Daily Community Chat Megathread

TigerRude4 · 2023-11-20T22:19:27+00:00

If it wasn't for trp, I'd be a grade A simp

its-probly-over · 2023-11-20T20:43:36+00:00

OMEGA

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T20:41:14+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8U7fYks/

Stand on business

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-20T20:35:58+00:00

disney's "adorkable" problem, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vF0A-tP5f-w

This video is exactly what I was thinking. Disney movies are too quirky, Disney isn't artistic anymore

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T20:31:36+00:00

My thing is that i like acrylic/gel nails visually and i do want to get my nails done biut they just feel soo awful and fuck up Ur real nails, last time igot this gel manicure and it just felt so fake even though it was pretty but removing it was just hell

For that reason i prefer to just grow my nails, pain them and then cut them once i get tired but i stopped following my nail routine so theyre just a normal lengtth now

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-20T20:25:38+00:00

I'm going home tomorrow!!!

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T20:23:57+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8U7nfSY/

Guys i desperately want grills that look like hers

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T20:16:32+00:00

Also i have a bf now

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-20T20:01:23+00:00

You could take that to its logical conclusion and advocate suicide - better to drop out of the game altogether, eh?

I got this as a response to me saying "Just stop dating, focus on yourself, self-improve, and then come back to dating".

I could not have predicted how much guys here really hate personal responsibility and self-reliance. For all the talks about masculinity, are you guys aware how anti-masculine that is?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-20T19:46:56+00:00

I just learned that there are people who haven’t seen some of their friends naked.

keebydee · 2023-11-20T19:46:40+00:00

I remember when I was full of hope for dating when I was a teenager. Ah, so delusional. ☺

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-20T19:38:26+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/Czr8yjEuQak/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igshid=NTYzOWQzNmJjMA==

Based

Also rate Tarantino

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-20T19:31:36+00:00

Girls tend to exaggerate size. Here's a ruler to convert perceived inches into *actual* inches! : bigdickproblems (reddit.com)

fact or BS?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-20T19:23:52+00:00

Hey hey! I can do a handstand, forearm stand, and headstand.

Nice.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-20T19:10:55+00:00

Is it hard for the red pill to accept that most women aren't interested in hookups like they are? It's not AF/BB just because women have 1 or 2 hookups and then proceed to have relationships. Who's to say they didn't have a relationship before the hookup too?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-20T19:03:12+00:00

Sex?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-20T18:55:45+00:00

A lot of people are hung up on the idea that women only want dudes 6'0 and above. However, what these people don't realize is that most women aren't very good at recognizing 6'0 when they see it- partially because it's hard to estimate the height of things that are taller than you, and partially because a lot of guys skew women's perception by lying about their height.

To test this theory, I asked a bunch of my female friends how tall they thought I was. All of them (bar one who was 5'9) guessed that I was 2-3 inches taller than I actually am.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-20T18:55:09+00:00

Idea: PPD camping trip. We all meet up in Alaska and live off the land for 3 weeks. Thoughts?

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-20T18:48:53+00:00

It's fucked up that men have to engineer themselves to be meaner to women for a tactical advantage in romance.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-20T18:47:33+00:00

I hope affordable realistic masturbation automatons which resemble women come into existence, not because I think they can replace the real thing, but so men have a bargaining chip. I hate that we are in such level of immorality that we can't just trust eachother, that we have to use such machiavellian tactics, but that's the situation we're in.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-20T18:25:58+00:00

Them: We are not a monolith

Also them: Are we f*cking them same guy?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-20T18:25:13+00:00

I found out earlier that one of my female friends' boyfriends is afraid of me, and she had to hit him with the "He's just a friend" talk. She is just a friend- I'm happily in a relationship, and this particular female friend is incompatible with me in a number of ways- but it does feel kinda nice to be perceived as a romantic threat.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-11-20T18:22:37+00:00

comedian talking about how you can get such a discount on a hot guy if he’s short

saulbasedman · 2023-11-20T18:22:09+00:00

I be like "Women hit the wall at age 23!" and then simp for Christina Hendricks and Bryce Howard.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-20T18:19:03+00:00

Women's friend cheating on her husband.

Women : people are complex. It's none of my buisness.

Women found out she fucked a married men.

Women : Tell the wife.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-20T18:08:17+00:00

Overr

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-20T18:05:03+00:00

Check on your male friends. A post about male mental health and how men do not get support even in situations where it should be clear that they need it. There are some great comments under it as well.

It isn't enough to say that men should open up - we (both men and women) also should prepare the basis for them to do so.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-20T18:02:23+00:00

I talk a lot of shit but actually idek how dating works. wtf do people talk about during a date 🤨

guys always say they'll take anybody but you have to at a minimum have some similar interests to actually meaningfully hold onto that relationship...right?

either way extrapolating men needing "personality" doesn't work out because no.1 is meshing well with another person, and extrapolating "women have 100 options" also doesn't work if they dont have anything in common

but idk how this works tbh 😂 apparently people just get together cause they think they're hot and that's enough somehow

keebydee · 2023-11-20T18:00:58+00:00

Something that's been fucking with me lately is that I sometimes mistake dreams as actual experiences I had in reality. So I'll like think about my first kiss for example and start reminiscing about it but then start realizing it actually never happened and I'm just recalling a dream.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-20T17:47:26+00:00

I finally asked my boyfriend why he thinks I’m so beautiful while trying not to sound too insecure. He said it’s because I look different. I have pale skin, red hair, blue eyes, and be absolutely loves it. He says most other women look the same. My dad overheard our conversation and I think my boyfriend has won him over. They’re really starting to like each other.

sine120 · 2023-11-20T17:37:49+00:00

Feeling the masculine urge to chop wood in the snow for 4 hours, but I don't have a woodstove and it's not snowy. Damn.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-20T17:29:10+00:00

There's definitely a gendered double standard when it comes to dictating how your partner looks.

