03-28T15:17:24+00:00

This tweet made me laugh to the point of tears amazing ratio

https://twitter.com/azhdaya__/status/1639428926849073152?s=46&t=4oxp4OS8ta2rOKFSXRxwOQ

baresquad · 2023-03-28T17:23:01+00:00

The hoe phase thread is hilarious. The types of emotions and insecurities elicited over the idea of others having sex is crazy.

Maffioze · 2023-03-28T17:24:31+00:00

Fresh and Fit and Justpearlythings are dumb misogynistic grifters. I wish they didn't exist. Unfortunately the alternative we have from leftist Youtubers are misandrist grifters.

scwizard · 2023-03-29T07:01:11+00:00

Does no one here except chibs have a gf with a double digit n count?

autisticgoober · 2023-03-29T05:50:33+00:00

Bryan Adams sang "when you love a woman, you tell her that she's really wanted". I wonder how that would be possible with the average American woman, after her feminist indoctrination at college, her hoe phases, her hedonistic social media validation addicted brain, her social construct 1000 point checklist for men and her overall negative, distasteful attitude towards men. Sorry Bryan, the women of today are absolutely fucking awful.

EulenWatcher · 2023-03-29T05:20:44+00:00

A single father from Russia whose daughter drew “no war” and “support Ukraine” pictures during her art lesson at school got sentenced to 2 years of jail for that. They claim he’s guilty of “discrediting Russian army”. The girl was sent to the orphanage.

I thought I’d stopped getting surprised by the news from Russia, but no, they managed to hit another low point.

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TheRedPillRipper · 2023-03-28T08:57:16+00:00

Was a plus one at a colleague of the wife’s birthday bash last Saturday. He dropped some serious cash on a 4 piece mariachi band. Said he wanted the 15 piece band, but they couldn’t get the whole team together in time. The four piece was unbelievable. I’ll have to see the 15 piece for sure.

scwizard · 2023-03-28T12:54:01+00:00

I posted a status saying, “the next disrespectful piece of shit to message me behind his wife’s back and ask for a one-nighter is going to get a shock when I send the screenshots to her. Grow the fuck up and start treating your wife with the respect she deserves”.

I’ve got notifications coming out my ears at this point. One guy has sent me a threatening DM about how it was “just a joke, you stupid bitch”. I don’t find telling me that his wife doesn’t have to know and 4 pathetic dick pics funny, especially when the last one was sent the night before his son’s 1st birthday.

What a comedian!

My mum has texted to tell me she’s disappointed in me, that I could be ruining a lot of families and I should be ashamed. I was tempted to block my mum but I’m just going to delete Facebook. I’ll deal with my mum in person.

THHBHStT · 2023-03-28T12:58:06+00:00

Oh good r/seduction is back

Loved that place in the past, glad it’s back now

potoricco · 2023-03-28T13:12:23+00:00

Last year i had this class best friend. Extremely funny, charismatic, fun to be around but extremely basic looking, you could not point him out in a crowd. This is an important detail. Unfortunately we had to wear masks then so I never saw his actual face. It was also a Spanish class so I never knew his real name. We are in different grades so we don’t have classes together anymore. Basically I don’t know his name or face lmaooo I am kinda sad and I miss him

Fuck COVID

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-03-28T16:15:36+00:00

When lack of body language awareness goes viral: https://www.reddit.com/r/cringe/comments/6x0bc8/man_gets_rejected_by_girl_and_plays_it_off_with/

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-03-28T16:26:06+00:00

Word of caution: if you match with a girl on OLD and they seem really into you right from the start (in a "wtf can't believe this is happening" way), they're likely bipolar or have BPD.

The sex will be amazing but everything else will be a shit show.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-03-28T20:50:58+00:00

data from the tinder sub showing the advent of tinder correlates with the rise in sexless men

meteorness123 · 2023-03-28T20:53:26+00:00

Large and visible tattoes (like an entire arm tattoed) are still red flags in women.

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-29T05:10:09+00:00

I've decided that next BJJ practice on Thursday I'm going to go to the white belt class and remove someone's ACL from their body

They're not going to remove me out of the gym for ''''accidentally''' injuring one person

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-03-29T04:50:58+00:00

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autisticgoober · 2023-03-29T04:12:45+00:00

Men will unironically invent a Time Machine to go back to when women weren’t infected by social media/hook up culture/feminism/chad addiction

UneastAji · 2023-03-28T08:24:57+00:00

I talked some time ago about a woman I frequently cross path with in the street and who timidly smiled at me. And yall said she was just creeped out that I make eye contact.

Today after like a month of not seeing her she gave me a very honest and bright (teethless) smile. I refuse to believe my subconscious can't get cues, if I feel boiling at a quarter second of eye contact and smile it must mean something positive.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-28T14:46:02+00:00

I have a buddy who was cheated on by his would-be fiancée 7 years ago and he’s still not over it.

