Even if their standards were completely unrealistic, it wouldn't change a thing because that's the standards she wants in a partner in order to have him as a sexual partner or be in a relationship with him. She's not trying to punish some men or reward some other people and she isnt hurting anyone by not sleeping with him.

No one better than you knows what food you want to eat and what food you don't like to eat. Women can tell who they want to let inside their bodies and who they don't.

Even if you are a picky eater and you don't eat 90 percent of all food that's all right and your problem to deal with and no one should shove it down your throat.