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ZairUnfair · 2024-09-17T03:59:32+00:00

Roommate not only cuts the Watermelon for me, But he also removes the hard shell and gives me only the sweet part. I only remember my mum ever doing it. Small things like this are very heartwarming to me.

Jaded_Bad2224 · 2024-09-17T03:59:32+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NCXElKaJWzU

greatest of all time melodic hardcore

Mountain_Art2686 · 2024-09-17T03:27:52+00:00

I wish reddit would let you say whatever you wanted. I get so many people threatening to report me almost every time I post. Ridiculous and now I'm wondering if my account will be banned when I wake up in the morning.

okaybear2point0 · 2024-09-17T03:24:16+00:00

do you think there are more women who have a preference for younger men or female pedophiles in the world? obviously liking younger men doesn't automatically imply you're a pedophile but I feel those two things are probably comorbid in women whereas preferring younger women is pretty much default in men

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-09-17T03:03:09+00:00

Q4M: You’ve hired a professional team of landscapers to tend to your lawn and your wife asked them to plant her favorite flowers. One landscaper takes his shirt off to work even though the rest keep their company uniforms on. And when they’re done, he arranges a bunch of flowers he had to trim off the bushes and presents them to your wife, saying “A beautiful bouquet for a beautiful woman”. Do you tolerate this or find new landscapers?

New83659 · 2024-09-17T03:02:22+00:00

Ever since I left my 2 summer jobs and came home for school, I have had a increasingly deteriorating view of women.

This is kinda hard to explain, but I have always viewed them as sex objects. People understand that. Like I would see a female, and think, mm I want to fuck her.

Now it feels kinda different, irl females don't even register in my mind at all (besides feeling a bit of hatred towards them) and sex is like an abstract concept all together. Like it barely even exists in my mind at this point. And women are also this weird concept. Like I know I rant about them online, but I don't really ever interact with any. I'm high rn so idk if this made any sense but damn I'm really losing it.

FunEducation1434 · 2024-09-17T03:01:49+00:00

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Valuable-Lobster1504 · 2024-09-17T02:55:49+00:00

Whenever some dudes here starting talking about how they don’t want to pay for dates it always takes me back to when I used to just straight up unknowingly emasculate dudes when I would just pull up to their mom’s house at 22 with my brand new Beamer to take them (the dude living in his parents house) to sushi and pay without a thought because they were hot

We would have a blast and smash and I would drop them back off and break it off after some fun times

I didn’t give a fuck but it would crushhhh them inside

Nobody ever talks about the other side of the coin huh lmao

Mountain_Art2686 · 2024-09-17T02:52:40+00:00

Me if I had a daughter in a "tough" relationship.

"He seems like a great guy, I know you two have "rough patches" every now and then but just give him a chance! Don't break up! But uhh yeah I'm not raising any babies if uhh "that" happens. Heh heh not my problemo! But who do you think you are? "Should I break up with him" Who the FUCK do you think you even are? Grow the fuck up and settle down already. You're not compatible with the nice guys at this point anyways 🤷‍♂️"

Careful_Awareness_26 · 2024-09-17T02:43:02+00:00

Sometimes I think I want kids, but then I realize that cute baby becomes an annoying cringey ass 12 year old at some point and I no longer want one.

gloomett3 · 2024-09-17T02:42:07+00:00

I am putting away childish pursuits. I will no longer idolize relationships and men. I say this with acceptance, no longer sadness. I will begin to view singleness as a gift, an opportunity to grow and become intimate with myself. I am not promised a man, I am not deserving/entitled to a partner and that is ok. Yearning may strike me but I will be fine.

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Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-09-17T02:38:46+00:00

Q4W: One day you meet your boyfriend on his lunch break and go to his favorite spot to eat. While taking your order, the waitress drops her pen on your boyfriend, and instead of letting him hand it back she immediately reaches down into his lap to pick it up. This strikes you as very inappropriate but your boyfriend insists it was an accident— even though at that angle you’d have to toss the pen slightly forward for it to land in his lap. You’d prefer if he didn’t interact with this woman anymore but he eats here every day because it’s the only decent lunch spot near his job. How do you handle this?

LordArtichode · 2024-09-17T02:18:42+00:00

There is a lot of whining coming from women who can't get commitment from the man they want that they're just being used by him for sex. There's likely a good reason that this is happening to those women- they are shooting far above their league/they are ugly, or they have a weird vibe that causes men to use them.

Women who experience this have are likely to become insecure and misandrist, even blaming men as a whole for their poor romantic choices. Instead of blaming others, they should either look for less attractive options or become happy with being used by these men if they can't bear lowering their standards.

If men can be happy being used for sex, why can't women?

dysonRing · 2024-09-17T02:18:20+00:00

Positivity post: wegovy will increase the female outlook moving forward. I can doompost less about this.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2024-09-17T01:29:14+00:00

Q4A: What is the appeal of oral sex?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-09-17T01:24:43+00:00

Look, she’s trying to be pretty. It’s like when people put clothes on a dog 🥺

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MalandiBastos · 2024-09-17T01:20:52+00:00

SEA update:

Did something stupid again. The island that I'm on, every city on the mainland aside from the one I live in is level 3 travel advisory. I traveled outside of the safety of that city yesterday to go inquiring about volunteering at a university.

I take a long bus ride and arrive in the new city. I stop at a mall and everyone is looking at me, I'm sure very few foriegners ever come here, so the fact they're seeing one, especially a young one is very novel to them. I head to the university on motorcycle taxi where I am greeted by security. I call the pastor I've been in contact with and he has security drive me to his office. We head in and talk for about 30 minutes. He is very inquisitive about me and asks me about my intentions for coming. I reaffirm that I am looking to volunteer.

He tells me that he has a lot of security concerns for me, because there are terrorists/rebels that live in the jungle and I would draw a lot of attention when we go in provincial areas. I told him that I'm willing to accept the risks.

We walk around the campus into a outdoor meeting areas where there are hundreds of students involved in some after-school event. He introduces me to other leadership in the faculty who give me more information about volunteering.

After about an hour, the pastor takes me out for a meal. All you can eat for only 4 dollars, his treat. We then head to a community outreach program in a rural area. We arrive through dirt road at night, surrounded by very high vegetarian, and there is currently a brown out, so it is pitch black aside from the headlights of the car. The pastor starts again talking about security concerns and the whole time we drive through I am just mentally anticipating some rebels coming out of the vegetation to kidnap me at any moment. I am having complete trust in this guy that I never met before that was referred to me by another person who I had only ever met once before.

We arrive safely to the outside gym of the community's elementary school. There is about 100 people in attendance. The pastor introduces me as his brother in law. He says that the people will respect me more if he does this and that the security will be more concerned for my safety. The people are all very surprised to see me yet are inviting.

The school has adopted one of the "barangay" or villages nearby that they do outreach to, which with further conversation to the Pastor, is because they have intention to open a church there. Basically they build up a small community there, have an event once or twice a month where they give out a small amount of food and gift and evangelize to them in preparation before opening a church. These people are desperately poor. They were so happy just to get a piece of sweet bread, a popsicle, a small plastic watering can and flip-flops.

