Daily Community Chat Megathread

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-13T23:05:56+00:00

I kinda see a lot of girls upset about their bf’s asking for consent during kisses and sex cause it ruins the fun and the excitement and kills the intimacy causing them to get an ick

What is the safest bet for a guy who don’t want to lose a girl that he is into her , go for consent or ignore it ?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T23:03:09+00:00

Ladies and gentlemen

You know what time it is

There's an MMA fighter who always kicks my ass in kickboxing who is wrestling today.

It is finally my chance to throw the fuck out of him.

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-13T22:58:31+00:00

You know you are fucked up when you start worrying about your ability to love again rather than your ability to find someone who loves you back

potoricco · 2023-07-13T22:51:25+00:00

“if men initiated the majority of divorces, it would still somehow be women's fault it'd be our fault bc we weren't submissive enough, not sexually satisfying enough, we dared to age and look different than we did at 20 no matter what, everything will always be women's fault”

“if men were getting the majority of degrees and performing better in school, it would be proof of their superiority when women perform better in school, it's proof that schooling has been feminized it's simple, remember everything will always women's fault. men are our victims”

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-13T22:47:38+00:00

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/women/workplace-bullying-women-toxic-emily-in-paris-b2249886.html

Why do women bully other women at work?

potoricco · 2023-07-13T22:46:16+00:00

If y’all ever see me doing this on tiktok shut up 🤫 🤐🤐🤐🤐

potoricco · 2023-07-13T22:38:38+00:00

BigVulvaEnergy

potoricco · 2023-07-13T22:26:09+00:00

The Apollo people were right this Reddit app is literally ass like, I can’t even

Tricky_Relief_7152 · 2023-07-13T22:21:14+00:00

Just a shout-out to my fellow XRP and XLM team!

TODAY IS A DAY OF DAYS!

Peacesquad · 2023-07-13T22:20:49+00:00

What did I miss

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-13T22:15:16+00:00

Some clarity on my last comment. A woman can take long to get to know you and who you really are. Weeks or months maybe. She may discover that you’re actually a cool and kind person who’d make a good friend perhaps.

Attraction has nothing to do with that. She makes up her mind on how attractive she finds you almost instantly. Your personality can still disqualify or push you over the edge but you’re usually one or the other (physically attractive or not). To be honest it’s more of a spectrum. The more attractive you are to her the more certain she will be with her decision (i.e. she will not worry if you’re a serial killer, have unprotected sex or don’t take her on a date before escalating). If you’re not as attractive then she may require some convincing through dates etc but be warned. Doing it this way will result in a subpar relationship.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T22:14:31+00:00

My favorite newest development amongst the right wing is them (finally) realizing the Muslims and Africans are their natural allies. They all hate women equally as much, hate LGBT people, and just generally believe insane stupid bullshit.

They are and always have been natural allies, it's just unfortunate (for the right, not for the rest of us) that they haven't figured out that if they were less racist they would very easily be able to bring blacks (as a black man what he thinks about Trans people) and Muslims into their coalition.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-13T22:04:58+00:00

https://youtu.be/Hm2kgIdnSI4

Shoutout to my favorite niche philosophy YouTube, who happened to also touch on the Jonah Hill controversy

(yeah its more like baiting something topical, but it's a good video and his videos are good so watch it)

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-13T21:55:37+00:00

For the people who do not plan on marrying or having children. What are your plans for taking care of yourself as you age?

Once you enter your 60s-70s and health problems begin to rear their ugly heads, what will you do? Curious to know

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-13T21:53:04+00:00

Has anyone done laser hair removal? I'm tired of shaving

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-13T21:36:35+00:00

My ass has been getting bigger. I feel conflicted. On one hand, I don’t like it. On other hand, I’m happy for my husband, who likes it.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-07-13T21:33:58+00:00

Why is the idea of an early 20s woman dating an older guy so disturbing to women here? It used to be fairly common, it's still quite common outside the US (Middle East and Africa especially), etc. There are women who like being choked to within an inch of their life during sex, but women wanting to date a guy 10 years older than them is anathema?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-13T21:27:16+00:00

Female therapist once told me women are on the verge of a mental breakdown everyday

