Daily Community Chat Megathread

Slipthe · 2023-11-30T16:07:10+00:00

Um, I got one of those ear cleaning tools with a camera.

And I have been pushing ear wax deeper into my ear every time I used cotton swabs.

I cleaned it out with the tool, but damn I actually made my hearing WORSE in my right ear, there's still something really really close to my ear drum that I cannot seem to flush out or get close enough to.

So this is a PSA to those who really like to clean their ears with Q-tips, maybe don't go so deep lol.

platinirisms · 2023-11-30T15:23:57+00:00

I usually like to make fun of America, but if there’s one thing I’m jealous off, it’s how well they pay their STEM workers. Nobody I know is making triple digits worth of $ despite a ton of them working in STEM jobs, programmers, software engineers, mechanical engineers, architects, accountants, veterinarians, etc.

Yet the average salary for most of them in USA is triple digits or very close to it.

keebydee · 2023-11-30T15:22:47+00:00

Please link me to the absolutely horrible things women say. 2x is mostly women complaining that men don’t do housework.

I've never seen such a delusional and blatant lie like this here 😂

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-30T15:15:09+00:00

Bro, am I tripping or do NIKE shoes add like 2 inches to height? I tried to call mother and ask but no answer :(

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-30T15:07:17+00:00

How often do you eat cereal for breakfast? What is your typical breakfast and how many times a week do you have it?

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T15:01:51+00:00

Guys ive officially joined the deranged dms club

hannahg000 · 2023-11-30T15:00:28+00:00

are there more submissive men than dominant women?

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T14:59:46+00:00

Guys i want super thin eyebrows

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-30T14:59:12+00:00

Fat 35 year old lady goes on online dating website to talk about how she struggles with dating, is pretty much a femcel, and wants to have kids as soon as possible and is considering a sperm donor

male incels:

lets mock her and post her picture online and insult her weight

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-30T14:52:40+00:00

A reminder to my Americans: Fat is your average.

RevolutionaryPark688 · 2023-11-30T14:51:35+00:00

The real patriarchy is boys chasing girls for love and acceptance.

His mother will love him, but never accept the things she can’t change in him.

His sisters will accept him, but probably die before admitting they love him.

And his first few girlfriends will be too afraid to know him enough to find out if they ever would.

So what does he do? He gathers all the virtueless, superficial and material things of the world, acts superior out of insecurity, and deeply represses his desire just to be held until his sexual tension eats him up from the inside out.

or something like that

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-30T14:45:15+00:00

Men: how dare you post a threat a man sent you on CreepyPMs!!!! That is MISANDRY!!!!

Also men: here is a random single mom/ post wall woman/ chubby lady just existing and asking for a good man on plenty of fish! Let’s post her picture on a forum and write scathing rants about how worthless she is!

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-30T14:44:43+00:00

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Would you love me if I were a moose

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-30T14:43:24+00:00

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If men don’t want us to be accomplished and have careers, why do they get so angry when we tell them $100,000 a year isn’t enough to have a family outside of the south and midwest (even those places are getting expensive)? Why don’t these embittered men go on to become doctors or nurses or engineers and make a higher six figure salary so that they can financially support a woman who doesn’t have accomplishments or a career?

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-30T14:35:28+00:00

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Another thing found on a “red pill men’s” forum. The reason why men hate single moms so much is that they believe single moms should be public property and have no right to reject anyone.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-30T14:26:16+00:00

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Found this on a “red pill” men’s forum. Friendly reminder that any time a woman does anything sexual with a man, all future men believe that they are entitled to it. She lost her virginity to this man at age 19 and he is still angry that she didn’t suck his dick on the first date when she sucked some other guy’s dick on the first date. Men think that they are entitled to that anything that you do as a woman.

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-30T14:12:59+00:00

"It's much more important how you say things than what you say." I heard this in the context of debates (I think Destiny said it), and yea, it's kinda true but it's annoying and dumb as well. I think it apples to men's dating grievances too. Women really do care about how a man makes them feel, the vibes, the charm... but that shit can honestly be just about as silly from my perspective as men liking boobs or like 10/10 Instagram models from a female perspective. On it's own, charms are about as "meaningful" as sexyness. I get it though, it's kind of pleasant, isn't it?

dbz__f · 2023-11-30T14:07:23+00:00

which celebrity do you think you or your partner look like?

My gf doesn't wear make up very often but one time my gf wanted to take some professional photos together and part of the process was they did some professional make up on her and she looked a lot like Karina from AESPA.

Willow-girl · 2023-11-30T14:03:22+00:00

One of the teachers in my section still has her Halloween decorations up! I'm not talking generic things like autumn leaves and gourds, which can hang around for awhile, but actual witches, black cats and spiders. Of course, the sign in front of the school is still wishing everyone a happy Thanksgiving as well! The last school I worked at had a "Welcome back, students" bulletin board in the main entrance that stayed up all year. We're not too on-the-ball out here in Podunk, I'm afraid ...

odd_cloud · 2023-11-30T14:02:39+00:00

I have a question for people who believe that average guys have it all alright with dating. Why do you think so? Have you had any in-depth talks about dating with your male friends? Have you been witness to their successes?

I suspect that in most cases, people see a regular guy and suspect he has it good in dating because why he wouldn't.

Usually the point of view that regular men have it good with dating is pushed by women, who generally know nothing or little about male experiences.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-30T13:58:53+00:00

Should I tell my boss that I have an urgent bowel movement everyday right around the time work starts? I am pretty sure I have IBS, but I got to work early today thinking the bowel movement would happen earlier and here I am 3 minutes before work starts and I feel it coming.