People don't even bat an eyelid when a woman makes their partner change their hair, grow/shave a beard or chooses a whole new wardrobe for them. It's just considered fair game and helping them to improve.

...But if you say you made your GF/wife change her hair or chose what clothes she wears? Honey, you got a big storm coming.

I get that there's differing views towards these things between men and women. Men are in general far less attached to the haircut they sport, or the clothes they choose to wear. Many are absolutely fine with their partner making these decisions for them, happy wife happy life etc.

It does however mean that a lot of controlling behaviour from women is simply swept under the rug. Don't like that your GF has dictated a whole new style for you that you're not comfortable with? "Oh what do you know, she's doing you a favour obviously".

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-20T17:28:08+00:00

I accidentally gave someone a mean nickname. Those anti-bullying speakers who came to my middle school would be so disappointed in me.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-20T17:28:05+00:00

All men are dogs -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17yw69d/we_can_be_afraid_of_dogs_if_were_bitten_but_not/

its-probly-over · 2023-11-20T17:19:04+00:00

Just realised that my dick is long like limousine and fat like aubergine

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2023-11-20T17:12:41+00:00

Heard recently about "Shifting Baseline Syndrome", it was in relation to climate change and how our expectations for what's a "normal environment" changes over time as we become more exposed to the new environment.

I think it points out something fundamental in human nature, and think it can be applied somewhat to what we see today in the modern dating market. A hundred years ago people were only really exposed to people they met in real life, and their dating expectations were only set by this pool. Then the baseline changed a bit when TV and magazines came along; but what really changed the game was social media and dating apps.

I think that both men and women have shifted their standards for a partner. Dating apps and social media expose you primarily to the top % of people, so peoples standards have started to shift upwards. But in this case it's all fake, so what ends up happening is peoples standards have raised but the average hasn't, in some respects it's actually gone down.

So now we have this situation where only a small percentage can even reach the "baseline", which is why we see articles posted on here that say things like "Women rate 90% of men as 'below average' in new study". The average man hasn't gotten better, but due to the exposure on social media and dating apps the expectations for the average man have skyrocketed.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-20T17:12:11+00:00

I don't know what annoys me more; people who put on weight and then complain about the consequences, or the peanut gallery they turn to that insist everyone else is wrong.

Men aren't exempt from this, but I find this type of victimology so prevalent in mom support circles.

I think its the peanut gallery that really gets in my nerves. Instead of offering solutions, they just double down and say stupid shit like "I know an easy way to get rid of 200lbs, throw the whole man away!!"

Its like..no Carol, OP just said she's a SAHM of 3 and hasn't worked in 15 years. You're advocating divorce and single motherhood because OP's husband had the audacity to prefer her in a slimmer, healthier figure. Are you gonna pay OP's bills? No? Then STFU Carol.

Mom support circles are some of the most toxic places I've come across on the web.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-20T17:04:48+00:00

Most people are totally incompetent. Today in my job i was fixing other peoples mistakes and that shit gives me a headache.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-20T16:54:57+00:00

Most people talk about size when they talk about tits, or firmness and sure they are important. But noone ever talks about nipples. Nipples are so underrated when it comes to hotness.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-11-20T16:49:28+00:00

Red pillers will claim men and women are fundamentally different and should be held to different standards. Consider the infamous slut/stud double standard for example but will readily decry perceived 'injustice,' such as in criminal or family court favoring women. However, according to their own ideology, this should not even be a problem since they believe men and women are fundamentally different and should be held to distinct standards.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-20T16:48:25+00:00

Bro, never be emotional in front of your woman, ever -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17za4x7/i_ended_my_engagement_because_my_fiance_threw_and/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-20T16:38:47+00:00

So many liars on one post -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17yvz6v/do_you_really_like_dad_bods/

As a former fat guy who now looks athletic, I can tell you most above average women aren't attracted to dad bods.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-20T16:38:41+00:00

Why do people even buy new Call of Duty games? You must suffer from some grade A brainrot if you keep buying them. Does anyone else think that the new MW looks so plastic-like?

Good memories from Black ops 1, Black ops 2 and Modern Warfare 3 though.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-20T16:34:28+00:00

What do you think about earrings on men? Hot or not?

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T16:10:39+00:00

Guys my school library has a quran

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T15:56:06+00:00

Guys i need money not even for myself but for thanksgiving cz i want to cook stuff and buy stuff but my mom is still mad at me so i cant ask her idk what i even did

leosandlattes · 2023-11-20T15:52:08+00:00

When people message you fuck you cunt blow ur worthless cunt head off because you're apparently a fake red pill, and if you were real red pill you'd get yourself banned.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-20T15:48:20+00:00

Is there a weight loss sub or something where I can post photos of my current weight loss or do I just have to go the posting it on my profile route?

