Daily Community Chat Megathread

Workaholiconew · 2023-08-15T18:04:27+00:00

[Cmv] if you dont have opinions that would lead to some ideologue calling you names... you arent mature yet.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-15T17:51:45+00:00

I think the hardest pill to swallow (no pun intended) for guys in the manosphere is:

Compared to girls, guys dont really give a fuck about each other.

It’s much harder to fix male issues when not acknowledging that other men caused these issues.

Male genital mutilation - Done by majority male and allowed to happen with the permission of fathers.
The Draft - Majority male leaders forcing poor men to die in for-profit wars.
Women being over represented in voting - Men not wanting to vote or men being criminals losing their voting power.
Men mental health being ignored - Men telling other to not bother because therapy is “gynocentric” and that addressing their problems dries out pussies.
“Women dont know how to raise men” - What if men….STOP ABANDONING THEIR SONS?! Wild idea, I know!
The War On Boys in school - Not wanting to address that schools were always about sitting down and shutting the fuck up, even when school was more male-oriented.
Male SA not being taken seriously - Guys calling the (underage) victims lucky if the predator was a “hot” woman.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-15T17:50:08+00:00

As an autistic guy, it’s kind of annoying that “autistic” is used as an insult whenever someone vehemently disagrees with what someone else has to say. The distribution of qualities with autistic people is the same as the distribution of qualities in neurotypical people- some of us are great, others are terrible. Some are incredibly bright, others aren’t. Some of us love talking to people, some of us would be fine if nobody ever spoke to us again.

But it feels like when people think of the word “autism”, they think of an unemployed 35 year old in his parents’ basement, typing out misogynistic rants with Cheetos-stained fingers. There are people like that, sure, but that isn’t anywhere near a majority of us, or even a plurality.

Maffioze · 2023-08-15T17:45:39+00:00

I wrote more than 2000 words so far today. The goal is 3000, still 4 hours left to this day.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-15T17:28:47+00:00

My husband has a urologist appointment. It's routine and not a big deal. I just mention it because I noticed that the appointment is with the Gender Affirming Care Clinic. It makes it sound a little like he is getting a sex change not just having the plumbing checked, yes? Or maybe it's just me.

Barneysparky · 2023-08-15T17:26:15+00:00

Question for coupled people here:

Do you share a toothbrush sometimes? This weekend a very drunk/stoned group of about 20 adults (most married) had a good laugh with me for like an hour because of this.

We had misplaced our toothbrushes and I asked our host if she had a spare, I said we just needed one as we can share. This started about half an hour of hilarity, peaking when my husband came in from outside and was asked if it was gross to share toothbrushes, and the bastard said yes.... :)

In the end I won the argument, saying, "Mouths are intimate with every part of your person, is your line in the sand toothbrushes". As it was an older crowd I didn't have to explicitly say ass and come eating to get my point across.

Personally, ours are almost the same colour and get swapped out when they are frayed.

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-15T17:00:10+00:00

Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men

This title is so interesting because it's like some men are waiting for an autistic list of stuff they can do to check and suddenly become successful with women

but that's not how reality works, there's extra non verbal stuff that cannot be explained with words. How do you explain chemistry? Chemistry is just something that happens and you can't control it. It's either there or it isn't.

I can totally understand the desperation specially in young men like WOMAN TELL ME WHAT TO DO ASAP

but it's also kind of annoying to be blamed and be told that we are basically dumb because we can't explain what can't be explained. (doesn't need to be explained either)

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-15T16:54:39+00:00

Back from Disney/Florida vacation. I'm extremely proud of myself; everyone had a great time and despite a few wildcards thrown our way there were no fights, complaints, tears, tension, or boredom. I took the lead on everything (flights, rental car, places to stay, food, entertainment, itinerary) and we operated like a well oiled machine.

I find a lot of joy in this sort of stuff (vacation admin, life admin, extracurricular activities admin, etc), women who abdicate this mental space to honor some concept of 'GeNdEr RoLeS' are so foreign to me.

decoy88 · 2023-08-15T16:41:49+00:00

Fuck this guy! u/IcyBad8073.

