Daily Community Chat Megathread

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-08-19T18:05:41+00:00

Doing a survey. Upvote me if you recognise me as a regular PPDer. Downvote me if you don’t recognise my handle at all.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-19T18:44:46+00:00

While it’s obviously true that no one is entitled to love or intimacy, telling someone who’s been alone for years to just be content being single and happy with the idea of living out the rest of these days like that is quite dismissive.

It’s even worse when it comes from people who have been hooking up since high school, in and out of relationships since college, and will never have to worry about being forever alone.

totes-not-angels-fan · 2022-08-20T04:57:32+00:00

How much do you want to bet that everyone cheering that Tate got banned couldn't tell you a single one of his takes and are sea lioning that "he's just a red pill misogynist!!"

daniiiuiiil · 2022-08-19T16:06:19+00:00

riddle me this

how come male anime pfp posters are so far right

but female anime pfp posters are such prudent liberals?

I mean it’s the same media, why such a divide?

PeanutBetaAndJelly · 2022-08-19T17:49:51+00:00

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/18/obituaries/norah-vincent-dead.html

So it looks like Norah Vincent, the women writer/journalists who went undercover as a man for a while and wrote a book about it, is dead. Apparently by medically assisted suicide. I will say that it was impressive how her book has been brought up for so many years after it's publication.

thkktgkifgji · 2022-08-19T23:17:39+00:00

“Because there is a growing cohort of angry, left behind young men. And when someone gives them a point of blame they jump all over it.

Over the past ~70ish years women have obtained much more social/political/economic power. They can own bank accounts, they can go to college, get jobs, make money and generally live comfortably on their own (note: this is mainly applicable to Western/wealthy/developed nations). So we went from a time where women frankly needed a man in order to have a decent quality of life to one where men are optional in their lives.

And when things are optional you can afford to become more selective with your choice. I was talking to my aunt (68) and she basically said that men in her day were essentially 'subsidized' by society. When she was young an average looking, mediocre guy who was a C student would still be able to get a job at a factory or workshop. He'd make enough to provide for a wife and kids. By all accounts he was maybe average/below average but considering a woman functionally needed him it didn't matter. Didn't matter he didn't have emotional intelligence, didn't matter he wasn't attentive or affectionate or funny or witty or physically fit or anything. He was able to provide and if you're in need that is all that matters.

Now those days have basically ended and guys who would have been subsidized are no longer getting those benefits and are ending up lonely and frustrated at their dating prospects.”

A response to why young men and boys are following figures like Andrew Tate nowadays. Thoughts?

2baloons · 2022-08-19T16:11:28+00:00

Men: women's perception of attraction is so warped and unnatural

Nature: one individual orchid that was most attractive to pollinators fathered 80% of the seeds in the area

decoy88 · 2022-08-19T16:59:10+00:00

I wish more people here had experience with long term loving relationships.

smegma_enthusiast · 2022-08-19T21:23:56+00:00

my love language is quality time.

And I spend all my time on this sub with you guys.

So I guess I'm trying to say

I love you

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-19T16:02:43+00:00

Anybody who actually buys the”Hot people are actually much nicer, ugly people have worse personalities” shit is a moron the people who say this are obviously just trying to come up for excuses for why they don’t treat ugly people well

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-20T03:08:00+00:00

I think one of the main issue with men's insecurity with dating women, especially when both are older are the thoughts of whether or not if she would have found him attractive during certain periods before they actually got together.

Example include:

"She wouldn't have found me attractive when she was younger during her hoe-phase", "She wouldn't have wanted to be with me if she didn't already have kids", etc. Men who struggled with women will constantly have this question in their mind while with her. And of course, they're told to "Shut up because shes with you now".

And women who fall im such categories will get offended and dispute those claims because they cannot be proven right or wrong.

If you see evidence of such, like how she looked before and when she met you, or how you are completely opposite from the men shes been with in the past, that will definitely have a sting of insecurity.

End of the day, a lot of men, especially those who missed out in such fun timelines in life may have such resentment on those women choosing him after a complete 180°. Some may not care though, but many will. No person wants to be the one they are sought after when the party is over when they couldn't even get an invitation themselves.

Just a random thought.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-08-19T15:19:10+00:00

Women, when you put on your dating profile about your wild past ( pics and/or descriptions of an active night life, plenty of photos with attractive men, lines like "looking for something real now, done the casual been there done that, not looking for a hookup"

Please, tell me, what honestly is going on in your mind? Do you guys really think it's attractive for a man to read that you were a sexy free spirited, sexual beast of a woman and now you're claiming you are reformed and low libido? When you type that out, do you think the dream guy you're hoping to attract reads your profile and is like " YES thats exactly what I want from a woman! Sign me up!"

Do you really think it endears you to men?

Slipthe · 2022-08-19T15:44:04+00:00

All nursing homes should have gardens. Put those geezers to work

But for real, my grandma would love it even if all she could do was water one plant.

JustaGuyinFinance · 2022-08-19T14:27:06+00:00

I have had two different people in the past two weeks to through my comment history and try and dm me to convince me that I am a "beta" and my wife settled for me.

How do people have so much time?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-19T18:42:40+00:00

Going to make some sweeping generalizations here.

The default state for men (and women) is bluepill. If you have multiple repeated bad experiences from negative gendered behavior, you will most likely always start leaning towards red.

This is why most people who are BP are either;

A: low experience (ie low n count or low partner count) "I married my high school sweetheart therefore everything you say is wrong"

Or

B: Just chad/stacy to the point where you don't have much negative experience due to everyone kissing your ass.