First of all, it's gross to talk about that stuff in person, and second of all I'm scared they'll think I'm making it up. I work from home so I guess I could just work for a while in the bathroom or something.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-30T13:56:19+00:00

Ryan Shazier, former linebacker for the Pittsburgh Steelers who was rendered paraplegic following a bad tackle in 2017 was caught cheating on his wife. A woman who stayed with him while he was paralyzed and jobless and assisted him daily in his rehabilitation so he could walk. If this isn’t the biggest black pill I’ve ever seen.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-30T13:39:44+00:00

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Male Hypergamy in action yet again. This is not from PPD It’s a random post

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-30T13:39:17+00:00

There’s this guy I’ve known for a few years He sends me flowers every year on my birthday and the card always says “a girl like you should always get flowers on her birthday” I always send him a text to say thanks but that’s pretty much it he kinda acts like it’s a joke like lol now it’s just my routine or I have a reminder set exc

I haven’t told him to stop cause I’m shitty but like everyone I tell is like yeah that’s a little weird.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-30T13:36:17+00:00

Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skills

This is how you know PPD people are......... special

(not the good kind of special)

hannahg000 · 2023-11-30T13:34:01+00:00

i finally finished that romance audiobook. i see why it was so popular but i found it kind of boring. there was no magic, no murder, no coup d’etats. that’s why i usually stick to fantasy books

shmupsy · 2023-11-30T13:29:04+00:00

I was out in the world yesterday and saw some young couples where the guy was the 'worse' looking one.

I also saw some chad and stacy couples.

I also saw a chad-lite with a huge fat woman

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-30T13:24:52+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/s/Ys3AYZ73MZ

Lol he ain’t wrong. You really do just have to ignore all the bullshit “rules” and just do your thing.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-30T13:23:16+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1870xoi/ive_been_on_tinder_over_10_years_and_im_still/

I don’t get matches. Matches are usually cornballs flipping off the camera or literally in jail. I think I could do a little bit better.

This seem sus. She's overweight and not very attractive, but still getting no matches beside inmates doesn't seem very believable.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-30T13:05:53+00:00

"I am unable to find someone who wants to have casual sex with me, it's over for me"

"Do you go to bars/clubs?"

"No, I hate nights out"

"Do you go to raves/festivals?"

"Eww no, bunch of degenerate druggies"

"Do you go to any parties?"

"No, not my thing"

"So you don't participate in any activity that is conducive to hooking up?"

"Well women and chads can just go on dating apps and get laid easily if they want to"

"OK, well you're not a woman or a chad, you gotta work with the parameters you got."

"...BUT THAT'S NOT FAIR! I WANT CASUAL SEX WHENEVER I WANT IT WITHOUT LEAVING MY HOME!"

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-30T12:50:29+00:00

What I’m about to say might contradict gods teachings but I love receiving hugs from women (that aren’t my family).

Being a maidenless male ofc rarely puts me in this situation. And when I’m with my bro-dudes we mainly just “dap” each other up and go in for the little bro thing we do (IYKYK).

But maidens are different. If a maiden doesn’t want to hug you she will let you know by either a) being disgusted the act was brought up or b) go in for the side hug which is basically the polite way of saying “you are filth and are lucky I am even giving you this?”

But then you get the rare w maiden who will go in for the full on platonic body hug. These are my favorite maidens as you can tell they are actually happy to be your friend rather then just see you as male fodder. When I receive a hug like this from a maiden it makes my day/week/month at least .25x better then it was.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-11-30T12:48:52+00:00

Why do so many guys try to make fun of my cat when I comment something they disagree with? Like, I'll just say something and all of a sudden I've got comments saying "THATS WHY YOU'RE A CAT LADY" or just talking about how I'll die alone? I figured you guys would have some insight.

(Cat tax for anyone who can see the image:)

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saulbasedman · 2023-11-30T12:28:15+00:00

> casually talk to woman in party/social gathering
> she leaves or goes to other people
> repeat ad infinitum

But I guess the problem is me, right? It always is, no matter what.

Gladboys · 2023-11-30T12:22:34+00:00

i think my current student is going to smash this fucking SAT we started off 6 months ago and his practice score was 1160 and today he did 1560. probably the most improvement i've ever seen.

gonna take him to a steakhouse after the exam to celebrate i hope he does well and gets into an ivy league its his dream and his parents dream

hannahg000 · 2023-11-30T12:17:44+00:00

does anyone here know what the omegaverse is? sometimes when redpillers talk about alphas and betas that’s what i think about and it makes me laugh

WilliamWyattD · 2023-11-30T12:08:26+00:00

This idea that the EEA (Environment of Evolutionary Adaptedness) was this massively polygamous time where women were super picky sexually is wrongheaded. I see no evidence for that. Most of the bottlenecking of male reproductive success was caused by violent deaths, with the biggest bottlenecks coming AFTER the EEA: Post-agricultural revolution but before full on civilization.

