Daily Community Chat Megathread

RahLyt · 2023-07-11T13:02:19+00:00

I just finally read the Jonah Hill story. Now I'm 100% sure, something about globalization made 98% of the world live with some type of mental illness.

I thought metoo would be the last time I would hear about this kind of nonsense.

People who don't know nothing about their relationship are very opinionated. Obviously the man is "abusive". These are the same people who say communication is important (unless it comes from a man).

Women are encouraged to be helpless victims and I'm pretty sure this will set up boys even further down below.

Because somehow they will fear the feeling of being inadequate even more. Since apparently men don't have much agency to do anything.

Same old, the men who will ignore all this bulshit will succeed, the ones trying to appease to these random damaged women will be spit on even more (the way it already it is).

Then surprisingly, no one understands why redpill is a thing.

Lol we are really at a time when if a man communicates he's uncomfortable with a facet of a relationship he's seen as abusive.

Does this work for guys too? Can I call my girlfriend abusive because she doesn't want me to hang out in my female friends' house?

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-11T11:15:27+00:00

Jonah hill should just call it a kink and those delusional people would eat it up. Considering the wild things they're happy to pedestalise, this would be the most vanilla thing in the room

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-11T10:25:01+00:00

People often say they won’t have kids for either financial reasons or because ”the world is so cruel nowadays”. How many actually mean it, and how many just say those things to shut up boomers?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-11T09:45:49+00:00

It occurs to me that most people here are westerners and the wake/sleep cycle is completely opposite.

GridReXX · 2023-07-11T07:54:57+00:00

“Women react just as bad to rejection and break ups as men 🤓”

The news cycle, crime stats, and IRL observations objectively don’t agree with that.

nexkell · 2023-07-11T07:44:12+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14w7bv7/men_feeling_society_is_cold_to_them/

Of course men are to blame for their own issues and further men apparently run society and women aren't part of society.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14vrzwd/why_do_people_hate_this_sub_so_much/

Mean while TwoX tries to say why their sub gets hate.

Mark_Freed · 2023-07-11T07:42:34+00:00

I should write a whole ass tutorial but if any of you is looking for a ai girlfriend. You should look into silly tavern.

If you have some technical knowledge I can help guide to you set up voice to text, text to voice using whisper and bark.

Then use unstable diffusion to enable image creation locally. You can fine tune some base model for making it a chat bot.

Use silly tavern to chat with your waifu. It's a whole rabbit hole.

The future will be all this in VR. I can kinda see the irony here.

It feels fitting that the very thing that makes some autistic men struggle with game, rizz and getting irl girls will likely allow them to deeply immerse in role playing and fall in love with an ai model. That suspension of disbelief and ease of abstraction.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-07-11T05:39:31+00:00

Mods, can you tell u/Former_Molasses_7073 to unblock me just because he lost a debate? I'd love to be able to continue responding.

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-07-11T05:38:18+00:00

The following has got to be one of the most positively jarring and self-aware quote I've read from a feminist:

Those same forces which predisposed females to intelligence and assertiveness also selected the highly competitive individuals among them. This is the dark underside of the feminist dream. If it is shown, as I believe it will be, that there are no important differences between males and females in intelligence, initiative, or administrative and political capabilities, that women are no less qualified in these areas than men are, one has to accept also that these potentials did not appear gratuitously as a gift from Nature. Competition was the trial by fire from which these capacities emerged. The feminist ideal of a sex less egotistical, less competitive by nature, less interested in dominance, a sex that will lead us back to the "golden age of queendoms, when peace and justice prevailed on earth," is a dream that may not be well founded.

Widespread stereotypes devaluing the capacities and importance of women have not improved either their lot or that of human societies. But there is also little to be gained from countermyths that emphasize woman's natural innocence from lust for power, her cooperativeness and solidarity with other women. Such a female never evolved among the other primates. Even under those conditions most favorable to high status for females - monogamy and closely bonded "sisterhoods" - competition among females remains a fact of primate existence. In a number of cases it leads to oppression of some by others; in other cases competition among females has forestalled the emergence of equality with males.

Mark_Freed · 2023-07-11T05:04:47+00:00

Omg guys. Guys...

I've been in the USA for like a month now.. SF, chicago, Indiana....

