Daily Community Chat Megathread

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T21:25:56+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRcHBsct/

Ok so im technically a southerner but i wish I was a southerner southerner like with an accent and cowboys and stuff. Like deep south

DarayRaven · 2024-01-04T21:16:50+00:00

If you ever thought Shaq was a lousy free throw shooter, then you haven't met Ben Wallace

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T21:03:15+00:00

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I can tell this was written by an old person bc How is a Stanley cup coquette

Ohmaygahh · 2024-01-04T20:58:29+00:00

PPD, and women at large, have over complicated sex and relationships.

Every interested man that approaches is fundamentally asking the same two questions.

"What is your price/obstacle to fucking" and "What is your price/obstacle to an on going relationship".

That's it. That's all it ever is about.

Gladboys · 2024-01-04T20:53:19+00:00

This kid ran up to me again and shit himself then left.

Gladboys · 2024-01-04T20:45:10+00:00

Sit down immediately called ugly by 6 year old in my vicinity

I’m going back inside

meteorness123 · 2024-01-04T20:42:19+00:00

What was your first encounter with social dynamics and human nature or whatever you may call it ?

Example : I was 15 and had interest from girls but almost lost everything when more popular guys came along (who looked worse than me but had higher status)

Example nr 2 : People don't treat as you equals if they think they can't gain anything from you

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-04T20:33:53+00:00

Is telling people to Copenhagen always 1 day in the cage on this sub?

Cus tomorrow I’m supposed to be studying and I know for a fact I will spend most of that time here so I might try to get myself in the cage just for tomorrow.

EDIT: mod is best, bro actually just banned me for 1 day. I rate that so much.

sine120 · 2024-01-04T20:16:34+00:00

One thing I've noticed on here is lack of self-awareness of (usually) guys telling women to "just pick better", and then they point at the gross behavior of the worst 10% of women that are also attractive. A lot of people are out there making guidelines to follow to deal with the worst behaviors by the minority of people and pretending like it's way more common than it is.

IRL, most women are pretty calm and don't want casual sex, nor do they want guys that want casual sex. If you're a guy who thinks you deserve/ wants more than one woman, you're probably going to end up with people of the same moral standing. If you had reasonable standards, have something going for you, and aren't sketchy, you'd probably have been locked down early.

Rach1943 · 2024-01-04T20:16:24+00:00

Hate how i have to constantly be looking out for the "are we dating the same guy" dating-police.

I've been seeing this girl for around 3 months, have told her I am only sleeping with her (she said the same), but she told me she moves "super super slow". she is also relatively distant sometimes (doesn't respond to texts for awhile). I get the sense she still wants her "freedom" and is not ready to be in an exclusive relationship with me yet.

So, I want to open up my options. However, I know once I do that I might be posted on that fucking site - she might see it / her friends might see it and say something.

The thing is, I don't know where we stand. and its early enough where if I ASK HER where we stand - I'd be "limiting her freedom/coming on too strong" - as it is common advice to let the women define that.

If I ask her to be exclusive, I could be pressuring her too much.

if I date others, she might be under the impression we were exclusive and get pissed.

can't win.

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-04T20:07:29+00:00

By the logic of this sub if you ever matched with a girl on a dating app or whatever it means you were a chad to that woman at the time.

So most people here are chads and if you try to tell me you never got a match in your life, I will call cap.

dishonouronmycow · 2024-01-04T20:04:02+00:00

https://x.com/theecho13/status/1742917820726558870?s=46&t=KT4n50z4guKAeHfOYurSTg opinions on this?

Sad_Top1743 · 2024-01-04T19:55:20+00:00

Solipsism, delusion, entitlement all in a short clip

You see this all the time on here, they’ll drone on about how men need to just be nice, listen blah blah blah

How much do you make, how tall are you lol

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2024-01-04T19:54:31+00:00

if I were a woman, I’d try to lock up a high value man in my early 20s and get married. Casual sex/hoe phase is a waste of time for women. It’s not like male sexual attention has any value whatsoever. The ultimate validation for a woman is to marry a desirable man. Everything else is second tier at best.

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T19:49:18+00:00

Do you eve r think about how lucky u are to be born a human think about it most living organisms are not human so u technically have a greater chance of being born not a human than human so im personally really happy about this. Like I would not want to be a fungus

happy_discus · 2024-01-04T19:44:06+00:00

Thinking about starting a YouTube channel just talking about my life, philosophy and everything I can think of.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-01-04T19:41:00+00:00

Q4All: Do you think certain people should be excluded from comedy? In a recent Netflix special, Dave Chapelle made another joke about trans problem and now everyone wants him cancelled.

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-04T19:32:26+00:00

Why don’t you guys believe that women have dated non-Chads before? If a woman dates someone, they automatically turn into a Chad? Like I didnt want to say it because it’s rude, but one of my last boyfriends was a shy guy who was in discord groups and the other was a little more charismatic than the first, but my friends considered him unattractive. I can attract people in “higher leagues” these days, but I don’t automatically go with them just because they’re high status. You guys make no sense.