After we left the pastor then drove me to the bus station to ensure my safety, and waited for the bus with me. He said he appreciates my "brave heart" and for coming out to see him. He told me that 7 years ago one of the terrorists set off a bomb at this exact bus station that killed/wounded many.

I am curious to keep pulling on this thread but I'm not sure if I will. I am doing this just to get women and it seems like too much effort/risk for the reward. It would be very difficult to navigate getting a harem. This would be more for if I'm looking for a high quality wife, in then I could basically get my pick of the litter from the university.

They invited me to come to future events. There is one that I am very interested in but is quite dangerous. They take a ride very deep into territory inhabited by the natives who live off of the land to bring them food and evangelize to them. These kind of areas are also the same ones that the rebels/terrorists hang out in too. He said that they have to have military involvement when they go on these trips, and direct contact with the rebels themselves in order to try and reach a negotiation where they don't interfere.

hannahg000 · 2024-09-17T01:14:34+00:00

first exam of the semester today. and i got the highest score 😎

New83659 · 2024-09-17T01:12:02+00:00

I think the people who say beta uprising is unrealistic are misguided.

Literally millions of people live under sharia law, which is similar to the sort of system that would be implemented if there was a successful beta uprising.

Immigrants are pouring into the west, and if far right Christians could get their shit together and actually ally themselves with Islam, rather than fighting them, we could see a sort of fundamentalist religious dominance over women happen, in our lifetimes.

And that would definitely be a form of beta uprising. Only guys who care about religion to a large degree are the ones who aren't getting pussy. There's a decent amount of evidence that abrahamic religions were actually invented to keep female nature in check.. I'm not literally saying internet based guys are gonna do it all by themselves.. It will be a far right coalition of a variety of based dudes who all want to have more power.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2024-09-17T01:09:58+00:00

My morning coffee music: https://open.spotify.com/track/32dHM3qu7w21LfjwT2oZme?si=p_fREL9ATmyFuhJl9b852A ☺️ What’s on your mind?

lulll · 2024-09-17T00:57:53+00:00

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truly the peak formula of the internet

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-09-17T00:56:33+00:00

Q4M: Which of these women would you rather date?

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Slipthe · 2024-09-17T00:29:33+00:00

There's a gal who I graduated high school with who posted she went back to our high school as a guest speaker in a teacher's classroom just on general life advice.

But the thing is... that broad never finished college, never got a job in anything she planned or studied for and then got married to a man that's like 12+ years older than her and is a housewife, with no kids. The dude seems to have teenage kids.

Like what kind of trajectory is that? What would high school kids even think of that?

Mountain_Art2686 · 2024-09-17T00:23:01+00:00

The average man is not equal to the average woman at 18.

And they're also not equal at 40 😂😂😂😂

PiastriPs3 · 2024-09-17T00:16:05+00:00

QFA: How do you see women who get cosmetic surgery such as breast implants or a bbl to please their partners? Im seeing more married millenial women with obviously fake triple Ds and BBLs around my neighbourhood for some reason.

ThatLeval · 2024-09-16T23:57:08+00:00

Reddit people: links to websites that require subscriptions and TikTok that requires an account

Me:

Weekly-Vacation-6929 · 2024-09-16T23:55:34+00:00

lebron's answer to the reporter asking him if it bothers him that people want to see him fail: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYdN_UQ_Tik

At the end of the day, those rooting for me to fail will wake up with the same life and problems. I’ll keep living how I want with my family, happy with that. They might enjoy a brief moment of my or the Miami Heat’s failure, but eventually, they’ll have to return to reality.

basically saying "you're all poor and i'm a rich 6'8 athlete, i'm winning in the game of life".

how can you enjoy sports after watching this? I got turned off from basketball when I first saw this clip.

ZairUnfair · 2024-09-16T23:44:01+00:00

My girlfriend looks very hot when she's playing with kids for some reason. I am not the one supposed to be getting baby fevers god.

Valuable-Lobster1504 · 2024-09-16T23:39:27+00:00

Are you allowed to block people here or nah?

PinchRunners · 2024-09-16T23:38:39+00:00

i wish i could fully isolate myself from the world and not have to talk to anybody

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-16T23:33:06+00:00

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Bruh i'm gagging

horrible_opinions · 2024-09-16T23:28:19+00:00

This may not be a common sentiment from the women in this sub specifically but one complaint I hear from women in general is that men will argue with intentions. The most basic example is the man does something, the woman says she's hurt by it, and the man's first response is "Well I didn't mean to hurt you." While this isn't a good response, I'm not even sure how gender-specific it is; women probably do this too and men are just less likely to complain about it.

But that's not the point I want to make. What I see more often than the above (purely anecdotal but it's not like there's data on this) is women making claims about men's intentions, men defending themselves, and then being accused of low emotional intelligence. For example:

F: You didn't do the dishes, that makes it seem like you don't care about the space we live in

M: No, I do care about the space we live in, I just forgot

F: It's not about whether or not you care, it's the fact that the dishes weren't done

I've found women are actually really good at setting up these kafka traps, much better than men. I don't even think a lot of them do it intentionally (haha).

Tywinlol2 · 2024-09-16T23:25:10+00:00

Q4W: Dear females I have been interacting with your sordid kind for long, long time and I still don't understand your obsession with clothes. Why do you always need to buy more? Even When you have 2 full closests, filled to the roof with shoes and dress, you still need more. WTF? It is the same when you young, all my gfs had to always buy more and more, and invade my space with it, and then slowly annex my part of the closet, I swear you all Russian on inside. My mother, do I really love her, is in her 70s and she is still buying more and now wants to store it in my place.

And that is to say nothing about attempts to buy clocthes for me and dress me up. I had to fight my hopefully final ex every time we went shopping. I still remember her trying to buy me these warm slippers at Costco cause my old ones are 2 years old, I don't care if they 20 years old, they are still whole, mostly, and still keep me warm I don't need new ones. And now my mother is picking up the same habit. Long story short what is your obsession with dressing up?

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-16T23:22:02+00:00

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Lmaooo this tops even grillope

SlashCo80 · 2024-09-16T23:18:40+00:00

I'm starting to believe a big problem with society is that we've got too many arrogant assholes getting away with everything because people are too scared, polite, or apathetic to stand up to them.

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-16T23:18:17+00:00

So I just learned there's a subreddit called r/whiteknighting and I fully expect to see some of your guys' posts there

hannahg000 · 2024-09-16T23:13:38+00:00

i feel like hammurabi’s code has been brought up in some shape or form every year in my academic career since like 7th grade

OffTheRedSand · 2024-09-16T23:06:45+00:00

men: But women never compliment us or call us pretty or desire us for our bodies why is that?

also men:

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Sad_and_grossed_out · 2024-09-16T23:06:33+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTFY2sntf/

She speak no lies here

Boredape1525 · 2024-09-16T22:56:02+00:00

Q4A

What do you all think is causing the uptick in youth suicide not just amongst young men but young women as well? I might lean towards social media being part of the reason but just want to get everyone's thoughts.

