Daily Community Chat Megathread

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2024-01-03T05:47:34+00:00

The “law” is finally starting to catch up with me. I’m back from a 30 day ban for being an inc*l, and I imagine it won’t be long til I’m permabanned. It’s been an honor shitposting with you all 🫡

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-01-03T05:31:31+00:00

Weak late night simp thoughts as I'm in a vulnerable state:

All I want is a healthy (19-21 BMI) girl who will sing cute karaoke love songs with me

ZaWarudo234 · 2024-01-03T05:10:33+00:00

This is going to sound weird but I only ever have gay guys hit on me. It's almost never women.

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2024-01-03T04:53:56+00:00

Booked my trip to Japan 🇯🇵

Gladboys · 2024-01-03T04:44:57+00:00

god bless the person who thought of hot honey. this might be the best pizza condiment ever

Nate_Reborn · 2024-01-03T04:29:49+00:00

Looking forward to tomorrow's workout and building up the 🍑

Also, food is >>> protein shakes (at least for me). My muscles are soaking up the nutrients like a sponge.

monster_lily · 2024-01-03T04:08:27+00:00

Have u realized i like guys who’s name starts with j like think about it. I love Jamie Jude Jungkook Joao Jimin jylian jouis joakley jiguel jiles jobie

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-03T04:07:03+00:00

Lol not my roommate saying she understands why people cheat when my last relationship ended because of that and hurt me a lot 👍

hannahg000 · 2024-01-03T03:55:52+00:00

why do some people brag about how gross/dirty they are? like i saw this video of an influencer talking about how she pissed on herself at a halloween party. she found a bathroom but she didn’t feel like taking off her costume so she just pissed on herself.

it’s one thing to do that. but it’s entirely different to get on video and admit it while laughing. that’s shit you take to your grave.

grillopie · 2024-01-03T03:45:53+00:00

its crazy how technical some people here are about SMV and RMV. “No x attribute only increases your RMV, not your SMV.” Is there a textbook for this stuff?

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2024-01-03T03:32:25+00:00

I like to read r/ deadbedroom and there are a surprising amount of women on there. I’d say like 60/40 men to women and when you take into account reddit is mostly dudes, there’s a lot of women unhappy about their sexless relationships

meteorness123 · 2024-01-03T03:19:58+00:00

Women who dress revealingly despite being in relationships are immoral and redflags

Cmv

meteorness123 · 2024-01-03T03:15:31+00:00

Bein social, low inhibition, ability to make friends and allies - all these things are huge aspects of a man's desirability or SMV in rdp terms

mummydontknow · 2024-01-03T03:06:23+00:00

Im starting to give up on the romanticized ideal of relationships and follow in the footsteps of the bulk of human marriages, which were marriages of convenience.

hannahg000 · 2024-01-03T03:01:42+00:00

do you think you could survive the hunger games? i definitely couldn’t. i wouldn’t be able to kill anyone so the only way i could win is if i hid and everyone else just died somehow

dbz__f · 2024-01-03T02:53:39+00:00

I find it hard to believe that all these billionaires and presidents and royalty were best mates with Jeffrey Epstein and they flew to his island regularly and hung out with him and then they’re all like “nuh uh I had no idea what his job was”

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-03T02:32:46+00:00

They could never make me hate her.

butagoodpersonality · 2024-01-03T02:25:50+00:00

I’ll never regret being a lover girl and falling hard for people even if I always end up hurt and I’ll never let it make me bitter and I’ll always try again

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-03T02:25:48+00:00

Why are so many people so offended by the modest wedding dress woman saying that “immodest brides” were ugly? They wouldn’t last an hour in a smaller town in a red state

huhwhatokok · 2024-01-03T02:24:30+00:00

I don’t understand how people get addicted to gambling at the casino. My brain tells me “hey this slot machine is programmed so the casino wins long term and I lose.” Or “Hey the casino has a mathematical edge on every game here so I’ll always be a loser in the end.” And I get no urge to play whatsoever. Anytime we go to the casino I just watch my friends play and just laugh when my buddy tells me his 21 strategy or how a specific dealer is bad luck lol.

relish5k · 2024-01-03T02:20:11+00:00

Weird flex but…

We got 10 Christmas cards this year. Mix of political ideologies but mostly from left-leaning families.

Of the 10, 7 list the family members by name.

7/7 list the man / father / patriarch first (even the one where I know the mom is older - and they are probably the most liberal of the bunch)

(And I would also bet that in 9/10 it was the wife who created and sent the card)

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-01-03T02:19:27+00:00

One of the reasons many people have resentment towards their parents is because they forced their religion on them. Made them go to church when they didn’t want to and read shit they had no interest in

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-01-03T02:13:51+00:00

Just discovered Pinterest for the first time. Didn’t realize there was an app I could save pictures of anime women on without taking up space on my phone.