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-04T19:21:09+00:00

Spiders scare the shit out of me, no matter how big or small. It’s literally to the point where I feel like buying a full auto BB gun just to pop a few caps in the mfker, from distance

MboloYaBaKali · 2024-01-04T19:18:14+00:00

You know, the fact that sexual scandals are virtually absent in nun run schools is another bit ofvevidence that the median woman has a lower libido than the average man.

EulenWatcher · 2024-01-04T19:16:24+00:00

It's interesting to see how many people are looking forward Putin's death. Quite a lot of people will celebrate it and I can imagine my husband and I opening a bottle too. Realistically it most like won't change things much in Russia, but it probably could help to stop the war in Ukraine.

devilsttower · 2024-01-04T19:08:43+00:00

I got called a cow at work by some teenage boy yesterday. I’m not even that fat. I’m a small size ten/size eight. I just want a nice man to hold me and tell me he loves me and I’m special.

JDWhiz96 · 2024-01-04T19:01:46+00:00

My thoughts on what Kathleen Kennedy's doing to Star Wars:

OfficeMain1226 · 2024-01-04T18:59:49+00:00

I decided to give up porn and haven't watched in 5 weeks, however, I realized that social media is chokeful of thirst traps and whatever dopamine addiction resolution, or re-sensitization you were hoping for, it won't happen or very slow.

I remember as a kid, I was aroused looking at pictures of bikini clad women in newspapers, now its everywhere, you can't scroll Snapchat/youtube shorts/instagram without some scantily clad woman doing some shenanigans.

The only way would be to stop using these platforms.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2024-01-04T18:45:54+00:00

Women in their 30s are more cynical and jaded. They're almost looking for any excuse or reason to not enter into a relationship. Dating a woman in her 30s is like drinking with your colleagues. You can never relax. Everything is more formal, more scripted. There's very little room for fun or spontaneity.

The above applies more to women in their 30s with white collar/professional jobs.

McTitty3000 · 2024-01-04T18:37:55+00:00

For your longest ( or I guess let me say most successful) relationship

How did you guys meet
What was the first date experience
When did y'all have sex the first time
What was the biggest fight / disagreement / argument that y'all had
Why did it end ( if it did)

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-04T18:35:11+00:00

Should I go on a date with this grad student from bumble? He seems cool and nerdy, which I like. But I am also socially anxious and haven’t been chatting with him for long

throwawayeyeglasses · 2024-01-04T18:32:35+00:00

Should've expected it but i joined an aerobics class at the gym and there's not a single male in it now I'm second guessing this shit, i don't even like the dances the make you do just thought it'd be good for health and all that

Steakman1 · 2024-01-04T18:28:45+00:00

Shrek was always the true sith lord.

McTitty3000 · 2024-01-04T18:28:20+00:00

The misses and I went to the gym this morning, and while I can do chin UPS no problem for some reason I decided to try weighted chin ups for the first time ever today, guys don't ever let a woman tell you that 30 extra pounds is not a big deal 🤣🤣🤣

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-04T18:22:39+00:00

Bro, my mental health is great.

Nothing worries, shakes or hurts me.

My secret? Diet, exercise and discipline

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2024-01-04T18:19:01+00:00

is the "girl who strings along a beta on multiple dates while getting railed by Chad the entire duration" really that common that it's something to actively complain about. I have never heard of a girl doing this in my life irl I just find it hard to believe it's a common issue.

also men would do the same thing if they had the option so I find it sorta hypocritical to be mad idk

throwawayeyeglasses · 2024-01-04T18:13:30+00:00

When I get old I'll be the male version of the catlady, dogs everywhere in my house

exponentialtaxi · 2024-01-04T18:05:27+00:00

So like how much would it cost to have 2 dogs? If it's under $300/mo I'm gonna do it, that's my 2024 resolution

butagoodpersonality · 2024-01-04T18:03:14+00:00

I’m feeling pretty good about this year. Turns out all the things people always told me would help my mental health help my mental health who would have thought 😅

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T18:00:48+00:00

Omgggggggggg like stop the bitching like its always women this and women that U guys are the biggest whiners on earth

StrikingAd8556 · 2024-01-04T18:00:41+00:00

Alright, I'm going to be vulnerable for a second. I'm not diagnosed BPD, but I definitely have some signs. So like, you know how sometimes women will say to a guy "do you even know any women?" Like, you know, talk to women and get to know them so your opinion of them isn't bad.

So I've talked about this pretty extensively, but since I started dating at around 15 I've been a habitual cheater. I've been very faithful from 2018 - 2022 where I had a slight lapse but then was caught and have been committed to being faithful ever since.

But like the thing is, If I'm not constantly getting a stream of female validation, all I have to go by is what I see other men say and what I see on the internet.

So my relationship with my partner is very strong. We love each other very much.

But I can't help but to construct this belief that women are shitty because I have no way to prove it wrong since all I receive are examples of women being shitty. It just builds up and I perceive all of these things as rejections even though they don't concern me.

