Daily Community Chat Megathread

Workaholiconew · 2023-07-27T19:54:36+00:00

I find it funny that people say trp men to go to therapy...

That is asking to decrease the number of psychologists in your region... and it wont do anything to change trp men.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-27T19:47:24+00:00

When I walk over street, not a single woman (of my age) looks in my face as we pass each other. What now? Same goes for when I sit anywhere. It's like I'm a ghost.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-27T19:44:29+00:00

People in the manosphere need therapy, not the redpill

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-07-27T19:30:20+00:00

In regards to “nagging”. If someone is constantly being told what they are doing is wrong, that is inevitably going to be internalized and resentment against the person nagging will build. This should be obvious but what I think people miss is they try to justify their criticisms on objective grounds, but you can’t choose how someone else feels about the way you treatment. So if your husband is incompetent and does housework improperly, it doesn’t mean they can’t feel a certain way about constant negativity. It’s up the person nagging to find a better way to nudge their partner, kid, etc in the right direction.

I’ve seen this a lot on here when the topic comes up, people trying defend this bombarding others with criticism as okay communication under the circumstances.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-27T19:29:29+00:00

Okay; I’m having an AITA moment and I need the based people’s input only, por favor.

Summer is fleeting, and I wanna go on a 10 day multi-state hiking trip with my 2 yo (partly because I want her with me, but also because the childcare is my responsibility and I have no one close by who can watch her for that long.) I am financing the trip myself. My husband A) doesn’t like to hike very much, and B) can’t take that much time off of work… He is a little bummed that I am going on a trip without him. I understand, cuz I’ve felt that way when he’s gone on trips with his older daughters without me. But at the same time… I wanna fucking explore the world before I’m too old to do it.

Am I being an asshole?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-27T19:28:23+00:00

Here is another one for you, if a man wants a small and petite girlfriend it is "ick" because he comes off as pedophilic, however, if a woman wants to feel small and petite next to her tall boyfriend, and she looks like a literal child next to him, this is perfectly acceptable and not at all weird.

I wish these things made sense to me beyond a "you just have to accept it the way that it is"

baresquad · 2023-07-27T19:24:37+00:00

Q4m: Is it disrespectful to check out another man’s girlfriend or wife?

Personally, I don’t think so. You can’t not expect people to find your partner attractive and if they do, they’re naturally gonna be curious about her.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T19:16:10+00:00

Okay I genuinely can't tell how crazy I am right now, it's crazy to me.

Q4All if you're wearing headphones and someone you can't see grabs those headphones, that's like really fucking scary right? They literally put their hands on your head and are now gripping you? Is it not a reasonable response to be upset by that?

SianOiseau · 2023-07-27T19:01:24+00:00

Husband left a bunch of hickeys on my neck and now I have to cover it with hair/hands while giving lessons. That's awkward, we're kind of...too old for that lol.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-27T18:58:18+00:00

The other day I asked in what ways men are winning since feminists often proclaim society treats them more harshly than men.

I just thought of another example for why this isn't true. Take a man and a woman. Let's say the woman rejects the man for being too short. In this scenario popular opinion on the internet would defend her and say she is allowed to have preferences. However, if a man rejects a woman for being too tall, the popular opinion on the internet would be that the man is insecure.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-27T18:45:57+00:00

There are plenty of attractive men who want committed relationships, and there are plenty of attractive women who aren’t looking for relationship/are into casual sex.

If you think Chad is always sleeping with women and dangling commitment and women have to settle with less attractive men in order to get commitment, please, go outside.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-07-27T18:40:19+00:00

The can’t make a hoe into a housewife men and can’t have a housewife without a home women should marry

SianOiseau · 2023-07-27T18:37:57+00:00

Do you think it's an example of "nagging"?

I think for a lot of men trying to explain how to do chores comes of as nagging. But at some point not knowing how to do basic stuff and refusing to learn is just weaponized incompetence.

I'm also surprised that they haven't figured out the guidelines for cleaning yet. My husband and I started living together and we exchanged different ways our families clean and maintain the household without much issues about it. I also have lower cleanliness standards than he does, so I was on the opposite side of the traditional issue here, and I don't think that being mindful of things your partner cares about is that hard. It's easier to clean everything away and keep up with their standards than to make them upset when you forget about it, because over time it can be read as not caring about them and not just chores.

liberalvenery · 2023-07-27T18:29:14+00:00

Going to see Barbie tonight with the boys, can't wait 😎

SorryEm · 2023-07-27T17:37:45+00:00

One of these days I'm gonna attach a hidden camera and earpiece to myself and ask one of the chumps here to help me talk to a girl. I genuinely wonder what kind of life do these people think the average man under 30 lives.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-27T17:27:09+00:00

Who started this rumor that women marry men they aren't attracted to? Where does this come from? Pop culture and shows like Kings and Queens or Modern Family, the whole overweight/lean blue collar husband and the more attractive wife? Because even in those shows, the woman will stand by her man, enjoy sex with him, etc.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T17:22:13+00:00

Q4Women:

Normally the answer to this question would be "Yes, obviously. Fucking clearly."