Jaded_Bad2224 · 2024-09-16T22:55:42+00:00

i really hate going on wild goose chases

SwoleAustralian · 2024-09-16T22:53:59+00:00

I think a lot of people here need to remember that when you're arguing or debating with someone on here, they probably knew they were wrong about 15 minutes ago, they're just continuing purely to piss you off and get you angry now.

y2kjanelle · 2024-09-16T22:51:33+00:00

Watching the Ashley Madison documentary. I thought it would be more like anger inducing but really it was more like shocking and very slightly funny (yall rly putting ur affairs online like that and shocked of the consequences when it got out?? Be real LMAOOO).

Like FUCK - these hackers went ALL out. I remember this coming out but I never knew how like deep it was, how much they exposed. DAMN.

LordArtichode · 2024-09-16T22:50:46+00:00

I can't help but feel it's the world correcting it's own mistakes when an attractive man cheats on his less attractive wife/girlfriend

butagoodpersonality · 2024-09-16T22:44:51+00:00

God this England trip has been such a blast idk if it’s cause I’m American or I’ve lost weight recently but I’ve never felt more confident and sexy and I’ve met so many people

egalitarian-flan · 2024-09-16T10:16:20+00:00

Some of the men here make it extremely difficult to keep empathizing with them, when they have zero empathy for you.

I know it's important to not paint an entire sex with the same brush, but when it's a bunch of guys saying the same exact thing...it gets hard to do.

I'll never understand how someone can be begging for sympathy due to bad life experiences, and then you give it to them because you've been through the same kind of shit and can relate, but then they bite back and claim your exact same problems somehow couldn't have been that bad.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2024-09-16T10:50:12+00:00

My social engagement efforts continue: The ladies who invited me to their social lunch last week have deemed me alright and invited me back for this week’s get together. They are a fun bunch, Euro ladies who’ve been living here for a long time. Yay! I now have 4 permanent lady friends and 2 part time ones. The two groups could never mix socially but I’m really happy to have both & finally some friends that aren’t dudes (no shade for my male pals)

BichonFriseLover · 2024-09-16T06:15:34+00:00

My favourite TikTok genre is unattractive women complaining about dating and then seeing the comments with a lot of unattractive women agreeing.

Vid I just saw was a lack of being approached

Show-Me-Ur-Prsnlty · 2024-09-16T03:09:47+00:00

Women on here have truly shattered any hope or self-esteem I've ever had.

wankcel · 2024-09-16T13:09:54+00:00

Anyone else notice the bottom half of men in their life have just given up on dating?

In my life the bottom half of attractive men have just completely given up on dating, like they don’t even bother trying to impress women or even ask them out even more.

In the past “beta bux” was always a thing but I genuinely don’t think this generation of men will be willing to settle down later in life. Most of them are willing to have casual sex but have zero interest in “dating” modern women.

lulll · 2024-09-16T13:56:35+00:00

men are not ornaments that fit the aesthetic of your instagram profile we are human beings

gloomett3 · 2024-09-16T13:04:22+00:00

Men seething over this as if they don't constantly brag about how they'd never lift a finger to dial 911 if they saw a woman literally dying.

New83659 · 2024-09-16T05:39:15+00:00

Anyone else notice how dudes from more upper class or middle class backgrounds tend to be the ones who struggle a lot in dating.?

My original theory, is that simply the dads of upper middle class kids are more likely to be nice guys themselves, so they will teach their sons wrong (or not teach them at all.) Computer programmer dad, VS if your dad is a mechanic he will probably be a little bit more masculine and will teach the son to be masculine.

But that theory doesn't completely make sense, because poorer kids are more likely to have completely absent fathers.

Why do you all think this phenomenon exists?

EulenWatcher · 2024-09-16T16:44:48+00:00

So when we moved, I didn’t go out on my own without my husband for months. Due to the stress and new environment my husband and I were “glued on the hip” and we literally were doing everything together. I work from home, I don’t have any friends or family (only his family) here, so it’s not that I had the need to go out alone. But now when I’m taking courses and generally have to navigate the city on my own, it’s good to feel like an adult with a certain level of independency again.

Proudvow · 2024-09-16T04:00:40+00:00

Feminist upbringing + autism = passive male who doesn't understand social cues and is perpetually inactive out of fear of somehow wronging women.

Since the autism can't be changed the feminism needs to be kept away instead. At least until women start giving passive men a chance.

Dayama2030 · 2024-09-16T11:32:49+00:00

Even when I'm in my 80s my wife will still be young and beautiful

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Unique-Afternoon6316 · 2024-09-16T14:58:39+00:00

I'm genuinely starting to think those 'Q4W: Why are you attracted to your husband/boyfriend' Threads are bad for my mental health 😭

Genuinely happy others are so happy but I can recognize it's making me bitter. I was just reading a romance manga I was enjoying, but I recognized myself feeling envy because the FMC actually loved the MC... 😔

EqualSea2001 · 2024-09-16T15:58:21+00:00

My hands and feet as soon as it’s below 25 degrees Celsius:

saulbasedman3 · 2024-09-16T16:24:27+00:00

She said she wants to hang out. u/Hot_Lack_4868 sorry for doubting you.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2024-09-16T17:26:48+00:00

Women : my husband is attractive

https://preview.redd.it/0s2o7n8jh7pd1.jpeg?width=852&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9946ba4b7395cf1b28a3d113eb01955fde6a7a89

Yeah I absolutely believe you 😇

shmupsy · 2024-09-16T18:59:02+00:00

you don't have to lie to girls, if they like you they'll just lie to themselves

OffTheRedSand · 2024-09-16T05:40:01+00:00

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Dishonouronmycow2 · 2024-09-16T09:59:02+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/xp0rwo2l95pd1.jpeg?width=867&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a98135ebc8cd8c1951ebdeaddb75ed0017811ea

What does this rate on the delusion scale

hannahg000 · 2024-09-16T12:46:19+00:00

ugh it’s monday again 😭

Weekly-Vacation-6929 · 2024-09-16T13:03:27+00:00

Everytime I pass a companys initial resume scan and assessments, I fail at the hireview/recorded interview, coincidentally when i have to show my face. Up until then I fit the role well. I'm starting to think they just see my looks and assume negative traits. I've practiced for these so much and remember to smile and be authentic, but silence or rejection right after it's reviewed.

Whats the point of saying applicants will be equally reviewed if such process is allowed where human nature will intervene in some way?

Think_Day_8061 · 2024-09-16T14:52:02+00:00

hiiiii...

AITA for not buying my bf a PS5?

We've been together about 1 year. We had a 1 month break in the middle after he cheated on me, but I forgave him because he's pretty hot.

He wants a ps5 bundle, but he recently left his job because he thought the managers talked down to him. I have been buying everything for the both of us whilst he looks for work.

I very calmly, and super politely said, "Babe, I understand you'd like a PS5, but it's not something I can buy right now. I'm sorry."

At this point, he takes a permanent marker and starts writing something on my head. I froze in fear (previous trauma). He mumbles, "That'll show her..." and storms out.

After I stopped shaking, I go to the mirror and look at what it says on my head. Unfortunately, it's backwards and I can't handle reading it (previous trauma).

I sent a selfie to my girl friend and she said the writing said, "U BELONG 2 ME, FEMALE"

Is that normal, guys...?? I feel selfish for not buying the ps5. And maybe he is just struggling to express his emotions...??

AITA guysss? Pls tell meeeee

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-09-16T15:07:49+00:00

Women being so turned off by male virgins gives me the ick.