And the dating market here is so fucking trash man

Like wtf is going on

Single mother at 21?? Obese?! So many piercings I can't see your face.

Face tattos?!

These women look like men, I know cuter men back in India.

I'm so sorry. I have heartfelt sympathy for the American red pillers, passport bros, mgtow, Incels whatever.

Europe was so much better.

Like this is a non starter guys. This is not cool.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-07-11T04:50:22+00:00

Am I naive, or cruel, for thinking if Jonah hill were someone like Tom Brady, idris Elba, or George Clooney, the conversation would be different. More people would be willing discuss why the texts were released in the first place, what is appropriate behavior when in a relationship, and so on. I can’t help but detect a notion, “who the fuck does this Jonah hill fattie think he is?”

dysonRing · 2023-07-11T04:20:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/boxoffice/comments/14vfy0p/comment/jrdoado/

Women figured out. This also is a failure of feminism that celebrated the death of barbie and femininity.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-11T04:16:24+00:00

Women seem to prefer aerobic exercises over strength training, but if they're doing fitness for aesthetic reasons(let's be honest most people are) it's pretty misguided.

Strength training is the best way to avoid fat gain because having skeletal muscle increases your metabolism. It requires a significant amount of energy to simply maintain, even without active usage.

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-11T04:08:02+00:00

Women are hypergamous but not all is lost. A lot of women and men too have major insecurities and hangups and they'll show preference for guys who compensate for their own perceived flaws and fixations.

That's why the women most obsessed with height, the ones who often want really tall guys, are often short. Women who hate their race because of dominant culture indoctrination will let it slide if a white guy isn't that goodlooking or well off or they may go for a skinny guy if they pathologically wish they themselves were skinnier. Not that a lot of this is healthy, just that it aint that simple.

PBtoast707 · 2023-07-11T03:51:48+00:00

Are people from Portugal and Spain white? My sister is oddly obsessed with saying my BF isn’t white because he’s from there and his skin is darker than most white people. He knows he’s white and I don’t know what else he’d be. Not all white people look the same.

BirdMedication · 2023-07-11T02:55:01+00:00

Generalizing an entire group of people based on their immutable traits is bad even if you've been victimized by members of said group.

As smart as a lot of individuals on Reddit claim to be it still feels these so-called principled victims are just mentally incapable of grasping this point.

And the fact that even a small majority of a default sub with 13 million members doesn't have the courage to be intellectually honest about this is really depressing as a barometer of the state of social media.

potoricco · 2023-07-11T02:53:39+00:00

Do you like women with raspy voices? I used a raspy voice subliminal 3 years ago for a day and it worked for like 3 days

I want to use it again but for longer so it’s permanent

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-11T02:50:29+00:00

Which gender complains the most? Men or women? and why do you think that

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-11T02:32:16+00:00

Anybody ever feel like people trying to be solely masculine or solely feminine ends up with those people being incomplete, or in need of their "other half?"

There is a bit of folklore in Japan about these birds that are essentially born with one wing and they must seek out their counterpart with the other missing wing in order to be able to fly together, which is a metaphor for men and women looking for their "soulmates" or however you want to view it.

There are also other conceptual ideas like the "sacred/divine masculine" and "sacred/divine feminine" in religious esotericism that make a similar reference to men and women bonding together to form something greater than the two of them could be as individuals.

I personally think it's better to have all of the so-called "masculine" traits/energy and all of the so-called "feminine" traits/energy because it makes one look more like a complete person than merely one or the other.

What do you all think about this?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-11T02:31:37+00:00

Gamer people ?: I just bought the “Xbox series X - Forza Horizon 5 Bundle” for my house in the US to outfit it as an a short term rental place. Will that appeal to gamers/families with kids who gotta game? My rental agent suggested outfitting the basement into a game room. I bought a foosball table too.

potoricco · 2023-07-11T02:31:20+00:00

Going thrifting tomorrow really excited

Willow-girl · 2023-07-11T02:21:39+00:00

Today my man and I had one of our rare disagreements. I took exception to a public school displaying a poster of Karl Marx with the quote about dethroning God and destroying capitalism. He felt that poster is fine as long as the kids are also required to read "The Gulag Archipelago."