Is it misogynistic to ignore women and actively not interact with them in my specific situation?

Again 99/100 the answer is "yes, what the fuck is wrong with you." But I feel like I can fully justify why I don't interact with women (see previous comment) and without it being that I hate women (I actually like women, they are very nice) or I believe crazy RP shit about them.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-27T17:16:52+00:00

True or false: women are, on the whole, more viscerally attracted to the men they hook up with than the men they lock down for LTRs

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T17:08:36+00:00

I think hope, especially misplaced hope, is a really bad thing.

I spent so much of my 20s miserable because I would show up to places and events with the thought in my head "Maybe I will talk to a woman here" and inevitably, I would not, or it would be a very brief conversation that she tried to extricate herself from immediately. Once I realized "Yeah I'm not going to talk to any women" my mood actually improved immensely because I was no longer putting any pressure on myself to try and I was able to enjoy events outcome independent of when I could talk to women.

Now one funny thing is that a lot of people (women especially) will say "That's how you talk to women, you have to show up places outcome intendent and not give a fuck and juts have fun, if you have fun that will attract people towards you".

This is also not true. What matters is intrinsically having fun. Having fun will not attract people to you unless you yourself are moderately attractive. Since I've started having fun I still haven't talked to any women. But I have had fun.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-27T16:17:16+00:00

Can someone here offer me some career guidance because I find myself now in a rather awkward position because I always figured I'd off myself by now so I don't have any prospects, Big Ooops I guess. My biggest achievements in this aspect would be my knowledge of building websites and/or more complicated apps, and a novel that I wrote once as an impulse that actually managed to get 100kk+ views. Keep in mind that I'm from a third-world country with only a high school diploma.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-27T16:12:26+00:00

Little boys (defined as men below the age of 25) who latch on to the aesthetics of traditionalism because they don't know how to define their own masculinity will never not be funny to me.

Bitch you barely have a job, you are not the bulwark of patriarchy you think you are.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-07-27T16:00:37+00:00

These same women are making dudes take them out on multiple dates before they get so much as a peck on the cheek lol

Ppl who don’t see chad clean up probably just stay at home every night

meteorness123 · 2023-07-27T15:55:00+00:00

Women care more about the way you carry yourself, (paired with a basic sense of masculinity) than how you look

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T15:53:48+00:00

I'm going to a rave with the Chad friend I got. He invited me. It's called uh Bass Camp? Base Camp? Or something? It's some sort of massive rave at "The Gorge" in Washington. He told me to watch this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YPdM1j4tZg

Apparently it's like a 3 day thing. He started talking to me about when I bring women bak to the tent that I could take them back there and he'd take his somewhere else and never in our tent.

I find it funny how much confidence he has with me that I'm going to fucking pick up women at this shit lmao

I'm sure a 5'6 autistic dude who's extremely socially awkward is just going to SLAY at a rave. Obviously. I let him know of my skepticism because ..I mean obviously. I just asked him to not bring any women he's going to fuck back to our tent because that would make me feel pretty fucking bad when I can't even talk to women. And he said he'd always go back to their place. So hopefully he's sure about that because it would be like incredibly depressing and ruin the time for me if he did honestly. I'm just going to headbang because in terms of women, no fucking shot lmao

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-27T15:35:56+00:00

So I've been on my self improvement journey for a while now. I did all the soft core things, skin, hair, wardrobe, and I felt like I was peeking in my improvement. To take it to the next level I wanted to be lean, lean. I was already skinny dude. But I wanted to take it a step further. For like a month now I've been on 1 meal a day, and I've stayed on very low sodium foods. My cheeks bones are more pronounced now, my jaw is more angular now, but this shit is fucking hard. I've been do low energy. I have a new appreciation for models man. Ik their diets are more extreme then what im doing. Honestly, I wanted to see if I could get more girls, but my sex drive is lower and I dont even have the energy to try to rizz up. I dont even want sex as much anymore.

I wanna go back to normal, but im obsessed, I just look so striking now.

Edit: I see alot of people talking about i have a unhealthy obsession, no I don't, im well aware that what im doing is unsustainable, but I do like the results thats achieved. No, I'm not a skeleton. I'm perfectly fine, and for the most part im functioning. I'm just sharing my experience.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-27T14:58:43+00:00

i took over a year off to cut you bitches some slack tell a friend to tell a friend shessss backkkk (reference)

YALL COULD NOT GET RID OF ME PERMA BAN GONE

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-27T14:58:13+00:00

My longterm fWb said something that made me think.