I'm not going to jeopardize my relationship, but I'm just becoming more aware of different pathologies. We watched this movie last night and it was so feminist and just made me pissed off at women for always thinking men are bad when men have it tough in life because we have to earn our value.

It's socially acceptable to publicly trash men, but damn imagine being a man and seeing women who get all this attention all the time, but say men who are starved for intimacy are bad. It's like every way possible society and culture just beats you down.

I've come to this point where I just accept I'm misogynistic, but it's such a rut to have disdain for an entire group and assume they're bad.

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T17:59:13+00:00

Guys it was litchh so awkward

But funny

Gladboys · 2024-01-04T17:56:52+00:00

i swear to god gen x'ers are the biggest porn addicts. i told this dude i'm attempting to abstain from pornography and his new mission is to try and send me pornography. i blocked him but its bizarre to me the obsession these gooning motherfuckers have with sharing their sexual desires with other men. married with kids still sending people porn lmfao

iAloneChosen · 2024-01-04T17:54:42+00:00

I used to be so hung over on the whole "women care too much about looks" and I still believe in that. However, I've realized that looks and fashion is probably the easiest thing to fix now that I've actually started to give a fuck.

Now it's just about attracting the women I want and keeping her.

JDWhiz96 · 2024-01-04T17:52:35+00:00

Everyday PPD reinforces my dwindling faith in women. SMH

AnalSexIsTheBest34 · 2024-01-04T17:50:48+00:00

Question for the ladies in happy longterm heterosexual relationships: do you put as much effort into sexually pleasing your man as much as he does? Generally speaking, men are considered bad lovers by default, who have to put in a considerable effort into sexually exciting, pleasing and bringing a woman to orgasm, while women can just show a bit of enthusiasm and be considered good lovers who make their partners orgasm easily. Is that inequality present in your relationships?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-04T17:39:18+00:00

Obaid-Chinoy said, “We’re in 2024 now, and it’s about time that we had a woman come forward to shape a story in a galaxy far, far away.”

Bro, Disney still hasn't learned from the Marvels

hannahg000 · 2024-01-04T17:32:59+00:00

nothing beats the feeling of being knocked over and tongue assaulted by a gigantic dog

edit: I JUST MEANT THAT HE LICKED MY FACE 200 TIMES

AnalSexIsTheBest34 · 2024-01-04T17:25:37+00:00

After some thinking, I have come to the conclusion that the single most important thing for a successful sexual relationship with a woman is the ability to create and maintain sexual chemistry. Everything else is secondary and can be either improved or compensated for, but no matter how good you eat pussy or find right angles to thrust, if you can't make her want to ruin her life for you, you're never going to be able to please her and will always be at risk of having her wander off to someone else, even if that someone else is by all metric inferior to you. You could be a 666 Chad, but if you can't create and maintain sexual chemistry, she'll end up getting her brains fucked out by a Quasimodo with a pickle who can.

odd_cloud · 2024-01-04T17:19:30+00:00

What do you think are main mainstream ideas about dating and sex?

I started writing a list of ideas, but I think it can be summarised as one general principle: men are generally not enough and constantly fail women, but at the same time they have no difficulties with attracting women.

odd_cloud · 2024-01-04T17:10:29+00:00

If you’re interested in relationships between men and women, I’d suggest you Dr Psych Mom podcast and blog. She is a couple’s therapist and offers quite a fresh perspective.

Katatonicsnake · 2024-01-04T17:09:19+00:00

Q4a: So which one are you?

itzReborn · 2024-01-04T17:05:45+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/xNQZKSPlV5 I feel sorry that this stuff happened to her but I feel like women don’t get the full touch deprived thing. It’s not so much of being touch deprived, it’s about wanting to feel desired. I can’t think of any way other then sex that as a man I can feel desired. On the other hand I can think of a couple things that can make a woman feel more desired(go on dating apps, posting a picture on social media)

Of course I could be wrong also but it’s just my observation

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-01-05T01:41:12+00:00

Why do women downplay how much male attention is a positive in their lives?

Yes, flirting and getting attention from men can boost your self esteem and confidence and raise your mood quite a bit. Yes, flirting and attention are very pleasurable.

Yes, you have female privilege.

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-01-05T00:55:11+00:00

Tattoos are universally unattractive on women. CMV

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2024-01-04T21:46:32+00:00

Mentioned this in a now removed thread, but there actually are a lot of average/above average looking women that don’t get approached or asked out very often. Why is this, might you ask? From my observations of my female friends who have this problem, it’s because they don’t have any game.

For non-Stacy women who want to secure a top tier man, having game is just as critical as it is for guys (though since the genders are reversed, the rules are different).

RahLyt · 2024-01-05T00:13:00+00:00

I like how ppdw wake one day and act like they are experts on emotional maturity.

Like we don't date women lol.

butagoodpersonality · 2024-01-05T03:58:02+00:00

Taking responsibility for the role I played in my breakup has been a game changer for me and I needed to be really honest with myself to realize that.

