Daily Community Chat Megathread

potoricco · 2023-08-14T21:52:09+00:00

I had a new achievement today. I did a handstand (with a spotter) and held it for 10 seconds. this is the first time I’ve ever done a handstand successfully in my life. When I get home I’m going to practice it against the wall now that I know what it feels like

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-14T21:43:12+00:00

Unpopular opinion: Some men are stupid enough to befriend women in the hopes she’ll fall in love with him like some sappy ass movie.

old_new_age · 2023-08-14T21:02:42+00:00

monthly fringe anti-blackpill case

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-14T20:51:25+00:00

Women who get fuckzoned, they were not lead on they lead themselves on. Similar to guys who simp and get friendzoned. They did it to themselves.

Women complaining about fuck boys, upset not getting commitment, Facebook group “are we dating the same men.” Are all result of women shooting above their their level; they are just vindictive and bitter women who feel entitled to relationship.

Those women are the equivalent of incels.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-08-14T20:43:33+00:00

Come here, big tits. Come here, big tits. Your tits belong to me. Give them to me (indiscernible). I want to claim my tits. I want to claim my tits. I want to claim my tits. These are my tits,

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-14T20:35:29+00:00

Last weekend I felt like I got to spend time with my dad again. With the person he was when he was younger. He fell into a rough place when he turned 55, it seemed like he was trying to hold tight onto things that he believed made him masculine and successful, trying to forget about the sides of himself people actually liked. Last weekend he was more like himself. He talked about his interests and goals and was genuinely happy about me being there. We went to see a garden on our way back, he smelled all the flowers and asked me about them.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-14T20:33:30+00:00

"What would a society in which all men are redpilled look like"

This is actually quite interesting since l've said before that most men have a Bluepilled conditioning where it starts from their early childhood years

Since most of their teachers are female and many being raised by single mothers, so most men have a mental of origin of putting women first or least in their top priorities

Now if every men knew the inner sexual dynamics of humans aka "redpilled" then there probably wouldn't even be a redpill to begin with

But my predictions are the economy collapsing and porn going at a all-time low consumption

Maffioze · 2023-08-14T20:33:13+00:00

I fucking hate heatwaves.

scwizard · 2023-08-14T20:32:23+00:00

Tons of email threads, dirty, describing their acts. As recent as this afternoon. I kicked him out for the night and 100% will not try to hold onto this marriage. He was talking to exes and women when we first got together but I tried to work through that with him. Unfortunately he hasn't changed in a decade even with a child and one on the way.

So he was sexting exes then they first got together. Yet not only did she stay with him she had two children with him.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-14T20:29:51+00:00

If a girl is thin and wears no makeup/light natural makeup but plain Jane clothing like regular jeans and a shirt, she is seen as less attractive than the girl who is thin wearing ig style makeup, manicure pedicure done, lashes, tan skin, fitted tight outfit ect.

The crazy thing is it could be the same girl that guy doesn't even notice when she is plain vs when she is all made up he thinks she's hot.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-14T20:16:32+00:00

Do you go to sleep with your phone in your bed or do you put it out of reach when going to sleep ?

Exotic-Frame1830 · 2023-08-14T19:56:31+00:00

barber fucked my shit up again

tendrils87 · 2023-08-14T19:46:55+00:00

There are some ugly women out there that have absolutely fantastic bodies

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-14T19:23:03+00:00

Someone has to be the asshole so I’m going to be that asshole, men really do mean fuck unattractive men when they complain about high standards in women. The rest of the men here are going to pretend and try their best to be as PC as possible but they mean ugly.

ashpr0ulx · 2023-08-14T19:20:21+00:00

trying to take up meditating but i fall asleep almost every time

SorryEm · 2023-08-14T19:15:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fefc0avefm3ib1.jpg

I hate how much I'm a slave to my will and instincts as a man. This individual here is a methhead, doing meth is already a large moral failing, yet my testicles are like "DOOD SO HOT SEX SEX SEX SEX". Why am I cursed?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-14T19:14:17+00:00

The happiness of man is : I will.

The happiness of woman is : He will.

scwizard · 2023-08-14T19:10:51+00:00

To preserve you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes; for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread

Damn hookers used to be cheap.