Apparently she was the one. Relationship was solid as ever. Her parents loved him and wanted them to get married.

He treated her right and was (and still is) a really solid dude. They had no issues. And he didn’t see it coming.

Fuck man, it’s stories like that that scare me to death. You think you’ve found the one and then she commits the ultimate act of betrayal.

Fucking A.

scwizard · 2023-03-28T12:16:23+00:00

I (38F) knew for a FACT that I absolutely NEVER wanted kids. The "you'll change your mind", "everyone has kids", " it's the most important thing a woman can do", and "it's so beautiful " horse shit made me nauseous.

I've never been obsessed with being pregnant, having kids, or being a mother, I still don't understand anyone's seemingly captivating response to infants in general

I did everything that I could to prevent it, to the detriment of my health. I've had 3 abortions, while on bc (I’ve been trying to get a bisalp since I was 18)

Fair enough some people just know where they stand.

Then I met the POS that destroyed my life. The most narcissistic, drug abusing, manipulative asshole to ever intrude on my existence.

He sabotaged my BC without my knowledge, drained my finances so quickly and frequently that I had nothing left for the termination after he purposefully got me pregnant, (he knew how I felt) and actively did everything he could to physically, financially, and emotionally prevent me from making my own medical decisions.

Guess who hasn't been in my 11 year olds life since she was 3 months old?! He stole my truck from the goddamn hospital parking lot, WHILE I WAS HAVING A FUCKING C-SECTION, to get more drugs!

My health has been completely obliterated

How unlucky that there's all these guys out there who aren't life ruining jerks and she ends up trapped in a relationship with one who is.

He had a friend that worked at the local clinic for the state health department, according to her, they switched out my bc for a lower dose than my original. I was also on antibiotics for a staph infection during the same time frame. She confessed about 6 months after I had my daughter.

She also claims that he poked holes in our condoms then bragged to her about it. They were both around 40 at the time, I was 26.

I guess predatory manipulators 14 years older that want to baby trap you are out there. He was probably fucking said friend as well I bet.

Willow-girl · 2023-03-28T12:17:51+00:00

Driving in to work yesterday, I heard the news of the latest school shooting on the radio. I remember last year, when I was new to working in schools, I was surprised that none of my co-workers brought up the Uvalde shooting the day after it happened. While I'm certain it was on everyone's minds, we didn't talk about it.

At the time I chalked it up to some sort of superstition -- like, "Don't speak this horror into existence here" -- but now I understand it's because we all realize it could happen anywhere. It could happen to us. There are troubled students in every school. Last year, at the elementary where I worked, a fourth-grade girl wrote, "I will kill you all" on a bathroom wall. I know there are kids who have made similar threats in the district where I work now. It's just a fact of life. Any day could be The Day, and there is so little schools can do about it.

Because these are public schools, we can't really get down to the heart of the matter -- the battle between good and evil that takes place in all people's souls. So the schools do what they can -- "Social/Emotional Learning," mindfulness training and whatnot. Not that these are bad things; they're just half-measures. The skirt the real issues, and the kids undoubtedly know it. At the end of the day, everything we do -- everything we're allowed to do -- comes down to "Be nice, because if you're not, I'm going to have to do a lot of paperwork."

And so many kids come from broken homes, from families living in poverty and chaos. No wonder they are filled with rage! In some cases it's not so much a maladaptation but a perfectly legitimate response to their circumstances, I think.

Last year, at the end of the last day of school, the staff lined the hallways as the kids boarded the buses for their final trip home. They were excited, looking forward to their long summer of playtime, and we were waving and cheering them on. Except for one person. I happened to be next to the school counselor, and noticed she was standing silently, her arms folded, face blank. "Why, Adrienne," I said, "Aren't you happy for them?"

"If you could only know the trauma and tragedy I've seen," she replied, shaking her head, then turned and walked away.

chilikettlechips · 2023-03-28T15:06:42+00:00

New red flags just dropped at askwomenover30

Is anyone else put off by the multitude of men's profiles online that say things like 'must laugh at my jokes,' 'looking for a woman who laughs at my bad jokes' etc?

It seems so misogynistic in a weird way, like men are the stars and women are expected to be their audience. I know some of them are probably in jest but it always rubs me the wrong way.

I think at this point I'm put off by everything in dating profiles.

My favorite though is “looking for someone who doesn’t take life too seriously” i.e. be agreeable at all times.

lol women☕

liefelijk · 2023-03-28T15:26:39+00:00

Yay! Got my first response to a job application I put out (I’ve put in two so far). Interestingly, they want a recorded video answering questions alongside another set of written answers.