My girlfriends spew the usual like “you deserve better” “screw him”

But like working on myself has made me realize that I wasn’t a very good girlfriend at all- even tho I loved him a lot and coming to that realization was honestly very freeing.

I caused a lot of unnecessary stress on both of us and I think that ultimately led to the downfall. No regrets tho it taught me a lot about what I need to change and even in the short relationship I just ended I could feel myself trying to correct bad behaviors I have always done that ruined my last relationship.

As much as the pain sucked/still sucks I truly think it helped me a lot to make positive changes

Real_Line_8074 · 2024-01-05T14:08:43+00:00

I hate the phrase "bullet dodged" so much. Just the newest example of a phrase being beaten into the ground. I hate how it's used to dismissively especially when it's directed at someone who's actually hurt by something. It's so misused too, like if someone displays bad behaviour on a first date and you check out, THAT'S a bullet dodged.

But these morons use it for damn near anything, I just saw it being used on a guy who's fiancee cheated on him in a relationship of 6 years. And some brain-dead Redditor replies with his NPC ass "oh yeah bro that's a bulked dodged". How tf is that a dodged bullet you dumb fuck? He very much got hit by the bullet

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2024-01-04T17:04:55+00:00

True or false: women are coddled. Women can live their life believing that their Prince Charming is on his way. Men can’t afford to sit and wait.

clueless343 · 2024-01-04T21:53:51+00:00

husband's single friend has finally left our house yesterday.

he left behind a huge mess. the bathroom is filthy, and the guest bedroom is also gross.

he's 35 and hasn't been in a relationship for 10 years.

He grew up with a SAHM who cleaned up after him. He wants a wife who works full time, but also will do all the cleaning/cooking. I think he's going to be single forever.

JDWhiz96 · 2024-01-04T22:48:44+00:00

This notion that average girls don't get approached is bologna. They do and it happens often, just not from the guys they want.

Life-Illustrator-217 · 2024-01-05T06:05:48+00:00

If any of you guys have social anxiety you should try solo travelling. I think what put the final nail in the coffin for my social anxiety was staying in New York city hostels or random couches or airbnbs and financing the trip by doing ebike food delivery.

When I flew back home it was like nothing could overwhelm me, and I was completely unphased and not at all sensitive to other people judgements or criticisms.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-01-05T13:59:24+00:00

Being an average (or in my case below average) male in your early-mid 20’s in the U S of A is basically a death sentence when it comes to attracting maidens of the same age.

The standards are so high i don’t even get bitter anymore when I see young couples around my age, I realize the dude prob had to scarified a arm and leg for that relationship and even then he still is at the mercy of his female women girlfriend who could easily leave and get a new man on the hour as they control the dating market.

Rather then get bitter towards female women I just instead look at the hands I was dealt (6ft,green eyes, healthy curly hair, obese lord ness, no acne, college educated, slightly autistic) and just have to figure out a way to maximize (or minimize some of)these things before I’m 26.

If I’m 26 and still maidenless it’s prob over. I’ll just enjoy my WendysBekfestPill and AnimeWomenFigurinesPill while avoiding female women irl till I die of old age.

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T16:03:48+00:00

First

FjbhBoy · 2024-01-04T21:46:40+00:00

Where are the big booty women at?

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-01-04T23:15:36+00:00

There are people whose retirement plan/strategy is basically “my grand kids got me bro” lol. Good luck with that

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T23:19:03+00:00

Any other guys turned off by super educated women who make it their personality?

I mean it's fine to be educated, it's cool, but some of those women really like to act like they are superior to men in some special way. Mostly because there are less super educated women

sine120 · 2024-01-05T01:55:56+00:00

I don't understand people who don't bother to check if what they're saying is true. I can type the question into google, it takes mere seconds. It's a debate sub, have some respect, verify your opinion is at least a true if it's been measured and posted online.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2024-01-05T06:36:45+00:00

The problem with kids these days is they're experiencing the internet with their phones. A computer is much better.

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-05T16:19:46+00:00

It's so cringe anytime a woman over 25 complains about not finding a good man

Like you could have found a good guy in uni

Rach1943 · 2024-01-04T16:19:35+00:00

one of negatives of flirting is noticing a women giving you the "signs" - smiling/talking/touching, and then noticing that "she's just that way with everyone" and is also touching and smiling to the 75 year old grandpa talking to her.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2024-01-04T16:29:51+00:00

"She told me to text her when I get home so she knows I'm safe. Is this a shit test and will I look beta if I text her"

Actually post i saw on theredpill one time

Willow-girl · 2024-01-05T04:43:56+00:00

TIL that a cow I placed with a Krishna sanctuary seven or eight years ago passed away unexpectedly in September.

RIP, Kalindi. I hope you enjoyed your retirement. Imgur

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-05T07:46:20+00:00

My cat pooped on herself, scooted her butt all over the carpet to clean it off, and then licked the remaining poo out of her butt. I can never see her the same way.

