Daily Community Chat Megathread

Infinite_Signal90 · 2022-09-27T12:28:09+00:00

Just so you know. If you are deliberately lying about your intentions to someone to get what you want from them, then you’re a bad person. People aren’t a means to an end. And if you treat them as such you don’t get to pretend you’re morally superior.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-09-27T08:54:25+00:00

Imagine wanting a submissive housewife because you can't be arsed to make your bed every morning. Can't make this shit up.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-09-27T12:00:13+00:00

Diabla is such a LARP. I found this comment on the sub and several others like it.

The idea of going to a gym gives me intense anxiety but I do think I will try to find a fitness class that doesn't intimidate me tooooo much..

Honestly I think half of the women on Reddit who say "I'm happy being single" just have social anxiety.

I don't know why men get so mad at women on FDS. I bet many of them are timid wallflowers who haven't talked to anyone new in 6 months. They're petrified.

That's literally why they only hang out in subreddits with only women allowed. It's why they've labelled sitting back and doing nothing a "strategy"

There's a lot of shit talking online but seriously most of them are scared to death by the idea of talking to strange men. That's all it is. Can't get hurt if you don't take any risks.

LaloTwins · 2022-09-27T09:12:14+00:00

When did Incel start to mean a guy who has any critique of women's behaviour.

I got called an incel this week for saying Rhaenyra from HoTD is a bit of a dickhead

CandyCaneCollectress · 2022-09-27T20:27:02+00:00

PPDers talk about biology the same way Flat Earthers talk about astronomy 😂 just make up any old story and call it science

scwizard · 2022-09-28T14:44:44+00:00

Imagine if a guy said a girl's pussy was broken cause she was a lousy lay.

How the fuck is it acceptable to frame guys as broken, or psychologically damaged, just cause they suck in bed. Holy shit.

Some people suck in dead, porn is a big factor but it doesn't mean those people are damaged beyond repair.

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-28T03:15:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xpnya6/im_just_tired_of_sleeping_with_men_with_broken/

Lol why does twox have some obsession with pretending like most young guys have a problem with their dick? Reads like some revenge fantasy

errrright · 2022-09-27T03:37:22+00:00

Q4W - are you a headache girl or a tummy ache girl?

growandappear · 2022-09-27T04:01:13+00:00

Whatever flaw you think you have, there are people who have found loving and fulfilling partnerships with it.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-09-27T04:26:50+00:00

Those of y’all who had a traditional college experience and have since graduated- would you say that dating, sex, and romance are easier or harder in the “real” world?

gastongang · 2022-09-27T06:48:26+00:00

When is purge week, I cannot wait for the opportunity to release the full power of my schizoposting

scwizard · 2022-09-27T08:35:34+00:00

https://www.statista.com/statistics/204966/number-of-families-with-a-single-father-in-the-us/

This says the number of single dads in the us went from 4.2 million in 2000 to 7.2 million today. That's crazy.

But the number of single moms went from 12.9 million to 15.6 million.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/205000/number-of-families-with-a-single-mother-in-the-us/

So single fatherhood is increasing way faster than single motherhood.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-09-27T19:51:13+00:00

Saw these two bear cubs while hunting this weekend and got pics of them, not letting me upload for some reason. I was pretty far away it still nervous. Won’t lie I had my rifle scope aimed at mama bear 95 percent of the time in case she tried charging or some other shit 😂

throwaway_pathcam · 2022-09-27T20:19:23+00:00

I just feel so frustrated and hopeless.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-28T02:44:46+00:00

Holy shit , how is this acceptable?!

PlatypusPolka · 2022-09-27T03:10:45+00:00

Q4All: what are your go-to Halloween season/horror movies? The difficulty would be that my husband does not like gore so they would have to be sufficiently spooky without being excessively bloody. A little topical blood is okay.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-27T03:16:35+00:00

Ever since I've stopped feeding my dog junk food this motherfucker REFUSES to eat healthy.