Think it through. Humans are too smart, including Beta males you might want to exile from the tribe. They would band together. And can you really see a tribe of 80 hunter gatherers with 40 males and 40 females limiting reproduction to some highly select group of the top men? They lack the means for the top men to properly repress and control the excluded men. Wouldn't happen.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-30T11:58:04+00:00

One thing I don't think I'll ever understand is regretting good deeds. Very often when I talk to female friends, whose relationships never quite worked out, I often hear about their regrets about doing things for their partner like cooking for them or loving them and showing their love. Is this perhaps a version of the "nice guy syndrome" and acting nice solely out of a desire to get what you want, or is it understandable to feel this way because relationships are transactional and they didn't get much back? Is this an entitled attitude perhaps or is this just a symptom of having high standards for relationships? Maybe they have just never done anything really bad in their life that they could truly regret, don't know what that regret truly means and are mistaking their feelings for regret. Have you ever felt this way?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-30T11:57:50+00:00

On the advice "Work on your personality"

On its face, this isn't super helpful. When you're talking to someone on the internet who claims to have self-improved and still had no success, you don't know what their issue is. They could be too talkative, or too taciturn. They could be too confrontational, or too meek. They could be too arrogant, or too self-deprecating. They could be that one person who always has to be right about everything. They could have anger issues. They could be a debbie downer. There's an infinite number of potential personality problems, and almost everyone has some aspect of their personality they could work on that would improve their life and relationships significantly.

The issue, however, is that it's often difficult for people to recognize those problems as problems without outside help. It's important to self-reflect often (without falling into self-flagellation) and even talk to a therapist and/or your loved ones about what they see when they look at you.

dbz__f · 2023-11-30T11:13:26+00:00

Women, would you be upset if you found out your bf/husband was talking with a female co-worker about his sex life and specifically your sex drive?

dbz__f · 2023-11-30T11:12:47+00:00

So I stayed behind after work and ended up chatting with the shy asian female co-worker about relationships and sex for like two hours. :/

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-30T10:53:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/186vhgy/are_my_dating_dealbreakers_too_strict/

These are the most basic, boring standards ever and women will still consider it to be "shallow".

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-30T10:18:23+00:00

The revenge fantasy of "Guy rejects girl who rejected him when they were younger because now she's a used up whores with kids" is so funny to me.

Young boys like to imagine they're Batman, perennially single and bitter men in their 20s/30s like to imagine the above.

But hey, I get it. I have little fantasies that I obsess over too.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-30T09:44:07+00:00

I can't get over this cough. When does this crap go away??

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-30T09:30:20+00:00

I’ve resumed day drinking & I’m actually flinching watching two Thai guys trying to fix my air conditioner. They are hanging onto a plank on my balcony 10 stories up in flip flops but apparently that’s normal here 😬

Gladboys · 2023-11-30T09:23:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Asmongold/comments/16vyrn6/you_can_look_for_excuses_or_be_that_guy/

based glowup

happy_discus · 2023-11-30T09:19:31+00:00

Another question for the pile of stupid questions.

I had a very unusual interaction yesterday. I was walking into the university building and saw a girl I haven't seen in a few months. She talked to me a few times back then. Which is very unusual. So I decided to say Hi to her and ask her about her exams. She seemed very happy to see me and we chatted a bit. At the end she told me I should text/write her she would gladly help me with my exam. I mean other people have offered this as well but not in such a direct way. Normally people say stuff like, if you need help just let me know I can maybe help you. Not stuff like text me I want to help you. I think she's a Tutor too. This would make it even weirder, since no Tutor ever offers anything like this, they are usually very busy.

I don't have her number nor mail or anything. I don't know why she told me to text/write her.

What do I make of this interaction?

Edit: Tutoring at my university is a bit different than in the US. It's more like a extra class you take to understand the subject better. The class is payed by the university and held by other students, mostly Master students. Sometimes Bachelor students get accepted if they are exceptionally good.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-30T08:40:14+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1870ce7/a_saga/

rate this guy, I think he is my looksmatch (at least back when I was 24, I look a bit better now)

He seems to have successfully jestermaxxed though

Longjumping-Store324 · 2023-11-30T08:39:32+00:00

I feel like people here are too aggressive. I deleted my old alt earlier this year, but ended up making this one as my main is used for art commissions and I don't want to lose business due to varying political views.

However, I've had a lot of interactions on here where I will say something and someone will comment "that's so stupid" or "you're an idiot" or something along those lines. I don't think I'm dumb, but I also recognize that there's no humanly way I could ever be right about everything, and I'd be willing to concede that even the stuff I feel most correct about has to have parts that can be reexamined and that I'm maybe misunderstanding.

But here's the thing, nothing makes me feel more inclined to double down and ignore your opinion like overly condescending responses out right dismissing my entire thought process. Before I deleted my old alt I even had a couple times where someone I was in a debate with called me an ass hole out of no where and shut down the conversation only for me to express that I really wasn't trying to be mean and for that person to suddenly make a 180.

People are just mean seemingly because they just assume everyone else is, and when talking about a space ment for debate, that really makes for a toxic environment where nothing gets done. If all you can add to a conversation is "nah, your dumb" then you have no idea how to have a smart, meaningful, and productive conversation.

I've started doing it too and I'm trying not to allow myself to become the thing I don't like about online discourse, but I'm not always successful. I genuinely think "debating" people on here has made me worse at expressing my thoughts and opinions as I now enter all discourse with the expectation that responses are going to be made in bad faith with as much mean-spirited condescension as possible.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-30T08:09:08+00:00

If makeup is fake and deceptive, then is getting rid of body hair also fake and deceptive?

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-30T17:42:50+00:00

Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.

Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skills

Are PPD men Mormons?

you know what they are not?

FUN, they are not fun, that's for sure

hannahg000 · 2023-11-30T06:36:44+00:00

i finally fucking finished this paper 🎉🍾

keebydee · 2023-11-30T07:24:34+00:00

I swear some of the women here are legitimately delusional and crazy. Not the regulars here in the daily thread but the ones who post on the main page.

Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of them

First off, that's just not true. The difference between the two people in each position is crazy. One is choosing to be alone, the other isn't. Plain and simple, I don't really feel like elaborating as that's not my main gripe. What it is the not liking of the 100 suitors. How do you not like not one of the 100 suitors? Like, not even a maybe? How picky do you have to be to not even give ONE guy a chance out of 100?

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-30T18:31:14+00:00

A lot of y'all need to heal from your middle/high school bullying. I promise people in the real world aren't like that....They're worse, sobyou can't head out still wounded.

relish5k · 2023-11-30T18:12:55+00:00

Stay at home mom who’s losing her mind. Seriously How do moms do this??? I am so burnt out! I have a 3yr old, 2yr old, and a 3 month old. I have been a stay at home mom for over 3 years, it was “easier” with one child. Now that I have 3 I don’t know how to stretch myself and do it all, I’m exclusively breastfeeding my 3 month old. My 2 year old wants me constantly, the house is a mess, I haven’t showered, I rarely get a chance to even brush my hair (I do brush my teeth) we don’t leave the house because it’s now winter here and where can I take 3 kids by myself in the freezing cold ?? I have no family in town other than my mother in law who just would rather not help. My husband works. Does it get easier? Can someone please relate to me. How can I make this better? My mental health has been ok but I can feel myself starting to breakdown. Idk who I am. I’m a mom, that’s it. I do nothing for myself everyday it’s all about my kids. I love them and I love my role, I just wanna be better at it.

And this is why I went back to work when my infant was 5 months. Couldn’t pay me to do this (and I only had the 3 year old and the baby)

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-30T06:01:04+00:00

First!

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-30T06:17:46+00:00

Stoicism has been great for my mental health. I longer fear social interactions or asking a woman out because if it doesn’t work out, then it’s not my fault. I have no choice in how people view me or treat me, but I now I don’t feel like I’m walking on eggshells.

bossman146 · 2023-11-30T06:41:29+00:00

Who is the most toxic ppd participant?

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-30T17:25:22+00:00

Wild takes from the ladies today

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-11-30T20:42:04+00:00

It's so weird when I see posts saying "my husband did something nice so I rewarded him with a blowjob!"

Sounds lime the worst possible dynamic. If they don't want me then why would I even want to be in the relationship. The idea of sexual acts as a currency or tool of exchange is so counter to how it should be but people seem to just accept that weird dynamic

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-30T06:38:45+00:00

What's the first thing you think of when you hear the phrase "husband material"? What do you think it means, and what is it supposed to mean

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-30T07:01:57+00:00

I think I broke my rejection speedrun record last night. I said "hello" to a girl at a bar and she nervously nodded with a fake smile and immediately turned back towards her friends. I tasted defeat in less than one second, maybe even less than half a second. Truly impressive stuff.

automaks · 2023-11-30T07:40:22+00:00

I wanted to ask you guys that do you also feel that this sub has shifted more towards black pill now rather than the typical red pill?

I havent checked this sub for a while and I noticed a change but maybe this is just me.

Substantial_Wasabi · 2023-11-30T17:17:03+00:00

One of the cons of having male friends is them constantly asking about women and trying to get with your uninterested female friends

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-30T17:38:47+00:00

The only people that need a key to unlock every door are criminals

saulbasedman · 2023-12-01T01:08:19+00:00

My dad was so nervous on the first date with my mum that he accidentally spilled an entire drink over her. Meanwhile people will still be like: Bro if you don't do exactly this you will never get her!

No, if she wants you, she wants you and it doesn't matter what you do.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-01T04:57:36+00:00

When men here say "lack of accountability (from women)" what do they mean? A handwritten apology letter directed to the universe, asking for forgiveness for their slutty behavior?

If that what they want to see?

keebydee · 2023-11-30T06:00:57+00:00

First 👁👁

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-11-30T06:28:55+00:00

PPD Daily Megathread Drinking Games Rules:

Drink anytime Ainsleygz hornyposts.

What other rules so we need to give us liver failure?

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-11-30T06:55:03+00:00

Fantastic fellow PPDers, do any of you believe Stoicism is about suppressing emotions?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-30T16:58:30+00:00

There is a quote I've seen circulating on TikTok. It is by an author named Bonnie Burstow who wrote a book called "Radical Feminist Therapy: Working in the Context of Violence." The quote goes, "Often father and daughter look down on mother (woman) together. They exchange meaningful glances when she misses a point. They agree that she is not bright as they are, cannot reason as they do. This collusion does not save the daughter from the mother’s fate."

There are a couple things this quote makes me question. The first is why is feminist rhetoric taken as gospel? If men express their experiences, their feelings, their perspective to women it is laughed at and dismissed. It is derided as "manosphere" and "red pill" and looked at as this dangerous and vulgar thing that should not be entertained and surely anything spoken by a man cannot be an accurate retelling of an experience or a world view. The masculine is incorrect by design and this belief that the masculine is inferior is accepted as fact.

The second thing this makes me wonder, which is in relation to the first is what about the plight of the father? The fathers role is that of martyr. As a man, I have often seen the opposite of the aforementioned quote play out. The father is communally despised. The father works long hours to provide for his family, but when the fathers headlights pull into the driveway, the family runs and hides from the father. The father is seen as an imposing and callous figure and is often cast aside as the inferior one in the home. The father is denied experiencing the love that the mother receives as the mother is often the preferred parent.