Stop spamming every comment with your bullshit.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-15T16:38:47+00:00

"Women don't like men who have to approach because the men they want are sort of guys who don't have to approach"

Ok then his just plain average, and his source of meeting women is probably through online and social circles just like most men today

Because even attractive guys have the confidence to approach women they like in appropriate social settings least once in their lifetime

So if women are fine with plain average guys, then l ain't gonna say nothing

DerayRevan · 2023-08-15T16:30:03+00:00

"Redpillers: What does TRP mean to you"

Observation of inner sexual dynamics between men and women

Prexeology not Ideology nor philosophy

That's it

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-15T16:06:18+00:00

Q4M: What is wrong with a women wanting validation?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-15T15:57:06+00:00

Saying "patriarchy hurts men too"....

Really seems to upset some men. I have no idea why they become so hemotional and testerical about it.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-15T15:48:39+00:00

Some of the men here act like women are supposed to be attracted to them simply because they are men.

Or that if someone isn't interested in you, it must mean you're a uggo.

It's such a self-made shame spiral. An example of how patriarchy hurts men, too.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-15T15:41:45+00:00

Men and women are not the same, equality or egalitarianism are both scams, the patriarchy can't be stopped. Feminism won't solve anything, MRAs are not taken seriously, take The Red pill.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-15T15:38:49+00:00

A two for one today: I really enjoyed this video by Todd expounding on the current "dating crisis". I felt it really accurate and balanced..

Thoughts?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-15T15:36:57+00:00

GrassToucher29

is such a genius, they blocked me before I was able to read the last message😂😂😂

also for absolutely no reason, I wasn't even fighting

oh well

u/MrsDrgree

potoricco · 2023-08-15T15:15:12+00:00

I know this isn’t the intended audience but omg she slayed so hard

<image>

QUEEN🦄🦄

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-15T15:13:46+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Sagittarius.

This girl has a sad problem. Often tom boyish, never totally comfortable being a women or being feminine, she carries it about like a male cat. Clunky, goofy, ungraceful. But the big problem with love and sex with this woman is this: She confuses friendship for love, and love for friendship. She really ought to just pair off with her male besty, god knows he would be thrilled with the idea. While she is interested in the act of sex, often she has to be buzzed, on drugs, in a really relaxed and chill atmosphere to want to act on it. She needs a lot of external boxes marked off.

Emotionally, she is the eternal young soul. Everything is bright, new, changeable. Never ever repeats, hardly any lessons learned or retained. She is innocent in many ways, because she doesn't waste her time with many negative feelings or vengeance.

Sex with her is just ... ok. Very vanilla and very basic. Forget about anal or ATM, this girl likes it normal.

Recommended approach: Earnestly playful and childlike. Emphasize having a good time. No subtle hints, she won't pick up on them. Be gently direct with your intentions, offer her some beer/wine or a little weed if she's into it. Have a light playful time, and when you're nearing the end of the night, ask her if she wants to have some more fun at her place or yours.

Be kind and gentle with her. She is sensitive and does actually want a happily ever after with one person. She just doesn't know what to do on her end to make that happen.

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-15T14:46:10+00:00

Why you shouldn't cry in front of your gf: This

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-15T14:41:49+00:00

It does seem like social people are more physically attractive. I think it’s that there’s more incentive to be physically attractive when you’re around other people and the gender you’re attracted to.

Sucks for attractive people with more solitary hobbies 😪

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-08-15T14:33:36+00:00

Is there any benefits for a man in a relationship besides sex? Maybe I’m just pretty insensitive and cold but I swear I see nothing positive in a relationship for men besides consistent (not always) and stable access to sex.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-15T14:22:44+00:00

Got a Herman Miller chair for free, but the wheels are all rusted and I can't get them out of the base. What was going to be a $30 repair has turned into me sinking $150 into parts to replace the base, wheels, and gas cylinder. I keep telling myself the quality of the chair is worth it, but it has been a week now that I have been working on fixing this. Just ordered what I hope is the last part I'll need from amazon. I'm so much more productive at work being able to sit at my desk than on the couch where I tend to argue about women's dating preferences online like any rational 33 year old would.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-15T14:06:23+00:00

Someone made me realize the irony of the Barbie movie portraying blue collar workers as disgusting pigs while the coastal elite women are the “oppressed ones”. Also, believing guys checking out a hot blond at the beach has “an undertone of violence” is the most Weak Woman belief I have ever seen.

happy_discus · 2023-08-15T13:45:29+00:00

I need your help by settling a debate between me and my therapist. Would you see this mail as a sign of interest? I for sure don't but he has a different opinion regarding it.