Crimson-Pilled · 2024-09-16T15:44:10+00:00

Women hate men who can't attract women just as much, if not more, than men who abuse women. CMV.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-09-16T15:58:30+00:00

One of my favorite parts of being a woman is the joy of opening a new scented hand lotion. Pomegranate for fall is perfect!

hannahg000 · 2024-09-16T16:02:42+00:00

i’m finally drinking the free coffee at my internship. it’s not great but it shall serve its purpose

New-Western-4819 · 2024-09-16T16:40:33+00:00

i just want to drop kick this sighing motherfucker in the mouth. i wish he could shut the fuck up for once jfc i can't stand him

saraimarsena · 2024-09-16T16:52:09+00:00

it’s actually insane to me that there are men who can eat 2000+ calories in a DAY and lose weight ?!?!

EqualSea2001 · 2024-09-16T17:46:55+00:00

Bro what? What did I even say?

https://preview.redd.it/g165zb74l7pd1.png?width=749&format=png&auto=webp&s=0a770e91aab7e3cafd2fbd9763243727deade9ae

hannahg000 · 2024-09-16T19:16:37+00:00

there was this time in high school where i was having pretty severe skin inflammation and the doctors kept running tests and couldn’t figure out what was causing it. then they found out i was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder so they concluded that anxiety was causing my immune system to attack itself. to this day, i have no idea what was going on with that. it hasn’t happened since

systematicdissonance · 2024-09-16T21:12:59+00:00

A bunch of elegant pretty office ladies will never shove me into a dark alley and beat me up, punching me, kicking me and shoving me with their heels on my face while looking down on me

https://preview.redd.it/qmm3ijkvl8pd1.jpeg?width=480&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e9eb9aa31e3efba78dd1180e595b244dc897aa59

fiftypoundpuppy · 2024-09-16T03:09:42+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9aavmOSiDd/?igsh=eWFiNzl4MTk1ajhj

Damn, short kings really can't get any respect

PinchRunners · 2024-09-16T04:04:38+00:00

day 1 of asking for a pretty black woman with dreads with beautiful brown eyes and a soft voice to call me a good boy

bv0724 · 2024-09-16T08:38:18+00:00

Hot take? I see OLD as a form of cold approach. Possibly the coldest approach.

OffTheRedSand · 2024-09-16T08:53:45+00:00

one of the posts that stuck with me and i feel angry i can't find anymore was of a dude who was extremely average in looks, he posted his pic, like the most average of average.

he was kinda cute but at the same time npc like, living in nyc and work as an uber driver.

and his complaint? it's hard to find women for casual sex who host. geuinely he was mad women would not meet him for casual sex at their house from tinder, and he couldn't afford a lot of dates so the dude couldn't wait!

when adviced to host the women himself he complained that women would say no to coming to his house when they found out he lived with his parents and that the sex "would be awkward"

damn those high standards women!

scwizard · 2024-09-16T14:32:42+00:00

It's not just you. More and more I'm convinced what we call "civilization" is just a system envisioned by men to ensure control over women's sexuality. From there, they learned they can exert similar control over other groups, but managing women as if we were resources has been the foundational move since the beginning.

There's no capitalism if you can't get women to serve men and servitude starts at sexual access. Reproduction, child-rearing to renovate the work force, domestic labor to lower his work-load since women's value on work market is decreased over reproduction - all of that depends on men having sex with women.

So she's saying she wants to destroy civilization then?

Gladboys · 2024-09-16T15:16:18+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/o27cgqw8u6pd1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0ad96729b05e1bef41e43d6bcb3e9745ba64a47f

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-16T15:16:57+00:00

Much love to my miserable co-workers:

https://preview.redd.it/165gnuadu6pd1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9848274cadda70991b51bb708f5e2ad462433153

TheUrbanSupremacist · 2024-09-16T16:20:18+00:00

Be me, 18

Take out 100k to go to school

Smoke weed every day, don't go to class

Graudate with 2.1, no internships

Don't get job

Poor

WTF the economy is rigged

SevenLovedYouSoMuch · 2024-09-16T16:37:59+00:00

Need to workout today. Had a solid week last week. Gotta bring that energy into this week. We're going to get another pregnancy test today. Her most recent test strip was undeniably darker but the couple she had left were expired. I have to get in shape to protect my children and to instill good values into them. I have to be a good role model for them. You can't let your body go to waste like so many people do. Doing so only results in misery. Plus it is a harsh truth that the world judges others based on their outward appearance and while it isn't right, you have to do whatever you can to give yourself an advantage socially and professionally.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-09-16T16:55:12+00:00

Q4M: You’re between jobs at the moment and money is tight. However, you still want to treat your girlfriend to a birthday dinner at her favorite restaurant and she’s looking forward to it because you two haven’t gone out much lately. She orders a drink, appetizer, her favorite dish (the most expensive one on the menu), and a dessert, which is a bit excessive considering your finances right now. You forgo an appetizer and dessert of your own to offset the cost of her food and still end up paying more than you anticipated. Do you let it slide or bring it up later?

TheUrbanSupremacist · 2024-09-16T17:13:34+00:00

I'd like to point out my specific hatred for white middle class men (as a white lower class dude, but I grew up rural so poverty didn't affect me as much as poor whites in the inner city, so I basically consider myself born middle class) born in America and now posting in FluentInFinance or LateStageCapitalism or "WahhTheEconomySucksRussianCreatedSubreddit#54"

You were literally born in America as a white dude with literally every possible advantage in life. Not a silver spoon in your mouth but a golden spoon and the blessing of god himself bestowed upon you. He smiled upon you and said "Here is everything you need in life"

And you STILL fucking failed? Somehow against every possible odd you're sitting in a subreddit, while high, screaming about how the economy is fake and a scam and The Republicans/The Democrats/Neoliberals totally fucked you over and now you have to WORK for a living and that's apparently a fucking travesty.

I hate them, they're so fucking annoying. They're so unbelievably unfathomably unimaginabily pathetic. Their locus of control is just so far outside of them the idea that they have any control over their life at all is completely foreign to them.

Gladboys · 2024-09-16T18:42:31+00:00

its quite funny how you oscillate so easily between not having enough time and having too much time.

EqualSea2001 · 2024-09-16T19:54:24+00:00

‘Bbbbut the divorce rates’

Hmmm:

https://preview.redd.it/uc56wocg78pd1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0b4dea463d801e15e55d9d76ba39af95af8ba335

Just date educated women and you don’t have to worry about weird shit like bodycount. Problem solved. Neeeeext.

PinchRunners · 2024-09-16T03:20:52+00:00

non skinny women feel so threatened by my lack of weight its so embarrassing for them

lulll · 2024-09-16T03:53:49+00:00

q4m: mime 7/10 woman or clown 9/10 woman

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2024-09-16T04:04:05+00:00

The Tyrone “Me Giving My Friends Advice On Their Love Life” vs the Virgin “Me Attempting To Deal With My Own Love Life”

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-09-16T05:07:06+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/cats/comments/1fh8cuj/woke_up_to_this

Wholesome

OffTheRedSand · 2024-09-16T06:28:51+00:00

Q4ALL:

How long would you date someone Without having sex?