I was also horrified by a book about German history containing graphic photos of concentration camp victims and close-up postmortem photos of Nazi officials who had committed suicide at the end of the war. He said the kids see worse things on the Internet, and I said that while that might be the case, we don't have to wave it under their noses. He said if they're old enough to choose their gender, they're old enough to learn about Stalin's adventures in Siberia.

Poor kiddos! I remember how it felt to be young, exposed to all of the horrors of the world but unable to do anything about them. Such a helpless feeling! I think there is a fine line between preparing kids to live in the world and totally destroying their hope and innocence.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-11T02:16:20+00:00

Why are men told that they are not good enough and have to completely change themselves to cater to the narrow ideal of what women want but women are told that they just have to find the right man who likes her for her and if men don't like her, he just wasn't the right man?

Maractop · 2023-07-11T02:14:36+00:00

How do I build up my self esteem? Im already pretty confident, I just dont know how to get my self esteem up. Its the main thing im tryna work on rn

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-11T01:35:43+00:00

Good men are easy to please. If you find a man is not easy to please, either he is abusive, or you are a subpar girlfriend/wife, and you should carefully collect evidence to figure which of those it is.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-11T01:10:18+00:00

The year is 2021. Jonah Hill breaks up with his surfer gf and marries his looksmatch. PPD women use the ol trusty 'How men have a madonna whore complex and ruined the life plans of an innocent surfer with 0 remorse since men only want to commit to cute women who get less attention.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-11T01:07:19+00:00

Popular misconceptions about hypergamy that never seem to die around here:

"Both genders are hypergamous"

Which is blatantly incorrect, especially if you look at evolutionary psychology for the two sexes

Women seek superior qualities in men

Taller,higher income,more educated,older

Because they want the best genes to reproduce with limited eggs, so it's their innate sexual desire/strategy

Men don't seek such superior qualities, because they just want to reproduce with any women that makes their rocks hard it can be a 10,9,8,7,6,5 and below

Stop saying this shit and get educated on such topics/concepts before engaging in debating wrong things

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-11T01:00:35+00:00

Mods always deleting the fun posts. Can we have purge back?

potoricco · 2023-07-11T00:47:44+00:00

Is it bad that I find them extraordinarily beautiful

potoricco · 2023-07-11T00:30:54+00:00

Can men have this body naturally without steroids

potoricco · 2023-07-10T23:57:08+00:00

Ladiea what would you do if your boyfriend posted this on tiktok

scwizard · 2023-07-10T23:54:39+00:00

Once a man has trapped a woman in a relationship with a child, he can afford to treat her even poorer and do even less than before. Typical abuser MO.

How are women in a relationship with a child trapped again? Last I checked divorce and single moms were very commonplace.

scwizard · 2023-07-10T23:52:13+00:00

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/husbands-create-extra-seven-hours-of-housework-a-week-a6885951.html

Ok so how exactly is being a housewife a raw deal again?

potoricco · 2023-07-10T23:46:18+00:00

Have no idea why I’m seeing this on my fyp

Moronic Pastor explains how fibroids develop in a woman

It’s easy to see how a young woman suffering from fibroids could be accused of being a prostitute/witch in this scenario when religious nut jobs are taken seriously

This is how witch hunts start. This is how thousands of women die.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-10T23:37:34+00:00

Man I cannot wait to disappear from my life and start a new one somewhere else. Call me David fkn Copperfield.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-10T23:29:57+00:00

"We talked about burning desire"

Yea most men will never experience that which is why most relationships are transactional or eventually get transactional

Which is why you've guys like Jordan Peterson saying shit like "negotiate with your wife"

Usually happens in marriage too, when the wife starts wanting to have less sex with her husband and the husband has to do xyz to get that desire back

So if a relationship is based on genuine desire, yea that is gonna last very long and is truly a happy one

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-10T23:23:49+00:00

Since we're beating this Jonah hill horse to death imma get some more licks in as well. I notice the texts were from early December and they broke up April of next year. I wonder why she didn't just break up with him on the spot 🤔 He pretty much gave her the option right then and there and personally I wouldn't stay with someone I felt was a misogynistic emotionally abusive narcissist. Also I wonder who broke up with who 🤔

potoricco · 2023-07-10T23:22:42+00:00

Womanhood is SO over

potoricco · 2023-07-10T23:17:29+00:00

To whoever punished Larry Nassar

Have a great day!!

