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DreaminInChocolate · 2023-08-31T16:13:13+00:00

Ohhhhh!!! My boyfriend is taking us out for a nice family dinner with his first proper paycheck.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-31T13:37:38+00:00

Do you believe that women are most desirable from 18 - 25? I don't buy it, I think maybe 23 to 35 is peak female.However, if I think about it in another way, it makes sense in that between those ages there are the most single people available and nobody has settled down yet so maybe in a way it is true.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-31T13:25:55+00:00

Realized something last night. Women will get upset at men for "speaking for women and telling us what we want"

But then women will turn around and speak for men and say what men want and everyone accepts it as truth.

Willow-girl · 2023-08-31T13:24:37+00:00

It's only the fourth day of school, and I'm already fed up with the little goblins. Ugh!

Gonna be a long year ...

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RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-30T13:01:07+00:00

Therapy was productive and I am going to see the Barbie movie today.

potoricco · 2023-08-30T13:02:03+00:00

First

potoricco · 2023-08-30T13:02:28+00:00

I don’t like calculus but I love my teacher

potoricco · 2023-08-30T13:05:08+00:00

One of my teachers gave me this thing called a calm strip, I usually dismiss these sort of things as gimmicks but why is it actually really helping me? I’ll take a picture of it later

happy_discus · 2023-08-30T13:14:05+00:00

There is one thing I always get told "you should try to be happy single first before you can be in a relationship". I am happy single, am I allowed to want a relationship now?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-30T13:19:55+00:00

Examples of healthy masculinity in movies and television?

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-30T13:24:04+00:00

How bad is it to go down on women?

Because from one there men who urge their partners to sit on their face.

And from other end there are women who claim that men are selfish and don’t like giving oral.

So which is it?

VTHokie2020 · 2023-08-30T13:27:56+00:00

My gf somehow got free tickets + backstage passes to a medium-sized concert from one of her friends.

I remember an article one of you guys linked about unfuckable hate nerds written by a self-proclaimed leftist. One of his bits was about women's social power/privilege:

They will have entry into places—private clubs, backstage after a show—young men can only press their noses against.

Haha well, here it is. I have to admit it's accurate. Whatever, I get to enjoy it too now.

scwizard · 2023-08-30T13:35:00+00:00

We've been together 24 yrs, "married" for 16 and we have two kids, and 2 grandkids. He is older than me and I always knew he was married before, as he has a daughter from that relationship . This is in US, and they live in a different state. He always told me he signed a piece of paper that she was asking for a divorce so he assumed he was divorced. Now his daughter calls him this week, the ex-wife is trying to get social security and she asks her dad why he is still married to her mom. He tells her he thought he signed the divorce papers, she informs him her mom never filed anything like that. I get the it's a mistake, but of course I want him to get a legal divorce so we can legally get married. He says there's nothing he can do about, and why worry about it. Excuse me?! Basically gaslighting me for even being upset about it. Aside from the obvious distress of the situation, he's near retirement and has life insurance policies and 401ks, and social security. If he was to pass away, I have absolutely nothing after 25 years. I'm a 45 year old side piece and he doesn't know why I'm upset.

Yes, he tends to have an air of chaos around him, but hey, I picked him. I'm not perfect, but I don't need someone else's husband.

Isn't it sexy when guys have an air of chaos. I wonder how many girls think he's married to them.

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-30T13:35:57+00:00

I think it's time to leave this place. I've come to recognize a bit more just how behind I am in life relative to others my age: I have no career, no relationship history, no travel experiences, no major accomplishments behind me and no real future plans in front of me despite being 28 years old. I've wasted a lot of time scrolling through the posts here. I've learnt some things about the world, but I could've learnt more about the world elsewhere.

I genuinely think it's likely that I'm mentally handicapped. It's not normal for someone to be as oblivious to their own relative lack of success as I am, or to live their life without learning from the past or planning for the future. Even as I write this post, I still don't really realize just how severely lacking I am relative to others, how bare my life is of accomplishment or even basic adult responsibilities; I know that "something" about me is wrong, but the severity of it is something only other, responsible, normal, well-adjusted, non-handicapped people are able to understand. Hopefully one day I'll be able to look back and see myself from the perspective that those people do. It makes sense that I've been laughed at in public before, because I must have some kind of mental handicap and other people can sense it just by looking at me. There are 8-year-olds who are more mature, responsible, and ambitious than I am.