I could get like 60 loafs for the price of a prostitute these days.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-14T19:01:23+00:00

Who is telling women they have to fuck men they don't want to fuck?

Who is telling women they are REQUIRED to have sex with unattractive men?

Who? I want examples, please.

Women: Has anyone ever come up to you and said "I am unattractive man, and you are REQUIRED to have sex with me"?

This is a strawman, and I think women who post here know it.

No, what's actually happening is that you turn men down, and then they won't interact with you anymore, and you're all pissed off about the fact that these men won't let you use or exploit them anymore. You're all pissed off that you can't get some of these men to orbit you. You're all pissed off that these men are on to you and have figured out your game, and won't play anymore.

THAT is what's happening.

No one is saying that any women have to fuck men they're not sexually attracted to. Absolutely NO ONE is saying that. What men ARE saying is

--be honest about that from the jump

--men don't owe you anything

--men's sanity is more important than women's hurt feelings over a friendship that had to end because she is sexually uninterested.

--You aren't owed friendship

--It's fine that you're sexually uninterested. There are consequences for that, primarily that we aren't going to interact with you.

Not one fucking man here is saying women are required to fuck men they don't want to fuck. That's a ridiculous strawman you're using to shame men who refuse to be treated like shit. Men don't owe you a goddamn thing. It's fine that you don't want to offer men anything; but then don't get all pikachu faced that men won't offer you anything either - not even polite treatment (which you aren't entitled to either). And not one goddamn person here is saying you have to fuck unattractive men. NOT ONE.

gabejohn · 2023-08-14T18:47:31+00:00

Why do so many people (especially women) delude themselves into thinking that women in specific niches (gaming, anime) aren't just as attracted to the default top 20% of men as normal women?

I'm guessing it's a way of providing hope to genetically inferior men.

Wonderful-Advisor112 · 2023-08-14T18:32:12+00:00

why are PPD's posting rules so complicated ? i tried like 10 variations of my posts but they all get flagged as ''shitpost'' ?! anyone have any idea what to do next ? i messaged the mods , it's been close to 24 hours , no reply...

GoldenHornyChicken · 2023-08-14T18:20:39+00:00

Hubby is putting to bed our crying, teething, extremely unsatisfied baby, and he's doing it like a champ. And that, my friends, is the secret of a long LTR and a lasting through the years sex life. Presence at home, dedication, partnership.

old_new_age · 2023-08-14T18:20:22+00:00

Q4W: what do you think of the first 40 seconds of this set? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9u0-o0fNORg

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-14T18:19:49+00:00

I'm really looking forward to the next thread by Johnny_Autism. His hot takes always generate a lot of engagement.

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mummydontknow · 2023-08-13T21:01:08+00:00

Fuck reddit for killing 3rd party apps.

How am I supposed to conveniently vote manipulate now that I have to use the same app for all of my accounts?

mummydontknow · 2023-08-13T21:05:49+00:00

Recommend me ridiculous shirt designs to wear while hitting on women.

I wanna gauge where I stand on the Chadometer.

Unavoidable-Tomato · 2023-08-13T21:18:21+00:00

I miss r/chadfish

social_mules_alt · 2023-08-13T21:20:11+00:00

Who started the rumor that hot women love bikers? Biker women are some of the least attractive bitches on the planet. Nice people though (except the 3% ers).

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-08-13T21:24:42+00:00

I get dissed for admitting I was wrong about something and that RP is right. I get dissed for saying I was right about something and that RP was wrong. I must be doing something right if I'm pissing off both sides.

tvear · 2023-08-13T21:25:36+00:00

Just saw this funny article about lesbian couples seeking gay men to “coparent” with. It concludes

“In our experience, co-parenting seems to overwhelmingly appeal to cis women, trans men and non-binary people assigned female at birth. Without any exhaustive studies on this, I can only guess why. Statistics around sexuality and income are sparse, but – as of 2017, at least – gay men in the US were earning significantly more than lesbians. At a time when having kids has become a luxury for many, one of the appeals of co-parenting is being able to share the financial burden.”