Hello (my name),

thank you very much for your mail, it was really nice of you to take the trouble to forward me the information. By "don't study in a mess" our professor probably means that you should stick relatively to the module plan, I guess.

I just checked because of logic and I am so relieved, I passed! I'm sure you did too, of course. Thanks for letting me know, otherwise I probably wouldn't have looked until a few weeks from now.

Have a nice week

Many greetings

(her name)

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-15T13:38:05+00:00

Sometimes I think living in a Nordic country is like living on an easy mode, and that I wouldn’t have done as well in some other country.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-08-15T13:21:34+00:00

Having an attractive partner has become more of a status symbol for men than having money.

CMV

tendrils87 · 2023-08-15T13:20:11+00:00

Imagine there was a job position that 100 people applied to. Only one person can hold that job position and the other 99 people who applied get accused of harassment. What were they even thinking applying with those qualifications?

potoricco · 2023-08-15T13:16:45+00:00

Central Cee is Cuper Cexy❤️😍

potoricco · 2023-08-15T13:05:30+00:00

“Women are so hypocritical, if an attractive man approaches its flirting, if an ugly guy does it it’s harassment”

When 2 people have a mutual attraction to each other, they are more open to having a romantic interaction. Mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

potoricco · 2023-08-15T12:56:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/fourthwavewomen/comments/15ratno/danganronpas_flagrant_misogyny/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

This is the reason why I avoid all anime and anime/manga style content. 99% of anime are openly misogynistic and male gazey, have fetish content, fanservice, hypersexualized pornofied female characters. Gross but nobody seems to care

huhwhatokok · 2023-08-15T12:43:40+00:00

Women have the dumbest “Icks” for men like the way he texted something or said something but let a man’s “ick” be a high body count woman and it’s misogyny, even though it’s way more reasonable than 99% of womens “Icks”.

potoricco · 2023-08-15T12:42:32+00:00

Why so much anti feminism today 😕

Wallaby-321 · 2023-08-15T12:32:40+00:00

You're not a real man if a feminist doesn't call you insecure and childish.

Maffioze · 2023-08-15T12:18:05+00:00

Its about 30 degrees in my room. I have to write my thesis, but I can't concetrate with this heat. Fuck my life.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-08-15T12:16:41+00:00

Even though reading a majority of TwoXChromosome post for the average guy will make them actively dislike women, I would argue it will also make many men thankful for the sane women they have known and dated irl.

hellotomo94 · 2023-08-15T11:21:36+00:00

Why are trad women so insistent that women not work just because they chose to have a kid at 20 with some crusty 50 year old. Shocking that women may enjoy earning and don't want an allowance from their keepers!

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-15T11:20:45+00:00

High heels are stupid. Like what is the point of spending hundreds of dollars on a horribly designed shoes that makes walk funny.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-15T11:20:13+00:00

I will never stop finding strange the response “it’s funny that you’re advocating for [insert personal choice] instead of changing society/societal systems themselves!”

It’s like, okay, so you think I can just snap my fingers and make society different? I’m not a monarch or a Supreme Court justice. I only have control over what I do as an individual, same as you, and I don’t have time to gather the resources and other people required to “reform society.”

Wallaby-321 · 2023-08-15T11:00:44+00:00

<image>

Interesting overlap.

Wallaby-321 · 2023-08-15T10:31:14+00:00

Women who are willing to do household work in this day and age are high quality women. I know this will offend a lot of people, but the truth has to be said. Too many women are looking for daddies who'd be fathering them instead of looking for a good man to be a teammate with.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-15T10:07:11+00:00

Anyone who is automatically suspicious and resentful of "Guys/Girls nights out" is a wetty.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-15T08:26:04+00:00

Men who have seen escorts, what was your experience like.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-15T07:34:34+00:00

To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men. In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honor is removal to the pedestal. From women they want devotion, service and sex.

Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.

Marilyn Frye, The Politics of Reality: Essays in Feminist Theory

Its hard to argue with this.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-15T07:28:56+00:00

Interesting post

Interesting thoughts here imo. Actually a pretty thought provoking thread.

AutoModerator · 2023-08-14T22:00:12+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

sine120 · 2023-08-14T22:00:42+00:00

Automod is always first

tendrils87 · 2023-08-14T22:01:47+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/insanepeoplefacebook/comments/15qq0so/how_can_people_think_this_is_ok/

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-14T22:03:53+00:00

Where you approach someone is so important. It feels difficult to answer questions about dating and approaching that are about “can I do this?”, if they don’t say anything about the context.