I have a lot of work to do. I should never have felt I was entitled to a relationship just for existing or being compassionate, I am a severely flawed individual who needs to become self-sufficient in all the main areas of adult life before I even think about being in a relationship. I should have been working on my career, not reading comment sections on here. It will probably take me at least 7 years to get my life in order.

So it's finally time to leave. Goodbye everyone. Thanks for the stimulating conversation. Hope you all find happiness in your lives.

Note: I might actually continue to use this subreddit for a limited amount of time each week, but hopefully not because I really think that my life should be spent on more meaningful outlets.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-30T13:37:29+00:00

I don't know much about these people, but Adin Ross seems like a little bitch. I watched the live stream he did with Andrew Tate after being released from house arrest and the fact he weaseled his way around not visiting him in prison and is always bring on these nerdy ass twitch streamers is weird as fuck. I think Andrew Tate is cringe af too, but in an entirely different way and at least he holds frame despite having a british accent and a speech impediment, but still Adin ross seems like a class clown that nobody finds funny.

W's in the chat bro W's in the chat.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-30T13:39:24+00:00

One of my co workers invited me to his wedding. I thought it was kinda interesting because I didn’t think we had that type of relationship. We talk about the Bucs because we are both fans of the team and fantasy football gambling etc but that’s pretty much it

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-30T13:49:10+00:00

Yet another example of men being shamed for not consenting to sex with a woman at her beck and call.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-30T13:52:01+00:00

I have an online friend (love interest?) from the opposite side of the planet who is just as much of a hermit as myself. We have been in contact for about 2 and a half years, only in text form until recently. But we voice chatted while playing a co-op game two times these last weeks. It was a lot of fun.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-30T14:27:05+00:00

I'm such an asshole. I had to order Instacart again because I left my groceries out last night. Anyways, I saw the person arrived and they were taking a while so I grabbed my cart I use for laundry and figured they left the groceries in the lobby of my building and I figured I get them with my laundry. Anyways, I grab the laundry, go outside and see someone looking around all confused and assume they're the Instacart person and they ask me if I know where the elevator is so I tell them. I rush inside and back to my apartment and lock the door and let them continue to deliver the groceries rather than just being a good person and being like "Are you the Instacart driver? I can take them so you don't have to come up."

My wife says I'm often rude to cashiers and waitresses, and this is the kind of behavior she is talking about. I feel like it is a combination of insecurity and me holding a grudge against humanity that I just don't like interacting with people or extending any form of courtesy. Like I'm not going out of my way to inconvenience them, but I'm also not helping them or being polite either.

I'm capable of performing superficial charm if I feel like it will benefit me, but I feel like none of these interactions benefit me so I'm just kind of cold and neutral and indifferent which is why I don't necessarily see it as being rude.

Part of it might be misogyny, but I always treat men that I view as beneath me as NPCs too.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-30T14:32:28+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. This series moves on to Gemini.

The two faced one. Duplicitous, in many facets of her life. There's usually something very agricultural in the way she looks, like an ethnic day laborer picking cherries in California. Intelligent, witty, sharp, deceptive. She can be a great friend, but her personal sex life is all over the place.

She hunts for her meat.

There's not a lot to say about Gemini women. In my opinion, they are just kinda there. Not trailblazers. Nothing terribly special. Kind of a wallflower.

Sex with her is enthusiastic. She is interested in fucking, but it has to be a bit more romantic cause she's a cold fish. She wants to feel romanced, but not because she is playing her part in it. It's all terribly selfish with her.

Recommended approach: Direct, slightly romantic! She will let you know if she's interested. A lot more open to unusual arrangements, unconventional relationships, open to consensual and not cheating, and everything all over the map. Anything kinda goes.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-30T14:46:18+00:00

Feminists: Women are not entitled to women's bodies

Also Feminists: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/164ltoz/psa_women_are_entitled_to_having_preferences_for/

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-30T14:57:50+00:00

A bonus two post today.

Fired up bumble this morning. For shits and giggles, i set my age filter to something women would consider more age appropriate. LOL, what a shit show!