In both situations they have low/limited negative experiences. But eventually, even chad/stacy will become RP'd with enough experience.

Rubber-duck7203 · 2022-08-20T16:20:56+00:00

Even a few months ago, whenever any man complained about child support burden/financial abortion, women would shut him up by saying "you had sex, deal with it", "if you don't want kids, have a vasectomy" etc.

Ironically now they are facing the same retorts from pro-lifers lol.

lulll · 2022-08-20T14:55:36+00:00

men, thank women right now. why, for what? because they exist

omg thank u women

BumblingBeta · 2022-08-20T14:28:46+00:00

Why do women always need those silly "affirmation quotes"? (not entirely sure what they're called). I see it all over social media. Things like "you are special just the way you are" "you are unique and able to achieve your goals" "just a reminder that you are awesome, don't forget that".

I see it at my gym too, with the exercise classes that are run by female personal trainers. The female personal trainer will write some silly quote on the whiteboard to make the women doing the exercise class feel special and validated.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-19T14:11:17+00:00

What’s up purple people?!

Entire_Definition_92 · 2022-08-19T14:24:18+00:00

Just in general you shouldn't let your life be ruled by insecurities... At least not SO OBVIOUSLY

No one these days is getting laid so the idea that we're freaking out and worrying about people being PROMISCUOUS is so weird

It's weird we're even throwing around that word

Like everyone's more atheist than ever but now suddenly puritanical more than ever

Truly weird day we live in, religion with all the rules and oppression minus any faith or hope, truly bleak world you zoomers are creating. Reminds me of 1984.

JoeRMD77 · 2022-08-19T14:43:17+00:00

I read that incels make female profiles on dating apps to see what their competition is. As someone who's on the other side of the spectrum, I only make hot guy profiles to see how thirsty these women are.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-19T16:58:31+00:00

Remember last week when I mentioned on here that one of my female friends had gotten back with her "toxic" ex?

Yeah she just cheated on him with me. I'm starting to see a pattern of chicks cheating on their boyfriends with me.

I mean I don't blame them either, I'm usually the better option 99% of the time.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-08-19T17:16:31+00:00

I saw buzz on 2X about Andrew Tate being banned from some social media platforms. Is this true?

nothatyoucare · 2022-08-19T17:45:05+00:00

It's funny in the "if you asked a man out" thread how many women responded with how men act when they ask women out instead of answering the question.

Plus the women who want to conflate comments about height vs bodyfat percentage.

rurunoa · 2022-08-19T18:00:34+00:00

people on ppd especially redpillers using tone tags is so unexpected to me because they always striked me as something very liberal and stan twitter esque

decoy88 · 2022-08-19T18:02:35+00:00

Andrew Tate banned from Facebook and Instagram

nothatyoucare · 2022-08-19T18:48:18+00:00

Friend Zone defeated at last

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-19T19:02:32+00:00

Suspended from posting on Reddit, had to whip out the alt account

tired_hillbilly · 2022-08-19T20:25:48+00:00

Someone explain to me how you can be a redpilled virgin.

IlIlIllIIIlllIIlIllI · 2022-08-19T20:44:52+00:00

This is why I don't think I have to shower

https://youtu.be/ogIzbLw1KHs

IlIlIllIIIlllIIlIllI · 2022-08-19T21:44:24+00:00

im 14f and a lot of the boys in my class "like" andrew tate so far that teachers got involved.

https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/wpgg5s/how_do_i_prevent_my_little_brother_from_becoming/ikgme9w/

💀💀💀

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-19T22:12:13+00:00

Hunter x Hunter is objectively the most well written battle manga ever

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-08-19T22:32:39+00:00

I've been having some weird pains below my right rib cage extend down to my ovary, went to get it checked out and it seems I have a credit card sized cyst just hanging out on my liver.

That was about 2 weeks ago, I go in for a CT scan on Monday to see what should be done about it.

Is existential body horror a thing? cause thats what I've been experiencing for 2 weeks. It feels weird walking around, going about my day, with the knowledge that there's a large fluid filled sac on my liver, bumping into my other organs.

WTF. getting old sucks.

TatePilled · 2022-08-19T22:38:58+00:00

Thicc chicks have always been it for me as opposed to the stick figure model look but now that I'm older and have observed women smack straight into the wall

I think the model look might be better long term cause if they get fat after babies they'll be the thickums provided they had the potential for it

Cibfbfin · 2022-08-20T00:36:02+00:00

The reason men in the modern world have so much issue is simple. For most of human history men have proven themselves through hunting and war.

In an era of relative peace and fast food a lot of utility of masculinity has gone out the window.

Like male lions don’t exist for any other reason but to fight off the other male lions in a pack. That’s their sole purpose. The lionesses do everything else. Imagine if the male lions didn’t fight each other. The male lions would look and feel useless.

Basically you know those stories of soldiers during peacetime that just feel out of place? Like the samurai during the Meiji Restoration (basically the emperor got rid of the samurai system and replaced them with a standing army).

We fought the wars and made the world in the modern era mostly peaceful.

We engineered the ourselves out of utility. The world still needs mothers so women will always have their traditional role to fall back to. But the men haven’t.

I imagine the same will happen for women when artificial uteruses are made.

We’re slowly Engineering away the human experience. And like whenever we automate or get rid of something there’s droves of aimless men.

