Daily Community Chat Megathread

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-07T12:24:04+00:00

Had a fun talk yesterday. It has me thinking how many people who make sex this grandiose form of physical affection ever had other forms of physical affection growing up.

In addition to constantly being hugged and kissed since my infancy, I have friend that will hug me 4 times in one get-together and give out “I love yous” every time we say bye.

So to me, why should I see sex as this big show of physical affection, when I can get physical affection from people without taking my clothes off?

VampireChaser · 2023-03-07T10:28:10+00:00

Imagine if men tried to do something like this. And btw, it's illegal what she's trying to do.

u/liefelijk And this is what would happen if women were in the top 1% positions of power.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-03-07T10:04:27+00:00

Why do so many men here seem to believe that women love dad bods? I don’t prefer them, at least if there’s more fat than muscle, and I don’t know many women who do.

big_lenad · 2023-03-07T09:47:30+00:00

Anytime I advise incels to lie to or lead on women there’s always replies to the effects of “that’s a bad thing to do” etc from supposed incels themselves. A lot of them have even told me they eventually want to settle down and start families. Lol. I find it funny that all incels are villainised under one blanket while women are giving chances to guys like who don’t care and aren’t willing to settle down anytime soon.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-03-07T09:28:45+00:00

Women have far dirtier sexual fantasies than men, as evidenced by romance novels. Why they feign to be prudes disinterested in sex is the question. Every woman I’ve had was far more vocal and into it than I was. Are women capable of being honest or is duplicity their default state.

chadfessions · 2023-03-07T08:30:36+00:00

A girls’ Alabama basketball team was DEINED the championship trophy after beating the boys team

chadfessions · 2023-03-07T08:06:22+00:00

Chad is more sexually exciting than the average man. No one will make the pussy throb like a hot dominant guy.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-07T07:08:18+00:00

is there any truth to the horsepill?

nothatyoucare · 2023-03-07T07:02:18+00:00

What in tarnation:

America has a Black sperm donor shortage. Black women are paying the price. Black men account for fewer than 2 percent of sperm donors at cryobanks. Their vials are gone in minutes.

Every night a little after 1 a.m., following her shift as a guard at a women’s prison, Reese Brooks would open her laptop, a second laptop, then her phone and a tablet, and begin scouring websites for sperm banks, opening dozens of tabs.

“I’d say I spent 40 hours a week looking for a donor. All together, I think I searched more than 800 hours,” Brooks said. But when it came to a Black donor, she said, the choices were slim to none.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2022/10/20/black-sperm-donors/

Damn sounds like men on OLD. rough out there.

chadfessions · 2023-03-07T05:33:26+00:00

I cried when I found out 5 inch is average. 6 is already mediocre but to know most men have 5 inches or less is depressing

huhwhatokok · 2023-03-07T05:29:13+00:00

One of the reasons I respected Kevin samuels (pbuh) is because he would criticize men just as hard as the women. Obviously these wouldn’t get the views the women ones got, but still, you couldn’t say he was being unfair. I remember guys would call in to give their respects and he would dive into their lives and make them realize they were losers too. Bad job, overweight, no education etc.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-03-07T05:25:49+00:00

I stopped believing in this RP stuff and all the conservative crap when I started critically looking at the bible and analyzing my beliefs. I've come to the conclusion that all the traditional standards we hold aren't from a devine being, just some stories passed down by humans. At that point whats the value of me holding conversative veiws so high.

huhwhatokok · 2023-03-07T05:13:42+00:00

“Not the type I usually fall for, I like beta bux!” 😂 women tell on themselves so much. This guy who she’s never met but admits is super cute literally told her he was going to grab her ass the 1st time they met! And look how distraught she is that Chad ghosted her. Grown ass 30 year old woman.

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/11ko479/someone_please_explain_this_behavior_to_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

throwthrow8272 · 2023-03-07T05:10:44+00:00

In one of those “love isn’t real” moods lmao, I hate this

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-03-07T05:10:03+00:00

Q4W: How do you feel about your genders history of being bangmaids, while men actually went out and did cool stuff? No wonder it’s called HIStory hahaha

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-03-07T04:59:39+00:00

Is anyone a native in a country with a low obesity rate?

The problem in the western world and states is that a large portion of women are undateable because they're fat. If most women aren't fat, then if you're not Chad, at least you might be able to get a woman who isn't fat.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-03-07T04:42:48+00:00

Sort this sub by controversial and all time or last m year for good laughs

RahLyt · 2023-03-07T04:34:33+00:00

It's very funny to me how some ppd women vilify trp for criticizing women all day long. But every chance they have, they explain to you, why men prefer younger women, low N count, age gaps, etc. They are all inherently evil reasons by nature. It all comes down to men are naturally predatory.