Match after match with nail technicians, elementary school teachers, radiologists, nurses (god, so many nurses), and the occasional "boss babe". And the bios, lol. Do women actually read their own writing? It's bonkers. They out there listing demands as if they're an employer when it's actually THEM that's on interview.

Sometimes I'm dying laughing shaking my head reading these bios, but then it dawns on me, they are legit serious. So much older, carrying wayyy more baggage than they did 20 years ago, and their "standards" are higher while offering less?

Women are just not good sales people. They would get creamed in a boileroom.

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-30T15:04:42+00:00

Shaved or hairy?

I don’t mean silky smooth but like shaved pupil hair, shaved butt, trimmed chest hair.

I am asking the younger generation here, those who are under 30.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-30T15:07:37+00:00

It’s still funny watching people not processing that men and women are not monoliths. Hence, telling me that I don’t understand guys will never work on me because I hang around guys that agree with me.

Especially when it comes to not thinking with their dicks 24/7. They also think guys like that are disgusting and annoying to be around. So if I can easily find guys with self control, I am going to expect that from other guys.

redheadtingz · 2023-08-30T15:20:33+00:00

I have discovered that there is a huge overlap between men who really like redheads and men who want to be tied up and submissive in bed. It takes them a while to open up, but eventually they tell me they basically want me to abuse them in the bedroom.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-30T15:38:12+00:00

This crop of youth has no critical thinking skills.

They see a YouTube video and a Reddit thread and think that's reality for everyone.

This is why we say to touch grass. Being out in the world to observe your surroundings instead of just believing everything you read on the internet.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-30T15:41:43+00:00

You know its true love when his porn library is just imitations of you. 🥰

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-08-30T16:06:16+00:00

Women say stuff like "Would you still love me if I was a worm?" because deep down they understand that society values them mostly for their looks, and looks fade over time. So women want to believe that they still innately have redeeming qualities other than just their appearance that make them desirable and valuable.

So if the woman of my dreams asked me if I'd still love her if she was a worm/fat/ugly/etc, I would say yes of course I'd still love her... the implication being that I would only love her platonically at that point, and that I wouldn't keep dating her. But obviously saying the quiet part out loud wouldn't do me any good.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-30T16:16:52+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-08-30T16:17:50+00:00

Q4Men: big ass but she stinks? Big tits but she’s a whore? Amazing blowjob but she disrespects you? Or tight and wettest pussy ever but she worships satan?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-30T16:19:07+00:00

I'm breaking up with the dude I've been seeing for a few months tonight. Best way to celebrate a full moon. Lol.

Slipthe · 2023-08-30T16:23:34+00:00

Anyone else love it when you stay the same size but others you knew from high school got fat?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-30T16:31:18+00:00

The thing i hate about getting constantly ghosted or rejected with a mealy mouthed response is i legitimately don't know what i'm doing wrong.

webernicke · 2023-08-30T16:41:11+00:00

DAE ever want to masturbate, but then fall asleep and wake up pissed because now there's no time and you have work?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-30T16:57:58+00:00

What l love about F&F specifically Myron

Is he teaches guys to not reply on one source of getting or meeting women, he gives guys tips on how to lead when interacting with women online,social circles,work/school

Basically firing on all angles

You'll never anyone who's advice spreads wide like that on a variety of different situations

Am bit of a old school style, where you've to approach a woman and flirt with her but now l realize it's all about online or meeting at work or friends-of-friends and Myron too also realizes this too

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-08-30T16:58:16+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/fso2n4nb3alb1.jpeg?width=793&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=61ddb3a1ed98756fba0a464108d1282f4abc9c8d

meteorness123 · 2023-08-30T17:15:51+00:00

Would you date a guy in the military ?

keebydee · 2023-08-30T17:18:06+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/xvcvb4su6alb1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eb5c7917a27a0836b1d0d9fa1503aed94845b28e

So brutal. I love seeing harsh realities even though they make me mentally spiral.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-30T17:47:32+00:00

So the autism stats have made a huge increase since the 90s to now 2020s

Obviously thanks to the rise of social media

Your son is more likely to have autism than your daughter for some reason, people say guys have a harder than socializing but l think they've a DIFFERENT way of socializing

When boys get together they wanna talk about anything expect themselves, not their life or family but just random stupid or interesting factual stuff