The gender war is just men pivoting the fighting energy towards women but to avail. Our forefathers did an amazing job and we’re not needed anymore.

This is just the backlash era. But after this? I think either men will reinvent themselves into some androgynous blob and become more feminine. Shirking off the masculine fighting capability. Or just give up in society and just play video games and jerk off all day. The latter happening in Japan with the NEET culture.

Thing is this isn’t the only time this has happened. Ibn Khuldun talks about this in the 5 stages of civilization. With the 4th stage being feminine weak men. The issue you have is that usually the 5the stage which is being conquered by men in more dangerous places that kept their warrior spirit. Barbarians at the gates waiting for the rich safe empire of old that made weak men to drop their guard for them to take the spoils and start their own empire. Stating the cycle again.

The issue is that it’s our tech everyone globally are getting weaker and no Barbarian can take predator drones. Doesn’t matter if the men get weaker. The tech covers that anyway.

So we’re reach 6th stage never seen before.

No reset. The old concept of men and women and the human as a whole maybe ending as a whole.

There is no such thing as a man or a woman or even human. What’s next God only knows.

QuenchlessGato · 2022-08-20T00:38:47+00:00

I really have no idea what does Tate say about dating, women and stuff (I've only seen his retarded takes on cooking and reading books) and I don't really care. But I very much support what he does because a counterbalance to all the bluepill and gynocentrism is very much needed to make young men aware and not brainwashed. The RP gurus come and go, but the message and the movement remains.

And the popularity of this stuff is basically a proof of the society's status.

lulll · 2022-08-20T00:51:15+00:00

im smoking a cigar and drinking whiskey im officially old

empresa_josefina · 2022-08-20T01:28:46+00:00

What do you call Chad in other languages? There’s Tyrone/Chang/Chadpreet/etc for different ethnicities, but shouldn’t Swedish Chad be “Lars”? French Chad “Jean-Francois”?

Lysa_Bell · 2022-08-19T14:06:56+00:00

Oh god. First

signpostcandy · 2022-08-19T15:05:04+00:00

Looks like Cineworld is filling for chapter 11. Not too surprising though since they were stupid enough be opening new cinemas shortly after a global pandemic.

scwizard · 2022-08-19T15:26:55+00:00

Dan price megathread?

He resigned yesterday to "focus full time on fighting these false allegations against me."

andrejusilva123 · 2022-08-19T15:29:37+00:00

Women, I have a question for you. I just saw this comment:

How many couples are there where the woman is hot and the man is not? Heaps. How many couples are there where the man is hot and the woman is not? hardly ever

What exactly makes you think this? Men can be in demand for being tall, even if they look like ogres. A short man who look like a beautiful princess will not have women chasing him. But the 6'4 tall pot bellied man will.

How exactly do you conclude that women are settling in these missmatched couplings?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-08-19T17:11:34+00:00

what I learned from the vindicta sub is there are a shit load of stacies who think they are really beckies

TatePilled · 2022-08-19T18:12:39+00:00

Tate on China this man ain't never getting banned from TikTok

nothatyoucare · 2022-08-19T18:33:32+00:00

Question for PPD. Is it easier to change your bodyfat percentage or your height?

My vote is bodyfat percentage but I want to ask a wider audience.

Edit: only on ppd would I get someone trying to argue for height. Lol.

Ok so our height changes by 1 to 2/3 of a cm throughout the day. For someone 5ft tall or 152.5 cm that is a difference of 0.006% or less than 1 percent. That percentage shrinks as we go taller. The top end of the normal range of the BMI chart is 123 lbs. An average woman should be 25 to 30% bf and a man should be between 18-24%. Lets choose 20%. So 20% of 123 lbs is 24.6 lbs. 0.06 percent of that is: 0.148 lbs. To lose more bf than height variation you just gotta lose 0.15 lbs is 525 kcal. So eat that less during a normal day and bam, you've outperformed your height change.

So you're not going to answer the question? I'll just check myself off for another win and move it along then...

Love it when someone declares themselves the victor after arguing nonsense.

Yo I tell them to post a CMV thread if they really feel this way.

"I don't live in the past".

A bigger cop out I haven't seen in a while. LOL

Phoenix_Obscurus · 2022-08-19T18:52:12+00:00

If you don't mind answering, what's a goal you're currently working on, and how is it going for you?

I especially would love to hear from the older posters here (~40+).

TatePilled · 2022-08-19T19:48:49+00:00

Bruh I'm RP'd as hell and even I'm thinking this man's being way too hard on his wife

TatePilled · 2022-08-19T21:57:11+00:00

All Tate said was believe women as a legal standard (or even societal standard) is dumb, it's what feminists are pushing for in the west so I'm out.

And every day that's used as undeniable proof that he's a rapist or sex trafficker or abuser or child molester or something

Which weirdly proves his point

empresa_josefina · 2022-08-19T23:42:51+00:00

Q4W: rate the most attractive man you’ve slept with and rate yourself at the time you slept together. If possible, use a scale where 5 is average and 8+ means the person could be an actor/TV host/magazine model.

TatePilled · 2022-08-20T00:09:47+00:00

CMV Flirting is lying

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-20T03:14:32+00:00

What would you do to occupy your time if you had to spend 15 years in prison?

poppy_blu · 2022-08-20T04:30:00+00:00

A red pill from a white guy in 1961

codi_biter · 2022-08-20T05:29:38+00:00

I’ve met women before and after they’ve hit the wall/gone through Chad/had kids.