I drop pieces of lettuce in front of him and he walks over, sniffs it, and looks up at me like "the fuck is this bullshit?"

gastongang · 2022-09-27T04:04:20+00:00

The world isn’t filled with heroes who’ll save people from their crises. In the end, you have to take care of your problems yourself.
But I think that you still need some guidance or support for that, maybe even a little encouragement
And it is our duty as human beings to give each other the support we need when we are struggling. Remember that at the end of the day, all we really have is each other

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T04:17:53+00:00

Tate is an ambiguous figure but banning him off all social media was a very authoritarian move and it doesn't make those platforms look good.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-09-27T05:38:40+00:00

It's funny how you can only be negative towards women. i.e.: saying lightskin girls are prettier than dark-skinned girls is colorist, but saying dark-skinned men are masculine and tough, and lightskin men are feminine and weak isn't

luliloo · 2022-09-27T06:39:51+00:00

𓀐𓂸

Libah05 · 2022-09-27T15:23:54+00:00

This tinder shit is actually fun when it works, who would’ve thought

kljcfg · 2022-09-27T15:55:11+00:00

Nofap day 5 : I am developing signs of a simp.

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-09-27T16:45:08+00:00

I feel so dumb for entertaining somethin I knew could never work out. Idk why I let it go on for so long. Also he is def hitting on 19 year olds at school while he is 24 and it makes me feel worse lmfao Hitting my wall in my mid 20s goddamn

I have over hundreds of likes on a dating app and yet I am upset over this fool I think bc it could’ve ended nicer

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-27T17:07:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/r7e8zr/physically_weak_men_tend_to_be_left_leaning_andor/

But I thought incels were right wing!

lol

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-27T17:14:52+00:00

I miss u/dragonfly-crash

Ever since she died in that car accident, PPD chat just hasn't been the same 🥲

Peacesquad · 2022-09-27T17:25:54+00:00

I was watching this podcast and this quote really stood out to me:

“Women with status use it to DISQUALIFY men, Men with status use it to QUALIFY women”

TheSinema · 2022-09-27T18:52:10+00:00

I told the guy I liked the truth about everything and he was surprisingly understanding but wants me to cut off my friends that told me to make him jealous

AquaChip · 2022-09-27T19:07:20+00:00

This nerd cheated on his wife. But please continue trying to gaslight women into thinking we only get cheated on because we marry up or marry “bad boys”.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-27T20:07:22+00:00

How can game be real if I’ll use a line on one girl and it’ll work but will get me ignored with another girl ?

lacuti3 · 2022-09-27T20:13:46+00:00

Most people are unattracted to unattainability.

Why is it when guys are unattracted to unattainability they talk mad shit about hot girls but when girls are unattracted to unattainability they never talk shit about hot guys? Is it because it hurts guys more not being with hot girls?

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T20:23:17+00:00

People who think their dating probems are caused by looking average, it's bs.

I have a lot of, like big amounts of sympathy for people, especially men who struggle with dating due to having traumatic childhood experiences and society doing absolutely nothing to help them. Absolutely criminal.

6negative4 · 2022-09-27T20:50:27+00:00

Nothing a woman hates seeing more than a happy man

gastongang · 2022-09-27T03:32:05+00:00

Bozeman Science is the 🐐

huhwhatokok · 2022-09-27T04:53:51+00:00

I really want to talk about one of the top posts in r/Diabla that is so wrong but it would get me banned here.

gastongang · 2022-09-27T06:39:19+00:00

regardless of whatever relationship dynamic you have, traditional, egalitarian, female led, or weird bdsm shit, you need to be putting in equal effort

you can divide based on gender roles or whatever if you want

but it doesn't change the fact that the workload needs to be equivalent

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2022-09-27T07:29:21+00:00

It’s so weird that a new abortion bill just passes in my relatively conservative country and nobody flips out or gets upset. They just expand legal abortion from 12 weeks to 20 weeks.

Comment sections on social media are very tamed, whether from conservative or liberal pages. The common sentiment appears to be that abortion is a sin and the mother is going to hell, but it should still be legal so that the society is not burdened with supporting unwanted kids.

I guess hardcore Buddhists are being distracted by other news like gay harems among the monks, weeds, and flooding.

scwizard · 2022-09-27T07:40:56+00:00

Q4W: ever gotten pregnant on purpose?