Comic book/anime,sports etc

So they have a different way of socializing than girls do

And l think society has largely forgotten about that

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-30T17:49:38+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/4oe9l0ehcalb1.jpeg?width=583&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f97d974cc26e2dc57ea56e99430c06ec2914e8e2

scwizard · 2023-08-30T17:53:47+00:00

The whole "alpha fucks beta bucks" thing you're calling guys who make single moms "alpha" and guys who date single moms "beta"

But then redpillers turn around and say "no no no we don't advocate for making women into single moms"

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-08-30T18:01:45+00:00

It is unequivocally weird to see "no kids" and "not married" in a profile and assume that state of being exists because a woman's ex-husband got full custody and moved away.

Fuck's SAKE, this guy is not right in the head. Totally unmatching with him when I get home, what was I thinking continuing the conversation after that?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-30T18:02:53+00:00

Is saying you lack empathy for men an insult? I don't see how it is.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-30T18:04:21+00:00

u/Icy_Ordinary2025

Educated women divorce less

Educated women have less sexual partners

So please do not spread your wishful thinking over PPD.

And yes, educated women do have less children.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-08-30T18:16:38+00:00

I should become a PassportGal and go find a hot Aussie husband in the outback to bring back home with me.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-30T18:18:29+00:00

I know so many fat women who have/had relationships. Several of my friends mothers throughout the school system were fat. I worked at a hospital for two years where I was basically surrounded by middle aged, fat nurses, most of whom who had husbands and families.

"Even conventionally attractive women are insecure about their bodies because society puts so much emphasis on it."

Meanwhile, we are now literally at the point where body dysmorphia is getting close to as common for men as it is for women, one of the more extreme signs of that is this whole phenomenon of dudes getting their legs broken to gain a few inches, and women are like "wtf, but I know a short guy who had a girlfriend". And "Empathy? For what? Not being seen as hot?". And "women are not a monolith".

It's legit so fucking disappointing. To give an example, I went to high school to a private, small place and there was like 12 of us in our class, only two girls. One of them was fat. No boy in the class found her attractive. And I felt bad for her. Sometimes the topic of dating or just liking girls came up. And I was always aware that she is sitting in the back, listening to it, probably feeling quite down, it was obvious. It was embarrassing and I felt sorry for her. Why? Like, how does a woman understand that? Do you cringe at me, or think I was a brainwashed idiot? Who the fuck cares if people are seen as attractive or not, right?

Zabadoodude · 2023-08-30T18:24:34+00:00

Back in the day, If you had an autism diagnosis, you were clearly disabled. Now you meet people that are just slightly weird, but otherwise well adjusted that get an autism or ADHD diagnosis later in life.

I feel we are pathologising being even slightly out of the norm.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-30T18:28:09+00:00

Q4M: Should men who are unmarried/and or don't want to get married be complaining about women who are staying single. Because it would be dumb for a women to date a man who never wants to marry. Statistically she is single and past the wall, if she has kids she's a single mother.

Bandit174 · 2023-08-30T18:30:05+00:00

I just knew that if I looked at her profile history she'd be a FDS poster

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-30T18:32:36+00:00

Children have always been used as effective political props/mouthpieces because people are less likely to criticize them. It’s gross, but it’s genius when you think about it though.

“SHES A LITTLE GIRL BRO, LEAVE HER ALONE SHES SPEAKING HER TRUTH”

That’s another classic phrase, “his/her truth” lol. 4+4=8 isn’t “my” truth, it’s THE truth.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-30T18:49:26+00:00

My husband is trying to cheer me up. He has spent time searching for books I might like, and has now bought over 100 books for me. I just scrolled through them and noticed that there’s more than one erotic book.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-30T18:52:11+00:00

Michael Jordan saying magic invented the triple-double has to be the wildest take l've witnessed

Guy didn't invent shit just made it popular

Stop making wild claims to have him above steph curry as the greatest point-guard of all time

Especially if we is talking who impacted the game more

meteorness123 · 2023-08-30T19:02:11+00:00

If your wife/girlfriend told you that from now on you should sit down to pee. Would you accept it ?