See this is why l just prefer male spaces and everything run by men

Because l don't want this mental breakdown shit when things are going bad and now everyone is panicking

Maffioze · 2023-07-13T21:03:00+00:00

I miss my gf, just wanna lay on her breasts lmao.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-07-13T20:58:08+00:00

I passed my last exam today

Now I can enjoy 2 weeks before starting to study for another one yay

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-13T20:56:19+00:00

Single moms, not even once.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-13T20:53:14+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/14y7xw1/subtlety_of_gaslighting/

Is henpecking abuse?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-13T20:34:46+00:00

Having dating filters is good for everyone. If you ghost after a first date because I didn't kiss you, it's fine by me. If you don't want to wait to have sex and you ghost, I'm all for it. If you don't want to fully pay for our first date, that's all good, they can go have a first date with someone else. Filters are a good way to not take something personal. In those examples, it wasn't about me, so there's nothing for me to internalize or learn.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T20:29:04+00:00

did hill sprints 💪 💪 💪

only felt like i was going to die 5 times 💪 💪 💪

keebydee · 2023-07-13T20:21:57+00:00

My cousin showed my picture to her gay friend and he said that he wouldn't mind if I kissed him. Very flattering but upsetting that the one and only time I had anyone express that I'm sexually attractive in some way is a god damn dude.

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-13T20:12:41+00:00

Nothing is more demotivating about dating than knowing that the vast majority of women would think of me as a creepy, pathetic misogynist for feeling like it sucks how much less attention and opportunities my gender gets, and that I cannot afford to be shy if I ever want to experience anything, unlike women who can. Me expressing that this sucks would turn off every woman on the planet, and I just gonna have that at the back of my mind for the rest of my life. I can't get over it. I just can't.

I'm a fucking minimalist lowlife with no career ambition and a strong repulsion for the ratrace, but I can somehow hold myself back from rubbing my ideology in the face of a woman who laments being disadvantaged in the workplace. Is it really that fucking difficult to do the same for me? Like, there is just no fucking way, right? "That sucks". No, never.

Fuck!

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-13T19:51:58+00:00

Turtle neck shirts suck

scwizard · 2023-07-13T19:47:00+00:00

Feminism back then: "a truly democratic society means giving women the right to vote"

Feminism now: "I DEMAND you pay for my psychology degree you disgusting sexist pig"

TimelyCode6241 · 2023-07-13T19:36:11+00:00

People playing in the trash for attention….

Part 3 dropping soon. Can I get paid?

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-13T19:28:12+00:00

Women: the majority of sexual attention and dating opportunities we get are actually disgusting and repulsive, so it's delusional for men to think it's an advantage that we get so much more attention and opportunities than them.

Also women: the vast majority of men are just normal people walking around outside holding hands with women, only an extreme autistic minority of men are unwanted by women.

If all women think that most male attention is repulsive, then it would be mathematically pretty difficult for most men to effortlessly get into a happy relationship, no?

potoricco · 2023-07-13T19:13:26+00:00

I laugh at the so called “radfems” and “misandrists” who have boyfriends and husbands. You think out of 7billion people YOU got one of the good ones?

happy_discus · 2023-07-13T19:11:58+00:00

Having read this thread I can safely assure everyone here you and me are nobody's type.

potoricco · 2023-07-13T19:07:01+00:00

Worst song lyric ever

“Hey scene slut, I’m still cutting tonight that’s why my wrists are so sore, I know you got a boyfriend but you’re still a whore”

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T19:05:01+00:00

I'm going to talk to my coach today about Tren 💀

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-07-13T18:38:52+00:00

Possibly flaming hot take but I think there are many violent/physical crimes worse than rape.

If say, you had to choose between having sex with someone they don't want to, or having your arm broken, I think the vast majority would bite the bullet and choose the sex(rape). To me, that seems like a relatively straightforward test to gauge the relative severity of various crimes.

But when it comes to criminal justice, most people seem to think rape as being second only to murder in terms of severity. It's definitely viewed as being lot worse than physical assault causing serious injury(having your arm broken), and it carries more severe penalties.

To me, that attitude doesn't make sense if you do some thought experiments.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-07-13T18:28:59+00:00

Possible first ever date coming up and I’m shitting it. Any tips?