Out of nowhere she thanked me. When I asked her what for, she thanked me because I was patient with her a number of years ago. I didn't understand.

She went on to explain that when she asked for some time to herself to sort out her feelings and whether she wanted to continue seeing me, I had said ok and didn't txt or call her.

She then went on to explain that the four men before she met me, at varying points of seeing them, she asked for an indeterminate amount of time to see if she wanted to keep fucking them, having a relationship with them/changing the status of their association.

All four reacted poorly, with varying degrees of clingyness, ultimatums, impatience, one sided txts as long as novels, and declarations of their deep undying love for her, etc.

When they reacted this way, it really turned her off and she knew she didn't want to continue seeing them in a romantic/sexual way any longer.

She gave me a strong hug. I know this was supposed to be a special nugget of sharing from her. But i couldn't help but feel fucking disgusted.

I remember what she was talking about. She did in fact take some time off from me, not knowing whether she was going to come back or fuck half the midwest and westcoast. When she asked for time alone, I remember simply saying "ok" and I lightly blocked her number as to not be tempted to reach out when she expressed she didn't want to hear from me. It was easy to ignore her then as I was fucking 3 other girls at the time, without her knowing.

The only reason I "won" ( as in I continued to have a romantic/sexual fwb relationship with her) in the end is because I didn't care if she came back to me at all. Those other four men? They cared. Too much.

And so a sad realization dawned on me. Men can never have the woman they love.

A man's love for a particular woman is the antithesis of her love for him. How sad for man. Not only does he face hundreds of thousands of micro and macro rejections in life; the one handful of women that have the capacity to love him, he won't love back with the same earnestness and fervor. He can't. To do so would sour her love for him.

What a sad, bitter, hopeless feeling. No matter how hard you work, try, develop, learn, and improve, man cannot change that fact.

4SSh01e · 2023-07-27T14:55:30+00:00

When women say they prefer tall/taller men because it makes them feel feminine, there is usually no proper counter argument, however, if a man is found wanting something in a woman to feel masculine, he'd face a lot of ridicule. Any ideas why that is so?

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keebydee · 2023-07-27T04:01:36+00:00

First....I hope.

DrawingSuper2211 · 2023-07-27T04:01:45+00:00

First

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T04:07:13+00:00

Reposting cause the DT is over

One thing I find really weird is the hatred towards women actually enjoy sex. Like it genuinely feels like 90% of the men screaming about how virginity is so important would be willing to fuck a literal unmoving doll, as long as nobody else has stuck it's dick in it. It just doesn't sound fun at all.

On the other hand consider something like escorts. They're probably really fucking good at sex, it's their literal fucking job. Also women who like sex probably are pretty fucking good at it. Women like when men get off generally, they like it when dudes cum and all that, and they probably also know how to (help, it's the guys job to do it obviously, it's often a mental thing) get themselves off. Which is hot. It is mindblowing to me people dislike all this. Also it's generally pretty hot when a woman knows she's sexy and likes sex and is forward about that.

It is fucking weird when men dislike that stuff and I don't get it.

The only problem is that while it there is a minute, miniscule possibility that at least once in my lifetime I will find someone who will be willing to have sex with me there is NO fucking chance that I'd ever find the kind of woman I'd describing who would want to have sex with me. Because they generally want put together, very attractive (it's not like they're lacking for options), men who are actually competent and knowing what they're doing. The exact opposite of me. 😔

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T04:09:58+00:00

Another thing: There's a guy further down the DT today, and they show up time to time in general . Men whining about dating and the concept of dating, especially the financial part. Oh my god what the fuck.

My Chad friend who has been staying with me for the past few days doesn't have his debit card, I don't give a shit we're going out anyway. I got him. He's helping me with a bunch of shit and I genuinely enjoy spending time around him.

You've probably paid for your homies before too.

Yet you're not willing to pay for someone who WANTS to spend time with you? Are you fucking serious? Are you insane? It has nothing to do with expectation, if someone is willing to hang out with me, to literally come with me on a fucking date why would lose my mind about paying for them. It's not an expectation thing either it's just "I like you, you like me because you're here, don't worry I got this". I'd probably fight over paying actually,

I hate the fucking idea of someone paying for me though for some reason.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-27T04:24:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15aa7ao/aitah_for_admitting_in_front_of_all_of_my/

She's most definitely the asshole here. She threw that edit in there after she started taking heat and people switched their opinions, I still think that's an asshole move regardless. They might as well divorce.

keebydee · 2023-07-27T04:45:01+00:00

What are opinions on here about pity? I remember at my first school dance, I was sitting by myself the whole time until a group of girls walked up to me and offered if I wanted to dance with them. I declined because one, I had an extreme anxiety disorder and the thought of dancing with a girl especially in front of other people, made me so nervous and still does.