keebydee · 2023-08-30T19:12:11+00:00

I have an extremely obese friend whose girlfriend is thinking about leaving him if he doesn't start losing weight soon because his healthy is really bad and to my knowledge he isn't on any kind of diet plan or a strict gym routine after learning this. He's a really good friend but I absolutely hate seeing people take their ability to attract others for granted. If I were him, I would be doing whatever it takes asap to make my GF happy after expressing such a concern to me.

supremethrone · 2023-08-30T19:14:15+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/165m2yx/met_a_nice_guy_but_im_not_attracted_to_him/

another nice guy takes the L

DerayRevan · 2023-08-30T19:21:57+00:00

Many idiots over the years have tried putting Kobe Bryant in the goat discussion as MJ and Lebron

Then l always ask them why not add Tim Duncan as well, but they always refuse because they know you cannot put Kobe and Tim in the same breath as Michael Jordan and Lebron

Hell if people are putting Kobe in the goat discussion, then l should put people like Kareem or wilt or bil Russell because all this guys have better accomplishments than Kobe

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-30T19:23:17+00:00

And just like that, I'm single again.

Another single friend and I are going to meet with a matchmaker. I'm quite nervous but curious to see how it goes.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-30T19:27:05+00:00

I came home from watching the Barbie movie and my neighbor left more berries at my doorstep. I'm gonna cry.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-30T19:28:26+00:00

How many times have we heard of women claiming to have vaginismus, only for them to discover that it was only with the previous guy they were with?

I have never heard this once in my brief time here. The posts here are truly unhinged.

gabejohn · 2023-08-30T19:29:56+00:00

Just removed the height from my Tinder profile. 2 days and not a SINGLE like. 178 cm isn't gonna cut it.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-30T19:36:29+00:00

I have a complaint to file against women I don't like, and they have no idea I exist.

Where should I send it?

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-30T19:48:10+00:00

You are watching porn. Suddenly a button appears that if you press, then the person you are gooning over would magically teleport right next to you and play with you then and there. Would you press it?

(I suppose men would, but women wouldn't)

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-30T19:48:15+00:00

I believe life gets a lot easier when we stop expecting a gender behave how we think they should, and just embrace individual people for who they are.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-30T19:51:31+00:00

74% LTR's start by friendship.

Personality matters it's just that...

Women can't properly word what good personality is (you have to forgive them, they do have smaller brains then men).
Superficial women do like to act sophisticated, so they also say (lie) that personality matters.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-30T19:58:29+00:00

Moving from a culture with almost no small talks to a culture where a stranger can ask your origin while you're waiting the green light takes time...to get used to. I'm still not. When a stranger talks to me my first reaction is be a deer in the headlights and I feel like a fucking uneducated barbarian. It gets more complicated with men talking to me because a) I'm not sure what their intentions are and b) husband assumes everyone is flirting.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-30T20:02:27+00:00

That's I fucked your bitch, you fat motherfucker.

Still one of the greatest Hip Hop lines.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-30T20:11:18+00:00

I love conceiving a woman everytime she plays hard to get, many women have said am not their type or cup of tea and l would always respond with

"I know but l can change that"

It honestly doesn't take that much effort conceiving a woman to think otherwise of you if she says shit like that, always takes me about an 8-min conversation and she continues to engage/entertain it

huhwhatokok · 2023-08-30T20:36:29+00:00

Gotta love when people complain about social programs drying up/age requirement for retirement going up when they wanted to be child free. Where do they think the money from social benefits comes from? You should easily be able to retire though since you saved all that money not having kids, right?

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-30T20:43:44+00:00

Got a date on Saturday. Nervy and don’t know what to wear

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-08-30T20:51:31+00:00

“Fit, feminine and friendly” in a dating profile almost always means it’s a chad -fish.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-30T20:54:00+00:00

Revolutionary theory coming in :

Fat people are fat because they're engaging in emotional eating. They did not receive parental affection and now they are stuffing themselves. They are are trying to feed a hungry ghost. A ghost that cannot be fed, I'm afraid.

This is the case for all addictions.

Maractop · 2023-08-30T21:14:33+00:00

Its funny how tall women get sympathy and get to have their issues with men wanting short women understood. But when a short man says the same about women wanting tall men hes told its his personality and that his insecurity is the reason for his lack of success. The things people say to short men would never be said to tall women even though the issue is essentially the same.