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T15:47:03+00:00

ITS THANKSGIVINGGGG SOON

itzReborn · 2023-11-20T15:39:52+00:00

I feel like my issues will never be solved as long as I live in this dysfunctional household. Thought my childhood was pretty decent until recently. Now I know every problem I’m facing(anxiety, being quiet, low confidence,etc) comes from everything that happened(happening) at home

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-11-20T15:28:01+00:00

I think red/black pilled men would experience a collective brain aneurysm if they knew how normal it is for sluts to have their cake and eat it too

dbz__f · 2023-11-20T15:19:46+00:00

women

how would you feel if attractive female celebrities were popping up in your husbands instagram reel recommendations? like especailly ones you knew were his "type"

hoisk · 2023-11-20T15:04:14+00:00

Is it reasonable for a man to expect his woman to still desire him if he were a CFO when they met, but now he wants to quit the ambitious job to be a garbage man instead?

I know everyone wants unconditional love. A person who says “I will love you no matter what”. And honestly I would love my man if he chose this path but I don’t know if we’d be on the same page at that point, and I think attraction would wane. Does this mean I am not a loving person? In a similar way, I think it is a woman’s obligation to maintain her looks for the sake of preserving attraction in the relationship, so I don’t say this while demanding my man has full attraction to me if I blew up to 300 lbs.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-20T14:28:31+00:00

Good morning to everyone who: - Works in a STEM field or has a STEM degree - Is bringing some kind of dish to their Thanksgiving lunch/dinner - Likes winter better than summer, or - Has a favorite animal that includes any primate, big cat, or aquatic creature

dbz__f · 2023-11-20T14:24:38+00:00

Question for women: would you rather

A. when you go out to parties or with your friends or whatever, and your bf/husband is there, he is the ugliest bastard in history and makes people cringe to look at him. Applies to facebook/instagram and so on as well. BUT when you're alone together at night, he turns into a chad prince charming.

OR

B. When you're around other people, he's chad, but when you're alone together he's a hideous uggo.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-20T14:24:32+00:00

Why so much fat and chubby women hate on this sub?

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-20T13:55:35+00:00

Since men are obsessed with isogamy, why don’t virgin men go with high n count women?

Both of these situations create a stigma from the opposite sex. The same way, too. Both reflect having characteristics that the opposite sex dislikes.

I don’t mean the guy who was deliberately a virgin due to religious reasons. I mean the guy who had no choice. His equal is a woman with a high n count who just can’t get men to commit.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T20:50:45+00:00

One of the most annoying thing women do in debates is whenever a guy makes an analogy or something to help his argument and in response they go like "Oh, so you're comparing women to animals/inanimate object? That's not a good look."

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T21:21:12+00:00

I kinda find it funny when women talk about how men give up "too easily" when it comes to dating. "These guys get rejected one time, give up forever and suddenly hate all women because of it. Men are so weak" "If you haven't tried everything and stopped approaching women then you can't complain." But whenever you hear some women talk about approaching a guy, they'll say how it didn't go their way and decides they'll never approach men ever again because of it.

The excuses women will tell to not approach. It's either guys won't be receptive because men actually in reality don't like being approached, they'll see women as really desperate and say no or they'll say yes no matter what his relationship status to use her for sex and entertain the fact that a woman just approached him. All of this nonsense to justify being passive. I just want them to straight up say that they don't approach because they're either too lazy, too full of their own ego and feel like they're too good to be approaching somebody or simply just have a fear of rejection. I just don't buy these excuses where women say they are basically FORCED to not approach and to be passive.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-19T23:03:12+00:00

I wish I lived in Redditland. Here, everyone seems to know loads of short guys in relationships, loads of unattractive men who can’t keep women off them, and the only men who struggle are misogynists and weirdos. It sounds like a nice place over in Redditland.

I think the last time I saw a guy my height (5’5) walking with a girl was back in August at a fair. Might have been his friend or something.

old_new_age · 2023-11-19T20:13:01+00:00

I don't understand how the patriarchy could ever go anywhere with posts like this getting so many upvotes. As long as this woman and the women who agree with her are socially conservative then there's no problem really, but any feminist with these sexual preferences is shooting herself in the foot. I guess you can't help what you're attracted to but you should probably acknowledge what's happening.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-19T21:05:50+00:00

I hope every woman in here has only sons so they are forced to live with the consequences of their worldview.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-19T22:05:19+00:00

Apparently some woman on Reddit got paid 76k for a 49 year old to take her virginity when she was 18 years old. In the AMA she said she was a 6 out of 10. She's now in her early 20s like me.

When I say how woman live entirely different realities than average men, I mean exactly that.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-19T20:49:25+00:00

Kind of funny how some women start cleaning up their instagram (as well as deleting slutty pictures) around when they hit around 29.

Why now ? :p

its-probly-over · 2023-11-19T21:58:55+00:00

Blue pill is so dumb

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-19T20:06:27+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17yw69d/we_can_be_afraid_of_dogs_if_were_bitten_but_not/

Is this entire thread not a justification of racism by another name?

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-19T21:38:31+00:00

"Learn to be happy being single" is really about trying to shut down single people from talking about how their life is worse due to not being able to have the kind of relationship they want

Whenever a person who is in a happy relationship (more or less) gives the standard advice "learn to be happy being single" I find it so braindead. I don't really understand what they're thinking. Given that it's a relationship they want to stay in, if their relationship ended and they were single, their life would be less happy. If it wasn't, then why are you even with that person? And if you know your partner has so little regard for you that they're indifferent between staying with you or being single, then they are probably not someone you want to be in a relationship with.

Sometimes they'll admit that not being with their partner would change their life, but just to a lower level of happiness. But at that point they've redefined what "happy" means. Like, ok, the "unhappy" single person is actually "happy," and their problem is that they want a "higher level of happiness." The advice stops making sense because we're no longer talking about a binary happy vs. unhappy.