However, this garners less sympathy than feminist rhetoric does and would be ignored, excused, or dismissed, where as the quote above is not open to be challenged or refuted lest you be labeled a misogynist.

odd_cloud · 2023-11-30T17:06:45+00:00

A couple of thoughts about men not approaching women. Many people often mention that a large proportion of men do not approach women. Usually, people say it to support the the idea that men do nothing and just complain.

In my opinion, guys are reluctant to approach because of their own experiences and conflicting messaging about approaching. I think if a large proportion of guys refuses to do something, which is supposedly natural and not difficult for them, there is some problem around it.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-30T17:19:49+00:00

Take notes my young ones. I have unmatched smoothness. This the girl that had literally just selfies in her room lol.

https://preview.redd.it/84sbxkqoqi3c1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cee50fe0d5203cb5a2f672614dc0d639cc69f5de

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-30T19:35:40+00:00

It’s actually quite easy for men and women to be friends. The key thing is making sure that both parties are having their physical and emotional intimacy needs met outside of the friendship. My best friend is a woman; we met while I was at the peak of my fuckboy phase. Since I was seeing other women at the time and she had a boyfriend, both of our itches were getting scratched elsewhere, allowing us to build a solid foundation of friendship.

Slipthe · 2023-11-30T19:37:59+00:00

How old were you when you understood how babies were made?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-30T20:23:39+00:00

Recently been binge watching police body cam videos on YouTube. Whoever uploads those videos like to use the word "entitled" in the title of the videos, and it has me wonder when has that word became such an everyday word to use?

derektheaccountant · 2023-11-30T20:28:28+00:00

Q4W: Is it really true that once a woman steps out of her home, she is constantly being hounded by men at the grocery store, department store, parking lots, and gyms? I frequent all these places as a guy and I am watching the people around me and I rarely see any man start randomly talking to women.

I rarely see anyone interacting with people outside of their group they were with. The vast majority of people are just going about their day.

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T20:53:17+00:00

Yyyy do my parents have to act so old fashioned like last yr we bought a new printer and i told them to get the laser one and they said "we dont know what that is/how to use it" and now my mom is complaining about constantly buying ink Like i told you so

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T21:16:43+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/stj5ed0axj3c1.jpeg?width=988&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71c5aa3c2d6f1a3e96a0bfc292524eecfa605940

saulbasedman · 2023-11-30T23:34:15+00:00

Still mad at my parents for actively discouraging me of getting a side job during 2021. Could've met lots of girls and potential friends. Job at a supermarket or retail would've done me well. I know guys who know a lot of people just by doing those jobs.

Every year I am more sad how much I listen(ed) to my parents and rebelled so little. Stupid me for thinking that people that are 36 years older than you must have some life experience.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-01T03:01:59+00:00

mALE AttEntIOn Is wOrthLEss, women said.

Meanwhile women go to the club just to get male attention, where male attention is the core attraction:

where it's all about finding shallow short-term fun in alcohol and men who are all over you

It's like they can't have fun without alcohol and men gathering to them

She even used to enjoy male attention, presumably when she was single, but when she stopped being able to indulge in it, she stopped liking it:

I actually used to find fun in drinking alcohol and hanging out in that way

https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/184y187/my_friends_only_ever_want_to_get_drunk_or_go/

DM_ME_YOUR_HUSBANDO · 2023-12-01T04:25:03+00:00

https://dkras.substack.com/p/sex-differences-attractiveness-and

Here's some more data that a Texas speed dating service released. Most of it is the standard stuff that I don't think anyone here would be surprised by. The main data point that makes men look shallow is that 75% of men enjoyed their dates with the most attractive women, where as only 21% of men enjoyed their dates with the least attractive women. 40% of women enjoyed their dates with the most attractive men, but only 20% with the least attractive men.

The rest of the data does it make it seem like women have higher and more unrealistic expectations of men. But also that men do like casual sex a lot more than women.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-01T05:46:15+00:00

i find mothers saying online that they worry their sons could turn out to be rapists or abusers to be so sad. you cannot properly love a child if you worry he will turn out to be a monster.

there are also women who have said they will abort male fetuses since they don’t think they could love a male child because of their fear of men. these women should simply never have children.

i assume this is a very small portion of women who feel this way but it’s such a horrible line of thinking that i hope these women never reproduce until they get help for their trauma

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-12-01T06:05:03+00:00

I dropped a paper plate in front of my guitar amp, apparently dollar general paper plates resonate with E

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CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-30T07:22:40+00:00

waifu-pilling men would solve the loneliness epidemic...

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-30T17:44:29+00:00

How can you blame a bro for trying to keep peace? -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/187gsom/guy_friend_is_apolitical_and_neutral_when_it/

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-30T19:43:09+00:00

What’s a style of clothing the opposite sex could wear that is an absolute turn off. (I hate street wear)

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-30T19:49:46+00:00

Just saw a reel for a soap that makes your vagina and butthole “lightened & pinker”

Has porn really ruined men so much that they have expectations on the color?