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-07-10T23:06:15+00:00

Is it manly to have an opinion on keke Palmer or Jonah hill?

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-10T23:05:10+00:00

Don't care about the Jonah Hill thing. He's one of those arrogant tools who becomes utterly [even more] insufferable after he loses weight because he had so much pent up bitterness and entitlement when he was fat. Shows who he really is once he gets some gumption. His ex is an attention-whoring cunt too, why did she wait all this time before saying anything, and also for such a nothingburger?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-10T23:02:19+00:00

I just want an LTR with a compatible person who is my looksmatch but that seems increasingly impossible

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-10T23:00:49+00:00

Did we discuss casual sex today? Just checking.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-10T22:57:43+00:00

It’s so nice when you think the meal you’ve made is shit but your SO actually really likes it and eats up the rest of it so you don’t have to suffer through it for lunch tomorrow

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-07-10T22:52:31+00:00

I'm beginning to think men are just as hypergamous as women, but in a different way. Men hold women to standards that they just don't hold men. I'm obliged to put in an effort to remain just a 5/6. They can schlub their way through life to attain that rating.

TIL.

Slipthe · 2023-07-10T22:32:39+00:00

Alright which one of you is this guy?

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-07-10T22:26:32+00:00

So what's the consensus on how often you should text a person you're dating? Just to initiate hanging out? Checking in periodically? I'm not sure how this works anymore

FjbhBoy · 2023-07-10T22:24:09+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/YREVhA1

IT WAS ME ALL ALONG MWAHAHA

GridReXX · 2023-07-10T22:19:59+00:00

Hot Take: Everyone who thinks Jonah Hill’s verbiage, tone, and rules in those text screenshots was normal probably his zero intimate friendships, and honestly, very fraught relationships in general. It’s a telltale sign of poor interpersonal rapport-building and bonding aptitude.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-07-10T22:05:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/14vn774/how_to_exploit_emotional_trauma_and_manipulate/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1

Are RedPillers actually psychopaths?

Discuss.

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-10T21:54:46+00:00

Have you ever considered selling your kidney ?

you are a loner and you shouldn’t be worrying about consequences cause your life already sucks , so what about adding some cash to your pocket

huhwhatokok · 2023-07-10T21:45:08+00:00

Jonah Hill did nothing wrong he laid out guidelines for the relationship and said if you don’t want to respect them then it’s fine he won’t harbor negative feelings and they can just go there own way. Somehow women took them and ran with something negative.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-07-10T21:45:00+00:00

Q4A: How do you know if you're with the wrong person, or if the "honeymoon phase" is just coming to an end?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-10T21:42:28+00:00

Regarding sexlessness stats, the comments here are interesting:

https://datepsychology.com/how-many-sexual-partners-did-men-and-women-have-in-2022/

If you have read Wolfinger’s piece that actually went through the GSS data, you would notice that he mentioned the following:
“We shouldn’t declare the sex recession over based on just a single year of data—especially a single year that relied on new survey methods—and a fairly small sub-sample of 229 respondents. ”

https://ifstudies.org/blog/is-the-sex-recession-over
https://twitter.com/NickWolfinger/status/1661473504922079233
https://twitter.com/lymanstoneky/status/1661536213688254465
https://twitter.com/NickWolfinger/status/1661576889541230592?cxt=HHwWgIDUwZXYjY8uAAAA
https://twitter.com/NickWolfinger/status/1661465944970125312

Given that there was a small sub sample for 18-29 year olds, it is very likely that this is a blip and not a general trend. I also find it hard to believe that women reporting 4 partners went from practically 0% in 2021 to around 16% in 2022 and men reported a 460% plus increase for three reported partners.

“Also im sure the GSS is struggling every year more and more wih people refusing to take their surveys. Not just them btw its happening with alot of surveys last time I checked, which was last year. I don’t know if that is still a thing though.”

This maybe true, but I’m doubtful, given that last year’s GSS had a good response rate from all age demographics. I can visualize a small increase in number of partners this year due to relaxing covid restrictions and more opportunities to go out, but such a high increase is unbelievable.