Tramelo · 2023-08-30T21:20:29+00:00

Lmao there are still some people who consider men who shave their body hair to be feminine, when in reality body hair is liked mostly by gays, not women

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-30T21:31:24+00:00

Q4A celebrities you find most attractive personally? at least one of each gender. i'm interested in what women/men find attractive + what they think the opposite gender thinks is attractive

meteorness123 · 2023-08-30T21:32:05+00:00

Rate Eminem's autism/ability to focus :

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/pHtvEh2h_sc

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-30T21:35:29+00:00

Q4W: Would you ever go on dates with a guy you're not that interested in just to pass the time?

I have a girl who is ridiculously unresponsive, but whenever i text her, she wants to hang out.

baresquad · 2023-08-30T21:41:10+00:00

American conservatives are obsessed with the idea of a civil war here but I feel like they don’t realize they’d be going against the US military and not other civilians who happen to be progressive or democrat.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-30T21:48:09+00:00

Wow, I finally upped my caffeine intake and I'm finally feeling something. This shit is extremely useful for low dopamine-cels or people with poor sleep who need to push through.

When speaking about filter coffee, what is oyur preferred dosage, as in spoons of coffee relative to water ?

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-30T22:00:50+00:00

Any male who takes shirtless or excessive selfies is a cheater. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.

demedermidimi · 2023-08-30T22:07:27+00:00

Men fundamentally look for three things: I. A .7 Waist To Hips Ratio. The "hourglass" figure. This is the "Don't be fat" part. It's important.

obsessed with the implication that not being fat as a woman grants you an hourglass figure or a good whr

PBtoast707 · 2023-08-30T22:09:38+00:00

I don’t understand the concept of “women need to settle and stop chasing the top X% of guys” existing alongside “most women don’t find their husbands attractive and that’s a problem.” It’s one or the other. You can’t say that women need to settle, and then complain that you have been settled for. It doesn’t make any sense.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-30T22:11:35+00:00

I can't blame men that want to bang hot chicks. Sometimes you just need that bitch to look perfect. Anybody else sometimes has this preference ?

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-30T22:13:12+00:00

Gold digging worded professionally to sound less shittier. Women like this must be avoided like the plague

potoricco · 2023-08-30T22:16:40+00:00

Look I love this but it’s embarrassing how all the American girls keep saying what state they’re from instead of just saying the United States. What is so embarrassing about saying you’re American? No one knows or cares what state you’re from

AspiringMogger · 2023-08-31T00:03:27+00:00

I’m on the bus on my way home from a hinge ONS (it didn’t happen). When I came to her she smoked weed and I told her I didn’t want any we got inside and made some small talk I then saw she had some lips painted on her wall and asked her what she thought about lips (trying to escalate). She cut me off and told me she had to get up early in the morning and that she wasn’t really in a flirty mood. I looked at her for 9 seconds deadpanned in complete silence. Didn’t say another word, got up, tied my shoes picked up my backpack and left all while she was saying “no no I’m sorry” etc. last thing I said was the thing about the lips. I blocked her on the way down the stairs as well.

My question now is was this cucked or a chad move. I was genuinely pissed at her for wasting my time so thoughts?

obviousthrowawayaccs · 2023-08-31T01:47:40+00:00

https://www.city-journal.org/article/boy-trouble Family breakdown disproportionately harms young males—and they’re falling further behind.

Not that I care.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-31T04:41:08+00:00

What a lot of guys for some reason and this is why they struggle, don't realize is women will absolutely waste your fuckin time

A woman will sit there who finds you unattractive but continue talking to you because she wants the attention

It's the same equivalence of a guy sleeping with a woman who he doesn't like on a personal level but since she's hot enough he won't mind

It's same for women, they don't mind if the guy is unattractive as long as he gives her that attention

That's why l always say be honest why your giving her attention, it's very easy for a woman to realize your trying to get through her pants and not some nice guy who wants a friendship because if am being honest a lot will come off as exactly that

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T12:11:06+00:00

I finally looked at a Chris Chan documentary video and I didn't realize just how much Chris Chan sounds like one of those “Im so lonely because no woman wants me and I don't know why” guys, even down to how he treats his friends. His behavior of Megan really stuck out to me because my friends and I have so many similar stories to what happens when you try to open your heart to these guys.