Locomotive-man-1987 · 2024-09-16T08:08:00+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/1fhtcmv/advice_needed_dealing_with_a_woman_who_denies/

Being a woman who is not a misandrist cunt is called "denying being a female" these days.

Locomotive-man-1987 · 2024-09-16T08:27:27+00:00

I don't know about using femininity as an advantage but I work in a male dominated industry and have made 80K+ off women's only grants, scholarships, overseas trips, internships, promotions etc. Lots of opportunities in my field are only open to women

https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/1fhtcmv/comment/lndkkhi/

Women-only grants must become illegal.

With that said, I'm so happy there are no women employed in my company. And it will say that way.

K4matayon · 2024-09-16T08:54:27+00:00

My friends tell me I look like Tom cruise. Dub?

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-09-16T13:22:52+00:00

Apparently a lot of people drop out of bridal parties due to money issues. I was reading an article about this last month. Even on Reddit one girl said she had to drop out of being a bridesmaid because the bride wanted everyone to buy this 1200 dollar dress and she said I can’t afford that. Again that’s just the dress, there’s hair, makeup, accessories etc.

I’ve only been in one wedding party as an adult, my best friends wedding which was a destination wedding. It cost a nice penny overall but I could handle that, I could totally understand someone declining though, cause it’s not just about the money do you have the time.

Mouslimanoktonos · 2024-09-16T15:10:24+00:00

Women have such a chokehold on men, it's not even funny. They could be the biggest whores in the world and still have virtually infinite offers from men to marry and pamper them. Men's standards literally don't matter, because there is always someone else who would what some wouldn't. Women are only truly limited by their personal preferences and nothing else. They can only fail if they choose so.

monster_lily · 2024-09-16T15:14:26+00:00

I went to the doctor the other day and she told me im actually 5’7 and not 5’6

Jaded_Bad2224 · 2024-09-16T15:45:26+00:00

wake and bake

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-09-16T16:13:49+00:00

Is it true that most tall women have deep voice?

HolidayInvestigator9 · 2024-09-16T17:48:32+00:00

from my experience the women with the odd extremist political views are usually stay at home moms. They dont really get out much and I feel like a lot of it is just edgelord boredom. Being an adult and staying home all the time makes you a little weird and out of touch too, and often makes you a little self centered. These were the same women who were on the libertarian train back in the day, because they are bored and want to be different, and trump isnt boring, so they perform ego gymnastics on why they are cool and quirky for voting for him. Notice how they usually have intense hatred towards the women candidates like kamela or hilary, career women that have what they will never have. SAHM also tend to be against abortion or general empathy of women choosing diff life paths than they did

basically internalized mysogyny (they irrationally passionately hate the women candidates) and just wanting to be rebellious

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-09-16T18:05:25+00:00

I still remember that one dude who used to post on subs like IT about how short men make their own problems, height doesn't matter and people there used to laud him but when I looked up his post history it was full of posts like how his height ruined his life and how women rejected him for being short( he was 5'5 or 5'6) like what are you trying to show ? You are one of the good ones? On one sub you are showing yourself as a secure man and on other sub your height concerns you so much

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-16T18:10:21+00:00

Legit me:

https://preview.redd.it/bpie6evap7pd1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0adef9d8ef91e445637f62de54ecbe2e01799f7a

gloomett3 · 2024-09-16T18:48:04+00:00

My cousin brought his friend to a family party. I spoke to the guy, and he told me he applied to the military. I asked him why, like, does he have some sort of deep patriotic pride or something? He said no. I asked him why he's going again, and he said he just shrugged his shoulders, "I'm just going with the flow, I guess." Wtf? I just don’t understand.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-09-16T20:44:50+00:00

I'm a gaming nerd, and we own two VR headsets and I'd absolutely consider VR porn as borderline cheating. It's too realistic if he has a device for his dick PLUS he's watching first person as if he's banging someone, and you can look around and stuff. The two combined are way too immersive. Even without a dick device, just no..

q4w:

Your husband quits his job to vr goon full time. Will you honour your wedding vows and support him or will you turn traitor and get a divorce?

Locomotive-man-1987 · 2024-09-16T03:01:02+00:00

Losers!

okaybear2point0 · 2024-09-16T03:28:04+00:00

Q4W: what's your ideal BMI in a guy?

my preliminary guess is the threshold between healthy and overweight

Willow-girl · 2024-09-16T03:41:57+00:00

A postscript to my earlier missive:

Just now, my man was cuddling Agatha, and one of the dogs, jealous, started barking. I overheard him chastising it: "Don't bark at the kitty ... the sweet kitty ... the sweet-and-sour kitty ..."

Goonerlouie · 2024-09-16T04:35:29+00:00

When you have that awakening that something in your life has resulted in xyz feelings now, it’s crazy.

Like I know why I have some issues. I know what has historically contributed to them, but at the same time it doesn’t change how I feel. I still feel the same but just know why. It would be nice to not have those feelings but it’s like a part of me doesn’t want to change because it’s an easy way out so to speak. E.g. clicking my fingers and not having low self esteem. It would nice not to but I feel like I need to earn my way out of it? Idk wtf I’m saying

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2024-09-16T04:38:25+00:00

hypothetically if I washed my bedsheets(no odor) with my roommate's bedsheets (odorful) would they both come out clean or are my bedsheets gonna come out stinky

horrible_opinions · 2024-09-16T04:39:20+00:00

Looks like I'll be performing standup at a convention that my ex and I went to as guests two years ago. I'm pretty sure she'll be there again this year with a new guy. My name's gonna be on the convention programming so I hope she doesn't see that/show up at my show, or else some really retarded sitcom-esque drama will probably ensue

Gladboys · 2024-09-16T04:46:09+00:00

opiods are quite a tempting drug class.

PinchRunners · 2024-09-16T05:51:46+00:00

i buy one thing and have the urge to buy another

TheUrbanSupremacist · 2024-09-16T06:44:22+00:00

👀 https://usawrestlingevents.com/event/2500005302 👀

Should I doit

Gladboys · 2024-09-16T07:00:37+00:00

Chambers of reflection is such a top tier song

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-09-16T07:31:11+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_5yojhNdPh

People still get surprised with this lol and but one then appreciates his honesty though 🌚

Electric_Death_1349 · 2024-09-16T09:39:47+00:00

I saw her today, I saw her face

It was a face I loved, and I knew

I had to run away and get down on my knees and pray

That they’d go away, but still they begin

Needles and pins

Because of all my pride

The tears I gotta hide

Henchboy1 · 2024-09-16T09:50:28+00:00

Yesterday I tried a vegan toastie and it wasn’t that bad tbh

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-16T09:59:36+00:00

Another fatherless child pt7:

https://preview.redd.it/mb6sjryq95pd1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f53dc3eebde8db6c197781b95f7f7a75d2d0e4be

SlashCo80 · 2024-09-16T10:07:29+00:00

Holy shit, it's getting so annoying to watch a streamer play a game and try to read in-game text. First they go way too fast, then stutter and stumble over words. It happens with so many of them, too. Is there a literacy problem I'm not aware of?