229 people. The data we have is worthless.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-07-10T21:35:07+00:00

Q4 the Bros:

How many of y’all have stories of women trynna change you in a relationship?

The amount of times this has happened to me is uncountable. The times girls get mad I work a lot of hours knowing this about me when they met me. The time they get mad I had female friends who commented stuff on my Insta photos. So on and so forth.

How about y’all. Seeing how the ladies seem to have had amnesia and forgotten the stereotypes is women love to change men for a reason (remember the whole “I can fix him” thing y’all do all the time with fuckbois? Literally the trope for the story beauty and the beast and every romance novel ladies consume).

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-07-10T16:36:53+00:00

*Two consenting adults agree to wrestle over a chick.

"OMG look what she made them do, what a monster"

mummydontknow · 2023-07-10T14:47:24+00:00

Holy shit, the Jonah hill thing has got to be a joke.

People have lost their minds, I was expecting some fucked up texts, but all he wants is for her to not give attention to other men he was polite and direct about what he wants in a relationship and told her if that's what she wanted he isn't the partner for her.

AND HE GETS CALLED ABUSIVE??? LMFAAAOOOO THAT IS THE FATTEST L ANY SOCIETY CAN TAKE.

Thank God for religion. Let's see where this cucked behaviour takes the west in a couple of years.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-10T14:53:37+00:00

Don’t ask questions you aren’t prepared to hear the answer for?

This is just admitting your girlfriend’s past actually bothers you, you just choose to go “lalala” and have Mao Zedong do a cultural revolution in your brain.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-10T15:14:13+00:00

My favorite PPD women argument. "N count doesn't because not a single guy who tried to fuck me asked me about my body count."

potoricco · 2023-07-10T13:45:30+00:00

“If prostitution was empowering for women, men would be against it”

potoricco · 2023-07-10T16:27:38+00:00

Daily reminder that misandry isnt real

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-10T13:55:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/14vf95k/aitah_for_getting_upset_that_my_wife_told_me_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

That's a lot of ick, holy crap

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-10T12:33:13+00:00

most famous soccer guys decide their destination on the transfer market based on what suitable for the wife and the kids and the family , one of the reasons that messi refused to play in saudi arabia league is due to his wife wanting to go to usa ,Zidane also rejected an offer from premiere league team because his wife didn’t like the atmosphere on uk , it’s fine to ask your partner to change his/her career for you

Jonah hill didn’t do anything wrong

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-10T13:14:45+00:00

I think There are dudes who get nothing(generally) and then have these random streaks of success(maybe just one night) with women then convince themselves

“I know how to get girls now, I’ve figured it out”

And that turned out to just be a fluke. You are in a bar, some random chick comes in there the same time mad at her boyfriend for cheating on her with the mindset of “the first decent dude I see who tries to talk to me imma bang his brains out tonight” and you just happened to be the first decent dude so you got lucky lol. You never saw another Vagina again the rest of the year though.

Think of it like baseball where you would have a mediocre or below average hitter who has this random hot steak of a month then goes back to being the same meh player he was the previous 7 years

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-10T13:29:09+00:00

I wonder do most people find Lauren Sanchez attractive? She looks like The Mask with a wig on imo.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-10T14:08:01+00:00

I think there’s no such thing as empowerment for women. They only have the power men give them and they can flip the switch and call it sexual objectification or empowerment(hooters employees, twin peaks, slutty uniforms for cheerleaders, porn, prostitution, playboy magazine, modeling). It’s all nonsense if you think about it lol

CliffPR · 2023-07-10T17:29:42+00:00

Don't spend that $20 bucks on some TRP guru's book! They're just after your money, it's all a scam!

Pay $200/hour for a therapist.

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-07-10T17:39:02+00:00

It's impossible to have long hair as a guy and not look like shit. Jason Momoa can pull it off, not so much your twink ass - he's jacked.