In my personal experience the women who would date you whilst they are older and have kids would’ve fucked/dated/hooked up with you if you met them in their hoe or younger phases . Only difference is how long you would’ve been able to hold on to them and this part is also dependent on how you yourself act.

The ones who didn’t want you before will make you jump through more hoops than the guys in her past but this is also simply because she’s older and more jaded. This means that you also would’ve had an easier time bedding her when she was younger and more starry eyed.

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-20T14:20:30+00:00

Lol at all those news outlets and people that still believe that BS claim that "Unmarried and childless Women are the happiest subgroup". Seeing the companies that posted that story makes me realize you can't trust any news source

Ohmaygahh · 2022-08-20T14:11:50+00:00

On this week's stupid names, and misspellings, on the swipe platforms...

The one that takes the cake is Jessyka. Jessyka What the fuck is that? She looked exactly as you would expect, Europhia Maddie-esque trash. Which hurts cuz my cousin's name is Jessica. Fun fact: Jessica is a totally made up fucking name!

Shakespeare magically pulled it out of his ass and somehow it stuck.

So this girl walks around with a pretty creative spelling to a made up fucking name. It's stupid inception. Stupid inside of stupid. Jesus.

Then there's Jaime. Except it's Jamie. So do we pronounce it "J-me" "Hi-meh" or "Jam-e" ?Who the fuck knows. Man or women? Again, who the fuck knows.

Kencie. Enough said. Wendie. Case in point.

Then Whitney... actually I really love the name Whitney. Heart emoji! Makes me do the Stewie "huit-ney". Kinda like the french word for the number 8. Added stress like Wheat. I love wheat beer.

And lastly Aresha. It's like the name Ayesha got into a horrific looking motorcycle accident, miraculously survived with just light bruising, but now has a little something "off" about them in the head.

What were the 70s parents motherfucking thinking?

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-20T13:58:16+00:00

I love when people dismiss the experiences of young men here and go “it wasn’t like that when I was growing up.” And then you investigate and it turns out they’re almost 50.

Like yeah no shit it wasn’t like that.

Acaciduh · 2022-08-19T14:29:11+00:00

Q4All:

I saw this dude who has a manosphere/Alpha style page on Twitter that went viral the other day for the following tweet I’ll copy it because he had to private his page after it went viral Lmao:

“Eating out girls is submissive. You are what you eat. If you, as a man, eat pussy, YOU ARE ONE.”

It was pretty split on if he was right or not in the comments. Men do you agree with this? Like you won’t go down on your lady ala DJ Khaled? Ladies would you stay with a dude who didn’t give you oral?

thetruthishere_ · 2022-08-19T14:43:54+00:00

Have a good day!

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-19T14:59:52+00:00

How true is the idea that women want a guy who just “gets it” with dating and are turned off by guys who had to heavily invest themselves in order to become good with women?

For example, if a woman was dating a 24 yo old, and she found out that he never got any action throughout hs/college and he had to put in all this work to get action, how much of a turn off would that be?

Entire_Definition_92 · 2022-08-19T15:00:56+00:00

Just in general I would advice everyone to just stop taking this whole dating shit so seriously

Someday, if you don't lock yourself away in your room like a hermit, you just might find a girl who wants to watch Arcane (or whatever) with you and you just gotta believe that person out there exists

What does it matter if most girls are sluts if you're dating someone who is loyal?

Why concern yourself with what shitty people do?

Most of you guys are just frankly too toxic to date anyways to be blunt and frank

Some of you guys sound like the fuckin killer from Se7en ya know?

It doesn't take that long to talk to a girl and realize she's a human being with her own ideas on virtue and love etc, so the fact that you think everyone is so evil kinda just shows how little you know people

Most people want a loyal loving relationship with commitment

Not every girl is greedy cheating gold digging whore

Not every attractive guy can wink at a girl and her panties drop

And you're not the ugliest duck in the pawn

You guys just need to fuckin chill

Download some dating apps, talk to these females and find yourself some dumb nerdy girls whose easy to manipulate and doesn't have enough experience with relationships to know how toxic you are like I did (lol I'm kidding (not that much tho))

All this insecure promiscuity bullshit won't matter to you once you come to the other side of dating and stop acting like a weird immature child who can't except realistic ideas of dating cuz you're clinging to hard to fairy tales

totes-not-angels-fan · 2022-08-19T18:40:48+00:00

Which one of you idiots posted this

https://np.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/wrrsl6/do_you_like_the_men_of_the_dark_triad/

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-19T19:41:45+00:00

Girls think we wanna go back to their place to have sex. Common misconception. What I'm really there for is to eat the delicious cotton candy she's hiding inside her walls.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-20T01:28:28+00:00

Can't say I agree with Andrew Tate being banned, not like it matters anyway, he'll always be prevalent on the internet.

However I'm of the belief that everybody deserves to speak their opinions and deserves a platform to share them. No matter how violent or damaging they are.

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-20T02:07:58+00:00

I find it funny on every post talking about Andrew Tate being banned there are people in the comments saying “who is Andrew Tate”.