So these women want a sperm donor who is also going to take care of the kid half of the time and pay for everything lol. And they’re surprised that there aren’t a lot of gay men eager to take that deal.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/aug/13/queer-couple-co-parents-raise-child

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-13T21:26:03+00:00

Since the surprising success of my last comment, fat people when did you start getting fat? Like I am 25 now and doing good, when should I expect not seeing my penis.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-13T21:26:12+00:00

The only thing I've had up my cooter is that speculum thing they use for pap tests, so is my n-count 0.5 or how does this work

DerayRevan · 2023-08-13T21:27:32+00:00

"What makes a woman attractive"

For me:

Looks

Nice personality

Satisfying me

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-13T21:30:15+00:00

Inspired by the thread posted a couple hours ago: What’s the worst behavior you’ve seen someone (of either gender) get away with because they were hot?

philseven12 · 2023-08-13T21:43:44+00:00

women eat hot chip and lie

potoricco · 2023-08-13T21:44:18+00:00

I just …. Don’t understand kids at all. my brother has been complaining that he wants friends, we went to a cookout today, I found one boy close to his age and made them introduce themselves

Only for my brother to text me telling me I’m the worst sister ever because he wanted friends that were “different from him” as in different ethnicities

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-13T21:57:47+00:00

Why do most women have a problem with RPers calling themselves alpha males yet they call themselves goddesses and Queens?

Business-Ad-5344 · 2023-08-13T22:01:03+00:00

young people here come up with a reasonable view: such as that childhood socialization is important for things outside of dating, like making money and being generally successful in life.

when you're older, you realize that these people find a way to become successful despite being socially very awkward.

when you're older you'll have had some weird bosses, know some weird rich people, etc.

these weird dudes find a way. they run a comic book shop or something. they have their niches where they have specialized skills and knowledge.

if you watch silicon valley, you'll see how some of these weird people can become billionaires.

Laniekea · 2023-08-13T22:05:31+00:00

The Barbie movie was very sexually st towards men.

Spoilers

Let's talk about the duality of "Barbie Land" in comparison to "Kendom".

The movie opens in a feminist paradise. Everything is oriented and designed around Barbie. They hold all power in government and are the only ones recognized for achievements. The Ken's are subjugated to a sexist ideal where their self worth is predicated on "whether barbie looks at him". They are accessories to Barbie and are happy to fight over Barbie in jealous battles. Ken is left out to dry as barbie engages in girls night. At one point "weird barbie" says something like: "I'd like to see what he's packing in those pants" which objectifies Ken.

This is fine for a movie, so long as it addresses it in the conclusion. It's a problem that needs to be fixed.

Later the inverse land is created "Kendom" where barbie gets a taste of her own medicine. It's the direct inverse of "Barbie Land" where now women are subjugated to a role, objectified, and are happy to idolize men. The world is designed for Ken. The men hold all the power in government and are the only ones recognized for their achievements. Barbie is left out to dry as Ken has boys night leaving Barbie with some heavy truths.

At this point I was very hopeful. "Maybe this movie is not sexist and it will come to a fair conclusion" was my hope...

Nope.

In the conclusion the Barbie's take no responsibility for their abuse to the Kens and fail to recognize they are equally culpable. They subvert democracy to create an all female vote and offer Kens a minor role in government expecting Ken to "work their way up" to equality while giving themselves a free pass. The movie seems to accept Barbie taking no responsibility for her actions as a valid outcome.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-13T22:06:36+00:00

Husband: Wins two Tour de France’s in a row in dominant fashion

His wife:

HolidayWhile · 2023-08-13T22:17:26+00:00

Finally discovered a real nightclub and it contained plenty of under-30 women, something I don't think I have ever seen in public before.

If this is what all the 20-somethings are doing, then I now identify as 40.

Business-Ad-5344 · 2023-08-13T22:25:16+00:00

what exactly is "average." It has actually come up in various forums several times.

i separate a group of guys into good looking and bad looking. Then the good looking group becomes "average."
i rate every guy, and use this rating system to calculate the average score. people close to the average score are roughly what is "average".

keebydee · 2023-08-13T22:42:40+00:00

Women absolutely hate those of us with social deficiencies. Even the ones with the same deficiencies. If you're not neurotypical then you don't deserve to date in their eyes.