It’s really the small things in life that brings me joy these days.

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-03T01:52:32+00:00

I have a huge crush on Mychal the librarian from tiktok for some reason

AlysArria · 2024-01-03T01:46:30+00:00

This is mostly a celebratory post.

I (27) married (38M) a man I met several months ago. We met through a traditional values Discord and had quite a number of things in common. We had a number of very traditional dates and then became official. Not long into that, we were engaged, and rather recently married. This as a whole took about 5 months, start to finish.

We were stunned to see how much we had in common, what we valued, and what we were willing to compromise on and make work.

Just wanted to say, you can still find very traditional people out there, and the modern dating scene is not entirely dead.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-03T01:22:35+00:00

Wedding idea— go to a courthouse and get the paperwork done first thing in the morning. Then meet family and friends someplace for a celebratory brunch. Then head straight to the airport and fly to the honeymoon location, arriving at the hotel in time for dinner. This sounds absolutely perfect to me.

Gladboys · 2024-01-03T01:07:48+00:00

lmfao they added timothee chalamet to call of duty? games are so fucking weird now.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-03T00:55:59+00:00

I sent my friend engagement ring possibilities for his new girlfriend in case she’s the one and he proposes to her someday but he doesn’t seem to appreciate my ideas.

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-03T00:55:06+00:00

I will sleep with my window open no matter how cold or windy it is outside. Shit is open 24/7

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2024-01-03T00:54:26+00:00

People always talk about the billionaires getting tax cuts, but no one wants to talk about how the tax code gives way too much to married ppl and families. Fuck that, I already feel lonely, why should I be taxed more bc I can’t find a spouse or what kids.

odd_cloud · 2024-01-03T00:51:59+00:00

Read an interesting tweet from rob henderson. He brought up this stat that a large share of men doesn’t approach women. He says we had a wrong mental model of young men. “The wrong mental model says that young men are natural risk seekers and will naturally want to approach (and possibly harass women)”. Well, I agree with it. All these efforts in disciplining men scared them further from approaching.

He later continues on with the idea that modern men became lazy. Well, let’s see when people will start to realise that the majority of men do not want to cause inconvenience and stress in others people’s lives and have a tendency to follow social norms.

monster_lily · 2024-01-03T00:38:11+00:00

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Baes so fineeeeeeeeeee omg

monster_lily · 2024-01-03T00:23:47+00:00

Guys yall should do that challenge where u write one positive thing every day then read it at the end of the year im doing that

I even started using my diary again so ya i dont need you people anymore

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-03T00:22:17+00:00

I don’t know why some men idealize Eastern European women as the perfect, submissive, traditional wife when that region has some of the highest divorce rates in the world. Russia, Ukraine, Lithuania, Belarus, and Moldova have higher divorce rates than the US. And Latvia, Georgia, and the Czech Republic are not far behind.

hannahg000 · 2024-01-03T00:00:12+00:00

tbh i would lose all interest in someone if they asked for my snapchat. that’s such a childish and horny platform and i would just assume they only wanted to fuck

Pizzashillsmom · 2024-01-02T23:51:34+00:00

Do you think stuff like having tons of similarly aged female cousins makes things easier for men? Like they would probably have tons of female social circles to dab your toes in which you were already pre selected so to speak. I think if you want to be a fuckboi then it’s probably best not to, as to not mess up your family relations, but for just finding the one I feel like having female cousins could be a big help.

JDWhiz96 · 2024-01-02T23:38:55+00:00

Pretty sure my grandmother is in the process of dying rn. Fuck.

I knew this time would come but it still hits like a brick when it happens.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-01-02T23:31:10+00:00

Female friends are bad because they won't prioritize you.

They see other women as friends but unless you've already spent a lot of time getting to know her already, which is hard because most places to meet friends have many more men than women, they'll see you as one of the thousands of men interested in dating her. Your attention, even as just a friend, is cheapened by all the male romantic attention she gets. She'll put you in a similar category as all the simps.

You're almost always going to put in more effort in the friendship so it's almost always not worth the effort.

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-02T23:26:05+00:00

I miss being unemployed

Maffioze · 2024-01-02T23:25:57+00:00

https://youtu.be/7IDKWmXgDho?si=ZNRYAZGfxLzmA8Ni

Another vibe.

monster_lily · 2024-01-02T23:20:25+00:00

Mannnnnn fuck Amazon i paid extra for something to be shipped quicker it was supposed to arrive this morning but its now for some reason arriving tomorrow evening and Idk how to get a refund i feel like i deserve a refund on shipping if i paid for faster

Maffioze · 2024-01-02T22:51:35+00:00

https://youtu.be/WRJiH218EM4?si=XzI1f0J5b8CJ6W-7

This song is a vibe.