I’m glad for it, since I’ve never been great at interviews and am fine with skipping the 4 hour drive to get to a 1st round interview.

Exciting and scary, though! Job searching always has so many hoops to jump through.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-03-28T15:29:22+00:00

New girl on bumble, who is slightly overweight, is trying to flirt with me.

I think she was trying to prove to me she's really sought after and desirable as she informed me how many matches she's got, and how many men she's communicating with while she txts me. Oh and that she usually waits to have them reach out to her first (but she has been the initiator with me).

She's a 5/10, so of course I naturally feel let down and discouraged. But more than that, I think she hits something important that many men don't even think about, and even fewer women ever admit to openly.

The big proof if a woman finds a man genuinely attractive, and she wants him to fuck her, is that SHE is the instigator. SHE is the one that messages first, often, and tries to nudge the communication to meeting up and having fun.

It's her keenness in him that sparks genuine interest. Anything other than that means the guy is "trying" too hard, or in behavioral model of trying to "convince" a woman into liking him.

And that never works.

TooHornyToFap · 2023-03-28T16:01:08+00:00

Bro fuck this gender wars shit

Did y'all see the new Zelda gameplay

lulll · 2023-03-28T16:13:57+00:00

women should only drink pink liquids. i suggest pink lemonade and nesquik strawberry milk

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-03-28T16:36:06+00:00

As a dude, is it really that hard to go out solo and talk to people at a bar? My husband used to do it all the time, and still does here and there.

Come Friday or Saturday he'd tell me he's going out for a drink and that he'd be back at midnight or whatever. Sometimes I'd join an hour or two later and I'd find him at the bar just...talking to people. Old, young, fat, attractive, black, white, brown, rich, poor, etc, it didn't matter he'd just be engaged in conversations with them. Sometimes I'd see women try to flirt with him, other times the convo would die, but none of it seemed to ruffle him.

When I see dudes here lament about having to go out and talk to people I think of my husband and how chatting up people is just so normal to him.

Its not like my husband is some Chad god thats granted the halo effect; he's 5'8", white, skinny, long hair, and looks like MoistCr1TiKaL's older brother.

When I asked if he feels weird or nervous doing this he always said no, because he's just gonig out for a drink and chat so why would he feel nervous?

When he puts it that way it seems pretty obvious, but what makes it so hard for other dudes to just...go out for a drink and a chat?

VampireChaser · 2023-03-28T16:50:19+00:00

I broke up with my abusive boyfriend and cut all my hair off. Is it really bad?

Breaks up with abusive boyfriend(well done).
Cuts hair off to look like a feminist for no apparent reason(female brain).
Becomes less desirable to men.
Cries online and fishes for compliments.
Hates all men(because of last relationship and lack of male attention).
Becomes a hateful feminist.

scwizard · 2023-03-28T17:09:27+00:00

Wendy's has Potassium Bromate in their buns. That explains part of why it always made me feel like shit.

That stuff is banned in most parts of the world.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-03-28T18:20:10+00:00

On one of the posts about best and worst red pill guys, I forgot to mention Sneako, he is cringe AF lol

Smoogs2 · 2023-03-28T18:34:58+00:00

Any time this "natural" vs "learned" topic springs up, everyone just goes along with the premise as if social acuity is not all learned to begin with. Ever see those documentaries where abused children are found locked in dark rooms isolated for years? They all come out socially fucked because social game is something every human learns.

Maffioze · 2023-03-28T19:35:24+00:00

Something from an Aba and Preach video that more people need to hear:

""Oh you're a hater" sometimes they're not a hater, what you're doing is just straight garbage".

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-03-28T19:42:08+00:00

What percentage of PPD users do you think have a warrant out for their arrest?

Mark_Freed · 2023-03-29T04:03:05+00:00

Women are not kinder than men.

https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/personality/2011-balliet.pdf

cruciod · 2023-03-29T03:48:42+00:00

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Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-29T03:22:11+00:00

silent downvoters are the greasiest buck teeth unloved children to ever roam this planet

thisjam198 · 2023-03-29T03:08:13+00:00

If you walk around with great energy, posture, and really carry yourself with authority and importance, people will notice that and you will exude confidence. Even if you’re not in the best physical shape yet (but maybe you’re in progress, still getting those gains at the gym). Fake it to you make it, so to speak. I’ve noticed recently when I walk around tall, confident, and with authority - people take me more seriously and it’s easier to initiate conversation. You always want to state your presence when around people in my opinion, and stand like you matter.

huhwhatokok · 2023-03-29T03:05:03+00:00

One of the mods on hinge literally police the hell out of mens choices and goes a-wall when she sees a man who has an age range under his own. This dude is 33 and has his age range at 26-30 which is perfectly reasonable as he wants to start a family. The mod then chews him out saying a woman his age is more ready to start a family. Well he’s obviously not going to impregnate a woman right away so if you say date for 1-2 years, get engaged married another 1-2 years, then she’s already 35-38, you probably can squeeze one kid out of you’re lucky.