It's also funny on how they will have the wildest assumptions and still think somehow they are not sexist lol.

I was reading a conversation where someone said that society sees men as defective women, because the way men emote is considered wrong compared to women's. She said that just because men don't get to force themselves into women don't make them feminine. Like what??

It's literally 65% of my conversations with women here, they start normally. At some point their baggage comes through and we start talking about something else entirely.

A lot of women here argue like every man is a monster in such a casual way... Like it's a fact and we all know it but we pretend we don't.

The fact that majority of advice to man here to is be decent proves exactly my point.

nothatyoucare · 2023-03-07T04:34:03+00:00

Mothers getting custody in divorce chat: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/1nM1kxER-18

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-03-07T04:20:20+00:00

I love the internet for one reason. The breath of folks you come across is infinitely larger then real life. Where else would you meet a Japanese nationalist trynna curve a Korean American obsessed with international dating. And get commentary from Saudis and guys from Ohio.

Shit is hilarious. Reminds me of the international students in college. They had no chill.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-07T03:59:16+00:00

CMV: the reason we live in a patriarchy and why men will always “rule” in one way, shape, or another is simply because we’re physically stronger.

If women were as physically capable as us, we’d live in an egalitarian society.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-07T03:57:52+00:00

Q4W: What would a perfect feminist society look like and how would we know when we have achieved it?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-07T03:48:04+00:00

the more "fun" a job is, the shittier it pays T_T

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-07T03:45:10+00:00

Q4W: if the patriarchy is inherently bad because it oppresses women, would a matriarchy be inherently bad too because it would oppress men?

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-07T03:43:08+00:00

If a 13 year old gets his teacher pregnant and she gets no jail time that means male kids can consent right?

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-03-07T03:26:08+00:00

So, I’m staying at my boyfriends apartment for a few days while he’s out of town. He gave me section in his closet for my stuff and cleared out a whole part of his bathroom for me! Even got me some product so I didn’t have to keep taking mine back and forth.

I always thought I’d never live with someone until I was engaged or married to them, but this man is making me want to take some risks.

And he got a silk pillowcase for my hair!!!

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-07T03:20:42+00:00

CMV: modern feminists only complain about inequality and lack of representation in the glamorous domains that they compete against men with.

They want a seat at the table in the Fortune 500 board rooms. But they couldn’t give fuck all about having a seat in the bed of a garbage truck.

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-03-07T03:04:04+00:00

TIL that we shouldn't make spreading AIDs a felony because it would cause people to not get tested.

This is your mind on leftism.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-07T02:55:46+00:00

Feminists: the only way for men to relinquish their financial responsibilities for an unwanted child is to not have sex to begin with. When you have sex, you accept the risks and associated responsibilities of a potential pregnancy. Keep your dick in your pants.

Men: ok fine. Abortion should be illegal too then, using that same logic. When you have sex, you accept the risks and associated responsibilities of a potential pregnancy. Keep your legs closed.

Feminists: &$¥£#]~€{*~€,!{^{,!~£!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!}

I’m a pro-choice man fyi.

SaltyPeanut-27 · 2023-03-07T02:46:59+00:00

CMV: There is an unhealthy relationship between Feminism and Nihilism. A lot of women here believe there is no meaning or purpose to life.

quaker5 · 2023-03-07T02:21:47+00:00

I haven’t watched it in ages but there’s a scene in Narcos where Pablo Escobar is fucking a hooker and he storms away angrily when she starts talking shit about his wife.

male sexuality.

BruceLeesSidepiece · 2023-03-07T02:14:17+00:00

bruh this sub fell off so hard smh my head

Ok-Divide4621 · 2023-03-07T02:07:18+00:00

If you aren't chad is it ever supposed to be easy trying to get a girl? Or will it always be hard?

nothatyoucare · 2023-03-07T02:06:29+00:00

Went to the James for the first time in a lloonngg time. Trying to not go too hard with a herniated disc but at the same time I'm having issues glute activation on exercises that are supposed to specifically target them. Also trying to find a safe direction to start off into space while waiting for my partner to do their sets without pissing off some tiktok influencer shamer is its own hell.

chadfessions · 2023-03-07T01:56:55+00:00

Trying to have relationships/sex with regular dudes after being with a few Chads is like comparing a rusty wagon to a lamborghini. Yeah Chad cheated me poorly and I’m done getting played but damn could he get the pussy wet unlike avg men : (

purplish_possum · 2023-03-07T01:34:51+00:00

Bad boy broke her heart. "Nice" guy smashed her windshield (after she went back to the bad boy). CPS took her kids.

My job is seldom boring.