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2024-01-05T10:50:41+00:00

I really think this sub needs a rule like CMV where OP HAS to respond to comment within a certain timeframe or the post gets deleted. So many insane takes get posted here with alot of engagement and OP not responding. Current post :why would you be anything but toxic for example.

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-05T16:18:13+00:00

Women, please tell me now:

Do you seriously believe men on average don't want beautiful long term relationships?

Also, why would men talk all day about wifeys if they didn't want a LTR

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-05T16:46:01+00:00

Why do single women over 30 have such a cult like bond with other women and spend half their day hating on men?

But are also super promiscuous

slickle_1366 · 2024-01-04T16:31:27+00:00

My coworker mentioned for the 3rd time that I should go out with her niece but I can’t commit to a LTR until at least December so fingers crossed I can slow play it well enough to put off actually meeting her niece until the end of the year.

Standard_Bug_123 · 2024-01-04T16:51:32+00:00

Anyone have personal finance advice? I just maxed out all of my cards.

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T21:45:12+00:00

Do you guys remember the guy here vampire chaser that would drink period blood

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T22:52:53+00:00

I feel like women hate men and mother in-laws the most

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-04T23:54:30+00:00

I hate when people have basic ass answers on their dating profiles that have nothing to do with compatibility. What’s liking or hating pineapple on pizza gotta do with being compatible to date on Hinge? If it’s something basic like “loves animals”, at least that can help narrow things down if you don’t like animals.

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T23:56:38+00:00

It's such a refresher when women on this subreddit are polite to me and don't hate me randomly just cause I'm a man

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-05T05:11:05+00:00

Healthy eating tip: floss and brush your teeth immediately after dinner to deter yourself from eating dessert.

adelaidemonkie · 2024-01-05T05:22:23+00:00

A few months ago some barrel racer girl called me a buckle bunny and that my hat wasn’t a real cowboy hat. First of all bitch, it’s an Akubra, it’s not a cowboy hat so shut the fuck up. Second of all, I’m at a rodeo, I like to watch it, am I not allowed to be a fan just because I don’t own a horse? Jesus fucking Christ no wonder men get irritated by women.

Sillysheila · 2024-01-05T06:47:28+00:00

Has anyone been to Australia? What did you think

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-01-05T12:20:21+00:00

Looking back, it’s embarrassing to recognize the degree to which my intellectual curiosity those first two years of college paralleled the interests of various women I was attempting to get to know: Marx and Marcuse so I had something to say to the long-legged socialist who lived in my dorm; Fanon and Gwendolyn Brooks for the smooth-skinned sociology major who never gave me a second look; Foucault and Woolf for the ethereal bisexual who wore mostly black. As a strategy for picking up girls, my pseudo-intellectualism proved mostly worthless; I found myself in a series of affectionate but chaste friendships

StrikingAd8556 · 2024-01-05T15:24:35+00:00

Might hash this out into a CMV, but I was thinking about this at 8:34 AM like an absolutely rational and not at all psychotic human being totally does.

Let's say a 40 year old guy is attracted to an 18 year old girl. He expresses that attraction and the girl is upset because she viewed him like a father figure.

It is fair to say that his purpose is not to satisfy her preconceived notions of him. His attraction to her is valid and there is nothing wrong with it. Of course she doesn't have to be attracted to him. She can even feel repulsed by him. I've seen so many women say how some "creepy" man ruined the dynamic the woman thought they had. As a man, it is not our responsibility to satisfy your perception of us. Our attraction and desire for intimacy is valid.

It is no different than when women say "just because you were nice to her doesn't mean she has to date you." That is fair. Likewise, just because you view a man as one thing or another doesn't mean he can't be attracted to you.

Additionally, you do not get to judge men for their preferences. Men and women value different things. Men's preferences are valid because enough men share similar preferences to make it so.

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T15:32:21+00:00

Some of you are soo fucking gross man 🤢

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-05T16:26:03+00:00

What makes me sad is that although I would protect my wife from danger, she would never do the same for me

I feel like a woman would find it unnatural to have to defend her man. Like as a man I feel like my only worth to a woman is my money and physical power

I want to feel cared for and have a woman WANT to defend me from danger too. If she has to fight off people attacking me, I would love that. But the thing is, most women would run away or not protect their man

Which makes me sad and I'll always know my wife wouldn't do for me what I'd do for her

Would a woman fight to protect her man?

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-05T16:44:54+00:00

Whenever I meet a girl in real life, she literally counters all of the women on Reddit

These are some things girls have told me:

- I don't want a high body count

- I want to find my future husband and not date around

- I wouldn't even think of another guy when I'm in a relationship. I wouldn't want my man even thinking of another girl

- I'd love if a guy cold approaches me

HOWEVER, many guy warn me that they just SAY that, but instead I should look at their ACTIONS

But I will say, all of the women online are the opposite of the women I meet in real life. I feel like the online women just say overly liberal stuff for the sake of it

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2024-01-04T16:38:52+00:00

Ugh, -4 degrees Fahrenheit today where I live. Why can't it be summer already?