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/124vjjs/33m_requesting_a_profile_reviewhelp_with_prompts/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-03-28T08:01:22+00:00

nexkell · 2023-03-28T08:21:48+00:00

Last night I tried bringing up the topic of the extra burden men face with providing and protecting and immediately it was met with WHAT ABOUT WOMEN. Anything discussed to mens issues was met with WHAT ABOUT WOMEN.

She said that the only other person that has talked to her about men’s issues was her sister. She felt unheard because she would never bring up WOMENS ISSUES. She said he doesn’t really read about / see women’s or men’s issues in the media but thinks it’s important she advocates for WOMENS ISSSUES.

I also told her I don’t ever want to hear misandic jokes again but she said she could only TRY.

I want to break up with her ass. I don’t see how I could have sex with someone let alone think about marrying/having children with someone who isn’t sympathetic and at least open minded to hearing about the man experience.

But then i was like maybe i could ask for a relationship break. Express to him how important being sympathetic and educated on these matters are….. that we can get back together when/if he understands his capacity to do this.

^Edit: ^I ^wonder ^if ^anyone ^will ^mouse ^over ^the ^last ^period.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-03-28T11:37:00+00:00

Judging from my self, I might be able to explain why some men enter a phase in which they are (not rightfully) frustrated and angry at women.

I suppose it all starts with witnessing how some men treat their woman badly, hence the idea develops that you yourself would treat her much better than he is doing. Whether this is true or not is up to discussion, but such an idea might develop nonetheless.

Living, seeing, hearing and witnessing life you figure that men and women more or less almost randomly sleep with each other, which is quite surprising since you consider sex as something special and would have thought that women also consider it as something rather special (no, my intention is not to blame anyone here).

Years pass, yet no luck in the relationship department and everyone seems to just sleep with each other. This is an anomality for you, because why wouldn't the supposedly self-declared, self-identified gentlemen not already be in a relationship, because he is so good and the other men are just using these women.

The frustration takes its peak when you witness multiple times how women supposedly end up together with, what you would consider bad guys (this includes simply self-confident men, just as well as abusers, you just don't make the difference, you just put most in the same together, because as a men you know the signs of a red flag in men, but you don't consider that your settings might be set on too sensitive). This must be the stage where the blame slowly gets put on women. Because, you consider, it is also up to the women to decide whom they get together with and you just can't find a plausible answer to the question "why do so many women end up in supposedly abusive relationships?" except that the women must be intentionally going for the bad guys. Now your anger and frustration fluorishes.

At the end of the day, if you can be patient and still kind despite your anger and frustration you will realize, just like I did, that afterall it is my fault that I never got into relationship despite wanting it so much since entering puberty.

The conclusion is bittersweet, at least mine is: I am not made for relationships.

ledon_07 · 2023-03-28T11:48:57+00:00

I don’t know why men get in such a tizzy about having to take the initiative to approach and court women. Use it to have as many women as possible. I’ve asked out many women and am currently dating/sleeping with 3-4 at once (they don’t know about each other). Honestly it’s harder but it also gives you the opportunity to be in charge of your dating life

WestCombSplit · 2023-03-28T12:53:22+00:00

What are Toxic masculinity traits that Women are incapable of having?

All of those traits and behaviours can also be exhibited by Women. So the choice to specify masculinity suggests that it's exclusive to Men. That's why I don't believe in it and why it's inherently misandrist

scwizard · 2023-03-28T13:21:15+00:00

Did you know logically speaking it's impossible to break up with an abusive boyfriend.

If you break up with him there's a chance he'll kill you.

You can do things to reduce that chance but nothing you do can reduce that chance to zero.

Therefore logically speaking you can't break up with him and you have no choice but to spend the rest of your life with him.

RP-MJ · 2023-03-28T15:00:56+00:00

One of the things l disagree with the manosphere specifically F&F is ending up single for not tolerating your ideal men cheating

Listen we can say all things about women ending up single with their cats/dogs but the reality is women are never single romantically and sexually, they will always be a men tolerating/accepting them and their preferences

Some women will be ok with that and be with those men even though they are not ideally what they want, others

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-03-28T15:22:46+00:00

Q4A: Let's say you've done your fair share of drugs and haven't had any issues from them (beyond the odd bad trip or comedown).

You're now a parent, and your teenaged child (16-19 let's say) asks about drugs. Would you tell them about your past experiences or act like you've never done them?