Why?

How old were you at the time?

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-27T08:31:36+00:00

Why’s everyone talking about Diablo? Is there a new trailer?? 😳

LaloTwins · 2022-09-27T08:47:45+00:00

Anti Vaxxers L

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-09-27T09:13:05+00:00

It comes up a lot that promiscuous women have a higher risk of divorce.

But that's obviously not the only metric of success for a relationship.

Isn't a 10 year long marriage that's vibrant, happy and exciting better than a 30 year boring marriage? It's not like your life ends when a divorce happens.

Q4ALL

Just how bad is the threat of divorce or breakup for you? Why?

kljcfg · 2022-09-27T09:20:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/purplepillcirclejerk/comments/dkae6c/have\_you\_tried\_online\_dating/

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-27T10:19:10+00:00

I’ve heard women Say one of the worst things in dating is when You meet a great guy who checks all the boxes(looks/career/values) but he can’t lay pipe 😂. The first time you give him a pass cause you know he’s probably nervous and sex usually ain’t great the first time with a new partner. But then you fuck him a couple more times and it’s like hmm this dude sucks. That’s one of the reasons some women go back to ex partners, cause at least he knows how to fuck.

I never had that issue as a man though. In the sense of a woman I was dealing with who checked all the boxes but I thought the sex sucked. Usually when the sex wasn’t great she was sub par in other key areas as well. Maybe the blowjobs were mediocre but the sex overall was fine

Infinite_Signal90 · 2022-09-27T14:40:43+00:00

Please tell me none of you paid for Tate’s Hustler University. Please.

nothatyoucare · 2022-09-27T14:41:06+00:00

Baumeister and Vohs pretty much foresaw FDS all the back in 2004 lol.

Peacesquad · 2022-09-27T14:41:27+00:00

What’s up purple people?🧌

scwizard · 2022-09-27T15:04:18+00:00

It seems it's very rare for girls to get pregnant on purpose in their 20s.

If a girl who's like 23 gets pregnant on purpose do you assume there's something wrong with her?

Acaciduh · 2022-09-27T15:05:01+00:00

You can tell the true Floridians whenever a hurricane about to hit. The transplants are already freaking out buying up all the water and acting like a Cat 1 is the apocalypse and I’m with the rest of the natives buying booze and hitting the marijuana dispensary.

chilikettlechips · 2022-09-27T15:46:23+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/nextfuckinglevel/comments/xpdbdd/the_perfect_shot/

Lol imagine a mid guy doing some exaggerated JoJo poses whenever doing anything for video likes.

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-27T15:47:13+00:00

If her ass doesn’t sound like a shootout when I’m giving her back shots I don’t want her 😤

scwizard · 2022-09-27T17:06:29+00:00

https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/stories/2022/04/fertility-rates-declined-for-younger-women-increased-for-older-women-table-1.jpg

It won't be long until women in their 40s are more fertile than teenagers.

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-27T18:02:34+00:00

https://mobile.twitter.com/Drebae_/status/1574454379901423618

Me(the cat) when I see a couple of lanklets minding their own business

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-27T18:21:58+00:00

They are women who will tell men that their lack of ''progressive'' beliefs is the reason don't find them attractive.

lol

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-09-27T18:41:41+00:00

How is everyones day going yall

WahmenH8ter · 2022-09-27T19:35:54+00:00

Ladies, how much does phallus size matter to you?

Slipthe · 2022-09-27T19:43:55+00:00

Q4ALL: How often do you feel like an adult, and how often do you feel like your child/teen self?

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-27T20:01:17+00:00

The urge to share porn to annoy the hall monitors is creeping back up

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-27T20:39:15+00:00

The peak male physique is a guy who has skinny arms and legs but has a belly that hangs in front of him. Like even his body was too lazy to distribute that weight anywhere else.

CandyCaneCollectress · 2022-09-28T02:35:39+00:00

Q4All: How can you tell if is potential bf is a proverbial “good guy”?