And two, I knew it was out of pity and not genuine interest to be around me. These girls never showed any interest in me a day in their lives, platonic or otherwise. I fucking hate pity and don't like that the only opportunities I could get girls to interact with me is if they felt pity or something.

Plus, I'm autistic and the last thing I would've wanted was to end up mistaking this gesture as a sign of wanting to be friends or something more like I stupidly did before. So I just sat by myself until the dance ended.

But now it bothers me a bit that I declined their offer because it was the only time I got an opportunity like that. Even if it was out of pity, I could've maybe had a good memory of the dance and an activity done with a girl rather than it just being another one of my social failures. Also another group walked up to me but it was just as a joke. They didn't legitimately want to dance so that was great.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-27T05:02:43+00:00

Arguing with people here is a great way to spend time while I'm on the treadmill. I'll say something controversial... everyone knows 5'7" guys have the biggest schmeat. They out cock everyone, God just nerfed them in height so they wouldn't be overpowered. CMV

Maractop · 2023-07-27T05:35:56+00:00

Why do people act weird when they find out about hobbies you have that you dont really talk about? Like am I supposed to tell people every single thing im interested in?

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-07-27T05:54:52+00:00

My first day here, i kinda get why men emotionally down.

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-07-27T05:56:38+00:00

Does this sub allow asking questions about my personal problems for help and advice? And am I allowed to ask/discuss about all other types of platonic friendships and social issues? I could ask on socialskills sub but I've found the takes in this sub are more deeper and varied

Blocksplain · 2023-07-27T06:46:08+00:00

brb just gonna overturn the snowballing fusion of inexperience and lack of confidence that comes from never getting to engage with the gaining-confidence-from-gaining-experience-from-gaining-confidence-from-gaining-experience feedback loop that skipped me in my young adulthood that enabled my peers to develop social skills and learn about themselves and others despite my best efforts as the eldest male in an estranged family with cursed Theodin as a Dad and zero role models to learn from

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-27T06:53:48+00:00

Why do you think most of the world's big religions demonized male masturbation, so much? I have seen it cited that circumcision was used to make masturbation more difficult by religions...

Maractop · 2023-07-27T06:54:46+00:00

Can your traits balance eachother out to make you be seen as average? Like if youre extremely attractive facially but like 5tf6 would that make you an average man? Or 6ft 5 but with an unattractive face? Like can one make up for the other to make you be seen as average? Cause from what I seen average is only based off of facial attractiveness and height. Or is it more like if you are short or ugly you are at below average by default and if you are really good looking or really tall you are in above average by default. Idk if that makes sense im half asleep rn lol

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-07-27T07:35:12+00:00

This subs for romantic relationships, but I have trouble making any sort of friendships and connections. I can never connect with any human, feels like I'm one stage below y'all cause atleast you guys have other normal friendships. I just get treated very formally by others. Idk what is exactly wrong with my personality, what makes a good personality? I feel like I'm quite boring and I don't know how to be fun. The times I've asked friends about (and I'm talking about normal friendships with other guys) they've said I'm "too nice", and that I come off as very gullible, passive, too harmless and even prude. And I really feel clueless about what can I do about all this. What advice can y'all give besides "hit gym, dress well, learn some martial art or hobby"

How different are the dynamics of a friendship between two guys or a groups of guys? Cause I'm never a significant friend just someone in the background, never taken seriously or a priority. I'd say I have a normal life, I try to talk in a normal friendly way to everyone, but it's just that no friendship is ever made with any of my interactions

nexkell · 2023-07-27T08:02:57+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15ap0xq/i_was_called_a_whore_for_saying_goodbye_to_a_male/

That totally happened not.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-27T08:11:51+00:00

One of the best things about having a compatible partner is that they like doing the same things you want to do, or at least they like you so much that they do their best to learn to show interest. Biggest healing experiences I’ve ever had. Yesterday we watched my favourite movie, and while I like to watch it alone as well, it’s nice to have someone next to me.

Throwaway1447973 · 2023-07-27T08:27:20+00:00

One thing I've noticed on Reddit is that if you act like a complete jackass peoples true colors really seem to fly.