Twinseo09 · 2023-03-07T01:10:32+00:00

There is a common misconception among some fathers that the best way to protect their daughters from the so-called "feminist world" is by sheltering them their entire lives. However, this approach can have unintended negative consequences. By shielding their daughters from the world and dictating their thoughts and values, fathers are essentially creating co-dependent women who may struggle to think for themselves.

Some fathers really need to understand that teaching their daughters critical thinking skills, how to analyze information, set strong boundaries and have good standards is far more effective in helping them navigate the complex world we live in today. Rather than simply telling their daughters what to think, fathers should encourage them to think independently, ask questions, and set strong boundaries.

In doing so, fathers can help their daughters become strong, confident women who are able to make informed decisions and navigate life's challenges with ease. So they do not have to feel the need to be a dictator in their daughters lives.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-07T00:57:18+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if the average RP man was much taller than the average BP man. RP advice is basically useless for short men and accepting RP as true means accepting you will always be undesirable in the dating market and a lot of BP men can't handle that.

scwizard · 2023-03-06T16:02:26+00:00

Texas lawmakers are returning to the Capitol for the first legislative session since a statewide abortion ban took effect, and access to birth control for minors is likely to command fresh attention

Is Texas trying to increase their teen pregnancy rate?

You're gonna see a lot of girls coming back from bible camp with an extra passenger in their car.

CimZim · 2023-03-06T17:09:01+00:00

Saw a post over on dead bedrooms, where the higher libido partner was denied sex for so long by their wife (like 2 full years of absolutely nothing sexual) that he eventually just stopped trying to initiate at all. Still gave her hugs and kisses but that's it.

According to him, after about 3 weeks of him not asking for anything sexual, she turns to him in bed one night and asked if he was feeling okay, because he wasn't acting normal. He says he's feeling fine and it's just that after not being seen as a sexual being by her for so long, he has accepted her view and doesn't want to have sex anymore. Essentially he internalized it and become low libido/no libido just like her.

He said she immediately started crying and got upset because she needs to be desired by him to feel satisfied in their marriage. He was incredibly pissed off and I think his post ended with him staying at a friend's house for the rest of the week.

I don't understand that kind of mentality. What was going on in her head? Any guesses? Shouldn't it have been a relief to her that her husband was no longer going to see her as a sexual person, since apparently that's what she wanted to be treated like?

NoInjury1499 · 2023-03-06T15:15:57+00:00

It's kind of depressing knowing that a good number of people here genuinely think there is nothing wrong with society and that no injustice has been committed.

RegTextoffender · 2023-03-06T15:58:07+00:00

I'm going to propose a theory.

The more likely a man is to talk about "financial abortion" the less likely he will ever be in a casual sex situation where this is a reality he may face.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-06T14:54:26+00:00

Q4W: when you have casual sex with a man and use contraceptives, that still means you are accepting to be a parent should conception occur, correct? Because the decision to become a parent occurs the moment you consent to sex?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-06T18:02:34+00:00

Men here: Women should stop ignoring that sex is a need. Maslow said so!

Me: Oh! I got a solution! The easiest way for incels to get their needs fulfilled is through incels also deprived of their needs! Its free and they would understand the struggles of sexlessness more than any dumb woman could!

Men here: Homophobe!

Me: Maslow said “sex” is a need. He never said “heterosexual sex” is a need. Why are you guys being homophobes depriving men of their needs? Its also sexism to imply men cant fulfill men’s sexual needs, but women can!

HazyMemory7 · 2023-03-06T15:39:25+00:00

https://youtu.be/jiLLu8ZOXfQ

31 year old woman SAs boy who's a minor and gets no jail time. Ladies and gentleman, the patriarchy.

lehibu38 · 2023-03-06T17:30:17+00:00

Curious to hear women's perspective on this.

On the topic of men being pushy and not reading signals of disinterest.

"I've had many women friends talk about how scary and stupid persistent guys can be when trying to date, so I sympathize with the fact that women are much smaller, and in one on one circumstances it can be very scary to have to reject a guy.

But as a guy, a TON of my romantic or sexual relationships with women, that were successful and consensual consisted of me having to proactively engage in every single circumstance.

Having to be the one to start the conversation, keep it fucking going when they respond like a dead fish, be the one to plan dates, be the one to be proactive and chat them up if I see them.

I'm getting just triggered thinking about how much effort and work I had to put in to make women respond at all, and mind you I am talking about women who I would end up having years-long romantic and sexual relationships with, who would come forward about how much they enjoyed being w/ me at the times, etc.

Maybe I'm just autistic, but if I took the passive or non-engagements from women as a "no" in my life, I would still be a perma-single virgin. I've been rejected and told no before (I have been rejected a LOT) but hot damn getting to that point is such a fucking social gauntlet of bullshit."

