Once men stop chasing women and start enjoying being alone, they'll realise how much of their energy was being drained by chasing women who dont actually care about them and trying to get their approval. The way things are right now, women have no incentive to change. They can be as entitled, self centered and superficial as they want, and men will still chase them. So why would they change? They benefit from the way things are.

Alot of men have had experiences where they cry in front of their partner and she's turned of by that so she starts withdrawing from the relationship, and this leaves them confused. Men need to realise that most of the women you get involved with aren't going to actually care about you as a human being (which is why expressing emotions turns them off). In their minds, your role is to be a provider, pay for stuff and entertain them. You as a human being don't matter to them that much, you're just a means to an end.

Rather than wasting their time on women who just want providers and a walking atm, men should learn to enjoy being single and leave women alone.