Lovers691 · 2023-03-28T15:30:59+00:00

Saw an attractive girl on the bus but didn’t talk to her because the only thing I could say was compliment her on her looks. How do you open when cold approaching? I know I have said don’t cold approach but I’m doing it to build up skills in conversing with females

potoricco · 2023-03-28T17:09:47+00:00

What shocking thing happened to you recently

AHotRetardsFatTits · 2023-03-28T17:19:39+00:00

PPD, any illustrators and or designers here? I need a slightly intricate tattoo design.

Will pay $100-200 for just the design. No color. My tattoo artist is really good at tattooing and distinctly less good at design, so must outsource to the internet.

Will probably ask the starvingartist/artcom subs, but am loyal to this place and figure there might be one or two weirdos here good at art. Send me your portfolios.

shmupsy · 2023-03-28T17:37:29+00:00

metoo was a power grab in the guise of a social movement. basically millennials opened up a bunch of jobs held by older people by playing the pc card. also a lot of actual scumbags got rolled up.

the more extreme messages were deemed unpopular by the public. the basic messages of treating people with respect are pretty agreeable and we don't need to have a tantrum about it.

any lingering negative effects in every day life are negligible. be the best guy you can be and dating should work as normal. we don't have to advocate women do all the same stuff as men etc. we can be happy that our world still basically operates with the yin and yang of the male/female dichotomy dictating gender roles. that thankfully did not get upended with the great awokening.

you will not lose your job or social standing over a date going wrong. but again, be the best guy you can be, and you will save yourself embarrassment and awkward times in dating.

the girls who try and ambush guys with metoo stuff (like the gym) end up looking worse in the end.

friend groups change all the time if you date within them, always have.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-28T17:40:02+00:00

challenge: link a picture of the ugliest mf (no deformities) and I'll tell you how to turn them into at least 7/10

Maffioze · 2023-03-28T17:43:05+00:00

https://youtu.be/pwJXDrBik4I

This is the ultimate break up song for men.

scwizard · 2023-03-28T18:44:00+00:00

Quick n count check.

Guys that have girlfriends or wives. What's her n count and how happy are you in the relationship?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-03-28T19:38:19+00:00

How often do people come talk to you on the street? I guess it’s spring time because people have come to talk to me on my evening walk.

Peacesquad · 2023-03-28T20:13:00+00:00

Hey guys what’s crackin!!🫠

Peacesquad · 2023-03-28T20:14:00+00:00

Y’all ever heard of the Thousand Cock Stare?

RP-MJ · 2023-03-28T20:27:16+00:00

So am talking to this women who thinks that if a woman sleeps with you when she doesn't feel like it then that's rape

To which l disagreed because as long as she consents then it's not

What are yall thoughts ?

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-03-28T20:42:50+00:00

So as an early 30s dude am I just stuck waiting until my mid 30s to date?

Early 30s women seem to want to date guys a couple years older.

Late 20s women don't want to date someone in their 30s yet.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-03-29T03:02:57+00:00

Why do women keep trying to deny that being able to easily get male attention is nice and a privilege? Millions of women are hooking up or using dating apps to get attention from men. Millions of women dress slutty because they like attention from men.

Attention, even sexually motivated attention, is nice. Even if it's sexually motivated, men aren't just explicitly sexual. They are willing to treat you well, flirt with you, entertain you, give you non-sexual social attention and do emotional labor for you. It's still nice no matter what the intention is.

There are men who actually want relationships or just like attention and flirting without sex also. If you aren't getting some attention from men who want relationships, you're probably fattie or something.

This is similar to women trying to deny that height matters a lot. Obviously a significant amount of care a significantly about height. Trying to deny either of these is like being a flat earther. I don't understand why women keep trying to deny these obvious things.

autisticgoober · 2023-03-29T03:02:28+00:00

The Anglosphere (America/Canada/UK/Australia/NZ) is the only place on earth where men put in more effort in their physical appearance than their women do. The highest value men/lowest value women live in this bizzaro dimension

Ok-Divide4621 · 2023-03-29T02:56:30+00:00

Any man that dates a 30+ women without at least a 7 year age gap is a fucking loser. Like total fucking loser.

Sorry I don't make the rules that's just what they are. Take it up with the law bruh.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-03-29T02:52:14+00:00

Q4M

What makes a guy a Chad in your opinion? I told my boyfriend you guys would consider him to be a Chad but he disagreed. So help us sort this out😤

oktoberpretzel · 2023-03-29T02:51:27+00:00

A wise man once told me that when a guy likes brunettes or blondes, it’s a preference, but when a guy likes redheads, it’s a fetish.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-29T02:48:45+00:00

According to this paper: https://uwspace.uwaterloo.ca/bitstream/handle/10012/6958/Yeung_Amy.pdf?sequence=1

there is a positive correlation between Benevolent Sexism and Hostile Sexism. Contrary to popular belief that Benevolent Sexists and Hostile Sexists are different people, they usually are the same.

the problem with FDSers' whole paradigm is that they only want men who display stereotypical Benevolent Sexist Man traits (so-called High-Value Men) but get mad when they can't find Liberal Feminist Men who display these Benevolent Sexist traits.