HolidayWhile · 2023-08-14T22:11:40+00:00

Good cities to find 20-something women, that aren't on the coasts?

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-14T22:12:31+00:00

Is it mainstream and common sense that looks matter a lot in dating?

Here is the first google result for "dating advice for men".

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/online-dating/dating-tips/dating-advice-for-men/

And here is one for "advice for men struggling with dating"

https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/a-must-read-for-men-who-have-struggled-with-dating/

I don't even see a single reference to looks. And literally the first bullet point for the 2nd link for "men struggling with dating" is "have empathy for women". LOLLLLL

This is all you need to know for why so many young men are so in the dark and up shit creek with dating.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-14T22:25:12+00:00

Can I get presided ozempic? If I go to the doctor and show them the PPD and say this is primary socialization outlet because I’m fat, do you think they’ll prescribe it for me?

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-14T22:28:03+00:00

I’m going to hurt some feelings here but if you’re on this sub you should be used to that now. If you’re an older woman you need to understand that most men will prefer a younger woman, if you’re an ugly man you’re shit out of luck unless one of the last of two million women on the planet look past your looks and like you for you. TRP gets clowned on by feminists anyway but now we’re just handing them material to criticize and shape how TRP is viewed. They’ve almost successfully convinced women that Red Pill men want to legalize rape and pedophilia, that beating your wife or girlfriend is something TRP approves of, that TRP teaches men to abuse their partners emotionally as some sort of punishment, that it teaches men to abuse and torment women due to some perceived lack of respect from all women.

We might be gaining ground but now that we’re mainstream we have too many men too lazy, too soft and messed up in the head claiming TRP. Who do you think is going to get more publicity? The men you don’t hear about who put in the work or some guy who molested an underage girl and bought some Tate merch?

John_Oakman · 2023-08-14T22:36:04+00:00

Remember, you can always be more morally virtuous.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-14T22:41:30+00:00

Free love: Sexual hyper capitalism

Hookup culture: Sexual regular capitalism

Monogamy: Sexual Social Democracy

Arranged Marriages: Sexual Socialism

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-14T22:44:13+00:00

I wonder if people really do the whole

“If we are both single at 30 let’s get married and have kids bro” thing

According-Capital369 · 2023-08-14T22:55:44+00:00

I need one of the women here to honestly rate me. I will send in chat. I’m 5’4/5’5 and I’ve lost alot of weight . Im pretty good with social skills and I’ve had moments where I get numbers or go on dates but it falls through. I have no issues being friends with or approaching women…in fact I may have too many. Im constantly talking about as a great guy by said friends but as you know still not having much luck rn. I know height is probably the biggest factor in girls deciding to commit but no one has flat out admitted it. I have friends and acquaintances who are my height or shorter who have sealed the deal but at minimum I just need to know if I’m delusional.

social_mules_alt · 2023-08-14T22:56:11+00:00

It's been 48 hours. Somebody make a passport bros post.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-14T23:05:54+00:00

CMV: Passport Bros can either leave and traverse SEA, or they can stay here and be ridiculed by the women they’re trying to escape from. Choice is theirs.

sine120 · 2023-08-14T23:07:20+00:00

Had a conversation with the wife last night about how recent (*cough* Disney) Hollywood tends to shit on men to prop up women, and she had a hard time believing me but couldn't think of any counterpoints that are less than 10-15 years old because patriarchy. Things I've noticed (with an example I can think of of the top of my head):

Men hitting women is morally evil. Women hitting men is a funny gag (Leia hits Poe, Star Wars sequel # whatever).
Women are frequently oppressed, something like men in general, societal expectations, or some other rigid structure is holding back their innate kick-ass-ness. They do not need to struggle to improve, just be themselves. (new Mulan)
Men can be portrayed as laughably dumb and incompetent. Yet somehow still be just competent enough to be a villian? (Barbie movie, Ken is good at "beach", yet happily subjugates all barbies in 8 hours?)
A male cannot mentor a female, because she's probably already better than the mentor. (She-Hulk, Rei & Luke in Star Wars)

Maybe it's just Disney that's gone to shit, and I don't watch a ton of TV or movies. Are there any recent movies that subvert these recent trends that I'm ignorant of?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-14T23:07:51+00:00

If a girl was actually a virgin I’d happily wait a year or even more to have sex with her. (Not marriage though, I’m not religious).