NoVisual1552 · 2023-08-13T22:49:26+00:00

just got back from a first date with a guy who approached me on the street. turns out he is 10 years older, has a child, is unemployed and is usually more into asian women.
this was my 3rd time giving a stranger from the street a chance, everytime these men turned out to be total weirdos. nothing like this has ever happend to me with other dates. realistically, do normal men still walk around and approach women on the street or is that a general red flag?

Luciansleep · 2023-08-13T22:50:06+00:00

It’s “sex work is real work” until a hypothetical man uses their services then it’s apparently “faulty consent”

Can we just start treating women like adults and not something that needs protection 24/7?

baiser_vole · 2023-08-13T23:27:56+00:00

Okay, this is kind of a relief. My boyfriend's mom apparently remembers how spoiled I am/was. Less surprises for her.

potoricco · 2023-08-13T23:43:02+00:00

Guys lately I’ve been getting more into doll collecting and, I went to the thrift store and found 2 naked vintage barbies from the 80s, and then my dad was like wtf is that, and I said dolls and he looks so disappointed

I wish people understood me and my hobbies

BirdMedication · 2023-08-13T23:56:28+00:00

Feels like I've been spoiled by subtitles because now anytime I'm watching a movie without them I miss a lot of words here and there

potoricco · 2023-08-14T00:04:40+00:00

I TALKED TO A BOY JUST NOW

I THINK I WAS BEING FLIRTED WITH

md8716 · 2023-08-14T00:08:19+00:00

I find it incredibly weird how childfree people on reddit have this tendency to insert themselves into completely unrelated conversations or even just other conversations about kids, just let everyone know how great it is to childfree.

It's like "uh ok cool story bro, so anyway..."

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-14T00:18:30+00:00

italian cheesecake is the best version of cheesecake

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-14T00:24:53+00:00

Q4A how do you feel about mullets? Personally I love em 😫 I want all the guys with mullets.

Kind of want a mullet wig myself

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-14T00:30:02+00:00

I seriously believe that if most people here met their dream/perfect spouse, they’d never know it. Too much internet has destroyed the capacity for delayed gratification. The notion of compromise is basically dead. And I think consumerism has tricked many here to view their spouse as some sort of ornament or product. The things I see on this board disturb me greatly.

tall_rockxs · 2023-08-14T00:38:09+00:00

I’m confused so this sub is not banned anyone? I was finally relieved that it was so I didn’t have to see fragile men’s cringe takes

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-14T00:44:11+00:00

Just found out a girl I had a fling with a couple months ago was hiding a boyfriend the whole time. Not sure how I should feel about that.

hannahg000 · 2023-08-14T00:47:33+00:00

the semester is starting soon. time to become an academic weapon again 🦾😠

going for semester 5/5 with a 4.0

purplish_possum · 2023-08-14T00:56:36+00:00

I'm staying in touch with the common people. I'm changing my wiper blades in a Walmart parking lot. Wearing my cammo baseball cap for full effect.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-14T01:11:15+00:00

I think the idea of looksmaxxing is great, but there are a couple things I find odd with the community.

1.) There isn't very much maxxing going on, it's just describing what features are attractive. What is the point of watching QOVES if there isn't any actionable advice.

2.) It is odd how these people use male models as the standard as opposed to men women are vocal about being attracted to. I see a lot of attention being given to Pedro Pascal, Penn Badgley, and Cillian Murphy. Most women aren't going to know who Sean O'Pry is.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-08-14T01:17:15+00:00

We should have a weekly viewing party for shows like Love After/during Lockup and 90 Day. The discussion would be gold.

potoricco · 2023-08-14T01:46:27+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/eyfjqfvzdzhb1.jpeg?width=2048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a63716a0ebbfc99affcb5fd1f274a53800e0a32e

😍

The other has fucked up hair but that’s ok

tendrils87 · 2023-08-14T02:08:38+00:00

If you like Tenacious D and System of a Down, check this out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ZFz8_5Gh1k

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-14T02:09:03+00:00

I figured it out. Men are talking my ears off because they are interpreting my fixed gaze upon them as intense interest. I can’t hear well so I learned by default to read lips decades ago. I had honestly forgotten that I do that automatically.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-14T02:38:56+00:00

I’m reading the book Princess by Jean Sasson, a true story about the life of a princess in Saudi Arabia in the 1970’s or 80’s (I believe). And it sounds like a misogynistic man’s wet dream.