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-02T22:38:13+00:00

Telling kids that sometimes someone might have two mommies or two dads is not grooming

monster_lily · 2024-01-02T22:33:08+00:00

I can’t believe 2020 is the new 2016

monster_lily · 2024-01-02T22:32:27+00:00

One thing i should get better at in 2024 is deinfluencing myself cuz i have a habit of buying products i dont need so ill literally tell myself I DONT NEED THIS but then the want doesnt go away it just gets surpressed

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-02T22:27:55+00:00

Does dating really just boil down to: looks, status, options

Although I am 100% spiritual so I believe in soulmates and all, I still know we are animals

Love can happen between two humans no matter what. Friends, family, etc

Dating is just ONE way to get to love. Dating isn't love

So, do we humans just follow the same stuff animals follow when picking mates?

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2024-01-02T22:27:02+00:00

An underappreciated factor that's causing sexlessness among young men is the fact that more women are on SSRIs than ever. SSRIs are a numbing agent - they make single women "happy" and make them less horny. These women check out of the dating scene and can't get horny for the average guy anymore. This also applies to young men on SSRIs but more women are on SSRIs than men.

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-02T22:21:56+00:00

Why does it seem like women are the more "moral" gender?

They don't get into fights, they don't have the desire to conquer land etc

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-01-02T22:15:18+00:00

I was cleaning trash out of my car for the first time in like months and found lip gloss under the passenger seat. No clue which chick it's for. It's possible it was an accident, but I suspect that some girl was trying to "mark her territory" in a passively competitive way that is typical of women. Interesting. Might have to investigate further.

EulenWatcher · 2024-01-02T21:59:57+00:00

Translation of a Russian post about dates. It targets women but I think it can be applied to both genders.

ABOUT DATING

Let's go through the list of "signs that indicate a date is going wrong":

You're bored. Of course, a man is not a clown, but if on the first date you feel like you’re going to fall asleep, it’s unlikely that things will get better;
He can't carry on a conversation. Neither of you has to be an interviewer and try to talk to someone who doesn't know how to do it. According to statistics, this flaw is one of the reasons for divorce;
You feel that he is looking for a mother. If he immediately expects care and acceptance without doing anything, he is unlikely to take responsibility in the relationship;
He doesn't respect you, belittles your work or lifestyle;
He breaks boundaries or manipulates. If a man insists that you do something you don't want to, or provokes you into doing something, that's a red flag;
You don't agree on basic things. Religion, politics, morality - all of theses are important. For example, if a person believes that it is normal to hit children, he is not worth living with;
You want to leave;
You feel guilty. Some men almost immediately begin to blame their date for a bunch of things like time, no parking, bad place etc. You shouldn't accept it.
You feel that he is deceiving you;
He speaks poorly of more than one person, or even many people at once, for no particular reason;
You feel that none of your friends and family will like him;
He treats the waiter or other people poorly;
He drinks too much;
He doesn't look like the person from the app;
You see that he has several different phone numbers or accounts;
You just don't like the date.

Remember: you do not owe anything to a stranger beyond the bounds of common courtesy. And dates should be enjoyable, albeit nerve-wracking events.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2024-01-02T21:57:11+00:00

So how does erectile dysfunction even work? Are you horny but not hard or are you just not horny at all?

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2024-01-02T21:41:41+00:00

We need to bully advertisers more, on Tik tok u can comment on most ads. They should all be filled with links to knockoff products, bad things the company has done, etc.

Nate_Reborn · 2024-01-02T21:20:04+00:00

Q4All: If you could have a second boyfriend/girlfriend//husband etc. would you do it? Yes or No?

Let's say both of them would be 100% fine with the setup, exactly what you like, no jealousy problems, don't care how you sort your time between them, etc.

(Note: This quesiton is for fun only. Please answer the question directly, and don't take seriously.)

CringeButCorrect · 2024-01-02T19:37:56+00:00

A lot of dudes don't understand that most women have absolutely no perspective on dating as a guy. They're not lying, virtue signaling, or any of that. Many just have no idea, so you can't expect them to give you good advice. They're probably trying their best to help you.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2024-01-02T14:24:44+00:00

There are so many average and below average looking guys in relationships in the real world. I feel like being terminally online makes people not see this. I rarely see women dating chads tbh

Ok-Map-7596 · 2024-01-02T15:53:41+00:00

Notice how those women who make a career off telling women they need to settle down very young and have children are rarely if ever actually marrying at 20 and almost never have children of their own? Pearl Davis being a good example.

Life-Illustrator-217 · 2024-01-02T17:07:27+00:00

Anyone who says that the modern dating market problems are because of the economy needs to take a trip down to Brazil. They are actually poor (unlike the whiney reddittors who want to have no roommates in a nice city at 22 years old). The amount of partying and sex there is insane.