AllTooHuman65 · 2023-08-14T23:12:55+00:00

Every time I go, destructively, back to watching RP stuff, I feel at a loss for how to actually be attractive to men. Mainly what the four Fs (fit, fun, friendly, feminine") actually look like.

Fit is the only easy one - be super skinny. Out of reach for me for at least a year...

The others though, idk. My mind can't help but envision it as just being a bimbo in a 50s dress, so to speak, and I have no idea how to do so without it looking extremely fake.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-14T23:15:51+00:00

My mom is taller than my dad (only by a cm though), better educated (she has a masters in economics, he has a low tier IT degree (he makes good money though)) and she apparently asked him out. How odd is this?

AspiringMogger · 2023-08-14T23:24:00+00:00

Actively lowered my standards last 45 days and the conclusion I’ve gotten to is: what’s the point. Slaying women is c***, LTR is where it’s at but my standards are too high for me to get what I want and I’m unsatisfied by what I can get when I lower them. I guess dating isn’t for people like me.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-14T23:28:22+00:00

Society: yea let's hold young men accountable for watching too much porn and point the finger at them

But let's NOT hold young women accountable for sexually advertising themselves on social media for attention and validation

Tradcons l rest my case honestly

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-14T23:29:25+00:00

This is wild

What the fuck? Haha

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-14T23:41:09+00:00

I’m glad my mom pushed back on my dad turning her into a career woman. (My mom still easily makes more than average). Two of my cousins were raised by two career focused parents and it messed them up (especially the older one).

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-08-14T23:55:34+00:00

“Why are men red/ black pill?”

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvibFGeNPGh/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-15T00:04:05+00:00

I’m sorely disappointed that I’ve been in Maine for two whole days and I haven’t seen a single moose yet.

However, today the toddler and I had a lot of fun playing in some estuary tide pools, so that was cool.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-15T00:27:53+00:00

Daily reminder that men with deflowering fetishes are sick individuals and no woman finds that trait attractive, full stop

sosayeth · 2023-08-15T00:43:32+00:00

Any of you guys into film? Have you ever started watching a movie and at some point during it felt, "Geez... The story/the direction/the production... something about this feels so ridiculously stupid... like more idiotic than just a normally bad movie. This must have been (co-)written/directed/produced by a woman or women." And sure enough once the credits roll, that is the exact case?

Well, table that discussion for now - let's highlight some female writers/directors/producers aren't propped up on pedestals because of their vaginas, or applauded for incoherent messaging simply because it's pro-vagina and anti-male (like "Barbie")! I'll start:

"The Nightgale," written and directed by Jennifer Kent. This is a film I can only watch once a decade. It's extremely bleak and dispiriting, but this was her goal and she did an excellent job telling the story she wanted.
Moira Walley-Beckett wrote some of the better "Breaking Bad" episodes and, in my opinion, should be given more credit than she has received for their success.
There are a number of female writers and directors involved in the Syfy series "The Magicians," which was all over the place in terms of quality, but had some excellent episodes. It's notable the show gets much better in the third and fourth season, when more men were involved the production.

scwizard · 2023-08-15T00:45:15+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15r3jgp/adhd_medication_almost_destroyed_my_marriage/

ADHD meds turn husband from a nice guy into an asshole.

Then when he goes off them he turns nice again.

That's some crazy shit.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-15T00:45:49+00:00

Plessure is temporary, pain is permanent 💪

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-15T00:51:55+00:00

I remember asking my parents if they “baby proofed” the house when they had us and my dad said WTF is that 😂

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-08-15T01:17:11+00:00

What are your thoughts on Tate’s impact on society?

He’s done way more good than harm with his influence

SianOiseau · 2023-08-15T01:18:41+00:00

The quality of comments I'm getting under my post is just...disappointing. This sub used to have somewhat better debaters and people used to actually read the studies provided. It's a pity.