I know there are lots of ways to tell that a guy is bad news, but what ways are there to tell if he’s good? Or is that something only time will tell?

poppy_blu · 2022-09-28T02:00:34+00:00

Being a nerd or incel doesn’t make you a good guy. Being attractive and sexually successful doesn’t make you a bad guy.

urbangoth · 2022-09-27T03:10:04+00:00

What's up with people caring about what others do in their personal life, assuming they're not hurting anyone? Is it some strange scarcity mentality? I don't get it.

kljcfg · 2022-09-27T13:37:06+00:00

Attraction is weird. It changes as I get to know people. I'll use college as an example.

Like on the first day of class you look around and you see like 2 girls you think are hot, a couple of unfortunate looking people, and a couple of just average women you won't remember the second you leave that class.

Then at the end of the semester, the three girls you thought were hot are HIDEOUS. Like I WOULD NOT DATE THEM EVER. Like unbelievably turned off by them because they have portrayed character traits that have altered my view of them 100% and I stare at them just trying to see what I saw originally.

Meanwhile, the girl with glasses and fat ass that sits next to me each day (a girl who I literally did not notice the first day) has become the cutest girl in class. Over time, she has made funny jokes, and she's smart and kind. I can just look at her and think wow this girl is fucking sexy how did I not notice her she's clearly the hottest woman in this fucking class. Like I will be very physically attracted to that girl.

This is just a hypothetical but I'm trying to say that if you put me around a group of people I will RARELY be able to distinguish the sexy person right away. It takes time because your personality will totally fucking warp the way I see you physically. When I first met my oneities I didn't even think she was cute AT ALL and now I think she's truly the most gorgeous creature alive.

That__EST · 2022-09-27T14:03:01+00:00

I'm pretty big on saying that I don't let other people's actions control my emotions. But I have to say, I think to a certain extent, we definitely do affect each other and that getting to the point that I'm at now has taken a lot of one on one personal experiences and the discomfort from them that have shaped me.

But I don't know what I'd be like if I genuinely had never felt pain from another person.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-27T14:23:11+00:00

Q4W: What would you think if a self-described straight guy told you "there's so many attractive men but there's only a few attractive women"? Would you think he's in the closet?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-09-27T16:34:14+00:00

If you are a feminist, you absolutely should go Dutch , no excuse . I don’t t care if the bill is 10$

gastongang · 2022-09-27T09:18:31+00:00

If men treated women like we do our male friends, we would all get arrested for sexual harassment

Peacesquad · 2022-09-27T14:45:51+00:00

I see so many married men throughout the week and they all look miserable lol

scwizard · 2022-09-27T05:11:59+00:00

Any guys out there that have grown out of wanting a submissive housewife and grown into wanting a independent minded woman that he splits chores 50/50 with? I wanna follow in your footsteps but the path you've trod is currently outside my imagination.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-09-27T03:36:14+00:00

I've reached my monthly quota of activity on this sub instead of my weekend quota. Need to reel it in before I end up adopting the bitter attitude that permeates this place.

rurunoa · 2022-09-27T09:07:54+00:00

where is my submissive househusband

BigOleGreenTrees · 2022-09-27T15:31:42+00:00

80/20 rule has been exposed as mythology. Eat my shorts. Find another excuse to pity yourself with peace and love :)

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xpacxf/comment/iq3q7fw/

tinasnow-poty · 2022-09-27T16:13:33+00:00

Going on a 3rd date tonight wooooo

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T17:49:58+00:00

Can we agree that there are no crazy divorce stories a la " I dont get to see my kids anymore" among well-adjusted people ? A woman who isn't fucked in the head knows that it's important for her kids to see her father.

scwizard · 2022-09-27T20:42:44+00:00

If a guy has been with 100 other girls, how do you know you're not the one he's gonna spend the rest of his life with?

After all he told you he's tired of hookups and he's looking for something real.

As you drive an hour and a half to get to his place, don't be afraid to get excited about the future you and him will have together.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-09-28T01:58:01+00:00

slightly less hot chicks are more of chad chasers than the super hot chicks from my personal experiences

i think its because the want to get the validation while hot chicks already have it

scwizard · 2022-09-28T01:54:26+00:00

When women are like "girls don't have to put up with losers anymore now that they're liberated."