McTitty3000 · 2024-01-02T18:34:11+00:00

The whole " what do you offer" discourse is something to leave behind in 2023, if you're looking for a relationship we're all looking for a generally the same things, basically a really good friend who shares some values who you, you feel secure with and does fun stuff with your genitals, there's a slight bit of nuance here and there but it ain't that complicated lol

EulenWatcher · 2024-01-03T13:49:46+00:00

The OP claims that women are all the same and are against dating virgins because of hive mind, but he behaves in a pretty similar way to other bitter struggling men here. That's a bit ironic although mostly concerning.

throwawayeyeglasses · 2024-01-02T15:01:24+00:00

Genuinely asking why is "not all men" considered a "rhetoric" and seem to anger some women. Man or woman, having a negative opinion about all of them is just wrong

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-01-02T15:07:19+00:00

Nothing is faker than that convo someone starts with you right before trying to ask you for a favor lol.

“Hey man how’s your family?”

“Good”

“Yeah btw I need to ask you can you…”

grillopie · 2024-01-02T18:19:09+00:00

“Do you actually love me, or do you just love my body?” Is the darksouls of questions. You can theoretically come out of this alive, but youll probably die 20 times before you actually learn how to respond.

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-02T20:16:42+00:00

In a way I understand when people say that men act differently when around women cus I still remember when I was like 17, was on a trampoline round this girls house, done a front flip and slipped so that my knee busted straight into my mouth. Bit through my bottom lip almost entirely.

I didn’t want to cry like a bitch or make a scene so I just said ‘ye I need to go now, my mom texted me’ bailed out like 3 minutes later. Walked around the corner started tearing up and when I spat it was just so much blood I went full panic mode and dipped so home quick. Went to the doctors and had to hospital cus I needed stitches, had like 12 stitches. And I never told the girl to this day, I also have a nice scar inside on my bottom lip.

dishonouronmycow · 2024-01-02T16:32:06+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/e75mpczk02ac1.jpeg?width=624&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b4777c434bde3a24095c4d281652e91bd07a764e

She’s so me coded

dishonouronmycow · 2024-01-02T19:15:52+00:00

Wish hinge had a homebody tag, let us find each other whilst being indoors

Fair_Use_9604 · 2024-01-02T14:27:10+00:00

Going to read 20 books in 2024. Read 15 last year. Honestly feels like a waste of time. In my 15 years of reading I have not met a single person who shared my interest for it and the stories just make me depressed. Remember reading Murakami's Wind Up Bird Chronicle when I was 18 and kept thinking boy I wonder what my life will be at 30 (protagonist's age). Re-read it at 30 and boy did it feel like shit and depressing

itzReborn · 2024-01-02T14:42:50+00:00

Maybe I’m wrong but there seems to be more women help subs then their are for men. TwoX, women, girlssurvivalguide, black ladies etc

Why aren’t their more for men? Or if they do exist their not as close to being as active

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-01-02T18:02:22+00:00

One of the funniest red pill quotes I’ve seen is “women are like animals and children. They are fun for a little while but towards the end of the day they get annoying and you just want to hand them back to their owners”.

Any thoughts, comments or concerns regarding this quote?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2024-01-02T19:49:21+00:00

Boychild (8 yo) told me his resolution this year is to make his bed everyday and work out 5 days a week. 🥹🥹

He had his 2nd "weight lifting" session today, yesterday we worked on form and today he did biceps, squats, deadlifts, overhead press and chest press with my 5lbs Pilates weights, lol.

Bless this child, he's too adorable.

StrikingAd8556 · 2024-01-02T14:16:44+00:00

Q4A would you rather:

1.) Be treated meanly by 1/3 of people, treated with indifference by 1/3 of people, and treated with love and kindness by 1/3 of people

or

2.) Be treated with cold indifference and quiet disdain by all people all the time everywhere you go? There might be the rare 1 or 2 people who are kind to you though, but you're never sure if it's just out of pity or obligation.

slickle_1366 · 2024-01-02T14:34:38+00:00

Had to break up with my gf over the holidays 😔. For the first time in my life I will be single while having my own place and I’m excited 😈

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-02T15:08:27+00:00

Bro, increase your SMV before you approach. If you don't, this will have to you -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18vx6iw/a_girl_laughed_in_my_face_when_i_asked_for_her/?sort=confidence

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2024-01-02T15:24:42+00:00

As a man our greatest leverage in the dating market is the ability to choose who we approach. Women can approach too but men typically approach.

We should definitely not give this up to women. The person who does the approaching is at an advantage because they’re getting exactly who they want. Rejection sensitivity is going to destroy all your hopes and dreams as a man. You gotta get over it

Nate_Reborn · 2024-01-02T20:38:22+00:00

A friend of mine joined Facebook dating, and she posted pictures of the kinds of messages she’s receiving.