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-19T23:36:38+00:00

Speed dating is a scam, and here's why: on this webpage: https://www.speedtexasdating.com/faq

One of the FAQs is this:

How do I get invited to complimentary events?

By being as delightful and lovely as you can. We don’t judge by looks or your match results; Instead, we look at your interactions with our staff, hosts and fellow attendees. When daters stand out for being the best version of themselves and found to be just what others fancy in a mate - the world of cheeky is theirs! They can expect complimentary events and matchmaking opportunities at no additional cost to them. It is where lovely meets value - SpeedTexas style.

"Complimentary" means free, meaning they are invited in order to fill out the numbers. They know they'd get in legal trouble if they didn't, technically, disclose that they were doing something like that. One way or another, some unknown number of people are paid to be there as "people trying to date."

Chat up your prospective 'Date-Mates' 6-7 minutes at a time. Sometimes, for our larger events, this may be shortened by 1 or 2 minutes to accommodate all of the mini-dates in a timely fashion.

That is insane. Paying good money to talk to someone for just a few minutes? I'd feel cheated.

Unlike other speed dating companies that offer free spots to those that don't receive matches, we take a different approach to returning guests. Those whom are delightful and absolutely lovely - are often invited back with discounts or with our compliments. This encourages a fabulous pool of daters others want to meet.

No, you don't get the next one for free if you don't get a match. "Those whom are delightful and absolutely lovely" is code for "hot women to create the illusion of it being a legitimate thing."

Behavior short of lovely will result in a dater being banned from the company.

This is code for "if you start asking too many questions, questions that could expose how much of a grift it is, we'll just ban you." A natural question for them would be to ask about how many people are there because they want to actually find someone to date and how many have gotten discounts or who knows what other benefits.

I'm pretty sure the business model of these companies means duping men into believing they have a real chance, and then charging them fees for each event over and over.

If you check out the pricing on their "MATCHMAKING PACKAGES", it's essentially $600 for two dates. No guarantees that it would ever work out with that person, of course. That $300/date doesn't count you paying for the date.

*Basically, for $300 and a fancy meal, I'd go on a date with pretty much anyone.**

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-20T04:00:03+00:00

I love having a mundane problem/question for a game, going to a discord related to the game and asking the question and recieving an entire spreadsheet + three paragraphs of thorough advice from nerdy discordians. people are good 😊

actually where is that one guy who talked about this but as in female discord privilege cause maybe its real

VTHokie2020 · 2023-11-19T20:09:12+00:00

Alright, I've come to the conclusion I'm a social Darwinist.

I don't feel bad that large portions of men are lonely with no support network. I don't feel bad that women will never achieve the same level of success as men in business, engineering, politics, etc. I don't feel bad that Israel is stronger than Palestine.

I don't feel bad that there is inequality in this world.

Pointing out that inequality is just stating a fact. Saying there shouldn't be inequality is an opinion.

To me it's like pointing out that the University of Alabama has a better football program than some community college in Hawaii. Fact. Saying that we should restructure society so to equalize sports teams is an opinion.

Am I psychopath? I just feel like I'm being consistent here.

No-Rough-7390 · 2023-11-19T20:26:35+00:00

I’m curious as to why so many folks actually buy into the equal partnership and 50-50 BS. It ignores a few things such as housework is unskilled labor that is really not that time consuming or laborious in general and can usually be done in a couple hours and you’re set for the week. I know the parenting point is embedded in that, but metrically men are more involved with their families and children than ever before

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-19T22:26:15+00:00

A big mistake of feminism is that feminists insult innocent men. Now good men want nothing to do with feminism and it's women's fault.

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-19T23:00:53+00:00

Happy International Men's Day! Can't wait to see the awesome doodle that Google cooked up for us on their homepage.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-19T23:17:00+00:00

Happy International Men's Day everyone!

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-20T00:08:10+00:00

Met a guy at the bar a few nights ago- he asked for my Snapchat and I gave it to him

Then I get this snap from him 😅

https://preview.redd.it/fpuf9x4q9e1c1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d7a1701ead9460e9ee36be66679b3ea16f1ff1e7

It didn’t work but it did make me lol

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-20T00:32:35+00:00

The rejection I had this weekend has me in my feelings more so than any other I've experienced. Usually I brush it off but I was so sure it was gonna be a yes.

She's too precious for this world so my mindset was I wasn't gonna play any games. After she said no, ngl I kinda caved and started talking about all the ways I find her attractive.

She said, "Yeah I know I'm attractive."

FML I should've played games with her.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-20T01:01:32+00:00

For men who are insecure about being virgins:

Your virginity is nobody’s business but your own. Nobody has the right to ask you about it outside of a serious romantic partner.
If a serious romantic partner does ask you about it, you still have the right to say something like “I don’t kiss and tell” or “I don’t want to say” or something along those lines.
Extend that same courtesy to your partner and don’t demand you know how many guys she has been with when if you don’t want to say yours.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-20T01:14:42+00:00

Why is it that guys keep thinking that a hook up app that’s 70% men isn’t going to leave them disadvantaged? Stop whining about tinder if you’re going to keep insisting on using it despite everyone else telling you why it’s shit.

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-20T03:11:31+00:00

I really wish Reddit would show what comment was deemed to deserve "concerned redditor" message. I'm now wondering whether someone reacted this way to my comment about spending money or it is the other guy who can't get his head around the idea that you can learn to be content single and still try to date.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-19T20:00:37+00:00

Sea elephants have chad harems of around 50 females. It's estimated that only about 1% of sea elephant males get to reproduce. The others just die or live their lifes as incels. We usually don't see animalcels in documentaries and if we do they are getting beaten up by chads that defend their harems. A documentary about these lone loser males in animal populations would ve very interesting. I think many people would be able to relate to the hopeless loneliness animalcels have to go through.