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T16:44:53+00:00

Ewww omg I have to learn about stds today

AnalSexIsTheBest34 · 2024-01-04T16:49:34+00:00

Casual dating is such a demeaning practice, I have literally no idea why people engage in it. Imagine putting yourself and your value under the judgement of some rando who's got more unwarranted confidence in themselves than Russia before the invasion. Could never be me, miss me with that bollocks.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-04T16:56:32+00:00

She say, " you the shit; you need your ass wiped"

I say, "Before you gas me up, check the gas price"

AnalSexIsTheBest34 · 2024-01-04T21:44:12+00:00

Words cannot describe how viscerally I hate simps and how brutally I'd persecute them.

DreaminInChocolate · 2024-01-04T22:03:21+00:00

Can someone from the northeast please explain to me like l'm from Louisiana what "wintery mix" means for a storm this weekend? It's apparently not snow alone.

OfficeMain1226 · 2024-01-04T22:36:41+00:00

MF it's -13 deg C (8.6 deg F) outside and I have to bike home.

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T22:46:19+00:00

How to be a legal tough guy?

I don't want to hurt a single person in my life, but I wanna pretend I'm a tough guy to girls so they like me more

What should I do? Should I act hard?

Even though I wouldn't even hurt a fly

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T22:49:44+00:00

If misogyny continues, will women start dating other women / transgender men who were born female?

Professional_Bad_282 · 2024-01-04T23:00:19+00:00

A mid 20s women with masters, 6 figure job who only had situationships, never relationship.

Her type is tall, fit, liberal educated guy.

You know why she isn't in relationship with him? You guessed it right she it overweight and borderline obese.

monster_lily · 2024-01-04T23:32:07+00:00

Guess what i can finally do a roundoff that doesnt look like caca

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2024-01-04T23:38:03+00:00

If there are any black guys here, I just want to say I'm sorry that I used to shit on you guys for bailing on unwanted kids and not paying child support. You were the woke ones all along.

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T00:11:55+00:00

Why does tha automoderater have a cake like what

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2024-01-05T00:59:25+00:00

Apparently Stephen Hawking is on the Epstein list.

That's fucking insane.

Nate_Reborn · 2024-01-05T01:46:17+00:00

Heading back for more work on my tattoo this Saturday. Super excited.

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T02:58:37+00:00

No but my question is if carbs give us more energy why dont athletes eat cake and stuff before a game

Gary_Longbottom · 2024-01-05T04:09:40+00:00

What do you think will happen to birth rates once AI powered sex robots become a legitimate thing? Birth rates are already super low in the developed world, even if sex robots only lower birth rates by 10% it will have a massive impact. America about to become an Amish theocracy.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2024-01-05T04:22:50+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/sSK9AVT

Another bad-looking quiet nerd who got bullied for years(probably incel) shot up a school.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-05T05:12:52+00:00

If someone seems like they might go in for a kiss but you’re not feeling it, pretend to be deep in thought and cup your chin so your fingers partially cover your lips, blocking access to them. It works.

Sillysheila · 2024-01-05T06:46:32+00:00

QFall: I’ve seen a lot of comments about how often women cry on here. Would you say a woman that rarely cries or only really does like once every one-two months is unusual or unemotional?

I rarely full on cry, I do get wet eyes sometimes but it goes away quick. I hear all this red pill stuff about how women constantly cry and can’t relate. It’s just not something I do a ton?

scwizard · 2024-01-05T06:47:44+00:00

So, there's this older man that came to my place once offering to cut the grass, it needed cutting so I paid him and he did the job a couple of times. The last time he came he needed some cash to buy diesel for his machine beforehand, I didn't have cash on me, so I used an app to send him the money, and with that he got my phone number.

I'm sorry but was she born yesterday?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2024-01-05T07:42:03+00:00

I finally met a couple of older American passport bros today. Very friendly nice fellows, they are both married to Thai women & have moved here in the past couple of years. It’s always fun to meet people who love this place as much as I do and to talk about the lightness of finally being here permanently (plus the affordability of everything - especially healthcare).

Gladboys · 2024-01-05T11:26:18+00:00

Sake is the best spirit, I downed multiple bottles and still no hangover

Infinite_Signal90 · 2024-01-05T11:50:30+00:00

Getting downvotes for advising a guy his post is against sub rules and is gonna get deleted so he should post in the daily instead. Apparently giving solids advice is worth a downvote these days.

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T15:37:26+00:00

Honestly if u want people to like you greeting them whenever you see them goes a Looooooooong way

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-05T15:38:31+00:00

Imagine getting triggered by fitness & health ads

https://www.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/18ykn7r/aggressive_january_health_and_fitness_ads/

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-05T15:54:23+00:00

Women get non-stop male attention

I wish I got non-stop female attention (as long as it's safe ofc)

It's kind of unfair to be honest

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-05T16:00:30+00:00

Considering how many incels are on Reddit, why are so many subreddits full of white knights?