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-07-13T18:25:47+00:00

looksmaxxing update: I got a microneedling treatment and my pimple scars are like 80% gone. My face is literally perfect now. I can't stop looking at myself in my phone 🥰

AngeCruelle · 2023-07-13T18:23:34+00:00

Read this comment in a different sub and was curious to see if any of the men here relate

We used to call that the jobsite bump. A 4 in the world can be a 10 on the site if they're the only girl, the nicest girl, or just the one that has to interact with you.

Then you fixate on them for 8-12 hrs a day and suddenly they're the perfect match for you. They even "get" you.

When what they really are is someone trying to get through their day being nice to the guy they work with, they don't get anything about you except the crappy day you both had, or whatever else is going on at work.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-13T18:10:40+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/14yg6wq/my_husband_asked_me_to_open_our_marriage_so_i/

I was distraught the whole day and later that evening I downloaded tinder. I uploaded one of my least flattering pictures. Wrote that I’m a mother of 2, (f3&m1) and that I was in an open marriage. I showed my husband my profile. After one hour I got over 100 mayches. Next day it was around 2000. My husband got very angry and demanded I deleted the app. He said he got the point and to forget about it.

More proof that any man that asks his wife/gf for an open relationship is setting themselves up for a huge L. They fail to realize even a 40yo woman with kids like this will get more action than the top percentile of men, let alone them. That's what you get when you try to have your cake and eat it too.

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-13T18:10:04+00:00

Do most women really have a bad sex life? I feel like it's such an easy issue to fix aka talk to your partner about things you like and boom, amazing sex life

festival-papi · 2023-07-13T18:09:40+00:00

I've finally found a woman taller than 6'2 and she's lovely

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-13T18:09:30+00:00

I like women but I am forced to not be around them due to my biology.

If I could take a vaxx and become neurotypical I would.

DenseCompetitionR · 2023-07-13T17:58:47+00:00

I don't like women but I am forced to be around them due to my biology.

If I could take a vaxxx and become gay I would.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-13T17:53:54+00:00

You don't ask fish for an advice on how to catch fish.

You don't ask fisherman either.

Because people tend to attribute their success to their personal skill. 6'2" guy earning 6 figures, working as a club manager will attribute his success to his irresistible personality. charm... pickup skills. Will also say all these women fell madly in love with him.

But if you watch him "catch fish"... you might find out his social skills are borderline autistic, and he keeps catching superficial gold diggers.

Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-13T17:32:34+00:00

“My wife is my best friend” 😂😂😂😂

PBtoast707 · 2023-07-13T17:31:00+00:00

I don’t understand the hate towards a lot of single moms who want to date. You’re not being forced to go out with them. They’re people who want love too. You don’t know how or why their relationship ended. Just don’t insult them or belittle them.

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-13T17:21:42+00:00

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: No amount of dinner dates, money, favors, doing nice things etc will make her fall for you. She either is or ain’t interested from the get go.

Most women (with the obvious exception of the PPD ladies here who are about to jump in with anecdotes about their own relationships) decide whether they like you or not within the first 30 minutes (and I might be generous at that).

Anything else will result in you being strung along and maybe settled for if she’s looking for a relationship and her options are far and few between. In that scenario you will receive subpar treatment and sex in the relationship and she will leave you the moment the actual guy she wants steps up.

The only exception to this might be hanging in the same social circle and even then I’m not entirely convinced. Basically attraction is either there or it isn’t for the most part. No such thing as seduction. It’s there but it’s mostly a waste of times Find out if she’s into you or not ASAP. Be direct. You’ll save yourself a lot of time and money. If you’re still wondering where you stand after the 1st/2nd date then ghost the bitch.

I’m going to sit and wait for men to come disagree with me (the same ones who complain about the dating market).

Ok-Bee-6216 · 2023-07-13T17:14:21+00:00

men are hornier than women that's why women can choose

there it is, you don't need EvOluTioNarY PsIcHoLoGy or StudIes

it all boils down to that simple statement

potoricco · 2023-07-13T17:09:54+00:00

The problem with letting men pay for you is that they will start to feel entitled to things

When I’m older I plan on being a 50/50 person when on dates

I’ve seen this dynamic way too much. And it doesn’t even have to be just sexual or romantic. people can feel entitled to your time, affection, attention

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-13T17:09:15+00:00

I estimate I'm about 4 more therapy sessions away from getting over my lack of height

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-13T17:05:28+00:00

IRL woman tells me that I should marry a single mom and accept her kids as my own.