I’m sorry but with me you get what you get lmao

Dizzirron · 2023-11-30T20:21:59+00:00

What do y'all think of that TwoX sub? A lot of ladies in there are writing not only posts, but hateful multi paragraph comments mirroring the same manifestos as domestic terrorists. I'm positive these intense loathing and highly upvoted "not all men/all men" posts would be a ban if it was any other group. (race/gender)

leosandlattes · 2023-11-30T20:37:48+00:00

Good day/morning to everyone who:

Regularly comments on posts in PPD
Likes giving oral
Sets multiple alarms just to wake up, OR
Gave their pet a normal human name

exponentialtaxi · 2023-11-30T20:45:31+00:00

Is there a space(Reddit or off reddit) to talk about black pill natured stuff that's not either doom and gloom or overly optimistic? A good examples is r/short, people are either like "it's jover if you're short" or "height literally doesn't matter"

I have done therapy and they're the same way

its-probly-over · 2023-11-30T21:06:12+00:00

I have 15 pairs of trainers and i actively only wear 3

ratboi34 · 2023-11-30T21:08:44+00:00

What is the most romantic thing you have ever done? What is the most romantic thing someone else has done for you?

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-30T21:40:48+00:00

I feel like Gen Z/young millennials are drawn to extremes, especially in the dating world. One side seems to be very progressive and sex-positive, and one side is very traditional. I’m somewhere in the middle and it doesn’t seem like there’s a lot of people here. My parents are conservative, but sex-positive, and that’s how I ended up. I don’t thinking sleeping around is for me, but I also don’t want to end up as a doormat of a wife who is borderline abused by her husband. I don’t really care about what anyone else does either. It doesn’t seem like most of my fellow Gen Zers are this reasonable.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-30T22:29:23+00:00

There are two types of women. Women that look like they take a shit and women that look like they don't.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-30T23:02:13+00:00

On Sunday I made potato and ham au gratin, and then on Monday I made a roast chicken. With the left over heavy cream I made us french toast for breakfast a couple times, and then on Wednesday I used the chicken carcass to make a stock which I then used the rest of the heavy cream and chicken to make chicken and dumplings.

Oh, and I also know how to fold a fitted sheet.

Rate my SMV please 🥰

monster_lily · 2023-12-01T00:26:48+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvbcL5u/

Guys when i have a daughter this is how shes gonna dress this is so adorbsss i love 60s fashion frfr

monster_lily · 2023-12-01T00:29:09+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvbsMbt/

Guys does anyone speak german bc this song sounds evil af

milkwater-jr · 2023-12-01T00:33:56+00:00

I'm a incel ama

monster_lily · 2023-12-01T00:46:19+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvb9v4d/

What is this aesthetic

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-12-01T03:47:01+00:00

Ever notice how most guys with girlfriends aren’t just taller, but like a full head taller? That’s nearly 6 inches. So if you’re 5’6 like me, the max height I could realistically hope for is like 5’ even. That’s such a small percentage of the population where I live, and that’s before taking into account literally anything else, like personality, compatibility, and other physical requirements.

I haven’t fully given up yet, but it pisses me off how truly small my chances are just because of my genetics. It’s hard not to fall into bitterness and despair.

2_SD_left_of_mean · 2023-11-30T06:13:42+00:00

okay so i was at work and this girl who is like the only girl on the floor, just a few years older than me, was helping me with something in my office space, right. so i was sitting at my desk typing and clicking and then all of a sudden she starts stretching. like typical leg and hip stretches that an athlete would do warming up. mind you she is standing like 4-5 feet away from me. we never talked before, only some awkward eye contact if we walked by each other. i feel kind of confused. what to do? i'm lonely and it's messing with my ability to think properly

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-30T06:49:48+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFBQDJOqioY

I’m just gonna listen and be quiet but this is what I’m listening to.

ShoulderSpiritual333 · 2023-11-30T08:08:09+00:00

I live in Denmark and have a large, diverse social circle here in the 2nd largest city of the country. I have noticed a quite interesting thing: it seems at least 60-70% of all Muslims I know, mostly Middle Eastern and East African, are married by 25, and many also have a couple of kids at that age. Meanwhile, very, very few ethnic Danish people are married at 25 and no one I know have children at that age. Many of my Danish friends, men and women, complain and vent frequently about the lack of suitable partners for long term relationships, and problems they have regarding dating.
Meanwhile, none of my Muslim friends really have the same issue. Most of them also dated casually in their youth, just like the Danes, but when it came to marriage they didn’t have any troubles of finding a partner, and those who did have trouble, quickly found one through their community. "Incels" don't exist among the Muslim community. And the divorce rate is also extremely low in their community, compared to ethnic Danes. I talked with a couple of my Muslim friends about this, and said that this might be due to different societal expectations, and difficulty of getting divorced for women. They however said that their marriages, unlike most Western marriages, weren’t based on initial attraction and lust, but about shared values regarding faith, family, and commitment. This made them much more stable compared to Western marriages.

DarayRaven · 2023-11-30T16:41:42+00:00

"What's the first thing you think of when you hear the phrase "husband material"? What do you think it means, and what is it supposed to mean"

Betabuxx

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-30T16:48:48+00:00

Would you try to date if you were a single parent? I've already decided that if my bf and I ever split up that he's it. I might have casual sex, but I wouldn't want another relationship for multiple reasons.

DarayRaven · 2023-11-30T17:00:41+00:00

The most purple-pill thing guys here will try to do, is think they can go from being friend-zoned to getting a relationship, when the truth is there's no such thing as a friend-zone but a rejection zone

If she says "let's just be friends" you already know what she means

scwizard · 2023-11-30T17:12:13+00:00

I remember growing up in Germany they had xxx rated tv shows on TV after 9pm... They had talk shows that talked about sex and in them they showed all these Sex Clubs and Swinger Clubs in the USA... Since I've moved to the USA I have not heard about a single place like it since. Those places would probably also be the first to have the morality police sent their way.