And this is exactly why we don’t ban, but we ignore. Now more people are aware of who he is and look him up

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-08-20T13:43:29+00:00

The Manosphere: I hate the Me Too movement! They think every man is a creep for just looking at them!
Also the manosphere: *Simping for Andrew Tate, who manipulate women to be part of his Cam-Whore business, admits to being a pimp, being investigated for sex trafficking, and moved to a place with looser laws on sex crimes.*
Thus, proving my point that the men most scared of the Me Too movement are the types of men that deserve to get Me Too’d.

todo_pasa_ · 2022-08-19T17:07:55+00:00

Whenever someone brings a personal anecdote about how the fuck a lot of women or they have a girlfriend, or something like that I automatically assume you are a loser who wants to prove a point for themselves

tinasnow-poty · 2022-08-19T17:09:51+00:00

Sorry to post about this again, but it is literally impossible to bang your roommate for 3 years without getting loads of boyfriend/couple benefits in the process. RP dweebs acting like this guy is some alpha using her for sex, when in reality he's a zero testicles massive pussy who cannot just break up with her.

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-19T18:29:50+00:00

Look at OP trying to give herself a pat on the back for marrying her ugly husband lol. 9/10 chance they’re looksmatched. https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/rf1ge0/my_partner_isisnt_pretty/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Bleatoflambs · 2022-08-19T20:48:01+00:00

Would you care about being considered a beta buxx if you are getting your dick sucked daily?

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-08-19T22:05:56+00:00

Why is here s fcking profile that only dispenses shit from that tate wanker?

Are those accounts being payed or is just this?

SeaSquirrel · 2022-08-20T00:57:11+00:00

Im not trying to say all the reddit stories of guys opening up emotionally/crying then getting immediately dumped are false, but there’s a serious lack of the other (more boring) outcome.

I cried twice within the first month of meeting my SO, over stupid shit too. On our third date we were showing each other misic videos, and she blindsided me with this fucking video . As my eyes started watering I felt like I was fucking up, this might be the end. Instead we had sex for the first time an hour later.

Then like a week later I watched Coco for the first time with her, and I survived that as well.

I’m sure some women are shallow enough that any tears are an instant turnoff, but anyone claiming AWALT is full of shit.

BumblingBeta · 2022-08-20T01:14:30+00:00

What is the reason that body hair is seen as unattractive on women? In places like their armpits, arms, legs, ass, stomach. The "hairy is unhygienic" myth has been dispelled years ago so it can't be that.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-20T04:34:27+00:00

Women that go on badwomensanatomy really give off gaping hole energy

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-20T05:35:08+00:00

Anyone who says that America is a racist country has never heard minorities and foreigners talk about other minorities and foreigners. Meanwhile anyone who actually comes from an immigrant family knows that America is easily the least country on earth.

I have had relatives and family friends randomly tell me that they would never accept it if I brought home an Asian girl, even my own mother said she wouldn't want me to date a "moonface". (at least my dad was perfectly cool with it)

Personally I don't give a fuck, I'll date whoever I want, but I think white Americans do not seem to realize how awful and racist minorities can be

houstongradengineer · 2022-08-19T14:15:17+00:00

Pretty strange to me how some men think feminists are in general support casual sex.

The freedom to be treated as well as a man isn't about casual sex being good, it's about respect.

The bodily autonomy of abortion rights is not about casual sex, it's probably about a million other reasons that a medical procedure might need to take place, none of which are your business. A man with a female loved one would more than likely support this, I know my husband does.

The freedom of contraception is about the capitalist Hellscape we currently live in, and the fact that many married women cannot afford to care for a constant stream of new babies. Even men support this.

I say all of this being pretty biased against most casual sex in general! Like, you do you. I'm not trying to control you, but I'll tell you the truth about what I see out there, and it doesn't look so good.

JDWhiz96 · 2022-08-19T14:58:00+00:00

Unpopular Opinion: the culture of a decade does not (always) align with the numerical decade.

There is usually a layover period between decades, save a couple exceptions. Sometimes decades transition rapidly (80s-90s, 2010s-20s) and others are slow, burning transitions (70s-80s, 2000s-10s). What really grinds my gears are when people try to pigeonhole certain cultural aspects of a decade into the numerical year. Like, even though *NSYNC's smash "No Strings Attached" album was technically released in 2000, it was culturally (musically and aesthetically) a part of the 90s.

Not sure why this grinds my gears, but it does. Piqued my interest when I saw a bunch of Zoomers claiming Saved by the Bell to be a 90s show, when clearly, at least for the first 3/4 seasons, it was stuck in the 80s.

Edit: for good measure, here's how I would interpret the timelines post-WWII:

50s (1945-1963)
60s (1963-1972)
70s (1972-1981)
80s (1982-1992)
90s (1992-2001)
00s (2001-2011)
10s (2011-2020)
20s (2020-present)

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-19T15:05:52+00:00

Constantly asking women what they find attractive in men is a beta trait real ninjas don’t give a fuck what women like 😎

Fat_Papaya · 2022-08-19T17:13:53+00:00

The amount of guys on this sub that openly claim that they have had many women cheat with them irritates me extremely haha

Really makes women's loyalty seem less and less common these days, if it even exists at this point haha

teball3 · 2022-08-19T17:30:59+00:00

After about 3 months, I've finally hit my goal weight of 180. 15 pounds lost in total. Now I need to go back up to 2 meals a day, and get my ass back in the gym.

empresa_josefina · 2022-08-19T18:43:19+00:00

Been a tough week dating-wise. My buddy got cucked and broken up with in horrific fashion and I had to help him move out and console him.

Then a woman I really liked who had ghosted me replied to my text six weeks later with a totally flippant message, and then ghosted my reply to that message.

I was feeling down but then my contract bonus came in, and feeling flush, I upgraded the leg room on my flight to Europe where I will hang on the beach and see my friend who has a new baby. I feel thankful that I have the luxury to even do something like that, I could be getting ghosted and be poor.

