I worked at a gym until not long ago, and am on speaking terms with dozens of girls and women.

Contrary to the narrative that some people like to push, you get all kinds of women regularly going to the gym, they’re not all vapid posers. You get smart, creative, stupid, loud, quiet, shy, confident, nasty and nice women from lots of different kinds of professions. A good cross section of society.

Anyway, for a few months this Australian fitness influencer was in town and attending our gym. He was so “traditionally” attractive I actually didn’t feel like he was a threat, and at worst he might date or sleep with a couple of the girls at the gym/people I know - so fine whatever.

I found out the dude had literally monopolised the gym. At least a dozen or so girls had slept with him, some multiple times - including my colleague, a married woman, a couple of girls with boyfriends and some very plain looking girls and some very attractive ones. Literally as if he’d walked in and just picked whoever he wanted.

It was actually kind of sickening.

The guys not here anymore but sometimes people still talk about him and almost every picture on his insta posted since is liked by a bunch of girls I know.

So anybody else have anything similar?