US has plenty of swingers clubs though, there's the internet these days you can search them on Google.

DarayRaven · 2023-11-30T17:40:38+00:00

"A couple of thoughts about men not approaching women. Many people often mention that a large proportion of men do not approach women. Usually, people say it to support the the idea that men do nothing and just complain"

Cold approaches only works in sexual zones otherwise it's dead at least nowadays

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-30T17:45:15+00:00

Being a good guy who does 50% of the chores is beta behaviour

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/187b1hw/for_american_heterosexual_women_whose/

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-30T17:56:15+00:00

why is it that men are more prone to getting porn addictions? and women get addicted to their vibrator blah blah but that's different to being addicted to visual content?

a feminist take would probably be that porn is catered to the male gaze so women don't watch but just seems meh of a theory

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-30T18:02:05+00:00

Genuinely can't tell if this is how I am supposed to feel or if this is mild adderall withdrawals. Feeling really dazed and sluggish and dizzy but not enough to like, be sick.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-30T18:15:43+00:00

Men and women can't be platonic friends. That's the simple truth

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/187crg0/im_so_fucking_sick_of_men_not_understanding_that/

its-probly-over · 2023-11-30T18:31:34+00:00

Don't think i want kids but imagining a little me running around would just be fucking crazy. Little shit V 2.0

Patrickstarho · 2023-11-30T18:31:38+00:00

Are we in a sassy man apocalypse?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-30T18:40:31+00:00

The ultimate masculine dream is to own a loud, fast, fuel gazzling, pollutant emitting, down force monster of a supercar.

This is the way

Slipthe · 2023-11-30T19:03:46+00:00

Lol I am reminded of how much women bitch about IUD insertion being painful.

Like yeah it's not a good feeling, it's a lot of alien sensation, it's a lot of internal cramping, but I swear half of women's problem with IUDs is that they are anticipating the pain so much and are unable to relax themselves. Diaphragm control is so important during something like that.

That painful 4 minutes is worth the 5-10 years of never having to think about birth control, y'all are quitters.

That's just me.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-30T19:26:33+00:00

Dr. Orion Taraban has been killing it in this debate, I just a most recent collaboration with "Fit and Fresh" (whatever the fuck they are suppose to be, kinda Howard Stern shock jocks of the RP movement?)

He nails everything, but I think what he said about what the secret sauce to attract women is... fame. Attention from others.

It may be mixed up with being competent in a hierarchy that "matters", but it's not even competency. It's just simply fame. Women are whores for fame. Fame is to women as what sex is to men. That's what gets the kitten purring for them.

What a mindfuck.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-30T19:32:59+00:00

I don't understand why men would freak out over high divorce rates initiated by women. Like the divorced midlife crisis aeathetic is so hot. I would feel scammed if my wife didn't divorce me, so I could trauma bond with some young waitress with abandonment issues and live my life like I'm living a teenage fantasy. Men need to start aestheticizing their lifes.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-30T20:43:00+00:00

Q4All: You know what it's time for...

Did you work out this week?

Equivalent_Term_6319 · 2023-11-30T20:45:26+00:00

Should I jerk off in a public washroom?

CasseroleTruck · 2023-11-30T21:00:45+00:00

You know one of the most depressing things I realized especially from all the time online spent during COVID is that mainstream news and conventional wisdom, as lacking as it is, is actually more likely your best and safest bet. I honestly think the vast majority of alternative news and information sources, eg articles, editorials, youtube advice, health advice, podcasts, are worse and even more biased, not to mention coming from people with even stronger agendas and less qualifications. They are at best a waste of time or using roundabout ways to state the obvious, and grossly misleading at worst. It's like anything else indie. People suck the dick of indie movies and games b/c of the idea that it's free from corporate restraints and there's more free reign of creativity but 99% of it is garbage.

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T21:18:41+00:00

I love them so much honestly

https://preview.redd.it/0hxlr82kxj3c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c483fa7076d5300294ec259157500479a0d7be7a

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T21:47:59+00:00

Guys why do so many people have that one avatar where it looks like a white cat/animal with red eyes Ive counted like 200 ppl

its-probly-over · 2023-11-30T22:03:15+00:00

Just got 80% on a mock test whilst simultaneously scrolling and talking shit on reddit. Different breed?

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T22:09:34+00:00

PPD is Evil

leosandlattes · 2023-11-30T22:12:49+00:00

Drop your MBTI so I can judge whether it fits you or not

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-30T22:22:26+00:00

me: exasperated grimace in my face, trying to bread my home made chicken nuggets

husband: sitting on kitchen counter next to me, "you really don't like cooking."

me: "Nope, I loathe it. If it was up to me we'd just order in."

husband: hops down, slaps me on the ass, "Weird. Welp, kiddo and I would like ranch dressing with our nuggets." proceeds to walk out of the kitchen

.....

why do men?

If I posted this anecdote anywhere else on reddit I'd get 1000+ comments telling me to divorce my husband and get sole custody because he's absolutely a narcissistic, sociopathic, chauvinistic, misogynistic abusive monster. lol.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-30T22:40:14+00:00

Ok so everyone agrees to acknowledge that human beings overall are "shallow" physically. What changes? If you're really ugly facially and fat do you suddenly feel better now that everyone agrees your biggest problem when it comes to finding a partner is because you aren't nice to look at?