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-16T10:21:28+00:00

When she has father issues:

Professional_Bad_282 · 2024-09-16T10:54:14+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/kjzp2ilhj5pd1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=21a0e98c3f86e387d077bd8cee0ec5e82fe7dca1

Wack AI

saulbasedman3 · 2024-09-16T11:20:05+00:00

What compels this American exchange student girl on Hinge to reply every 6 days and even give me her number?

Like Yoda said do or do not

classicslayer · 2024-09-16T13:10:56+00:00

Why do so many guys think that telling women things that can make them look like losers is the same thing as being "honest"?

Maffioze · 2024-09-16T13:52:32+00:00

There is nothing I hate more than banking AI phone bots.

This is what actual peak autism and negative social skills look like.

saulbasedman3 · 2024-09-16T14:25:34+00:00

INDIAN GIRL RESPONDED

Please please please god let me suck on her titties again

New83659 · 2024-09-16T15:40:18+00:00

I love all the people blaming the economy for neets and young dudes not getting laid, and not blaming women instead.

All across the west, we have a demographic problem and low levels of unemployment. Too many people at retirement age, not enough young people. Right now it's actually a pretty good time to be a young person.. The economy is just fine, there's just have this very new delusion that in whatever year a couple 20 year olds were buying houses in expensive markets from working in a factory. This was never a thing but the lie has been repeated enough times it's accepted as truth at this point.

If the economy was actually bad, you would see low traffic on the streets, doordash would go out of business, and airlines would go out of business and have to be bailed out. What are we seeing instead? Tourism companies making record numbers, national parks overwhelmed with people taking road trips to go visit them, flight records being set, and doordash making record profits.

The real problem, is women's standards have gone up so much and hypergamy is getting so bad, that men don't really have the incentive to work anymore. I don't blame them, if I could rely on my parents I would totally join the "no pussy, no work" movement.

ZairUnfair · 2024-09-16T16:09:39+00:00

Didnt sleep for 30 hours on Friday and now I am about to reach 24 hours again. You guys should learn how to destroy yourself from me.

saulbasedman3 · 2024-09-16T17:47:25+00:00

https://x.com/videosinfolder/status/1834309769059856730

Gladboys · 2024-09-16T18:12:01+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/uinx3bvjp7pd1.png?width=136&format=png&auto=webp&s=a4ebca8bb967e4b9282066be0fab11e0d19526a8

maybe i should stop listening to songs on loop

hannahg000 · 2024-09-16T18:17:55+00:00

no one at my internship has time for me today so I'm just sitting at the front desk on my laptop :(

LoFiPanda14 · 2024-09-16T18:24:40+00:00

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-16T18:45:06+00:00

Brothers l really respect yall but the swaggy low pants that let's everyone see your damn underwear was just a phase but some of yall carry that shit up your 20s and 30s

Can't tell you how many times l see grown men still doing that shit

Gladboys · 2024-09-16T18:59:10+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/bpy7cpwzx7pd1.png?width=834&format=png&auto=webp&s=00763aa946cae63128f08b02445b41e13905293b

psyop

meteorness123 · 2024-09-16T19:00:17+00:00

My skin looks better than the skin of most women despite them using them 300 products and me using precisely zero

ThatLeval · 2024-09-16T19:09:16+00:00

Women pretending to be trans for $$ https://youtu.be/k0rSJPBJd0k?si=YIaQY_jw_N5K23h3

Seeing cis girls shoving dildos in their pants and pretending to be trans for money makes me so annoyed. My gender isn't your costume

I wish nothing but pain and suffering on you two for co-opting our identity to make money doing porn. You wouldn't last a day in our shoes and I pray to God that you experience a fraction of the violence we do

💀💀

What world are we living in 😂 the end times must be near. I need to start praying or something

Gladboys · 2024-09-16T19:11:20+00:00

listening to stories from a guy who was working lehman before the crash, tradfi oldheads always have good insight and wisdom. i strive for that.

ratboi34 · 2024-09-16T20:05:38+00:00

Today my sister called and told me that she and her friends got to skip the line and enter the club for free last weekend. Then some random ninja sent them drinks and they didn't even look at him lul.

That made me think about my partying experiences and I literally never had a positive experience with a bouncer ever. Like the second to last time I was at the club, I was literally attacked from behind by a bouncer and then pushed out by two of them because, apparently, a friend of mine caused trouble (he was just a little too drunk), which I didn't even know about. I hate these ninjas almost as much as the fkn cops.

This makes me appreciate that my male rights activist barber doesn’t charge me women’s prices just because I have long hair. He’s had multiple arguments with his coworkers, who always want to charge me more (which is totally reasonable), but he’s firm about it. His reasoning is that women don’t have to pay when they go to clubs lol.

monster_lily · 2024-09-16T20:29:33+00:00

I Dont understand the concept of a godparent/child in 2024

Steakman1 · 2024-09-16T20:38:05+00:00

Is a woman into you if she tells you how she spent the weekend shaving her kitty, and then makes sure to clarify not that kitty before showing you her pet cat?

W-Pilled · 2024-09-16T20:41:58+00:00

Americans complain about it being hard to live in the USA yet so many refugees risk dying to come here

Henchboy1 · 2024-09-16T20:44:54+00:00

Was just on a call with ginger haired girl and she was going into the shower and she stripped for me before going in 🥰 so hot

meteorness123 · 2024-09-16T22:22:27+00:00

I swear to God, validation from women for your looks is utterly useless after experiencing the shallowness of it. One woman is enough. What the rest thinks is pointless.

Earn money (actually increases your living standard and health)
Learn a skill
Help someone out
Have a profession you like

This is the stuff that actually improves your life.

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Big-Accountant4923 · 2024-09-16T03:22:21+00:00

I work at a department store that mainly caters to women and something I've noticed is that 99% of the people who ask me questions (where's the bathroom, where's the fitting room, how does this dress look, etc...) are either older women 30's, 40's, 50's or older men of the same age. It's very rare that younger women ask me questions, or for help, or for help, or just a quick chat. It's even more rare with young guys; and this is all over a 3 year period. I find this interesting.

I suppose the poor socialization of younger people even extends to interacting with retail workers. Being honest I think I get it. Before I got my job I would have been hesitant to ask the employee of a store something so I was among the people I'm pointing out. Though now that I've worked this job I understand that they're paid to answer your questions and help you.

berichorbeburied · 2024-09-16T03:51:26+00:00

Self reflecting on my ex and bestfriend

Had a date with my ex.

Initiated a hug and kiss

She didn’t reject either

She initiated a kiss multiple times

Let me touch her etc

She’s spoiled tho

But irl at least she likes me and loves me

Only irl tho

She blocks me and abandons me otp tho or online/wifi/cellular communication

My bestfriends been ignoring me the same way

But she won’t ever block me

She just abandons me

Wondering if I go see her irl would things be different

My ex shows me more attention than my bestfriend

That’s why I chose her over my bestfriend

But they still act similiar

I’ll keep self reflecting

ZairUnfair · 2024-09-16T04:39:24+00:00

ChatGPT has single handedly improved my life by multiple times. I use it everywhere. I would legit pay more than $200/month to have access to GPT4. And I am the last guy to pick up any type of subscriptions.

horrible_opinions · 2024-09-16T05:04:45+00:00

Q4W (anyone can weigh in and I'll probably ask this again when people are awake): say you have an aversion to a specific physical trait, like you won't date 5'4 guys, bald guys, guys with small dicks, guys with big ginormous honker noses, [insert non-white race here] guys, etc. if a guy you would otherwise date has one of these traits, but then fixes it either through surgery or a divine miracle, does he suddenly become an option? or does the initial disinterest caused by the trait linger too much?