Slipthe · 2023-07-10T12:01:09+00:00

How long are your workouts?

potoricco · 2023-07-10T15:53:02+00:00

I love how there is just this permanent class of celebrities that everyone agrees are fucked up pwpple but they’re just too talented/powerful/relevant to ever be truly “cancelled”

Kanye, Trump, Azealia Banks, Trisha Paytas, jefree star, Paris Hilton, Neymar, James Charles think of people like that

JiifuhTV · 2023-07-10T15:54:10+00:00

the average women on reddit thinks this is okay

idk how men still listen to / go back and forth with these female incels unless it’s for entertainment

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-10T16:21:05+00:00

A meme I always see on IG for years is the one where people saying their teacher/guidance counselor/nurse told them

“This stays with us”

And then they go to the police causing the student to be upset, this is the punchline of the meme. From what I gather correct me if I’m wrong, aren't those people like mandated reporters? If you tell your teacher my boyfriend sexually assaulted me he/she can’t keep that in house. She might even hate the police but it’s like dammit I’m not risking my pension for this

EulenWatcher · 2023-07-10T17:56:34+00:00

"Wife wins divorce" and the lawyer is really happy lol

My mother also gets emotionally invested in some of her cases and I know she made a deal with her clients several times that she'll take their case and give them a discount if they leave their abusive partners for good. I.e. the cases were about divorces/domestic abuse/child abuse.

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MboloYaBaKali · 2023-07-10T12:17:04+00:00

What do you think the rarity of women led empires says about human nature? Does it say more about men's craving for power and status to attract mates? Or does it say more about women's incapability to run large, complex structures such as millitaries, societies or kingdoms?

I have often heard the latter arguement brought up when I have told people to imagine a world with bo men...

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-07-10T13:24:34+00:00

Do you want a time machine to be invented?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-10T14:06:22+00:00

What did I miss

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-07-10T14:19:23+00:00

Women are the primary beneficiaries, primary victims, primary proponents, and primary opponents of toxic masculinity. It's a weird and somewhat confusing dynamic.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-10T14:35:33+00:00

men can't win the gender war. our strength and size advantage mean nothing in the 21st century. women are evolutionarily primed play victim, seek social protection, and garner sympathy in any situation. there's simply no way men can compete.

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-10T14:47:34+00:00

Whenever i read comments in this sub i picture angry frustrated men and women in my head

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-10T14:55:27+00:00

“Men need government to tell them they cannot marry children “

Agree or disagree?

potoricco · 2023-07-10T15:00:35+00:00

“Feminism is for men too!“

Just like Pride is for cishet people too!

Just like Nation of Islam is for white Christians too!

Just like university is for kindergartners too!

Just like the church of Satan is for Christians too!

Just like the train station is for airplanes too!

No. Feminism is a movement by women for women only.

Ok-Bee-6216 · 2023-07-10T15:21:50+00:00

Guys, listing the pics you want your gf to remove from her insta isn't "communicating"

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-10T15:54:27+00:00

Women compelling men to act violent for their affection is revolting. women that get turned on when men around them are violent is a big red flag and should be avoided by anyone who values any sort of stability.

This place gets me too keyed up I swear

baresquad · 2023-07-10T15:59:03+00:00

Girls really just want to have fun. They have 0 interest in sacrificing that part of themselves to meet your strict dating requirements and rules for the sake of dating you.

That’s why so many men will continue to struggle while the ones who aren’t uptight won’t.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-10T16:09:33+00:00

Women:

We like good stable responsible guys :)

Also women:

I'll suck your dick if you can break his jaw ;)

Peacesquad · 2023-07-10T16:18:25+00:00

Q4W: why?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-10T16:24:00+00:00

"Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for ?"

Sacrifice to achieve success

Peacesquad · 2023-07-10T16:44:43+00:00

Q4M: what’s the MAIN reason you talk to women, if you had to say?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-10T16:45:14+00:00

Q4W: what’s the MAIN reason you deal with men for, if you had to say?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-10T16:53:18+00:00

What happened to the pitbull lover guy?

potoricco · 2023-07-10T16:55:44+00:00

I LOVE NEWJEANS

DerayRevan · 2023-07-10T17:11:37+00:00

Myron is absolutely right about putting success and many things before women

Because many men just always wanna put women in their top priorities which is why many of them get depressed or attempt deleting themselves because of female shit

Something l always did growing up myself, always just putting women ahead of many things in my life and l had been more depressed, but once l started putting women below many things l had to focus on, my dating life generally became better