Wishing you all a nice end of summer

Edit: downvoted for saying I am keeping perspective and appreciate my privilege of having leisure. Stay classy PPD

baresquad · 2022-08-19T20:47:21+00:00

Q4A: Would y’all ever do a dating reality tv show?

My mom told me I should sign up for The Bachelorette once and while I think that would be the funniest shit ever, it seems like people genuinely sign up for those shows to find love

I think I would if it weren’t one of the “immediate marriage is the goal” ones

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-19T22:26:02+00:00

Women = bad

NO Exceptions!

empresa_josefina · 2022-08-20T01:26:25+00:00

Some details on the FWB -> LTR pipeline:

"Those [in an FWB] who were the least likely to see the relationship outcome they wanted were those who had said they wanted it to transition into romance — only 15% of those who wanted romance saw it happen."

15% of people who went into FWB looking for a relationship got one. Presumably others did not enter the FWB expecting a relationship but started dating anyway. Meaning at least 1/6 FWBs turn into relationships.

That means there are as many FWB->LTR as there are guys over 6ft.

Guys, don’t settle for a woman who makes you wait for sex because “I only have fast sex with guys I don’t care about.” Have your FWB and if you like her and want to take it to the next level, offer exclusivity.

Betabuxxer ladies trying to bait-and-switch a gullible dude into a dead bedroom with this “I’m making you wait because you’re special to me,” consider yourself on notice.

Edit: study link https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12307

biggestuzifanea · 2022-08-20T05:27:03+00:00

If anyone asks why do redpillers say "don't take dating advice from women", just remember the only idea women in this sub came up with is "just get friends".

dbz19_kai · 2022-08-20T13:40:05+00:00

I managed to make Mrs_Drgree go green username during her off day. I feel proud.

flash13131313 · 2022-08-20T13:35:53+00:00

You guys think these women are on dating apps? bc I doubt every single one is in a relationship

https://reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/wso98b/for_those_who_enjoy_staying_at_homeor_dont_have_a/

Just be social bro

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-20T13:25:47+00:00

Is there an evolutionary reason for empathy/caregiving? Like take for example a person who’s so disabled they’re unable to even eat without assistance.

Throughout this persons life, they’ll be a net negative on societal funds, technological breakthroughs, etc...

How come so may social programs exist when it doesn’t benefit the advancement of the human race in the slightest?

I think Sweden(?) has the right idea with mandatory screenings for Down syndrome/deficiencies in the womb while the child is still in the abortion window.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-20T13:25:37+00:00

Only a woman could convince herself that her race preference is better/more moral than a man's n count preference

EulenWatcher · 2022-08-20T12:55:19+00:00

Okay, I've tried to engage into that post about exploiting men's sexuality, but it must be a joke, I can't believe the OP is serious.

sarkington · 2022-08-20T12:23:03+00:00

Women on PPD think the average man is a rapist.

OkConcentrateNow · 2022-08-20T12:16:38+00:00

You can see a woman's orgasm coming from a mile away, men's is like crashing into a boulder after taking a turn.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-20T11:48:10+00:00

Q4A- Why do you think there are more men who are outcasts/ at the fringes of society than women?

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-20T11:35:04+00:00

An air fryer has improved my quality of life greatly.

TatePilled · 2022-08-20T10:49:23+00:00

Given Johnny Depp and Amber Heard we know how easy it is for bitches to lie and ruin livelihoods.

All Tate did was leave the West when he noticed BelieveWomen would suck for men

And this is proof to BPers that he's a rapist/human trafficker

lulll · 2022-08-20T10:30:38+00:00

man: thy lord bestowed upon man the wonderment of his grace by creating woman. everything they do and say is elegant and holy. everywhere they walk should be treated like sacred ground. women are so graceful that even their burps snd coughs are a symphonic blessing

woman: omg spank me pls

TigerRude4 · 2022-08-20T10:13:34+00:00

Women really woke up today on ppd and chose to spread most asinine takes

_mwk · 2022-08-20T08:12:00+00:00

hello there, how are you guys doing?

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Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-19T14:22:48+00:00

I'm like this 🤏🏽 close to being done with ciswomen. This divorce could potentially be the staw that breaks the camel's back.

geyges1 · 2022-08-19T14:23:30+00:00

What percentage of the dating pool in the 30s would you people say is Jaded?

chilikettlechips · 2022-08-19T15:13:36+00:00

I'm reposting this.

https://old.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wro7s5/oop_has_had_a_friend_with_benefits_for_3_years/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=PurplePillDebate&utm_content=t1_ikw8zrj

How often does this "practice gf" shit happen. Also this post is 100% fake. notice that of course if the roles were reversed the woman would never pay.

baresquad · 2022-08-19T16:03:35+00:00

Can PPD women confirm or deny whether telling somebody they’re the best sex you ever had actually means anything?

I’m in the camp that hearing “this is the best sex I’ve ever had” doesn’t actually mean anything outside the heat of that moment that it’s said

I see a lot of men here say that being considered the best and being told that is actually extremely important in order for a relationship to survive but even when that’s conveyed they’re just empty words lmao

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-08-19T16:34:30+00:00

Anyone else find it ironic most women want guns banned, even though they have the most individually to lose by them being banned?

huhwhatokok · 2022-08-19T16:45:30+00:00

If beta buxx was a person. I don’t get people with ethnic preferences that aren’t your own. Good looking women are good looking.