Yeah, it really is that bad out there.

teball3 · 2024-01-02T20:47:21+00:00

Just a random underdeveloped thought: A lot of the discussion around the feasibilty of socialism/communism is similar to the discussion around democracy/representative democracy at the time when Monarchy was the most common form of governance.

Like, the whole point of the Napeolonic wars was that a thriving republic was a threat to the other monarchies. So the monarchic nations fought tooth and nail to make France a monarchy again. Yet people still look at operation Condor, the cold war, and all the other ways that communism has been prevented from arising by capitalists and think "See! It can never work!", and maybe their right, but not because those systems are inherently flawed like they'd like to believe, but simply because capitalism is too powerful to stop. Communism will not be afforded a "great American experiment", because there are no new lands fertile and remote enough to build a communism that won't get undermined and destroyed by entrenched capitalist interests.

To be clear here, I'm not denying or blaming capitalism for any or all the atrocities caused by states that tried to be socialist/communist. Except for the ones they are responisible for, like operation Condor.

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-02T14:20:51+00:00

You guys should try the sonic toothbrushes, it’s like a vibrator for your gums.

throwawayeyeglasses · 2024-01-02T15:29:26+00:00

Question for the men here, I know most of yall are very negative about this whole thing, I am kinda too, but are there things that give you hope? Not coping mechanisms but actual hope that it'll get better in the future?

throwawayeyeglasses · 2024-01-02T15:41:53+00:00

Everytime I open this sub I feel a great sense of shame, like my forefathers in the sky cringing at me, then i end up browsing it anyways. I'm still not addicted and open it like 1-2 a day so hopefully I'll stop completely

Maffioze · 2024-01-02T16:25:42+00:00

Is there a certain amount of arguments that makes a relationship be healthy? As in having both less or more arguments is actually unhealthy?

ConanTheCybrarian · 2024-01-02T17:02:40+00:00

did any of the other people on here get a random DM from coolman 101xx ? I don't think I've ever even interacted with them and am wondering if they are just spamming everyone in this sub.

throwawayeyeglasses · 2024-01-02T17:33:16+00:00

I'd prefer an average or below average looking woman if she's the kind that doesn't care about money and how much I earn, and just actually likes me

Nate_Reborn · 2024-01-02T17:49:47+00:00

How I imagine a betabuxx marriage:

Wife: “Alright, me and my boyfriend Chad McChadderson are off to the baseball game. Might get my back blown out later. Who knows.”

Husband: “Have fun! I left $500 on the counter to cover tickets and dinner for the both of you. I’ll have a warm bath ready when you’re back home 😍”

In other words, I just don’t think this a problem in 99.99% of relationships lol.

missionglowup · 2024-01-02T18:46:31+00:00

not sure why men find this as such a hot take but the only true difference between a relationship and friendship is sex. so of course she doesn’t want to date an ugly guy. his super great personality isn’t going to take away from the fact that he’s unattractive. she’s not having sex with his personality. she’s having sex with his physical. not to mention sex is much riskier for women so why would she take the chance of reproducing with a guy she finds ugly?

trying to get women to drop their standards to date and have sex with ugly men they don’t actually like is… sad :(

McTitty3000 · 2024-01-02T19:16:09+00:00

In the original Spiderman trilogy Peter and Mary Jane was sold as the love story, the real Gs know that Peter should have been with Ursula ( " RENT! " Guys daughter)

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-02T20:07:34+00:00

Would you date someone who thinks you’re ugly, low-status, and unsuccessful, and truly only likes your personality?

butagoodpersonality · 2024-01-03T12:15:49+00:00

I have finally unlocked the Peter griffin skin on Fortnite

SlashCo80 · 2024-01-03T13:38:52+00:00

Probably a narcissistic take, but have you ever felt like there are a few people in this world who are actual humans, while all the rest are filler NPCs/bots? I've been having fun trying to pick out the real ones when I go out and making up selection criteria in my head.

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2024-01-02T14:01:32+00:00

Ppd is getting wild lol, the season might have people in their feels

grillopie · 2024-01-02T14:13:32+00:00

Love all the cheating topics recently

StrikingAd8556 · 2024-01-02T14:22:40+00:00

My new years resolution is to wish everyone I see a happy new year until it gets weird. Yes, this is inspired by Curb Your Enthusiasm.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2024-01-02T14:31:21+00:00

CMV for dating as a male it's better to be short (5'6) and (very) extroverted than tall (6') and (very) introverted. All other things being equal

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-02T14:42:40+00:00

PPD got me fucked up cus sometimes I’ll be walking around and I’ll see a really short guy and the first thing that comes to my head is if they got Reddit and if any of their ports on r short got featured here. 😂

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-02T15:05:02+00:00

It hurts, but I never show, this pain you'll never know

If only you could see just how lonely and how cold

And frostbit I've become, my back's against the wall

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-02T15:20:47+00:00

After I finish this masters in finance I will ask my company to fund a degree in either information tech or computer science. Then I will be university degree maxxed. I will have a bachelors in business&law, masters in finance and then a masters in something else. All completely free.