EulenWatcher · 2023-03-06T18:38:59+00:00

“No babies, no Japan”

Tbh I’m really curious to see what they’re going to implement to try to solve their issue. I’m surprised South Korea hasn’t taken any significant measures already considering they have lower birth rates than Japan.

stjohnswyrt · 2023-03-07T13:43:44+00:00

Why are there so many posts asking women "what they bring to the table?"

There's only like 4 possible answers, and most relationships are a combination of all of them: companionship, reproduction, sex, and resources

What answer do you expect? "My collection of elephant antiques" ?

edgyny · 2023-03-07T13:59:22+00:00

[CMV] women complain about casual misogyny because they miss the proleague

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-06T14:32:50+00:00

CMV: men should be able to forfeit their rights to parental and financial obligations for an unwanted child. Men should have the right to choose, just like women should have the right to choose.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-03-06T14:52:09+00:00

I think the scariest thing about social media is everyone’s opinion is given equal weight. When you talk to someone in person, you can usually tell when they’re crazy or dumb therefore you can easily dismiss what they say. But you can’t really tell through a screen.

There are so many people on social media with big followings who have serious undiagnosed mental illness like paranoid schizophrenia and other delusional disorders and they’re perpetuating these conspiracies that average non-insane people are susceptible to believe because they aren’t fully aware that a literal nutcase is behind the screen.

I think in the psychology field this is called mass hysteria. It starts with one person being legit mentally crazy then it spreads to relatively normal people like a contagion.

ProfessorNaughty100 · 2023-03-06T19:06:51+00:00

Amazing to me how many men here claim intelligence/education is not important to them.

Nothing wrong with that preference, just surprising

Warm_Philosopher · 2023-03-06T20:31:55+00:00

Look I get being conservative but after spending a year in the US, I have more and more difficulty understanding republicans. They are directly working against their own country. Democrats are of course corrupt as well, and can be annoying with all the wokeness, but damn...
Republicans really want to increase teen pregnancies, increase prescription drug prices, pollute all of the gulf for one more drop of oil. Like what is going on...

UneastAji · 2023-03-06T22:06:14+00:00

Society reproaches men to be porn and video game addicts, and reproaches men to work less and to be less social because of their addiction.

But when women are uninterested about men and about making kids, because they're addicts to social media and other variety of more stimulating things. Somehow it's also men's fault and society's fault for not making having kids more stimulating.

I also remember a time when men who didn't want kids or commitment because they wanted to remain free were said to be lazy and immature.

jobbo321 · 2023-03-06T14:56:43+00:00

Daily reminder that sex and reproduction is on the bottom of Maslow's hierarchy of needs

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-03-06T16:17:31+00:00

Some of yall wake up like "How can I post about men being bad today?" And start brainstorming ideas

Scarce12 · 2023-03-06T19:15:58+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/11j3n48/almost_a_quarter_of_american_women_under_the_age/

What's normal for men is unusual for women.

Most of the comments about not having sex are from post-wall women.

lulll · 2023-03-06T20:12:43+00:00

about time someone trolls these fucking idiots

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-03-06T21:50:13+00:00

Women: I demand gender equality and abolishment of misogynist gender roles

Also women: I want a tall man so I can feel like a powerless child looking up to him to feel feminine

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-03-07T13:42:43+00:00

I think men blaming women for the “Women are wonderful” effect is bogus. No one is purposefully trying to manufacture this effect. Most people are a product on nurturing mothers. Your mother breastfed you for about 2 years give or take. People are naturally going to associate the nurturing nature they experienced from their mother the first few years of life and project that onto other women. No on is trying to force this narrative.

To say women have always been portrayed in media as omnibenevolent is also a lie. Cinderella’s step sisters and step mother? Evil. Ursula from the little mermaid? Evil. Wicked Witch of the West? Evil. Repunzel’s mother? Evil. Even Eve in the Bible is portrayed as foolish and manipulative.

big_lenad · 2023-03-06T14:11:12+00:00

Why is it that when men point out some of the things that a lot of women do or traits that they have they are met with “it’s your fault because it’s the type of women you attract or those you choose to surround yourself with” or at the very least a justification but when women point out something that they believe most men do we’re just supposed to accept it and agree?

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-03-06T14:53:34+00:00

See alot of guys giving women flak for not wanting to date a square. I dont even wanna hang out with someone boring, so why would women want to date them? At least the bad boy or asshole is fun. Boring and regular is so wack

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-03-06T15:35:55+00:00

I don’t think a relationship where one of the pair thinks the other is “better” than them is healthy. Like I’ve seen some dudes openly talk about how their wife/Gf is “way out of their league” and how they are basically just happy she lets him sniff her vagina. I’m not a woman but if I was that would be kind of a turn off to me.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-06T16:10:46+00:00

Neckbeards: Sex is a need! It harms a man’s well being if they dont have sex! Women are depriving us of our needs!