Ok fine I get it.

But when women (and some men here either) are like "80/20 don't real! It's fake misogynist numbers." Then it's like lol come the fuck on.

I guess some women think that only a tiny fringe and evil minority of guys are sexless and 90% of guys have plenty of options to choose from.

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-28T01:39:14+00:00

Mods it wasn’t actually u/dragonfly-crash on Rapskallion’s profile he was just fucking around lol they extended her ban to 30 days 😭

Peacesquad · 2022-09-28T01:29:58+00:00

How do me get sexx?

scwizard · 2022-09-28T00:57:14+00:00

So the redpill theory is hypergamy. That women are only chasing the top xyz% of men that they see as potential options.

The bluepill theory that is women go for equals.

But stats and reality says clearly that only a small percentage of guys are being chased by a majority of women. So basically bluepillers are saying that a 50th percentile woman is equal to a 10th percentile man.

So for example. If a man and a woman make a similar income. The woman is actually more successful than him because she had to deal with institutional sexism to reach that level of success.

And there's less numeric factors too. That women are more emotionally intelligent. More empathetic. And just in general more shining and awesome. So of course a 50th percentile woman is better than a 50th percentile man.

And like you can't prove that's wrong. Can you really in good conscience say to a woman that she's not awesome and she doesn't have a chance with the proverbial quarterback?

Here's another example. Let's say 90% of men watch porn and 50% of woman do. Is it really fair to say to a woman who doesn't, that she doesn't deserve a guy who doesn't watch porn?

You can't prove it's hypergamy. You can't prove that if only 20% of guys watched porn women and men would have a much easier time finding someone.

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-28T00:48:39+00:00

Hey guys, it's me u/dragonfly-crash

Rapskallion was kind enough to let me use his account while I serve time in PPD purgatory. I know you guys miss me so let's keep this gravy train going 😜

Q4Women: If pregnancies were a quick painless process that only lasted one month, would you abort your child and try for a new one if you knew your kid was going to be ugly?

meteorness123 · 2022-09-28T00:45:54+00:00

Gotta give it to Andrew Tate for having such a thick skin. Many people would fold. I guess being rich helps.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-09-28T00:45:53+00:00

I am spending this lovely evening in San Francisco. I really don’t come here enough. On the downside my husband handed me his sweater and asked me to carry it to the car. I clearly remember him doing this. Now I have no idea where it is. It’s definitely not in the car. I offered him my jacket in penance but it won’t fit and is kinda girly.

prettymuchredpilled · 2022-09-28T00:40:29+00:00

Some Tinder female called me broke for not wanting to buy her shitty nudes. She gotta post her ass and titties for horny old men on the internet just to afford a meal and somehow I'm the "broke" one 😭😭

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-28T00:04:39+00:00

The guy who looks like Ted Bundy with a hair weave blocked me 💀

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-09-27T23:56:11+00:00

CMV: Foot fetish is disgusting as fck and for the greater good, all foot fetishists should be sent to MK Ultra facilities.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T23:55:40+00:00

Cmv

Most people after 30 and 35 stop caring about their looks and this is actually a good thing.

gastongang · 2022-09-27T23:53:55+00:00

Real CHADS

Millenia Thinker is the greatest filmmaker of our era

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R_noBxw4Dik

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-09-27T23:53:03+00:00

Can somebody here explain the appeal of Asian women to me?

Why would I go for brown eyes over blue or green?

Brown/black hair over blonde or red?

Built like a stick instead of huge fukin titties?