This shit happens so much in my life, without me provoking it that I'm starting to think, am I a part of some social experiment? Is some higher force setting these up for laughs and giggles?

I took a long detox from all this pill shit, blue and red pill shit. The sun is shining, I'm having a nice day. Sitting on the beach bar, drinking cocktail... conversing with some people.

Are you married?

And I already know where this leads to...

You should marry a single mom, and with time you will accept kids as your own.

And today I snapped... nice lady promoting some of that fucking propaganda caused some of my own venom to spill out.

Oh I would never marry a single mom.

But why?

Well if she was any good, then her husband wouldn't run away from her leaving his children behind.

But maybe she left him?

But why would she left him?

Maybe he was an asshole.

Oh great, she decided to fuck with an asshole and I'm supposed to raise asshole's kids?

...silence...

DerayRevan · 2023-07-13T16:29:15+00:00

"How can guys make dating better for themselves"

When you approach,text,go on dates

Filter out women that don't wanna fuck you

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-13T16:20:50+00:00

Never forget: Plenty of neckbeards have convinced themselves they’re the average guy.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-13T16:03:41+00:00

Q4All: what would you do if it seemed like people were responding negatively toward you and treating you poorly because of your face?

I don't have a friendly face and I've overheard some women in college say that I look mean as they passed by me. I've even had some women look scared of me like they think that I might try to do something bad to them.

I guess I have a "villain" face. What would you do?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-13T15:26:08+00:00

Guys here: Men teach discipline and understand personal responsibility, unlike women.

When men are expected to have discipline and take responsibility for themselves.

The same guys: GYNOCENTRICISM.

It's similar to “Nice Guys” claiming they're so nice, but when expected to actually do good things for people without the promise of any reward, they won't do it.

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-13T15:03:20+00:00

I’ve heard younger women say their biggest haters in the workforce were older female colleagues, people who in theory would be like mentors or something and it’s like nah. Especially if they are cute, there’s jealousy at play.

Like I get it, in 2005 when you got there you were the cute young intern that everyone wanted to bang, everyone was nice to, did favors for but that time is over. Don’t be mad at this young girl cause you never turned those perks into a promotion or better opportunities. You been there for 18 years this new girl surpassed you in 18 months lol.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-07-13T15:11:21+00:00

https://www.fda.gov/news-events/press-announcements/fda-approves-first-nonprescription-daily-oral-contraceptive

Can't wait to see people get triggered over this one...

scwizard · 2023-07-13T15:11:33+00:00

Once I was doing some online sex rp with this girl and we were really hitting it off having a great time.

Then in the rp took her to visit my character's rich parents. Then in the rp, she revealed she had a lot of student loan debt.

I've never been so suddenly turned off in my life.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-13T15:35:18+00:00

Need to make a post about the false narrative of men having high standards

It's officially one of the most absurd things people always wanna discuss and think is true

Got into such a stupid debate about it yesterday

People always wanna say guys have high standards because they only go after the hot chicks and get rejected, when bruh even average and ugly chicks still reject guys

Men are also fine dating/marrying a woman from a lower socioeconomic status

Guys always date woman who make far less than them, so that's lower financial standards

And l said yesterday, if a woman is a 3 or 4. She still going to get attention from a guys who are 5s or 6s

So yes the narrative is very false

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-13T15:40:30+00:00

Have you ever snitched on someone before

weaverofjoy · 2023-07-13T15:46:24+00:00

The one purely cosmetic/egoistical surgery I would consider is penis enlargement (apparently IRL it's quite dangerous, but consider this as a hypothetical).