Because they don't exist.

Traditional-Bad-4055 · 2023-03-29T02:42:50+00:00

Mansplaining vs. explaining

janedoebreakin · 2023-03-29T02:42:16+00:00

This guy I went on a few dates with is now the third middle-aged man to introduce his infant to me. I don’t know how I keep attracting forty year olds with babies. They seem to be the only guys who like me. I’m not complaining, though, I’ll be a stepmom.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-29T02:26:50+00:00

Gents, when you’re evaluating a woman’s dating profile, she will look at best as good as her worst pic.

I hear from my female friends that for men it’s the opposite: they’ll look even better than their best pic.

iliyb · 2023-03-29T02:21:41+00:00

Cmv: most men can't actually make a woman cum unless he's using a sex toy

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-03-29T02:11:44+00:00

Ladies, how would you feel if a man cold approached you and led with this, "Excuse me, I just wanted to tell you that you look absolutely stunning today. Your sense of style is amazing, and you carry yourself with such grace and confidence. I couldn't resist letting you know."

huhwhatokok · 2023-03-29T02:04:35+00:00

Women really have kids with a guy who she doesn’t even know his name. Have some shame. Now she’s gonna try and find him to “let her son know who his dad is” aka “I need to get child support”. She did this with no attempt to find him before she gave birth or anything.

https://www.reddit.com/r/23andme/comments/124a5ng/should_i_do_a_23_and_me_on_my_5_year_old_son_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

PBtoast707 · 2023-03-29T02:02:38+00:00

Is slight loose skin on the stomach a dealbreaker for men? I was always a fat kid growing up and I lost seventy pounds during my senior year of high school. I don’t have loose skin hanging down but the skin there will never be super tight and toned. It makes me really insecure, especially with bikini season coming. Is it a dealbreaker or a turn off?

bossman146 · 2023-03-29T02:01:12+00:00

Freddie Gibbs is the best rapper rn

potoricco · 2023-03-29T01:37:11+00:00

Guys did you know the men of PPD had a meet up??

liefelijk · 2023-03-29T01:18:09+00:00

The Kibbe Body Type test is very popular for women on SM these days.

Q4M: what types do you find most attractive?
Q4W: do you know your type or wish you were a certain type?

lulll · 2023-03-29T00:48:12+00:00

gentlemen, i think we should give the women who decided to not hoe out today a big round of applause

you go girl

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-29T00:42:36+00:00

Freddie from iCarly was HIM

liefelijk · 2023-03-29T00:37:31+00:00

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Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-29T00:29:31+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/12527n0/are_tattoos_on_the_opposite_gender_attractive/

fuck. gotta get a tattoo.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-29T00:21:21+00:00

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ledon_07 · 2023-03-28T23:52:01+00:00

Things that’s tangibly improved my dating life as a man:

got into shape (duh). Gained weight and kept a low body fat %
grooming. Smelling nice (through cologne), washing thoroughly and using the correct skincare products
learning charisma, charm and wit through watching shows like Californication and Peaky Blinders as well as comedy series and shows.
numbing myself to rejection. You’re not supposed to approach 100 women but for the sole reason to numb yourself to rejection and eliminate approach anxiety. Once you’ve done that only approach the women who really catch your fancy. This includes not being afraid to go in for the kiss. You’ll eventually learn when it’s the right time through trial and error.
don’t bring up sex early. Make your interest known but don’t be in a rush to have sex or seduce. When you do want sex then escalate physically. Don’t say much. Give her plausible deniability.
filter out time wasters but calling and having at least 2-3 conversations with them before the date. If they are too busy to take your call or the conversation is stagnant then there’s your answer.
learn to identify women who are into you or on the fence. Don’t waste too much time with those that need convincing. Even in such cases it should only take 1/2 conversations, dates or meeting.
all the above requires money. For logistics etc. Don’t lead with your wallet though.

nandor_the_relenting · 2023-03-28T17:46:25+00:00

I used to think there was a little slice of body positivity in some women's hearts that would enable them to see me as a romantic option. I've only ever dated similarly overweight people. There was always some question in my mind of just how physically attracted she was to me, even some question of how attracted I was to her.