Also neckbeards: How dare you suggest I fuck hookers or other lonely desperate men?!

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T16:44:32+00:00

Here's why Game/chrisma is the most attractive trait you can have as a guy in getting woman

Women value social entertainment the most, so if you can entertain a women by making her laugh or other shit

Then you've a high chance of her sleeping with you or going on a date or other stuff that involves you romantically/sexually

Your game/charm will take way more than your money or status in getting tons of sex and potential relationships from women

Took me until l was 21 to realize this

big_lenad · 2023-03-06T17:18:35+00:00

I’m as redpilled as the next guy but an observation I would like your opinion on:

Hypergamy (in the superficial sense of height, status, money, looks) may have had a woman choosing another guy over me or me not getting her in the first place but once I’ve gotten her it’s never been the reason she’s left me (or explicitly so). It’s been for other things like how I’m treating her or making her feel but I’ve never observed income for instance being the main motivator. Even if I tried to check if that was the subconscious reason it never seemed to be.

Even with women who cheated on their bf’s with me it wasn’t like I was taller, better looking, had more money or had a bigger dick (in some cases their bf’s were more blessed or ha s’more money) but they would cheat regardless. We just clicked, they liked me and they had loose morals.

Even on the odd occasion a woman tried to monkeybranch it came down to how her bf treated her or made her feel. I’ve had women monkeybranch from guys who were sometimes more stereotypically alpha or had more money. It’s not that I was acting beta but the other guy would have something that enabled his alpha ness (well connected or an athlete).

If I had to point it out I would have said once you win over a woman your attention and making her feel loved/appreciated (without veering into neediness) counts for a lot.

P.s. by how he treated her I don’t mean that he necessarily treated her badly although that did happen quite a bit. It could also be that he treated her relatively well but she liked how I treated her better (whether I was kinder, more of a challenge, more/less alpha/beta). It depends on the woman in particular.

Another point: no the women in question weren’t always impressed or necessarily happy with my financial situation (I was unemployed and a student for a long time) and many could’ve upgraded easily but it would never be the reason things ultimately ended if I’m being honest. It wouldn’t even be the catalyst.

itzReborn · 2023-03-06T18:24:32+00:00

How do I not let being virgin(m24) eat away at me. It’s mostly my fault since i never put myself out there or even asked out anyone(anxiety) but still..this feeling isn’t a good feeling lol.

edgyny · 2023-03-06T18:36:13+00:00

[CMV] the problem with Maslow's Hierarchy is that people think they are experts on the theory after having done nothing more than stare at an infographic

meteorness123 · 2023-03-06T20:35:46+00:00

Rate the falsehood level of this statement :

"I put make up on/dress nice for myself, not for men"

lulll · 2023-03-06T20:48:28+00:00

the empathetic gender btw

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-03-06T21:55:30+00:00

CMV: DDLG (dom daddy, little girl) is not kink, its a half measure for self aware pedophiles and their self hating CSA victim girlfriends.

Bring back kink shaming.

chilikettlechips · 2023-03-06T22:10:04+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/11jytlr/women_who_were_married_to_a_decent_spouse_but/

Another thread full of bangers where women talk about how their beta bux "nice guy" ex husbands weren't as exciting as CHAD.

throwawayofc1112 · 2023-03-06T22:41:47+00:00

Ive slowly but surely been moving toward the red pill, as of recently. Been watching a lot of AMS the last couple days. I’m realizing I’ve greatly misunderstood the subtle social nuances between men and women, particularly when it comes to building and maintaining attraction. I’m really starting to understand where, specifically, my social skills are lacking, especially given my autism. While I understand some disagree with red pill, I find that it’s helpful to me. Even within two days I’ve gotten much better choosing signals by simply not acting weird in public.

Willow-girl · 2023-03-07T13:39:46+00:00

Merlin keeps pulling the filter out of the fish tank and carrying it around the house.

This cat has way too much time on his hands. He needs a job.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-06T14:24:52+00:00

Bummed my CMV post got removed.

THHBHStT · 2023-03-06T16:32:18+00:00

A big goal in my life is to be a pornstar fuck a bunch of women and travel as a job, then retire and marry some foreign broad who doesn’t give a fuck about porn, is nice and cooks good food

Personally I think it doable, there’s so much porn out there, which means people are making porn.

scwizard · 2023-03-06T18:34:49+00:00

The cafe near my apartment seems to attract some hotties.

This girl is wearing a tie back top that leaves a lot of her tattos showing and no bra. Lewd outfit.

Ciabatta_Scoober · 2023-03-06T18:47:09+00:00

PPD women: X is true because of argument Y.

PPD men: argument Y is flawed, if it were true then Z would be true because of argument Y.