People say "it's not the size, it's how you use it" but I do feel packing 8+ inches down there would be a boost in dating/hookups and in LTRs. I've never heard of a girl who prefers a small dildo after all 😂

Peacesquad · 2023-07-13T15:47:13+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-13T15:47:22+00:00

Also…..seggs

baiser_vole · 2023-07-13T15:48:43+00:00

I finally figured out what my boyfriend’s lil bro is up to. Ever since he found out about me, he has been trying to keep me engaged and hype his big bro up. My boyfriend and I have been really confused by his actions. Yeah, that’s a wingman. The 16 yr old kid is a natural wingman. What a kid. But glad I have the lil bro’s approval? 😆

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-13T15:53:06+00:00

Got downvoted for saying males who want women to go Dutch on dates shouldn’t expect trad wives 🥴

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-13T15:55:45+00:00

Today's discussion: Women are making society polygamous

I find women's gut reaction to this high level discussion is to argue that women shouldn't lower their standards. And I'd agree, but then you agree that YOU, in aggregate all of women's individual sexual choices, shape the current sexual market place and thus shape society.

And so when you see it out there get uglier and uglier, all you have to do to see who is responsible for this is for women to look in the mirror.

An honest, positive leaning recommendation would be to give outsized support ( that is, disproportionate more support for men rather than women) in all facets of life. (developmental, eq , financial, physical, social, etc)

Of course, this is as likely to happen as Alessandra Daddario sliding into my insta DMs...

"It is for the cat to decide which milk is good".

Men are the milk. Ignore the cat's meow of what it prefers and observe where all the cats can't help themselves and drink from. Mold yourself to that.

iliyb2 · 2023-07-13T15:57:45+00:00

Enforced monogamy really ruined the gene pool.

potoricco · 2023-07-13T17:12:15+00:00

The problem with having a native language that’s both hard to learn + no incentive to learn

At least I can understand but not speak. A lot of people struggle with passive fluency

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-13T17:58:13+00:00

If women really think male attention is objectively worth less than female attention because men suck (which is the gist of their reply to men who think it sucks how much less attention they get), tehn shouldn't that be brought up to feminists who think men are objectively privileged? Like, if the "price" of privilege is that you are fucked up in the brain, then it's not necessarily actual privilege, right? I guess it depends on whether we see "more fucked up due to their gender" as a disadvantage.

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-13T18:55:50+00:00

Putting aside the original purpose of Tinder, Women complain that men are just on Tinder for short-term fucking, yet so many women I know are in what I assume are stable long-term relationships, started through Tinder. And these aren't women I would call promiscuous in any way. When I ask them about it they say Tinder can be used to look for long-term partners as well. I guess the women who complain and warn other women to stay away from OLD because of sleazy ass men are in a different category than normal well-adjusted women who freely get on Tinder to get boyfriends and husbands.

TimelyCode6241 · 2023-07-13T19:40:56+00:00

Forgive for the lazy writing. I am poor with our a job at the moment because of harassment which make it hard to enjoy other things in life. I would love to see some of those who talk the most in my position. I truly think they’d fold.

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-13T20:53:34+00:00

Most incompetent men just want a hug and kiss at night and quickie at morning , telling them to work on themselves for years to obtain it is just kinda harsh especially with the sense entitlement that most young men have been taught and observing women getting tons of dates and sex without literally doing much , surrendering and complaining all day seems to easier too

DerayRevan · 2023-07-13T21:27:04+00:00

My girlfriend once told me women are on the verge of a mental breakdown everyday

See this is why l just prefer male spaces and everything run by men

Because l don't want this mental breakdown shit when things are going bad and now everyone is panicking

potoricco · 2023-07-13T22:09:58+00:00

My round off is totally dog shit which is really discouraging since it’s one of the easiest skills

I used to be able to do it

potoricco · 2023-07-13T23:19:44+00:00

Does anyone else not get notified when people reply to their posts until like an hr later

Wtf Reddit

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-13T23:35:43+00:00

On a self care spree, I got appointments for:
Laser hair removal
Microneedling for skin
All my shirts to be tailored
What should I add

potoricco · 2023-07-13T23:39:04+00:00

GABBY DOUGLAS WILL COME BACK FOR THE 2024 OLYMPICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

Least_Volume_8591 · 2023-07-13T23:48:38+00:00

As a 20-something multi millionaire with broke immigrant parents, females ruined the dating market.