https://youtu.be/9CM4izhkQCY?si=IOkKqcFAzKxSzsGF

There’s way too much coddling and negligence on the parents’ part seems to be the theme of these types of situation creating these guys. Also, a lack of professional help.

dbz__f · 2023-08-31T11:34:05+00:00

Sad and alone cause gf is working late tonight 😢

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-31T11:29:33+00:00

People will create a thread get destroyed in said thread and then be like “this is what I’m talking about bro”

You see this a lot on unpopular opinions which frankly 95% of the threads should just go to r/rant

SlashCo80 · 2023-08-31T11:07:05+00:00

I don't really want a "career". My father had a career which made him get up at 6:30 every morning to go to work, then come back in the afternoon or evening tired and pissed off and taking it out on us. Every day for years and years. Is that what I have to look forward to? Currently looking into opportunities for freelance work / being self-employed as the only alternative.

eye_fuck · 2023-08-31T10:52:02+00:00

Honestly its funny how normies are mad about subs like 'trueratecelebs'. "Noooo oh my science you can't rate women wtferino!!! incels!!!"

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-31T09:30:29+00:00

It's mad that in the year of our Lord 2023, there's still a lot of people who don't think Michael Jackson was a Nonce.

Serene_hex · 2023-08-31T08:15:44+00:00

Daily reminder: you're not a real man if a feminist doesn't call you insecure/fragile.

md8716 · 2023-08-31T07:35:25+00:00

I'll be honest, when I sit down and think about it, I have a pretty amazing life. Successful in my career, effortless marriage, amazing family, wealthier than anyone in my family has ever been, and I get to do things most people only dream of. Plus my wife is a cute ride or die fitness milf that treats me like a king and still lusts after me, even after all these years. She believed in me before I was even successful.

It's not like I'm special or anything. I'm just really good at making decisions. It just amazes me how so many people are miserable despite having way more advantages than I ever had.

BigCollectionFor · 2023-08-31T07:07:55+00:00

Why does every woman seem to go to college? It seems like it is expected of them to take courses at a diploma mill when they are 20. As if attending lectures on applied ethics is an pre determined stage in their life akin to puberty.

Men can learn a trade. Maybe they are becoming a plumber at 20. Why not women? Why are they all educated?

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-08-31T06:48:37+00:00

I was banned for a little bit and kind of uninstalled the app for a bit just to kind of declutter and reduce some internet usage especially with the new baby, but I am curious what were some of the best posts in the group as it pertained to the Keke Palmer / Jonah Hill situations a few months ago? I bet there was some fun there lol

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-08-31T06:46:45+00:00

Got my T checked , I may make it an annual thing I don't know how often you have to do it but even more of an improvement since last year, shout out to my 800 and up gang

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-31T06:28:46+00:00

Sorry, but if your thug boyfriend ends up beating you and you ignored all the obvious signs that were leading up to that because he gave you the tingles, don't expect any sympathy from society for your poor decisions!

dysonRing · 2023-08-31T06:14:27+00:00

The comment below made me think how terrible women are at vetting. Choosing the wrong dude can mean death, rape, domestic abuse, even soul sucking marriage.

As long as men vet for crazy us making a mistake and seducing the hottie has no downside. We are always fertile and can settle down with an orbiter.

TLDR Men cam think with their penis cause there is no downside (hell I think I never want to date a woman that follows my left wing politics.)Women bear enormous risks and still think with their vagina.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-31T06:04:56+00:00

I talked about my fear of abandonment in therapy yesterday and as a result dreamt of being abandoned. Lovely.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-31T06:00:49+00:00

No compromise with evil.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-31T05:03:06+00:00

Why couldn't she be that woman for me? Why did it take me leaving for her to be herself again?

I'd be really curious to hear her side of the story.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-31T04:25:46+00:00

I used to like the bachelor shows. There is a “golden bachelor” show coming out with older women and older guy

Actually wanna watch this haha

Wonder if the women will be just as petty and drama as some of the younger women in the series

meteorness123 · 2023-08-31T03:40:55+00:00

Dillon Danis (fighter) made a collage of some of the guys that Logan Paul's fiancee and love of his life dated before him :

https://i.ibb.co/x8TpP0C/logan.jpg

mummydontknow · 2023-08-31T03:31:34+00:00

Reminder to my fellow autists/men.