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-08-15T01:20:17+00:00

Dumbest reason to get fired:

Years before I worked in my current job, a guy happened to have the key to the tampon coin machines in the women's restroom and would go in after hours to steal the change and buy pizza for his department. He apparently called it "blood money".

keebydee · 2023-08-15T01:35:39+00:00

Do you know how people (primarily the opposite sex) perceive you? It's really hard for me to know how people view me unless they outright tell me. I've been paranoid about my perception from others ever since my mother told me that people in the past said to her that I seem like I should get tested for something or that I seem someone with special needs. It just makes me wonder how many women have thought the same thing.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-15T01:40:36+00:00

As I've gotten older, I'm 21, I realized that the friend group I had are just due to convenience. Like the only thing we have in common is we play basketball and we find the same shit funny. I'm at a different point in my life. Its cool to joke around cuase this is gang, but outside of that, there's nothing. No commond goals, I put the nba hoop dreams away when I stopped playing for my college team at the end of my sophomore year. Now the only people I hang out with, are just college people. Its kind of sad, I grew up with these dudes, but we just on different paths.

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-08-15T01:42:48+00:00

Is it rare for me to be someone who is successful dating and be a "black pill" believer?

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-15T01:48:43+00:00

The state of TRP is so abysmal we have RP men simping for a lower than mid woman in Pearl (with multiple bodies, enough that her ex dumped her for it) just because she says “Teehee like omg women are like so stupid am I right men?”

meteorness123 · 2023-08-15T01:49:45+00:00

Looking back at high school, it was never really the good-looking kids who were popular. The biggest determining factor was social savyness and "not being weird". Nerds were also never bullied ( this is a pretty inaccurate movie trope im mo). It was rather the poor kids

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-15T02:01:42+00:00

People who get leg lengthening surgery are absolutely pathetic. I’m not fucking up my body (which leg lengthening surgery has a huge risk of doing) just to get laid.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-15T02:16:49+00:00

I think popular kids being the bullies is a poor school phenomena. Poor people are more brutish and raw strength is more valued, while in rich man’s world being socially manipulative is valued and that requires pretending to be a nice person.

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-15T02:35:00+00:00

women are legit upset that men who make less than 100k reproduce or that average men get to reproduce with average women.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-15T02:51:51+00:00

Some of my favorite music, movie, or literature are not necessary the best in quality from beginning to end. It is those few highs and memorable moments of geniuses that make them unforgettable, that other work of arts can’t reach.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-15T02:52:43+00:00

contributing to my question yesterday how big does a dildo have to be for it to start contributing to an n-count. like do those vibrator bullets count toward it? if the dildo is bigger than 10in does it count?

if dildos don't count does it count if a guy uses it on me?

afk_row · 2023-08-15T03:16:58+00:00

Why are lesbians more obese compared to straight women

hannahg000 · 2023-08-15T03:20:36+00:00

does anyone here thrift? i was going through my clothes and i think 70% of them have been thrifted

Luciansleep · 2023-08-15T03:28:36+00:00

I still can’t move on from a girl from three years ago.

She lied about blocking her ex.

Said it was because he was unhealthy and dropped out of college but he was fine and got a well paying job with a girl he was about to marry.

Anytime we had a fight (about said ex) she kept telling her family that I was controlling even though at first I said it’s cool to be friends with him it’s just weird if they talk everyday and even snap each other pictures of each other when I was laying in bed with her.

Sent me a video of a guy with bigger legs at the time and kept saying how she wished I looked like that.

Made half of the town hate me for saying that after a while I wasn’t comfortable with her friendship with said ex that she told me cheated with her and compared her to other women only to say that it wasn’t true.

Went to the ex when she had a panic attack and would get mad if I went to my other friends after that about me having some issues.

But I still like I fucked things up despite years of people saying other wise.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-15T04:07:29+00:00

Jordan 1s > every other shoes

mummydontknow · 2023-08-15T04:59:41+00:00

I can't sleep because I'm thinking of the time I fumbled a cute girl because I wAs NoT iNtEreStEd, but now I'm lonely af.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-08-15T05:55:11+00:00

Q4W: How would you feel if the guy you were dating told you that he isn't naturally that tall, and that his actual height was lower than what you like men's height to be. Also how would you feel if the method he used to seem or be taller was:

1) shoe lifts

2) limb lengthening surgery

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-15T06:33:21+00:00

I've noticed that a lot of passport bros don't try areas like the Middle East or Africa? Why?

scwizard · 2023-08-15T06:47:52+00:00

(24f) left for a three-week vacation and came home to family, friends, and coworkers suddenly using all this "men's rights" and manosphere slang. I won't repeat it here, but the more I learn, the more frightening it is. My fiancee laughed about my cousin's so-called pretty privilege, then asked me what I "brought to the table" as a partner other than looks and education. For the first time in 2.5 years, he asked me in uncomfortable detail about my past partners. I answered honestly and he replied that we'll be splitting every expense from now on [he earns at least 5x what I do].