Funny thing is I never really liked learning when I was younger, but now where I can decide what I want to learn, it’s more compelling

SeveralSadEvenings · 2024-01-02T16:01:22+00:00

Fist day back at work, and I'm not here for it. Inbox is already filling up, half the office is still out, and boychild + husband don't realize I still have to work despite them still being on vacation.

At least I worked out today.

Good_Result2787 · 2024-01-02T17:27:31+00:00

I'm starting to get an irrational dislike of "ending explained" videos in entertainment media. No, I don't watch them, but it seems like every single episode of every single thing (at least of the Western media I watch) has at least one of these videos. Most endings really aren't that deep.

I feel the same way about things that are "most underrated/overrated [insert thing in a series of things]" titles. I know they're just catchy titles, it just bothers me because my job is also writing. A lot of the time the "underrated" piece of art in the discussion is actually just a thing that was very popular when it came out years ago and it feels like the author is just now discovering it and wondering why it isn't popular.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-02T17:33:46+00:00

I swear to God, I won't spare the rod,

I'm a man of my word

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2024-01-02T18:27:24+00:00

So what was your New Year's resolution this year? And also did it you already fuck it up?

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-02T19:45:06+00:00

Old people don’t have that much sex cus they probably suffer from iron deficiency

ImmanuelCanNot29 · 2024-01-03T06:35:54+00:00

pro tip ladies. If you man goes to the casino and bets the "Don't Pass" line at the craps table just leave without even talking to him and block him on everything. The dude is a menace to society and means you and everyone around him ill.

hungrychick404 · 2024-01-03T07:16:12+00:00

Have you ever lied about your political opinions to get someone to like you?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-01-03T11:47:28+00:00

The wall exists for women exists on a spectrum. If you're nearing 40 and you're looking for commitment and kids it's uh. If you're 40, you didn't age horribly, and you're looking for semi-casual fwb type things you're still on easy mode

monster_lily · 2024-01-03T14:10:27+00:00

I am so frickingggg cold omg

justathrowawaym8y · 2024-01-03T14:16:59+00:00

My old account was perma banned because I drunkenly gave a power mod some sass...never thought that would be the reason but alas.

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throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2024-01-02T14:00:43+00:00

first

thedarkracer · 2024-01-02T14:10:58+00:00

Sometimes I wonder, are gay men attracted to majority or like every male just like straight men are attracted to every female they come across?

grillopie · 2024-01-02T14:38:01+00:00

Would you rather

Be called stupid/useless at a decent clip, but each time, be told youre so handsome/beautiful/hot that they cant be mad
Be complimented about how smart and handsome/beautiful you are, but at a much lower frequency

blarginfajiblenochib · 2024-01-02T14:41:37+00:00

People seem little more unhinged than normal lately lol

PPD women: I have a PhD and volunteer at my local battered women’s shelter because men are oppressive abuser monsters but we don’t need them anymore! I’m gonna troll men on this sub in an attempt to regain control over my past trauma instead of going to therapy, but I’ll make sure to tell the stupid men to go!

PPD men: I’m a 6’3” software engineer with a six pack who makes $500k a year in crypto and can fuck 5 times a day. Women are inferior and made to be dominated once you learn their true nature, and this will totally help me get over that ex who left me for someone else.

saulbasedman · 2024-01-02T14:45:01+00:00

I have news that the neighbourhood tallcel will be back in around 20 days.

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-01-02T15:06:06+00:00

Me and my girl Try to go on at least one big vacation a year(last year was Japan) but try to mix 3-5 mini vacays throughout the year. Like these 3-4 day road trips which are nice.

monster_lily · 2024-01-02T15:39:30+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/6uc4h5x6r1ac1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ccf748cd936ffdcde17b1a1d59c02887928bd902

What 90% of couples look lije

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-02T15:49:21+00:00

Bro, imagine getting profiled like a criminal on a date

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18wafh7/how_do_i_discreetly_let_my_date_know_i_have_to/

Life on HARD mode

YouCantHoldACandle · 2024-01-02T15:51:26+00:00

If a girl on tinder sends you a contact card does that mean she's 100% a bot or is it possible she's real

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-02T16:10:52+00:00

Ever had a PS4 controller launched at your back?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2024-01-02T16:15:32+00:00

when you guys flame average overweight women (not bmi1823) what body are you exactly thinking of in your head

https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/s/Kd9HRTEpuk

personally I think this but I'd like a visual example/correction

DarayRaven · 2024-01-02T18:33:26+00:00

I can't believe stephen A smith actually defended Jerry Jones so many brothers

"He was 14" nobody cares, the facr Jerry Jones kept quiet about this was enough for me

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-01-02T19:09:19+00:00

You would think seeing people make money outside of the traditional 9-5 paradigm(onlyfans, Podcasting, YouTube. Streaming etc)would inspire certain dudes but they just end up hating lol.