I would recommend to anyone in this sub to watch the "Chimp Empire" documentary on Netflix. We see the alpha males, the ascending redpiller, the failing self improvenent enthusiasts, the one's that just give up and even the betabuxx. There was this low value male chimp that approached a single mom and started to take care of her kid in hopes to get some pussy and because he was lonely. She was happy with the 'dad who stepped up', but when she was in her ovulatory stage and her kid was old enough she just walked past the betabuxxing nice guy to get fucked by the high value male chimp in his prime. Homeboy just stood there and got cucked. Probably still depressed af. His biggest sin was being a small, introverted chimplet.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T23:22:48+00:00

And apparently women can't hold in their periods? 🤨

I thought they could hold it in just like pee but mother got on me and said women have no control over it. Lol. My bad.

iliyb · 2023-11-20T05:53:54+00:00

If men are visual creators then why do they look like that?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-20T12:48:19+00:00

"Hmm someone provided a nuanced take on the value of looks in the dating market. Shall I respond with a similarly nuanced view? A more simple take that is still well worded and has supporting evidence?"

....Nah, that's too much work."

But what about the 5'4 bald Indian janitor??

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-20T13:42:15+00:00

Talking to a girl who is literally a Nazi but wants advice on how to proceed...

Mate, there is no proceeding.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/s/2EPe1z2Nv4

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-19T20:44:43+00:00

would you pay a woman to take her virginity

same price as a avg hooker

ratboi34 · 2023-11-19T21:21:12+00:00

Where can I meet the highest number of decent looking, poor, bisexual women in their mid 20s, that like to watch anime?

its-probly-over · 2023-11-19T22:21:05+00:00

I've never met anyone that told me to refer to them using certain pronouns, but if i did i feel like id just say 'are you dumb?'

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T23:17:13+00:00

It’s like the first time I asked one of my exes to get me pads from the store, and he thought the numbers meant size of vagina looool, instead of absorbency level.

My brother and I thought the same thing when mother wanted us to get her pads. My brother said he thought the #4 on the box meant she had a size 4 vagina. 🤣🤣

Apparently it means blood flow or something like that. Lol. I still don't really know

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T01:07:43+00:00

Me realizing that once im out of college and get a real job i wont have summer, winter, thanksgiving, or spring break just One day holidays OMGGGGGG whoever came up with this is truly EVILL why is no one talking about this

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-20T01:23:04+00:00

You know, I've never been insecure about being a virgin. I've always been far more concerned about experiencing the smaller parts of relationships/intimacy like kissing, holding hands, going out on dates, etc because I thought those were at least things that I could feasibly achieve while sex always seemed like something that's definitely out of my reach so it's something I shouldn't be concerned about yet.

I don't know if I'm making sense. It's kinda like if you're thinking about learning how to draw, the first thing you shouldn't be worried about is when you can start animating for a studio.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-20T01:23:42+00:00

I remember back in high school, this girlfriend of my friend would occasionally sit on my lap when our friend group would go out. Kind of cringe looking back. What girlfriend sits on the lap of another man ?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-20T02:38:11+00:00

Mother tryna come in my room with those gross chipped nail polish on her feet. Bitch, come back when you got those socks on. 😒

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-20T02:47:39+00:00

I really gotta work on my "midwestern mom" repertoire. I have casseroles down, now I need to move on to pot roast, steaks, and roast chicken. Mediocre white people core!!!

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-20T03:07:13+00:00

When a woman is raped we don't all go "well, you just have to make the best of the options available to you," yet when it is men who are harmed we tell them to fuck off.

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-20T03:11:19+00:00

Being raped is like chronic sexlessness. I am not making light of rape, rape is terrible. I'm saying that most of you all don't appreciate how terrible chronic sexlessness is. You saying "No it isn't!" .. you are proving my point.

ThisBoringLife · 2023-11-20T03:25:50+00:00

A topic I've seen in the past, so here's a mini-rant:

I always find it entirely weird, in context of porn and sex work, that people get mad at those who consume that content and use those services, but don't get mad at those who provide them.

Because ultimately, it's still a shame applied to the content as a whole (hard to be "sex-positive" when stigma is applied to performing the actions). Which makes me ask:

Why not desire for prostitution (in all its recognized forms) and porn to be wholly outlawed, if consuming the content is so shamed?

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-20T05:16:24+00:00

I don’t really get this meme.. If my husband called my friends looking for me, they’d start a searching party together. Not one of my friends would think to lie about me being with them if I wasn’t really with them.

happy_discus · 2023-11-20T08:33:04+00:00

If my autistic ass can approach women at the club, you too can approach them and fail miserably. 👍

y2kjanelle · 2023-11-20T09:05:26+00:00

Just read the post about men separating emotions from sex or whatever and hating their wives and not prioritizing emotions in their relationships.

just so mf sad. like is it really crazy now to think my boyfriend loves me and doesn’t go to work claiming I’m a crazy, nagging shitty gf he hates 💀 the bar just can’t be that low be real.

Why do men even want love or relationships then??

Maffioze · 2023-11-20T12:06:46+00:00

Sometimes it's really a source of pride to be downvoted.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-19T21:09:29+00:00

I won't go into detail but there is something in life I want more than marrying a beautiful woman. I hope I achieve it.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-19T21:12:28+00:00

I dont give a fuck

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-19T21:45:12+00:00

Q4A: In your opinion, what’s the male equivalent of a woman going out in a super revealing outfit?