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/ws51uk/25m_new_to_hinge_and_would_love_some_profile/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

wub1234 · 2022-08-19T17:12:01+00:00

I really wish my virtual portfolio was a real portfolio.

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-08-19T17:30:24+00:00

People are freaking out about young boys looking up to Andrew Tate but totally fine with young girls looking up to Cardi B and the Kardashians

https://twitter.com/jakeshieldsajj/status/1560316943222984705?s=20&t=ab24PnteIx8fs-azsbqlpw

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-08-19T18:15:34+00:00

If you’re an attractive male and blue pilled you’ll do well with women

If you’re an unattractive male and blue pilled you won’t do well with women, but at least women won’t be mean to you online

However, based on these two scenarios, being red pilled or misogynistic really doesn’t change the outcome as long as you hide it, so there is no incentive to be blue pilled

TatePilled · 2022-08-19T18:53:16+00:00

Q4W do you have male friends who you know would say yes if you called them up and said you wanted to hook up?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-08-19T18:53:59+00:00

https://youtu.be/5oN-Cl0KAJ8

Situations like the one in this song that came up on my spotify are so common and so fucked up, with no one at fault but adds to a fuckton of anger and sadness in the world

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-08-19T19:22:08+00:00

Rate Hanbit Yi

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-08-19T20:43:37+00:00

Most men in my circle have this problem

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wsfgvz/how_do_i_stop_being_the_relationship_guy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Women don’t seem to get that many of us want casual over relationships with them lol

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-08-19T21:33:19+00:00

This can’t be right……

Apparently research shows that nearly 1/3 men ages 18 to 24 reported no sexual activity in the past year…..

This is like feeling a great disturbance in the force. I am utterly in shock….

https://news.iu.edu/stories/2020/06/iub/releases/15-sexual-inactivity-young-men-united-states-no-sex-debby-herbenick.html

This can’t be right. This is horrible. A travesty of justice and all that is good…..

TRP is needed now more than ever

Hell someone call Andrew Tate if we have to jfc we need the Justice League of Red Pill out there damn

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-19T21:52:44+00:00

Q4All: What's your favourite Romance movie?

2baloons · 2022-08-19T21:56:10+00:00

Q4M

Which do you prefer, a woman with low body fat (BMI 19-21) with little muscle or a woman with higher body fat (BMI 23-25) with plenty of muscle

IlIlIllIIIlllIIlIllI · 2022-08-19T22:11:52+00:00

Tristan > Andrew Tate tbh

u/Tatepilled thoughts?

TatePilled · 2022-08-19T22:54:41+00:00

Once you've been with enough low n count women you learn that all women have a whore buried somewhere inside them, no such thing as a "good girl" a girl with an n count of 1 might do the same gangbang as the girl who's got 1000s.

Just depends how deep it's buried tbh barring any physical ailments.

MaidStoryFunny · 2022-08-19T23:39:26+00:00

There is literally no point about complaining about alpha fucks beta bucks. Get her pregnant, wait for her to give birth, and then leave lol 😝😝😝

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-08-19T23:48:42+00:00

Forgot the sunscreen and now I am cosplaying as this song, Sunburn is no bloody joke

TatePilled · 2022-08-19T23:55:26+00:00

Losers like to hear that they're the victim and it's not their fault
That's why Andrew Tate has followers

Who? Yeah I know.

Anyway someone said this about Tate and I genuinely don't know what she's on about, but as you all know I'm pretty Tate biased.

As far as I'm aware Tate regularly says that if somethings wrong in your life it's your fault, even depression.

If I'm wrong I'd like to know, I might be, does Tate tell men it's not their fault that their situation sucks? You got any sources?

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-08-20T00:29:16+00:00

I'm actually kind of glad that Andrew Tate got banned from instagram, this will either help to radicalize those who are considered his fans even more so, either that or it creates the way for a more extreme replacement, I look forward to seeing it lol

scwizard · 2022-08-20T00:40:19+00:00

How long do you think it will be until abortion is legalized in Texas again?

scwizard · 2022-08-20T01:13:10+00:00

How can you expect women to have a right to an abortion in Texas when there's millions of women in Texas that believe that women should be subservient to their husbands lol

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-20T02:26:41+00:00

Why the hell don't more men get a hair transplant and get onto TRT and other steroids when they're older? You do that you can play the field as long as you like.

Be the jacked and handsome older guy and you'll never stop being able to fuck.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-20T04:22:27+00:00

Insecure Thought 2- Someone, I think was yesterday, mentioned women hiding their bodies on Tinder profiles and there was a comment about men wearing hats (possibly hiding their baldness, idk).

Ive been shopping online for some hats recently. I'm not balding or have a receding hairline but I always preferred wearing a fitted or snapback whenever I go out. When I was in middle school, I was always picked on because of the haircut that my dad always gave me. Because of that, I am always conscious of how I look, even when my hair is perfect.

Its on the same level as a girl who grew up being fat and lost a lot of weight. She will be conscious of what shes eating and always stepping on the scale, no matter how slim she is now.

thkktgkifgji · 2022-08-20T05:10:25+00:00

Light eyes are such a Chad/Stacy trait, I’m really jealous.

Wish I had them.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-20T07:54:17+00:00

CMV

There's nothing objectively wrong with being "the other guy". Their relationship isn't your problem, their inevitable break up because of you isn't your problem, you simply came in and were better than their current partner. It's his fault his lady cheated.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-08-20T07:41:52+00:00

Men: I don't want a relationship with the chubby girl but I will take the fwb aspect and then drop her for the hot/good girl.