You would expect that incels hate women. One time I said I don't want a female barber because that's weird and I'll feel like I'm not a man if a woman is cutting my hair and thinking she understands my hair better than hers'. Anyways, a bunch of dudes started saying stuff like "Oh why do you care, as long as she can cut hair that's all that matters"

And you would expect that the reddit dating subreddits are also full of incels, but if I ever say I don't like when women engage in casual sex, a bunch of GUYS start shitting on me and saying "YoU DoNt HaVE The RiGht To SAy ThAt"

Like I expected most of reddit is full of incels - so why do they all do the opposite of what incels do?

I'm not an incel, nor do I hate women. I'm just curious why incels white knight

SeveralSadEvenings · 2024-01-05T16:01:52+00:00

I should probably speak to someone about this weird complex I have about cooking.

I made turkey lasagna soup last night, and spicy pork tacos with kiwi salsa a few days before. My husband complimented my cooking this morning and I felt so uncomfortable, angry, and ashamed?

While I was cooking breakfast this morning I briefly wondered if I should invest in an apron and I had to take a break cause I was just overcome with despair.

I'm usually a pretty level headed and calm person, lol wtf is this.

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T16:31:04+00:00

I feel like if youre a woman u shouldnt go on dating apps

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LoFiPanda14 · 2024-01-04T16:03:52+00:00

First ya scrubs

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-01-04T16:13:53+00:00

When I was growing up I remember seeing women take money out of their bras to pay for things. At McDonald’s, grocery stories, the mall etc. It would be all types of women too, Black Women, white women, older women, younger women, working class women, girls from the suburbs. Now I never see that, I think the last time I saw that was maybe like 15 years ago. It makes sense people just in general don’t carry cash on them like they used to.

Ohmaygahh · 2024-01-04T16:16:28+00:00

Interesting random story.

I had matched with a girl on Bumble during the holidays. Txted almost everyday, learned a bit about her, single mom, two kids, two different fathers, ethnicity from the current hot spot in the world. Muslim. She doesn't want no hookups. There's no way in hell I could ever take her seriously.

I matched with someone new yesterday. A member from the tribe. No kids. I start dirty talking to her and in less than 6 hours, I am inside her, and she's fucking amazing. Model-esque. So much for "building rapport", right?

As I'm freshening up after, I'm looking for the mouthwash. I can't help but open the medicine cabinet. A pinch of dread, what am I going to discover? Quaaludes, Xanax, or whatever fancy new SSI of the month. There were four of them. My heart sank.

And then it made me wonder, is it collectively man's fault for the women we have today. This girl is hot, crazy good in bed, wild. But it comes at a cost, perhaps no "well adjusted" woman would have crazy hot sex with a near stranger, invite him to her bed. Only mentally ill women would. And man wants crazy hot fun sex, but only mentally ill women are game for it.

This could have had implications during early human history in which pretty, but normal women were not that sexual/interested in men and were weeded out, surpassed by the plentiful offspring of her sexually open, mentally ill sisters.

Men, we may have created our own mess. We are on this rock, and there are no genuine "good girls" left. All of them the progeny of deceptive, wanton, deceitful witches. The apple cannot fall far from the tree.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-04T16:36:38+00:00

You are a loser if you spent NYE alone

You will be even a bigger loser if you spend Valentines day alone

AddressStock8284 · 2024-01-04T17:40:27+00:00

Does anyone know any single women interested in a relationship? Please DM me about it.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2024-01-04T22:05:50+00:00

do most people actually shave off everything

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T22:49:02+00:00

Do women like it more when men "demand" beauty. For example, "I like it when your hair is like this" or "I prefer when you shave"

Or do women like it more when guys cater to women. Some women say that they find it frustrating that they always have to look super good to impress men.

Would a woman like it more if a guy doesn't care about a woman's beauty and still chooses to be with her. For example, he doesn't tell her to shave etc

FuuraKafu · 2024-01-04T22:49:03+00:00

[https://youtu.be/iHQhsRkzSjM](Life is gud)

FuuraKafu · 2024-01-04T22:49:58+00:00

life is gud

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T23:17:45+00:00

Some people claim that most women are bi

But if this were the case, wouldn't we see way more women dating women?

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T23:20:45+00:00

Why are super super hot girls sometimes nice to men and don't hate them? Also, they don't mind the patriarchy?

Like you know those hot bikini girls that hang out with a bunch of dudes and actually like them as friends. Why don't those types complain all day about men being evil?

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T23:21:23+00:00

What do fuckbois and hoes think of the opposite gender?

Do they loose trust for them? Or like them more?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-01-04T23:32:07+00:00

Word of the day: "dickmatised"

Maffioze · 2024-01-04T23:49:05+00:00

https://youtu.be/_hEraGvcQe0?si=HqxS8IId91nQJufv

This song will always be based tbh. I kinda regret not sending it to my ex lmao.