Leather_Fishing_8706 · 2023-08-14T03:07:11+00:00

Finally hit my stride with my career, making $180k per year base salary as an attorney at 26. And it just seems like women in in their early 20s couldn’t give less of a shit about that. Just one more anecdotal point against careermaxxing.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-14T03:07:24+00:00

GUYS MY FAVORITE FRUIT WAS FINALLY AT THE STORE!!! this is the best day of my life

physious · 2023-08-14T03:13:07+00:00

Does anybody else prefer to be called "niche attractive" than just conventionally attractive? I'm not dating "normal" people anyway so it doesn't really matter if I'm a 2/10 to them.

It's hard to explain but it also feels easier to connect to people that matched with you? Since they have a higher chance of being into similar things as you.

saraimarsena · 2023-08-14T03:15:19+00:00

if i maintain eye contact for too long w my bf across the table i get tingles and can’t help but blush and look away

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-14T03:23:47+00:00

Q4M: Why do men think women having sexual fun in their 20's fun makes them bad wives or mothers?

Man make make a statement like: "Women who had fun in their 20's aren't wife/mother material."

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-08-14T03:35:27+00:00

never actually seen a 40-year old man look better at 40 than in his 20's.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-08-14T03:49:43+00:00

My new rule for discussing anything with women here is to ask the following questions:

1) how old are you?

2) are you married?

3) do you have children?

It filters out a lot.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-08-14T04:04:55+00:00

I don't fully understand why women's swimsuits are so tiny. Like, I'm not complaining or anything, but why not just wear shorts and a crop top/tank top like men would? Why wear a bikini?

Is it because they want to tan? Or is it because they to show off their body for attention? Or are they just wearing it because everyone else is and they're adhering the norm? I think it's probably a combination of these.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-14T04:19:55+00:00

One of my favorite lines from women is "I'm wearing this for me." No the fuck you aren't.

scwizard · 2023-08-14T04:34:00+00:00

that's gotta be the main reason for a lot of women, esp around my age (late teens/early twenties) are not having sex. i have not talked to a guy in a longgg time who did not watch porn, and a lot of them make a half-assed attempt at lying abt it. what woman wants to constantly worry abt being compared to porn actresses/onlyfans models/camgirls etc. all my female friends say that's the reason for them choosing not to date.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-14T05:21:33+00:00

https://youtu.be/AZGf0WyIUfQ

This the attitudes of dating nyc, notice how everything is negative

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-08-14T05:29:03+00:00

But it is

throughmylense · 2023-08-14T06:09:54+00:00

Late 2020-2022 were years of constant dating & romance after deciding to not date for a lot of reasons prior to that. It was nearly 3 years filled with highs & lows with two actual committed relationships & plenty of other connections in between them. However 2023 has turned out to be a year of me deciding to take a personal break from dating & romance to focus on certain goals & to focus on bettering myself to where I know I need & want to be after a couple of experiences that prove this to be true. I’ve deleted all of the apps & deleted all of my actual profiles & have turned down numbers irl. A lot of my friends have a had a similar trajectory can anyone else relate.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-14T06:26:18+00:00

I thought they were a dying breed, but once again I got to witness the type of man who gets shy and silent when a woman tries to have a conversation with him. Like this guy whose tent was next to us. When I was still in my tent, they had a lively discussion about the race (we were watching rally) and about the things they had in common. Once I get out and try to talk to him, it’s like pulling teeth. I asked him about his hobbies and interests, he answers with two words. Old men are usually different, I can have conversations with them quite easily.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-14T06:27:16+00:00

I've noticed some guys on here, even the more redpilled ones, are afraid of being called a misogynist or say something like "I don't hate women, I just hold them accountable". You should be asking yourselves, do you really think the feminists and and women reading that are going to care whether or not you say that you don't hate women? They already decided that you hate them because you don't fall for feminist propaganda and lies- so nothing you say to appease them is going to change their minds.