It’s like the entire male population is seeing something that I’m not

AstronomerNo42 · 2022-09-27T23:45:53+00:00

I’m thinking about breaking up with my bf of a year. He just has zero motivation and it is beginning to irritate me and make me not attracted to him anymore. Maybe I’m being too picky.

lulll · 2022-09-27T23:45:03+00:00

this is now my favorite video ever made

John_Oakman · 2022-09-27T23:44:04+00:00

The real question is, how can LVMs atone for the transgressions of the real men? Because those real men certain aren't going to change anything, nor do they have any incentives to do so...

magivictus · 2022-09-27T23:43:24+00:00

The amazon warehouse in my town is temporarily shut down because of bed bugs.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T23:39:45+00:00

The best thing is if you're on a date and they ask you "Did you have a happy childhood?" and the most harmless thing you can come up with is "It was a mixed bag". Lmao.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T23:30:12+00:00

So here's something to chew on : I don' t like the term beta male but let's just use it for the sake of it. I think childhood trauma creates a certain personality in men that gets them taken advantage of by narcisstic women. Johnny Depp was very handsome but his abuse by his mother made him vulnerable to getting exploited by such women. See Amber heard. And unconsciously hebwas probably seeking out a similar woman as his mother, hoping that this time everything would be different.

It's not looks. It's the upbringing. You have average looking guys with a healthy childhood who do much better than a guy like Johnny.

Same with "women like criminals because muh danger is attractive, evopsych". It's much more nuanced than that.

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-27T23:27:09+00:00

I just got called an incel on twox for saying women are picky on OLD. Kinda interesting to see how I'm a pick-me on purple pill but I'm an incel on twox.

Edit: Here's the link

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xpacxf/comment/iq47q3i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-27T23:24:12+00:00

The men who REALLY care about a low n-count are the same men who wouldn't be able to rack up a high n-count anyway lmao

scwizard · 2022-09-27T23:22:33+00:00

There's a lot of self improvement I could do.

But no matter what I wouldn't be a "good person"

Women on the other hand are "good people" every difficulty they face, every time people around them get hurt, whether they cheat on someone or get arrested or whatever, it's always because of circumstances outside of their control and they're always an innocent and moral victim.

So how the hell can I ever get a girlfriend when I'm not a good person, but women always seem to be?

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-27T23:17:58+00:00

Like I said it's wild that posts get taken down for " no rants" on the regular but we have a " cmv " rant with a non neutral post title where the OP is just trolling in the responses that guys are "insecure " for their preferences 🤣

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xovvib/why_we_need_to_stop_being_emotional_insecure_men/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T23:00:31+00:00

Confidence is more important than looks as long as the man isn't significantly below average looking.

scwizard · 2022-09-27T22:49:44+00:00

I redid my math.

1502 babies born to women over 40 with ivf in 2020.

In 2020 there were 120,570 births total to women over 40-44.

So I'd say around 10% of babies to women over 40 are ivf babies.

You think my math adds up?

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-27T22:28:02+00:00

How am I supposed to suck on my girl’s toes if they’re hairy? 🤢

-mixedsignals · 2022-09-27T22:13:19+00:00

I've been binge watching Mystery Diagnosis like this episode

Not only is the worst show for a hypochondriac because 80% of the cases is a misdiagnosed cancer

But also it should be call "Women or parents being gaslit by doctors"

patient: I'm coughing blood

doctor: it's probably anxiety

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Apprehensive_Kale651 · 2022-09-27T03:05:28+00:00

Did Harry spit on Chris?

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T03:15:55+00:00

Would you rather go through life by being

A) a man with an averge looking face but high proficiency in a martial art like mma

B)a man with a very good-looking face but no skills in marial arts

Steakman1 · 2022-09-27T03:23:07+00:00

Q4all: Do you think there’s an interacial porno out there titled “Ebony Chick gets whitewashed”?

Quantum_Supremacist · 2022-09-27T03:48:38+00:00

Q4M (or whoever)

In the post "Q4W: Would you be mad if a man you liked a lot made you wait for sex?" many of the women so far, an easy majority, have answered that they'd be cool with it.

Does that really align with your experience? It doesn't so much with mine. Your woman that you're in a relationship with and had a bunch of sex with already getting rebuffed for sex here and there doesn't seem to bother women much. However, a woman that you're new with and has made clear she wants sex with you, whether vocally or not, but gets rebuffed tends to get pissed about it.

Granted, a man saying from the beginning that he doesn't want sex until later and a woman thinking she's going to get laid tonight for the first time with a man she wants and then getting shut down are not the same thing.