I was over on r/dating_advice and there was this thread where this guy was insecure about being totally bald at 25. A good 95% of the comments told him that women would not care at all at that his confidence would make up for it. The thread directly above it was a ragebait post about some guy who was stringing along some girl he thought was unattractive and was just in it for the sex. The top rated comment was literally something to the extent of "I hope you go bald early and she has a massive glow up"

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-27T08:57:49+00:00

Why are people with mental illnesses or abusive families overrepresented on Reddit. Not that everyone I know irl has perfect families but bloody hell it’s like every other post on the website has people with narcissistic parents

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-27T09:12:28+00:00

I won 1 chess game today. Played 20. The buddha is calm, but that's only because he never experienced this.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T09:53:05+00:00

One time I was talking to this girl online that I met through the game I play (SL). And eventually after I thought "Okay she's like super emotionally invested in me, says she wants to meet, we've had phone sex, slept on the phone, all that going to share a full face pic". I did it when we were on the phone

I warned her a few times "Hey my face is a bit weird looking." More than a few times. I didn't hide what I looked like I tried to describe it to her. And she fucking cried. Like full on break down sobbing.

That was fun. That's actually happened twice, but the other time it happened it was less than 2 weeks and she wasn't AS invested.

AreOut · 2023-07-27T10:19:32+00:00

I'm 41 and died my hair first time in my life(natural color cream Cameleo 1.0 black), despite having only a few greys it made tremendous difference. Girls seem to like it as well.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-27T10:36:02+00:00

Warning, OK_Bear976. Letting time run out instead of resigning will result in a temporary ban.

fucking ban me then Lichess. I'll drive downtown and piss on your servers

webernicke · 2023-07-27T10:54:34+00:00

Q4A: Which group is worse, gun nuts or climate alarmists?

John_Oakman · 2023-07-27T11:44:29+00:00

Remember,these guys were probably nice guys and good men, who only wanted to fulfill their social obligations and what they were told is right.

saraimarsena · 2023-07-27T11:45:23+00:00

so for me it’s

FACE > PERSONALITY > HEIGHT (altho he can’t be shorter than 5’9 unless he’s excelling in many other categories, even still he has to be taller than me and i’m 5’7) > WEALTH > DICK SIZE (unless he’s a micro/uncircumcised which are dealbreakers)

my thinking is with average at a bare minimum, what order at which id prefer someone to be above average in a category

how would you rank things ?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-27T12:19:23+00:00

Lol is this correct?

baiser_vole · 2023-07-27T12:23:38+00:00

Just booked my flight tickets and my hotel to go see my boyfriend again. We get so excited when we get to see each other. I am happy.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-27T12:33:23+00:00

Saw a fellow user saraimarsena do this so I’m going to list out what’s important for me in a female.

BODY> FACE>PERSONALITY> NORMAL N COUNT>NOT A RAGING TOXIC FEMINIST>OCCUPATION>NAILS PAINTED>MONEY HABITS>RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS

Pretty normal opinions for a 23M in 2023. When I say “normal n count” I mean an acceptable n count that wouldn’t make me bail first date.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-27T12:51:31+00:00

I think people that get energy from exercise are just built different. My muscles hurt, my energy levels are dog water and I have an 8 hour shift to get started on. Ugh

Kero_9 · 2023-07-27T12:51:48+00:00

I came to a conclusion that Sagittarius ♐️. women are the worst , and also that I’m heavily attracted to them like almost every girl i wanted her to be my gf turns out to be a Sagittarius

They don’t care about other’s feelings , they are selfish and apathetic and no matter how you treat them they simply don’t appreciate the efforts and might leave you without saying a word , i tried to form a friendship with Sagittarius women and guess what they suck , it’s unfortunate thing cause i always assume they are special and charismatic but turns out to be shallow and cruel

So guys stay away from Sagittarius girls

dbz__f · 2023-07-27T12:53:56+00:00

Women, if your husband had to suck 50 dicks every work day for the rest of your life, but you were set for life as a result, you’d have an upper class life, your kids would go to the best schools, you’d own multiple nice houses, you’d have millions of dollars, you and your family’s financial security would be guaranteed and you’d have a very fancy privileged life, roils you agree?

Amount of time he sienna dicksucking is the same as abnormal job, about 8 hours a work day. He gets weekends and public holidays off, and he gets annual leave for holidays and vacations

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-27T12:57:20+00:00

TIL the "use the bottom of your shirt to wipe sweat on your face to show your abs" trick

VTHokie2020 · 2023-07-27T14:11:20+00:00

I had Barbie womansplained to me.

My small Ken brain couldn't possibly grasp deep complicated ideas such as "being thin but not too thin" or "be a leader but don't be an asshole"

Apparently, those ideas apply to women and women only and men just simply don't experience any pressures on their life.

No_Length_6997 · 2023-07-27T14:14:48+00:00

Has anyone noticed women have an extreme jealousy and lack of trust that somehow is just acceptable in a way that it is not for men? Like do some work on yourself, miss.