I've reached out to friends and family since then, but no conversation (with the exception of my dad) has gone further than asking how much my fiancee earns. Then awkward silence. Is this gaslighting, or am I just going insane?

This girl stepped into the wormhole or something.

potoricco · 2023-08-15T15:08:31+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ug7rlzw0iaib1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a9daa2624623b9a0784ebc4c7088c00610fe9c59

Me and who😍😍😍

This is my favorite movie of all time

potoricco · 2023-08-15T15:22:30+00:00

“Before evil feminism women actually cares about their children!! They took care of them instead of sending them to daycare and going back to work!”

Upper class women didn’t even take care of their kids. Your wholesome trad pro family fantasy is just: a fantasy

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-15T18:11:26+00:00

Just saw a youtube video in which a diverse group of women were shown images of C-BUM on offseason. They called him dadbod.

Women don't know shit about shit. Never take what they say seriously.

sine120 · 2023-08-15T18:12:00+00:00

How many people here (who are single) actually want a monogamous LTR? If you were given the option to pick someone who was good enough tomorrow, and they got along with you well enough, wouldn't cheat on you, pulled their own weight, would you be happy to just call it and commit?

platinirisms · 2023-08-15T18:24:55+00:00

Sometimes when I’m talking to someone, I’ll pretend to not know what they’re talking about just so they can enjoy explaining it to me thinking they’re introducing me to this new thing that excites them.

“Did you hear about what happened when you do this in that game?”.

Reply 1:
“Yes, cool isn’t it”.
“Ya”.

Compared to

Reply 2:
“Nah, what happens”.
“Man how do you not know? so blah blah blah haha!”.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-15T18:28:08+00:00

So there seems to be this social phenomenon where if your unable of finding a partner as a man, your likely to be a misogynist quote "incel"

And quite interesting looking back at teenage years where this was the case, addicted to porn and didn't hang around women at all not even one female friend if l remember right

Yet somehow if a woman showed a bit of interest just a tiny bit, it would mean the world to me and l would often end up simping

But when you look at married couples, it has one of the most reported violence against the woman because of domestic/physical abuse from her husband or often times other bad acts such as raping her

So this is not me saying being single is more likely to make you a misogynist or being in a relationship, but this is a interesting view on it

Podlubnyi · 2023-08-15T18:32:29+00:00

I see Madonna's latest squeeze is young enough to be her grandson. What is it with these old women with fragile egos using their wealth and fame to manipulate young men into relationships? Date someone your own age!

sosayeth · 2023-08-15T18:40:12+00:00

A woman whose post history is riddled with use of the term "incel" just told me my usage of "cum rag" is indicative of a "psychological problem," as it exposes a desire to dehumanize nut buckets instead of seeing them as people. You can't make up how stupid and hypocritical women are. 😂

baiser_vole · 2023-08-15T18:41:23+00:00

Why do people like to put words into my mouth... Because I don't support everything on the left, I'm automatically on the right or something.

dyngladfel · 2023-08-15T18:59:47+00:00

I'm all for male mental health and supporting men. That extends to what I can do in my personal life. I'm interested if men here ever show this energy to women?

baresquad · 2023-08-15T19:03:32+00:00

Feel like a lot of women get mistaken that their standards matter to every man, attaching negative connotations to one’s who don’t meet them. I see it in a close friend but I also recently had somebody on bumble message me “you’re up, convince me” and it’s just like, no lol.

Can’t help but correlate it with similar things that fds preaches. It’s like you have to follow certain rules and meet certain standards otherwise you’re low value and again, no. There’s just simply a far more fun side of dating.

Maffioze · 2023-08-15T19:11:47+00:00

Great, another person blocked me.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-15T19:13:07+00:00

What is your take on physical books vs e books ? As much as I like the portability and cheap prices of the ladder, I can't see it ever replace my desire for an actual physical book with a cover and the smell of a book. It's also nice to not hold an electronic device in your hands for once : You don't get this advantage with an e-reader.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-15T19:17:45+00:00

My man Naruto fought a moon guy for his bitch Hintata

Respect king

meteorness123 · 2023-08-15T19:21:51+00:00

I used to hate subjects like history in school. These days, I find myself looking up parts of history by my own volition. How do teachers manage to make those things so unappealing ?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-15T19:32:23+00:00

",Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school"

Teach them what exactly ?