Women: I don't want a relationship with this hot guy but I will take the fwb aspect and then drop him for the good man.

It is the same thing. Both genders just prioritize different things. Men prioritize sex with someone hot, women prioritize stability with someone good.

Men don't want to commit to sluts. They want to marry the good girls. Women want to marry the good guys. I don't get why this is so hard to understand. You have to vet more for the good person than for a hot person. You can see how hot someone is. You can't see how good someone is. You have to get to know them.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-08-20T07:31:33+00:00

Why does it take so long to approve (very short) posts that take 1 min to read that get stopped by the filter?

I honestly don't even want to bother making extensive high quality posts anymore because it's practically like an ivy league college application process to even get the post visible.

abagus101 · 2022-08-20T07:18:11+00:00

I woke up to my wife in lingerie cooking me a big fancy breakfast and wanting sex, completely out of nowhere. 7 years in, seriously marriage is the best.

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-20T06:45:44+00:00

A white women's tears are the greatest threat to minority man's life.

Everybody wants to talk about "believe all women" until someone brings up Emmet Till, (or any black college football player)

Keep a good head on your shoulder and stay woke. These women are demons and will do anything to destroy you

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-08-19T17:27:51+00:00

Just got a funny message from my wife. One of her sorority sisters broke her wrist (that’s not the funny part). Turns out she was trying to spice things up with her husbands and was trying to dress in a sexy costume when her stalkings she was wearing slipped on the hardwood floor and she injured herself trying to break her fall. He took her straight to the ER: where she spent the whole time dressed as a sexy nurse.

upalse · 2022-08-19T22:35:08+00:00

Technology has completely ruined the perception of good looking people. Every time I scroll on my TikTok I see good looking men and women, every time I scroll on my twitter feed I see good looking men and women, every time I scroll on my instagram I see good looking men and women.

Back in the 1800s you’d be lucky if there was one chad- or stacylite in your city, and now you constantly get bombarded with good looking faces.

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-19T23:10:45+00:00

Love this sub but my main criticism is too much policing of each other's opinions and backgrounds. I get that this sub is an extension of the war between sexes and you don't want anyone acting as cannon fodder for the other side but I want to hear from everyone. That includes simps, cuckolds, sugar daddies, pimps, nymphos, sex workers, adulterers, whores, QAnon, That one mormon cult with the sister wives, Jezebels, and Sodomites.

But we can't have that if you guys keep bullying them off the platform.

totes-not-angels-fan · 2022-08-20T03:15:24+00:00

I want to try an experiment.

One of you men with tinder, change your profile to say you're a fighter pilot or a firefighter or something women think has status. See how many matches you get.

Then change it to podiatrist or web developer and see how many you get.

Report back.

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-20T06:33:25+00:00

Why do we accept the effects estrogen have on women, such as mood swings, decreases sex drive, PMS etc, but let a guy say he a lil horny cause of testosterone and y’all get so aggy?

bighuddi · 2022-08-20T06:32:39+00:00

Round one..... FIGHT

ha! haaaaaaa!

ha! ha!

HADOUKEN!!!!

yooooooo

ha!.. ha! ha!

SHORYUKEN!!!

FINISH HIM....

ILLaTTaCKTHAtBOOTYkID

K.O.

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-08-20T06:25:37+00:00

Well, you can thank the boomers for designating their children and grandchildren to a life where ours youths are filled with stress, toil, and grind. While Boomer Bob with IQ 75 who barely passed grade school was able to perform a job that afforded him a new house, new car, wife, and 3+ kids.

IQ 75, motherfucker.

neetykeeno · 2022-08-20T06:13:50+00:00

https://reductress.com/post/how-to-go-on-a-date-even-though-its-going-to-fucking-suck/

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-20T06:00:11+00:00

Okay, I just found r/entwives. Women who smoke weed are awesome asf.

Sure RP men have things for traditional women. Problem for me is that I seem to attract nothing but them. Non drinking, non recreational, just boring, conservative, uninteresting women. If I was completely on RP, then my life would be mostly perfect.

Some times its great to not play it safe and break those bullshit norms that we have to live by.

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-08-20T05:56:49+00:00

I wonder if Tristan Tate feels left out for not getting banned as well.

rurunoa · 2022-08-20T05:53:34+00:00

the wall is a good thing i can’t wait for my fertility to decline. every year the chance of getting my life ruined from pregnancy diminishes a bit more

ImAGhostOooooooo · 2022-08-20T05:50:29+00:00

Q4W: Hairy chest yes/no? (note no back hair)

FFTzzz · 2022-08-20T05:48:00+00:00

It's your fault.

Ok-Application-7614 · 2022-08-20T05:35:09+00:00

Big reason why Andrew Tate blew up is because left wing culture and normie culture suck absolute fucking dick at providing solutions to masculine problems.

totes-not-angels-fan · 2022-08-19T16:34:51+00:00

Q4W: explain this interaction to me (condensed for brevity)

Woman: Dick size literally doesn't matter

Me: gives rough dimensions of my dick

Woman: That sounds perfect!

How can size not matter, but also there exists a perfect dick size?

RegTextoffender · 2022-08-19T15:09:45+00:00

Plus side. Possible MFFF this weekend giggity.

Down side 2 are "squirters" aka they piss themselves while having an orgasm.

The good lord givith, and the good lord takith away.

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