My friends and I were just discussing this and came to a really specific conclusion, but I want to see if our view lines up with that of others.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-19T22:05:27+00:00

ok genuine question ik cum sock is a meme but how does someone actually jerk it with a sock. wouldn't that give crazy rugburn... or just have too much friction

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-19T22:22:34+00:00

We gotta find a way to freaky Friday irl lmao

The results would be hilarious

I hope these girls didn't really think we jack off WITH the sock, I couldn't imagine the pain

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-19T22:40:19+00:00

I'm thinking for a new project I might buy a cookbook from the 50s-70s, try the recipes that are no longer common and see if I can find some gems. And maybe update them. How dumb is this idea?

soupmastwr · 2023-11-19T23:18:56+00:00

CMV: When men here talk about women they talk about sex obsessed and sex positive liberals women. It's just traditionally minded women are not common in this subreddit. Also it's not men vs women it's sex negative vs sex positive. Thank you

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T23:35:40+00:00

Marriage Only benefits men guys even tho certain pills want to deny it

its-probly-over · 2023-11-19T23:57:20+00:00

Going sleep is best

Willow-girl · 2023-11-20T00:20:37+00:00

I'm watching this online auction go off and just saw a dining room set sell for over $6,000. Whew!

Little rich for my blood ...

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T00:35:06+00:00

She is SO fucking hot like i cant gverlkjvn'aeidcfnewioUBD Whi3b fchkaew ZChk Why i ship her and jamieeeee omg

https://preview.redd.it/l3lnbzanee1c1.png?width=1996&format=png&auto=webp&s=2bbec8c2b7d9677928a381e2d8c2cf19d9c21184

hannahg000 · 2023-11-20T00:58:23+00:00

it’s crazy that i only have two semesters of undergrad left

bossman146 · 2023-11-20T01:32:04+00:00

The guys here underestimate how much women troll. Girls love talking shit just like the boys do. And you know what, they’re good at it

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-20T01:44:32+00:00

Are people finally realizing that Pokimane is a bitch? I've been waiting for this annoying chick's downfall for quite some time now.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-20T02:12:33+00:00

My mom is a caterer and I help her out when my schedule allows.

Today she did a harvest dinner for this huge baptist church (550 people).

I was shocked with how many young attractive people there were lol. There were many young cute families and several hot guys that I’d be into and they were super nice asking me about catering, my life, and like saying how nice everything was.

Such a juxtaposition from my church (catholic) where there is barely any young guys

FreeTaylorSwift · 2023-11-20T02:25:03+00:00

Q4M: How did you find a virgin gf?

thetruthishere_ · 2023-11-20T02:45:16+00:00

When the hot guy is too big of a disaster even for a hookup...

Cant do business with him either hes such a flake. Commissioned work getting paid well. Too bad it would have been a nice collaboration and worth while.

I'll work it out and take all the money and he can keep on being a disaster.

Pola_Lita · 2023-11-20T03:08:25+00:00

I've lost another post to a locked sub. I think I've wasted more time in the past 2 months on locked PPD subs than I previously had in my entire time on Reddit.

I think the reason for it should be posted each time, with the lockdown notice. That way at least I'd be able to develop a sense of what subs not to invest in.

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-20T04:15:18+00:00

I’ve snatched some fancy mousse mini cakes for 1:6 the price and I’m super happy about it. The availability of fancy sweets for very low price makes it’s hard to stick to the diet though. But if it’s only once a week…

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-20T04:16:35+00:00

Mother and her stupid buzzballs 😒😒

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-20T04:36:19+00:00

Mother got tipsy today. This is like the 3rd time this week? Also, a braindead argument she makes is that because she's not drunk driving, smashing bottles against the wall, killing people or other stereotypical dangerous drunk behaviors and still pays the bills and keeps a roof over our heads then she's not worthy of criticism and it's not that bad.

Whenever my brother and I condemn her for getting obnoxiously drunk, she takes it as like we're treating her like she's done all the horrible shit I listed for some reason. Like you can only complain about her being drunk if she's failing to pay the bills because of it or running people over on the street??

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-20T05:12:21+00:00

I wonder how many virgins are on this sub.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-20T05:20:58+00:00

Men can go to war at 18 but a woman can’t choose her partner?

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-20T05:55:47+00:00

Why are women allowed to wear clothes that shows their boobs and pussy. But everyone freaks out when a man erect penis is visible?!

blebbyroo · 2023-11-20T08:44:34+00:00

Partner finally found a second full time job (both mostly remote) and I’m going to drop down to part time until Jan focus on baby, fitness and the house on my off days. It will be my first sort of break since baby was 6 months old. Hallelujah.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-20T11:21:25+00:00

If you keep doom scrolling these useless surveys that reinforce your bias on women's judgement you will be miserable for everything and seek out situations that agree with you. You will seek women that are shallow and when they reject you it will continue.

Found this comment and loved it because that’s exactly what’s been happening with Shortcels. While most men are just happy to be with someone they love and will fuck them, guys here be miserable that they don’t get Chad treatment by a Stacy.

There are definitely types of girls that will give them a chance they just find those girls unattractive.

And that’s another thing. If incels truly wanted ANYONE and would be happy about it, they wouldnt be incels.