If you put women even in your top 5 priorities, then yea your gonna live a depressing life and always think getting a gf or wife is gonna complete you as a man

Now l get it, we are red blooded males with Testosterones but bro, if you talk to a woman and mess up, by tomorrow your probably still thinking about it while she hardly even recalls your name

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-10T17:22:12+00:00

POV: You're at an average college party

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZPpGATJQSZU

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-10T17:32:05+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/6p23yqqua6bb1.jpeg?width=1077&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=89b182fe57156ba3b318baf4e25747588cf6720b

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-10T17:34:57+00:00

If I want a husband who dresses well I’m not going to seriously pursue a male who sags his pants and has pictures on social media of him saggy then attempt to try and change him. That’s just stupid.

Twinseo09 · 2023-07-10T17:36:50+00:00

The equivalence to the Jonah situation is a man dating an Instagram model knowing it’s her profession. And telling her to stop taking those hot bikini pictures.

Another example is a man dating a stripper and asking her to quit her job because he dosent like seeing her half naked at work and around other men shaking her ass.

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-10T17:48:43+00:00

During the 80s and 90s , were there any words or phrases in english used exclusively by women and also by feminine men ?

We had this in my local language due to the separation between men and women

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-10T18:04:27+00:00

I feel like Oppenheimer.

If you're actually self aware it is terribly annoying how it easy it is to do acts of evil when you're a guy. Be silent and risk being a creep, try socialising and fail now you're a spectrum/sociopath, try romance ,succeed for a while and fail ,now you're an abuser who showed his true colours. It's like when christcucks say "if god doesn't exist what's stopping you from commiting crimes" Me personally life in prison not internal morality per say.

This is why imo good men however common or rare they are ,are genuine and should be praised

the only benefit as a guy these days is not needing emotional connection to get off sexually.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-10T18:20:11+00:00

I find it very hard to believe that women don't have dating privilege, that male attention and validation means nothing to them.

Am I really supposed to believe that it's not enjoyable to get attention from an attractive person who wines and dines you, unconditionally shows an interest in you and tries entertaining you and making you laugh while exploring the city and while you put in little to no effort? Somehow him not wanting a relationship with you retroactively nullifies all the enjoyment from the dates you had, or that you went on multiple dates or fell in love with someone you didn't enjoy being around at all? Like even if you don't enjoy the sex, you would've enjoyed the date in order to be willing to have sex with him, so you got a lot out of the date.

Women get a lot out of "casual sex" in that even if we assume she is asexual, she got a lot out of having fun on the date and from the free attention and validation. She wasn't holding her end on the date or making the date enjoyable for the man, so she's trading off the good dating experience she got for sex.

DoinIt989 · 2023-07-10T18:29:07+00:00

Q4M who use dating apps - Are you a loner? Why don't you have any friends?

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-10T18:36:17+00:00

CMV: Homeschooling can induce autism.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-07-10T18:44:16+00:00

College parties ca. 2008, colorized: https://youtu.be/iMJnr5bhQUI?t=67

ThisBoringLife · 2023-07-10T19:13:48+00:00

Random: I like ASMR videos of drinks being made.

y2kjanelle · 2023-07-10T19:20:28+00:00

I’ve confirmed that most of the lonely or rp geared men or blackpill or incel men are assholes 100% of the time. Very freeing and I didn’t have to do anything they just told on themselves.

Anyways I have a gift card to spend and wasn’t called into work today so I’m going to buy some clothes and maybe a few move in gifts for my bfs new apartment 🥰 I bought us a nice dinner yesterday at a kbbq place so bf is going to treat me to yummy food today and we’re gonna have fun when we get home.

Blue pilled men are where it’s at. No lies, dinners bought w no complaints, princess treatment, no second guessing intentions, no insecure stupid shit, funny, physically attractive, they work hard, they play hard and appreciate the love and attention you give.

There’s not a single rp man who could compare.

What’s that one guys saying? Godspeed and good luck LMAO.