Now that I have lost a significant amount of weight and have some definition on my arms, I want to take it as far as I can so that I can be undeniably physically attractive and really feel confident that my partner is attracted to me on that level. This is the best thing that has come out of visiting PPD for me so far, and it surely sounds basic and obvious to others, but the blue pill upbringing of "be yourself" and "there's someone for everyone" can make you delusional if you drink enough of that blue raspberry lemonade Kool Aid.

potoricco · 2023-03-28T23:34:07+00:00

Girl STAND UP!! Why are Christian women like this? And married to a below average man too… it’s tough out here

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-03-28T23:09:25+00:00

How does anyone think conservatives are way hotter than liberals. Have you guys never been to rural America before?

liefelijk · 2023-03-28T16:04:18+00:00

Why is the broccoli haircut so popular among Gen Z? It looks terrible.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-03-28T17:52:35+00:00

Moment of silence for our fallen brother

purplish_possum · 2023-03-28T19:42:12+00:00

It's interesting how a woman's sympathy for victims of domestic violence changes when her BF/husband has a crazy ex.

potoricco · 2023-03-28T20:20:04+00:00

Hey guys just passed my drivers test after a second attempt

GridReXX · 2023-03-28T20:21:35+00:00

When women say they want a man who’s a bit “playful,” I’m curious what bros here think that means?

It seems iphone understands because the suggested autofill emoji for “playful” is “😈”

A little banter. A little flirting. A little “oh okay okay 💁‍♀️💁‍♂️”

Other emojis I think align: 😏😉😌😝

All of which boost probability of: 🫦💦🍆🍑

Cheerio!

Maffioze · 2023-03-28T23:01:02+00:00

In follow up to my previous comment; a French gem for my American brothers and sisters.

https://youtu.be/Vl-GJaitlNs

Turn on English subtitles. The lyrics are pretty deep.

I also may or may not have sang this song to seduce some ladies.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-03-28T22:59:24+00:00

QFM: Everything equal, which one you pick?

Option 1: She has never had regular(vagina) sex, but has had anal sex with 12 different men.

Option 2: She has had regular sex with with 4 different man.

RP-MJ · 2023-03-28T22:38:15+00:00

You know once a women figures out men want to fuck her or she constantly gets sexual male attention

That's when she stops maturing, think am lying ?

Most popular job in the west for young women right now is sex work,Only-fans,pornography etc

In fact that's the reason why majority of women today aren't wife material, because they know men to fuck them so why even try meeting that standard

Dude how many times are women not held accountable by men mainly because those men are trynna fuck ?

All the time l would say

A women can literally get away with saying something dumb or behaving in a certain way because she's attractive and men to fuck her

0DarkFlirty · 2023-03-28T22:25:10+00:00

I see why all these guys got psyopped into taking steroids and SARMS since an impressive natty physique takes years of consistent effort. But to me it's still not worth it unless you want to be on TRT for the rest of your life

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-03-28T22:12:52+00:00

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Maffioze · 2023-03-28T22:06:45+00:00

https://youtu.be/FzOrzJ1dNQk sharing a German gem with my American brothers and sisters.

RP-MJ · 2023-03-28T22:05:46+00:00

"He was abusive/narcissistic"

Yea and you stayed with him for 15+ years and gave him kids

When not taking accountability and just leaving him the moment those red flags appeared

Unbelievable

baresquad · 2023-03-28T22:02:38+00:00

Y’all know who I really feel bad for? The people stuck in miserable relationships because they’re afraid of being single.

Yeah the dating world and being single has its issues for people that can’t handle them but it’s never bad enough to settle for somebody that you hate being with.

RP-MJ · 2023-03-28T22:01:30+00:00

It still amazes how many women here think men/women are the same in dating standards

Like no a single mother is much worse than a single father

Men loose more when dating single mothers

While women loose absolutely nothing when dating signal fathers

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-28T21:58:03+00:00

https://steeljawlinegum.com/blogs/mewing/bone-smashing

tldr injurymaxx to obtain your dream jawline

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-28T21:49:13+00:00

>This is supported by a study showing that women found men with posttraumatic facial scarring as more attractive for short-term relationships but not for long-term relationships

Is it time to start injurymaxxing?

scwizard · 2023-03-28T21:45:38+00:00

I've dated men 5, 10, 15, and 20 years older than myself. You know what I've learned? There's a reason older men don't date women their age: they're looking for someone significantly younger to manipulate because that woman doesn't have the same life experience to know better and refute their bullshit.

How many girls gotta repeat that age gap relationships are a bad idea before early 20 something girls listen?

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-03-28T21:44:12+00:00

Women often say "ugh why can't these manbabies just handle rejection 🙄"

Thing is, (heterosexual) men and women experience rejection very differently.

Men experience frontend rejection. As a man, people (both men and women) are naturally wary of you. It's very common to approach people and then realize they literally don't want to talk to you at all, especially if you don't provide some sort of value (good looks, charisma, social connections, money, etc). This can be very frustrating to deal with and thus men are more likely to cope in hazardous ways. We get rejected at the frontend, often brutally. Vast majority of us don't have the female privilege of being able to sit on our asses and select from a pool of candidates, we have to get out there, approach, and deal with brutal frontend rejection.