Guys, what are your experiences?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-09-27T06:08:14+00:00

I was reading over some threads posted earlier today, and I've come up with a theory- the guys that consistently have women lining up to date them need to have (at least in most cases) two of these three nailed down:

Looks
Success (though what "success" means varies considerably depending on environment)
Game

So, for example- an attractive, well-spoken bum (Looks + Game) will get lots of girls. A famous but out-of-shape comedian will get lots of girls (Success + Game). And a good-looking but socially awkward tech/finance bro will get lots of girls (Looks + Success).

Now, I'm not saying this applies universally- a hot guy with no money and no social skills will still get laid off OLD if he's hot enough. A man with cash but nothing else will likely have plenty of women grabbing for his wallet (though genuine relationships may be in short supply). And an average looking loser who's good enough at reading people will likely be able to read his way into more than a few beds. But just having one of those things puts those guys at a considerable disadvantage compared to those who have two.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-09-27T07:46:12+00:00

Not sure how I feel about Diabla.

Honestly I think being a sugar baby is fine and purposefully dating wealthy men is also okay.

Do what you need to do. Make your money.

If you're a woman from a low income background there's no shame in dating someone wealthier to escape.

But the whole "Make him trauma bond to you. Take his cash and then leave him in the dust".

🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

scwizard · 2022-09-27T08:21:51+00:00

Huh.

Percentage wise father only households seem to have increased faster than mother only or two parent.

https://www.census.gov/newsroom/stories/single-parent-day/_jcr_content/root/responsivegrid/imagecore.coreimg.png/1646412717584/stories-single-parent1.png

annabeelongx · 2022-09-27T11:16:33+00:00

Q4W: How well did introducing your bf to your parents go?

WahmenH8ter · 2022-09-27T11:37:24+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRm2FVuT/

A man does this to your wife, wyd?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-27T13:46:57+00:00

Apparently there are people who are upset with the Jeffrey Dahmer series on Netflix

LaloTwins · 2022-09-27T14:33:43+00:00

Everything is a machine

Except women women are angels or goddesses or something divine iono

LaloTwins · 2022-09-27T15:33:12+00:00

Andrew Tate's War Room

Lol

lulll · 2022-09-27T16:19:04+00:00

women are wonderful

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T16:24:11+00:00

Out of curiosity : Have you seen people who were totally in love in the beginning who then went to break up or divorce viciously and what was the reason ?

dark_min10 · 2022-09-27T16:57:24+00:00

Question for men and women and please state which one your are when answering.

Assuming a woman (your gf) loves you and enjoys sex with you and is not the cheating type. I can already hear the saying “everyone is capable of cheating”. Yes that’s true but some way more than others. Would it matter if you are not her best sexual partner? Let’s say her n-count is 3 and her last bf was better than you (made her squirt/gave more orgasms/was bigger)? How do you think it would potentially affect the relationship? What subtle things will pop up if this is then case?

biggestuzifanea · 2022-09-27T17:41:02+00:00

Reminder no one has sympathy for women dating because it's like choosing to play a game on hard mode. Meanwhile for men hard mode is the only option, with challenges on

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T18:00:02+00:00

Can we agree that most dating problems and most of these crazy stories happen to socially awkward men ? Those are the ones that get taken advantage of by crazy women. Which is sad and a problem. But other men don't experience them

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-27T18:32:48+00:00

So many hotties at my gym. No wonder Im extra motivated to work out these days 😋

Ohmaygahh · 2022-09-27T18:57:15+00:00

I'm surprised no one has mentioned the most recent GQ issue in which there's a dedicated article talking about more and more men opting to surgically make themselves taller.

I meant to do a full post on this, but thoughts?

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-27T18:58:52+00:00

People of PPD what's your favorite soup?

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T19:02:14+00:00

Agree or nah

Despite its drawbacks, coffee is a life saver in many situations.

kljcfg · 2022-09-27T19:32:21+00:00

PPD I need your advise.

I am going the no-fap route as you all know but I can't resist the urge to have sex. So, I am planning on dumpster diving. Now the dilemma I am in right now is should I dumpster dive looks wise or status wise?