Among top men I don't feel all that special. There are Chads in their 20s with notch counts in the 100s when only counting models, billion dollar net worths despite growing up without running water in India (true store), hundred million dollar brand deals with the NBA at age 21.

Not a single woman has done anything close to that and so men - even the top men - must go out of their way to meet girls. There are two adaptation strategies both genders use:

Women - realize they are better than the bottom men but nowhere near the top men and chase the top men relentlessly wherever they are. Some women move to silicon valley some to Manhattan they don't have the income to really live there on their own but they can find a man who already lives there and hunt him down with enough effort.

Top Men - realize only other dudes will be around them whether they are at the top or bottom and force themselves to build social circles in more 'middle of the pack' areas. Leave Manhattan and leave silicon valley go to Brooklyn, Queens, Chicago, DC because that's all girls their age can afford.

No one likes this it just has to be done.

Least_Volume_8591 · 2023-07-14T00:11:46+00:00

Why is everyone so stupid and such a retarded loser except for me? They can't even be an intern in silicon valley

Least_Volume_8591 · 2023-07-14T00:14:35+00:00

Americans are stupid incompetent failures at life. They are too stupid to do math too stupid to do compjuter science too stupid to do data science.

If they all became homeless I wouldn't notice because they are too stupid to get into silicon valley fuck them absolute failures.

Least_Volume_8591 · 2023-07-14T00:19:35+00:00

Americans suck at math that's why they can't even become interns in silicon valley no one should hire them go back to where you can from Americans.

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-14T00:25:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/q2d0u4/please_helpguy_im_seeing_found_old_vids_of_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

Knock yourself out, comments are funny

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-07-14T00:45:51+00:00

Is Dave portney right to warn off Tom Brady from Kim K? Something about this online discourse feels very dark.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-14T00:53:38+00:00

Nevertheless guys

Women are still hypergamous and men are not

So least we can all acknowledge this truth moving forward

jobbo321 · 2023-07-14T00:53:46+00:00

The dead bedroom sub always makes me extremely depressed. I'll just leave the moment my future wife turns out like that. Even if we have kids. It'd be a good truthpill for them, life isn't fair.

gigrabbit · 2023-07-14T00:56:02+00:00

still can't believe how much of an unapologetic grifter that just pearly chick is.

she's literally the mr crabs meme and redpill dudes eat it up

potoricco · 2023-07-14T01:11:23+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/v58w2yahztbb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9383a38550f7e50f997cdd23bf9f14fe31d3552f

This is what my little brother sent me I’m actually gonna kill myself

I’m gonna kms

potoricco · 2023-07-14T01:13:20+00:00

Who the fuck just sent me Reddit cares

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-14T01:19:39+00:00

I hit the sickest, most powerful lat drop, in the history of all of wrestling. Oh my fucking god.

coach is going through the security camera footage right now to find it. Half the fucking gym jumped up and screamed when I hit it oh my god I'm a fucking beast his legs flew in the air like he was 50 feet high and when we landed I've never heard anyone go "oof" so hard

Oh my fucking god I should be an Olympic wrestling I'm an absolute god

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-14T01:27:56+00:00

Also I'm about to go to BJJ but I'd like to point out that my last comment is a PERFECT example of how confidence actually works.

I am an extremely self confident person...when I wrestle. Why? Because I'm fucking competent, I've been doing it for so many years. I have the medals, I have the trophies, I have the backup position at my college I can point to

Confidence comes from competence. If I was confident about my wrestling but I fucking sucked ass that wouldn't be confidence, that would be me being delusional.

Same thing for my job. I don't need to self assess whether I'm good at my job. I know for a fact I'm good at my job because I get major milestone projects that stretch across multiple teams completed. I'm confident in my job because I can point to things I've accomplished and say "yeah I'm good at this, here's proof".

So when people say come by and say "Just be confident around women bro" it's a completely nonsense statement. Confidence comes from repeated success and competence, if you're not competent and you're confident, you're just a delusional idiot.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-14T01:30:24+00:00

Can we please limit diary entries to like 2 a day

Ffs people

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-14T01:46:41+00:00

I wanna meet some of yall in real life sometimes.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-14T02:09:22+00:00

Went to the phone store with hubby today in order to put the lines in my name and get a discount. Took a hard inquiry on my credit report, but hey, we’re saving like, a thousand bucks a year.