Let's have a little less appeasement and servility towards people that hate you? Instead try giving them a taste of their own medicine.

Maffioze · 2023-08-14T06:44:15+00:00

Feminists who strongly believe in patriarchy theory and feel the need to bring it up in the context of men being drafted really come across as batshit insane and unhinged to me.

Imagine appropriating someone else's suffering because you're so obsessed with being the true victim.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-14T06:57:36+00:00

Unpopular opinion: The Pacific > Band of Brothers.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-14T07:04:07+00:00

Never polled this before, but at least for me personally, a woman that has a beautiful singing voice sends me into overload and can make me look past a lot of things. Fucking sirens man.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-14T07:40:54+00:00

In that "just be skinny" thread I see a bunch of average-below average women who I don't find attractive and yet there's a ton of men saying they are attractive. Yall are weird

tendrils87 · 2023-08-14T07:55:34+00:00

u/injectadrenochrome https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eKYHfQuBHFg this chick is 🔥🔥🔥

sweetbrown89 · 2023-08-14T08:16:22+00:00

I think the notions that women are attracted to 1% of the men they meet IRL and men are attracted to 40-50+% of the women they meet IRL is true

That the difference between men and women’s sex drive / sexual interest — outside of hormone changes or asexuality — is more due to how many people around them turn them on

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-14T09:22:28+00:00

I remember one woman saying her problem with RP is that women don't get a say.

But most women will simply use every platform to parrot feminist narrative making any sort of constructive dialogue very difficult.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-14T10:24:07+00:00

It just struck me that the medieval concept of chivalry would very much qualify as simping today. Yet, many men would earn the heart of lady that way.

Why do you think simping so disparaged in the modern era, when in other eras, it seemed to be encouraged?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-14T10:25:55+00:00

I’m getting so tired of people who want to champion bigots. You’re not a good person for “seeing the best in everyone” when it comes to people who will see the worst in certain people solely because of what they were born as.

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-14T10:29:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/15qe39e/should_i_stop_playing_with_action_figures_if_i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

The smartest blue pill takes are in the comments. Yes, there are some people who are against it, but they are in a small minority.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-14T10:35:17+00:00

Gender ideology matters, it's literally taught in universities, isn't it? Gender studies... I do not know what exactly that consists of, but my impression is that it's very feminist, the type of outlook you would see on r/askfeminists. I'm certain it's very anti gender-essentialism. But if anyone has taken a course like that, feel free to tell me a bit about it.

I just really dislike when people pretend that there is no specific ideological pillars on the non-conservative half of the world, and that everything outside of redpill is unique snowflakes land. And it's something I keep running into. Making arguments for male sexuality and female sexuality being sort of different and how that could be significant, and than that one inevitable doofus coming in with "it's just common sense, nOrMaL PeOpLe KnOwS ThiS". One of my biggest pet-peeves, it's so freakin annoying and pointless. Yes, "normal people" generally don't have in-depth theories and didn't dig deep into these topics, but the cultural ideological pillar of the left EXISTS AND IT SAYS THAT WOMEN ARE EXACTLY AS HORNY AS MEN, FOR EXAMPLE.

Let me help you get that sink in. Imagine if the flat-earth theory was taught in universities. Would that not matter? At all? Not even a tiny bit? Seriously?

Feminist theory IS the bluepill. It's entrenched in academia, it's affecting people, it's the ideological opposition to classic conservative ideals. It's a thing. It's the type of stuff leftist content creators post on the internet, and we live in the age of the internet. Yes, there is surely a bit of variance even there, but it's not nothing. I can't wrap my head around how people who care about gender ideology enough that they would spend time on a forum like this debating it can't comprehend this. I just can't.

dbz__f · 2023-08-14T10:44:56+00:00

why do women love zelda games so much?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-14T11:07:47+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/ThailandTourism/s/DnHUXIbl8C

Men getting roofied in passport bro world?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-14T11:15:11+00:00

I still can’t get over guys honestly claiming they didn’t know women cared about appearances. Because if a person is truly observing the world around them, and not just living in their own little fantasy world, it’s pretty fucking obvious. FASHION. TRENDS. Even boys bully boys over shoes. And again it’s hypocrisy because rarely do I see any of these guys say “I don't care what she looks like. I just want to loved”.