And when someone says there’s plenty of autistic, nerdy guys, with girlfriends, the typical response is:

“Yeah, but they’re fat and ugly”.
“Those women are hypergamous and want the most social guy”.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-20T12:34:26+00:00

starting listening to an audiobook. the love interest is a 6’4 hockey player

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Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-19T20:01:19+00:00

Why wouldnt you say first

Willow-girl · 2023-11-19T20:17:34+00:00

This little table is crying out to me, telling me to buy it and give it a MacKenzie-Childs makeover.

I keep telling it I have to go back to work next week and don't have time for that, but it won't shut up! What to do, what to do ...

Aromatic-Example7850 · 2023-11-19T22:17:23+00:00

Started going to the gym and holy shit, I never want to interact with 95% of women again, all of those are nothing compared to the hotness of so so many gym chicks

armpitpics · 2023-11-19T22:28:52+00:00

Female emus are the Chads PPD men aspire to be:

Breeding takes place in May and June, and fighting among females for a mate is common. Females can mate several times and lay several clutches of eggs in one season. *The male does the incubation**; during this process he hardly eats or drinks and loses a significant amount of weight. The eggs hatch after around eight weeks, and* *the young are nurtured by their fathers**. They reach full size after around six months, but can remain as a family unit until the next breeding season.*

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-19T22:33:05+00:00

Men are more likely to listen to other men when talking about sexism. This is because women are often very condescending towards men and blame innocent men for sexism. It's women's fault that men refuse to listen to them.

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T23:16:04+00:00

Hey Guuysss

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T23:19:56+00:00

Ok so my question is like why are some people here totally delusional about the opposite sex lifestyle and problems

As in like you have radical feminist type women or just normal women and then like rp guys/manosphere/blackpill

Even as people would consider me a radical feminists, i still understand that men also have hardship, for example like mens sexual assault isnt taken seriously or how getting drafted or always expected to be strong Blablabla but then some ppl here who are like Every woman lives life oin easy mode/domestic abuse "just pick better"/Its womens fault blablabla

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T23:20:07+00:00

Guys i wanna watch hunger games

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T23:40:09+00:00

Guys i found a schoology glitch that may have just saved me Mwahahahaha

meteorness123 · 2023-11-19T23:55:23+00:00

Casual sex ain't worth the stress
First the text, then the draws, see first the sex
Then it's calls cause the bird's obsessed
Want flowers, cards, and the purses next,

Nah, bitch won't get a dollar
Meteorness on twitter, bitch can't get a follow.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-20T00:07:19+00:00

The "wall" doesn't really exist CMV. I've seen too many old haggards succeed with very, very good looking men that I fail to believe women's options suddenly deplete at 30 or whatever arbitrary range. Ditto for single moms and landwhales.

Do they have less success than a chick in her early 20s? Of course. Do they have more success than all but the top 5% of males? Absolutely.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-20T00:32:09+00:00

How important would you say is wearing the right shoes for your overall health ?

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T00:39:24+00:00

No but as a gangster why would you try and have a family youre literally setting people up to get killed I dont get it

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-20T00:40:58+00:00

Madeline Argy is so insanely hot, I'm actually upset every time I think about Central Cee's homeless looking ass getting the chance to hit that. She even has the sexy British accent too. Jesus Christ. If there are any hot British women in here please slide into my DMs expeditiously.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-20T00:44:11+00:00

the best twitter artists be the ugliest mfs irl

it's unfortunate how disjoint inner and outer beauty are

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T00:51:02+00:00

Bro like sometimes i deadass forget that some people were born in the 1990s Cuz like basically everyone i know was born in the 2000s or before 1990

Like if you were born in 1998 youre only 25 thats just crazy Ngl

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T00:58:27+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UqYRSk/

Nooo cuz i only have school 2 days this week but i aint mad bc i loveee my teachers

Willow-girl · 2023-11-20T01:02:23+00:00

A chair that looks almost exactly like my desk chair is selling for more than $90. I rescued mine off the curb (and I have another one just like it out in the barn!)

Time to dust that baby off and put it on the marketplace, I guess!

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T01:08:12+00:00

Guys im wearing a mask to school tomorrow :/ Cuz im coughing

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T01:08:23+00:00

My mom wont talk to me wahhhh

hannahg000 · 2023-11-20T01:10:39+00:00

vienna by billy joel is one of my fav comfort songs

relish5k · 2023-11-20T01:11:28+00:00

Good example of how new parents “work the same number of hours” even tho only one of them works for pay.

My husband gets up when the baby does on workdays, so he can spend 45 minutes with him before I wake up and dad gets ready for work (we alternate weekend days so one of us gets to sleep in). Makes his own lunch, and leaves for the day. I take care of baby and daily household chores (including groceries, other errands, etc) during the day. I try to have dinner ingredients prepped and ready to cook by 5:00, so that when dad gets home I can spend 20-30 minutes cooking and we can all sit down to eat at 6:00. We hang out together til baby’s bedtime at 7:15, dad does bedtime routine while I relax (I just pop in for a quick kiss and goodnight at the end), dad loads the dishwasher with dinner dishes while I pick up and vacuum the family room, then we both sit down and chill until grownup bedtime (10ish). On weekends, dad does outside chores, I do things inside that I can’t get easily get to during naps (like bathrooms), we trade off watching kiddo while the other works. Usually try to do one out of the house family activity a weekend.

Dad has his set chores: dinner dishes, his laundry, trash/recycling, and outdoor stuff. He also will do anything inside that I ask, but I do have to ask since I’m the “manager” of that area. We each get at least one full weekend day a month, and usually several evenings, to go out and do what we want. We also try to get a babysitter at least once ever 5-6 weeks for a date night together, which IMO helps us not get nit-picky with each other over house stuff and childcare. ETA: when baby was waking overnight to feed, I took all wake ups between midnight and 4:00AM, husband woke up for the day the first time baby woke up after 4:00AM and I slept until he had to leave for work at 8:45.