Maractop · 2023-07-27T14:22:50+00:00

Beauty is not subjective. Because if it was being conventionally attractive wouldnt be a thing. If anything its mainly objective with some subjectivity.

UninterestingFork · 2023-07-27T14:25:28+00:00

Is it wrong to track data in your relationship?

why do people even need to ask this

IT'S WEIRD, YES

VTHokie2020 · 2023-07-27T14:32:53+00:00

Amazing how

"Men commit more crime" is accepted in bluepill/feminist circles. And indeed it's an objective reality. But say:

"__ Men commit more crime" and now it's a racist conspiracy within the same liberal circles.

Can any bluepill flairs explain this? Is it not an objective statement?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-27T14:47:05+00:00

I don't understand why men on the internet care so much about what other men do. Men who have sex are revered. Men who have relationships are scorned. Men are constantly insulting other men because they make different choices. Doesn't it get exhausting arguing for so many men who you don't even know?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T20:22:49+00:00

IT'S TIME TO DO ANOTHER SHOULDER WORKOUT

THAT'S FUCKING 4 DAYS IN A ROW AND HE WANTS ME TO DO IT EVERY DAY FOR A MONTH

I used to love shoulder workouts now I'm fucking sick of them.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-27T21:14:23+00:00

I want these actor and writers protest to lose. They ruined my childhood shows

huhwhatokok · 2023-07-27T21:14:46+00:00

I’m surprised gun restriction cases from California and NY haven’t been brought to the Supreme Court. I feel like they could easily overturn the harsh restrictions those two states impose.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-27T21:17:48+00:00

Side note. Banning porn could fix a lot of things. But it would need to come with a ban of image based social media. Unless it’s for journalism and wholesome things.

Men can’t jerk off to porn. Women can use Insta to get fake male attention.

Win win.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-27T21:18:09+00:00

I miss the crispy chicken snack wrap from McDonald's

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-27T21:27:20+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/blackladies/comments/15aiy6r/what_do_you_make_of_this_experience_with_ww_at_a/

I just wanna say that if a men displayed this level of entitlement then they'd instantly be labeled incels.

In a nutshell a black woman and her gorgeous group of friends are in a club, and a group of black men came in got a VIP section. They got excited and wanted the guys to talk to them, so they "tried so damn hard to get these dudes attention" by exchanging eye contact and some smiles. Eventually a group of "drunk and disheveled" white women came in, and the guys approached them to come to their section instead of her group, now she's upset.

Here's some of the top comments

Black men love some white women, even if they could have a fine sister (like the ideal type) they would settle for white woman with like 3 teeth just because she is white.

Girl YOU are the prize and dodged a bullet by not interacting with those dusties. BM chase after anything white and mediocre because they hate their blackness at the end of the day

On top of everything everyone else already said, overall and in general men are super lame! And their lameness gets magnified in groups.

BW please stop seeking validation from men who are known (worldwide at this point) for hating themselves. BM are seeking validation from White people. And they can't get it. And you guys are seeking validation from them...AND YOU CANT GET IT!! BW you are out here getting rejected by REJECTS. STOP IT!! Drink your water, exercise, eat clean, and travel.

i feel a lot of black men do this shit on purpose in front of black women, just to make a point in showing how they don’t want us… i can’t stand most of them

So on and so forth. The general consensus is that black women are the prize, and black men that dare to show attention to women outside of their race hate themselves and their mamas. Like there's no legitimate way the other women were just more attractive than this "gorgeous" group of black women, no way. Yet when they choose to date white men, it's always because a black men did her dirty and she went to where she was celebrated. The double standard is insane lol. I'm engaged to a black woman myself but I didn't choose to be with her because of her race, but because she was the best option. The reality is that this woman was not the best option like she though she was, but considering these women have an "I'm the motherfucking prize and the center of the universe mentality", it absolutely cannot be them it has to be the man that's the problem lol. All of these women on this sub need to get over themselves. End rant.

blebbyroo · 2023-07-27T21:40:34+00:00

Should we take bets that this woman was a virgin when she got married?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/15bcnai/aita_for_ignoring_my_horny_husbands_wishes_at_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-27T21:45:20+00:00

Lesbians like my legs. What to make of this?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T22:09:31+00:00

I GOT THE RESULTS OF MY BLOODWORK FOR TEST

1200 NG/DL BOIIIII

EVERY VITAL SIGN LOOKS AMAZING

I'M FUCKING BIG AS FUCK BOI

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-27T22:21:38+00:00

Dude with how much DancesWithMyr comments it is infuriating getting blocked by him, not that I care about his comments but it basically makes the DT unusable because half of the conversations I can't fucking comment on. It's so goddamn annoying.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-27T22:22:50+00:00

Facebook is a gold mine for understanding what women want.