I felt really glad that we could operate as a unit like that. Plus, at one point hubby had to leave to go pick up his daughter, and we were on his phone with the activation team, so he took mine with him (our phones are our car keys, and also he needed it in case I needed to communicate with him.) We have each others passcodes, so we didn’t have issues with unlocking the phones, and that doesn’t make me nervous at all.

While I was on hold, I didn’t feel the need to read through his texts or anything like that (though I did scroll through his photos and send myself the ones of our family that I liked.) I could also use about three different apps to see where he was and estimate when he was getting back, and whether it was easier to meet him elsewhere (hello, bubble tea) when I finished up early.

I realize that it probably looked really bad to the employee who was helping us, though, especially when I had hubby enter the screen time password on my phone to download the cell service app (I had him set it and not tell me what it is because I need his help to stay off of addicting apps), and given our age gap 😅

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-07-14T02:20:47+00:00

Hill I'm Dying On: The women who defend men cheating in relationships are the first ones to go nuclear when cheated on.

Triple this if he fucks one of her friends/relatives/a woman she hates. Seen this happen too many times for there to not be a pattern.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-14T02:27:25+00:00

What are some examples of society pressuring women to change behaviors that is not misogynistic?

NalkaNalka · 2023-07-14T03:16:31+00:00

I wonder why EulenWatcher got shadw bnned by the site wide employees.

Sparkling_gourami · 2023-07-14T03:25:36+00:00

I think the whole, men don’t get compliments thing is bullshit. I got my haircut and dyed back to my natural colour and I’ve gotten multiple compliments from women at work saying it looks good. I grew a moustache a few months ago, and even though it wasn’t a great moustache, I still got compliments about it. If you’re around nice sociable people, and are a nice kind person yourself, you’ll get compliments if you put any effort into your looks. I don’t think these people are trying to fuck me, it’s just a kind thing to do for others.

The standards are so low for men, I can get a basic fade haircut, take 5 seconds to use some product to push it to the side and BOOM compliments.

I say this as a bi man, most men have F tier fashion and grooming capabilities. And relative to women’s beauty routines, it’s so easy to learn. Level up, men.

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-07-14T03:31:04+00:00

Female sports commentators give me the ick.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-14T03:31:34+00:00

I've never felt the need to tell a man to dress differently, tell him he can't be friends with "the boys", or ask him to change careers. Never occurred to me to change how he dress, who his friends are, what his did for work. A relationship isn't an some power that allows you to manipulate someone into changing who they are.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-14T05:07:56+00:00

Average “independent” woman socialist

Doesn’t want to get married, still wants men to provide for her.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-14T06:27:15+00:00

i wish i could talk to women

women are so nice

scwizard · 2023-07-14T06:43:50+00:00

It's always a lovely miracle when women choose to keep an unplanned pregnancy.

There's this impression people have that abortion is a temporary decision. Because women can have a baby in their 40s when they have money easy no problem if they so choose. So the current baby can be replaced by a future baby at will.

Where keeping the baby is a permanent irreversible and potentially life ruining decision.

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-14T08:09:02+00:00

I read a comment earlier on about women marrying men they are kinda attracted to re: dead bedrooms and then things just getting worse after marriage. If the woman isn't in dire straits or in need of a provider, like many educated women of today who pay their own way, why are they settling? Is it hard to find a man who is both attractive (instead of just 'eh he'll do, he has his moments) and marriage material?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-14T08:12:52+00:00

If a woman is no longer benefitting you, kick her to the curb, bring in a bitch that will add something to your life.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-14T10:19:11+00:00

An insecure man won't tell his girl how he really feels about her going to the clubs, posting half naked photos on social media, having lots of make friends etc. He'll instead stay with her and lie to himself by saying "You go baby! You do whatever you want!"

A secure man will communicate the things that make him uncomfortable and set boundaries for them, and if his girl doesn't like them, he won't fight, he'll just leave and go find a girl who falls in line with those values.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-14T11:24:49+00:00

Honestly, for as much is people want to shame on fat girls, a lot of people here are no different from the fat acceptance, movement, mentally.