Great as a society we now acknowledge not everyone who is homeless is that way because they are a lazy drug addict. Does that mean anyone will do anything? No. So what's the goal here.

saraimarsena · 2023-11-30T22:40:16+00:00

i like my job so much that i volunteer myself to work overtime

i end up doing things that i really shouldn’t be expected to do simply because i enjoy doing them

i’m really grateful that i’m in a space that brings me so much joy

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-30T22:55:11+00:00

My birthday is in a week, and I’m think some of my single friends would be a good fit for each other. I’m going to try to play Cupid and see how this goes…

bossman146 · 2023-11-30T22:56:50+00:00

If someone has a preference for a certain trait that is not common in their area or in general, how can they deal with that? Like especially if they know it’s limiting their dating options but feel like they can’t “escape” from it. Do they hold out until “their type” comes along or should they accept that you don’t always get what you want? Or do they end up learning to appreciate and even end up preferring the options presented to them?

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-30T22:57:38+00:00

I've almost finished cooking and now we had a large batch of fried rice with shrimp (again, but last time it was pasta and it's not my fault we haven't done grocery shopping) and some baked corn and broccoli. And then no cooking till next week which is nice.

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T23:23:17+00:00

Right like this is what ive been saying like once you graduate, get married and have a kid theres not really that much stuff left exciting in ur life,,,

https://preview.redd.it/xfczzefqjk3c1.jpeg?width=759&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b4adf75ebab49018f53a4dd4a19195757e82a5d5

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-30T23:23:46+00:00

Is youtube music over spotify an ick

sirbumposfabroci · 2023-12-01T00:01:53+00:00

Should I try to make friends/date even if I don't want to?

monster_lily · 2023-12-01T00:06:45+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvbT6ve/

This is actually unfair i want to go to a debutante ball Y did i have to be born not royal smhhhhhhhhhh 🙄 Money is the most important thing in the world tbh 💯

sirbumposfabroci · 2023-12-01T00:10:51+00:00

fat ppl are just addicted to soda. The fat ppl I know I see for like 5% of their day and they are drinking a soda half the time. My roommate has 2 empty xl coke drinks, 1 medium ginger ale and a powerade on his desk. Idk how I ever drank that disgusting syrup. Diet coke is much better.

sirbumposfabroci · 2023-12-01T00:13:04+00:00

there is no such thing as not reaching your potential. If you had the potential then you would have done it.

sirbumposfabroci · 2023-12-01T00:16:06+00:00

take the redpill: we were brainwashed into buying shampoo by society. Hair is much better without shampoo.

its-probly-over · 2023-12-01T00:35:25+00:00

Going amsterdam with a few bros next week. If i don't post here again its cus i burnt the rest of my functioning braincells ,and probly stuck thinking that im a sunflower in the local mental asylum. LIT

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-01T01:01:44+00:00

People who have or want kids, would you rather be childless or have children who are complete disappointments?

Gladboys · 2023-12-01T01:02:41+00:00

https://youtu.be/pQsF3pzOc54

such a banger

saulbasedman · 2023-12-01T01:21:42+00:00

Last schizo post before I go to bed. Can we agree that the dominant and most established group of a society is the one that reports the highest life satisfaction?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-01T01:43:07+00:00

Time is so much slower not on adderall. This is a huge pain in the ass

chilikettlechips · 2023-12-01T02:23:44+00:00

Q4W: is a happy ending even cheating?

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/187lexy/my_boyfriend_27m_revealed_he_got_a_happy_ending/

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-01T02:40:18+00:00

Arguing online about dating is a lot less emotionally draining, frustrating and upsetting than arguing online about politics.

But I notice a lot of ppl on here get really tired and irritated arguing about dating. I guess it depends on your level of investment and how much you feel like you're losing.

monster_lily · 2023-12-01T02:48:12+00:00

Guys tbh im not a fan of long hair anymore ofc i still like it but its not like that attractive anymore. Bc when i see guys irl with actual long hair 9/10 it just looks messy like its a sign of poor hygiene tbhh. As a man your hair should be like just above your shoulders

monster_lily · 2023-12-01T02:54:02+00:00

Ok my thing is why are there barely any lgbt here like why is everyone here straight.....Like Im surprised gay relationships arent really discussed here

monster_lily · 2023-12-01T03:07:07+00:00

BAN all men from wearing nike tech so fucking ugly I could literally burn it

https://preview.redd.it/ztgnzdpsnl3c1.png?width=513&format=png&auto=webp&s=e3e7576b7f8d2ea41250cf6bc1e1ff547f7104a0

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-01T03:22:56+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ZSdNfUCdEaM

cher in the 70s gotta be a 10/10 right. is she just girlpretty

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-12-01T04:17:10+00:00

Word of the day: "irrumation"

scwizard · 2023-12-01T04:38:08+00:00

https://static01.nyt.com/images/2023/11/03/multimedia/03xp-bezos-miami/03xp-bezos-miami-mobileMasterAt3x.jpg?quality=75&auto=webp&disable=upscale&width=600

One of the richest dudes in the world really into braless girls with lip injections?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-01T05:46:55+00:00

Q4M what are your thoughts on labioplasty

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-30T18:58:11+00:00

Q4All: What would you rate the woman in this video?

https://youtu.be/wg-0QNHkaC8?si=y9nXK1J57ueoalHS

I think she’s really pretty btw so I’d say a 8 for me.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-01T00:53:46+00:00

Is a 5’10” height requirement unreasonable for a 5’7” woman?

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lets mock her and post her picture online and insult her weight

nothing

nothing