High-school is the perfect place for reckless dating behaviors

DerayRevan · 2023-08-15T19:33:40+00:00

"Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school"

Teach them what exactly ?

High-school is the perfect place for reckless dating behaviors for young people

BigCollectionFor · 2023-08-15T19:58:02+00:00

Why do people on Reddit like to argue about the same thing all day every day? Do they expect to win someone over?

One of the most common Reddit fights are about older men going for younger women. In generall, there are two sides.

1) Women who say that these men settle for younger women because that they are easier to manipulate.

2) Men who say that younger women are more physically attractive and having less baggage.

As seen here: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15qib6u/why_do_some_men_go_after_girls_that_are/

These two sides keep repeating their points over and over again in all eternity. Why? What is the point for this?

potoricco · 2023-08-15T20:06:21+00:00

Are we broke or no

I found my dads bank receipt and it said “checking ***xxxx(numbers) and it said Total Balance: ~$900

That seems extremely extremely low…. It could also be that it was a separate account like maybe he was saving up for something?? are we broke? Is it normal to only have $900 in a checking account? what even is a checking account?

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-15T20:19:06+00:00

Boys and girls sit next to each other in class, join clubs, play sports, go to prom, go to parties, work part time jobs together.

In 2023 America, most men aren’t experiencing any of these

Hermits believing all men live the same life as them once again. Like is this not delusional

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-15T20:36:13+00:00

I am no longer asking give me girls that don't drink.

Maffioze · 2023-08-15T20:40:04+00:00

Any other dude here who loves songs that mention being the man of the house before you were ready? They always hit me hard because they are relatable.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-15T21:01:14+00:00

Whats that subreddit that feminist women are on that men here hate I forgot?

scwizard · 2023-08-15T21:06:02+00:00

If a man struggles with dating, romance, or sex, why is the default assumption that he is misogynistic or at least has problematic views on women, and that he doesn't see women as people?

I'm not like the other boys.

When people assume that I'm problematic and misogynistic and don't see women as people they're right lol

potoricco · 2023-08-15T21:14:14+00:00

I just drove past a goodyear auto service and I was looking inside, and the male worker there smiled and nodded at me. it was so sweet, I love when people are chivalrous. He was very handsome also.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-15T21:16:42+00:00

Q4M: Is a women considered promiscuous for life if she has a short hoe phase?

Like if a women has a lot of sex for like a year in college and then has no hookups for like a decade or something is she still promiscuous?

Peacesquad · 2023-08-15T21:20:46+00:00

Give it to me straight. What did I miss

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-15T21:31:12+00:00

I am at only 45 grams of protein for the day. What should I eat to increase it

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-08-15T21:56:23+00:00

Q4All: How old were you when you got drunk for the first time?

potoricco · 2023-08-15T21:58:43+00:00

The only thing women can’t do💪

Spend less than $10 at the grocery store

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-15T22:01:27+00:00

You should never get a vasectomy because "we don't want anymore kids". You're a numpty if you do

Only get a vasectomy because "I don't want anymore kids"

Accomplished-Cup476 · 2023-08-15T22:12:29+00:00

What are the best cities in the USA for dating?

Workaholiconew · 2023-08-15T23:11:57+00:00

girls, if you ever thought "I wonder how it would feel to be a man", I have good knews, you already know.

Well... more specifically... you already have a free trial, it comes every month. PMS anger (and horny) issues come from an increase of testosterone to around 8 to 60 ng/dL in your blood. Doubling, tripling or even increasing many times your normal testosterone levels (also why you get angry and horny in your ovulation, it also increases then, just not as high).

Congratulations girls... you know how it feels to want to kill you boss and wanting to fuck like crazy just like a man, lucky you it only happens a few times a month... but here is the deal... the average healthy man has testosterone between 265 and 923 ng/dL through their lifetime... or more specifically 409-558 ng/dL (for 20-25 years old in america)...

Puts a lot of things into perspective doesn't it?

Maffioze · 2023-08-15T23:20:35+00:00

Logic is the best American rapper. I ain't changing my view.

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	10
Comments	1714
Date	August 14, 2023 10:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15r8k08/daily_community_chat_megathread/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/daily-community-chat-megathread.1228499 https://theredarchive.com/post/1228499

Comments