They never want to address their problems, they want to pretend they have no problem, they’re just normal people, and so the problems never get resolved, but they want to cry about the consequences of those problems. With fat acceptance, its fat girls not acknowledge their obesity is killing them. With neckbeards, its not acknowledging their personality.

“But Chad doesnt need a good personality” Chad is able to find women as awful as he is because of his good looks and charisma. If you have neither AND a bad personality, your only options would be to get rich, be with less attractive women with bad personalities too, or be a simp for Stacies.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-14T11:30:55+00:00

“All relationships are transactional” is just code for “I want a sugar relationship, but Im too cheap and ashamed to admit it, so I’ll project my mindset onto other people”.

eye_fuck · 2023-07-14T11:45:51+00:00

What is the worst opinion you have?

Sparkling_gourami · 2023-07-14T12:36:01+00:00

On the Jonah Hill discussion and having GFs posting racy photos, in my own personal experience, I had a LTR with a woman who started doing boudoir photography and having it posted online around 3-4 years into the relationship. She also did some regular modeling as well. At first I was kind of insecure about it, but eventually grew ok with it because I knew she was very committed to me. I also liked the part where people saw how hot my girlfriend was, it made me feel more value. The aspect that did bother me though, is it was clearly an insecurity for her when other girls would get more likes. I enjoyed having sexy photos of my partner, but behind the scenes I’m not sure if it was the healthiest thing for her to be doing.

Looking back now, that insecurity of needing to compete with other women on the looks market was clear from the beginning. I’m not against dating a woman who might take photos of a more tasteful sexual nature, but I’m going to be careful about dating a woman who takes too much of her own value her appearance. Because at the end of the day, there will always be someone hotter than you, and you need to learn to love yourself for who you are.

Willow-girl · 2023-07-14T13:41:39+00:00

I'm thinking of writing my dissertation on gender-based differences in feline naming protocols. To wit:

My names for the barn cats at the farm: Tabetha, Matilda and Luna Tuna.

My man's names for them: Truck Cat (so-called because she likes to hang out in the cab of his truck) and The Other Two.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-14T13:58:02+00:00

Understanding women, and people in general, it’s a lot easier when you don’t make up your own definitions, and listen to what people are actually telling you.

Like when a woman says, “I want a guy who’s nice and kind”, I still don’t know how there are men who hear/read that, and misinterpret it to mean “Oh! If a guy is nice to her, she’ll immediately get wet and present her pussy to him”, but then want to blame women when that’s not what she means.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-14T14:24:22+00:00

If you are white and you live in America and your life sucks it is entirely, 100%, without any caveats your fault.

I am an actual imbecile, I would have been killed by society 50 or 100 years ago when I came out of the womb, the spartans would have thrown me off a cliff. But I am by any measure you can think of (other than old money) extremely wealthy, with no inheritance.

It's not that fucking hard. It really isn't. It doesn't even require you to be intelligent, all you have to do is be not lazy and study in high school (so you can get into Ivy) and...that's it, congratulations, you are now a millionaire at 30.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-14T14:38:45+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-14T14:39:14+00:00

Currently redditmaxxxing and soon to be looksmaxxxing to get some kitty kat. Wish me luck fam

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-14T14:49:39+00:00

Q4M: What is a job that a women has (no degree cause college makes slutty women) that looks good to a man?

Men alway say the job doesn't matter, but most still want her employed. What are the jobs that attractive quality women do in your view?

potoricco · 2023-07-14T14:51:04+00:00

I hate music when I’m working out it’s distracting and I prefer video essays, that’s why I’m so smart

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-14T16:01:10+00:00

I got banned for 7 days and the amount of autism I had to filter through while reading the post on this sub (mainly by u/SierraMistSoda) has been terrible.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-14T17:03:13+00:00

If I have to explain to one more dipshit man on here that women are not intentionally remaining pregnant for 9 fucking months just to kill their babies in utero, I'm gonna ctrl+z someone IRL. Late stage abortions are almost always wanted pregnancies, but terminated because the *fetus has either died or has a condition that makes it incompatible with life.*

Babies are *delivered* in the third trimester, not aborted, ffs

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