Women do not "forget" about someone they are interested in.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-08-31T03:26:03+00:00

Why are babies so cute??

scwizard · 2023-08-31T02:48:20+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/165kte8/hurricane_partyincel_flood/

Wtf I would cringe off the face of the earth if people i knew irl started talking like this.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-31T02:34:45+00:00

When you realize how fragile life is, gratefulness for the moment and one's health becomes a reliable pillar for well-being.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-31T02:11:36+00:00

Women breaking up with their boyfriends over the Barbie Movie just proves that Barbie is just a power fantasy for weak women. Also, of course these bitches pretend that only men hated barbie movie. I have been very vocal about how insulting that shit was, but I guess when you’re a weak person, you think your gender’s a monolith.

potoricco · 2023-08-31T02:01:43+00:00

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Apple What the fuck this is unacceptable. I’ve only had this phone for a year

DancesWithMyr · 2023-08-31T01:55:06+00:00

Wait, do people actually respect Sneako?

potoricco · 2023-08-31T01:49:00+00:00

I have reached never before seen levels of down bad

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So I had to go to this church thing where they’re like training people for media and such and i was trained by a video director

And. Omg. The drummer area has a camera above it. And I could see the drummer the whole time on the monitor. He was beautiful and he had long hair😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 Down bad frfr

DoinIt989 · 2023-08-31T01:48:37+00:00

Damn I wish Saint Kevin Samuels was still around.

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-31T01:31:56+00:00

Stop it. You aren’t a sigma male who doesn’t care about love. You’re neurotic, fidgety and weak willed because your parents didn’t force you to do manual labor, didn’t socialize you enough and gave you red40.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-31T01:31:02+00:00

I cringe when I see women describe tall as an attractive trait. But I don’t really understand why.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-31T01:23:57+00:00

Is this the best game of throne scene ?

https://img.favpng.com/25/1/25/daenerys-targaryen-game-of-thrones-khal-drogo-emilia-clarke-scene-png-favpng-RhiPXNN7K5PyMkipTMjqCBEpL.jpg

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-31T00:59:34+00:00

You can barely even call women heterosexual since they’re attracted to so few men.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-31T00:56:41+00:00

Alexander Hamilton was 5'7 and a hit with the ladies.

He was also hypergamous.

I imagine he'd laugh at most the kids here cosplaying as masculine men.

A bastard, orphan, son of a wh0re isn't throwing away his shot by he's 5'7 and poor.

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-31T00:17:41+00:00

The biggest lie males tell is “women don’t tell men what they like and how to turn them on”. Women are telling you all how to please them. You just aren’t listening, you listen and don’t care or you’re incapable of filling the desire. Not our problem.

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-08-31T00:16:06+00:00

Women on PPD: We want guys that are great at communication, have good emotional intelligence, and don't expect the guy to initiate all the time

Women in real life: unresponsive, flaky, constantly ghost, won't ever initiate, never communicate true feelings

1Here4Bach · 2023-08-31T00:06:46+00:00

It’s so tiring trying to talk to males who can’t get pussy. They’re all so self righteous and pretentious. Imagine never getting sex and STILL thinking you know more about female sexuality than women do. Astounding.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-30T23:53:38+00:00

Is a women going on a date for a free meal the same as a man asking a women to come over to Netflix and chill?

demedermidimi · 2023-08-30T23:02:14+00:00

is talking about looksmaxxing and looks theory considered incel talk around here

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-30T22:34:20+00:00

Reminder that you're not entitled to not be hit on

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-30T22:33:18+00:00

Remember when people who spent all day complaining about cancel culture cancelled Bud Light because of an ad

The hypocrisy was truly a work of art😂

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-30T22:28:18+00:00

If you were pretending to be nice at work just for higher pay/positions, then you aren't really nice at all- stop acting so entitled!

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-30T22:23:57+00:00

Rate this guy, Jimmy McNulty aka bushy top

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Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-30T22:19:07+00:00

I have no idea why I pay for health insurance when I can learn all about my female body from <25 year old men.

Men who are experts in women despite having limited experiences themselves.

I am calling to cancel my health insurance because, wow, all my health woes are fixed by eating less and finding all men attractive.

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