PPD women: men are so stupid, they think Z is true.

The lack of understanding is astounding.

fatsackguy47 · 2023-03-06T18:55:25+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11k449s/how_many_people_know_guys_that_have_women_on_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

“Ummm the young single men study doesn’t prove chad harems that is totally made up fantasy”

Lmaooo I fucking love being right. All of you in there admitting you see soft harems happen irl yet some of y’all disagree or would disagree with chad harems. Weird how that happens lol you guys are all so silly.

See this is why pill forums go nowhere. You guys argue my ideas are wrong, then concede I’m right, then come back the next day saying I’m wrong again with the same topics being discussed over and over. Or you guys argue over tiny nuances literally no one cares about.

It’s a WRAP folks.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-03-06T19:15:39+00:00

Bananas are the ultimate food for me. If I eat two bananas for breakfast I don’t even need coffee. But I drink coffee anyway cause I like the taste lol.

armpitpics · 2023-03-06T20:10:15+00:00

I see many people attributing the increase in sexlessness among women below 35 to the attack on abortion rights by the overruling of Roe v. Wade, but looking at the IFS figure sexlessness has been increasing among men and women since 2008, around 14 years before the Supreme Court's decision.

Since most people have sex within relationships, the increase in age of first marriage coupled with social isolation is the most likely explanation for the decrease in sex.

stjohnswyrt · 2023-03-06T21:15:44+00:00

NGL men in the areas I've been to in Europe are on average a lot more attractive than American men. Female passport bros should head out here to land a decent man lol

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-06T22:13:48+00:00

I still don't know what bluepill is

meteorness123 · 2023-03-06T22:21:54+00:00

Do you agree or disagree with this

Verbal intelligence, likability, wit (and competence) are extremeley necessary beneficial in attracting high quality women and more importantly for social status within interactions.

I can confirm this is true from my experience. It's the eptiome of competence and the modern expression of a "good hunter". You can be physically very imposing but if you lack those skills compared to others, your social status will be low in interactions.

Some famous examples for this are Jon Stewart and David Letterman. One of my favorite clips that demonstrates this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkDjz\_eRoaw&ab\_channel=jinjobimboni

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-03-06T22:32:01+00:00

So apparently there's a correlation between higher testosterone and finding fat more attractive. Honestly based on the last time I got my T levels done, that checks out.

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-03-06T22:51:50+00:00

People saying the sex ratio on dating apps are the reason women don't respond are delusional. Women have no conception of the match rate for the men they are swiping on and men can and will maintain multiple interactions at the same time.

The only way this would be a relevant statistic is if the current total matches were capped or displayed to the swiper.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-03-07T13:01:17+00:00

I was watching Triangle of Sadness last night and two of the main characters are models/influencers (a man and a woman) who are in a relationship. They have an argument over money and at the end of the argument the female model admits that she’s a manipulator who is just using the male model for clout and has no actual feelings for the male model. Despite this confession, the male model is STILL in love with her and tries to through the rest of the movie to win her over.

And I just want to say how much I’ve seen this in real like. Beautiful women will straight up tell the man they’re with that they’re an awful person, YET the man they’re with will still chase them.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-03-07T14:16:21+00:00

Anyone here ever felt like they were struggling with a lack of direction in life? I'm relatively successful by most metrics, but there's a constant nagging feeling in my mind that there's something missing.

potoricco · 2023-03-07T00:22:38+00:00

Am I… the villain? This guy approached me at the library, I’ve been here for 4 hours, and since then he had spoken to me multiple times. he also talked to my friends too cuz I was with them and apparently they thought he was weird (he was but in a good way) and kept laughing at him. When he was about to leave he came and said bye to me, and as soon as he left the vicinity my friends burst into laughter. Ngl I did too because everyone else was. Pretty sure he saw, now I feel like shet. I hate myself

gymbro718nyc2 · 2023-03-07T00:20:46+00:00

What male PPDers think describes the average woman: https://youtu.be/bkV0M1qbkcw

And here is what the average PPDer thinks Chad's everyday life is like: https://youtu.be/aIXU4-zyWHU

meteorness123 · 2023-03-07T00:18:41+00:00

I find myself strongly preferring women close to my age as opposed to much younger women.

Anardus · 2023-03-07T00:05:32+00:00

I recently started making a lot more and realized the cost of that has been I have little to no time to date. I stumbled onto one of the sugar dating sites and wanted to see if I could get a guy to be my sugar baby.

So I made an account on this site called Seeking just to see if there were any guys worth my time. Although every guy talks about how they’d do sex work if there was the demand, 99% of the men weren’t attractive enough for me to be willing to pay. I was expecting hotties tbh, no idea if I should try another site

UneastAji · 2023-03-06T23:53:55+00:00

Wife is very depressed lately and gets home in the evening, goes to sleep instantly and leave me with all the chores and the kids to take care of.