For example: there's a reel of Margot Robbie and Ryan Gosling doing press, where Margot is talking and Ryan is looking at her, encouraging her to talk and asking follow-up questions.

The TOP COMMENT is "Ryan demonstrates great listening skills!"

And a man replies, "Jordan Peterson describes this well."

Looks like Jordan Peterson is actually giving good advice (at least on this topic.)

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-27T22:32:05+00:00

I have all the feelings today. I love my husband and daughter so much. My life is wonderful and I’m so grateful. Im pissed at myself for not doing more and better. Im really tired.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-07-27T22:47:27+00:00

why do women reject feminist ideals when men accept them?

Example #1: "she does not belong to you, it is just your turn" This idea that women are not property of men and have freedom of choice was the very core of feminist ideology UNTIL MGTOW men started using it as their own slogan. Now, it is considered 'misogynistic'.

Example #2: "female attraction and orgasm is important for conception" Promoting the importance of Female attraction and orgasm in relationships was key to women's identity UNTIL male researchers like richard dawkins started finding that female orgasms really were important for the chances of conception. now it is also considered "misogynistic" to state that female attraction and orgasms are important for conception.

sosayeth · 2023-07-27T22:52:30+00:00

I saw "Barbie" today and it reinforces just how delusional women are... So many first world, insignificant "problems" permeate women's little brains every day, to the point where it causes them to breakdown and "give up" - as stated in the rising action portion of the movie.

What cements the fact women are the dumber of the two sexes is the "Real World" (modern day Los Angeles, California) contrasted with "Barbieland." This viewpoint highlights the biggest reason, in my opinion, why it is difficult, if not impossible, for women to rationally, logically and reasonably understand "sex and gender issues."

Climate controlled office buildings are not the "real world." Clean, processed, pre-packaged meat is not the "real world." Instantaneous transmission of text, picture and video is not the "real world." Same day intercontinental travel is not the "real world."

The "real world" - survival - has been pushed to the side (by men) so we may bitch about dA pAtReEArKy by way of a $145 million Hollywood glamoranza where - if you stayed for the credits - all the crew members involved with physical labor were... also men! 😂 Women's views regarding society begin at RIGHT NOW; with never any consideration for how things came or came to be. This is evidenced by the fact Barbieland just exists.

Who built it?

Who funded it?

Who supplies it?

Who maintains it?

"WHO CARES?" - women

A perfect, woman-led world would magically appear if all us Kens would just get out the way and let Barbie be in charge! 🤣 Women can operate a jackhammer too! Where did the jackhammer come from? Where does it matter? 🙄 This is equivalent to being subbed in during the fourth quarter, when the game is well in hand, but want to take all credit for the victory and complain about the rough start the team had in the first half. 🤣

I may do a more elaborate, broader analysis in the future, but that would entail watching it again, and its "point" was so convoluted, "message" so haphazard I'm not sure I could endure it again.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-27T23:00:21+00:00

I think one thing that would surprise a lot of women is how much of losers(with other women) their man was prior to them. He got 6 numbers the year he met his GF(including her). The first 3 died out after one day of texts and she never responded back. The next two he got ghosted after a first date(no action) and then it was you. The only one to give him any type of play and he smartly decided I need to lock this down.

Essentially won a prize no one else really wanted.

SorryEm · 2023-07-27T23:16:43+00:00

I sometimes wonder if breaking up with that girl after finding out she wasn't a virgin was such a good idea.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-27T23:17:25+00:00

Q4W who are anti-porn: Would you date/marry/stay with a man who occasionally watched porn but was otherwise absolutely perfect for you?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-27T23:32:09+00:00

I want to try some red pill dating strategies for women. What do you recommend? What should I do or don't do?

Things I know.... pay for myself or split the check. What else?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-27T23:41:39+00:00

I should be able to find some desperate 5’10+ chick that wants to feel small and feminine and will be attracted to me.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-28T00:10:19+00:00

Gay men are annoying on public transportation.

I'm on the train or bus checking out women, trying to give women their daily dose of free attention and validation for existing, and then some gay man thinks I'm checking him out and starts staring at me making me feel weird. Bruh, if I'm manspreading and have an annoyed/mean look on my face, I'm straight.

Let me appreciate women in peace.