Peacesquad · 2022-09-27T19:44:51+00:00

Oh man they coming for me in this sub lmao you can’t even acknowledge biological facts anymore someone’s going to ban me again 😂🤣😂

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T20:31:06+00:00

Who here has ADHD ? It's such a weird place to be in. You're not autistic so you understand social cues are good at socializing for the most part. But you're still different and there are those random moments it bursts out of you

scwizard · 2022-09-27T22:13:14+00:00

I'm sorry, I don't expect men to be mindless automatons who can get it up and come on demand. I know sometimes it's just not happening, there's nerves and days where you just don't feel it. We're all humans and you can't script sex to be perfectly choreographed. That's why when this happens I'm polite and supportive and just try to make sure the guy feels comfortable and unjudged. But inside I'm just kinda frustrated because it feels like every man under 35 has death gripped and porn'd himself into erectile dysfunction. Sorry, I know that's mean. I just needed to rant it out somewhere so I don't explode.

Porn, video games. Unfit and unhealthy lifestyles, all add up to limp dicks. Wait until they blame you….

Forget finding a life partner. Girls are struggling to even find a guy who can give them a proper dicking. The quality of men has dropped just that low.

How can this be reversed? Restrictions on porn maybe?

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-27T22:12:46+00:00

Q4W Would you give a guy a rimjob?

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-09-27T22:06:48+00:00

Lol guy who took the time to unghost himself and ask me out on a date tonight just canceled a hour before saying he just got out of a breakup and isn’t in the right headspace. I appreciated his honesty but a lil bummed ngl

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-09-27T22:06:24+00:00

reddit moms: Here is the latest argument I got into with my husband, who has checked out and is refusing to carry the MeNtAL LoAd. Also, here are all the ways our lives are terrible, and I'm pregnant with our 4th child.

reasonable person: How long has this been going on?

reddit moms: since I was pregnant with our first child.

reasonable person:....

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T21:46:45+00:00

Rate this line I sent someone I was sexting with :

"Tonight, I will take what is mine. By right".

And by mine I mean her pussy.

scwizard · 2022-09-27T21:42:29+00:00

"Chads" of PPD. If your wife or gf told you she was fine with you doing stuff with other girls, would you?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-27T21:39:17+00:00

I need some new shoes. Do Heelys look good on a guy?

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-27T21:26:40+00:00

Im sorry but hairy toes are the worst. Ladies, please remove the hair on your toes. Its one thing that is an instant boner killer. This is a PSA

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-27T21:11:32+00:00

What do you think of parents who pay for their daughters’ boob jobs? Seems kinda messed up to me. I know one mom who actually encouraged her daughter to get it. It’s weird

meteorness123 · 2022-09-27T21:10:36+00:00

The only bottom I'ma be hitting is if it's sodomy.

ririsbaby · 2022-09-27T21:08:31+00:00

My mom wants me to sell her iPhone 6 😬 and upgrade. She’s had it for a few good years, no scratches (case + screen protector), 83% percentage battery. Is it even worth anything? Can anyone estimate?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-27T20:59:59+00:00

Women who complain or worry about men using them for sex are just deflecting the fact that they have nothing else to offer past their vagina

scwizard · 2022-09-27T07:40:05+00:00

I saw this hot topless mommy at the pool with her daughter and her baby.

I keep thinking about her, can't get her out of my head.

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-09-27T12:16:27+00:00

I find myself flip flopping between girls who have LUCIOUS tits but a face you gotta put a bag over, and girls with model tier facial features but a body like a washboard.

Recently I settled on 7/10 for both categories: a girl with modest tits (34DD) but low body fat and a pretty cute face but she has a weak jawline with a textbook incel chin.

But now it’s like: I don’t really wanna fuck her tits OR her face. Kinda just wishing now I kept to my pattern of going super hard in one direction 😔

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-09-27T10:35:52+00:00

Met up with a new girl I was talking to, spent a couple of hours just sitting in her car talking, made out a little bit. Seeing her again on Thursday. She's not looking for anything serious which is fine by me. Maybe something will blossom a few months down the line but for now it's just enjoying the fun.

And now only a couple of hours after that date I'm heading to another one of my girls houses.

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