OffTheRedSand · 2024-09-16T05:05:43+00:00

why won't women give awkward average guys a chance?

the awkward average guy in question

DennistheMenace__ · 2024-09-16T06:19:02+00:00

anyone here fw elden ring?

PB-French-Toast-9641 · 2024-09-16T06:33:24+00:00

Right before i go to sleep again, quick question for women

How bad is it for a guy to be lying about his age when asked?

Context: I'm 18, look about 23-24, and this is only in context of short term stuff

one_ball_policy · 2024-09-16T06:35:16+00:00

Would you date a girl with huge fake tits? Matched with a girl, go her insta and noticed that just a year ago she was basically flat chested and hot she has huge breasts. Easily DD, slightly smaller than cartoonish. I love tits as much as the next guy, and don’t think I would mind if she went up to a C or something like average, but to go that high means she probably wants certain attention no?

Dayama2030 · 2024-09-16T08:59:35+00:00

I love my beautiful wife

https://preview.redd.it/a8sjwue1z4pd1.png?width=1637&format=png&auto=webp&s=7f8993a2890fe0d7b042533f19abe1f0fdc91d18

Specialist-Action-33 · 2024-09-16T09:26:09+00:00

추석 잘 보내 되세요 🙃

ZairUnfair · 2024-09-16T11:44:27+00:00

The hazelnut latte at Starbucks is miles clear than the one at Timmies. This is just latte flavoured water.

Or maybe my gf put double sugar in it and I didn't realise but this was super mediocre. Wouldn't recommend.

BichonFriseLover · 2024-09-16T12:16:05+00:00

The highest level of game is pimping.

gloomett3 · 2024-09-16T12:52:04+00:00

To refresh my mind from the toxicity of this sub, I scrolled through some lolcow threads. They have much more realistic takes on men and relationships compared to this sub.

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-09-16T13:20:21+00:00

I’ve always said that for the vast majority of shows who had “bad” series finales the last season was also trash. It’s not like the final season was amazing and then the last episode was this bad thing out of left friend, no that show had been falling off before that.

ZairUnfair · 2024-09-16T13:52:29+00:00

Either my company's Recruiter calls me today or I give up and start applying for other jobs. I have been emailing her since 2nd only to receive a single email in two weeks. I was told I will get a call on Thursday. It's Monday now, no calls or any reason for the delay yet. I am done. This is how my company treats internal candidates.

I am compelled to apply to the rivals and move there for a lower wage just to shove a middle finger in the face of my employers. I want to find a job outside of my company just to soothe my ego now. Fuck this company.

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-09-16T13:58:59+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/amIuglyBrutallyHonest/comments/16ir9x8/53m_wife_wont_even_touch_me_am_i_really_that_ugly

Thoughts on this? But judging by his bio it seems he also doesn't want his wife

W-Pilled · 2024-09-16T14:15:55+00:00

Thinking about moving to the Midwest because I want a boring life

CofeeHideCrimsonMind · 2024-09-16T14:17:13+00:00

I am a 29 y/o heterosexual male that has actively been looking for a girlfriend.

I can play 2 instruments moderately well (Piano at ABRSM grade 7 level & Flute at ABRSM grade 5 level) I am currently trying to learn classical guitar and also looking to revive my singing voice (I used to be good at it but puberty came and eliminated most of my vocal range.)
I have a degree in engineering physics and though I struggled to get a job at first, I am now in a position where I can live confortably on my own (Well, I do live with some housemates but that's still away from my guardians.)
My mom, taught me a bit of cooking and I have been supplementing her instruction by buying books and watching videos. I know, to some, that probably means I'm gay.
Folks have said my body is a little disgusting. You can be the judge. (Very NSFW)

My match rate on Bumble is about 2 per month. I try to swipe right on at least 50 a week so I'm probably at 400 likes, right now. Of the 4 that matched, I have only ever been on a date with one which never went anywhere.

With all this info, do you think it would be wise to continue dating or perhaps I should focus my efforts elsewhere? I have tried for a year and most women I meet just seem to say I'm, "just not there yet."

PhotographCold5289 · 2024-09-16T14:36:14+00:00

Girl wouldn't do casual with me but did casual with another guy

Here is what happened, and please consider all of my writing to make a conclusion (I'm giving all details that I think are relevant):

I was seeing this girl who I met at a club. When at the club, we made out and she grinded on me. It took like 20 days or so to get a date, then the next week we had another date and had sex.

However, before the sex she asked, "Is this what you usually do? Casual?"

I told her that I was working towards a relationship, because I was open to one. She stopped me from escalating towards sex, but eventually things picked up again and she was grinding on me penis without any panties on. When I tried to move towards sex from this point, she freaked out and left me house. Then about two minutes later she texted me saying she was sorry and that that was weird, and that she was "hangry". I offered to get food with her, and then we went to Chick Fil A and got food. Then, she came back to my house and we had sex.

We saw each other for a while more but sometimes she was late when we made plans and I got internally offended and stopped taking her seriously. (I later found out that there is something called "Mexican Time" so it turns out that this is a cultural norm for Mexicans and that it wasn't because she didn't like me, but I didn't find that out until months later). At one point she was pressuring me to put more effort in and asked me to clarify my intentions, so I told her that I just wanted casual. Although I didn't go into detail, the reason that I only wanted casual was because I was not okay with her being late and felt like she didn't like me much (at this point I didn't know about the Mexican Time thing, which is real according to articles I later read).

She got offended and didn't want to see me anymore.

After some time I thought about it and determined that perhaps I was being unreasonable. I tried to get her back and she said that she doesn't do casual and things like that, and I told her that I wanted to get serious. She just ghosted me and didn't take me up on it. I texted her a couple more times over the next couple months, only making conversation, and moved on at some point.

About a month after the last time I had texted her, she hit me up saying she received some "sign" and then we started seeing each other again. I found out that she had reconnected with her old ex in the time that we weren't seeing each other, and that they had sex. I was under the impression that she wanted a relationship with him and that she gave him another chance because he was committal, so I accepted that I messed up and I continued seeing her.

After some months I learned that he was moving shortly after they reconnected, and I asked her how that situation wasn't casual if he was moving. After some conversation and me accusing her of doing casual and telling her I was offended, she said "Who said it was casual? I'm not saying that, you're the one saying that. For your information, the plan was to do long distance. But then I overthought it and told him I couldn't see him anymore."

This made sense to me so I kept seeing her... but after a couple more months it came up again and she said that she was never considering long distance and that it was casual and that she "made an exception for him because he was involved for longer".

I felt extremely slighted and felt like she was only with me for emotional support, and that she wasn't physically attracted to me since she was so adamantly 'against' casual when it came to me, but made exceptions for another.

I broke up with her. This situation hurt my self esteem and I'm offended. I don't understand this, the guy was not attractive but I read that they do casual with guys they are physically and sexually attracted to and only allow other guys to have sex if they think they'll get a relationship from it. She KNEW she wasn't going to have a relationship with him, if she truly wasn't considering long distance, so that means that it was all about sex with him right? Yet with me sex wasn't a motivating factor it seems...