Maractop · 2023-07-28T00:13:38+00:00

I have a skin care routine, I workout 3 times a week, have hobbies/friends, and think im at least average. What else could I add? Im trying to become better before I start trying to date next semester. Im trying to work on my self-esteem also but I dont really know how. Any advice would be appreciated.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-28T00:40:36+00:00

People overrate height massively, it’s get you more respect from both genders and people are naturally more fearful of you (if that’s something you want) but it rarely drops panties on it’s own

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-28T01:02:57+00:00

Wanna know the biggest date night vibe killer of all time? Having a near death experience in the restaurant while you’re just trying to have a healthy yet romantic meal out with your husband. I’m talking short notice, mid sentence, mid bite of your salad fully passing out. “Wow, this dish is amazing”, 5 seconds of feeling dizzy, then Plop - your face is in your salad plate and you’re just gone totally from the world for a minute or two. It’s happened to me 3 times in the past month. After the 1st one I went to the hospital and had every test imaginable done to rule out all of the bad stuff. Dr’s say it’s just low blood pressure crashes but it’s scary as fuck, especially for my husband.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-28T01:24:02+00:00

I just threw a game where I was up 2 rooks and a knight against 1 rook in front of 200 viewers

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-28T01:29:58+00:00

here's a perfect example of someone I hate

https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/15b8fkx/alabama_farmer_guy_explains_black_lives_matter_in/

People think that I hate people from Alabama or Kentucky or whatever because they're conservative. No I hate them because they're from Alabama and Kentucky. Does he have decent political opinions?

Sure.

Does he have the same dogshit barely literate culture of the rest of these fucking losers? Oh yeah. So even though his political opinions are correct, stil fuck him

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-28T01:47:44+00:00

The reason why game both works and also so many people think it doesn't work is b/c social proficiency and value are both of utmost importance to women and also difficult to fake. It's not the specific things you do or say but that you need to say and do everything naturally. Most of the men who find themselves with the desire to learn game are the ones least likely to be able to pull this off due to social awkwardness, being on the spectrum and such.

As a result they come across as offputting or creepy; people can sense that something is off without being able to pinpoint exactly what is wrong about someone's behavior, even if on paper the guy said and did all the correct things. The only way to really improve or do away with this is to just talk and interact with a lot of people, which can be incredibly hard if that's not in your temperament.

The result is being able to navigate conversations and read social cues with ease, adopting the right tones and rhythms to suit the current mood and such, learning how to make people (not just the women you're after) feel included to add to the energy of the room, and so on. Women see this and get the impression of a versatile guy who naturally commands the energy of every social setting. The key is that if it doesn't come across as natural, all this has an opposite effect and communicates a guy who is trying too hard and acting.

More than any specific pickup lines, negs, or fashion advice, this is what game is all about. It's unfortunate that the type of easy, organic way one can weave themselves in and out of conversations between person to person is not always attainable to everyone no matter how hard they practice.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-28T02:02:40+00:00

Watching chicken marsala being made reignited my cooking passion. While I was in the process of stoking my passion for baking breads.

We eating good in August

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-07-28T02:41:00+00:00

So... when someone replies to you, but when you try to reply back it says "unavailable", does that mean they blocked you?

old_new_age · 2023-07-28T03:05:36+00:00

Shouldn't living with a parent/your parents only be as unattractive as living with roommates? Both limit your ability to fuck whenever you want. I guess women will assume if you live w/ parents, mommy must be doing your laundry and bringing you tendies through a hole in your door. But it seems like the ideal for dating is just already living alone, and that shit's depressing by default

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-07-28T03:12:26+00:00

I forgot how nice the Weather Channel music was

It has 𝕒 𝕖 𝕤 𝕥 𝕙 𝕖 𝕥 𝕚 𝕔

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-28T04:03:42+00:00

I think this whole beef with nice guys is the attitude towards sex. If your purpose to be kind considerate, emotionally available becuase you think women are more likely to throw pussy at you , then your pathetic. Why not just be you. Why fake all those triats, put in all that effort and get nothing, when you coulda just been yourself and got nothing. Same result, less work. Sex isn't a reward, stop making it transactional. Then yall complain about gold diggers.

bison5595 · 2023-07-28T04:59:59+00:00

Q4W: do you think female beauty standards will ever go away? If you don’t think they will, should men be held to a set of beauty standards?

-AvatarAang- · 2023-07-28T16:02:59+00:00

This guy's TikTok page shows what it's like to be a tall (around 6'4"), broad-shouldered (plus a great V-taper), well-dressed (he wears fitted clothing that accentuates his physique) and possibly facially handsome (his face isn't shown, so we can only guess) man. He walks through public spaces, while someone walks behind him and films all the reactions other people give him. It's a reality most of us men will never know.

That is the life of a so-called "high value man". Every woman in the vicinity knows of your nearby presence, and desires you all for herself. He could get himself the most angelic wife at the snap of a finger.

Study the facial expressions of the women in those videos, they show you what it looks like when a woman is interested in a man. Most of us men would be lucky to ever receive such a look.

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