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T01:16:10+00:00

Guys should i watch the Scott pilgrim show on netflix

Cuz originally i did TRY to watch the scott pilgrim movie before bc apparently its cool but its just so fuckiiiing weird and just confusing like i could not

Willow-girl · 2023-11-20T01:20:58+00:00

Well damn, I got outbid!

Win some, lose some, I guess.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-20T01:31:36+00:00

There’s a reality show filming in the place where my family vacations and I’m concerned about it ruining the vibe.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-20T02:04:49+00:00

What should I get myself for my birthday?

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-20T02:20:08+00:00

Homemade chicken noodle soup, so simple yet so powerful, aside from the blatant misogyny I think I would be a good house husband

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2023-11-20T02:31:33+00:00

Massive Argentina W

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-20T02:35:23+00:00

I've been telling my husband that I'm gonna do some online shopping and when he comes home and asks what I bought it's still nothing. Today he said I'm failing at spending husband's money and should be ashamed of myself.

...

I'm gonna order those betting sets and fountain pen I guess.

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T03:11:45+00:00

Ok ignore the photo but can we talk about how "god's rough draft" is like a Soul crushing tier insult

Like im saying if someone referred to me as one of gods rough drafts i would probably like..... I cant even say bc its so bad

https://preview.redd.it/xfwto99f6f1c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=129bd722d56983213b71bd0a629676d326c1fd0c

monster_lily · 2023-11-20T03:17:53+00:00

https://x.com/officialblueytv/status/1726154345509474740?s=46&t=b2XPgsD5a-aGl20uLiFUqA

Byeee not bluey adding his whole roster to the theme song

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-20T03:43:15+00:00

Q4W, the married ones: How many years would your husband have to be unemployed before you would divorce him?

dbz__f · 2023-11-20T03:47:01+00:00

women: do you think its hypocritical for a man to have consumed porn but not want to date a pornstar?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-20T04:06:42+00:00

What is it that some guys like about being verbally degraded and publicly humiliated? My roommate used to hook up with this guy she found really embarrassing and cringey. She would tell him to shut up and even called him “bitch” in front their friend group; I thought he put up with it because he was so crazy about her, but apparently it was a turn on for him.

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-20T04:17:43+00:00

The people in relationships who comment on this sub are the some of the biggest losers on reddit. There's no way I'd comment, much less moderate, this sub if I there were any women available for me to try to date.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-20T04:25:34+00:00

Based on someone recommendation on here I watched the trailer of the “reality show” the Gigolos. And the guys there are incredible dicks, like I can’t imagine why would anyone pay to be in their vicinity.

Seriously though have you met someone who paid for a male prostitute?, do you think he was hot or worth it.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-20T04:26:24+00:00

If women really had a line of dudes waiting to date them, why would so many be on dating apps at all?

dbz__f · 2023-11-20T04:27:00+00:00

Holy fuck I'm so fucking bored today

/u/ainsleygz, say something sexual

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-20T04:39:07+00:00

Someone posted rap lyrics or something, I made these 4 years ago this is the only solo one I posted I think tho

rutbb · 2023-11-20T04:54:30+00:00

Is there a routine or a list of actionable steps one can follow for male self improvement? Not just stuff like gym/career/etc., but also developing more attractive social skills and becoming more of a "man" for lack of a better term.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-20T06:12:21+00:00

Did you know Olivia Rodrigo got a boobjob? I didn't know women got them so young.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-20T07:23:52+00:00

Looksmax or Ronnie Mcnutmaxx

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-11-20T07:31:09+00:00

How much does getting shredded increase your attractiveness? Any guys here that got better results? What do women here think of it? Also how long does it take to get shredded at minimum if you're currently unfit?

its-probly-over · 2023-11-20T09:54:30+00:00

Why you bully me?

Sillysheila · 2023-11-20T10:09:34+00:00

QFA:

What’s your opinion of bisexuals? (Male and female)

How bicurious are you…scale of 1 (not curious) to 10 (very curious)?

And finally if you had to guess a percentage how many women do you believe are bisexual and how many men are bisexual?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-20T12:03:30+00:00

https://youtu.be/1ISI5hDhtPM?si=zPG1kkXPYVh74Sl3

This bro bagged a literal movement with that Face (he ain't bad at all,just average), do guys don't worry, there's still much hope for you to get an atleast average looking woman.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-20T13:17:43+00:00

I well never understand the reason behind doomerism of any kind

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-20T13:36:15+00:00

Rate the women in the thumbnail/video: https://youtu.be/6Sw1sFSdLSk?si=UKdSqW0h8PVR__SD

She is who I think of when y’all say “Stacy” lol

ratboi34 · 2023-11-20T13:38:44+00:00

Who is your celebrity hall pass? You can name multiple.

FreeTaylorSwift · 2023-11-20T13:53:47+00:00

Q4M: How did you find a virgin gf?

Slipthe · 2023-11-20T14:23:38+00:00

I never got ear infections or fluid in the ears as a symptom of cold or allergies as a kid, but I do as an adult.

It's weird lol.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-19T23:34:59+00:00

Money >Looks

Willow-girl · 2023-11-20T12:05:15+00:00

Seems Argentina just elected a right-wing libertarian president.

I'm jealous! Why can't we have a right-wing libertarian president?

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