Mark my words that at the end of the week when I'll be tired of doing everything on my own, and when she'll finally have some energy to allow me to rest, she'll be like "you never spend time with me" and will try to push me to spend more energy for her.

GridReXX · 2023-03-06T23:44:43+00:00

They were impressive.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-06T23:32:06+00:00

The future wine aunts association really tried to trick us into thinking tall European men want them

Maffioze · 2023-03-06T23:23:32+00:00

A lot of people here on both sides are like the flat earthers of gender issues.

I'm not gonna name them.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-03-06T23:11:53+00:00

When the economy slows down women become less picky for partners and the feminist bullshit quiets down along with it. This is actual statistical truth. Women are unwilling to maintain their combative feminist personas if that means struggling. Honour, integrity and having a spine are male characteristics

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-03-06T23:07:55+00:00

The men who are worried about being "shamed" for wanting to date younger women need to learn over time to lose their sense of embarrassment and shame, once you get rid of that then life just gets so much easier.

Who's going to make you feel bad about your dating preferences when you have no sense or care for shame? I'd argue if people shame you for your choices in life that should push you to pursue those choices even more.

UnusualMeaning2170 · 2023-03-06T22:59:09+00:00

that gss study that y'all love to quote that supposedly proves how men are having more sex (it was in age groups 18-22,23-25,26-30 etc, having more female respondents overall, thus skewing the data) has a total sample size from 18-29 of around 263 out of a total of 1120.. compared to the 900 just from 18-29 of the pew study. couple that with the shame of promiscuity in women driving them to respond untruthfully, and the opposite reality for men also affecting the answers.. yeah. it's like pulling teeth trying to get a proper answer out of studies like this, especially since they're self reported

edit:oh yeah and the other study y'all like to use, the cdc study that says the average number of sexual partners in a lifetime for men aged 25-49 is 6.3 and for women 4.3. it's a median, not an average, so yeah.

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-03-06T22:53:39+00:00

Oh I had another woman start ranting at me about Trump. Even the hicks in this area(lol is lower class, lives out of a motorhome, rides horses and smokes) are liberals rofl.

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FineDevelopment00 · 2023-03-06T14:03:28+00:00

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gofigure62 · 2023-03-06T14:41:41+00:00

So if sex work is real work, then Harvey Weinstein did nothing wrong, right? Like if sex is both legally and morally a buyable, trade-able good, then it can be used to get roles in movies.

mwb111300 · 2023-03-06T15:12:14+00:00

On the few occasions where I have girls over they always comment “this is so clean for a boys house!” and that grinds my gears.

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T15:19:40+00:00

So if you've been rejected a couple of times or many times then that's when you need to get in watching RP content or go to other men who'll tell you about their similar experiences and give you solutions

I remember l got rejected a lot in my first college year and my friends and so many other guys had a similar experience so we helped each other out by reducing the odds of rejection

Gave each other major solutions and game of what to do when the opportunity comes

mib732 · 2023-03-06T15:48:43+00:00

What is the best dating app geared for Men who desire to become a father? Dating to get married, not hookups or having sex once and nothing else.

I thought Hinge and Match might be the best.

scwizard · 2023-03-06T16:29:08+00:00

Does society need poor people to function?

No right? Cause Switzerland and Finland and such don't have poor people really.

Wonder if they have a hard time finding people to mop floors there.

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T17:26:56+00:00

The number one date idea you can take a woman out is stargazing

She will literally loss track of time so you can make a move on her and women nowadays apparently are into astronomy

Also it's just the two of you so she won't be socially distracted and can try your game all you want

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-03-06T18:47:13+00:00

Counter to the black pill -- I'm not much of a social person but I can only recall one couple recently where I thought to myself: "wait, you're with him?!"

saraimarsena · 2023-03-06T19:02:15+00:00

so i dropped a few hundred dollars on birthday presents for my boyfriend. hope he likes them, i put a lot of thought into it 🥹 buying presents is stressful af cuz i’m a perfectionist, so i stress myself out a bit over picking the perfect thing.

q4all: have you ever had a really amazing birthday? what made it special?

additionally for those who experienced a quarter life crisis (25), what got you through it?

huhwhatokok · 2023-03-06T19:32:15+00:00

For chubby chasers, where is this on your scale? Just right? Not chubby enough? The maximum?

https://www.reddit.com/r/lookyourbest/comments/11jo7rs/do_i_have_an_hourglass_figure_am_i_chubby_in_your/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

jobbo321 · 2023-03-06T20:06:43+00:00

Just checked Jeremy Meeks' instagram, apparently he has 1,5 million followers and is now starring in movies and television.