I think it’s a beautiful thing that you have people who do not have to go into work at someone’s store or business to feed their families. How entrepreneurship doesn’t have to mean opening up a brick and motor store, it could be on your computer from your basement.

That__EST · 2024-01-02T19:37:46+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if Purity Culture was just this low bar that someone set so that the stakes were low with the rebellion and the smallest things seemed sexy. This might not make sense but I can't really find the words to say.

monster_lily · 2024-01-02T19:57:48+00:00

I swear never get lash extensions bc once u take them off u will look NAKED now ive never got them but my friend has and she took them off and she loooks soooo diff

meteorness123 · 2024-01-02T21:08:22+00:00

The story of Mary Magdalene I find intriguing. Cited as a sinner (possibly due to sexual immorality), Jesus redeems and heals her.

I know every woman deep down wants this after having strayed.

https://qph.cf2.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-1efbef9145f23ecf602980444a5b19c3-pjlq

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2024-01-03T05:47:17+00:00

Travel is one of the most vapid “hobbies”. Woah no way, you dropped a few thousand dollars in one week in a city somewhere on the other side of the world (but always in the western world) and enjoyed it? Holy shit you’re a 21st century Columbus

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-01-03T06:40:23+00:00

Do grandparents care about seeing their grandkids get married? This pressure is entirely self-inflicted but I kind of feel like it’s up to me to get married before my grandpa dies so he can make it to at least one of our weddings.

Suddenfury · 2024-01-03T08:08:36+00:00

I've been thinking about sexual fascinations lately. I'd describe a sexual fascination as a kink that is on your mind currently, and you kind of can't get it out of your head lately. It started with me not spanking my gf for a while due to being busy and her admitting she was getting desperate for it and not knowing how to get it from me.
Consider a single woman being in the same mindspace. She can't stop thinking about a kink and importantly don't know what to do about it. If in this case you present yourself as a person that can give her what she wants, things might lead somewhere interesting.
The thing is if you present yourself like "I wouldn't hurt a fly" she'd lose interest, on the other hand if you say something casually like "I think a slap on the butt can set some straight" she'll get curious.

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-03T09:02:36+00:00

The only reason why I say or write fuk instead of ‘fu*k’ is cuz I’m Christian and I don’t swear

dbz__f · 2024-01-03T12:04:28+00:00

Watching tv show with my gf and there’s an archetypical “bad boyfriend” in the show, and like. I genuinely feel guilty and like I want to apologise to my gf during his scenes

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-03T12:25:39+00:00

Some guy mentioned everyone having iPhone’s on a post ye and that just reminds of the time I went into the apple store to buy my iPhone and I was with one of my bros and he started beefing with the apple store employee saying how iPhones are dead and that android is best. The guy didn’t know what to say was just looking like ‘da fuq’. I said ‘bro, this is Apple Store they don’t know nothing about android’. Weird guy

Fair_Use_9604 · 2024-01-03T12:38:15+00:00

Women who aren't basic bitches are a red flag.

Klnderbuen0 · 2024-01-03T12:44:49+00:00

u/fair_use_9694 guy blocked me but I respec it. Especially after seeing their comments so I ain’t gon snitch

slickle_1366 · 2024-01-03T14:25:43+00:00

Is it a worse fate to be an incel that has never felt the touch of a woman or to be a below average guy who had great high school/college relationships but can’t get the same as an adult?

danielwastaken · 2024-01-03T14:46:23+00:00

I'm debating getting with a 19 year old but idk if it's a good idea or not (I'm 23).

itzReborn · 2024-01-03T14:49:47+00:00

It’s common advice to go to events to meet people but honestly…does it work? I have a feeling that people go to events and talk with people they know are or came with and not the guy who comes alone. Basically I’m asking if anyone has experiences making real friends at events