It’s so ridiculous. At this point, I’m really believing that the source of the problem is stunted growth or being sheltered by their neglectful family. it’s one thing if guys are having this problem in their tweens, but when they’re 16 and up, still being this way, that is a red flag.

4SSh01e · 2023-08-14T11:28:37+00:00

"Don't expect chad treatment if you are not a chad" in context of relationships is akin to saying:

"You are asking $100 for this but I can only give you $20."

At which point you have the option to not make the sale and I urge men to not make that sale. Go to bed hungry with self respect intact.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-14T11:49:57+00:00

Me and my GF went to a wedding yesterday and we just went to reception for a couple hours. Unless I’m in the bridal party like my best friends wedding I’m not going to the church part. I just don’t like church, funerals/weddings etc

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-14T11:50:53+00:00

Yo I remember when 20 years ago was the 1980’s. I’m old

potoricco · 2023-08-14T12:16:51+00:00

The reason why so many men love Andrew Tate is because they “secretly” also want to abuse women. Andrew Tate is a violent criminal and domestic abuser who should be jailed immediately.

potoricco · 2023-08-14T12:19:30+00:00

Good morning

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-14T12:43:41+00:00

“Women don’t know what they want” is projection. I don’t know how many times I’ll be asking guy to show me proof of their “AWALT” beliefs and the few times I get proof, it’s always the:

She’s conventionally attractive.
Lookmaxxing when it comes to hair, makeup, fashion, jewelry.
Most of her social media is admiring herself.
When it's not her admiring herself, she’s clearly talking down on people.

These guys are clearly chasing Stacy and not realizing it. Or, they’re lying about wanting “the average girl” because then it’d be obvious they're not better than fat acceptance bitches demanding hot guys date them.

Mammoth_Morning5216 · 2023-08-14T12:44:00+00:00

Lol loved this comedy bit about dating.

eye_fuck · 2023-08-14T12:57:39+00:00

While I was in school/uni my fav type were alternative stacies — they looked like regular attractive girls, but were into "niche"-y interests: Crystal Castles, drawing, psychedelics, depression, Delleuze, Tarkovsky, same as me. There were cool and kind spirits. But the older I get, the harder to find girl like that has her shit together but without becoming a normie. A lot of them seem to suffer from some sort of trauma, some are very unstable or addicted to drugs. Fuck this

Is it time to settle and look for stable normie girl? I hate it

potoricco · 2023-08-14T13:25:52+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/6b3rbjstu2ib1.jpeg?width=975&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d2761393922425b202d6ccfd8df471d3b0ae1713

Literally though

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-14T14:21:44+00:00

Summary of far too many discussions here:

"In my experience X is true."

"Funny that, in my experience X is not true."

"Well...your experience is wrong and mine is obviously the correct one."

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-08-14T14:28:14+00:00

Went down a rabbit hole on Twitter or now X. TIL what the saying "...pay the toll" means. I know some people get what they deserve with the choices they make, but people who follow that ideology with no consideration really set humanity back. Very sad.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-14T14:34:35+00:00

It's wild to me that men here will hear over and over and over again from the women that looks aren't everything.

We might not "see" a man because we aren't looking we're just going about our day.

Women aren't waking up and ready to find a man to mate or stare it.

Men think that women are like them when it comes to attraction. And then get really emotional when it turns out they aren't like men when it comes to attraction.

The easiest thing for some men here to fix but they straight up refuse. Seems like they prefer to be alone and whiny than anything else.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-14T14:40:11+00:00

I feel like every problem that’s posted here truly is just one real problem.

Death of the middle class and the increase in COL that’s increasing the pressure cooker on all social issues.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-14T14:55:54+00:00

Being a short guy truly does suck when it comes to dating. It's not the death certificate people make it out to be but it's certainly a hindrance.

The guys who are between 5'9 - 5'11 moaning about not being 6ft though? Quit your fucking whining, you are not the victim.

baresquad · 2023-08-14T15:02:37+00:00

Women should chase chad and men shouldn’t settle.