Women experience backend rejection. Most people are much warmer towards women than they are towards men due to the "women are wonderful effect". As a woman it's even much easier to make friends (both male and female alike). The typical female dating strategy is to look as attractive as possible, go exist somewhere (and you don't even have to do that, just download an app), and then select the best quality suitor you can attract. And even if you do decide to approach as a woman, you'll have a very high success rate and your romantic overtures will not be shot down as harshly as if you were a man. The only rejection that typically happens to women is on the backend, i.e. she meets Chad, falls in love with him, sucks his dick and balls, and then he ghosts her for a hotter girl. It's unfortunate, but at least she can easily have sex and even get into relationships, and generally doesn't have to worry about getting rejected harshly or ignored coldly when trying to engage with people.

scwizard · 2023-03-28T21:39:26+00:00

It was around that time I became very in tune with my sexuality

How do you get so in tune with your sexuality that you have happy dreams you sometimes wake up mid orgasm from?

Slightly jealous ngl.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-03-28T21:36:57+00:00

The ultimate society hypergamists want

Women would rather share Chad's sperm than diversify the gene pool with Billy Betas 😔

VampireChaser · 2023-03-28T21:02:02+00:00

Common W.

Ok_Entrepreneur2931 · 2023-03-28T09:55:14+00:00

For men, there is such thing as a healthy level of mistrust towards women as a group.

Being aware of how women use their sexuality to control men and get what they want from us helps us to protect out own well-being and finances. It will help stave off oneitis.

It's important to keep a level head because love hormones are powerful and can make men do things that screw us over and cause regret in the long-term.

You're going to have a hard time convincing me that there's something wrong with my attitude when most women already mistrust men to an extent.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-03-28T11:11:57+00:00

What’s the longest you’d wait for sex with a virgin?

scwizard · 2023-03-28T12:35:20+00:00

So many girls love to complain about their abusive ex who did hard drugs.

And conveniently never seem to mention whether or not they were using drugs as well.

UneastAji · 2023-03-28T13:13:36+00:00

People are infuriated at 30 year old men going for 20 year old women. Calling them predatory or groomers.

But have you considered that maybe 30 year old women are just too picky, too high maintenance or too mentally ill. And that men are in fact not going for naive women but are rather going for available women who are still able to pair bond?

Women in their 30s aren't in fact having a hard time finding men though. But they're still having way more options than men, and they can go high in the age gaps, it's only normal that men can also go low in age gaps. The few women "available" are just tough pieces to work with and they're still surfing on seas of options. But people want to eternally blame men for everything...

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-28T15:09:25+00:00

Q4M: how do we filter out women who are likely to be cheating whores?

Anything outside of obvious things, like being a past cheater or being a partier or someone in a high risk profession (eg bartender, sales, real estate agent, nursing, admin assistant)?

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-28T16:23:46+00:00

This is the modern marriage

scwizard · 2023-03-28T19:02:45+00:00

I wonder at what point in an s word's life she realizes that she's not a good girl who's made a few mistakes, but rather she's different than most girls and will have a hard time fitting in with normal people at this point?

There must be some point where it hits her like "dang I'm really not normal am I..."

autisticgoober · 2023-03-28T10:00:55+00:00

Leftist women will give diatribes about the patriarchy and social constructs, while also completely structuring their lives to whatever the current zeitgeist of the majority is. How many women have the exact same curriculum? College/Hoe Phase -> Career -> Settle down with one guy by 26-32yo. You really are NPCs

ashpr0ulx · 2023-03-28T11:14:18+00:00

Women get the men they deserve - actually that’s not fair. Women get the men they choose and then refuse to accept accountability for their poor choices

RP-MJ · 2023-03-28T14:08:51+00:00

So yesterday at the mall

I did a social experiment, to see how the two genders respond to me asking for a handshake

went over to a group of girls and none of them wanted to give a handshake

But surprisingly the group of guys all gave handshakes

Now this isn't to generalize but you can get the idea how the two genders socially respond

RP-MJ · 2023-03-28T16:29:58+00:00

Maybe this is a genZ and Millennials thing

But so many guys nowadays are just so worried of pleasing a women in bed that they actually would put her sexual needs first

Like l constantly hearing from guys "l gotta make her cum first"

Even when you had to work in getting sex and she didn't

You should please a girl especially if your tired from doing all the work in bed but if she doesn't orgasm then it's not the end of the world trust me

Sex only stops once the men ejaculates

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-03-28T12:49:12+00:00

Just a reminder to the fellas, feminism is not nor was it ever about "equality" , if it was then they would just call themselves egalitarian, what it's about is literally in the name FEM-inism , the core tenants of feminism: Female supremacy, misandry, and male/ penis envy. Don't fall for the trap

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