Eastoss · 2024-09-16T14:49:48+00:00

I'm pretty bored of people pride posing and others being so gullible about it.

When someone claims they're VOLUNTARILY removing themselves from competition, voluntarily losing, voluntarily making themselves uglier or dropping effort. It's extremely likely that none of it is voluntary but they want to convince you that it's a win by them. No, they're losers. Things got so difficult they stopped, it's normal to stop when it's not worth it, but it's still losery, don't buy their posing that they're choosing any of it and owning it.

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-16T14:52:07+00:00

Stephen.A 2019: kyrie needs to retire

Stephen.A 2024: kyrie is box-office entertainment

The switch up is crazy

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-09-16T15:22:17+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Adulting/comments/1fgkhy4/i_think_im_ugly/

"validate me and tell me I'm pretty" 🙄

Mouslimanoktonos · 2024-09-16T15:36:57+00:00

In all honesty, I deserve female reverence.

FrameWorried8852 · 2024-09-16T15:51:31+00:00

Women being over the age of 30 give me the ick

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-16T15:55:33+00:00

Q4A: Would you go to college and take out a 100k student loan knowing that you only had a 65% chance to graduate?

lulll · 2024-09-16T16:02:58+00:00

are chained wallets masculine

W-Pilled · 2024-09-16T16:13:16+00:00

Therapy is honestly for people who cannot handle their own shit and need to be taught how to be an adult

Boredape1525 · 2024-09-16T16:14:11+00:00

What's a good side hustle/part time job? I already do referring for youth football and typically make around $40 an hour every weekend but that ends in October, I have a career job lined up in 8 months but I'd like a job to make some money for my Roth IRA. The difficulty or barriers to entry aren't a concern since I can typically get certs pretty fast. I'm thinking of doing food service but it would need to either be banquets or a an upscale restaurant where the tipping is good. Also will get into referring softball/baseball in the spring since they're desperate for refs but need something for october-december. Things that don't work is warehouse work since they don't pay enough in my state and if there are no benefits I have a hard line of making at least $20 per hour, also can't do bouncing/bartending since I have early wakeups.

Mouslimanoktonos · 2024-09-16T16:22:40+00:00

u/Weekly-Vacation-6929, you told me you never believed any man who genuinely cared about feminist issues and that he must have either ulterior motives or effeminacy within him. Why?

PinchRunners · 2024-09-16T16:30:35+00:00

female friend told me who walk fast have "small wee-wees"

TheUrbanSupremacist · 2024-09-16T17:00:02+00:00

To be clear: My last comment was a joke.

If you genuinely failed to find a job after college it doesn't mean college is a scam or the economy is fake.

It means you're a fucking loser and you deserve to be poor.

I will piss on you from my high rise and you will deserve it.

ZairUnfair · 2024-09-16T17:15:29+00:00

I'm finally going to sleep now after 24 hours. It's so over for you 8 hours sleep-cels.

fundamentally_comfy · 2024-09-16T17:25:55+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ifj8v15ch7pd1.png?width=521&format=png&auto=webp&s=32d85d23add0e3ead9fcd0277c47a025e2517182

Is this what gratitude looks like?

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-16T17:57:32+00:00

I waited 10 months before giving her the title of my gf

I admire her patience honestly

lulll · 2024-09-16T18:02:37+00:00

which subreddit has the ugliest richest women on it

New-Western-4819 · 2024-09-16T18:12:24+00:00

if you're saving up for a special purchase do you put that money in a separate account or what?

Tywinlol2 · 2024-09-16T18:13:37+00:00

Guys I know many of you are missing relationships and girlfriends, and so on, but take it from someone who been there and done that it, we are actually often jealous of you, you have no idea what your singleness protects you from and how often we wish to be like you. Here let me demonstrate how men often experience and feel:

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/yx8YlCG0Zdc

My_House_on_Mars · 2024-09-16T18:15:22+00:00

Now that Trump said Venezuela you all think you have the slightest idea what's like to live with inflation. I bet none of you can even point it in a map.

Gladboys · 2024-09-16T19:09:02+00:00

https://halturnerradioshow.com/index.php/news-selections/world-news/swiss-government-announces-it-is-in-a-pre-war-phase-all-departments-planning-accordingly

so tiresome. war is so very tiresome

tacticaltossaway · 2024-09-16T19:26:51+00:00

Elbow is fucked again. Forced leg day it is.

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-16T19:36:36+00:00

Am at the point where l really don't know any woman who cooks more frequently than myself except for my mom

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2024-09-16T19:37:14+00:00

So me and purpleP are the only ones who find this body hot?

https://preview.redd.it/2xhxm7vb48pd1.jpeg?width=1169&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3212ab2e3d5eb6d621ce0a027b78d5ea338b2f4b

I honestly feel bad im not of the right mind to date, old me coulda showed her real love.

lulll · 2024-09-16T20:01:57+00:00

the 360 controller is the chad of controllers

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-09-16T20:11:04+00:00

Gently, if you thought muscles were a cheat code to get a girlfriend, you definitely do not listen to women at all, nor do you understand what makes a woman feel safe around you.

Try some feminist literature.

LordArtichode · 2024-09-16T20:17:27+00:00

It looks like Russia is getting closer and closer to victory in Ukraine- Zelensky and his minions should surrender instead of slaughtering his own people, but of course Dementia Joe won't allow it

BichonFriseLover · 2024-09-16T20:27:46+00:00

I matched just now with a good looking girl I cold approached this time last week. Only reason I remembered her was because she had a peculiar name and was a flight attendant.

Idk if I should pretend like I know her, or just talk to her like I’d regularly do.

monster_lily · 2024-09-16T20:34:52+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/m6ujo7m2f8pd1.jpeg?width=1434&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aab6341a18148cedec91e39d891b699a03fad4b2

Im a good writer right guys

Ultramega39 · 2024-09-16T20:47:26+00:00

Sometimes I wonder who am I going to end up marrying. Like which lucky woman will win me over. Like I wonder what is she going to look like, now obviously she's going to have a similar BMI to me (21). She is most likely also going to be very ambitious, intelligent, loyal, empathetic, kind, and patient.

And she definitely won't be promiscuous. People with promiscuous lifestyles don't share my strong views on sex and intimacy, so why should I date people like that?

FunEducation1434 · 2024-09-16T21:07:19+00:00

BBNBHD

Involved_Currently · 2024-09-16T21:13:59+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/opdok9pzl8pd1.png?width=878&format=png&auto=webp&s=48eda1382506bfbb81b371eb4035074c17a62c1c

monster_lily · 2024-09-16T21:32:16+00:00

Just thinking about how i have the perfect song to play at my wedding bc its got pretty much my name in it

New83659 · 2024-09-16T21:38:32+00:00

For the last 40 years, you can throw a dart at a map and hit a country that the US is sending aid to. No one really cared or made a big fuss. But all of a sudden with Ukraine, there is a huge movement of anti-foreign aid people on the right.

These people aren't anti foreign aid, they are pro Putin.

lulll · 2024-09-16T22:08:11+00:00

q4m how many piss jugs do you have right now

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