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-03T14:58:17+00:00

The passion in the flame is ignited

You can't put it out once we light it

I'm talkin' about when we riot

hannahg000 · 2024-01-03T15:01:55+00:00

i have to go to the dentist today 😭

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-01-03T15:12:30+00:00

Characteristics of a misogynist ((From Twox

claims "girls live on easy mode"

brags about being "high-value"

concerned with body count

uses the phrase body count

uses the phrase pair-bonding

talks about the sexual marketplace

"woman/women" triggers his woke button, only says females or girls

can't get along with women at work, especially his "female bosses" (who are all bitches)

listens to Rogan or Tater Tot, claims they're "funny" or "smart"

finds women's sports boring, only watches for ogling

thinks catcalling is a compliment

all his exes were crazy

has never read a book by a woman

"just asking questions"

thinks Me Too went too far and now he won't talk to women because they might accuse him of imaginary crimes

believes more men are raped than women

believes any statistic that comes from the manosphere

says "she got half my stuff" in the divorce

didn't ask for custody, insists his ex stole the kids from him

thinks $200 child support is robbery; has no idea how much daycare costs

says he'll die for his family but won't clean the toilet or change diapers

"equal right, equal lefts" aka he wants to abuse women

tells you what you can/can't wear; expect you to get permission for that pixie cut

can't quickly name five women he admires (even counting mom & grandma)

pretends to care about the bible because he wants a "submissive" wife

claims "girls live on easy mode"

brags about being "high-value"

concerned with body count

uses the phrase body count

uses the phrase pair-bonding

talks about the sexual marketplace

"woman/women" triggers his woke button, only says females or girls

can't get along with women at work, especially his "female bosses" (who are all bitches)

listens to Rogan or Tater Tot, claims they're "funny" or "smart"

finds women's sports boring, only watches for ogling

thinks catcalling is a compliment

all his exes were crazy

has never read a book by a woman

"just asking questions"

thinks Me Too went too far and now he won't talk to women because they might accuse him of imaginary crimes

believes more men are raped than women

believes any statistic that comes from the manosphere

says "she got half my stuff" in the divorce

didn't ask for custody, insists his ex stole the kids from him

thinks $200 child support is robbery; has no idea how much daycare costs

says he'll die for his family but won't clean the toilet or change diapers

"equal right, equal lefts" aka he wants to abuse women

tells you what you can/can't wear; expect you to get permission for that pixie cut

can't quickly name five women he admires (even counting mom & grandma)

pretends to care about the bible because he wants a "submissive" wife

claims "girls live on easy mode"

brags about being "high-value"

concerned with body count

uses the phrase body count

uses the phrase pair-bonding

talks about the sexual marketplace

"woman/women" triggers his woke button, only says females or girls

can't get along with women at work, especially his "female bosses" (who are all bitches)

listens to Rogan or Tater Tot, claims they're "funny" or "smart"

finds women's sports boring, only watches for ogling

thinks catcalling is a compliment

all his exes were crazy

has never read a book by a woman

"just asking questions"

thinks Me Too went too far and now he won't talk to women because they might accuse him of imaginary crimes

believes more men are raped than women

believes any statistic that comes from the manosphere

says "she got half my stuff" in the divorce

didn't ask for custody, insists his ex stole the kids from him

thinks $200 child support is robbery; has no idea how much daycare costs

says he'll die for his family but won't clean the toilet or change diapers

"equal right, equal lefts" aka he wants to abuse women

tells you what you can/can't wear; expect you to get permission for that pixie cut

can't quickly name five women he admires (even counting mom & grandma)

pretends to care about the bible because he wants a "submissive" wife

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-03T18:15:09+00:00

How does a man even be assertive in a safe 21st century country like Canada?

It's not like there's medieval style city invasions going on where I have to fight off multiple men

Literally the only aggressive that happens in the day to day is someone cutting me in line. I really don't see the point in saying anything. I'm not gonna be like "Hey move behind me, now". The person won't even listen to me. Then what? I'm not a psycho so I'm not gonna beat him up lmao, I'm just gonna ignore it

Whether I was polite and ignored him, or assertive and told him to "move NOW!", he's still going to stay there

And telling on him would just be petty

So then again, where does assertiveness even come in in the 21st century?

I know assertive guys exist. However, imagine a "super alpha" guy starts screaming at someone in public. And he's ignored. The super alpha guy can't do much because if he does, he'll be arrested. So even a "beta" can just ignore the "super alpha" and tell him to f-off, and the super alpha can't be assertive

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2024-01-03T18:18:25+00:00

Why do people suggest going to uni events to meet girls to date?

First off, the events are boring to introverts like me

Secondly, everyone already knew each other there and were the type who only "date each other"

I feel like women just don't want men to cold approach because then women know that they won't be able to control the dating pool. Because men who cold approach can easily get a girlfriend, so women tell men to not cold approach so they can have more simp orbiters

What do you all think? Men and women answer

Peacesquad · 2024-01-02T14:21:47+00:00

Monogamy for men is a lie.

Glittering-Ad3913 · 2024-01-03T10:50:49+00:00

Women with their "woe-is-me" BS are pathetic. Bitch, plenty women get raped but still are happy. Women are worse than incels.

DarayRaven · 2024-01-02T20:32:02+00:00

Why is nobody calling out the fact Obama was a sexual pervert towards minors ?

Teaching kids how to use anal condoms and introducing homosexuality in classrooms, many of this kids were in preschool for christ sake

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