Prestigious698 · 2023-03-06T21:05:46+00:00

Q4M: Would you look at your gf/a woman you’re attracted to differently after walking in on a non very pleasant smelling aftermath in the bathroom?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-06T21:44:22+00:00

Can someone explain what blue pill is exactly?

red pill = copy successful men to become successful

black pill = looks above all

pink pill = what you should expect from men, and nothing less

blue pill = I think I'm the main character in a Disney movie

did I get it right?

meteorness123 · 2023-03-06T21:45:28+00:00

I swear having multiple dating options isn't good. Especially if you have an ADHD brain.

Talking to multiple people at the same time also simply feels wrong and sociopathic. Especially since you will inevitably dissappoint some people. You also waste each others time.

nothatyoucare · 2023-03-06T22:00:19+00:00

I cut my teeth in the working world in retail and that included working the phones. It amuses me this is practically a super power amongst my younger peers who are deathly afraid of picking up the phone.

questioningfeminist · 2023-03-06T22:05:01+00:00

I want to be a sexist piece of shit without being called a sexist piece of shit, because feminists can't be sexist pieces of shit because men are trash

For all of you feminists, why are you part of such a fucking vile, shitty, hateful cult? Why aren't any of your sisters calling out the sheer insanity of this post and telling her to fuck right off with her sexism?

Early-Christmas-4742 · 2023-03-06T22:09:52+00:00

LOL @ American/Canadian women thinking their passports will get them the same outcomes. Newsflash: getting pumped and dumped by suave european men isn’t an accomplishment, miss “live laugh love”. You are dumb childish American tourist number #37 this year that they nutted from.

American women cannot compete on a global scale, you will get absolutely thrashed by women in other countries, you might even end up victim to a romance scam, put away the passport and don’t embarrass yourselves

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-06T22:48:10+00:00

Do you believe in the namepill? Do you believe name has a non-negligible effect on SMV?

For example, Luke (sexiest name according to women on reddit) has a +1 advantage over Gerald.

Or Grace (sexiest name according to me) has a +1 advantage over Deborah

Katatonicsnake · 2023-03-07T14:13:46+00:00

There’s a lifeguard/swimming instructor in my local swimming pool who I think is trying to flirt with me but I’m confused, as per usual.

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T14:15:15+00:00

There's really no benefits in having any platonic female friends especially after high school

When you just moved out of your parents house and need a place to bunk by, you don't call in any of your female friends, you hit your guy friends up

When your in serious trouble with the authorities or some group of people, of course you don't go to any of your female friends but rather that one guy who always has your back

You've just went through a breakup and need some social interaction, of course you don't go to any of your female friends, you rather go to your guy friends and make jokes out of it or go out and do guy stuff

I always tell guys that you should always deal with women in getting relationships or sex, nothing more or less and having friendships with them is not gonna benefit you in anyway possible especially if you develop feelings for her or wanna bang her

RegTextoffender · 2023-03-06T17:44:03+00:00

Well the wife failed once again to lose the 10 pounds I require so I have to go full master/slave on this one.

We have a part of our house that has windows on 3 sides, every week she fails to meet goal she will be told to stand there nude, at night, lights on, for 10 seconds, next fail 20, next 30.

I think this is fair and reasonable.

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T18:56:34+00:00

37 and the youngest woman you would date is an 18yo ?

I mean ok bro, you did say you wanted 5 kids after all

Not my preference since the youngest woman l would date at that age is a 23yo but ok

At least she ain't old enough to drink so good taste

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T19:22:02+00:00

Sex is a handshake between the two genders

The men gives his attention,time,energy,resources to the women in exchange for her giving him sex

It's been like this since the beginning of our species

We know the top 10% of guys like Andrew tate or future or athletes/celebrities get the most sex

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T16:13:06+00:00

"What do you think of women who want to keep their last name in marriage"

Narcissistic l would say especially when we all know men give their last names to the things or people we love and care for and are willing to protect no matter what

If l give my last name to my dog deshaun-Talyor that means it's mine and l've responsibility over it

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T17:22:16+00:00

About to set up this guy with his long-time crush

Bro if this goes wrong then you just wasted months being interested in this one women

And Time and Attention is very valuable to a men

If she rejects you then l will let her know as a wingman she missed out on the best guy she will ever find

If she says she has a boyfriend then we'll tell her he can easily be replaced aka just a mountain to be moved

And if all else fails don't blame the wingman

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-06T17:47:03+00:00

I always tell guys don't consider marriage until in your mid 30s and have slept with 15+ women

Because l don't think many guys realize how much of a mental strain it takes waking up to the same person for 20+ years

And there will definitely be a time in the marriage where she withholds sex from you for a long time period, during that period you either have to cheat or end the marriage right there

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