Very often, one of the common complaints of men on this sub is that not only do men have to face a huge amount of rejection when approaching women, but that women simply can’t comprehend what that experience is like for guys.

Women often seem to scold and chastise men for being seemingly fairly non-discerning about the women they’re willing to shoot their shot with, but don’t seem to appreciate that for almost all men, the vast majority of the time, things end in rejection, meaning you simply have to cast your net far and wide.

I personally have had much more success with women than most men, but I’ll be the first to admit that the main driver of that is sheer persistence, perseverance and stamina to approach, try, try again and just keep going, and not because I’m especially attractive. I still get rejected by certainly 80% of women I’d say.

Anyway - one thing that women are rather more attuned to than men seems to be how much they largely do seem to genuinely care about how attractive their partner is to other members of the same sex. So my question to women is - does it bother you? How would you feel if for experimental purposes your husband or boyfriend had a “dummy” Tinder account made and you were to see the results or lack thereof?

Does it concern you? Do you ever think about it?