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-04T23:54:52+00:00

Can Instagram baddies be good wifey types? Or are baddies usually casual sex or hypergamous types?

dishonouronmycow · 2024-01-05T00:04:07+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/i3qdcnzwiiac1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7482a5808cf0003a2e5ef6ec5e964b5d737b696d

.8 carats? Should have said no 😪

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T00:04:27+00:00

I wanna be a mother soooo bad like

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-01-05T00:17:18+00:00

Early 90s, Eurodance, threat of nuclear war evaporated, only good things will happen from now on

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T00:33:44+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/c1c6b52coiac1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f1ce4745ec0e3b2e555eb30021fcd6942bd03aed

Guyssss

hannahg000 · 2024-01-05T02:46:56+00:00

i get relatively frequent headaches. and it makes me just lay in bed all day and be sad that my head hurts

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T02:52:24+00:00

Now that i think about it my dream career is probably a perfumer cuz i love smelling things but sadly its not gonna work out cuz my sense of smell isnt that strong and i dont wanna be broke and also i got a d on my chemistry final last yr

Maractop · 2024-01-05T03:07:55+00:00

How do I get banned on here?

hannahg000 · 2024-01-05T03:17:53+00:00

sometimes i feel like i’m too old to struggle with anxiety and depression. it’s like i perceive it as a teenage thing and the fact that i still struggle with it makes me feel juvenile and silly

missionglowup · 2024-01-05T05:02:55+00:00

i can’t believe i’m graduating from college in a few months. the first in my family to graduate high school and soon, graduate college. i’m usually humble about my personal accomplishments but im so damn proud of myself and im so excited!

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2024-01-05T05:46:05+00:00

Why are women attracted to professional athletes and celebrities? Serious question. Is it really just about status and money? If so, doesn't it prove that dating is just about looks, money and status?

dbz__f · 2024-01-05T09:21:06+00:00

Q4men: Would you rather date a fat woman or a woman with really bad English?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2024-01-05T10:50:16+00:00

Rate this guy

His wiki pic

People on my country sub are talking about him as if he is chad tier and I never saw him that way... but Idk I'm starting to get on board with the idea after looking a few pics (he is 6' too)... Idk though so PPD experts, what's your take? Chad or not?

Irrelevant, but he is gay and there is unironically a chance he could be the next French president lmao (unlikely, but possible)

Infinite_Signal90 · 2024-01-05T11:17:27+00:00

There’s been a lot of comments from men talking about experiences they’ve had with women where their feelings and vulnerabilities were not taken seriously and it backfired on them. And I don’t doubt that tbh. People suck. But I don’t think this is an exclusively female on male phenomenon and I believe male on female as well as same sex relationships, friendships and familial relationships also have these issues.

What’s everyone’s thoughts? Do we think one of these examples above is more prevalent than the others? If so, why? What’s a time you had your feelings dismissed?

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T14:10:21+00:00

Guys apes is saurrrr fun we played with dirt today and we had to put chemicals in it to see all the nutrients and stuff

grillopie · 2024-01-05T14:26:47+00:00

I have a new idea for a pua/redpill playbook:

You need to have a hyper/adhd/anxious female friend your girl has never met before and you need to know where she is at some specific time, maybe through social media or mutual acquaintance.

Take your girl and bump into the hyper girl “randomly.” Make sure you get the jump on her. Call her name and take her by surprise. Greet her calmly and warmly, and let your girl see how flustered and nervous the hyper girl is since she was just taken by surprise. Seeing you inspire that nervous energy in another girl will make her instantly want to rip your pants off.

One problem though is you have to unironically be a nice guy to your nervous friend for months or years for this to work.

ratboi34 · 2024-01-05T14:35:22+00:00

Q4W:

Rate this indian janitormaxxing guy from 1-10. Would you say that his confidence and electrifying dance moves improve his rating?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-05T14:47:18+00:00

I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt, undoubtedly

And all those who look down on me, I'm tearin' down your balcony

No if, ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

Gladboys · 2024-01-05T15:41:01+00:00

My friend has hatched a plan to hook me up with a girl However the current obstacles are 1: she has a boyfriend and 2: she’s only interested in guys who are taken. The current plan is to lie about being engaged to a girl back where I live.

I don’t think this plan is going to work does anyone have any input

monster_lily · 2024-01-05T16:04:27+00:00

Edtwt is sooo toxic omgg

saulbasedman · 2024-01-05T16:24:08+00:00

Back from my ban. Anyone missed me? I reinstalled Tinder

Katatonicsnake · 2024-01-05T16:25:11+00:00

Q4w: Have you experienced something called The girl code in your life?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2024-01-05T16:26:39+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/LivestreamFail/comments/18ysczr/emily_gets_mistaken_for_a_crackhead/

ok this cracked me up hahaha

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-05T01:22:19+00:00

Boring people make me want to do drugs

MyHouseOnMars- · 2024-01-05T02:54:24+00:00

Michael Jackson didn't participate in Epstein's parties because:

Epstein offered girls
michael already had access to little boys
his lawyers probably knew about Epstein so they probably warned him

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