Maffioze · 2023-07-10T19:23:59+00:00

I feel pretty depressed today tbh.

old_new_age · 2023-07-10T19:25:53+00:00

The word "boundary" belongs in the camp with other words that nobody fucking knows the definition of like "gaslighting" and "stonewalling." I don't even know what it means. If you catch your wife cheating and you try to confront her and she says, "I'm setting a boundary that you can't speak to me right now," do you have to obey, because boundaries are inalienable rights? If you break your wife's boundary and confront her, will she have full social license to say you're a harassing boundary-breaking dick? Where's the line drawn between setting a boundary and being an asshole? It can't be just "boundaries are for yourself and it's controlling to set boundaries on other people," because most boundaries people set are essentially ultimatums involving other people. Maybe that's controlling...but also completely fine...sometimes?

dysonRing · 2023-07-10T19:28:02+00:00

Women are creatures of emotion not logic the whole jonnah hill proves you can't even set boundaries anymore her feelings > reason.

I date exotic dancers and don't feel insecure about it cause I am chaddy. But there might come a time when I might ask her to quit (quitting the stripclub is like chosing to eat out or something there is 0 work commitment) and it os my right to ask and her right to end the relationship for it.

Having that shit blasted on social media is more attentionseeking that should be blasted she should be cancelled not him

Maffioze · 2023-07-10T19:33:21+00:00

Is writing 1000 words of a scientific paper in a day a lot or not?

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-10T19:44:56+00:00

Q4M: Would you feel sexually harassed if a random woman came up to you at the gym and said she thinks you’re very attractive, but she doesn’t want anything more with you because she’s not single?

How do you make “you’re sexy af” not creepy, hypothetically ? Or is it pointless to say anything at all? I’m sperging out here

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-10T19:49:28+00:00

I feel so bad for the boys growing up in this shitshow. The situation only seems to be getting worse and worse.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-10T21:04:09+00:00

q4w

https://youtu.be/Xvo5-RHg5Sg?t=15

right or left?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-10T21:05:19+00:00

Women deserve to make less than men if you actually think about it

potoricco · 2023-07-10T21:06:43+00:00

Just went to the dentist

Maractop · 2023-07-10T21:08:07+00:00

What is the point of coming out as bisexual while in a commited relationship or marriage with someone of the opposite sex? Like im actually curious. The majority of realtionships arent open so what is the benefit of it? I seen a woman come out to her husband the other day and I was confused tbh.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-07-10T21:27:12+00:00

Every Q4W post:

PPD men: 💁🏻‍♂️🦋 am I a woman?

AntiHypergamist · 2023-07-10T21:28:32+00:00

Being fake nice isn’t “emotional intelligence,” women are just afraid of confrontation

potoricco · 2023-07-10T23:15:51+00:00

Larry nassar bitch ass, dropped the soap in prison 🧼🔪

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-11T01:02:22+00:00

My husband just told me the commandant of the Marine Corps just resigned, and some fucking senator has somehow gotten the power to hold up 265 promotions because the USMC was funding travel expenses for female Marines to get abortions.

Only 6.3% of Marines are female. The majority of them request separation whenever they get pregnant anyway, which means the ~$40,000 it costs to train them gets flushed down the toilet.

No wonder why retention rates are so fucking low.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-11T04:30:56+00:00

Makeup is a cheat code. Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-11T05:42:34+00:00

"Oh my gosh l can't believe you said only women are hypergamous"

Well don't blame me if they facts are reality

Yes only women are hypergamous because they'll want with a man either on their level or above, she wants someone on a upper economic,social,educational ladder than her

Because it's to ensure her kids have strong genetic offsprings to survive, again this literally female evolutionary psychology

But for men it's not, our biology doesn't program us to seek a woman on our social,economic,educational lvl

Men will hand their genes to any woman that makes them horny because we just want VARIETY

So how can men be hypergamous ?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-10T15:24:32+00:00

I swear give a woman Attention+excitement(Fun)

She won't be interested in anything else

If you haven't figured this out especially by your early 20s, then how much do you really hang around the opposite sex ?

Because women will completely ignore your existence but soon as you get an emotion out of them then you win her attraction

Instagram does a great job proving this

Maffioze · 2023-07-10T15:29:09+00:00

Why do men get told they are insecure anytime they have an emotional reaction to something their partner did?

It feels like gaslighting. No one has the potential to understand why someone feels a certain way better than the person feeling it themselves.

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