Advise to the contrary is stupid as fuck, you only live once and life is short to act like looks don’t matter.

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-08-14T15:07:45+00:00

Guess women aren't having that much sex:

https://www.salon.com/2022/11/06/why-are-so-many-young-people-are-having-less-and-fewer-friendships/

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2023-08-14T15:48:33+00:00

The competition that the average Asian American man has to face for their own women is crazy. High-achieving and successful men are common in their race, and then they have to compete with white men that also want their women.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-14T17:58:19+00:00

Wasn’t on here for days. Seriously this time what did I miss

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-08-14T17:52:05+00:00

If good men/women exist, then where do you find them?

Probably not within religion. At least not for those who aren't because of a conflict of values if you want wife/husband material

Or like people will say that if you go to the club then ofcourse you'll find tons of shallow low quality high body count women but then the bar or club is the main place people say when you ask where it's appropriate to approach women, so...

baresquad · 2023-08-14T17:11:50+00:00

Listening to the advice of men who can’t decipher game is how a lot of women find themselves falling victim to bad dating predicaments. A lot of men apply a halo effect to themselves and other men so their advice usually comes from a place an idealized concept of men, women shouldn’t listen to it.

Some examples include telling women to look past red flags for the sake of 2nd chances and not go after attractive men but none of that stuff is really helpful. If women wanna learn how to avoid fuck boys, learning how to from actual fuck boys is best.

potoricco · 2023-08-14T17:04:52+00:00

Complaining again, but

I literally CANNOT leave the house without my grandmother sending me to buy random shit, it is SO ANNOYING and I wish she would stop. I am not anyone's personal instacart. I don't have a problem with running errands but it's just excessive, at this point it's everyday. and many times I can tell its stuff that we/she doesn't even really need but just wants me to buy because I have the opportunity, I would tell her to stop but she is so nice I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-14T16:29:33+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Scorpio.

The scorpion. She often isn’t the most beautiful, or the prettiest, or the cutest. But somehow, someway, she is the sexiest out of all of them. She cares and is actively interested in sex. She has desire, fire and drive to fuck! She’s the dream come true for the man who has a healthy libido. So what’s the catch?

Her inner emotional life has been hurt. Whether through neglectful parents, bad first boyfriends, or frenemies, her feelings have been hurt, and she hurts deeply. There are many walls. Sexually speaking, she is deeply practical.

A man’s job with her is to just be painfully, almost autistically, honest with her. The transparency will soothe her worry that you’re trying to 4D chess manipulate her or limit her freedom. She hates that. She will value attractive behavior and dominance over looks occasionally, so many guys have a chance to enjoy her. Every man alive should experience her at least once. Make it your mission, she fucks like pornstar AND she loves doing so.

Recommended approach: 100% directly honest. Tell her what you want to do to her, she’ll appreciate you not pussyfooting around and you may turn her on. Or she’ll not be interested, but she’ll tell you flatly without trying to hurt your feelings. It’s a win-win.

If you manage to rock her world, she can be somewhat sexually loyal. Don’t count on that too much, she needs to have the freedom to fuck whoever she fancies. but what can happen is that she can actually fall in love with a man through sex and if he is emotionally under control. You will lose her if you try to express love or sensitive feelings before she’s ready to hear that pussy shit. You need yo match her vibe and energy. She will emotionally open up, but that will take years. If you make it tho, she will see that you’ve been awesome for so many years, few men will compare.

Once she loves you, she is sexually honest. Be careful what you ask her if you get to that point. She will be eager to and want to completely bond with you when she decides you are her person.

potoricco · 2023-08-14T16:26:21+00:00

The more I hear about football(American) the more and more I hate it and think it is dumb. Why would anyone sign their kids up to get permanent brain damage and cte?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-14T16:21:53+00:00

Unpopular opinion: Associating yourself with nerd culture, video games and anime is a net negative on your dating prospects as a man

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-14T16:09:45+00:00

Sometimes I catch women "checking me out" in the gym...but then I remember I'm always by far the sweatiest mf in the gym so it's most likely they're just in awe

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